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Submarine Guy, Middle East, Nerd Cities | Monday Morning Podcast 6-23-25
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Bill Burr
Hey, what's going on? It's Bill Burr and it's time for the Monday morning podcast for Monday, June 23, 2025. What's going on? How are ya? How's it going? How is it going for you? I'm very excited, very excited. It is the final, the 16th and final week of Glengarry Glen Ross on Broadway at the Palace Theater, 47th and 7th. Been over there for a good four or five months at this point. Could not have had a better time. Could not have been working with better people. It was awesome. I'm going to enjoy this week, enjoy the people that I'm working with. It's been, it's been great. I cannot believe it's, it's gonna be over this week. It's gonna be weird. I'm not gonna lie to you. As excited as I am to be back with my wife and kids, you know, this, this was obviously a milestone gig. So thank you to everybody involved and especially thanks to Nathan Lane who got the whole thing going, suggesting me to the director, Patrick Marber. And the rest, as they say, is history. Speaking of history, the Florida Panthers, congratulations with Brad Marchand back to back Stanley Cups and their third Stanley cup final in a row, I believe they lost to Vegas. Then they. Last year they beat Edmonton. This year they beat Edmonton. My condolences to Edmonton and all of Canada except for Calgary, because even they secretly probably were happy despite the fact the cup hasn't been there since 1993. The fucking Panthers are just relentless. Fucking relentless. And I don't know when they went up to Edmonton and won that game five up there after this series was tied, I was just. These fucking guys, they just, they just don't, they don't, they don't rattle. And I don't know, Marshawn had like nine zillion goals. It sucks watching him win that with Florida, but I'm happy for him. And then the Red Sox trade Devers to San Francisco, which made no sense to me. He's a Hall of Famer, he's not even 30 years old yet. And we get a bunch of pitchers I haven't heard of. I don't know what's going on. I don't know what's going on in Boston sports. I think the Red Sox plan, for whatever reason is they're trying to strengthen the National League West. I think that's what they're going to do. I think they're, you know, Xander Bogarts goes to fucking the Padres, Mookie Betts goes to the Dodgers and Now Devers goes to San Francisco. I mean, I don't know what it is about that division, but you're welcome. I don't know what you guys gave for any of those players. Xander was free agency. I don't. I don't want to go through is what it is, as the kids say. I don't know. I was hoping we would go, oh, and then fucking Chris Sales down in. In Atlanta, and all of a sudden he can fucking pitch. What did he do for the Red Sox? All he did was get hurt and then break a tv. Who knows? But, you know, I'm happy he's healthy again. I don't know what you know. It's a game of runs. It's a game of streaks, as they talk about in the NBA. Speaking of the NBA. Oh, Billy watched some sports this week. I watched game seven, OKC and the Pacers. I mean, Halliburton comes out, hits three, three pointers. And I'm like, oh, my God, this kid is establishing himself as a superstar of the future. And I felt that. I was like, this game is going to come down to the wire, and if the ball gets in this kid's hands, they might actually do this. And then right as I was thinking that, they said it was a calf injury. I hope it wasn't Achilles, although that's what people are saying. He goes down, like in the first quarter. Just fucking took the wind out of the whole fucking game seven, I felt. But then all of a sudden, the Pacers stayed with him and they stayed with them and they hung around. Then in the fucking third quarter or something, I don't know. Pacers were down by four. OKC goes on a 192 run, and they just never recovered. I think they got it as close as 11 or 9. They knocked it down to that, but that was about it. Sort of anticlimactic after that. Congratulations to the Oklahoma City Thunder winning their first championship and the franchise's first championship, I want to say, since 1979, when they were the Seattle SuperSonics with Downtown Freddie Brown, way back in the day. Dennis Johnson, rest his soul. I know people in Seattle, at least I saw they were kind of rooting against okc, which I get. Oh, by the way, shout out to Miami, shout out to Florida. Knowing so little about hockey that the last two years is the only time Gary Bettman has not gotten booed when he goes to hand out the Stanley Cup. They're so new to hockey, they didn't even know they were supposed to boo the guy. They're like, yay. The next time somebody asks me about getting booted, Philly, I'll be like, that's fucking nothing. Gary Bettman gets booed every year when he goes to hand out the Stanley cup and he knows it's coming. At least I didn't know it was coming. He actually got cheered. I was sitting there watching. It took me a second. I was like, wait a minute. This guy's been getting booed for, like, 30 straight fucking years. They used to boo Ziegler before him. They've always booed the commissioner. I. You know what's funny is at this point, I don't even. I don't even think most fans even know why we're booing them. It's just. It just became like a tradition. You just. You had