Kyle (Caller) (93:42)
Awesome. Now, regarding my question, I have it written out here just so I don't ramble. I tend to do that, that. So I'll try to stay on point here, but I'll summarize my question and just kind of fill you in on my backstory just so you have my current situation, just for context and all that. Okay. So, simply put, it's my 35th birthday this week, and as always, I'm looking to upgrade my life and health in any way I can each year. And I've learned that without health, life basically sucks. So the more you can improve that, especially the older I get, the better. So I feel like I've kind of reached training midlife crisis in a way to put it. I'm looking for some enlightenment on how to continue here and just move on to a new chapter into my fitness. Trying to kind of overcome a plateau and just try to adapt a new way of training. I also have one semi unique lifestyle factor that I'm trying to learn, how to turn that challenge into an annual benefit here. So in terms of my backstory here, you can feel free to tell me to shut up at any point, but I'll just try to fill you in here. All right. So I began my life in a state of poor health and obesity, unfortunately. And that was about the age of 10 or 11. And at that point, I remember. I still remember to this day, I was looking at the scale, and it reached 200 pounds. And I was like, man, once I. I reach 200 pounds, I got to do something. And then it kind of continued, and I reached 210 pounds. Then I was like, okay, that in combination with, of course, being a kid, you have that motivation of the bullies and all that stuff, right? So it was time to make a change. And being a young kid, I honestly had no education, like, no knowledge of what to do. So I remember starting my workouts. I do just like 10 body weight, squats, spots. At night, I'd be like, tired, like, okay, that's my start. That's. That's the go for it. So that was that. And in terms of diet, I really had no idea. So after seeing zero progress, after a bit, I was still motivated to change. So I read one, the first book I found on the subject, which basically just told me to eat real food. And it gave me A basic weight training program. So I started that and that was really hard. Even just changing food. Going from Oreos to an apple took me like two weeks. I just spat out the apple. I couldn't. It just didn't taste like it wasn't sweet enough. Right. So I was going through that transformation and about two years of following that, I. Yeah, two years of following that, I continued to lose weight. I ended up losing about 50 pounds. I, I reached down to about 160, 170. And I basically maintained that until my early 30s and I still didn't really know what I was doing. And looking back on all this, it really just like I didn't really notice the transformations like physically as they developed. I was more focused on the mental aspects. I realized that like my mental health got so much better and that's kind of why I continued. And so I just kept doing that. But I was strictly kind of more cardio based until my early 30s really. And it came to another point where my wife was pointing out, she's like, Kyle, you work out every day, but you look so weak. You know, like you're weak, you're skinnier than the other dudes. And I was like, oh man, that's. That's kind of something. And I was like, yeah, I guess so. And, and that's when I started getting into the weight training. So I found you guys and I started listening. I ended up getting map split and I started adapting that I gave into. I was like, okay, I'm just going to go to the gym. I'm going to start lifting weights finally. And within a year of doing that, I honestly, I gained like 10 pounds, which I imagine is muscle. Like I didn't gain fat. I was mostly muscle there. And I really started to notice for the first time a difference. Difference. And that was just like basic weight training, like the split program there. And I, I just absolutely love that, that method of training. Since then, my wife has noticed a difference as well. And now she started weight training as well, which is great. I got her maps 15 for Christmas and it's kind of like getting her there. We just got the kids at home now, so that really works well. So I actually stopped going to the gym. We work out at home now. I invest in some weights here. And at this point, yeah, like, I'm just really looking for like, I've done the split style and I feel like I'm still getting stronger, but at the same time I, I haven't really been seeing much progress lately. I'm I'm starting to kind of feel like I'm peaking, like I'm adding a little bit of weight here and there. But I hear you guys talking about, like changing things up, up throughout the year or adding different kind of dynamic movements or ways to go about it. I'm just curious from someone who, like, given my training background so far and just following the split style, if there's anything I could be doing to really help. I want to get a little bit stronger still and kind of just overcome this and move on to a new chapter of strength building. Basically, the.