1. Make sure you are ready to have sex. 2. Communicate with your partner. 3. Find a trusted adult you can talk to. 4. Learn about how sex works. 5. Discover your hymen. 6. Identify the angle of your vagina. 7. Locate your clitoris. 8. Pick a stress-free location. 9. Set a relaxing mood. 10. Get consent. 4. Use condoms.11 Apply lubricant. 12. Take your time. 13. Communicate your needs. 14. Do some aftercare.