
30 Korean bachelors compete to find the perfect wife. They will do anything to get married except… Lift heavy things. Date someone who is not motherly. Date someone who is not naturally beautiful. Date someone who doesn’t support their high risk low reward cryptocurrency investment. And what do they bring to the table? A body shaped like a fridge.
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Stephanie
I do have a reality show problem.
David
It's become kind of out of control at this point. I don't know how many shows I'm in the midst of. I don't know how many shows I've unwillingly forced you without your consent to.
Stephanie
Join me on this journey. But you know what?
David
I think at this point you guys.
Stephanie
Have Stockholm syndrome and we're just going.
David
To have to go with it because, I don't know, you guys are kind of clicking. So we're, we're just going to keep it flowing. And I found this new Korean show. Actually, my Korean researchers said, they told.
Stephanie
Me, hey, listen, you've been watching China Singles Inferno. Not really.
David
I don't know what the you're watching. I'm just gonna be so real with you, Stephanie. We don't know what you're doing.
Stephanie
So my Korean researchers were reaching out to me and they said, hey, I don't know if you want to know this information because we don't really want to like start something.
David
Like, we don't want to start another obsession. And then you go off the grid for like two weeks and then you're just sucked into this thing. But there is this show that everybody's been kind of obsessed with in Korea, and it's called Couples Paradise. And this is like the squid games of speed dating in South Korea.
Emily
What does that mean?
David
You know, it's just so cutthroat. Like, what is that so cutthroat? It's so mean. Like, you think Beauty and the Best was mean? These people are mean. But in a very normalized way. It just like, it's so. So many parts of. Even just episode one made me slightly uncomfortable. I don't even know why.
Stephanie
It just. It's the speed dating. It's. Picture this. I'm gonna set the scene for you. Okay? It's kind of like a giant windowless warehouse. And you've got two male hosts, very famous people, okay?
David
And these very famous men, they're going to make sure that these people get.
Stephanie
Married at the end. This, like, never happens in Korean reality shows. Like by the end of A K drama, you might have a no tongue kissing scene.
David
So that means by the end of Korean reality show, nothing happens.
Emily
So they're going to get legally married?
Stephanie
No, but they want to. That's the aim. And I think at the end they even like put them in wedding dresses and then they have to like, pick one.
David
I don't know if they force you to like legally get married like the Bachelor does. Okay. Because that's actually unhinged. Like, we need to psychologically kind of study that maybe in the next 30 years.
Emily
I mean, give them a couple of years, they'll get there too.
David
They'll get to the Bachelor, they'll get to the Bachelorette.
Stephanie
So they're going to get 60 men, 60 women, 60 men who want to get married. And they're gonna come into this warehouse and they're going to just stare at each other.
David
You've got all of the women, so you got all the women on one side. And they've got numbers on their chest.
Stephanie
They are known just by their numbers. And the guys, they also have numbers on their chest.
David
So one through 60 or whatever.
Emily
So 60 woman, 60 men.
Stephanie
And there's a huge Runway in the middle. It's like New York Fashion Week, Seoul Fashion Week. And they're standing. The women are on the left, the men are on the right.
David
They're on tiered, like stadium type of chairs.
Stephanie
And they're staring at each other for 30 seconds in pure silence.
David
First of all, when they come out, the lights are off. It's dim. It's dim. Then they boom, turn on the production studio lights and they gotta stare at each other for 30 seconds.
Stephanie
Seconds. It's called the first impression stare.
David
So you look at all 60 people in like 30 seconds and then you.
Stephanie
Decide which one fits your physical criteria the most.
Emily
How do you pick that in 30 seconds?
Stephanie
That's what I wanted to know, actually, because I feel like my eyes would glaze over and fall out of my dome.
David
But they. They do it.
Stephanie
They be staring.
David
Okay? All the girls are Kind of freaking out. They're like, oh my goodness, I didn't even see this coming. Like, there's so many of them.
Stephanie
And they're like 30 seconds and is the time it takes to fall in love begin. Some guys are like, my hands are sweaty, you know, These girls are all so pretty. We can hear their inner monologue. One guy, he's wearing this black turtleneck with a gray blazer. Keep this, keep this man in your mind.
Emily
Black turtleneck with gray blazer.
Stephanie
Yeah.
Emily
Okay. Can we call him Turtle boy? Okay, Turtle Boy.
David
Turtle boy. His hair is a mature bob. It's a ass bob. He's got a bull bob.
Stephanie
He's got a sharp nose. I'm really confused by his facial features. I feel like his occupation would be an engineer.