to do it. That's the commissioner of the NHL. Boo him. And then you go to Florida, right? Well, you know, Florida is. It's like, it's the south, but it ain't the south, but it's the South. You know, I'm saying, like, they just. They do shit a little different down there anyway, so congratulations to them. And, I don't know, I got. I got some shit to talk about this week. I started to watch this documentary on that submersible that went down to the Titanic and imploded, and all of those poor people died, right? And my lovely wife's going, you want to watch this? You know. You know, women, you know, first 48, murder, she wrote, any sort of murder or death. For some reason, it's soothing for them, you know, to watch it right before they go to bed. Like that great SNL sketch that they did on it. It's so fucking true. It's like, you know, I don't think I want to watch people get crazy, crushed to death from the pressure of the water. I'm a terrified of the ocean. Like, I. I don't know if I want to just go, come on, let's just watch it. I go, and she goes, all right, well, you want to watch this one on the crackhead mayor of Toronto. And I'm looking at his face and what he was accused of and how he was lying and all of that. I'm like, nah, I can watch the real time version of that anytime I want at this point, I don't want to watch that. So we end up sitting down watching that, the Titanic one. And I. I have to tell you, like, this should be required viewing by anybody who is not a narcissist. It's. I don't even Know where to begin with this guy. Full on narcissist, psychopath. This is, this is psychological makeup. It's called the dark triad. And any person who's not a fucking narcissist should know about it and should be looking for these traits in people. So you don't date it, you don't work for it, it's not in your life or anything. It's, it's basically three sides of the triangle. It's, it's narcissism, Machiavelli, ism and psychopath. And just know that all of those are like, they don't have to be 10 out of 10. You can just be on the spectrum. And that fucking personality, you combine that with the greed of corporations, that personality is what ascends to the CEO level. And it rewards them. Because every quarter, no matter how much a corporation makes money, it's not enough and they need to make more. So at some point what they have to do has to start becoming underhanded and that's what weeds out decent people. Same thing in politics. Why can't we get somebody decent who's not an absolute psycho to run for fucking president? Because they get weeded out, okay? Like you look at war, okay, you're looking at these fucking missiles just flying into these cities where now because of cell phones, you can see it. Just regular people walking around on both sides. Okay, here's the deal. All normal people who don't have that psychological makeup, they couldn't take a fucking crossbow and just ran in a field and randomly just point it and shoot it without fucking looking to make sure they wouldn't hit anybody. There's no fucking way. Like if I was in a position of power, okay, there's no fucking way I would say, you know, shoot these missiles into a fucking city. I couldn't live with myself and the people on the other side with the same fucking regular person. I actually care about not killing somebody. They couldn't do it. But you get these fucking dark triad psychos in there and they can fucking do it. And you watch this, this, I'm bringing it back to this submarine thing. The guy was a full on fucking psycho, total fucking narcissist, right that, right there, right, that you cannot get into a submarine, an airplane, anything where your life is at risk and have a narcissist at the fucking controls. And he said, God, nothing's going to happen to him and he's not even thinking about you or the risk, your life or who loves you or whatever, right? Machiavelli and shit. Anybody who blew the whistle on this guy, I'm known as carbon fiber stupid fucking submarine. He would ruin their lives. And, yeah, he's a fucking psychopath. In that psychopath is anything from. You don't to be an axe murder. It can be literally, like, petty theft or whatever. And what this guy was doing was, you know, and lying for no fucking reason. I guess he had reasons to lie. But they were showing this guy, you know, testing this sub out, and he had this one guy who actually knew what the fuck he was doing going, like, first of all, you should not be testing this out with any people in it. And he was just, like. He would get, like, mad. You get fucking mad. So this lunatic got in the goddamn sub himself. They showed him. And you hear it as he's going deeper and deeper. You heard the carbon fire snapping, and he's going, oh, that's not a good sound. No, you don't like to hear that. You'd see him every once in a while get a little bit nervous. Like, he started calling it seasoning the hull. Like, you know, you gotta. You know, you gotta break some eggs. You gotta break some carbon fiber to make a fucking sub, right? With every one of those things that was snapping, obviously the whole structure was becoming weaker. He also, like, had some sort of degree in, like, physics, but. And the guy was saying. But he didn't fucking understand it. He didn't understand what the fuck he was doing. I don't think that he didn't understand. I don't. He understood it enough to pass the test. But when you walk around