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You can go to the doctor, you can get blood tests, you can get a checkup and they'll try to predict mortality. But did you know there are five ways you can predict your mortality that don't involve a blood test or even a doctor? You could do them on your own, and they're remarkably accurate. We're going to talk about them today. Let's go.
Adam
I want to guess at this.
Sal
Yeah, well, we know one of them. Yeah, well, we know one of them. It is. Yeah, yeah.
Doug
So predictor of mortality.
Sal
It is.
Adam
So grip strength.
Sal
Grip strength's one of them. So there's five that we have really good studies.
Adam
Body fat percentage has to be one.
Sal
No, it's actually not. So with body composition, to some extent, you can predict mortality. The problem is you can get people who are underweight with very low body.
Adam
Fat percentage, and that skews it.
Sal
And that. Yes, that makes it actually worse. So. But there's some that are really, they're, they're remarkably accurate. More accurate than pretty much any other test that you could take.
Adam
Now, before you go further, just to comment further on the, the body fat thing, I would. Okay, saying it generally like that, like a body fat test. And then that gets thrown out because, like you just said, like, somebody who is under body weight is nearly as dangerous, if not more dangerous than somebody.
Sal
They actually have higher mortality.
Adam
Right. But I would think that we'd have some good stuff that says if you, like, are a male and you manage between this percent, this Percent. That has to be one of the best predictors itself. Like if you have a range at which you stay in for most of your life, that's got to be like.
Sal
I would have thought so as well, but when I, when I was researching for this episode, it doesn't. It actually pales in comparison. Interesting. Yeah, it does, because you could have a guy. Just give an example. Right. You could have a guy that's, let's say, sitting at 20% body fat. Okay, so. Or 22% body fat, which is a relatively high body fat percentage for a guy. Typically, you know, you want to be around 15, 16%. So 5, 6% higher than that. But they could be very fit, they could be athletic, they could be strong.
Adam
A lot of muscle.
Sal
Yes. And then you could have someone who's sitting, let's say 13, but they just, they're not, they're not strong. They don't have good physical fitness. Their mortality is far worse.
Adam
Well, and what rank. What, what that highlights to me is that even in a good range like that, there's still such a wide variance of health.
Sal
Yes, yes, yes. So, so let me pull some of these up. Right. So I wrote them down and I wrote down got.
Doug
I mean, it's got to be smoking. Non smoking is one.
Sal
Another one that's more of a behavior. But these are tests.
Doug
Oh, tests. Okay.
Sal
Yes, yes. I'll give you one.
Adam
Well, you gave us one already. You gave us the grip strength.
Sal
And I'll get to that. I'll get to that. But I'll give you some other ones. So one test was a single leg balance test. So they've done huge studies, thousands of people, and here's what they found.
Adam
That makes me, that makes me feel so good about the thing that I talked about. Always tell my clients, like, if there's one thing that you continue to do, just do this right here.
Sal
Yeah. So when we go through all these at the end, I think would great for us to talk about what we think they're all pointing to. Okay, so, all right, so single leg balance. This is just. You stand on one foot. Here's what the studies found, that people who could not hold the balance for 10 seconds. So people who couldn't do a single leg just balance for at least 10 seconds had a 4 fold higher risk of death within the next 10 years. 4 times higher of just the next 10 years. 10 years. So this is what makes these tests so remarkable, is they'll predict mortality in a decade. Wow. Yes. So regardless of other things. So if you're watching or listening to this, and you test yourself out and you just try to stand on one foot, and you can't do it for at least 10 seconds, according to the data.
Doug
Dysfunction of frailty kind of indication, like a downward trend of weakness.
Sal
Yeah.
Adam
Points to a lot of yeah, too. So, I mean, I want to just repeat what I said because I don't remember what episode that was and what the theme was when I talked about that, but we all shared exercises like.
Sal
Yes.
Adam
And the single exercise that I thought was one of the best, which would not fall in the average. Which I agree, it would fall in the average category of, like, what people would put up there. You know, it was lit. The ability to step up on a step. So step up on a. On a bench or a step. Balance, hinge over, touch your toe, come back and step down.
Sal
Without ever stepping down.
Adam
That's right. Without ever. Yeah, without so balancing the whole way through that. And. And it's just simply the ability to step up. The strength it takes to do that is so important. To stabilize is so important. And the ability to hinge and to do all three of those in a single movement. It's what I told all my clients, that of all the things you learned from me, I know how ridiculous this one thing is that we do. Don't ever stop doing this. Just keep doing this.
Sal
I think what this points to is a few different things. There's a huge strength component that goes to balance. Okay. So when your balance starts to. When you. When I would train people in older population, older age groups. Right. So people over the age of 60, their balance would dramatically increase or improve just because it got stronger. So oftentimes you're just not strong, and that's why your balance isn't good. Then it also points to other things as well. Inflammation issues with your vestibular system. But really what I think the other part of it is, as you get older, a huge cause of mortality is falling, just falling down. Now, the fall itself doesn't necessarily kill people. In fact, oftentimes it doesn't. But it's what happens after. Yeah, they fall down, they break sidelines, you and then. Oh, yeah.
Doug
And then trying to recover and build yourself back up to have function again. Sometimes people, like, they lose the fight and they just kind of. It just spirals.
Adam
Isn't it? Also, I mean, that's the. The saying goes, fall and break your hip, die of pneumonia.
Sal
Right.
Adam
And is that. Is that a lot of that is because so many resources are trying to go to heal when you get attacked by something that is. That can really get you well.
Sal
What happens when you get older is when you stop moving. The rate at which you decline is quick, exponential. Exponential. Both mental health, cognitive function, physical health. Because you're healing. You broke something. So now you're in a chair or in bed for a couple months, you see a rap. I'll never forget. I've told this story many times on older shows, but I'll never forget I had this experience. I had a client. I had a woman who trained with me. Her daughter hired me to train her. She was an older woman, so when I was training her, I believe she was in her late 70s. There were already signs of cognitive decline. Okay. Now, you couldn't necessarily tell, but if you knew her well, you, like, her daughter knew, like, her family's like, you know, she's getting forgetful. She's losing her independence. So they hired me to train her. Now, as I trained her, I trained her over the course of a few years, and we did a good job of building some strength and maintaining. But I remember she would tell me the same story sometimes over and over again. So you kind of tell that there was a little bit of cognitive decline at this point. And again, remember, I had. I had started training her already well past, you know, deconditioned. So this was, like, new to her. And I'll never forget, she fell at home. So she fell in her shower at home, couldn't come see me. It was a bad fall, broke her. You know, I don't remember what it was. I think it was her hip was in the hospital, and then she was incapacitated for a couple months and just didn't come back. It was months later. It wasn't years later. It was just months later. I'm at the grocery store, and I'm just grocery shopping, and I see her, and she's totally hunched over, walking with her daughter, grocery shopping. And I went up to her, and her posture had completely changed. I went up to her and I'm like, hey, how you doing? And she remember, this is a woman I trained twice a week for a couple years. She looked up at me. She had no idea who I was. Oh, wow. And she's like, who are you? Who is he? And then her daughter's like, oh, this is Sal. And it was like. It was like six months.
Doug
Six months, yeah.
Sal
So fast. The decline was so quick because she became incapacitated. So. So that's one. One of them is balance. Here's another one. Sit to stand. So here's what the test is.
Doug
Yep, yep.
Sal
You're. You. You. You have to go all the way down to the floor without using your hands and then stand all the way up. I love that one. Without using your hands. This one. This one will show. Sorry, no. Sit to stand. That was sit to rise. Sorry. We'll get to that one. Sit to stand is sitting on a chair and standing up without hands. That's the one. For men, anything in their. If you're in your 50s, anything under 19 reps, you have a dramatic increase in mortality. Men in their 60s.
Adam
Whoa, hold back up because you switched us there.
Doug
So 19 reps.
Adam
This is. This is from. This is from.
Sal
In a chair.
Adam
Okay, From a chair, yes. So just from a chair, getting up with no hands.
Doug
Yes.
Sal
You have to do at least 19 reps. If you're in your 50s under that, you start to see a real, real sharp rise in mortality. In your 60s, 17 reps. In your 70s, 14 after 80, you got to maintain at least 10. Okay. So it's just. It's just basically box squats without using.
Adam
You know, it's. So it's kind of cool to hear these, because when I think back to back when we were training clients inside gyms, these were a lot of exercises.
Sal
This was an exercise.
Adam
Yeah. In fact, I started. You would hold my hands and you would be able to use it for support and then eventually get to a point where you'd stand up, be able to get up, get down, get up, get up, get up. And I don't remember doing that because I heard some study related to mortality.
Sal
It was a squat.
Adam
Yeah. It was just a regret. It was the furthest regression. I had clients that just. That was a struggle. If they got out of a chair, they would have to use their hands.
Doug
From through the movement.
Sal
But.
Adam
Yeah.
Doug
Assisted.
Adam
Yeah. Yeah. So kind of neat to hear it connected to mortality when I know that at least that wasn't my intention when I was doing. I wasn't thinking like, oh, if we get to the 19 of these, we're going to like. It was more like, I can't do a regular squat with this person. This is the. The furthest regression I can think of.
Doug
It's interesting. It makes me think of too. You know those gravity treadmills? Like, they figured out with some people that somehow they lose, like, the ability to. To move their legs, but then they put them in these kind of suit and they have them. It actually like, moves their legs for them to the point where it. Eventually it trains their neuromuscular system.
Sal
Again, yeah, underwater walking helps quite a bit because they're just not strong enough.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
To walk in any case. So just for, just so people get an idea of, you know, what you could accomplish. Like I had, I had several clients in their 80s, which is not, that's not a large demographic for personal trainers. But I actually had, at some point, just because doctors referred people to me, I had quite a few clients in their 80s. And we could do, you know, sitting on a bench and standing up, we would routinely get 20 to 25 reps. Yeah. Okay. This is saying be able to maintain 10. Now again, just to give people some context when they would come hire me at 81 years old, couldn't even do one, one or two. If we were lucky. It was usually me helping.
Adam
Yeah, that's, I had to assist a lot of people.
Sal
Yeah. But go from one or two to over the course of six months be able to be like 15.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
So your strength can dramatically.
Adam
I love that you're sharing this because one of the things that you're taking me back here too is me having to encourage them like how far they had come. You know, they're not, they're, they're not barbell back squatting yet. They're not doing anything crazy or what. Maybe somebody else. But hey, we just moved you from a category that is all cause mortality years, that's right out of that category. That's a massive, huge win and progression for you. And so for the trainers that are listening, that have clients like this and, and, or the clients that are going through this right now, you know, you may not think it's that impressive, but to go from I needed help getting out of a chair to I can get up 20 times by myself is a big win.
