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Nicole Lapin
You know, there was this one time before I did my own money rehab when I checked my credit score and I realized I had no idea what it actually meant for my financial future. That's when it hit me. It was time to get serious about my money. We've all had that moment, right? Whether it's saving for something big or finally paying off debt, we all get to a point where we need to make some real money moves. That's where Chime comes in. Chime offers a checking account designed to help you take control of your finances with no monthly fees, no maintenance fees and fee free overdraft up to $200. With sponsors SpotMe imagine overdrafting and not having to worry about fees piling up. Chime's got you covered. Plus, Chime isn't just a financial tool, it's a community. You can get boosts from friends to temporarily increase your spot meet limit, and when you help someone out with their own boost, they can return the favor. Friends helping friends make progress. It's that simple. So why not make your fall finances a little greener? Open your Chime account in just two minutes@chime.com MNN that's chime.com as in money News Network. Chime feels like progress. Banking services and debit card provided by the Bancorp NA or Stride Bank NA members, FDIC SpotMe eligibility requirements and overdraft limits apply. Booths are available to eligible Chime members enrolled in Spotme and are subject to monthly limits. Terms and conditions apply. Go to chime.com disclosures for details. I love hosting on Airbnb. It's a great way to bring in some extra cash, but I totally get it that it might sound overwhelming to start or even too complicated. If, say you want to put your summer home in Maine on Airbnb but you live full time in San Francisco and you can't go to Maine every time you need to change sheets for your guests or something like that. If thoughts like these have been holding you back, I have great news for you. Airbnb has launched a co host network which is a network of high quality local co hosts with Airbnb experience that can take care of your home and your guests. Co hosts can do what you don't have time for, like managing your reservations, messaging your guests, giving support at the property, or even create your listing for you. I always want to line up a reservation for my house when I'm traveling for work, but sometimes I just don't get around to it because getting ready to travel always feels like a Scramble so I don't end up making time to make my house look guest friendly. I guess that's the best way to put it. But I'm matching with a co host so I can still make that extra cash while also making it easy on myself. Find a co host@airbnb.com host. I'm Nicole Lapin, the only financial expert. You don't need a dictionary to understand. It's time for some money rehabilitation.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Hi, it's not Nicole Lapin. This is Tracy D'Annunzio. And if you listened to yesterday's episode, you know that I'm here guest hosting for our dear Nicole while she's on maternity leave. My guest today is Tim Ferriss, a man who needs no introduction, but I'm gonna give him one anyway. Tim is a world renowned expert on self improvement and self actualization. He's spent a lifetime studying and teaching the habits and mindsets of the world's most successful people. Tim has built, invested in and advised huge tech companies like Uber, Facebook and Shopify. He's written five number one New York Times bestsellers. He's had his own TV show. And he's probably best known for his podcast which has over a billion, billion downloads and where he's interviewed everybody from Jerry Seinfeld to Tony Robbins to the dude from my octopus teacher. Tim brings free practical education into the lives of tens of millions of people across the globe. I've been lucky to call Tim a friend and a mentor and an investor for over a decade now. And I feel lucky to know the very generous man behind the impressive resume. Tim and I got together in New York and talked for so long that we needed to split this episode into two parts. So today you'll hear Tim talk about the biggest lessons he's learned from that star studded guest lineup over the years. Why he thinks money is just a story that we tell ourselves and how to tell yourself a better one. And he'll separate fact from fiction when it comes to biohacking. Tomorrow you'll hear Tim talk about so much more. We'll get his current daily routine and then we'll go really deep on relationships and money and who Tim is dating and where he's finding matches now. But for now, let's start with part one. Tim Ferriss, welcome to Money Rehab.
Tim Ferriss
Thank you. Good to see you.
Tracy D'Annunzio
It's so good to see you, my old friend. I am so excited to have you here, especially right now because I don't know if you realize this, but we are almost exactly 10 years out wow. From when you had me on your podcast on the Tim Ferry show back in the day. I know. It flew, right?
Tim Ferriss
Yeah. It's so fast.
Tracy D'Annunzio
It's so fast. And you were just getting started. I think I was. Something like episode 30. Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
Early days.
Tracy D'Annunzio
800 or something.
Tim Ferriss
Something like that.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Episodes, yeah. So my first question is, do you remember that you were a little bit drunk when you interviewed me?
Tim Ferriss
Early days. I'm guessing just to defend myself. I'm guessing this was probably during south by Southwest. Am I wrong?
Tracy D'Annunzio
I don't remember.
Tim Ferriss
My guess is that I may have had some type of commitment beforehand and that I would have had tequila.
Tracy D'Annunzio
No. Okay.
Tim Ferriss
If I had to guess, or did I get drunk in the episode?
Tracy D'Annunzio
You got drunk in the episode. You had wine.
Tim Ferriss
Always a risky move.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Is there any chance that you remember.
Tim Ferriss
What you were drinking for wine? See, I don't drink much wine anymore. I would say I'm actually going completely dry this month, which is not a reflection of being. Being drunk all the time otherwise. But I can talk about alcohol and podcasting. I learned pretty early that you have to really be strategic about how you mix those two.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay.
Tim Ferriss
Because how you perceive yourself as sounding and how good you perceive your humor to be is actually quite a few notches above reality when you get past, I would say two drinks, but I'm going to guess Rombauer Chardonnay.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Nope.
Tim Ferriss
You remember what I was drinking?
Tracy D'Annunzio
I remember what you were drinking.
Tim Ferriss
What was it?
Tracy D'Annunzio
Kay Brothers Amory Vineyard.
Tim Ferriss
Oh, wow.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Block six. Does this ring a bell to you?
Tim Ferriss
No, but that highlights how much of it I had.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay. You were into it. It was like a wine that you recommended.
Tim Ferriss
Okay.
Tracy D'Annunzio
So have a little gift for you.
Tim Ferriss
Oh, wow. Look at this.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah. Incredible. This is the wine that you were drinking when we did our podcast.
Tim Ferriss
Holy moly. I was glad that.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Isn't that wild?
Tim Ferriss
That's really sweet.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay, so there's one difference, though. This is a vintage 2013. You were drinking a vintage 2010. Do you remember what you paid for it?
Tim Ferriss
I don't. I have no idea.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay. The bottle of wine you were drinking when we did our podcast together 10 years ago cost about $100 when you bought it, but it now costs over $1,000.
Tim Ferriss
Really?
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
So that just proves that I'm not always a good investor. No, I sold early.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah, exactly. Exactly. So this is 2013 because we love you, but not $1000 worth.
Tim Ferriss
Thank you. I don't even love myself $1000 worth. Thank you so much.
Tracy D'Annunzio
You're welcome.
Tim Ferriss
So this will be I will break my booze fast with block six Shiraz.
Tracy D'Annunzio
I mean, so booze fast. Tell me about it.
Tim Ferriss
Every once in a while, I will abstain for anywhere from a week to a month from anything that I think has become impulsive or over saturated in my life as a behavior.
Tracy D'Annunzio
So what other things are we giving up?
