Pull up a seat at the table—it’s wedding season, and we’re diving into all the traditions, trends, and opinions that come with it.

In this episode, the crew sit down for their first podcast as a married couple (right after their own wedding and honeymoon in Thailand!). They share a bit about married life so far—the exhaustion, the highlights, and that “first touch” moment that replaced the traditional first look. From there, the conversation opens up to the bigger question: What are the best and worst wedding traditions?

Listeners weighed in with strong takes on everything from cookie tables (a Pittsburgh classic!) and fire hall receptions to unity candles, garter tosses, money dances, and who should (or shouldn’t) walk the bride down the aisle. Some love keeping things traditional and faith-centered, while others push for modern twists that reflect changing family dynamics and personal values.

We also touch on creative venues—from beaches and barns to scenic overlooks and beyond—and debate the “wedding industrial complex” that can turn a simple celebration into a major production. Plus, there’s plenty of real-talk about what actually makes a wedding memorable: the people, the food, the vibe, and keeping the focus on the couple (and their guests).

No right or wrong answers here—just honest opinions, a few laughs, and some thoughtful reflections on what it means to celebrate love while inviting others into the marriage itself.

Whether you’re planning a wedding, recently tied the knot, or just love people-watching at receptions, this episode is packed with relatable stories and perspectives that might make you rethink a few traditions of your own.

Listen now on your favorite podcast app, watch on YouTube, or head to lunchtimeinrome.com for more. While you’re there, take our Relational Needs Questionnaire and join the conversation.

What’s one wedding tradition you love—or love to hate? Drop it in the comments!

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The Best and Worst of Weddings | Ep. 318