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So as you can probably tell from that, Domain gives you something most people never have, a step by step financial plan that actually makes sense and does not make your brain hurt. So get started. Started today and book your free strategy session@domainmoney.com moneyrehab I am not a real client of Domain Money via Money Rehab. I receive compensation and have an incentive to promote Domain money. See Important Disclosures at DMNMNY Co X I'm Nicole Lapin, the only financial expert. You don't need a dictionary to understand it's time for some money rehabilitation. You've probably heard the saying the rich get richer. And you know what? It is true because the rich know how to pass on wealth tax free. And I know this sounds shady, but there are a handful of tax loopholes that help the 1% avoid Uncle Sam that are 100% legit today I'm going to tell you about three power plays that the ultra rich use to pass wealth on tax free. This will probably feel like watching an episode of Succession. Totally fascinating, but not really a plot line that you want to live out yourself. And I'll tell you exactly what I mean at the end of this episode. So here are the three power plays that the ultra rich use to pass on wealth tax free. Number one, the Grantor Retained Annuity Trust, or grat. Number two, the Irrevocable Life Insurance Trust, AKA ilit. And number three, the Family Limited Partnership. The through line is that each of these vehicles help rich people pass money onto their kids without shelling out a ton in taxes. But the way that these three strategies achieve that same result are a little bit different. So let's start with Gratz Grantor Retained Annuity Trust. It is so jargon heavy and I hate that, but it's not that deep. Basically works that you are the grantor and you put assets into a trust, typically things that you expect to really grow in value, like stocks or a business. In exchange, the trust pays you back a fixed amount, which is called an annuity, every single year for a set number of years. This payment is designed to return the principal plus interest, but not necessarily the investment interest. This is based on how much the IRS assumes the asset is going to grow. And this is often a vehicle that's used with big startup founders. Pretty much every big entrepreneur I know has a GRAT for their kids in a sec. I'm going to give you an example with numbers, which I think will really help bring all of this into focus. But before that, I want to tell you exactly what makes this a loophole. At the end of the term, anything left over in the trust, meaning anything, any growth above the IRS's assumed interest rate goes to your beneficiaries tax free. So that basically means if your assets grow faster than the IRS expects them to grow, all the gains go to your kids or your heirs without triggering any gift or estate taxes, which is very cool, especially if they grow a lot. So for example, let's say you fund a grant with a million dollars in stock and the IRS puts the interest rate at 4%. You structure the grant to pay back the $1 million PL percent every year spread over the term of the grass. So let's say five years. These are fixed payments, not based on how the investment actually performs. So if your assets only grow 4%, everything gets paid back to you and there's nothing left for your heirs. But if your assets grow more than 4%, let's say 10%, the extra 6% growth gets passed on to your heirs. Gift and estate tax free. This is the cool thing about grants. The future appreciation of whatever assets are in there escapes estate and gift tax if the GRAT is structured properly. Honorable mention here. It benefits you not just your kids, because remember, during the term you receive payments. There are a ton of financial vehicles like certain types of trusts and of course, life insurance that only provide perks to your beneficiaries. So in some ways, grants are like the opposite of life insurance because. Because you get benefits while you're alive, which is sweet. But further adding to the life insurance foil analogy for Gratz, you have to outlive the term, that five year period. In the example I gave, if you, God forbid, pass away during the grant term, the assets are pulled back into your estate and taxed. So is a grant right for you? Well, I'll tell you, but not yet. I'm going to take you through the other two financial vehicles and at the end, I'll tie everything up into a beautiful bow and break down which of these strategies might make sense for you. Okay, so let's talk about life insurance. Specifically irrevocable life insurance trusts, or ilets. For most of us, we think about life insurance as a way to help survivors with expenses like paying off a mortgage or. I'm sorry if this sounds dark, funeral costs. For the ultra rich, life insurance is a wealth transfer vehicle. An ILET is a trust that owns. It's like a wrapper for the life insurance policy that you have on yourself. You fund the trust, typically with cash, and the trust uses that cash to pay the policy premiums when you die. The life insurance payout goes into the trust, not into your estate. And