Tim Ferriss
I find it easier to abstain from multiple things at a time. I feel like the incremental cost of each additional abstinence is lower. So if you're going to abstain, I like doing more than one at a time. I mean, I'm not sure if we want to get in this right now, but.
Nicole Lapin
No, we do.
Tracy D'Annunzio
We do. We want to get into it.
Tim Ferriss
No booze.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay.
Tim Ferriss
No masturbating and no coffee for the.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Next month, which is the hardest. No. Let me just.
Tim Ferriss
Based on my response, I'll let you guess most difficult.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Really? Really. But there's benefits to that, I believe.
Tim Ferriss
To the most biblical abstinence. Yeah, there are a lot of benefits. I just feel like anything that has become a coping mechanism for when you feel something you don't want to feel, which could be feeling distracted, it could be feeling stressed, it could be feeling rushed, it could be feeling on edge. If suddenly you have a coping mechanism to deal with, that which can be very socially acceptable, could just be one glass of wine every night. It could be going out with friends to a party. It could be going to Netflix. Right. It could be getting on your phone and wasting an hour before you go to bed on Instagram. It could be any number of things. And when I suspect I may have one or more of those things, I like to prove to myself that I can stop. And also, this is not too technical, but basically reset my reward centers so that I'm not suffering from some type of hedonic adaptation with things that should be rewarding. Right?
Tracy D'Annunzio
Totally hedonic adaptation.
Tim Ferriss
It's true for money, it's true for lifestyle inflation. It's true for so many different things. And if you overindulge chocolate, you eat it too much. What happens? You stop getting the same reward from eating said chocolate. So you either need something higher octane or you need more chocolate. And I don't think that leads good places typically. So there are some places where adaptation is great. Weight training, exercise, fantastic. But those are positive stressors. Whereas a lot of the things that we use as coping mechanisms, I would say, are neutral or negative stressors.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yes, totally agree. How do I know when I am suffering from too much hedonic adaptation? With all my Little habits.
Tim Ferriss
If you find a. I'd say if there's a degree of guilt associated with it. If you're like, it would really be probably good for me if I dialed this back. Could be anything. Could be sleeping in, could be sleeping too much, could be sleeping too little. There isn't any specific category. And it's not like I constantly take a fine tooth comb over my whole life looking for these things. I think that they're pretty obvious. If somebody just sits down and reflects for a second, what am I doing? When I feel off kilter or I want to feel better, what do I do? And let's look at the list of things. If it's go for a run, okay, cool. If it's overeat late at night, as a binge, probably not, right? So, look, I screw up all the time, too. Not to make it seem like I'm just hitting home runs and pointing at center field all day. That's not how life works. But I would say at least once a year, I like to do an extended fast of whatever my latest list of. It's not really a list. Like few compulsive things might be. Could be sweet, right? I've gone a month without having anything sweetened. That'd be an example.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Is it hard in the beginning and that gets easier?
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, yeah, yeah. For sure.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
First week is the hardest.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Tim, every time I talk to you, I feel like I need to overhaul my life just a little bit. In a good way.
Tim Ferriss
Just one degree. Yeah, one degree here or there makes a big difference.
Tracy D'Annunzio
You've had conversations with hundreds and hundreds of the world's top performers. What are one or two of the biggest unlocks from guests that you've had in your years podcasting?
Tim Ferriss
Then the 10 years.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Just pick out the top ones. No offense.
Tim Ferriss
Just give me three. I would say off the top of my head, a few that come to mind would be. And it's very. I'm going to make a meta observation about this first one, which is 70 to 80% of the people I've interviewed have some type of meditation practice. It can take many different forms. It could be some type of repetitive exercise. It could be some type of seated meditation. But it also raises the question for anyone who's studying successes in quotation marks, I think this is a very important stress test, and that is or at least a skeptical stance you should take, which is, is this what made them successful, or did they start doing this after they were successful?
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay.
Tim Ferriss
It's very easy to get those mixed up.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yes, Narrative fallacy.
Tim Ferriss
Narrative fallacy. It's very easy to mix those up. So I don't really know the answer. I don't know if it's possible to know the answer. But suffice to say that very high percentage have some type of meditation practice, which has been a great motivator for me to do the basics. Like meditate 10 minutes twice a day is what I'm doing right now.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay. First thing in the morning.
Tim Ferriss
And I usually meditate, like, after I have a little bit of tea. Let's just say that's fair game. Try not to do it right after eating. I don't think that's fantastic. Tend to be a little distracted by the digestion. And then before dinner or before bed is usually when I would do it in the middle of the day. I find too hard. I find it too hard with, like, transcendental meditation. They're like, 3pm I'm like, that's really, really inconvenient time. Before dinner or before bed.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Good for you. For before dinner, I'm like, yeah, too distracted by hunger.
Tim Ferriss
Usually just use an app. Like, make it easy. Do the easy thing first. That's true with any type of new behavioral change. Like, do the easy thing first. If it's exercise, like, choose something you like. And if you can't find something you like, do the least necessary, not the most possible. Right. If you're like, I'm going to make this New Year's resolution and exercise an hour a day. It's like, if you have no exercise habit, do 10 or 20 minutes three times a week. Start there, and then you can pass that past fail you've set for yourself. And you can always increase the scope of it, but set it up so that you can win in the beginning. So for me, 10 minutes twice a day, I can't legitimately excuse not doing that. If you don't have 10 minutes twice a day, you don't have your priorities straight at all. Like, you have no control over your life if you can't save 10 minutes twice a day. So I'll use an app. There's an app called the Way with a guy named Henry Schuchman that I've been using now for the last month or so. I invested in a long time ago because I love Henry. He's actually been on the podcast twice. He's a Zen master. I hate that term, master. But he's one of the few Zen teachers, one of three or four authorized to teach in the United States in this particular Zen tradition. And I really Find it deeply settling in some way the metaphor I would use. And I'm borrowing this from someone who wrote this a long time ago, can't remember the attribution. Some Japanese monk and said, basically, meditating is a practice. It's called practice for a reason. Because you may sit down and feel like you're doing nothing. You may feel like your monkey mind is just going berserk with your eyes closed. But each time you sit and you're still, it's like taking a muddy glass of water and putting in just a little bit of clear water. And every time you sit, you're putting in clear water. And as you sit more and more, it becomes more and more transparent and the sediment settles. And that's, I think, very reassuring for people who sit and they're like, I can't do this. I'm not built for this. And it might take a while. What I've noticed for myself is after. And you don't need to use this app. You can. I think that the Waking up app with Sam Harris is also great. The introductory course specifically. I think you could also do tm. I did TM for a long time.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Tm. Transcendental Meditation.
Tim Ferriss
Transcendental Meditation. Not trademarks. Yeah. And that's one observation I would say, as it relates to this audience, Seth Godin, and I'm paraphrasing here, he is very wise and leads a very unorthodox life that he's crafted through deep thinking and is a very present husband and father. I really admire him a lot. And he has said something along the lines of, money is a story past a certain point. Money is a story that you tell yourself. So come up with a story that you can live with. I think that's really important.
