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ManTalks Podcast
Hosted by Connor Beaton · EN
The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading men’s work facilitators, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality. For more information about ManTalks go to: http://www.mantalks.com
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A Man's Guide To Dating After Divorce (Or Long Term Relationship)
4d ago00:20:43Tap to summarizeNavigating the dating world after a divorce or the end of a long-term relationship can feel overwhelming and confronting. I share essential, practical guidance for men re-entering the dating scene after being out of it for years.From allowing yourself to grieve before jumping back in, to leading with radical clarity and avoiding online pessimism, I walk you through how to approach this new chapter with confidence. Tune in to discover how to embrace a beginner’s mindset and set yourself up for meaningful, healthy connections.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Why Dating After a Long-Term Relationship Is So Challenging01:39 - The Grief and Loss Behind the End of a Marriage03:28 - How Your Nervous System Is Preconditioned by Past Relationships05:07 - Step 1: Grieve First and Conduct a Relationship Autopsy10:00 - Step 2: Embrace a Beginner’s Mindset and Let It Be Awkward14:30 - Step 3: Lead with Radical Clarity, Honesty, and Transparency19:06 - Avoiding the Trap of Modern Dating Pessimism***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →Unpacking the Complex Crisis of Male Suicide
1w ago01:20:38Tap to summarizeIn this episode, I'm joined by male suicide researcher Susie Bennett to explore the hidden crisis facing men today and the cultural forces driving it. We dive deep into the empathy gap surrounding male mental health, how childhood trauma shapes adult pain, and why standard therapy often fails men. Susie shares her transformative research along with her 3R recovery model to help us better understand, regulate, and process emotional distress before reaching a breaking point.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Introduction and Core Research03:40 - Overcoming Biases and the Empathy Gap08:06 - The Manosphere and Male Role Models11:47 - The Unspoken Male Suicide Crisis22:00 - The Pain Tank and Emotional Regulation35:00 - Cultural Pressure and Failure41:24 - Childhood Trauma and Suicide Risk52:00 - Unpacking Abuse and Hidden Dynamics01:02:00 - The 3R Model for Recovery01:11:00 - Reaching Men Before Rock Bottom***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →You Can't Heal from Narcissist : Addict Until You Accept This Hard Truth
2w ago00:15:21Tap to summarizeHealing from a narcissistic relationship begins when I stop waiting for the other person to admit they were wrong. I explain why narcissists and addicts share similar psychological patterns, why trying to make them see the truth only keeps me trapped, and the hard truth that finally creates real freedom. I also share practical tools for setting boundaries, disengaging from manipulation, and reclaiming my peace without needing their validation.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Why You Can't Heal Without Accepting This Truth01:04 - Why Narcissists Never Admit They're Wrong02:22 - The Victim Mentality and Gaslighting Cycle03:18 - Stop Trying to Make Them Understand04:42 - The Hidden Shame Behind Narcissism05:25 - Why Narcissists Are Like Addicts06:11 - Accepting What You Cannot Change07:24 - The Trap of Trying to Fix Them08:32 - The Hard Truth That Sets You Free09:03 - Setting Clear Boundaries10:01 - How to Deal with a Narcissist or Addict11:21 - Breaking the Addiction to Control12:07 - A Better Way to Engage13:00 - A Practical Communication Tool14:20 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →Breaking the Cycle of Men’s Sexual Anxiety, with Kate Moyle