and you think you're a God, you don't understand mortality. So I had to shut it off. It's like all of these people were telling this guy not to do it, and all it did was get him mad. And he would. And he would stop talking to them, and then he would, like, fire them and then literally tell them that if they blew the whistle on him, he was going to ruin their lives. So then they had to, like, try and carefully get the word out that you should not get into this guy's submarine. I don't know. It's. I highly recommend, especially if you came from a nice family, that you read up on these people so you realize, you know, what you're working with, what you're getting in bed with and all of this. And these people, they. They lie. They don't give a. I mean, all the stuff that's going on right now. Doesn't all of this stuff sound familiar? This all sounds Familiar to me. And these? Oh, they got, you know, they got this, they got that. We got a bubble bar we're making, we're stabilizing this, we're fucking gonna do that. And it's just like, what are you guys really doing? Because it's never what they're saying. It's never what they're saying. What is really happening? Well, we'll find out in 20 years or 50 years and everybody's dead. You know, they'll declassify something and then you'll find out what the fuck's really going on. But I will tell you, the watching that submarine thing, you know, one of the questions I've had just as a person is how. How is war still legal in 2025? How is war still legal? And the reality is, is because the people that ascend to power have that psychological makeup on all sides. I'm not, I'm not pointing a finger at any one side. You know, the heads of these terrorist groups to the heads of these countries, they are all psychopaths. There's some sort of, or I can't say that they're all the same psychological makeup, but there is some sort of flaw or desire for power or something in their personality that they can do the things that, that, I don't know, that war does to people and just go to bed at night and just go to sleep and get fucking eight hours and not have a problem, you know. The whole reason why I saw this thing we. They set up NATO after World War II was you had a bunch of people alive that lived through World War I and World War II. And they were like, we have to stop doing this and we need to do everything we can to prevent future generations from experiencing the horrors of war. That's where we were at. And then we sort of broke it up, I think 20 something years ago when we had the coalition of the willing, when no one would go with us, and we went around it. And I don't think going around a group like that in the long run, I mean, obviously that's not. Why would you go around something in the long run that wants to prevent the horrors of war anyway? So I highly recommend watching it. It's. I mean, the footage of this guy going under the water and you're hearing the carbon fiber wires snapping. Oh, dude. And one thing that they did, you know, to seal something on the sub, they took the same that, you know, for a spray on truck bed liner. He went around any sort of third party inspections of it. He's like, yeah, we don't need to do that. We don't need to do that. We're not doing that. And it's just like, I guess once you get out in international waters, they have no authority, so you just do whatever you wanted to do. But that guy and his estate, you know, whatever's left of it from all of those victims should be sued, sued again, and then taken into civil court. Sued and sued again. I mean, the guy just from his own out of control narcissism and whatever, just a completely avoidable tragedy. And he killed all of those people. It's unbelievable. Anyway, so, yeah, look that, look that up. The dark triad telling you, like my next Google search is going to be narcissists and the people who work for them. It's unreal. They ascend to these levels of power because they will get the air quote job done no matter what. And then they have this power and then they have the ability to destroy the lives of decent people. And they will do it because they don't give a fuck, because they don't feel feelings, because in their head, you're wrong. They're a God. How dare you question me. These rules and regulations, that's for mere mortals. I know what I'm doing. Sorry, I don't know. I know that was a little dry and a little dark, but you got a fucking, you got to see it. Everyone who's alive from that ocean gate. It's kind of funny that he would call it that. Watergate, Ocean Gate, like something dishonest. He almost was like admitting that something. Ocean gate, wide gate, gateway down to the Titanic. I have no idea. And I also, to be honest with you, I have no understanding why video footage of the Titanic isn't enough. You know, I think because it happened so long ago, people forget about all the lives lost. You know what I mean? Like, I've never gone down to that, the 911 World Trade center monument thing. I just can't get myself to do it. It's just too sad to me. And I know I'm gonna go down there and someone's gonna be doing something or saying something disrespectful. It's gonna piss me off. So I just avoid going down there. So why the you would want to go down there to see this boat where everybody, you know, died. That tragic, lonely, fucking terrifying death is beyond me. Anyway, now that I've said all that, check it out, man. It's. It's