Tracy D'Annunzio
What does he mean by that?
Nicole Lapin
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Tracy D'Annunzio
What does he mean by that?
Tim Ferriss
Money is and can be an abstraction of sorts. Be very hard to survive by eating your money, right? You're using it in exchange for other things. And so some people want success. Okay, what is that? And so if you don't, like define that very carefully for yourself, what does success mean? Then you're going to Wander in a lot of unproductive directions. This is true with power. I know I always want to be powerful. I want to be free. Okay, what does free mean? So I think definition of terms is really important. And with money, when we define it, it's really telling the story of what money means to you, what it signifies, what it enables or disables. What is the story you're telling yourself? So for instance, when I was younger, I didn't grow up, my family didn't have a lot of money. So the story that I heard effectively, because we were operating from a really scarce mindset, because we didn't have money. And it was never said this directly, but like if you have money, all your problems go away, right? It's like, wouldn't it be nice if we had money if money only grew on trees? You have to have money to make money. Which isn't true, by the way. Then the story I subconsciously crafted from that had all these features that ended up not being true, right? Like that having to have money to make money. Not true. And also like money will solve most your problems. Not true. Money solves money problems. How you relate to it is it will determine whether you feel like you have enough or not enough, will determine whether you feel successful or not successful, how much of a role it plays in your life overall compared to other things. Family, personal interests, friendships, where does money fit into the lineup? All of these, I think are worthwhile questions to ask oneself because I know. And you also have met some of these people, people who have hundreds of millions of dollars or billions of dollars, who feel like they just need to hit this slightly larger number and then they'll know everything can be okay. Which is patently absurd. Right? But that is the story that they've chosen to tell themselves, which is informed also by their peer group. So if you have a billion dollars, but all the people you're hanging out with have 2, 5, $10 billion, then you're not going to feel successful if the story you tell yourself is that you measure that self worth by the size of your bank account or stock portfolio or whatever it might be. So the way that Seth encapsulated that, as I interpret what he's saying, because he has made a lot of decisions in his life to, for instance, not start additional startups. And in place of that, focusing on having dinner with his family every night and cooking with his kids and making hand carved canoes and all these various things that he's done. And that's not by accident, Right? He decided that and I'll give another paraphrase. Let me think about this. This is from Tim O'Reilly, who is the founder of O'Reilly Publishing, at one point, maybe still very successful, influential technology publisher. So if you wanted to learn C or whatever, you would buy an O'Reilly book. And I find him deeply fascinating. And one of his quotes, which goes well with Seth's is effectively, money is like gasoline, but just make sure if you're on a road trip, the goal is not to do a tour of gas stations.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Oh, that's good.
Tim Ferriss
It's good, right? And I'm not getting the quote. Totally, but you get the gist of it.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Totally.
Tim Ferriss
And I think a lot of folks end up doing tours of gas stations. That is also unhealthy.
Tracy D'Annunzio
What are some of the things that, like a bunch of wealthy, successful people tell themselves or tell each other that becomes unhealthy?
Tim Ferriss
I think that one is rationalizing all sorts of reasons why they need to make more money because they often have been so fixated on competing to validate themselves and making money to validate themselves that they've let most of their other interests completely atrophy. They don't know how to do anything else. But after they've made X amount of money, for some people, that's a million dollars where they feel like they've made it. For some people, that's 10, 20, 100 million, a billion, whatever it might be at that point, am I allowed to curse? Okay, they can't say I don't have enough money without looking like a complete asshole. They can't say that that has been taken away. So what do they do? They come up with all of these workarounds where they're like, now it's about compounded annual growth rate. What's the percentage growth rate now that I can't really, with a straight face, talk about some magical number I need. So now it's an addiction. It's an addiction. So they shift to that. They shift to legacy, which is this very nebulous thing. And by the way, if you give your kids too much money, from what I've seen, it completely ruins them, as far as I can tell. So that is also ridiculous. Come on, we don't even know. Most of us don't know, like, Alexander the Great's full name. So are you really going to be remembered like 200 years from now? Of course you're not like, come on, let's be realistic. So that whole fool's errand I think is silly. There are aspects psychological Aspects to it that I can relate to. Right. Feel it. Fear of death, mortality. Okay, fine. I get it. Like you're looking for something to exist beyond you. Okay, fine.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah, totally.
Tim Ferriss
Then there's the. I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna give money to charity just yet. Because if I just compound and then when I'm much older or dead, it'll be such a bigger number. I'll be able to have so much more impact.
Tracy D'Annunzio
I'm so much more generous.
Tim Ferriss
I call bullshit. I call 100% bullshit. That is just people who are rich and stingy wanting to be richer. That's it. Full stop. Because the problems are also compounding, just like capital. So you could intervene with less money now to help bend the arc of history with respect to certain problems versus 20 years from now. I think, at least for me, it's important to have some identity diversification by maintaining some other deep interests so that you don't paint yourself into a corner where you have one path for self validation and that is more money. That is a really bad position to be in.
Tracy D'Annunzio
So, Tim, what was it like for you? Did you have a number where you were like, this will be enough? Have you made enough?
Tim Ferriss
Oh, yeah. I mean, yeah, I've made enough. Number one, I don't really have a super high burn lifestyle. Yeah, I'm not cheap. Maybe I'm cheap with certain things, but.
Tracy D'Annunzio
You're minimalist.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, minimalist. Like everything I'm wearing right now, except for the shoes, I got for free. Like I'm not. Not flashing a lot of fancy brands. Yeah, I came in wearing shorts, which I also got for free. There is that. You can take the boy out of Long island, but maybe not Long island out of. I've got plenty of clothes. I got more than enough clothing. I don't feel like I need more money. I'm very fortunate in that way. If you look at some of the decisions I've made over the last handful of years, they are clear indicators that I have come to that realization. In the sense that, for instance, before we started recording, and maybe it was some of it was included, who knows? But we were chatting about recording and how impressive this entire studio is and how my recording studio basically fits in my backpack.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Two turntables and a microphone. That's Tim's whole.
Tim Ferriss
It's two lav mics that I could hold in the palm of my hand and one headset. If I'm doing recordings remotely. That's it. It can literally fit in my backpack. I could have four such studios in my backpack, no problem. And have largely minimized video, in part because I do not want to have a fixed location. I do not want to require people to travel to me. I want flexibility and options. All of that is at great financial.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Cost because if you did video and had a whole studio and did a fancier production, you could probably be growing your audience and distributing across more channels.
Nicole Lapin
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
YouTube is the growth mechanism.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah. Didn't you have a TV show at one point?
Tim Ferriss
I did.
Tracy D'Annunzio
I remember seeing you on my Apple tv.