that means your beneficiaries get the entire amount without it being subject to estate tax. So let me say this again. Your heirs get a tax free payout. The death benefit is typically income Tax free. And thanks to the trust, it's also estate tax free. Also, it doesn't hurt that because the policy is in a trust, the assets in the trust may be protected from creditors depending on your state laws. So for some ultra wealthy people who are really worried about lawsuits, the extra creditor protection is really appealing. But these are complicado. I looked into these personally. First of all, these trusts are irrevocable. Henceforth the name. That means once you set it up, you cannot take it back. You lose control of the policy, period. The end. It also means it's very hard and in some cases impossible to make changes. For example, I have one daughter right now. If I created an eyelet and I named her as the beneficiary, and then I had another kid in a couple of years, I wouldn't be able to add the second kid as a beneficiary. There are some ways to work around it, but you have to be really thoughtful when you form your eyelet, for example, saying my children or my descendants instead of actually listing individual names. That's just one example. But if you're funding the ILEP by gifting money to the trust, you'll also potentially want to stay with an annual gift. Tax exclusion limits $19,000 per recipient as of this year. If the trust has multiple beneficiaries, you can gift that amount per beneficiary annually without using up that lifetime exemption. By the way, for this year, the exemption is almost $14 million per individual, or 28 million bucks for a married couple. So you have to hit that amount in your lifetime for this thing to even matter. Which sounds like high class problems, but let's dream here. Important. There is something called the Crumny letter. Yes, that's a real thing that the trustee sends to beneficiaries letting them know that they have the right to withdraw the gifted amount. It's a weird formality, but it's necessary to qualify for the gift tax exclusion. Again, let's dream. Next, a family limited partnership, which is kind of exactly like it sounds. It's a business entity often holding a family business or real estate that's structured to keep wealth in the family while minimizing taxes. You set it up by creating a limited partnership and transferring assets like your business or your property into that entity. You keep control by being the general partner and you give shares of the partnership at a discounted value to your kids or your heirs. Why discounted? Because limited partnership interests are considered less valuable due to the lack of control and marketability. And Liquidity here. That means if you give 10% of the family limited partnership, the IRS might value that gift at less than 10% of the total assets. This move is all about control. As general partner, you control the decisions. Even if you have given away most of the equity, you can gift more while staying under the tax limits due to valuation discounts. But if you do go this route, you have to be prepared for the fact that the IRS is going to likely be looking at you very closely. You need to make sure that you have structured this partnership correctly to avoid any penalties or my biggest fear, audits. So that means that you're probably going to need attorneys, accountants to make sure that you're checking all the right boxes here. For family limited partnerships, you can also gift partnership shares within that lovely annual gift tax exclusion limit. Or use your lifetime estate and gift tax exemption which is so high. Remember, 14 million per individual, 28 million for married couple. These three strategies are the secret weapons of big family dynasties. But, and this is the question I've been alluding to this entire time, should you and I use them? Because while all of these moves are totally legit and very effective at minimizing taxes and preserving long term beautiful generational wealth, they are not cheap to set up and they are not for everyone. So here's the honest truth. A grad is going to make a lot of sense if you already have a high growth asset like a private business or a really large stock position in a growth company that you're expecting to significantly appreciate. So think startup founders, business owners about to ipo, someone doing a low basis investment that's poised to take off. If that's not you, a grat, probably overkill and an ilit. It's great for high net worth individuals who expect to leave behind a large estate and want their heirs to receive life insurance proceeds free of estate taxes. But again, it is complicated, it's expensive to set up and to maintain, and it's very rigid because of the irrevocable part. If your financial picture is still evolving, this is probably not the right tool for you just yet. A family limited partnership might start to make some sense if you're legitimately worried about hitting your lifetime estate and gift tax exemption. I know it's a big number if you're not close to it at all. You probably though do not need to spend the time and the legal fees