very, it's very educational. And if you watch it, don't just look at this guy. Like, dude, this guy's a fucking idiot. This guy's got a couple of screws loose. Now, that guy was the CEO of a company and got a whole bunch. I don't know where he got his money, you know, but how those people work, it's never their money. He had a startup submarine company that went through no sort of regulations from any sort of governing third party, and he took a bunch of people down and he fucking killed them. It's beyond. This guy's a psycho. This guy is the typical fucking person that is a CEO that denies health insurance claims for a living. Yeah, we got your money. We're not paying for your dad sick now. He's gonna die now, and I'm gonna go get a sandwich and I'm not even gonna fucking think about this, even though I heard you crying on the phone. Anyway, so there's that. So anyway, my lovely wife and my kids are in town and I ended up. What did I do? The first night they got in, they got in late night. I had done the show and came in to the apartment and everything, and I had ordered them grilled cheese sandwiches and french fries. And they sat down and they were both punch drunk from the flight. Both my kids, and they were being silly and they were just cracking each other up like they're eating french fries, barely touching the sandwiches, and they were just laughing their asses off. And I just sat there and enjoyed it and I let them do it. And I felt good about it because that's the kind of my generation when you were growing up, if you were kids and you were laughing and having a good time, you're like, hey, come on, knock it off. Stop. Join yourselves. So I let him be silly as hell. And then finally after like, you know, 10 minutes, I said, guys, guys, come on, you gotta eat your sandwiches. You're just eating the fries. And then my son jumped off his little stool and came over, got right in my face, did some silly dance, but with half a smile on his face. And I just sort of stared at him, you know, like, really? And then he laughed and he went back, sat down and he started eating his sandwich. That made me feel good, you know, that I let my kids be kids. And obviously it's great to see my lovely wife. We've been cracking up laughing when we're not watching people fucking diving down to their death. I literally had to shut it off before it got to the fucking end. So anyway, one more week. One more week. I can't believe it. It feels Regular because I have a show tonight. But yeah, I cannot. I didn't think this week was ever going to come. May was the most difficult because I didn't see my family one day in the month of May. I've never done that. I saw him in February, I saw him in March, I saw him in April and then May. Just the way it worked out with school. School and my wife's schedule, they couldn't get out here. I did see him June 1st. I just flew out. I said this, I gotta see him, you know, so those were the dog days of doing the play and I didn't think that was ever gonna end. So I'm so excited. It already feels like it's over because I'm back together with everybody. And yeah, it was. It was definitely amazing. 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I don't know. Every once in a while, like once a year, it just pops up. But I won't. Just wanted to give you a couple of quick shout outs. Last say I took the train from Boston with my wife to come watch Glengarry. Holy shit, man. Everyone crash crushed it. That's right, man. That's right. That is right. Everyone kills it. My only complaint was it went by too fast. I could have watched another hour of that. Also, I hadn't heard, hadn't seen much of Kieran Culkin since Home Alone. Won. So I was amazed at how good he was. He was on succession and won an Oscar this year. You must be a sports fan. About two. Two years ago, I gave up booze and it has been a total game changer. I'm not too hungover to play with my kids on the weekends. I lost 35 pounds and look and feel 10 years younger. That's amazing. Being a longtime fan podcast listener, I would definitely say your journey to give up alcohol inspired me. So thank you for that. Well, there you go. I also haven't smoked a cigar since January and have no desire to do so. About the same time I quit drinking, I took up hot yoga. Dude, those. I did that one time and that was enough for me. I thought I was gonna die. Hiit classes. So light weightlifting and cardio in a hundred degree room. Oh, hot yoga hit classes. Dude, that sounds dangerous to me. It sounds gay. No, it sounds. Sounds dangerous to me. But this guy goes, it sounds gay. And it took a little while for me to get over the fact I was one of two guys in most classes. Hey, man, that's not necessarily a bad thing if you're single. Hey, you know what I'm saying? All right. Hit on those broads after class, ruin their experience, make it about you. But you can't argue with the results. My joints feel better, I'm leaner, and, and the stretching is great. I know you are always looking for ways to improve, so I thought I'd put that in your radar. Thank you for making me laugh on your regular basis and all of the other entertainment you have given. Star Wars F is for family, Leo, old dads. The list goes on. Cheers to you, Billy. Oh, thank you very much. I like doing yoga. Hey, we all do. But I do have to say yoga classes are nasty. The level of sweating and the bare feet and all of that. I would