Tim Ferriss
Oh, yeah. I did two TV shows. And I think at that point this was also quite a while ago. So this is when TV was as network television and cable both combined, more relevant. But in a cable cutting world, it just really isn't necessary. And there's so many amazing productions on YouTube, on Instagram, on TikTok, and there are people who are really good and rival anything you would see on broadcast. And they do it for far less money, far less bloat, far less bureaucracy. It's wonderful. And that's not the game I want to play. And I think it is worth contemplating. I think about this a lot, that above a certain point on Maslow's hierarchy of needs, if you have shelter, if you have warmth, if you have food, handful of other basic necessities, everything beyond that that you choose to do is a game of some type. And people might say, well, hold on, I need to pay my mortgage. And you just. Yes, true, but that's shelter.
Tracy D'Annunzio
And that's right there in the basics.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, that's shelter. That's in the basics. Right. Or you're renting now. So I would say I'll say two things and this will actually tie into another podcast guest. So you're choosing to play a game, and the first key is to be aware that's what you're doing. And that the goal for me is not first and foremost to get good at the game. Meaning whatever game I've subconsciously or accidentally ended up in is to choose the right game.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Tim, this is good. I want you to say it again slowly.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Anything beyond your basic needs is a.
Tim Ferriss
Game is a game. There are rules that you're implicitly or explicitly agreeing to. There are conditions for winning or not winning.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay.
Tim Ferriss
And these are all stories that you tell yourself probably in a peer group.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Right.
Tim Ferriss
And you don't have to play that game. There might be costs to not playing that game, but you don't have to play that game. It's not a matter of life and death. And I think much of My time is spent thinking about the games I want to play and what games am I playing right now that may not be serving me, which is very closely tied to what stories am I telling myself. Right. What thoughts am I taking to be true? That is beliefs. And you can come up with a lot of interesting workarounds or alternatives once you start poking at that stuff. And for instance, if you happen to live in. I'll give some coastal examples because they're just easy. If you choose to live in, say, la, what are. What's the game a lot of people are playing in la? It's the Fame game. Right. If you're in New York, what's one game that a lot of people are playing in New York? It's the money game. Go to dc. Okay. What game are people playing there? The Power game.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
And then there are many other. There are a million other games you.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Can play with yourself.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Internal games.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, there's tons of that. I would just say, like, if you had to make a parody, like a Seinfeld episode that's too dated, but if you had to make an episode that was like a parody of your friend group, what would be the games that your friend group are playing? Because chances are you're playing the same games.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Right.
Tim Ferriss
It's like, what would a. What would a Larry David Curb youb Enthusiasm episode. Pick your. I'm going on the string of Larry David from Seinfeld to Larry David. We get the idea. If you're going to make a 30 minute parody of including your friend group. Right.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
Like what would you make fun of?
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
Because chances are those same things apply to you on some level and you can get there maybe through humor to some important truths that might be hard to tackle head on otherwise.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Do you think most people are playing a game that they landed in by default?
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, for sure.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Like not even really knowing what game they're playing or why.
Tim Ferriss
Sure. Or they started playing a game deliberately, like I did with entrepreneurship, with a certain set of beliefs about the game. In other words, like when I make X amount of money, when I make a million dollars, I will be a millionaire officially, and that will mean I have one. And then I can make X percent per year also another assumption and belief based on that. And I can do all the things I want to do, but then to focus, to get to that million dollars, what happens? You ignore all of these facets of your life potentially, or you neglect them and then you get to a million and you realize the one thing that you've become really good at to the exclusion of other things is making money. So what do you do now? You decide you need 5 million.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Right. And also because if you want to feel good about yourself, you want to wake up every day and do what you know you're good at so you can win at something, it's very hard to switch gears when you've only developed that muscle.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, exactly. For me, having some type of sports component has always been really important because things can take away your money very easily. Like this is fortune, meaning the fates.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yes.
Tim Ferriss
Chance.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yes.
Tim Ferriss
Can do really gnarly things to your money. And if you have all your eggs in that basket, I think it makes you fragile. So for me, if my business or my podcast or whatever isn't doing as well as I would like it to do, you can measure that a bunch of different ways. If I had a good day, like I came here from archery. Right. If I had a good day doing archery, I'm taking it really seriously. It's still a good day. And that makes me more antifragile. Right. It makes me more resilient. So I try to have at least a few of those kind of interests that are not to get too fancy, but like uncorrelated. Right. Show about money. Right. You can talk about uncorrelated investments. You can also talk about it with identities and you can talk about it with interests.
Tracy D'Annunzio
It's like a diversified portfolio of your identity.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah.
Tracy D'Annunzio
So you're not overly committed to one thing and if it goes bust, you go bust.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Do you think there was any area that as you were building your money, your fame, your career that you neglected?
Tim Ferriss
Oh, sure. Yeah. There have been times certainly when I was neglecting self care.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay.
Tim Ferriss
Sleep, you know, consuming too many stimulants to stay up, maybe drinking too much. It could be anything like that. When you are just running on fumes. When you've pushed it too hard.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
Something's got to give.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yes.
Tim Ferriss
And that might be time with your friends, it might be time with your significant other. Might be time with your family. It might be getting to the gym or doing some type of exercise. Might be your diet. Right. Maybe you're stressed out. So instead of having reaching for a glass of wine, you reach for a bag of chips. It's the same thing.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah. Totally.
Tim Ferriss
Different tool, same job.
Tracy D'Annunzio
So what happens to Tim Ferriss when you're not taking care of yourself?
Tim Ferriss
I feel like in the last decade or two, I've been quite good about catching myself before I get to code Red.
Tracy D'Annunzio
You are quite good at that.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah. So what happens, Tim? I think the first thing to suffer is typically sleep.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay.
Tim Ferriss
And in a sense I'm grateful for that because it is self limiting.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Like if you just run out of steam.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah. If you don't sleep, if you sleep poorly for long enough, like you're going to crash and then that's the wake up call. But in the last probably 20 years, certainly mostly, especially in the last decade, I think with certain non negotiables, I've been pretty good at avoiding that. Right. And I think mentally just categorizing certain things. Like for instance, the meditation. You've. You categorize that. Brushing your teeth or taking a shower, like you must. You're not going to go like a week without showering. If you're exercising. Right. Okay. Then you can't go a day without meditating.
Tracy D'Annunzio
That's a good, that's a good thing to put in all of our brains.
Tim Ferriss
Like, how many people love brushing their teeth. I'll do it, but it's not like getting a massage. I'm not like, oh, yeah, baby, Swedish massage for my gums. I'm not into it, but I do it. Why? Because you've conditioned yourself to do it. It is non negotiable. You've told yourself it's non negotiable.
Tracy D'Annunzio
I don't know. I'm going to tell myself now that not meditating is so gross. It's like not showering.
Tim Ferriss
No, exactly.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Because you're like, how could I not find 10 minutes a day? I don't find 10 minutes a day all the time. And I'll get in bed and be like, oh, how did I not do that?
Tim Ferriss
That's also one of the benefits of just saying, doesn't matter when you do it. If you do it right before bed. Great.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah, just get it in.
Tim Ferriss
I would say, and this is borrowing from somebody else, I can't remember the attribution. If you don't have 10 minutes a day to meditate, you need 10 hours. It's kind of like symptomatic of other problems. I would say, okay, fine. Like if we're in a negotiation and you're saying, I don't have 10 minutes twice a day, fine, okay, 30 seconds twice a day. Do you have that? Nobody really with a straight face can say no. It's like, all right, now we're just determining. It's not whether you do it or not, we're just negotiating the duration.
