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Does family come before ministry? The Bible gives a clear and direct answer — and every pastor, church leader, or ministry spouse needs to hear it. In this episode of Marked by Grace, Heath Lambert walks through 1 Timothy 3 and Matthew 10:37 to answer one of the most common tensions in ministry life: when your family needs you, and your congregation needs you at the same time, who wins?

0:00 — Introduction: What comes first, family or ministry?

0:49 — The Bible has a clear answer

1:51 — 1 Timothy 3:2 — Marriage as a requirement for pastoral ministry

2:18 — 1 Timothy 3:4-5 — Managing your household well

2:41 — Why family priorities qualify (or disqualify) a minister

3:42 — An important distinction: ministry is not the same as Jesus

4:08 — Matthew 10:37 — Jesus comes before family

4:55 — Ministry faithfulness vs. discipleship with Jesus

5:03 — How following Jesus puts your priorities in order

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