definitely recommend flip flops right next to your mat and never walking barefoot on the sweaty boards from the previous class. Also, you have to bring your own mat. All right, this is just a regular class. Forget about the hot yoga where the person. It's like everybody stepped out of a hot tub. It's. It's pretty nasty. It's pretty nasty. I don't know about hot yoga. I would like to try it if. If they didn't. If there wasn't somebody right next to you. And every once in a while, you know, when you had to go a little to left, a little right, you know, your hands hit or your feet hit. It's just, it's. It's a lot. It's a lot. But I don't know. I think I would try it. I would. I think I would try it again. I'd go with my wife. So the person I'm bumping into is her. At least on one side. All right. Nerds in Boston. Hey, Billy. Ginger. Snap. Thanks for bringing attention to nerds taking over the world economy. Aside from creating wealth inequality, I don't think many people realize how much these nerds are fucking up city landscapes and culture across the U.S. yeah, well, certainly people who think that immigrants are the problem, like these. This is the reason why your cost of living is going through the roof. This is class. This is part of the dark triad. Fucking Machiavelli ism. You fucking, you know, you start rumors and talk shit about other people, and that's what they're doing. They're. They're pointing the finger at people jumping over a fucking wall, you know, to go pick food in a farm for like, you know, 20 bucks a month. They're the reason it doesn't make any mathematically. And then meanwhile, you got all these fucking people, like, who are billionaires. And their workers have no benefits. No benefits and have to worry about making their rent or more mortgage every month. It's not the immigrant. It's these fucking cunts. And there's a finite amount of money. And if one person has that much of it, it's a simple equation. It has this many employees, and he's only going to allot this much amount of money for employment expenses. Then, you know, that's how it's created. It's not created by illegal immigrants. Undocumented immigrants. Immigrants. And by the way, how about those dirt bags and ice? Here's something. If you're doing something that's actually righteous and it's. It's the correct thing to do, you don't have to wear a mask unless you're protesting against power, man. I lived here in Boston for 15 years. This person says to use your own home city. For example. I've lived here in Boston for 15 years. Biotech, finance and real estate bros have taken over the city and forced out many musicians and other people who gave the city its personality. They created a small city out of nothing in South Boston that has the same personality as them. None. Exactly. Now there are almost no small music or comedy clubs left. And the outflow of people to suburbs has us in crippling traffic every day. Maybe some of these folks are doing good work, but a large percentage are, quote, raising funds in morally Ambiguous ways for their own gain at the expense of everyone else. I love hearing you and other elderly folk talk about the old days up here because it sounds like a completely different place the way you describe it. Can we reverse the culture shift? And if so, where do we start? Keep fighting the good fight, dude. A frustrated Bostonian. You got to get the word out that you have to, you got to get these people to stop. You got to stop following the finger of what they're pointing at. They've been doing this for fucking ever. When I was a kid, they used to point to people that weren't white and say, oh, it's these people that are on welfare milking the system, this is the reason why. And they act like people on welfare. We're living in a brand new house and living lifestyles of the rich and famous. And every single time the person that was telling you who the problem was was incredibly rich and powerful. And that's what they've always done. They've always pit the middle class against the lower class while the upper class becomes more and more exclusive and richer and richer and richer. And back then in the 60s, I think like a CEO, they said something made like 30 times what a regular employee made. The CEO now makes 400 times that. So there you go, right there. There's all your benefits. There's everything. You know, when I was growing up, you know, people had, they had health insurance through their job, they had enough money and one week's pay was your rent or your mortgage. That's how you lived in the middle class. That was one of the few things we knew about finance, was that, you know, if where you were living was more than one week's pay, you were living outside of your means. Then you had the other three weeks to save up money, take a vacation or, you know, buy a vcr, you know, if you wanted to splurge. It's not like the middle class. You will, you were living this crazy lifestyle, but it was nice, it was comfortable, and I would say in those areas it was a lot better back then. Other areas, you know, obviously it wasn't. I think we've come further in understanding that, you know, there's other groups of people out there and actions hurt them and blah, blah, blah, blah. But these fucking nerds are, are absolutely, they're heartless. They are, they are the modern day robber barons. And they have all the money and they have all the power and they have all the