Sal
Huge win, huge win. When it comes to mortality, let alone doing squat with weight or dumbbells or any kind of resistance, which again, just to encourage people, lots of studies show this, we have lots of experience with this. Your ultimate potential may change as you get older, but your ability to get stronger is. They show, they show studies with 70 year olds versus 30 year olds, the strength gains are very similar in terms of percentage of gain. Now at some point, of course, the potential is lower. You're not going to get as strong as you could have gotten in your 30s, in your 70s, but you could get way stronger. So that's, you know, just again for, for some encouragement. All right, the next one is sit to rise. That's the one I confused. So sit to rise is you, you start standing and then you go all the way to the ground and then stand all. So you go all the way, sit on the floor and then stand up without using your hands. So this is a test. Now you, you. It's. You start with 10 points. So I'll explain how this works. One point comes off every time you have to use a hand, a knee, or an arm to help yourself up. So anytime you have to put your hand on the floor or get on your knee or do something like, you take a point off. People scoring the lowest on this, it was a 12 year study done with 4000 adults. Those scoring the lowest were up to 6 times more likely to die early from natural causes. 6 times more likely to die early. And what's a low score? Under six.
Adam
Oh, under six is a low score.
Sal
Wow.
Adam
Because you easily can see someone's going to get at least 211 hand and knee.
Sal
Yeah.
Adam
On the ground is like pretty. Pretty. That's just a prop. Yeah.
Sal
Because that's like mobility.
Adam
Oh, yeah.
Doug
Part of my assessment, like when I first was a trainer, was like having people start on the ground, the floor, and you can't use your arms or anything to get up. You got to figure it out.
Sal
Yeah.
Adam
I would actually lay them. I'd pancake them out. So you have to sit up. So we had the core strength to sit up.
Doug
They're laying down. They got to get up.
Adam
Yes. And then you have that hip mobility to get your legs kind of underneath you and then to get to a split stance and then stand all the way up. And can we do that with a. I just. One of our trainers was doing that with somebody just the other day.
Sal
Really?
Adam
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Sal
So what's cool about this? Is it. This test, it demonstrates how your whole body works together. Because some tests will isolate one part of the body versus another. This one's like everything. Like, you got to be able to get up off the floor. You're using the whole body.
Doug
More accurate to me.
Sal
Yeah, it is. It's also one of the harder tests to do. But I tell you what, I don't know how many people in just their 50s.
Adam
Yes.
Sal
Could do this.
Doug
Oh, yeah. Big challenge.
Sal
Big challenge for a lot of people. And this also adds mobility as a component. Not just strength, but you have the mobility to move and maneuver your body. So. So that's another one. That's cool. Yeah. The next one, let me see. We had sit to rise, push up test. This is an easy one.
Doug
Of course.
Sal
They did a study of 1100 men for over a decade. So what's cool about these studies by the way, is huge sample sizes. Been a long time, lot, lot long periods of time.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
And they're, they're easy tests to do. So the problem with like diet tests.
Adam
And lifestyle tests, so hard to adhere to that for extended period of time.
Sal
Yeah. It's also like, it's all a bunch of surveys. So it's like you follow people for a thousand people for 10 years. Yeah. What are they doing? Reporting what they ate once every year. Yeah. And so it's. How accurate is it? Yeah. How many tomatoes did you actually eat? Like, you know, you don't know. This is like you show up and do some pushups and then go home. And it's pretty objective. So 1100 men for a decade, those who were able to do 40 or more pushups had a 96% lower risk of heart disease compared to men who could barely do 10. So if you can't do 10 push ups or you could do 40 pushups, the difference in your risk of heart disease, 96% at what age? This was all men.
Adam
All men.
Sal
Yeah, this was all men. So. Wow, that's substantial.
Adam
40 is legit.
Sal
40 is legit.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
40 is legit.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Forty.
Adam
40 is legit. It is most, I'd say most relatively fit guys can bust out 25, 30, no problem.
Sal
Yes.
Adam
But 40 is a good.
Sal
But under 10 is where you start to see real.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Real issues.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
And then last is the grip strength test. The reason why the medical community likes the grip strength test the most is because it's the easiest to administer. So like all the ones we talked about, Sit, sit, stand up.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Require sit to the floor. You know, balance on one leg. Like this is like you get a dynamometer. It's in your office. Here, squeeze this. Let's track. Every time you come in, you're going to squeeze this and we're going to see where you're at if you're going up.
Doug
So now because muscle recruitment and. Yeah. How like easy it is for you to really like generate and localize that force.
Adam
So, so let's have a fun little debate or discussion about this then. Like, of what do you would you.
Sal
Value the most if I had to pick one.
Adam
Yes.
Sal
Oh, easily the sit to the rise.
Adam
To get all the way up. I agree.
Sal
Yeah, I agree. That covers everything. Yeah, that covers everything.
Adam
Yeah, I, I agree.
Sal
The grip strength test is just easy. It's just easy to do.
Doug
Yeah.
Sal
And you have to pick things that are easy to do. You know, it's by the way it's, it's just a process.
Doug
Practitioners would be rad if that was like, you know, standard.
Sal
Yeah. By the way, the grip strength test is not bad for predicting all cause mortality. It's pretty damn good. I mean for every 5 kilogram drop in grip strength, early desk risk goes up 16% and heart disease risk goes up 17% and stroke goes up 9%. So every 5 kilos of lost grip strength. But again it's just the proxy for overall body strength. If you have a good strong grip, you probably have overall strength in your body. And it's again, it's an easy test. It's like a dynamometer, super cheap. Every doctor's office can have one. Here, squeeze this and see what happens. Now the risk of the grip strength test one is that someone listening could.
Adam
Just practice older could just practice that.
Sal
They'Ll sit in their chair at home.
Adam
Yes.
Sal
And just squeeze a gripper and that way that their test gets stand up.
Doug
Or split stance too. Like you know, see if you can actually generate force when you're in an unbalanced.
Adam
This is why I think the one that we all agree on is the best is because you, if you can accomplish that and get good at that.
Sal
You'Re gonna do a lot of things.
Adam
You, yes, you have, you have accomplished something. Mobility wise, you've definitely accomplished something. Stability wise, definitely accomplished something. Balance strength wise. I mean you've got, that's right, you could, there's no, there's no cheating that test or cutting corners on that test. I think that's which is also to me the progression of that is the one I'm talking about. That's why if I could get, once I got a client to be able to step up, balance, hinge, touch their toe, come all the way back.
Sal
Also one of my favorite exercises.
Adam
Yeah that, that was such a good movement and I know it doesn't get talked about a lot, but for your average client who cares about longevity, such a good movement to incorporate and teach was always a statement.
Sal
Now here's what's interesting about all this, right. You have all these tests that I just said that are great predictors of all cause mortality. Now let's think of the average. Let's just think of the population of America or western societies and we're going to try to improve their mortality. We're going to try and get everybody to live longer and live better. So better health span. There's a few stumbling blocks because I can make all kinds of recommendations. But are they going to do it? Can they Stick to it. How much time is it going to take? What's the like how effective is it for the time spent doing it? You can't just. Here's what a lot a huge, some.
Doug
Of the big mistakes, big learning curve to it.
Sal
Lots of health professionals and longevity experts, they've got great advice, but they don't take into consideration are people going to do it and how much are they actually going to devote to this and what's the consistency and what's the payback for the time that they're actually like. You have to look at the real world and I'll tell you right now, no form of exercise will affect all of these as much as one day a week of strength training. That's it. Why do I like it so much? It's one day a week. One day a week. There's no other form of exercise that would improve all of these things as much as strength training. In a one to one comparison, you pick any other form of exercise for 45 minutes once a week versus strength training 45. Pales in comparison.
Doug
Pales in comparison, increases range of motion and strengthen that range of motion. I think people are, are a lot of times have this misconception that like a lot of strength training now we're limiting range of motion. We're not as flexible within the opposite.
Sal
Not proper strength training. No, no, not at all. All right, got some other interesting data for you guys. This I would, I would, I would say is good and bad news for young men. So this is wild. So I was watching this clip, this gentleman was talking about just how different this young, the younger generation of men is from previous generations of men in regards to. Well, trip off these stats. I couldn't believe it when he, when he said I double checked and he's. This is what they're showing men between the ages of 18 to 24. Okay, so young men 18 to 24. Yeah. What percentage of them have never asked out a woman to on a date? Oh, never.
Adam
I've seen some.
Sal
Not like they've done it once or twice.
Doug
Like right now the current.
Adam
Yes, it's a large percent. Right. It's a large percentage.
Sal
What percentage have never ever percentage asked.
Adam
The girl out over 60.
Sal
Well, no less than that, but okay, 45%. Almost half. What? That's. Listen. Weak. Listen, when we were growing up at that age group between 18, 21. Listen. How many guys would you think in our, when we were in that age group had never asked a woman out? Like almost none.
Doug
Yeah, I mean, okay, so unless you're just like isolated nerd.
Sal
I don't.
Adam
Okay, so. Yeah, but now you have to just the bullshit. Just wait a minute. Wait. All those 20 year olds feel terrible right now.
Doug
Yeah, well, again, this is where the nerds took over and okay, now we're ruled by nerds.
Adam
Okay, so yeah, so that.
Doug
What do you expect?
Sal
What do you expect? You just go down.
Adam
Hey, all, let's, let's speculate on all the reasons why.
Sal
Well, let me add one more stat because it's going to add to your speculation. Okay, okay, okay, so 45% of men 18 to 24, which is crazy to me, have never in their life asked the woman out how. What percentage of men under 30 are just like. I'm not even pursuing. I'm not even gonna try to date under 30. 63%. What a majority. A majority of men under 30 don't even. Aren't even.
Doug
They're waiting for the robots or what?
Adam
What? Why is that stat higher? That's confusing to me.
Sal
No, no, they've asked women out. At some point they just gave up.
Doug
And then they just gave up.
Sal
63% are like, I'm not even gonna ask. I give up.
Doug
Oh, come on, guys.
Adam
All right, so. Okay, now let's hear all the speculation. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Let's piss some people off.
Sal
So, well, so with this guy, with this girlfriend, what this guy was saying is that, he said that that social connection has been replaced by forums, the Internet and pornography and pornography.
Adam
Pornography and video games have trapped a lot of young boys in the inside the room.
Sal
It's sapped the energy that. Because it's scary. Like the truth. If you're man and you're listening, you know what I'm talking about. Women, I don't think understand this because we're the pursuers. Typically. It's scary. You got to go ask a girl out. Like she's probably going to say no to you.
Doug
Yeah.
Sal
And you got to get your crap together because, you know, women don't just talk to you and you got to figure things out and you got to get rejected and you got to put yourself out there. It's scary.
Adam
Here's another one that's a bit controversial, but it's also true, is that women date across and up. And women have been kicking our ass at a lot of things in the last two decades. I mean, when you look at college graduates, when you look at the testing like you look at what women, Women and jobs.
Doug
Women are definitely in the academic setting for sure.
Adam
Yes. Women are beating guys at a Lot of things. Or elevating growing, however you want to position that. And so you. And then guys are locking themselves in room, jerking off, playing video games. And it's like you, it makes it even more difficult to go. You know, you're the, you're this kid who's been playing college. You're 22 and you've been messing around, playing Call of Duty and watching pornography the whole time. And you see this beautiful chick, but she's. She's midway into getting her masters and she's got some intern at this great job. It's like she ain't dating you and you know it.
Sal
Yeah, but here's, here's the, here's the, the good news, because here's the truth. And I would love, I mean, I bet you can ask any young woman you got 45% of dudes at that age group have never asked a girl out and 63% aren't even trying anymore. But if you're a dude and you just talk to a girl today, who's admitting this? These are surveys. These are lots of surveys.