David
And everyone's like, ooh, that's so cool. A software engineer.
Stephanie
Like, I definitely think AI is going to take over the world.
David
Here's the catch.
Stephanie
He's not a software engineer.
David
He's just like a civil engineer. He like engineers buildings, which admirable, perhaps more admirable these days than software engineers.
Stephanie
You know, but he kind of likes building. Being mistaken for a software engineer. So he doesn't correct it. That's the vibe he gives me.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
And he just stares into the camera and says, I had to observe the woman. So I was focusing. I didn't smile. And he does give me serial killer eyes. He's just scanning through the crowd of women with his laser focused eyes.
David
He looks over and makes direct eye.
Stephanie
Contact with girl number 10 and she's.
David
Just kind of giggling to herself. Listen, I don't know if she's just shy and giggling or I don't know if something funny is happening or I don't know if she knows where she is. Like, it was like a really intense giggle and I'm like, that's okay. Sometimes I don't know what's going on either. And I just giggle.
Emily
Does she lock eyes with her him or.
Stephanie
No, she's just scanning all of them and I guess it's very awkward.
David
Yeah. So she's very giggly, her cheeks are bright red. I mean, the blush.
Emily
Maybe that will be you.
David
No, exactly. That's why I love her. Okay? And then he says, you know, then.
Stephanie
I noticed girl number 10 was smiling, so I became the most curious about her. Countdown begins.
David
Three, two, one.
Stephanie
Boom. The lights turn off again and everyone is taken out of their seats. And now the seats are just filled with numbers. It is time for speed round dating men division. Here's how it Works. All the girls are going to sit in their seats behind them. They have this giant plaque with their coordinated numbers. So If I'm number 15, it says number 15. And then I got this giant button. It's the nuclear codes, okay? You press it, that means I'm interested in this guy that's on the Runway.
David
And then by the end that he's done talking, he will see how many.
Stephanie
Lights are on, and then out of.
David
Those, he will choose who he wants to take on his first date.
Emily
Okay, that's a classic.
David
This is exactly, exactly. Now, there are some little producer moments.
Stephanie
Where the producers line up all the.
David
Contestants and they're asking them really intimate questions, like, how long have you been single?
Stephanie
And a lot of the guys are like, God, it's been so long. How long have I been single? Like, three years. And then some of the girls are like, oh, I've been single 28 years. Okay. And how old are you? Oh, I just turned 28.
David
So, like, they've been single their whole lives. They've never fucking dated anyone. And now they're on this dating show.
Emily
Do you believe it?
David
Yeah. The way they said it, I'm like, no, I believe you. Okay. Like, especially number 16, teen.
Stephanie
She's wearing this cream blouse.
David
She looks super sweet, but the blouse sleeves are mesh. So maybe she's crazy. Maybe at night time she gets a little crazy. Maybe she likes to go, oh, I.
Emily
Thought we were talking.
Stephanie
Yeah. Oh, the girls, too.
Emily
Oh, oh, you're talking about both. How many years they haven't been okay?
Stephanie
Yeah. And she's like, I'm here looking for a husband.
David
I'm expecting to find my husband. And she's so cute. She's, like, giggling as she's saying that.
Stephanie
But it's kind of like a painful laugh. Yeah.
Emily
What does that mean?
David
She's like, I'm here to find my husband, please. Like, she cannot go home without finding a husband because her mom is probably going to berate her and viciously verbally assault her. So, please, I don't want to be alone anymore. Like, that's the vibe she gives me. But she seems really sweet, and she's really pretty. Everyone here is pretty.
Stephanie
Meanwhile, number 24, she looks a little more assertive.
David
She looks like she could play with.
Stephanie
Maybe, like six guys at the same time. Like, I feel like she could juggle them.
David
Like, she seems like she doesn't get.
Stephanie
Too emotionally attached, but she says, yeah, I just. I think I'm gonna marry someone I meet here.
David
I mean, I just really gotta get one Right. And then number 25 is like, just one? Yeah, we just need one.
Emily
Do they get, like any incentive or.
Stephanie
No, I guess pride, ego, you know.
David
The whole nation is watching, I guess you get love.
Emily
Okay.
David
Yeah. And love, of course. Of course. How could we forget the only thing that comes out of reality shows? True love. Okay. They're the biggest producer of it. And then number nine walks in. She's wearing a peach colored dress that's almost at her knees. Like, I feel like that is even too modest, too conservative for church. Like, it's a lot, you know, she's.
