What makes the first years of marriage so challenging—and how can couples build a strong foundation that lasts?

In this episode of inContext, Michael Easley sits down with pastor and author Mike Novotny to discuss his book Newlywed. Together, they unpack the biggest challenges young couples face, from unmet expectations and communication breakdowns to intimacy, finances, in-laws, and the influence of social media. Drawing from decades of pastoral ministry and personal experience, they offer practical, biblical wisdom for building a Christ-centered marriage.

Whether you're engaged, newly married, celebrating decades together, or mentoring younger couples, this conversation will encourage you to pursue humility, honest communication, and a deeper dependence on God in your marriage.

Chapters

00:00 – Introduction and why newlyweds need biblical guidance

02:20 – The biggest mistakes couples make in year one

04:00 – Unspoken expectations and why they create conflict

08:30 – Home life, chores, and different family backgrounds

09:30 – Healthy conversations about intimacy and expectations

15:20 – Communication that strengthens marriage

18:45 – The Ten Commandments of Communication

20:45 – Listening instead of trying to fix every problem

24:45 – Growing spiritually together through church and prayer

29:50 – Navigating relationships with in-laws

34:15 – Social media, comparison, and contentment in marriage

37:40 – Why authentic Christian community matters

40:50 – God's design for lifelong marriage

42:30 – Encouragement for couples in every season

In This Episode

Why unmet expectations cause so many marriage conflicts
Practical communication habits every couple should practice
Biblical wisdom for navigating intimacy
How family backgrounds shape marriage
Healthy boundaries with parents and in-laws
The dangers of comparing your marriage to social media
The importance of prayer, church, and Christian community
How God strengthens marriages through every season

Links Mentioned:

Newlywed by Mike Novotony

Time of Grace

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