Doug
Just this random survey.
Adam
So you.
Sal
The good news is this. If you're a dude and you got the balls to just introduce yourself to a girl, you're like a huge advantage. You look like the man. Like, man, look how confident.
Adam
So you think that bas. But with. Okay, what's your, what's your argument to what I'm saying then right now? Because that, that kid is not going up to that girl and he knows he's going to fail. That's why he's not doing it.
Sal
Listen here, I'll, I'll ask you think.
Adam
That you think that he.
Sal
I'll ask you, dude that grew up without money and all the stuff that you said. I grew up in a d. Listen, you were confident. Well, you, you, you put yourself out there. You had a mouthpiece. And I'm sure you had to work on that. You had to practice that confidence. Here's the truth. And again, when this is the other truth, women tend to date based off of the potential they see in a man, not necessarily what they see now.
Adam
Okay? So, yeah, one, and that's confidence. One, I was gifted with some of these things, right? Two, I was, listen, I was doing shit. 15 years old, start my own little business hustling by the time I was a junior in high school, getting up at 4 o' clock in the morning, working before school, working afterwards. So if you're a girl and you're only in high school and you see what I'M doing.
Sal
Yeah, you, you.
Adam
I would think part of that is like, okay, he's self motivated, gonna do his thing. Like so that that has to play a role.
Sal
Yeah. But I don't think they were like, look at Adam waking up early to go to work. You drove the crappy brown car, you had the mold inside of it and all that stuff. I think because you just, you went out and talked to them hanging down ahead, you know.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
I don't know if, if half dude, half the dudes have never asked a question girl out.
Adam
I think a lot if you're a.
Sal
18 year old guy and you see a girl and you want to go talk to her, I bet if you approach her and talk to her, she's going to be like, oh my God.
Doug
It'S a mentality, dude.
Sal
Yeah.
Doug
Yeah. I just don't think they're getting enough exposure to that. Like really understand the value of pain and, and rejection and like, you know, failure. It's just not stressed enough. And, and it's not stressed in either video games either because these respawn and everything's fine. You know, we had to like literally start over, scramble to try and get some code just to stay like at some level. Otherwise you go all the way back to the beginning days and days that we put in.
Adam
Well, you lost. Well, you were like me too in this with. Because I admittedly played video games too. But different though. Like everything was different. My buddies and I, we would play games for a while. Video games for a while.
Sal
But it's sick of it.
Adam
You do you get sick of it? Yeah. And then you go outside and you play football and basketball and baseball and you or whatever, kick the can, you name it. I did it. All right, so you didn't. You weren't like these games now suck these kids into the screen so engineered, dude.
Sal
Yeah.
Adam
And they, and so these kids will socialize in there.
Doug
It's like this whole thing where they're.
Adam
Just hanging and so, you know, and, and you can't tell me that a lot of the girls mature faster than us. So you're this 17, 18, 19, 20 year old girl and you're looking at these boys who put headsets on and talk to each other for eight hours on the weekend on video games. Like that's not attractive.
Sal
They're not even talking to you.
Adam
But even if you did like what do you. What is he gonna talk to her about? Like the new skins on Call of Duty?
Sal
No, no, you gotta try. That's how you learn. Let me ask you Guys, this. How many times do girls say no to you guys?
Adam
You can't use this as an example. We grew up at a different time.
Sal
Never. All the time.
Adam
All the time.
Sal
All the time, dude. That's how you learn. No, and the energy, like there's an energy that.
Adam
I mean, I'm not, I'm not. Just let me ask you guys this to make it clear. I'm not arguing with you that I do think that's a fact.
Sal
Let me put this, Let me put. Let me ask you guys this. Knowing what you guys know now, grown men, all your wisdom, all that stuff, and I snap my fingers, you guys are 18 years old, and I'm like, go get three girls phone numbers right now. Yeah. Would it be a piece of cake today compared to how it was in the 90s?
Adam
I. I think the way that was.
Sal
Yeah. Today, the first.
Doug
I mean, bunch of lazy dudes.
Adam
I mean, so I say, like, go get a job, read a book. And you would probably attract those girls. They'd come to you. You wouldn't even have to go go to them.
Sal
Yes, yes.
Adam
So that's. You would be such an anomaly to me if you're that. That guy who's working hard, reading, trying to.
Sal
Well, here's what my argument.
Doug
Encouraging for these boys.
Sal
Here's my argument. My argument is this. As a young man, you have a driver that pushes you beyond your comfort zone. One of them is your sex drive. And it's not getting quenched with endless pornography. You also have a drive for adventure, which you're not just beating level 65. Okay. Those two things. And then talk about, read a book and all that stuff. You know how you figure that out? You go try to talk to girls and they keep rejecting you, and you're like, I better get my crap together. Yeah. Like this.
Adam
Better have something smarter to talk to her about.
Sal
Women are gay video gamers. And this shapes you as a young girl.
Doug
Your hygiene.
Adam
Yeah, forget about that.
Sal
You can't present yourself like a dumbass.
Doug
Yeah, exactly. You look like shit. No wonder nobody's telling you that.
Sal
But it's wild. 45 between 18 and 24. The first time I think I approached a girl to talk to her, I think I was like 13, you know, 18 to 24. That's crazy to me. Yeah, that's wild. But now I put myself in their shoes. If I had endless pornography and video games, I mean, I might. I might be in the same boat.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
You know, but the good news is for young men listening, there's not a lot of competition, bro.
Adam
Are we switching. Is it, Are we, are we, are we swinging back? I mean, is it coming back the other direction or is it getting worse?
Sal
I think, I think some awareness is.
Doug
Coming around and maybe in pockets, but yeah, I don't see it.
Adam
I have such a hard time because I feel like we're in a bubble whenever we talk about topics.
Doug
We try to generalize all this stuff. But yeah, half of it I don't see. So it's like, it sounds cool, but yeah, I don't, I don't. I mean, I see little bits of like trying to correct in some kids getting it and it just driven.
Adam
It's like this perfect storm too, of like you have the, these, these boys that are, for a lack of a better word, pussified, you know? You know, in this direction while we're pushing this narrative on the other side and it's like, it's, it's, it's just driving a wedge between them.
Sal
You know, what happened here? We'll get controversial. Since you brought this up.
Adam
Well, I'm trying to force you that direction.
Sal
You know, do you know what happens when there's weak, when there's no male leadership?
Adam
Yeah, the women step up.
Sal
Women change.
Adam
Yeah, they step up. That. I mean, if you look at so these, these, when you have these, you hear these conversations even when like someone like Adam Lane Smith comes on and it, it triggers some people and the women are like, it's not our fault. Like, we men need to step up. And they're, they're part, they're right. There's a part of them that's also true. You know, it's like. And I think it's, it's, it's less about. It's less to blame a sex. It's more to blame society and a narrative that's been pushed. We've been pushing this to boys, play video games, watch pornography. You know, their, Your friends can be online. And we've been telling girls, go out there, kick ass in the, in the in boss pitch world. And the two of those just don't work really well together. They just don't. So it's not a, it's not a girl problem. It's not a guy problem. It's a social narrative that's been pushed for two decades plus now. And we've just seen it get further and further. Now what I hope is that we're, we're living through, and our kids are living through the most extreme time and we start to kind of find somewhere back in the middle Somewhere as I don't think, I don't think what I just said the extreme is, is necessarily bad. There's, listen, so I married to a boss bitch, right? So it's, you could totally have that mentality. And I played video games too. So it's like, it's not like video games are evil. Girls that are like strong, independent women are evil. It's like there's, there's, there's a balance. There's a balance there.
Doug
It all works. Like. Yeah.
Adam
And I, and I hope that we, we start to come back. Do you, do you guys feel like. Or do you get worried for.
Sal
Well, I know what the data is showing on young men and they're, they're in droves turning to, to faith. I think they're looking for structure. They need, they're looking for meaning. Courses that help men break the addiction of pornography are exploding right now. So there's a lot of awareness that's.
Adam
Happening right now, which is good because that data on exercise, morals, discipline, structure, definitely. When you think of what, what does video game, what's the bad side of video games? Pornography, the lack of morals, lack of discipline, lack of structure, those things. And so just simply going that direction will help that out. Yeah, totally. So totally. And I do feel like you see the kind of the counter with women too. You see more and more women speaking up on like the, hey, the sacrificing the family to go have the career isn't what it was meant what we all thought it was. And so you hear a lot more of that. And so maybe we come back by our kids age.
Sal
I don't know. Yeah, I hope so.
Adam
I worry about that sometimes.
Sal
Let's talk about nutrition. I want, yeah, I want to bring this point up. We haven't brought it up in maybe five or six months, but I think it's such a good, it's such a great way to reduce your calories without eating less and actually making your food healthier. And that's simply taking your total red meat and just going to grass fed. And it's the same amount, same size steak, same. Everything's the same. 10 ounces of steak versus 10 ounces of steak. But it's lower in calorie and higher in protein because grass fed meat is leaner and it has a better fatty acid problem.
Adam
I remember when you first brought that up on the show, we looked at the difference. I was really surprised by that's hundreds of calories. Yeah, it's, it's a major difference.
Sal
Doug, can you compare like A couple like, like, you know, common cuts. One being grass fed, one being traditional.
Adam
You know, I know butcher box is where we get all, all of us get our grass fed meat. I have to say something about butcherbox since you're bringing this up. I'm, I'm back on my kick right now and I'm, I'm tracking my protein as we teach everybody first. Right.
Sal
I saw you work out like three times last week. Yeah.
Sam
Yeah.
Adam
Don't time.
Sal
You have to get in.
Adam
Don't want to build a reputation.
Doug
Always keep track.
Adam
He's just. Then I see him in there. Extra.
Sal
No, shut up, bro. Doing something.
Adam
Butcher blocks. Chicken nuggets, dude.
Doug
I've been living off those.
Adam
Every, every three is 10 grams of protein.
Sal
Yeah.
Adam
So you get, you know, like literally. That's a salt, bro.
Sal
They're the best.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Chicken nuggets.
Adam
I used to. So back in my. I didn't realize early days, I used to do like the 20 packs from McDonald's. Like, terrible. The awful fake stuff. Right? 50 grams of protein in just 15 nuggets. I crush 15 nuggets like easy, easy, gluten free. It's become my, my late night when I'm trying to get extra protein. Heat them up in the oven like super fast. Yeah. So it's, it's been kind of a.
Sal
Go to give me, give me an example of grass fed versus traditional.
Justin
So the protein content is very similar. It's just a little bit higher on the, the grass fed. It's the fat profile that's very different.
Adam
That's the point he's making. He's saying that it's the same protein or higher with less calories. Yeah, less calories. Eight to 12 ounces.
Sal
Yeah. What are you looking at?
Justin
Yeah, I'm trying to find a good comparison here. Yeah, just give me a sec.
Sal
Yeah, so it typically what you'll see is in the same cut, it's like a normal serving, 100 something calories.
Adam
I remember when we looked at it.
Sal
Easy and you're eating the same amount. I like it because it's easy. It's like here, you want to cut your calories in an easy way and not feel like you're eating less because you're not.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Here, just switch your grass fed.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Calories are automatically lower, so. Yeah. Yeah. We don't need to wait for you, Doug.