Tracy D'Annunzio
So maybe that's it. You flip the switch to doing it.
Tim Ferriss
And then you build and one song like when I. There was a point when I was running really ragged and I just decided, okay, I'm going to listen to. I was really into it. I think he's an amazing musician, Prince. So I wanted to listen to some feel good Prince song. I was like, all right, I'm just. I have to meditate once a day to one song. That's it. And yeah, that was the foot in the door. You don't have to get the whole body in the door. Just get the foot in the door.
Tracy D'Annunzio
And it's like a little reward cuz you get to hear a song that you like.
Tim Ferriss
Sure.
Nicole Lapin
Hold onto your wallets. Money Rehab will be right back. And now for some more Money Rehab.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay, so you were like the original or one of the original biohackers and now all that stuff has gone super mainstream. Yeah, we're all like, we're listening to Huberman and Peter Thiel, these guys you're friends with. And. And it's like we need to all be millionaires and have seven hours a day to do. It's like I have to cold plunge, but I have to also heat. I need my red light. I have to. Don't drink coffee. No, drink the coffee.
Tim Ferriss
When the morning routine is three hours.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Long and the evening routine and all that. So help us separate the wheat from the chaff. If I'm not a millionaire, if I don't have a three hour time span for my morning routine, what are the must haves?
Tim Ferriss
So I've changed perhaps my viewpoint on a lot of this in the sense that I used to test everything imaginable. I was the human guinea pig. I was way out at the edges and I don't really do much of that anymore in the sense that I think health very often is what we abstain from as much as it is what we do. It's a very. Look, I love the United States. I love it. But it's a very American thing, at least prototypically American thing to think more is better. It's very much part of the ethos of the country and to look for things to do. Because I think Americans have that Protestant work ethic. And if it is to be, it is up to me and I must make it happen. Which implies doing things, which also often implies adding things. Right. Which is why the supplement markets do so well in the us But I have started to look and I will answer your question directly and give you a couple of easy things that what you don't do is as important as what you do. So, for instance, I. Maybe you're not going to see it on camera, but I have a lot of people ask me about, believe it or not, skincare. I'm 47 and they're just like, what do you do? Because, like, the photos of me from 10 years ago look the same as they do. Like, I haven't. I don't look discernibly different. And I just. Among other things, I'm like, number one. Maybe it's just genetics. Who knows? I don't think so, though. Like my family. It's not. They all look like Benjamin Butler.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Cover your ears. Tim's family.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah. No, I'm just saying it doesn't seem to be purely genetic. I would say, as an example, Right. The only soap I use, and this is not a paid endorsement or anything, is Dr. Bronner's unscented baby soap. That's it for everything. Now, I have the luxury of doing that because I'm bald too. But I want to avoid phthalates. I want to avoid. Which often can be found through fragrances that very often come together and make whatever I put on my skin as innocuous as possible. And the skin is an organ. You absorb a lot through your skin. I very rarely. This is not medical advice, but very rarely use any kind of sun protection. I just moderate my skin exposure to sun. If you have to put a bunch of chemicals on your skin to be out in the sun for long periods of time, don't be out in the sun for long periods of time. There are some exceptions. Right. If I'm going to go surfing, fine. I don't want to be turned into a lobster.
Tracy D'Annunzio
And you have light eyes. Right. That kind of goes with the skin.
Tim Ferriss
Very sensitive, Very sensitive and so on and so forth of food.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Skincare routine is Dr. Bronner's. And go in the sun sometimes.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, I don't. I literally don't. Like, I don't put other on my face or on my body. I think it is a gamble. You just don't know.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Like, more is more, but more is not better. And doing more. The temptation to do more.
Tim Ferriss
I'll give you. This is going to be a little digression, but I'll give another example. Right. So people have issues. Whether it's not medical advice, again, not a doctor, don't play one on the Internet, So talk to your general practitioner. But whether it's digestive issues, ibs, rheumatoid arthritis, or whatever people are looking for, what to add, what pill to take, what thing to do to Fix it. There is an interesting book. I don't love every aspect of it, but I believe it's called the Oldest Cure. It's a book about fasting and how many issues seem to resolve themselves if you just fast. It's not suitable for everyone, but by the way, we're evolved to handle fasting. How many things just go away if you stop? If you give your body a chance to rest, as all animals do, and just take a break from food or take a break from carbohydrates and go on a ketogenic diet, for instance. A lot of these intractable, sometimes considered untreatable psychiatric conditions respond really well to something that's now called metabolic psychiatry, which in simple terms is putting people on a ketogenic diet and it's protein of fat. So Chris Palmer of Harvard, if people want to look into this, has spoken really well on this. I interviewed him on the podcast, but he has a book as well. And people who are on a dozen medications for borderline personality disorder, schizophrenia, go on a ketogenic diet and literally within a week, 90% of their symptoms go away. So for me, I think about, maybe a better way to put it is subtraction. As much as I think about addition, where as previously, I think I was very addition focused because that's how you come pre programmed. If you are in the US and a lot of places, but you come pre programmed to look for what to add. And I think that in a lot of cases that's a mistake. Okay, so for these are things I think of, I'm not going to say it applies to everybody, but just in terms of health, mileage may vary. Yeah, your mileage may vary. So number one, diet and exercise. It sounds so boring. But the further along people get, if you look at say Peter Attia, who is very credible and knows how to read research, knows how to perform research and does a great job, I think on the drive, his podcast, and also on his website and in his membership pieces of his program of breaking down scientific studies and showing where things are hyperbole, where things are exaggerated and where things are mistranslated by the media. Media, very valuable. He has a series of blog posts called Studying the Studies, which I encourage everybody to read. But the point of saying all that is that the more he learns, the more he's like, yeah, you gotta do weight training, you gotta do zone two, which is getting your heart rate, certain types of cardio, and probably a good idea to limit some of your carbohydrate intake and, and that's what you should do. And for instance, I've spoken to researchers at the very, very tops of their fields who specialize in things like Metformin. So Metformin is a drug that like a lot of drugs like GLP1 agonists like Ozempic and so on, these were designed for type 2 diabetics in most cases or in a lot of cases. And then rich people start toying with them for weight loss or whatever it might be. Longevity.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Say it like that because it's always, it gets in the hands of longevity medicine doctors and we figure out, yeah.
Tim Ferriss
So it starts with rich people who tested on themselves and then it might start with bodybuilders or people like wasting diseases. Right. These sort of edge cases then bleed in and then they become bigger things. But I was talking to this and a lot of these. So I'll give an example of something that some very wealthy people do. They might use something like Metformin for longevity. They don't really have their diet or exercise super dialed. They're half assing it. But they take Metformin. And when I talk to, I'm not going to mention by name, but a very famous researcher at a very well known university and he's like, yeah, I don't think it makes any sense for you to take Metformin. And I was like, what do you mean? He's like, you're already getting 99% of the benefits by having your exercise and diet dialed. He said if you have a huge defense deficiency in those areas, yeah, you'll see some benefits because you're using it as a correction for other deficits. But if you're already doing what you're doing, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense.
