Dr. Rhoberta Shaler is the 'Relationship Help Doctor'. She helps people fix relationships in crisis and find calm again. She works with partners, exes, adult children, and coworkers dealing with difficult people she calls “Hijackals.” She teaches clear steps to protect your peace, set limits, and stop the chaos. Even the United States Marines have asked for her guidance. She works with clients worldwide online and is a speaker and the author of 16 books.

Contact Info

Website: www.ForRelationshipHelp.com
Free Book: www.Hijackals.com
Podcast: Emotional Savvy: The Relationship Help Show'
Podcast: Save Your Sanity: Help For Handling Hijackals
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Most Influential Person

Joel Goldsmith (Author)

Effect on Emotions

I think mindfulness levels your emotions. It doesn't take out the peaks and valleys, but you understand that you choose the state that you stay in.

Thoughts on Breathing

Breathing deeply is essential. When you relax your shoulders, open your chest, and take a slow breath, your body begins to reset.
Within about 20 seconds, oxygen moves through your bloodstream, refreshing you.
This simple act helps your body recharge, calm down, and think more clearly, making it easier to handle stress and stay focused.

Suggested Resources

Book: The Heart of Mysticism: The Infinite Way Letters 1955-1959 by Joel Goldsmith
App: Cell Phone Alarm

Bullying Story

I spent many years in education as a teacher and later a school administrator.
At one point, I created a daily circle where students, including those with special needs, sat quietly together with their parents. This helped reduce conflict and build connection.
Later, I led a school for at-risk teens and focused on calm, care, and consistency instead of control. Over time, behavior improved greatly, and student retention grew from three months to no openings for 18 months.