Stephanie
Got big strappy black heels with a black ribbon in her hair. She looks like a choir teacher. All the other girls are studying each other and they're like, do you know her? I think she's a YouTuber. What kind of content does she make? I think she's a beauty influencer. The number six walks in and they're like, wait, why does she look so familiar? And turns out she used to be an idol.
David
She debuted as a member of a group in 1999. So she is a little bit older. Does she look older? No, she looks so young, but she is definitely older. Like, I don't even know if half of y' all were born by that point. Okay, so, yeah, she. She's older.
Emily
Wait, 1999. That's 26 years ago.
David
Yeah. And then she would have been like, what, 18 at the time maybe. Oh, God, she looks young.
Emily
Oh, wow.
Stephanie
She looks like 31.
Emily
You're talking about. She's over 40.
Stephanie
Yeah, she looks 31.
Emily
Wow.
David
And then you get this younger, absolute doll looking girl.
Stephanie
I guess we're gonna find out about her soon because she looks truly like a doll. Like, you know those edited pictures of girls on Pinterest where their lips are completely glossy and there's no way in. I don't know, metaphysics. I don't even know what that word means. That. That is apps just physically possible.
Emily
Yeah, like burlips.
David
I press my button. Okay, so she's got those lips. There's contestants coming back in from season number one.
Stephanie
So this one's actually a very sad story. She was former Miss Korea.
Emily
Is that sad?
Stephanie
No, this is the sad part.
David
Okay.
Stephanie
She was on season one of Couple Paradise.
David
Is this Couple Paradise?
Stephanie
I keep getting this name wrong. You know what?
David
I give up on the name of this show.
Stephanie
It doesn't even fucking matter. She goes on a date with a.
David
Foreigner on season one, and he straight.
Stephanie
Up tells her, you're not skinny. She says, I know. That is it difficult for you to go on a diet? No, I can go on a diet. And now she's back. Clearly that relationship didn't work out. Thank God. I hope that every single time he goes outside, it starts spreading, sprinkling a little bit. And it's like just enough sprinkling with no clouds that you think it's maybe bird piss. That's what I wish upon this man. But for her, I wish upon her true love.
David
I don't know if this is the place she's gonna get it, but she's back. She's back and she lost weight. She lost 44 pounds in six to seven months. And do you know what that means? Do you know what that means? When a girl breaks up with someone and then rapidly loses weight?
Stephanie
That means that girl needs a hug.
David
Okay. And she needs a friend. And maybe a therapist. And maybe some cookies. Okay? So you. You gotta find the one that attracts.
Stephanie
Your attention the Most. Contestant number 10 is the one that caught all the guys attention. She's the one that turtle boy was interested, the smiling one, the giggling one.
David
And so she gets to walk into.
Stephanie
The little sea of girls last. And all the girls get to see. See, that's the one that all the guys like. And you know what all the girls are like. No, I see it. She is the prettiest. That was my first impression too. And I just feel like she is.
David
The type that a lot of guys like.
Stephanie
And then there are also side comments of, I mean, do first impressions really matter in this show? Yeah, no, it does. It does for sure. Yeah, whatever. So they all sit down, they take their seats, and now we've got two male hosts. And we also have a panel of couples therapists.
David
They're like counselors for women and men.
Stephanie
And they're just talking about, like, what do men and women even want these days in a partner? And one of the counselors says, you.
David
Know what, I'm just going to be honest.
Stephanie
These days, economic power is at least a basic requirement. That's a basic requirement. I mean, people care about economic power, height, physique.
David
I mean, at least one of the.
Stephanie
Three has got to be perfect.
Emily
Economic power, height or physique.
Stephanie
Yeah.
Emily
Okay. Either you're tall or you're buff or you're rich.
Stephanie
Yeah. Which is crazy because I thought like, at least personality, we could slide in.
David
There, like maybe as the fourth denominator. Like, it didn't have to be number one.
Emily
Like common interest.
David
Yeah, funny. No. Okay, so the girls are all sitting.
Stephanie
When they hear a ringing noise. What Is that. And then all of a sudden the big screen screen pops up with 10 key words.
David
Six, two. Tall guy, fridge body.
Stephanie
Diligent, manly man.
David
Boyish charm.
Stephanie
Sweet, large dog.
David
Elite who studied abroad. Specialist, professionals.
Stephanie
Gentle and rich.
Emily
Okay. It's so interesting. These are like, you can say like some of the top 10 qualities that women are looking for in Korea.
Stephanie
Yes.
David
That Korean society looks for in partners. Yes.
Emily
And it's very specific. Like you wouldn't see like a girl here in America be. I'm looking for a fridge, daddy.