Tracy D'Annunzio
It's not what I expected you to say. I expected you to say that nobody should take metformin until or unless they've got their diet and exercise dialed in. We're adding all these things when 99% of the lifting is just doing this. But you're saying people should use it to compensate if they're not.
Tim Ferriss
No, he's not saying they should use it to compensate or they do. He's saying people do use it to compensate, but if you're already getting exercise, you don't need exercise in a pill. And we know that exercise, as long as you don't get injured has pretty limited side effects. Right? We've been exercising as a species for a long time. We've been doing manual labor for a long time. Whereas metformin, really, who Knows, right. There are lots of drugs that come out like thalidomide, remember that one? Oops. There are drugs. It takes a long time to figure out. Wow, that was a disaster. And now people are having like three eyed babies. Fantastic.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
I do think less is more. And if someone were going to. You don't need a $30,000 cold plunge. Right? Number one, if you wanted to do something like that, you can get like a hundred dollar inflatable cold plunge on Amazon.
Tracy D'Annunzio
No, but in fairness I have that. And it's super annoying if you have to put so much.
Tim Ferriss
It is annoying. Look, I've done it too. I've done it. It's annoying. But it's not expensive.
Tracy D'Annunzio
It's not. And it's a good way to see.
Tim Ferriss
If you're try before you buy. Try before you buy.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Does it benefit you a lot? Are you really?
Tim Ferriss
Also forget about the inflatable thing. Look, go to a gas station. This is what I did for years, way back in the day. Just buy bags of ice, put it in your bathtub. Yeah, try it, try it out for a few weeks because see what it.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Does for you that you're doing it for just a couple of minutes. And so for all that labor and all that work that you have to do to create the cold plunge or all the money you're going to spend, is that the highest return roi?
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, it depends. Like for me it's a very good investment because it helps with anti inflammation without me chewing on Advil all day with various sports injuries I've accumulated which comes back to the exercise. Don't overdo it. Oh. I mean I've had 20 plus fractures, so oops. But secondly, mood elevation.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Oh, interesting.
Tim Ferriss
So for antidepressant, for anti anxiety, cold for me is the best pill you can buy.
Tracy D'Annunzio
How do you figure that out? Do you like not do the cold and then do the cold and see a change in your mood?
Tim Ferriss
Oh yeah, Super.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Run your own little experiment.
Tim Ferriss
Super.
Tracy D'Annunzio
It is super obvious.
Tim Ferriss
Oh, it's super obvious. It's not subtle. It's not subtle. And cold baths used to be prescribed by doctors for melancholy back in the day. What is this depression? It's just an older label for it and then that fell out of favor because it's a pain in the ass to administer. Right. People would go to these sanatoriums and they sit in a bath with their head popping out with a cover. It looks bizarre. People didn't want to go to these places just to sit in cold bath sounds pretty miserable. And nonetheless I Do think there was a kernel of something valuable there in terms of longevity and so on? Let's ask a clarifying question because this is important. What are we really trying to accomplish? What is the outcome that you want? Because there's also not to get too fine tuned here. But there's lifespan, like at what age do you die? And then there's health span, meaning how mobile, how fast, how active, how cognitively sharp do you want to be for how long? These are different things.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Totally. And different protocols, they're different.
Tim Ferriss
For instance, you could do we know that caloric restriction works for life extension. But unfortunately speaking, let's just say as a male, I mean, I was going to say it might make your hair fall out. I don't have to worry about that. But hair falling out, plummeting testosterone, no libido. Is that the life you want to have?
Tracy D'Annunzio
Like 70 good years where you eat well, then 90 restricted state.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah. Also, which is why I do not think I'll give you two opposing perspectives in a sense.
Nicole Lapin
Hold onto your wallets. Money rehab will be right back. And now for some more money rehab.
Tim Ferriss
I'll give you two opposing perspectives in a sense. So the first is I told you I have a low cost like low burn lifestyle. Generally the one place where I do spend a lot of money is with very good concierge doctor. All right, so if you're going to make money for something, I think the highest leverage use of money is probably personal trainers which I do not currently use, but I use coaches for various sports. And then it would be really good doctors who have great access for you and your family to specialists, have access to the latest research, who can move mountains to make things happen quickly, who know how to do really high end diagnostics. That's where you spend money. Okay. Most of the ingredients that a doctor who's very good in my opinion, who's looking at the full spectrum of inputs, Peter Thia would. Right. It's not just which problems do you have, which pills can I prescribe, it's the diet, the exercise, et cetera. Those don't need to cost alone. And exercise, look, you can get a gym membership for what, 20 to 100 bucks a month.
Tracy D'Annunzio
And if you're not exercising yet, you don't even need the gym and you.
Tim Ferriss
Don'T even need that. You don't even need that. You get one kettlebell, you can have an amazing gym. My gym for many years, even though I could afford to do the fancy stuff, was a few kettlebells in my garage that's it. And I was in incredible shape. I was in such better shape than I am now. And that's it. Right. And the other place I would spend money is on quality food. Not everybody can. But if you can avoid pesticides to the extent possible, that's a good investment. Right. Look up the Dirty Dozen, for instance. There's a list of vegetables called the Dirty Dozen and then clean 15 or something like that. I put this all in the four hour body. Not trying to sell that book, but it's a lot of it holds up. That came out in 2010 and it highlighted a lot that has since become mainstream. Cold exposure, glucose monitors, continuous glucose monitors.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Facebook was like a little fringe almost at the time. And now it's all the stuff we've all been doing.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, it's all mainstream now. A lot of it. So if you look at these vegetables, those will basically indicate, in the case of the Dirty Dozen, the fruits and vegetables that are most typically covered with pesticides and other types of industrial chemicals. And you just avoid those or maybe choose organic for those if you're going to consume them. And then the clean 15, those that are generally going to have the lowest load of pesticides and so on. Like you do not need to be a millionaire to do that. I was doing that when I was making 50 grand a year. Like you can pick and choose. Like do what you can. Doesn't need to be perfect. Just like it's like the meditating. Can't do an hour a day. Fine. Can you do 30 seconds a day? Great. Like maybe you have one thing you like raspberries or blackberries. I'm making these up. But berries often get a lot of spray.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
Okay. Maybe just for the berries, you pay the extra $2 for the organic. If that's an assurance that they're a low pesticides.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Is it? Is it?
Tim Ferriss
It gets, it gets a little, it gets a little tricky. But I'm saying like do what you can. Right.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Fair.
Tim Ferriss
And that's it. So I really think a lot about minimizing chemicals, heavy metals. Like I very rarely eat tuna, for instance. Any bioaccumulator, like larger animals that they.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Eat the smaller fish and they have so that it has what? More mercury.
Tim Ferriss
More mercury. And other things might have other heavy metals things like arsenic. So that's easy.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Not eating gin is pretty easy.