Justin
Yeah, well, I'm having a hard time.
Adam
Finding a good one.
Sal
No problem.
Adam
We talked. Sal brought it up before. It surprised me. It was, it was enough. It was enough of a number that I'd actually never even looked at it like that. Like, I mean, look back now. I think back when I was competing and always trying to like shave calories here, there.
Sal
Oh, that would have been creative.
Adam
I mean, that would have been a really cool strategy. Super easy go. I would have actually gone back and done non grass fed and non prep. Right. So when I'm like off season and so and bulking and putting. Yeah. An easy way to cut is like I'm not even switching anything but just going to grass fed and shave 150plus calories.
Sal
I found a sport that I can't believe exist. Well, I can believe exists. One that Justin would probably do.
Adam
What is that?
Sal
Doug, can you pull up. Did you get the videos of Run it? I did you show a clip?
Adam
Run it.
Doug
Look at repost.
Justin
I do have some numbers here.
Sal
Oh, thanks.
Justin
Finally.
Sal
So well edited in and the appropriate part.
Justin
Hey, I just like to highlight my, you know, my Google skills here. I know you guys find me to be very, very good at it.
Adam
So, you know, he'll edit the show like right after he's not using.
Sal
This is how Doug does searches. This 6 ounce ribeye grass fed versus 6 ounce grain fed ribeye, which has more. That's why his search is.
Doug
Listen, I think he still uses Ask Jeeves.
Justin
I don't believe that's the search I did. But I'm not going here and defend myself. Okay, so you get a lot of results. Sometimes it just don't have the details you want. Okay, so we have grass fed beef, 8 ounces. This is ground beef is what they've used.
Adam
Okay.
Justin
Grain fed 8 ounce. So for example, the grass fed is 432 calories. The grain fed is 568.
Sal
Yeah, there you go.
Justin
Total fat, grass fed, 28 grams grain fed 44. And then getting down to the protein, grass said 43 grams 38 for the grain.
Adam
So there you go.
Justin
I'm gonna bookmark this.
Adam
But that was how many ounces you said were you 8 ounces.
Sal
It'll come up.
Adam
So you're. So you're talking about higher protein, lower calories by over 100.
Sal
That's what. And it's 8 ounces. They're both 8 ounces.
Adam
Yeah, that's solid.
Justin
But you know, it's not only that. It's just so many other things. Vitamin K is higher Omega vitamin.
Adam
Your omega balance too.
Sal
Way better.
Justin
Just all kinds of different things.
Sal
It's less inflammatory.
Dallin
Yeah.
Sal
All right, Doug, pull up the Run it video. Okay, so this is a new sport that is. I would place it. It's a little bit lower than the slap sport where they just blast each other in the face.
Adam
It's lower, bro.
Sal
You know what I mean? Like this, like that's just peak. Idiot.
Doug
This is just a drill that we would do all the time in football and rugby. Like, it's just. They made it into a sport. Like, this is literally like with no pads. No pads.
Sal
You just blast each other.
Doug
Oh, yeah. That was my first introduction.
Adam
There's a name to that, Justin. What's that called? It's called. When you. Are you talking about where they. Where you line up.
Doug
Oklahoma drill.
Adam
Yeah, that's what is.
Sal
Look at the size of these guys. Watch, Watch.
Adam
Except this is just.
Sal
They took out all the.
Doug
The function of it and just went into the smash.
Sal
I've seen some of these, bro.
Adam
Well, what's scary is they're actually doing it from distance. Normally you do that a little bit closer, right?
Sal
Oh, I've seen some do where guys get knocked out.
Doug
Yes.
Sal
Get blasted. I mean, this.
Doug
Big old guys like this clashing and then all of a sudden, like they're both like knocked out.
Sal
Oh, bro, you didn't see Doug's pulling up some nice ones. I saw some highlights.
Adam
What I'm tripping out right now looking at this is the. Is this.
Doug
I used to live for this stuff, dude.
Sal
Wow.
Adam
What's. Justin, this was crazy. Is how far they are. Like, that's a. That's a normal drill in football where they line up like 20 yards. It's me and Dark. It's me and Justin.
Sal
No, these guys are running.
Adam
Yeah. You're getting full speed when you're. You're getting hit here. That's crazy.
Sal
Yeah, bro. Yeah. This is. It's just. So when you do this, I mean, you basically have to have. Right. Correct me if I'm wrong, Justin, you will get killed unless you have reckless abandon. You have to go in. There can't be any hesitation sacrificing your.
Adam
Entire level because the other guy. It's a.
Doug
It's like also you have to get like that. That extra like last second leverage. So people think you just like go full blast. Like just straight it. You have to actually underneath and then, you know, launch and like throw all your force through your hips to your shoulder and like. And like transfer it.
Sal
Oh.
Adam
And you have to do it quickly.
Sal
Oh, God.
Doug
So it's like if they're not doing that last second dip and up, like they're not getting.
Sal
Some of these guys are like 300 pound dudes.
Adam
They all. There's no power output. No, wait to see, like, a little guy.
Sal
I remember. Wasn't it, Justin? Was it. Didn't you go to a. Weren't you in a mosh pit?
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
And you ran to someone like that?
Doug
Yeah, there's some big. Dude. I flatten them, dude.
Adam
But that's the thing.
Sal
It's.
Doug
There's a technique to it, and, like, leverage. You learn it over. Over time. I was trying to teach my son this because he's, like, really into football right now, and I was like, if you're gonna start tackling people, you gotta understand the physics here. You know, you got. You got to be the lower one every time.
Adam
God, bro, that's brutal.
Doug
Yeah, that is.
Adam
I've never seen that before.
Sal
Yeah, no, me neither.
Adam
I didn't know that. I mean, I know that's a drill. I knew that was a drill in football, but they. They're closer in football, like. And you have passed. Oh, yeah, yeah.
Doug
It depends how they set it up, because, I mean, we've done crazy stuff like bull in the ring and all that too. Or you're just in the middle and you have the whole team around you, and you're just. You call them out, and then you guys, like, smash.
Adam
Oh, wow.
Doug
Yeah, I used to love that.
Adam
Have you seen the. The. The parents one? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, the. The Pop Warner boys are like, their moms come out.
Doug
Some of the moms do form tackles.
Sal
Like, bang.
Adam
Yes, dude. They got to try to get through the moms and stuff like that. The moms are. It's like little pop owner football kids.
Doug
And so those big kids are taking them out.
Sal
I've seen some strong moms, dude. Yeah, it was one Samoan mom at one of the gyms I managed, man, and she was. Oh, yeah. She was like, you don't want to tackle that later. She was like, lean210.
Adam
I. I tell a story. All I've told. I haven't told it a long time on the podcast, but when I had Isaac Sapawaga's wife, I. I trained her, and I remember I did an assessment, and now at this point, I'm already, like, 10 years into the career, so. And I get. I think we're all like this. You, once you have body fat tested, weighed hundreds of people. I can look at you, like, it's like. Yeah, it's like a carnival trick that all my family loves to do is, like, I could look at someone, be like, oh, yeah, they weigh about this much. I'm probably three to Five pounds. And I remember looking at her and. And you know when you're guessing someone's weight, you. It's like my head. I know what I'm guessing. But then I'm gonna go about five pounds lighter, just so I look respectful and stuff.
Sal
Yeah, yeah. I don't want to offend them.
Adam
And I remember putting her on the scale and like, I mean, I. I must have been. I must have started 50 pounds too light.
Sal
And she's just pure. Just muscle.
Adam
Yeah. And then I body fat test her and she's like in the teens, she. And just flat stomach. Just a brick house. Just a brick house. I never seen a girl like that. Just brick house.
Sal
They have kids? Yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Adam
I don't haven't. You know, it'd be interesting to see their kids now because this was like, this is 15 plus years ago.
Sal
Their kids could probably place.
Adam
I hate to have Doug try and look up Isaac Sapawago.
Doug
Their kids are the league at this point.
Adam
Yeah, no, I actually, I'll have to look him up and see. See. I know. I'm pretty sure they have kids, but they. Yeah, they both were just so. I can only imagine what kind of kids they.
Sal
They've had. I. I read about this psychological phenomena. Change subject. But it's called Rosenthal effect, and it points to. Remember how I told you guys that? So I did the. You know, we're on the. We're doing the fig and eagle course on, you know, families and stuff. And one of the things that Scott recommended for Jessica and I was to speak identity into our children. And so, like, before bed every night, we make a list of things, and it's like, you are intelligent, you are brave, you are courageous. You are a blessing to everyone. You know, like. And we made different ones for all the kids. Right?
Justin
Yeah.
Sal
And even the teenagers, Right. My niece and my daughter, they light up every night. And I don't know how they would respond. Right. Teenagers, you never know. But every night I go in there and I do it, and you just see their faces light up. And it seems to have this. I can tell it's having this kind of positive effect. And I just happened to come upon something called the Rosenthal effect. This is a very interesting phenomenon where they've done many studies on this. But one of them was a classroom experiment where teachers were told that certain students showed exceptional potential, even though the labels were randomly assigned. Over time, those students performed better academically. So teachers unknowingly gave more attention, encouragement, patience, and feedback to the students. They believed that were gifted. This also works when kids are told that they're a particular way, they suddenly, subtly, over time, start to behave more in that direction. And so, you know, saying these things to your kids every night, they actually start to take on this identity because, well, my, you know, every night my dad tells me I'm courageous. So then when they're scared without realizing, they become more crazy. I keep forgetting, really interesting.
Adam
I keep forgetting to tell Katrina to that I want to add that because you know what I'm doing, which is interesting to me because I always thought it was like, instead of like telling your kids they're this thing, you're always better to attach it to a behavior that I see, right? So we're reinforcing behavior. So every night we look, I think that's great, right? We look at something. But I think I could do both, right? What stops me from, hey, daddy, saw you do this today. So proud of you also, by the way, you're ba, ba, ba, ba, ba. So I want to add, I want to add that, you know, I have my cousin who's, who's visiting right now and he's never visited me before. And you're getting caught up with him. He's from the other side of my family and you know, that I don't get to see very much. And you know, we, we saw each other last year for the first time in years and said, man, why don't you come up and visit sometime? And so he came up by himself. He spent the last like three, four days with me, does this construction job. And then he goes to a, an after school program for low income families. And the kids range from 5 to like 13, so. And he's got all of them. And so I've just been asking him all kinds of questions and he just loves it. It's like, it's like he's comes from a family of teachers and, you know, so he has a lot of passion for helping kids. He's got, he's got an incredibly loving, sweet soul. And just asking him a lot. I'm like, man, what I mean, I can only imagine a lot of these kids are probably troubled and challenged. And he goes, oh, yeah, no, definitely. He goes. And they love to push boundaries. I'm like, how do you deal with that? And he's like, you know, honestly, he's like, what I've learned or what I find is just like, kids just want attention. And a lot of times these kids that are so quote unquote bad or misbehave, whack the attention. And, you know, he had been spending these days with me and he. Last night before he went to bed, he's like, dude, is Max always like, this is always what everybody said. Is Max always like this? Like, yeah, he's like. I was actually. I think he's acting kind of wild because you're here showing off. He's like, he's such a well behaved kid. I said, well, go. I think it goes back to what you said. I think that it's the, just the amount of attention that he gets. You know, we don't do the action. Yeah, it's the. They want, they, they, they. They want that. And there are a lot of energy. You know, I get like, there. It's all the time. It's not like he wants attention every once in a while. Wants attention all the time. And so, yeah, we do a lot of Legos. We do a lot of puzzles. We do a lot of games, like every day, every night, multiple times a day. And I think that that is what you see, is that you just see that he gets a lot of that. And I said, I can see if a kid doesn't, how they can start to get on your nerves. And then you want to just throw an iPad on. And then. And I think. And then the next thing you know, they're a bad kid because they're acting out. I said, I just. I think you hit it on the head when you told me what it's like to manage these kids. I think that a lot of kids, and some kids need more. I mean, your kid's an example that he needs physical attention. He doesn't need just attention. We're sitting on the puzzle. It's like, you gotta take him outside, throw the ball at him, go shoot a gun. It's like, you gotta actually do something like that. And I think that makes a world of a difference. And the kids just don't know how to communicate that at that age. At that age, he doesn't know how to say, daddy, I want more of your attention. His way of act out. Yeah, his way of doing it is. Is acting out.
