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Mamahood After Trauma | Healing Childhood Trauma, Parenting Triggers & Emotional Regulation for Moms
Hosted by Emily Cleghorn| Trauma Informed Trigger Recovery Coach for Moms · EN
Are you a mama healing from childhood trauma while trying to stop repeating the patterns you grew up with? You’re not alone — and you’re in the right place.
I’m Emily Cleghorn, trauma-surviving mama of two and Trigger Recovery Coach for Mamas. Mamahood After Trauma is where we stop pretending we’re “fine” and start healing out loud.
This podcast explores what happens when your past shows up in your parenting — from parenting triggers and emotional regulation to mom guilt, burnout, maternal mental health, and breaking generational cycles.
Each week, you’ll get honest conversations, trauma-informed education, and practical tools to help you:
✨ Understand your parenting triggers and respond instead of react
✨ Regulate your emotions when motherhood feels overwhelming
✨ Heal unprocessed childhood, emotional, or birth trauma
✨ Build resilience and trust yourself as a mom
✨ Create a more connected relationship with yourself and your children
Whether you’re struggling with yelling, feeling touched out and overwhelmed, experiencing trauma resurfacing in motherhood, or simply wanting to parent differently than you were parented — this show is here to support your healing journey.
This isn’t about becoming a perfect mom.
It’s about becoming a more present, connected, and confident one — while healing the parts of yourself that were never meant to be carried alone.
🎧 Subscribe and join the cycle-breaking journey.
Learn more at mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/podcast
Want to be a guest on Mamahood After Trauma? Send Emily Cleghorn a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
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From Meltdowns to Makeovers: Healing Motherhood Without Losing Your Mind
1w ago00:04:53Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn speaks directly to mothers navigating the intersection of trauma recovery and parenthood. Emily explores the concept of "identity whiplash"—the disorienting experience of becoming someone new while still carrying old patterns and responsibilities. She reminds listeners that feeling caught between two versions of yourself isn't failure; it's where real transformation happens. Emily also introduces The Rising Room, a supportive community where healing is actively practiced. A free quiz, Find Your Next Step to Calm and Healing, is available to help mothers identify their next step forward. Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →The Untold Emotional Toll of Premature Birth and How to Rebuild After Trauma
2w ago00:38:50Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Paula Yost — attorney, therapist, mother, and author — who shares her courageous journey through pregnancy trauma. Paula recounts the terrifying experience of delivering her son prematurely at 27 weeks due to acute preeclampsia, navigating a lengthy NICU stay, and healing from the emotional aftermath. She emphasizes the critical lack of education around preeclampsia and the lasting impact of birth trauma. Now a thriving ten-year-old, her son stands as living proof that hope and resilience can emerge from even the darkest moments. Connect with Paula: www.paulayost.com Become a Mamahood After Trauma Supporter- https://buymeacoffee.com/mamahoodaftertrauma Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →How Do You Grieve the Loss of Your Old Self While Healing from Trauma?