structuring an flp. The bottom line here, these wealth transfer strategies are like surgical tools. They are powerful, they are precise, but they're best used by professionals. And just because you can do something doesn't necessarily mean you should, but you should know about them. For most people, these tools don't make sense until you hit a certain wealth level or complexity with your life for your assets. But and this is a very important takeaway, being tax savvy and intentional about estate planning is important for everyone. Know your options because that mindset does not require a net worth in the millions or billions. It just takes a little bit of strategy. For example, open a custodial Roth IRA for your kid if they have earned income. Great for teaching investing early. And those contributions grow tax free. It's free to set up. I've done a bunch of episodes on this. I will link those in the show. Notes or gift appreciate stock instead of cash when making charitable contributions so you avoid paying capital gains taxes and the charity still gets the full value. Estate planning feels like a drag. It still feels like that in my family too. But it's necessary and it is no longer optional for anyone building real wealth. And if you want to stay wealthy across generations, you definitely need a strategy for today's tip you can take straight to the bank. If you're loving this old money lore, I'll pull the curtain back on another move the rich use to get richer the private foundation. AKA the giving and keeping strategy. This doesn't really fall under the umbrella of tax strategies for passing on tax free inheritance, but it is a way to get a tax deduction and keep control. A private foundation is a type of nonprofit that you create and control. You donate the money or assets like stocks into that foundation and you get a tax deduction. But here's the kicker. The foundation can be run by you and your family and you get to decide how and when the money is given out. And pro tip you can hire family to run the foundation, work for the foundation and pay them a reasonable salary. That's yet another way wealth stays in the family. Money Rehab is a production of Money News Network. I'm your host Nicole Lapin. Money Rehab's Executive producer is Morgan Lavoy. Our researcher is Emily Holmes. Do you need some Money Rehab? And let's be honest, we all do. So email us your Money questions money rehaboney news network.com to potentially have your questions answered on the show or even have a one on one intervention with me. And follow us on Instagram at Money News and TikTokoneyNewsNetwork for exclusive video content. And lastly, thank you. No, seriously, thank you. Thank you for listening and for investing in yourself, which is the most important investment you can make, Sam.
Episode: How the Rich Pass Down Tax-Free Wealth
Date: September 19, 2025
Nicole Lapin pulls back the curtain on the secret (and totally legal) strategies ultra-wealthy families use to pass enormous fortunes down generations, virtually tax-free. In this power-packed, jargon-free episode, Nicole decodes three advanced estate-planning vehicles – GRATs, ILITs, and Family Limited Partnerships – and discusses whether these tools make sense for the average listener. She closes with actionable, accessible tips for everyone who wants to be tax-savvy with their wealth—no billionaire status required.
Nicole breaks down three advanced, but legal, wealth transfer strategies:
“Let’s say you fund a GRAT with $1 million in stock and the IRS puts the interest rate at 4%... If your assets only grow 4%, everything gets paid back to you… But if your assets grow 10%, the extra 6% growth gets passed on to your heirs, gift and estate tax free.” (Nicole, 07:10)
“A real thing that the trustee sends to beneficiaries letting them know they have the right to withdraw the gifted amount…” (Nicole, 13:40)
“You can gift more while staying under the tax limits due to valuation discounts.” (Nicole, 15:35)
Nicole is candid about the practicalities:
“Just because you can do something doesn’t necessarily mean you should, but you should know about them.” (Nicole, 17:55)
“It’s free to set up. I’ve done a bunch of episodes on this.” (Nicole, 19:40)
“Estate planning feels like a drag—it still feels like that in my family too. But it’s necessary and it is no longer optional for anyone building real wealth.” (Nicole, 20:10)
“Pro tip—You can hire family to run the foundation, work for the foundation, and pay them a reasonable salary… yet another way wealth stays in the family.” (Nicole, 21:00)
Nicole delivers a transparent, approachable look at the legal blueprint for tax-free wealth transfer—the same one often reserved for dynasties. While these tools (GRATs, ILITs, FLPs) are “surgical,” nuanced, and pricey, everyone can borrow the rich’s mindset: be intentional, plan for the future, and leverage every tool that fits your unique financial reality.
Action Step:
“Being tax savvy and intentional about estate planning is important for everyone… Know your options because that mindset does not require a net worth in the millions or billions. It just takes a little bit of strategy.” (Nicole, 19:00)