media. So those are the stories, the stories that they're going to put out Is that basically, you know, the reason why you can't afford a house is because somebody who came here illegally and has no money and does not have the ability to vote or change policy or influence a politician is somehow the thing that fucked is fucking you over. And it's just not true. It's not true. And I've seen it in my business where one small group came in, took over this business, and now all of a sudden, you know, they're going, oh, the business is shrinking. It's like, yeah, into your pocket. Now all of a sudden, people that for decades wrote on shows, worked on shows, produced, they can't get jobs, they can't get paid, and that's it. And they make a big. They make a big production about how much money they're paying a handful of actors or comedians or something like that, but they're fucking everybody else for their own benefit. It's disgusting. It's just an unforgivable level of greed. And they sleep like fucking babies. And they just go, this is how business is done. They have no moral responsibility past that statement. And I could tell you this, kids, anytime anybody says, well, this is how business is done, that means they can't morally justify what they're trying to do to you in the business deal that you're negotiating. They can't say what they're doing because it's so wrong. So they go, well, this is how business is done. You know, that happened to me recently in a business. I had this project. It was really successful. I came back, you know, to do another project, and I'm thinking, well, that one was a success. They're gonna back the truck up. I finally fucking made it. They fucking came in and their offer was lower than what they offered me on the first one. And I'm like, what the fuck? They go, this is how business is done. I'm like, no, it isn't. No, it isn't. You come into the league in the rookie with the rookie contract, and then you go out and you hit a bunch of home runs. The next time your contract's up, you get a bump. That's how business is done. So this is the world of the nerds, and I want all you feminists out there. All these years, you've been watching the frat boys, oh, my God, they're the fucking example of male. Toxic male behavior. And you left the fucking nerds alone. Maybe you should revisit and look at these fucking nerds, because they are the most heartless people I have ever run into. All Right. Best friend passed away. Oh, Jesus. I've been there. Hey, Billy. Good shape. Ah, look at that. No more Billy. Men tits. I love it. I'm writing on here because a little over a year ago, my best friend of 13 years died, God rest his soul, absolutely devastated. And when it happened. Oh, absolutely devastated when it happened. And still even until today. Oh yeah, dude, that like it never, never quite goes away. You get. You numb it, you know, you can maybe start talking about it and get less emotional, but yeah. Anyways, the person says, I'm 29 years old. Unfortunately, there is a twist to this. Out of the grief, his girlfriend and I started to lean on each other. Oh no. Oh, God. All the women in the fucking world. And we eventually got together. After a few months, your best friend in 13 years dies and within two months you're banging his girlfriend. Ex girlfriend. He died. Right. But they never officially broke up. Metaphysically they did. Is that the right word? I don't know. Wow. I'm gonna guess that he's been having some up dreams and his. His dead buddy is visiting him. He goes, it's helped a lot with this whole ordeal. On the other hand, now we've been in a relationship, in this relationship for a while and she's now living with me after eight months because her lease was up. Dude, can I ask you a question? Does your food have an almond aftertaste cyanide joke? Evidently mine was out to expire also when I renewed mine, but put her down as an occupant. Okay, this is going to go one of two ways. I think in your grief, with heightened emotions, you guys confused that with love. And now she's living there and now you got to get rid of her. I don't know. This is. This is the leveling of anxiety I had like when I was watching the Tin Ocean Gate. Okay, I'm going to be frank on this and say that after a little over a year, I do not share the physical attraction to her anymore. Or maybe I never did. Probably a grief thing. And I honestly feel like a piece of for having it go this far. All right. Okay. She's a great woman and she's a 10 on everything else other than my personal feeling of attraction towards her. And most of all, just thinking of my friend every time I see her and fuck her. Let's not leave that out. I can't talk about him with her the way I would with my other friends. Something in my gut says I should tell her to leave. But on the other hand, I really like the company. That's not a reason, dude. Haven't said that. I think it's awful of me to feel discontent with this, but I don't want to lead her on. Any advice would help. Thank you. And don't yourself over like I did. Hoping you're doing well. Yeah, dude. Well, what is the lesson here? The next time one of your close friends dies, don't start fucking his girlfriend. And if you do, don't, don't ever move in. Any advice? Yes. Let's get the obvious out of the way. This is gonna suck. Wow, is this gonna suck. I would go to Home Depot. No, fuck that. I'd go to a mom and pop hardware store. I