Sal
Speaking of which, I wasn't. I need your guys's help because I think you have an athlete, bro. Yeah, dude, you for sure do. And I'm. I'm not, you know, so my, My son, it was the other day, he's like, hey, can I try hitting a ball with a bat? I'm like, I've never done this with him. I'm like, all right. So we're in the Backyard I gave him. It wasn't even a bat. It's like a. Like a toy. It was kind of like a bat. And I had a tennis ball. And nine out of ten times, he. He connects. Nine out of ten. I throw the first time, Bink. And he's over and over and over again.
Adam
I'm gonna start sending you.
Sal
And I'm like, I gotta have your. Your.
Adam
I'm gonna start an Adam. I'm gonna start sending you some stuff. Because I follow all these, like, it's just so funny. Like, dads teaching different sports. And one of the dads I love to follow teaches his son baseball.
Doug
Oh, yeah. He sits on that bucket and puts the helmet.
Adam
Yes, bro, I'm gonna send it to you.
Sal
Okay.
Adam
Like, he's got this. He's got a kid who's just so into it and obviously has a baseball coaching background, because the way he's teaching him.
Sal
Okay.
Adam
And it's in a fun, playful way, the kids loving it, stuff like that. And it's like, if it could give you a couple tips on if you have a little natural athlete and you feed into those skills when he's too early. Yes, dude. It's so. It's so cool, man. You harness that. Now if he's got a natural gift and then he leans in that. Yeah.
Sal
We went to a friend's house yesterday, and they had football on the tv. And anytime football is on, we don't watch football. I never watch sports. But if you're somewhere and football's on, he sits down and watches it. Oh, my God. He likes it. He sits down and he's like, which. What's our team, Papa? What's our team? I don't know. The red one.
Doug
That's so ironic.
Adam
It is so ironic.
Doug
Yeah. I just, like, pull my kids into interest, you know, in that direction. It's been such a weird experience for me because it's so. Like, I just gravitated towards it immediately, you know? So, yeah, it might be that case where it's like, he'll just do all the extra practicing and all that on his own.
Adam
That's what I mean. That's why you got to lean into it. Because if he's into it that much, where you start giving him drills, and he loves the drills. Like, if he doesn't love the drills and who cares? But if he loves the drills and does that, it's like, dude, then it's game on.
Sal
Well, I just like hanging out with him, so I'll do it with him. But the issue is this the issue now. There's not an issue now, but pretty soon he's going to need someone who knows how to do this stuff. I don't. So it's. At some point.
Adam
This was always practice someone else always. This was always. My secret prayer though is that Sal's going to have a kid like this and then it's like you're going to, you're going to have to get into it. And then you get into it, you're going to really start to love and appreciate sports. I just watched fast forward five years on my bump. Sounds like dropping all the, all the stats on all the, all the games and we have.
Doug
Trying to get into trampolines.
Sal
Dude, you know how much I hate.
Doug
Jumping on a trampoline. Dude, that's not like. I just feel immediately like I'm a.
Sal
Throw up or something.
Doug
And I just get, I had to get into it. I'm like, I have to figure these things. And then I was like, you know what, you guys are awesome at this. And I'm just going to watch as a spectator.
Sal
I got to ask you guys, do you guys, do you guys ever drink? The one element flavor I don't have much of is the chocolate one. Who was it that has that in a hot.
Doug
I used to do it in a coffee.
Adam
Yeah, you have to do it in a hot chocolate.
Doug
Mocha.
Adam
What's their.
Sal
Wait, Hot coffee? Yeah. Is it good?
Doug
Yeah.
Adam
Yeah.
Doug
Because the salty.
Sal
That's not a bad idea.
Doug
It's really good.
Sal
Yeah. And there's no calories.
Doug
Yeah.
Adam
Are you guys making your way through all the new, the new ones though? All the new skinny ones, Dude, I just love. They have a lemonade one and like pina colada, I think is the other one.
Justin
Pineapple.
Adam
Pineapple. Pineapple one is the best. That is the new, best flavor to me.
Sal
Oh, that. I haven't tried that.
Justin
I do like the lemonade as well.
Adam
Lemonade is Katrina's favorite. Pineapple.
Justin
Pineapple is really good.
Sal
Yeah.
Kevin
Fire.
Sal
Oh, I gotta try that.
Adam
Yes, yes, that. I, I mean I, I was. I always told you guys grapefruit was my favorite. Still one of my favorites. But the new pineapple flavor is fire.
Sal
Yeah, I gotta try that.
Adam
Yeah. Yeah.
Sal
They're.
Adam
They're.
Sal
We, we got. Didn't we get a report from them recently?
Justin
They're just murderous companies growing like crazy.
Sal
You know, they, they have single handedly created this electrolyte. This new electrolyte market.
Doug
Yeah.
Sal
It was not. You see all kinds of copycats.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
All because of them.
Adam
Yeah. All kinds of copies.
Sal
All because they were not afraid to put the amount of sodium that's.
Doug
Yeah. Sucralose and all this other nonsense.
Sal
And it was just a thousand milligrams of sodium. Everybody's too scared to put that much.
Adam
Shout out to Rob Wolf.
Sal
Yeah. Very small.
Adam
Because, I mean, he was. I believe he's the one that was really, of course, had the formulation, was pushed the formulation that way.
Sal
Yeah.
Adam
So no, they're a great, great company and continue to do. Do really well. But I'm. Yeah, you guys have to go through the. All the new flavors.
Sal
I'm trying the pineapple.
Adam
The new flavors are. I, I'm curious too how that's too. Because they did like a smaller size can now. Right. So it's like for some people that are not going to drink the. The big full size can. So they're. They're smaller. Right. So they're. I think they're half.
Sal
They're half seven.
Doug
Yeah. They look like a Red Bull size comparison.
Adam
Yeah, that's right.
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Justin
Our first caller is Kevin from Texas.
Sal
What's up, Kevin?
Adam
How you doing, Kevin?
Doug
What's happening?
Kevin
Hey, guys. How's it going, man?
Sal
Good. How can I help you?
Kevin
Good. Just writing in a little bit of my backstory. I'm 54 years old. Been going to the gym probably since I was in my mid-20s, but always struggle with my weight. It was always a big issue. About a year ago, I got on a GLP1 and it made a huge difference. Finally able to get the diet under control. Been killing it at the gym. About three months ago, I got on trt. That's made all the difference in the world. Probably in the best shape of my life right now. At 54 years old, the problem I'm running into is being in the best shape of my life. I feel like everyday things aren't the Gym life isn't translating to real world as much as I expected it would. One example, like, I volunteer with my kids band, my kids in high school marching band. I volunteer with them on competition days and games and stuff. We are busy unloading trucks, putting props together, moving props out on the field and stuff like that. And by the end of a three, four day or three, four hour, you know, work schedule, I'm just tapped out. And I feel like, you know, being in the shape I'm in, things should be a little bit easier. One thing I do notice is I recover a lot easier. You know, I'm not just tapped out the next day and bedridden like I used to be. But it's, you know, am I missing something? Should I be doing something different? Should I be training different?
Adam
My, my first guess is to ask you, where are your calories at? Because the testosterone will make you feel a lot of those positive feelings that you're feeling and of course, dropping that weight. But a lot of times our clients that do the GLP1s end up going so low calorie and, and that might be what you're feeling. Where your calories at?
Kevin
Calories. You know, I gotta force myself to get about 2,000 a day.
Adam
Yeah, there you go. That's what it is. You're low. Yeah, yeah. So when we did, you know, we took a group of, what was it, 50, 60 people. Oh, 50 people that were all on GLP1s. And we, we coached them through the whole process and the common theme, regardless, if you got little results, amazing results, everybody ended up hitting a plateau at some point. Whether that was after £100, £30, it didn't matter. They all. And what ended up happening where they all became this point where they were exercising consistently, they lost the weight, but their body was stalled. They're just not seeing and. Or they were feeling just really just tired and fatigued. They didn't feel strong. And what that is, is they hit a point where their body has adapted to how low the calorie is, and your body's telling you, I need more fuel. Now the exciting part where you're at, where you, you're on a, you have a night and you, you've done a lot already and look great and you've got a solid frame and you're on testosterone, you start to feed that body and you're going to build some muscle and really start to shape, change and feel different.
Sal
Yeah, you'll get leaner, in fact.
Adam
Yes.
Sal
What's your. How tall are you? How Much do you weigh and what does your workout look like?
Kevin
I'm six foot, I'm currently at 2:30. I go between 235, 230 around there. That's from 3:30 a year ago. My workouts, I do four to five days resistance training, upper, lower split. And then I try to throw in, you know, one or two days I'll hike or do some yoga or something like that.
Sal
Yeah, you're super underfed and over trained. Yeah, well, yeah, yeah. Guy your size doing that much exercise. Yeah. You're like, you're just, you're gonna be fatigued. Yeah. Your body is, is like just trying to stay where it's at and you're probably doing about as much as you could tolerate. So you throw in a three hour day of moving things, you're gonna be dead.
Adam
And yeah, yeah, you, and you're on testosterone. If you were on testosterone, you'd feel this even more. The good that you feel is, is from that, that's giving an artificial signal of like, we're doing good. Because otherwise your test, your testosterone.
Sal
Two things you could do, bump Your calories by 500 and cut your workouts way down.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
There's no, not only, there's no reason for you to be lifting that much that often. It's not, it's not getting any better results. You're actually getting worse results. You're doing way too much. Three days a week would be the most I'd have you. Okay?
Adam
The hardest part of this, Kevin, is, is where you now what you've come from is that it will be the mental part. Are you taking a GLP one that's pre loaded or do you take, do you actually measure for yourself?
Kevin
I'm taking a compounded.
Sal
Yeah, yeah. So that you can lower the dose.
Adam
Yeah. So that's what we would do.
Kevin
And I've started splitting up the doses. I, you know, was doing the once weekly and I've started splitting that into twice a week.