Tim Ferriss
Not eating tuna. Yeah, it's pretty, pretty easy. So they're little things like that. Or for instance, in the case this is going to be out of reach for a lot of folks. But if you're going to eat, say, red meat, which I do try to get. We can leave the ethics aside, but just try to get the most nutrient dense, clean meat you can. And maybe that means you hunt once a year like I do. Right? Maybe that. But seriously, like, maybe that means you hunt once a year and that's a few months of meat. And then you trade with people to get other things like I do. Also, you do that.
Tracy D'Annunzio
You trade the meat that you hunt to get other.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, I don't sell it. That's illegal. But it's. If I have a friend who's got a moose, I got an elk. And then I have a friend who's got a million pounds of tomatoes and I can't even look at another tomato. And then I have another friend who does salmon fishing trip once a year and he's. I can't have another salmon sandwich. Great. Then you can mix and match. And that is something very poor people do all over the place is hunt. Right. So if you're like, well, I can't afford whole foods, fine. Okay, there are options. I'm not saying that you're going to love all the options, but there are options.
Tracy D'Annunzio
So like the OG biohacker is saying, diet, exercise, eat clean, skip the tuna. Don't make it so complicated. Don't keep adding. Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
And every once in a while, am I gonna have a pokeball with tuna? Yeah, sure, fine.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Every once in a while, skip the tuna. Mostly.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, yeah. I'm just saying that it's very easy to believe. I've spent a lot of money testing all sorts of things. It's very easy to believe, especially if you're on social media where half of the influencers are trying to sell you something because they get a kickback or they get a sponsorship payment or they have some rev share, whatever it might be. You need to go to this clinic to get peptides, to get stem cells, to get this, that or the other thing. And you go to the website and you're like, oh my God, this is $20,000. There's a lot of bullshit out there and there are also some good things out there. But we live in a capitalist society. I'm a capitalist. I think there's a lot to be said for market driven, driven solutions. It's not a perfect system. Lots of issues too. But you're dealing with social media platforms that want to make money and people are attracted to those also sometimes because they want to make money. So you just need to know that you're swimming in those waters. So when you go online, you might find various biohackers and they're almost all selling stuff. What does that mean? It means that to emulate them is going to be surprise, surprise, expensive. But for instance, like very hard to self fasting. Like, who's gonna. Who's gonna profit from fasting?
Tracy D'Annunzio
Tim's getting rich off of telling people.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, I'm getting rich off of telling people to stop you for a few.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Days for giving out tips that like make you no money.
Tim Ferriss
Oh, none whatsoever. Yeah, if I wanted to make, I could have made. I mean, I could have made probably. And I don't think this is an exaggeration. Probably $100 million from now. If I had launched a supplement company with the four Hour Body. I did not want people to question my credibility or my motives. So my currency is credibility.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yes.
Tim Ferriss
That is the story. I tell myself that it is more valuable than the cash.
Tracy D'Annunzio
I think that's right. And another thing, it's pernicious out there, right. Because you've got influencers who might be trying to sell you something. And even when they're not trying to sell you something explicitly, they're benefiting from making more outrageous statements than not.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Because it's an attention economy too. And they're getting clicks and people are like, ooh, what? Really? Oh my God, I need rapamycin or I'm gonna die. I have to click here and learn about it. And you never did that either. Like you refused to traffic in outrage or no sensationalism.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah, I don't do that. That is where it is most expensive for me.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah. Because the game you're playing is to be credible, to be like a reliable source of information.
Tim Ferriss
Which means, for instance, I try not to do it. Sometimes it slips through because I have multiple people working on stuff. But the clickbait headlines for videos and so on, I really try not to do that.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
And that I get severely penalized for that. I want to just clarify one thing too. That not everyone on social media who is selling something or getting a rev share is doing that in bad faith. Right. There are. Everybody's got to make a living. And also there are people who really believe in whatever they happen to be recommending. Right. Look, I think disclosure is important. Right. Like the way app with Henry Schuchman. Like, I'm an investor. I invested super early when they basically had nothing because I had him as a podcast guest and I was like, this guy knows what he's doing. And one of my friends lives was totally transformed. Kevin Rose by Henry And I was like, okay, sure. But I'm disclosing it. So the disclosure is super important. And there are some really fascinating things out there. Right. So just because someone is selling something or recommending something they get a rev share on does not mean that you shouldn't pay attention. But you should be aware that you might be asking a barber if you need a haircut.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Totally.
Tim Ferriss
Right. In which case the answer is going to be yes. There are some drugs that I think are interesting, but I'm not at a point where I would. Rapamycin.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Okay. You do you think it's interesting?
Tim Ferriss
I do think rapamycin is very interesting. It's an immunosuppressant. It's used in organ transplants. Right. So you have to be very careful with something like this. But Peter Tia talks much more credibly about rapamycin.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
So I would listen to something that he's put out related to rapamycin. And I remember interviewing a number of experts on a trip to Easter island actually, and we talked about rapamycin. This is probably close to 10 years ago.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Wow.
Tim Ferriss
Eight to 10 years ago.
Tracy D'Annunzio
That was way ahead of when it entered into the super.
Tim Ferriss
It was super, super early.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
And that's because rapamycin was first isolated and identified on Easter island, even though it occurs many other places. And the native name for Easter island is Rapa Nui, which is why rapamycin is called rapamycin. So to come back to your question, let me lay out just like a couple of things that are critical for me. I think the meditation of some type. Right. Archery, I think, is meditation for me as well. Right. But I don't want to split too many hairs here. Weight training non negotiable as you get older. Cardio is not enough for men and women, I would say. I would say especially women with the risks of osteoporosis and so on. And sarcopenia, which is age related muscle loss. If you don't want to fall and break a hip and then die a handful of years later, which is very often what happens. You need to have muscular strength. The most reliable way to do that. Perhaps the only way to reliably do that in modern society is to do resistance training. And if you are a woman listening to this, you are not going to become super bulky and look like you wish you could. Professional bodybuilder. It ain't going to happen overnight, certainly. Right. So strength train. And at least most of the guys I know, they're attracted to strong women. Doesn't mean crossfit Games champion. But like strong women. Yeah, Dancers. But women, I would say, and I don't know the exact number, but it's something that they have 1/20 to 1/10 of the circulating testosterone of men. Men have trouble putting on muscle.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yes.
Tim Ferriss
A lot of men want to put on muscle and they have a hard time. So don't worry about getting bulky, but do focus on getting strong. And the way to do that, keep it simple. Once or twice a week, very slow cadence. Weight training. What does that mean? That just means like 5 to 10 seconds up, 5 to 10 seconds back until you have muscular failure where you can't get any further. Push for another five seconds, you're done with that exercise. Hit all your major muscle groups. It should only take about a half hour, maybe less. Do that once or twice a week. You're done. You're done. And then there are other things like the aerobic training zone, too. Stuff like that. Also doesn't need to be expensive. Right? Get a bicycle. Run up. Run up a hill.
Tracy D'Annunzio
Yeah.