2w ago01:06:20Tap to summarize**SHOW NOTES**Why does sex become more difficult the more we care about someone? In this conversation, I sit down with psychosexual and relationship therapist Kate Moyle to unpack the psychology behind performance anxiety, modern sexual culture, and why so many men feel pressure to perform instead of connect.We explore how stress, distraction, shame, relationship dynamics, and unrealistic expectations affect intimacy, along with practical ways to build healthier communication, confidence, and connection in the bedroom. Whether you're navigating anxiety around sex or simply want a deeper understanding of intimacy, this conversation offers practical insights grounded in both science and clinical experience.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 – Introducing Kate Moyle00:20 – What a Psychosexual Therapist Does02:56 – Is Modern Sexual Culture Broken?05:52 – Performance vs Presence in Sex08:13 – Why Anxiety Shows Up During Intimacy11:08 – Changing Gender Roles and Sexual Expectations13:46 – The Biopsychosocial Model Explained15:04 – Everyday Stressors That Affect Sex18:29 – Creating the Conditions for Great Sex22:06 – Porn, Media and Unrealistic Expectations26:13 – Why Communication Is Essential for Great Sex29:57 – Attunement Over Performance31:30 – Pleasure vs Performance35:57 – Understanding Unreliable Erections38:29 – The Psychology of Performance Anxiety46:41 – Breaking the Anxiety Cycle53:35 – Addressing Shame Around Sexual Performance56:52 – Masculinity, Potency and Self-Worth59:26 – When Relationship Issues Affect Intimacy01:03:13 – Where to Find Kate Moyle***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →A Man's Intro To The Anima - How The Woman Inside Is Running Your Life
3w ago00:18:18Tap to summarizeIn this episode, I introduce Carl Jung's concept of the Anima and explore how the inner feminine influences a man's emotions, relationships, and sense of self. I explain how the Anima develops, why we unconsciously project it onto others, and what happens when it remains unconscious. I also discuss the connection between the Anima, the Shadow, and dreams, offering practical ways to begin integrating this powerful archetype. If you're interested in Jungian psychology and personal growth, this conversation will help you better understand the hidden forces shaping your inner world.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 – Introduction to the Anima02:18 – The Great Mother Archetype03:28 – Why Shadow Work Comes First06:30 – Understanding Anima Possession07:41 – Emotional Disconnection in Men09:56 – How Projection Shapes Relationships12:16 – Recognizing the Anima in Everyday Life14:16 – The Animus and Psychological Balance16:23 – Dreams as a Path to the Unconscious18:35 – Integrating the Anima***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →Why Porn Is an Intimacy Disorder (Not Just a Sex Problem), Sathiya Sam
3w ago01:02:23Tap to summarizeWhat if pornography isn't really about sex at all, but about the search for connection? In this episode, I sit down with recovery coach and author Sathiya Sam to explore the deeper roots of porn addiction, the role of shame, identity and intimacy, and why so many men feel disconnected in today's digital world.We also discuss how AI, OnlyFans and emerging technology are reshaping relationships, and what men can do to build genuine connection and lasting freedom. Whether you're struggling yourself or simply trying to better understand the modern challenges men face, this conversation offers practical insights and hope.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Introduction01:54 - How AI Is Changing Pornography05:02 - The K-Shaped Dating Economy10:50 - What Makes Men Vulnerable to Porn Addiction?14:03 - Mother Wounds and Emotional Neglect19:13 - Shame, OnlyFans and the Porn Industry21:40 - Why Porn Is an Intimacy Disorder28:19 - Loneliness and the Need for Connection31:04 - Identity, Self-Worth and Recovery36:03 - Can Porn Ever Serve a Positive Purpose?39:51 - Why More Men Feel Hopeless Today42:06 - Moral Incongruence and Breaking the Cycle48:52 - Purpose, Meaning and Lasting Recovery53:50 - The Future of Porn, AI and Human Relationships01:01:01 - Where to Find Sathiya Sam***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →11 Lessons From 11 Years of Podcasting
4w ago00:42:21Tap to summarizeWhat have 11 years behind a microphone taught me about building a podcast, creating meaningful conversations, and staying consistent when the excitement wears off?I share the biggest lessons I've learned from over a decade of podcasting, from finding my voice and connecting with an audience to embracing mistakes and playing the long game. Whether you're a creator, entrepreneur, or simply looking to improve at something that matters to you, these lessons extend far beyond podcasting. I hope they'll help you create with more confidence, more purpose, and a little more patience.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Introduction01:12 Lesson 1: Just Start Before You're Ready03:45 Lesson 2: Consistency Beats Perfection06:28 Lesson 3: Finding Your Authentic Voice09:11 Lesson 4: Why Great Conversations Matter12:02 Lesson 5: Learning From Every Episode15:08 Lesson 6: Building Trust With Your Audience18:16 Lesson 7: The Importance of Playing the Long Game21:37 Lesson 8: Embracing Failure as Feedback24:25 Lesson 9: Growth Happens One Episode at a Time27:08 Lesson 10: Staying Curious After a Decade30:14 Lesson 11: The Biggest Lesson of All33:10 Final Thoughts***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →How to Spot a Narcissist Before It's Too Late, with Bill Eddy