Sal
That's fine. So you know, talk with your doctor and say, hey, I'm trying to eat more because I'm trying to build some muscle, but I'm having a tough time eating enough. I'd like to try a lower dose so you can get approval and then they'll put you in a lower dose. That way you could start eating more. I'd get you, I'd have you go immediately to 2,500 calories. Follow like a Maps 40+ program. Don't do any more than that. You could walk throughout the, you know, throughout the week, make sure you walk, you know, eight to 10,000 steps a day. Within, within days, you'll feel a difference in energy. Within weeks, you'll see a difference in muscle and you'll get leaner. It'll actually get you leaner.
Doug
Yep.
Kevin
Yeah, the, you know, the diet, that's won't be the hard part. The staying out of the gym will be the hard part.
Adam
Well, you can still go like, so my clients that love that consistency, you can still go just the days that it doesn't program. We haven't programmed you to lift weights. You walk, go for a nice walk, put a knee, put an ebook in or listen to a podcast, walk on the treadmill. It's not a hard thing. It's just, just walking. Walking's great. So don't break the routine. When my clients are in a rhythm where they're like, Adam, I go to the gym five days a week, every, every Monday through Friday. That's my thing. Like, I don't want to stop that. I just. Let me tell you what you're going to do on those five days. It's going to look like this on these days. Look like this on the. So the days that we don't have program lifting weights for you, you need to be doing things like stretching and walking and listen, audiobooks, mobility, stuff like that's rec, recovery, sauna, steam, those are all good. I'd love to hear you doing those, those types of things. So think of it like that. You're still going to the gym, just focused on recovery type stuff when you're not doing what's on the lifting protocol. And we'll send maps 40 to you so you have the protocol to follow. Yeah. Follow that as it's laid out. Don't add to it and do more. And Sal's right. Start right out the gates with 2500 calories and you watch what happens.
Sal
Yeah. You know, Kevin, just So you understand, 25 isn't even where you would start.
Adam
No, no.
Sal
Yeah, yeah, yeah. If you were my client, I'd start you at 25. We. I'd show you some strength gains because that's what you're going to see. You're going to see some nice strength and muscle gains. And then I'd slowly reverse diet you over 3,000 calories.
Adam
Yes.
Sal
And then from there, if we want to get leaner, it's easy. But where you're at now, you couldn't get leaner if you tried. You're just going to lose muscle. You're so your calories Are so low.
Adam
Yes, yes. Yeah.
Kevin
The scale has it stalled for probably a good month now.
Adam
This is, this is everybody, bro, everybody that we've helped eventually. And the fact that what's awesome and positive is that you, you got to shed £90 before it happened. Some of these people, we see it happen at 10, 10 pounds because they were already so low calorie. And so the GLP one just took them even lower. And so they get, they get a 10 pound shred and then they hit a hard plateau for six months a year. And then we get a hold of them. You got, you dropped 90 pounds, which is awesome.
Sal
Here are some of the challenges. So you understand with the reverse diet, because that's what we're kind of convinced coaching you through right now. So reverse diet is the slow introduction of an increase in calories, high protein in combination with good appropriate strength training. Okay. And the, the, the goal is to build lean tissue, which then results in a faster metabolic rate. At the end of a reverse diet, you have a much higher metabolic rate, which we can then easily cut from. So let's say right now you were running a 10. 3,000 calories. 3,200 calories, and you were like feeling great and strong. Then I could cut you to 2,500 calories. You'd see fat loss. So in other words, you would cut at higher calories than you're currently at through this process. Now there's a couple challenges that people run into. It's like, okay, well, what if I start gaining body fat? Or how do I know how fast I go up in calories? Or how do I know when I'm ready to cut? Or what if the strength training you get changed? This is when working with a coach becomes very valuable. So what I'm also gonna do, Kevin, is I'm gonna have a coach call you. And if that's something you're interested in, a coach could actually just individualize it as you go through the whole process, through the whole reverse diet process and the eventual cut.
Adam
Our trainers have a reverse diet framework that they take people through. So there's an actual framework they'll step you through and then you'll just check.
Sal
But it's also just individualized.
Adam
Yeah, yeah, but you'll check in with them and then they'll, they'll modify it accordingly. But that the most difficult part is definitely the psychological part.
Sal
Always.
Adam
They'll. You'll have these. Yeah, that's going to be that, That'll.
Sal
Be especially because you lost £100.
Adam
Yeah, yeah.
Sal
Eating more is scary.
Adam
That'll be the hardest part. But I'm telling you right now, we can get you all the way up to 3,000plus calories feeling better, looking better than you ever have in your life if we do this correctly.
Kevin
Let me ask, where should these calories come from? Currently, you know, I'm meeting my protein goals. That's been my big thing. Protein, protein. I'm getting around anywhere from 180 to 200 grams a day. Should I pull from carbs, fats, all the above?
Adam
Yeah. I'd have you go, that's impressive by the way, that you're at 2, 000 calories and you're able to hit 100, 200, 180, 200.
Sal
I'd have you, I'd have you. I'd have you keep your protein around 200, 210. But then we'd probably bump your fats because I, you know, I'd want to see where they're at at 2, 000 calories.
Adam
By the way, Sal, that, I mean that the highlights too. Probably where this, this energy crash is coming from too. He's probably so high protein.
Doug
So low carbs are low.
Adam
Yeah, Fat and carbs are low. And so that's another reason why you feel the energy like that.
Sal
Just.
Doug
You just don't have carbs.
Sal
Yeah, you' taking enough energy.
Adam
Great job, though, hitting the protein because that's normally one of the things that people miss bad and they lose a lot of muscle when they lose that £90. So that's probably what saved you and has done a good job is the fact that you've done that.
Kevin
Yeah, my lean mass has gone down a few, maybe five or six pounds in the year.
Adam
Wow, that's impressive. That's really impressive. To drop £90 and less than 10 of that to be is a. Is a huge success.
Sal
You're gonna see huge success. Yeah. If you do this right.
Adam
Very good, Very good.
Sal
If you do what we're saying, right, you're gonna see some really, really surprising muscle gains.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Like, you're gonna be like, oh, my gosh, this is amazing.
Adam
You gotta. You got a fun year ahead of you, dude.
Sal
Yeah.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
That's exciting.
Kevin
That's exciting news.
Adam
It's gonna be a good year. Well, we'll have one of them. We'll send over maps 40 and we'll have.
Sal
I'll have a church reach out to you.
Doug
Yeah.
Kevin
All right. Well, I appreciate everything, guys, and thanks for being there along with me. This past year, it's. You guys have been an amazing help.
Sal
Thank you, man. Good job, brother.
Adam
Yeah, great job.
Sal
Thank you. That's. This is just so good for people to hear who go on a diet or who use a GLP one, which, you know, really helps with the. Your body adapts and then you're. That's it. And you're stuck. And look, here's a guy that's 6 foot, 230 pounds, a big dude. He's working out six days a week. That's very low calorie for a dude like that size, moving that much. That's very low.
Adam
And he's doing other activities. Hiking, walking.
Sal
Of course, he's exhausted when he goes and tries to eat.
Doug
Barely any carbs and all that too. Yeah, he's energy has to be.
Sal
I mean, you got to eat more, you know, a guy that size doing that much activity typically is going to be around 3,000 calories and lean.
Adam
No. I'll tell you a bit of him that's in an anomaly. The fact that he was able to lose £90 and less than 10 of that B muscle is a testament to how cons I already, without even knowing this guy well enough protein. He was weights. He was consistent with his protein and he lifted weights through this process. That is the only way you lose 90 pounds in GLP1 and don't lose. And don't lose 50, 40, 50 pounds of muscle along the way. Most people just cut the calories so they dramatically decrease their protein intake. They don't have the energy to lift weights consistently, and sure, they lose the 90 pounds, but half of it is muscle. The fact that he was able to sustain that is a testament to his high protein intake consistently and the fact that he was hitting weights.
Justin
Our next caller is Sam from Kentucky.
Sal
What's up, Sam?
Adam
How you doing?
Doug
What's up?
Sam
Hey, guys, how's it going?
Sal
Good, man. How can we help you?
Adam
Good.
Doug
All right.
Sam
I'll just do the normal thing. Read down my question. I changed a little things because, you know, this was about a month and a half ago, so a couple things have changed since then, but I'll read down. So I'm currently in like a pretty aggressive fat loss recomposition journey. I'm 34,6ft currently. Way 286 I weighed this morning. I've been lifting weights for a really long time, so I'm kind of past the whole, like, newbie gains phase. But I still think I can. I can get a lot of muscle mass on me. I'm not, you know, close to that limit or anything like that. Years ago, I lost £100. I went from 350 to 250, gained it all back. I didn't really have a mechanism in place or a process in place for like maintaining that. And it just, I gained it back pretty quickly also, like, I lost a lot of muscle in that process. Like even no matter how much I lifted in the gym, I could, and I didn't really lift hard or anything, but I could just tell like I was weaker. And so that caused me a lot of lean mass loss. I think I gained a lot of it back obviously when I gained the weight back. But so this time I'm doing things a little differently. I started zapbound about six months ago. Really good friend of mine is an obesity medicine doctor, and so he sort of gave me some parameters and he said, hit 200 plus protein, grams of protein daily, 80 ounces of water, 40 grams of fiber, and lift a lot. And so I kind of took that to heart and I used to lift a lot more like six times a week. And that tired me out real quickly. I, I could feel myself over training. So now I'm trying to do about two to three full body days and then two more focus days on, on what I, you know, kind of what I want to work on or anything like that and try to get steps in as well. Getting around on average 6,500 a day. I try to hit more, especially when it's warmer out, go for a walk in the middle of the day or something like that and trying to get that up to at least 8,000. Obviously it's difficult on a GLP1, but trying to eat, you know, before I was going around 1800 calories a day. I've upped that to probably like over 2000-22, 23, 2400, which again, it's not easy on a GLP1, but I don't want to like severely cut my calories too much and that would tap into my muscle. So I guess my question would be like, am I doing anything or is there anything I should do differently? I, I, eventually, yes, I'm still pretty far away from where I want to be, but yeah, what should I be doing differently either in my training or nutrition?
Adam
Yeah, your doctor almost gave great advice. Like the, we were hitting it out the park the beginning there. So like the, the protein, great hydration, fiber, great training is, is overdoing it and the amount of training you're doing and cardio is way too much in relation to where your calories are. It's just that and, and how big of a guy you are. You're not a little petite. I mean that's like a diet for 135 pound girl. You're, you're a big guy. You, you're, and you're moving. You're not like a big guy who's sedentary. You're a big guy who's moving and training. You're just gonna, if you haven't already hit a hard plateau, you're gonna hit a hard plateau and the body's just not gonna respond.
Sal
You probably feel tired, you probably don't feel like you recover well, you're probably not very, feeling very strong. Sam, you're saying, you said when you're talking about your calories, you're saying probably around this, that and the other. Do you know for sure or are you just guessing?
Sam
No, I track pretty, pretty consistently and just, just, you know, I, I get at least 2, 000, but it's usually in like the 2200 range. It's just every day is a little different. So one day it might be 22, one day it might be 24.
Sal
So. So unless you lower your dose of Zepbound because that's terzepatide, so it's gonna be hard to eat more and you're probably already feeling like you're stuffing yourself. Yeah, yeah, it's really hard. So you, your routine should be maps 15 and you should aim for 8,000 steps a day. And that's it. If that's what you're gonna do with your diet.
