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Is your husband failing to lead your family spiritually? You are not alone -- and the Bible gives us real, practical direction. In this episode of Marked by Grace, Pastor Heath Lambert walks through three clear steps every wife can take when her husband is not fulfilling his role as the spiritual leader of the home.

0:13 - What should I do if my husband is not a good spiritual leader?

2:03 - Step 1: Answer a question -- what standard are you holding him to?

2:49 - Biblical markers of spiritual leadership

3:08 - Ephesians 5:25 and Ephesians 6:4

4:32 - Why personal godliness, spiritual growth, and family investment are the right standard

5:49 - The danger of holding your husband to an unbiblical standard

6:38 - Step 2: Have a loving conversation with your husband

7:44 - What if your husband needs to hear the gospel?

8:16 - Step 3: Get help -- from resources, pastors, and the Lord

9:25 - The power of praying for your husband and your marriage

10:07 - Closing encouragement

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