4w ago01:15:12Tap to summarizeI sit down with Bill Eddy to unpack the patterns behind high conflict personalities and how they can impact our relationships. We explore the warning signs that are often overlooked, why so many people ignore red flags, and practical ways to make healthier decisions when dating or navigating difficult people.If you've ever questioned your instincts in a relationship, this conversation offers valuable tools to help you protect your peace and build stronger connections.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Introduction02:18 - Why High-Conflict Personalities Are Different08:46 - The Biggest Dating Red Flags16:55 - Why We Ignore Warning Signs24:31 - Emotional Manipulation and Love Bombing34:42 - Narcissism vs. High Conflict Behavior44:58 - Setting Boundaries Without Escalation56:20 - Personality Disorders and Relationship Patterns01:06:18 - The Role of Attachment and Childhood01:15:47 - Brief Recording Interruption01:16:15 - How to Leave a High Conflict Relationship01:25:56 - Co-Parenting and Divorce Challenges01:36:48 - Practical Advice for Choosing the Right Partner01:46:52 - Final Thoughts and Closing***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →Why Fixing Your Self-Worth Will Fix Your Attachment (And the first 3 steps)
Jul 900:16:55Tap to summarizeWhat if the way you value yourself has less to do with confidence and more to do with your earliest relationships? I explore how your attachment style shapes your sense of self-worth, why insecure attachment can leave you constantly seeking validation, and how secure attachment creates a healthier foundation. I also walk through the first practical steps you can take to rebuild your self-worth by telling the truth, expressing your needs, and becoming the safe person you've always needed.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 Introduction: Self-Worth and Attachment01:15 How Self-Worth Is Formed in Childhood03:12 Why Insecure Attachment Damages Self-Worth06:40 The Link Between Secure Attachment and Confidence07:30 Three Steps to Rebuild Your Self-Worth10:38 Step 1: Tell the Truth About Your Feelings13:05 Step 2: Express Your Needs Clearly15:45 Becoming Your Own Source of Security***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
Transcribe →When Shame Becomes Your Identity - Live Coaching Session
Jul 600:57:45Tap to summarizeI sit down with Charles as he opens up about a lifetime of searching for belonging after growing up without consistent parental support. Together, we unpack the shame he carries from past decisions, the emotional wounds that kept him looking for community in all the wrong places, and why true healing begins with self-forgiveness rather than self-punishment. We explore the power of confession, the importance of finding a place to safely tell your story, and what it really means to come home to yourself. If you've ever struggled to let go of your past or felt like you never truly belonged, this conversation is for you.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Welcome to the Coaching Session01:20 - The Weight of Shame and Past Mistakes03:32 - Childhood Abandonment and Early Trauma06:25 - Searching for Belonging Through Psychedelic Communities13:21 - When the Search for Healing Goes Wrong16:09 - Learning to Stop Being Strong All the Time20:26 - Carrying Secrets and Living With Regret23:36 - Feeling Like an Orphan in Search of Home26:58 - Fatherhood, Softness, and Breaking Survival Mode31:05 - Why Confession Is the First Step Toward Healing36:09 - Finding the Path Back to Yourself42:04 - What It Means to Come Home Within44:32 - Healing Before Helping Others49:56 - A Daily Practice for Self-Acceptance56:24 - Final Reflections and Next Steps***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
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