Adam
Walking too? Not running.
Sal
No, no. Walking. Yeah, that's it.
Sam
Yeah, that's what I do. I, I don't like the treadmill. I, the only real running I do is I'll play basketball once a week.
Sal
No, no, you need to stop all that. Unless you decide. Unless you're increase your calories. Yeah, yeah. 2000-2400 calories for 280 pound six foot dude is really low. And your strength training is going to be maps 15. Like, so you're doing like two lifts a day. That's it. By the way, you'll get stronger on that.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Okay. And no other cardio except for, you know, hitting your steps. And that's it. Unless you're, you're, you're gonna start bumping your calories. What that'll probably look like is you talk to your doctor and you say, hey, can I lower my dose? Because I need to get my calories up to 20, you know, just to start with like 2600. But if you keep lifting. You know, if you're lifting two, three full day plus two focus sessions plus you're doing basketball and you're eating that few of calories like, like you're. It's. It's gonna be hard, dude. Your body's gonna just.
Adam
Not just hard. You're done. You're not gonna keep going. This is, this is what happens to everybody who's been on a GLP1 is eventually they hit a plateau where they're just eating too little for the amount of activity that they're doing and the body's no longer responding like it was when they first got on it. So it's super common. And the answer is to reverse diet out of this. And one of the things we want to do is bring down the intensity of training and. Or volume of training, which you've. You've got a lot of. You've got a lot of training you're doing right now. Anything high intensity like basketball gotta go. Just you're not fueling the body and supporting that. It's only working against your results right now. Not saying it's quit basketball forever, but you need to be like over 3, 000 calories and feeling good and strong to do something like basketball inside your routine. Eating in the low 2000s, training that much just. It's. It's. It's too much. Your. Your body's got not gonna respond the way you want it to. So revert, reversing out mass 15. Do you. What maps 15. You want them on?
Sal
Wow. Yeah. I mean we go original. We can go with power lift.
Doug
Yeah, that's right.
Sal
Do you like the. Do you like. Yeah. Do you. Do you like. You guys, you like going to the gym, right? You don't want to work out power lift?
Adam
Yeah, I like.
Sam
I go to the gym five days a week. I've actually noticed some good strength gains since scaling back from like six days a week.
Adam
Of course.
Sal
Full body days. Of course. So it's gonna get better.
Adam
By the. By the way, that just. That's just an example of how you much you needed that. You do it again. Watch what happened. It'll go up again.
Sal
Yeah. Let's send a mass 15 power lift. Yeah. And so follow that. And when you'll be going to the gym most days, but you're only doing one or two lifts and the rest of the time you can walk to get your steps up.
Adam
Yeah, walking's fine.
Sal
You.
Adam
You. If you want to stay busy, you got extra time. Walking is totally fine. But stick with that and Then the protocol, and then bump your calories at least 2, 300 from where you're at right now. So if. And if that's difficult, then this is where you got to go back to the doctor and say, hey, can I lower my dose? I need or can I. Can I get a little bit less so I can eat a little bit more? And that's the plan right now is we got a reverse diet out of this.
Sam
Okay, I. I think I can do that. Honestly, like, even now, my protein, like, you, like, you guys know with GLP1s, it's hard and very hard. A lot of it is like shakes. That's the only way I can get it in.
Sal
That's right. Yeah, that's right.
Adam
Yeah. Super hard. Yep. Super common, dude.
Sam
Okay.
Adam
Yep.
Sam
Great. That's a great plan.
Sal
Okay, Sam, you got it, man.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
Let us know how it goes.
Sam
Thanks, guys.
Sal
You got it, brother. This, you know, we predicted this, but it's getting crazy. The demand for coaches is only going to go up once because it's. It's not.
Doug
There's not good advice.
Sal
It's a tool. It's not the solution.
Doug
It's a great tool, but it has to be used.
Sal
Right. It was wild to us when we first. Now as we see so many people that talk to us, but. But you would see people who would lose 35, 40, 50 pounds, they'd have another 30 pounds to go and they'd plateau and you look at their calories. You're like, you're at 1200 calories.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
And you have 30 more pounds.
Doug
Yeah.
Adam
Fatigued.
Sal
Like, this is. We have to figure this out.
Adam
I linked up this weekend with five of my buddies. I used to run around back with my. In my 20s. All like, they used to be like, all jacked. Everyone was into working out, lifting weights, all the things. They're all married, fathers, kids. Most of them have a bunch of little girls. Great time catching up with them, the five. Right. So. And. And their wives. So there's 10 of us there. Of the 10, eight are on GLP1s. Of the eight that are on GLP1s, none of them should be that. That is where we're at right now. I mean, it's like it felt like overnight now I've got. And I. And who knows how many other people that are somewhat connected to me that are. That aren't admitting it, telling me these are just.
Doug
I just think it's like a fat burning.
Adam
Yes. Everybody is just hopping on it as, like a way because it just.
Sal
It's going to be 70% of America.
Adam
Yeah. I mean, that you. That call is so on point now. When I see it hit, like, a circle of my friends like that. Very, very obvious to me.
Doug
Yeah.
Sam
You know.
Justin
So our next caller is Dallin from Utah.
Sal
What's up, Dallin?
Doug
What's up, man?
Sam
Hey, guys.
Sal
Thanks for having me on.
Adam
Yep.
Sal
How can we help you?
Dallin
So my question, it's less of a case of something that's, like, clearly not working and more just trying to optimize and get the most out of the time I'm putting in. I'm a busy guy. I've got three young kids, got a busy career. I carve out, you know, four to five days a week to lift and prioritize. Prioritize strength training, trying to build muscle. And I usually have about 45 minutes to an hour. And so as I've been trying to build more muscle, I focused a lot on taking reps close to failure or, you know, one or two reps in reserve. And when I do that, I feel like in order to be ready to go for the next set, I. I need, like, three minutes, sometimes even more in between each set.
Sal
And so that.
Dallin
That drags out the exercise that it makes it so that I'm only getting, you know, maybe five different exercises in a session by the time you factor in all the time between, um, which feels like the volume is. I'm always worried in the back of my head, like, would it be better to do more volume and lower the weight a little bit so I can cut down those rest periods? Does that make sense?
Sal
Yeah. No, you're fine.
Adam
No, you're doing good.
Justin
What.
Adam
What program are you following?
Dallin
I'm not following one of yours. I've actually just kind of made it my own through the years based on different things I've seen listening to you guys.
Sal
There's your problem.
Adam
Here's your first. I mean, I think you do great on, like, a Maps 15 protocol.
Sal
Yeah, okay. Yeah, listen, you can. You can if you can do either. Okay, so what? You said you could rest a minute. Here's the deal. You can rest a long time between sets. Yeah. But don't. Don't make it any less than a minute. Less than a minute, and it starts to not really be strength training anymore for the most part. Right. So between one to five minutes in between sets or more is perfectly fine. Five exercises in a workout is great. Plenty.
Sam
Plenty.
Sal
Yeah. So you can do. You can try doing where you do less weight so you can move faster, but you're Trying to put on mass and size. I'm looking at you right now. You're probably more of an ectomorph. You're better off going with the longer rest periods. Go heavier up your calories and you'll get better gains.
Doug
I think mass 15 or a power lift.
Sal
Mass 15, power lift.
Adam
That's in that gym. Yeah.
Doug
Okay.
Adam
It's kind of feel you. If you already were thinking it's less volume with what you're doing right now and was worried it's going to feel like that even more. But just keep focusing on what you're saying. Get strong.
Doug
Yep.
Adam
Get strong. Okay. Give long rest periods. Get good at those lifts. That. And then as so long as you're consistent, too, with hitting your protein and calories. So that's the other piece of this puzzle. If you go in and you do this great lifting program and then you're inconsistent with, you know, hitting your grams of protein, you're going to be spinning your wheels.
Sal
That's right.
Adam
You're gonna. You're gonna be moving good, and that's gonna be. That's good for you. But if you want to build muscle, you got to give it the building blocks consistently. So the two things you focus on is that Mass 15 protocol, having your meals ready for you so you can hit that protein intake, and I guarantee you're going to see the results.
Sal
Yeah, here's how. Here's how. You know, Dylan, you. You follow the program like, like that we're going to give you. You'll get stronger by the second week, and then you'll know, okay, this is working. Okay. Yep. That's easy.
Adam
Are you good about hitting your food?
Dallin
I am. Yeah. I know. I've gotten. This year, I've gotten really dialed in. I've, you know, got my nutrition better than it ever has been. I lost like 45 pounds at the.
Adam
Beginning of the year.
Sal
Good for you, man.
Dallin
Body fat and.
Sal
Wow. Good for you, dude.
Dallin
In the past, you know, since about May, June, I just. Just been focused on building muscle, and I've seen, you know, some decent gains. It's just always that question in the back of my head of like, okay, I'm at the 80, 85% level. How can I get the extra 5 or 10, you know, how do I get the most?
Doug
Yeah, we'll turbocharge it here.
Sal
Yeah, dude, you know when they talk volume. Let me just help you out down. Because you sound like it sounds to me, correct me if I'm wrong, that you'll read studies and you'll read Articles. Is that, is that what you do? Okay, totally. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So. And that can get you spinning all over the place. And what the articles are going to say is that volume and progressively increasing volume is closely connected to hypertrophy. Strength is very closely connected to hypertrophy. Especially in the first few years, you just lost a lot of weight. So now you're in that kind of strength building phase. You're going to be there for at least a few years. That's what I would chase. But consider this. Every time you add a rep or you add a pound, you've added volume. It's not just sets. So it's not just how many sets I do. Like, if you added 10 pounds to your squat and you did the same three sets, you just went up in volume. So if we drop your sets down, how do you follow our program like this, and you get stronger, your volume is going to be good. Not to mention, in the first few years of trying to build muscle, the best possible thing you could do is chase strength. Now, strength isn't a great correlate for hypertrophy later. Once you're hitting, like big numbers and you're getting real strong, then the risk factor is high. And then this is. Gaining 30 pounds on your lifts isn't going to correlate as strongly to muscle, but right now it's going to for sure. Like, if I gave you £30 more on your squat, I guarantee your legs would look a lot bigger.
Adam
Not to mention this way of progressive overload in the body, this organic way that Sal's talking about, where you just get stronger and you add 5 or 10 pounds to a lift every week. Week is a much better approach than what most people do. Most people do like, okay, this is what I did last week. So now I'll do an extra set of this and I'll do one more exercise. And now I'll go to five sets of every. Like, that's what people do. Adding. It's way too much, way too fast, and they hit a plateau or go back the other direction. Just do this, do this, this minimalist type of program. Try and get really strong. If you're getting stronger, you are progressively overloading the body. And that will take you quite a ways that those three months of doing that and paired with making sure you hit that, that protein tape, making sure you're feeding the body what it needs, and you're going to grow, you're going to grow 100.
Sal
Okay, cool.
Dallin
Thanks, guys.
Adam
Cool.
Sal
You got it, man.
Adam
Send that over to you, man.
Sal
Okay, yeah, this is, you know, we should have a, a more detailed, maybe we'll do at the beginning of this episode on progressive overload because there's a lot of confusion around this, especially with the studies that come out.
Doug
Right.