Tim Ferriss
Do kettlebell swings. There are a million ways to do it. The expense is not an excuse. And by the way, if you're like, I can't afford a kettlebell, there's something called a T bar kettlebell. You can go to a place plumbing store and buy materials for five to ten dollars where you can make your own adjustable weight kettlebell. Then you do need plates, but the plates are like a dollar a pound, so fine. And if you want purely bodyweight stuff that is really effective. Gymnastics strength training, GST with a guy named Chris Summer, who's the former coach for the men's national team in the us no weights required.
Tracy D'Annunzio
And you've done gymnastics?
Tim Ferriss
I have done gymnastics strength training. I'm not really built for gymnastics. Just too many fractures and wrist issues and stuff. But you can get in tremendous shape without weights at all. It's still resistance training. You're just using body weight and different ways to approach that. So this is just a long way of saying that you don't need to spend what a lot of these folks online pride themselves on, which is, I spend $200,000 a year. I spend a million dollars a year on this and this. You don't need to do that. Let them do that. They might find something interesting and give.
Tracy D'Annunzio
You information, hopefully for free.
Tim Ferriss
Yeah. Fantastic.
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Podcast Summary: Money Rehab with Nicole Lapin
Episode: Tim Ferriss (Pt 1) on Biohacking Basics and Rewiring Your Money Mindset
Release Date: December 3, 2024
Introduction
In this episode of Money Rehab, hosted by Tracy D'Annunzio in Nicole Lapin's absence, acclaimed author and entrepreneur Tim Ferriss joins to discuss the fundamentals of biohacking and transforming one’s money mindset. This conversation delves into practical strategies for personal improvement, emphasizing simplicity and effectiveness over complexity and excess.
Reconnecting with Tim Ferriss
Tracy begins by reminiscing about her first interview with Tim Ferriss a decade ago, highlighting his growth and sustained influence over the years.
Tracy D'Annunzio [04:35]: "Tim has written five number one New York Times bestsellers...he's probably best known for his podcast which has over a billion, billion downloads."
Tim humorously recalls being slightly inebriated during their initial conversation, setting a light-hearted tone for the episode.
The Concept of Hedonic Adaptation
A significant portion of the discussion centers around hedonic adaptation—the process by which people become accustomed to positive or negative changes in their lives, diminishing their impact over time.
Tim Ferriss [09:29]: "If you overindulge chocolate, you eat it too much. What happens? You stop getting the same reward from eating said chocolate."
He explains how reducing or eliminating certain habits can reset the brain's reward system, making previously enjoyable activities pleasurable again without requiring increased intensity or frequency.
Practical Behavioral Changes
Tim emphasizes the importance of making small, manageable changes rather than overhauling one’s lifestyle overnight. He advocates for starting with simple habits that are easy to maintain, thereby ensuring long-term adherence.
Tim Ferriss [13:15]: "Start with something you can win in the beginning."
He shares his own practice of meditating for ten minutes twice daily, illustrating how small commitments can lead to significant personal growth.
Lessons from High Performers
Drawing from his extensive experience interviewing top performers, Tim identifies common practices that contribute to success. Notably, he observes that 70-80% of his guests incorporate some form of meditation into their routines.
Tim Ferriss [12:04]: "A few that come to mind would be...very high percentage have some type of meditation practice."
He cautions against assuming causation from correlation, urging listeners to critically assess whether these habits led to success or were adopted afterward.
Rewiring the Money Mindset
The conversation shifts to the psychological aspects of money and how our narratives around it shape our financial behaviors and perceptions of success.
Tim Ferriss [16:50]: "Money is a story that you tell yourself. So come up with a story that you can live with."
Tim discusses the scarcity mindset he observed growing up, where money was seen as a solution to all problems. He challenges the notion that money alone can bring happiness, emphasizing the importance of defining personal success beyond financial metrics.
Balanced Lifestyle and Identity Diversification
Tim advocates for a diversified identity to avoid becoming overly reliant on one aspect of life, such as financial success.
Tim Ferriss [26:15]: "It's important to have some identity diversification by maintaining some other deep interests so that you don't paint yourself into a corner where you have one path for self-validation and that is more money."
He shares his personal strategies, including engaging in sports like archery, to maintain resilience and prevent financial setbacks from derailing his overall well-being.
Accessible Biohacking Practices
Tim demystifies biohacking, highlighting simple and cost-effective methods that anyone can incorporate into their lives without the need for expensive equipment or elaborate routines.
Tim Ferriss [53:58]: "So it's very easy to believe, especially if you're on social media where half of the influencers are trying to sell you something...you just need to know that you're swimming in those waters."
He advises focusing on essential practices such as strength training, meditation, and a clean diet, rather than getting caught up in the latest expensive trends.
The Pitfalls of Over-Complication
Challenging the “more is better” mentality, Tim stresses the value of simplicity in personal development and biohacking.
Tim Ferriss [56:04]: "And every once in a while, am I gonna have a pokeball with tuna? Yeah, sure, fine."
He encourages listeners to prioritize what truly matters, avoiding unnecessary additions that complicate their routines without providing significant benefits.
Credibility Over Commercial Interests
Tim underscores the importance of maintaining credibility over pursuing commercial gains, especially in the realm of biohacking where misinformation is rampant.
Tim Ferriss [57:37]: "I try not to do that. Sometimes it slips through because I have multiple people working on stuff. But the clickbait headlines for videos and so on, I really try not to do that."
He emphasizes transparency and honesty, advising listeners to discern credible information from marketing-driven hype.
Conclusion
Tim Ferriss wraps up by reiterating fundamental biohacking principles: consistent meditation, regular strength training, and a clean diet. He advocates for actionable, low-cost strategies that prioritize long-term well-being over short-term fixes. The episode serves as a valuable guide for listeners seeking to enhance their lives through practical and sustainable methods.
Tim Ferriss [64:34]: "It's very easy to believe, especially if you're on social media...you just need to know that you're swimming in those waters."
This thoughtful discussion provides listeners with actionable insights into biohacking and reshaping their relationship with money, fostering a balanced and fulfilling life.
Notable Quotes
Tim Ferriss [09:29]: "If you overindulge chocolate, you eat it too much. What happens? You stop getting the same reward from eating said chocolate."
Tim Ferriss [16:50]: "Money is a story that you tell yourself. So come up with a story that you can live with."
Tim Ferriss [26:15]: "It's important to have some identity diversification by maintaining some other deep interests so that you don't paint yourself into a corner where you have one path for self-validation and that is more money."
Tim Ferriss [53:58]: "It's very easy to believe, especially if you're on social media where half of the influencers are trying to sell you something...you just need to know that you're swimming in those waters."
Tim Ferriss [64:34]: "It's very easy to believe, especially if you're on social media...you just need to know that you're swimming in those waters."
Final Thoughts
This episode of Money Rehab offers a blend of personal anecdotes, scientific insights, and practical advice from Tim Ferriss. By focusing on fundamental habits and fostering a healthy mindset towards money, listeners are equipped with the tools to embark on their own financial and personal development journeys.