would buy two plastic buckets, one for each of her eyes for the amount of tears that are going to come out. But, dude, you got to do this. You got a man up. There's only one way. There's only one way to get into a pool. And there's only one way to break up with somebody. And it's the same fucking answer. You just jump in. You don't go down the steps. You don't do that. You just fucking jump in. So whenever I had to break up with somebody, it had. It couldn't just be in my head. It had to be real. So I would write it down on a piece of paper. I would write down, go to the gym, write jokes, grocery shop, break up with so and so because you're going to avoid it. So breaking up, all right? The good thing is, it's good and bad that you live with her. It's bad that you live with her because then you're going to break up and then that. I don't know. You go to the couch. I don't know what happens here, but at least you don't say, hey, we have to talk tonight. You can't ever say that to a woman because the second you say, we have to talk, the talk is happening. They, on the other hand, can say, we need to talk tonight. And then for the whole. You go, okay. And then for the whole day, you're doing fucking somersaults, mentally torturing. She's gonna break up with me. Oh, my God. What the fuck was this? They wasted this money. And then you show up that night, it's just gonna be like, my mother's coming to town and I was hoping we could take her out on breakfast on Thursday. It's just like. You couldn't just fucking say that, right? They know what they're doing. They. Oh, they know what they're doing. So I wouldn't tell it, we need to talk. I would just sit down and say it. Don't say it beforehand. Just say, we need to talk. All right. And I would just say, obviously, with losing so and so was devastating for both of us, and we were in a heightened emotional state, which led to our relationship. And now, 13 months later, as the emotions have calmed down, I'm finding that my emotions for you weren't as strong as I thought. What does that mean? My emotions aren't strong enough to continue this relationship? And there you jumped in the pool and then let her process that. Hopefully, maybe she was thinking the same thing. Hopefully when she looks at you, she keeps thinking of him or whatever. You know, if you want to, like, further explain it, it's like, also, whenever I look at you, I think of so and so. It's affecting my ability to move. That's. That's a. That's a cop out. Just be like, you know, I don't know, dude, this is a brutal one. Just don't be totally honest. Like, when my friend was alive, as much as I liked him, I always wanted it, you know, not going to lie, I was attracted to you, but out of respect for him, I waited till he was dead until I made a move on you. Sorry, I had to do one joke in there. Yeah. I would just say that, and I would get out of the thing, and it's going to suck, you know, and then there's going to be this thing. She's probably going to feel, okay, I lost this other guy. I lost my apartment. I gained this relationship. Now I'm losing this relationship. And then, wait a minute. Where am I going to live? That's what she's probably going to think. And then there's going to be, like, you know, if you live with a woman legal, you know, legally married or not, they. I don't know what it is about them that they. They. They always feel like they're getting screwed, like they somehow didn't get something out of it, like they didn't live with you and their rent wasn't cut in half. It's like the way that women view sex. They view sex like they did you a favor. They act as though it doesn't feel good to them that they didn't also have sex, that they also didn't have an orgasm. You know what I mean? They. They like just the whole way that they have this thing broken down. So fortunately, you're not legally bound to this person. So, I mean, I don't know how that works. But like, I would get out of this relationship and I would begin your. The grieving process of losing your friend in, in a, in a way that you can, it doesn't fuck your life up. All right? And if you want to feel better about yourself, you're not the only person that I've, you're not the first person that has ever done something like that. And yeah, it's, it's never viewed in a positive way by any of your friends, especially two months later. Wow. Wow. All right. Good luck with that. Sir. I do not envy your position. I hope it's fast and not furious. All right. So so called friends screwing me. Hi, Ben here too. You know, you live long enough, these are the things that happen. Dear Billy Blood nut. Why, why, why so mean? Longtime listener, huge fan. I have a friend that was also my accountant. Oh brother. I have a friend that was also my accountant. Oh Jesus. What could go wrong? I run a small family business. Oh no. Shout out to all the mom and dad store owners. Okay. I run a small family business that is doing okay, but like most small businesses, struggling to fend off the corporate cunts. Anyways, I went to find my friend to get his advice on refinancing my business to another bank so I could better manage my finances and mortgage and get a better deal. He recommended a local broker. I'm already going to say he had a side deal with this guy. That's the thing that I've learned the most in business. Everybody. So many people have a side deal. If you're ever in business with somebody and