2w ago00:06:10Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn explores one of healing's most overlooked challenges — grieving the person you once were. Emily compassionately unpacks why letting go of a past self can feel confusing, even painful, reminding listeners that missing the "old you" often means missing pieces like joy, confidence, and freedom. She encourages mothers to honor that former version of themselves while courageously choosing to move forward. Emily also highlights two supportive resources: a free healing quiz and the Rising Room community, designed to help trauma survivors rebuild with clarity and peace. Become a Mamahood After Trauma Supporter- https://buymeacoffee.com/mamahoodaftertrauma Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →When “Good Enough” Is More Than Enough: Parenting Through Postnatal Challenges and ADHD
3w ago00:25:30Tap to summarizeIn this inspiring episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes life coach Emily Beacher, who shares her profound healing journey through postnatal depression, psychosis, and burnout. Emily discusses discovering her own ADHD diagnosis alongside her daughter's, the transformative power of embracing "good enough" parenting over perfectionism, and how authentic storytelling shaped her coaching work. She even channelled her experiences into writing a musical, The Good Enough Moms Club. With practical wisdom on silencing negative self-talk and showing up authentically for our children, this episode is a powerful reminder that imperfection is where real connection begins. Connect with Emily: https://emilybeecher.com/ Become a Mamahood After Trauma Supporter- https://buymeacoffee.com/mamahoodaftertrauma Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →Rediscovering Yourself When Survival No Longer Defines You
3w ago00:14:53Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn explores one of healing's most profound challenges: identity reconstruction. Emily vulnerably shares how early childhood trauma left her unsure of who she was beyond survival, and guides listeners through the disorienting "middle space" of healing — where the old self no longer fits, but the new self hasn't fully emerged. She encourages mothers to reconnect with lost parts of themselves through powerful reflective questions. Emily also shares updates about community support and introduces The Rising Room, her healing community for mothers navigating trauma recovery and motherhood simultaneously. Become a Mamahood After Trauma Supporter- https://buymeacoffee.com/mamahoodaftertrauma Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →When Life Feels Like a Storm: Building Your Shelter Through Trauma Recovery
4w ago00:28:35Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes trauma recovery expert Tori Janae, who shares her remarkable journey from a childhood shaped by addiction and generational trauma to becoming a beacon of healing. Drawing on three psychology degrees and 26 years of holistic practice, Tori reveals how shifting out of a victim mindset is the essential first step toward transformation. She offers practical, compassionate guidance on addressing physical, mental, and relational wounds — one small step at a time — proving that our deepest pain can become our greatest purpose. Connect with Tori: https://www.torijenae.com/ Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →Mama, You’re Not Messing Up: Embracing Imperfection After Trauma
Jun 3000:09:13Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn — trauma survivor and cycle breaker — tackles the relentless self-doubt that haunts mothers healing from trauma. She explores how past emotional invalidation and gaslighting erode self-trust, making everyday parenting decisions feel overwhelming. Emily reassures listeners that healing doesn't require perfection; rebuilding trust happens through small, intentional steps like recognizing triggers, repairing relationships, and reflecting without shame. She shares encouraging signs of growth and introduces The Rising Room, her program supporting trauma-surviving mothers. Her closing message is clear: you don't need to be perfect to be a safe, loving mother. Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →How Can Healing from Trauma Help You Reclaim Your Voice as a Single Mama?
Jun 2500:22:25Tap to summarizeIn this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Joni Woods — trauma survivor, single mother, and author — for an honest and uplifting conversation about healing and self-discovery. Joni shares her journey through a difficult 15-year marriage, divorce, and rebuilding life after her ex-husband's passing. She opens up about breaking free from others' expectations, finding her authentic voice, and the transformative power of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and accountability. Through journaling and deep self-reflection, Joni turned pain into purpose — ultimately becoming a stronger mother and advocate for her own healing. Connect with Joni: http://joniwoods.com Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →Why You Don’t Have to Be Perfect to Raise Emotionally Healthy Kids
Jun 2300:05:34Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn dismantles the damaging myth that cycle breakers must be fully healed before they can raise healthy children. With honesty and compassion, Emily reframes what breaking cycles truly means — not perfection, but intentionality. She walks listeners through practical steps including repairing after ruptures, learning emotional regulation, setting boundaries, and challenging inherited beliefs. Emily reminds trauma-surviving mamas that they are not behind — they are doing courageous, generational work. She also invites listeners to join The Rising Room, a community built to support mamas healing and parenting differently, together. Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
Transcribe →When Life Throws Curveballs: How One Mama Found Hope and Humor Amidst Heartbreak and Healing
Jun 1800:30:25Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Jessica Danel, whose journey through motherhood reads like a testament to unbreakable resilience. Jessica candidly shares navigating her daughter Piper's heart surgery, cerebral palsy, and autism diagnosis, her son's Asperger's, the devastating loss of her million-dollar preschool business, and surviving a high school shooting. Rather than surrendering to adversity, Jessica pursued her bachelor's and master's degrees, built a media career, and channeled her extraordinary life experiences into her book, Bucket List from a Redneck Girl — proving that even the most turbulent stories can inspire others to keep moving forward. Connect with Jessica: Website: https://www.jesssaying.net TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jessdanel X (Twitter): https://x.com/jessdanel Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessdanel/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jessicadanel3 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-danel-mba-88970283/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@jessicadanel4240 Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom 💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
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