Sal
And I'm going to say this right now in the first, conservatively, okay. First three years of consistent strength training, not three years of inconsistent, but three years of actually really being consistent with strength training. Get strong. Nothing will build muscle like getting strong.
Adam
Well, that naturally does the progressive overload.
Sal
Now as you get more advanced, it gets tricky, right? So you know, if you've been strength training consistently for five years and you've built a great physique and you're really strong now, it's a really tricky game. And no, you can't progressively overload forever. If that was the case, look, I've been lifting weights since I was 14. I would be working out for 15 hours a day in order to continue progressing. It doesn't work that way. In fact, oftentimes the way it works as you get more advanced is you figure out how to scale down, give your body what it needs. It's a much trickier game. It's not so straightforward. Just do more. It doesn't work that way.
Justin
Our next caller is Dustin from California.
Sal
What's up, Dustin?
Adam
What's going on, Dustin?
Kevin
Hi guys.
Dustin
Thank you for taking my question. It's, it's an honor to meet you guys. You guys have been so inspirational over the years. It's, it's really exciting to talk to you guys.
Sal
Thanks man. How can we help you?
Dustin
So I wrote you guys a really long letter. I'm going to try my best to summarize it. You know, I've been, I've been stuck despite really doing this fitness thing for quite a few years. And honestly, I don't know if anybody that saw me would even know that I go to the gym. So I feel like after this much time I should be further ahead than I am. And I was. I'm willing to be open minded and just take your advice and see what you guys have. For me, a little background is my entire life I've been really on this diet, lose weight kind of mentality. I've had multiple really big swings in weight over the years. I've done unhealthy diets. I've been caught in that binge restrict cycle I do. You know, I was in the military so I got some ptsd, which leads to some, some poor sleep. So it's really not uncommon for me to wake up two or three times a night. And I admittedly, you know, usually get up and use food as kind of a comfort. And, and so I'll easily add a couple thousand calories, you know, on a night if I, if I, you know, don't let my, if I don't keep that in check, you know, as a mailman for many years, that's when I found you guys. And I've been listening ever since. I did in 2019. I got, I realized I had a problem with alcohol. So I got, I got sober. And, and so that's playing a part in. So what that led to is I became a counselor. And then so I left my job as a mailman and had a desk job for the most part. So I lost a lot of physical activity. And so I'm 43, I weigh 255, I'm 6 foot. I've never really done an intentional bulk. I've played with macros a lot. So my number two question is, given some of my bigger swings with my diet, is have I ever even been in a cut or has it when I swing the other way and kind of go off of my diet, does that equate to enough calories where it is almost like a bulk? You know, I tracked last week. I didn't try to diet, I didn't try to do anything special. And I was eating about 4,000 calories, just adding in all those extra little snacks and things like that. So where I'm at now is I currently do a five day split. I put my calories at about 2,500 calories a week. I do some incline walking on the treadmill maybe a couple times a week. And based on some things you guys said I did, I changed my 4 to 6 rep range to 10 to 12 reps for about four weeks. And then I just came back on my 4 to 6 reps and I noticed I was able to add some more weight to the bar, which has been really nice. I've been on TRT for the last couple months and you know, my goal is honestly just aesthetic. I want to build strength and muscle, have a lower body fat percentage and really just, just look good. And then since I wrote that letter, I left my job as a counselor, kind of decided to take some time off and really just kind of work on some, just my own mental health kind of thing. And so I've been doing some like therapy with the V.A. and that said, I have a lot more free time. So going to the gym five, six days a week is really definitely like the main part of my structure of my day and I definitely, it's kind of like another therapy is just getting to the gym and I enjoy it and I, I really like you know, lifting weights and you know, I don't do a ton of cardio, like I said, just walking a couple times a week. So the questions that I had mentioned for you guys was I was wondering if you guys have mind pump personal trainers and if that's something I should be investing in to kind of see where I'm going wrong and. But my main, my real question is what's really blocking me from making progress. I don't really know what I should be doing exactly with my diet and training wise. I don't know if it's just a problem of patience or if it's a consistency problem or if maybe there's something else I'm just missing entirely. So that's kind of where I'm at right now.
Sal
Hey man, I appreciate you calling and Dustin, God bless you.
Adam
Yeah.
Sal
You came from. You've come a long way.
Dallin
Yeah.
Sal
From where you. From what you've described, you've come a long, long way. So you're doing really well. You're at the point now where we have to figure out the root of the behaviors, change that and then the behaviors will change. If we focus on the behaviors, and that's part of the process as well. But if we just focus on the behaviors and the look and don't solve the root of what's driving those, it's going to be a very, very difficult battle. Now, I have a question for you. I know you were working with people as a counselor. Were you helping them with their own sobriety? Were you helping people through sobriety and all that? Correct?
Dustin
Yeah, I was. I've worked a couple different programs, like an outpatient and inpatient. The last one I worked at was a detox center. So it was people that were really just getting over that, you know, initially starting in their sobriety.
Sal
Okay. And were you getting a good sense of purpose from that, helping other people?
Dustin
I do get a lot of purpose from helping others, so which is what led me to start in that field. I do also do some like AA type stuff, so I can help others even on my own personal time too.
Sal
Good for you. That's one of the best things you could do is help others. It's other focused. So some of the challenges, sometimes this is especially even more true with men is when we focus too much on ourselves and our insides, we get in this kind of downward spiral. It's actually a hallmark of depression is lots of self focus. But doing for others, especially helping others in areas that we need help in, really tends to help us quite a bit move in the right direction. So I, I, if I were, you know, you said you're working with a therapist. I would consult with them and say, hey, do you think I should go back to counseling and working with people just to give me kind of that sense of purpose? I think that'll help you a lot. You asked if we have trainers and coaches. We do. It says you're in California. Are you near, you don't have to tell us where you're at, but are you near San Jose? Because I'd like to see you in person, if possible.
Dustin
Yeah, no, I'm not too far away from you guys.
Sal
Okay, here's what we're gonna do.
Adam
Dustin, we have personal training in person and virtually.
Sal
I want you to come here. Yeah. If we're not too far, we're in San Jose. So if we're less than 30, if we're, you know, if we're somewhat convenient, I'd like to see you in our studio working with someone in person. Wow.
Dustin
Yeah, I'd love that.
Sal
All right, I'm gonna set you up with an assessment with one of our trainers in person here at the studio. When you come in, you make sure you say hi to us.
Sam
Okay.
Sal
And that's the best possible thing you can do in this direction if you combine that with helping others. Because our coaches have been trained by us. Okay. So they know what to do. Fitness and diet, like, that's the bar. That's like the minimum. Right. You gotta know that. But they're really good at getting people to the point where this becomes a lifestyle that's healthy and relaxed and not stressful, one that is not, is no longer this crazy, stressful struggle for you. Okay. Like, in other words, Dustin, imagine what it would be like if eating healthy and taking care of yourself is something you, you really enjoy doing and you wanted to do. And if you felt stressed out, if you reached for something else, that was that, that served you better than the quick comfort of, let's say, food, or for some people it's alcohol. Other people, it's other thing. If it was something not destructive, if it was something that was really serving you. Right, Imagine what that would feel like. This is what our trainers would, would work on with you. And I like that you'd be here because we would see you. So we're here, we're here at Least three days a week, all day. And so we'd see you come in here, so I'll have somebody reach out to you, man. Okay.
Dustin
Yeah, that'd be amazing. I really appreciate it. It's. It's awesome just talking to you guys, too.
Sal
Yeah, I appreciate. Hey, listen, I appreciate you calling. I also. I want to encourage you, dude. You've come a long way.
Adam
Yeah. Yeah.
Sal
You've really come along. I mean, if you. If you think back, you don't need to give me details, but I'm sure if you think back, you're. You're probably in a completely different place than you were. You're just. Now you're just like, okay, there's another level here that I want to, you know, get to. And we can definitely help you with that. So.
Doug
Yep.
Adam
Got you, dude.
Dustin
That'd be awesome. Well, thank you, guys. I really appreciate it.
Sal
You're gonna get a call here probably within the next hour.
Adam
Yep.
Dustin
Okay.
Adam
And hopefully we'll see. See you soon, man.
Doug
Yep.
Sam
All right.
Dustin
I look forward to meeting you guys.
Adam
All right.
Sal
Thanks, brother. Take care. Yeah. Yeah. That's a ptsd. Really, really hard. The fact that he stopped drinking alcohol, man, that's phenomenal.
Doug
Huge.
Sal
That's phenomenal. And food is. I mean, look, yes, you can abuse food, but he's working on it. But I. You know, one of the most helpful things that you could do is work with other people who need help in a similar area, because you can help them. It makes you feel good.
Adam
Yeah. We didn't ask him. I was kind of curious why he quit. That he know, you know, especially since he knew it was serving him and it helped him. I wonder what the. The reason behind quitting it.
Sal
It was, you know, I don't know. I'm gonna guess so. You're right. We should ask them that. I'm gonna guess, but probably because it got stressful. Yeah. You know, I know when. If I coach enough people with body dysmorphia, I start looking at myself real straight, you know, and it's like.
Adam
Oh.
Sal
And it makes it a little bit more difficult sometimes, which is a good thing. Yeah. But I'm gonna guess that's what it was, So. I don't know. I don't know.
Adam
It's a good guess. I mean, and then. And maybe that's what's catapulted him into. Okay, I'm gonna get down this, and I'm gonna go fix myself.
Sal
But, bro, we got him in here. You guys with one of our trainers.
Adam
Yeah. I hope he's close.
Sal
He's gonna be a great.
Adam
Is he telling you how close he is or.
Justin
No, it doesn't show.
Sal
Yeah, but he's. I said San Jose. He says it's convenient. So let's. Let's make it happen, dude. It'd be great to see him. Yeah.
Adam
Yeah, absolutely.
Sal
Look, if you like the show, come find us on Instagram. We'll see you. It's at Mind Pump Media.
Justin
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Hosts: Sal Di Stefano, Adam Schafer, Justin Andrews, Doug Egge
Date: December 31, 2025
This episode unpacks five simple, research-backed tests anyone can do at home—no doctor or bloodwork required—that serve as surprisingly accurate predictors of mortality. The Mind Pump team discusses these tests, the science behind them, and why they often outperform more traditional assessments like body fat percentage. The hosts also coach several live callers on overcoming fitness plateaus, effective use of GLP-1 medications, and lifestyle issues impacting health.
The tone is classic Mind Pump: equal parts science, empathy, and irreverence, with several detours into cultural trends, the realities of aging, and why strength training is the king of exercises for life and health.
Grip Strength
Single-Leg Balance Test
Sit-to-Stand Test (from a Chair)
Sit-to-Rise Test (Floor, No Hands)
Push-Up Test
Group Reflection:
Strength Training Outranks All
Balance and Aging:
Young Men, Social Skills, and Modern Challenges:
Purpose, Identity, and the Rosenthal Effect:
On Tests vs. Bloodwork:
On Sit-to-Rise Test:
On Falling/Frailty:
On Strength Training:
On Young Men & Social Skills:
On Identity & Children:
On Reverse Dieting:
Highly Actionable Closing Wisdom:
[23:07] Doug: “Increases range of motion and strength in that range of motion. People think a lot of strength training now is limiting. No—within the proper context, it’s the opposite.”
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