they are, you know, you're supposed to be your friend and they are giving you business advice and what they're saying does not make sense. Sense. That probably means they have a side deal. Whatever direction they're sending you and they have a side deal. Anyway, I went to my friend to get advice. Okay, Refinancing, blah, blah blah. He recommended a local broker who, who he said was good and he had used the same broker recently to refinance himself. Turns out they were very good and helped me immensely, which was is great. Okay, there goes my theory. However, after signing off on all the paperwork and getting finances sorted, I noticed my so called friend received a fifteen hundred dollar commission. Yeah, he had a side deal. He never once indicated to me that would be the case. Do you think he should have told me that was part of the deal and at the very least offered to split it with me 100% full disclosure. He should have said just to let you know, I have, I get a fifteen hundred dollar commission to everybody that I send this way. No, he has no reason to split it with you. The deal was not made with you. The deal was made with him. But you need in order for you to make a, a good decision here of an fully informed decision. You can't make a fully informed decision without all the information. I am relieved that this person was actually good. This person says all this after paying him thousands of dollars to be my accountant for 12 years. Would love your take on this. Cheers. And go yourself. So you said so far, so called friends screwing me. Yeah. He wasn't honest. Well, you learned something. You, you're, you have to know that like whoever you're in business with, whoever they're recommending, they have a relationship with them on some level, level I've done business with them before and that, you know, people do this in business. Okay. Now the businessman goes, this is how business is done. And that is a very vague, vague statement that could mean anything from like, you know, you know, he scratches my back, I scratches his. We know, we know, we help each other out. It could be as innocent as that or it could literally be like let's get into business and become like this business serial killer team and just fuck people over and do some American greed shit. It could be that he doesn't owe you any money. But he did. I would sit down and confront him and just say listen, I'm happy with what these people did. But you know, I am not happy with the fact that you did not disclose the fact that you got a fifteen hundred dollar commission for sending me in that direction. I would like to think that you're sending me in that direction in whatever direction you're sending me in is because it's going to be the best thing for me first not going to be adding an extra fifteen hundred dollars into your pocket and it's like I'm already paying you to find this guy. So it's like you're sort of double dipping here. Yeah. So I would have a talk with this person. I don't think it's. At least he sent you to somebody good. But this is why you don't do business, business with friends or family. Because this is what ends up happening. Because it's, it's a, it's a dirty, disgusting. Money is just, it's the worst thing ever created for this exact reason for what it does to a certain person. You know when they say money is the root of all evil, it's really like. But it's such a small amount of the population, I feel, that would literally do anything to get money and power. You know, pro, you know, war for profit. Turning food into poison, you know, knowingly giving people stuff that has, like, side effects, you know, medicines and shit like that, just for your own profit, like, that's a dirty business, you know, Those are two really sad stories to end on. Losing friends and finding out friends that are still alive will fuck you in a second for more money. But these are the lessons that you have to learn as men and women as you go through life. But what you have to do is, you know, oh, my God, Star Wars. Don't. Don't go to the dark side. Like, right now more than ever is decent people need to be speaking up about what's going on in everything that I've been talking about. Businesses, wars, all of this stuff, people need to speak up. And you watch whenever they're having, whenever they make a big move and everybody's like, wrestle restless saying, this is not going to be good. This is not going to be good for everyone. This is only going to be good for a small amount of people. If you open your mouth, you watch how they fucking destroy you. They destroy your career, they destroy your personal life. They just go on this fucking warpath. And you know what? That's always a good tell. When you see stuff like that. You see somebody says something about somebody blows a whistle, and then all of a sudden there's this big scandal about him or whatever that just further sures up that whistleblower's point. Because if what, the person he was accusing of was actually a good person, they wouldn't have to ruin this person's life. They could just use the facts of what was actually going on to save their reputation. They wouldn't have to destroy the other person's. So there you go. This was more educational than funny. And that's. But that's only if you believe what I'm saying. So I have no idea. All right, that's it. That is the podcast. Go fuck yourselves. And I will check in on you on Thursday.