David
Yeah, it's a fridge, daddy. It's boyish charm, manly man. There's specialists. So these are like your size. Doctor, lawyer, judges, prosecutors. Okay.
Emily
I'm looking for a dentist.
David
Yes. Gentle and rich. Okay, that's like a very specific, I don't even. Elite who studied abroad is also very specific because like I guess in Korea like you really only study abroad if your family has somebody.
Emily
We watch K drama.
David
We don't get it.
Emily
Exactly which one people are feeling in their head.
David
Yeah. And then like another one of the 10 keywords was like S company. So basically that means you work for like, it's like you work for Metta, Amazon, I guess, you know, you name, Apple, Alphabet, whatever.
Emily
One of the big tech.
David
Exactly.
Emily
It would be like S company was like what?
David
Samsung, Samsung. SK Group.
Stephanie
Yeah, SK Group. Yeah, stuff like that.
David
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So this is where they are going to with super fast efficiency because South Korea is all about. Okay, you are gonna find means. Pali.
Stephanie
Pali means hurry, hurry.
David
Yeah, like quickly, quickly.
Emily
Gotta go, gotta go, we gotta go, we gotta go.
Stephanie
Okay, this is find your marriage partner in the couple's palace. So 30 men will appear on a train. The marriage conditions will show up. So they're all going to be categorized into one of these. And we're going to go category by category. So the producers will actually take a.
David
Look at all of the guys specs, their looks, their income. Oh yeah, we get to know everybody's income, their income, their personality traits, their job, everything. And then they're going to categorize them into these keywords and then a train will arrive on stage and these guys like in each category, the girls will.
Stephanie
Get to vote if they want to go on a date.
David
Now if you get picked to go on a first date, you're out of the next session.
Emily
I'm a little confused.
David
Yeah.
Emily
What is this train?
Stephanie
And okay, it's literally like revolving sushi train. Yeah.
David
Okay, so the stage has a train. Choo choo.
Emily
And then all the men's arrive in that category.
David
So we go by category because girls.
Stephanie
Have different categories that they like.
Emily
How many categories? 10.
Stephanie
Yeah, there's like, 10 different categories, and they're trying to make it streamlined. So if, you know, you're not into boyish charm.
David
Okay, like, that's one where I'm like, I'm not even looking.
Emily
But what if someone has, like, two trades, three trades, four trades?
Stephanie
It's up to the producers, and a lot of guys have a lot to say about it, and they say, I'm actually very upset that I was not categorized and gentle and rich. I am actually in between opportunities, and.
David
I do need you to pay for my rent next week. But.
Stephanie
But I think it's offensive.
David
Like, yeah, the guys get upset, but the producers be putting them in based off of their on papers.
Emily
Okay.
David
So the woman can choose.
Stephanie
I'm so sorry. I think I said 60 women and men earlier. I meant, like, literally 30. 30. Sorry.
Emily
Oh, okay.
Stephanie
60 is unhinged.
David
Okay.
Stephanie
So the woman, they can choose the men that they like, and the men will choose out of the people that have their buzzers on which one they want to go on a date with.
Emily
Yeah.
Stephanie
If you get chosen for a first date, you're out for the rest of this forever. No, you can come back in later because the next episode is going to be. The girls are on the stage now.
David
And the guys get to choose.
Emily
Okay, okay, okay. I see.
Stephanie
So now the decision is up to the guys. The emcee hosts, they're giggling with the girls. You know, they say, it's season two. I know. I started on season two because the Korean researchers were like, hey, don't even do season one. Do season two. Because they get exponentially crazier. Like, you just got to amp up all the way. So they say, first of all, the studio has been upgraded. Even the participants have been upgraded.
David
And I'm like, okay, okay. So choo choo. The first train is arriving. Words are flashing on the screen. This is the trait that most of the girls chose that they wanted in a man. So we're gonna stop there. Number one.
Emily
Let me guess. Yes, let me guess. It's gonna be one of the specialists.
Stephanie
No, it's a trait that, like, I.
Emily
Don'T tell me it's fridge body. No, it's got to be rich and gentle.
David
That's what you think, right?
Emily
Yeah.
David
Sweet, large dog type.
Emily
Sweet golden retriever men.
David
Golden retriever men.
Emily
That's the most desirable right now.
David
Yeah.
Emily
Can you describe golden retriever men?
Stephanie
Yes. Golden retriever.
Emily
I mean, I guess I can fill in the.
Stephanie
Yeah, you can fill in the gaps.
Emily
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
David
I.
Stephanie
It's not my preferred type of men, but whatever. Right?
Emily
What is your preferred type man?
David
Okay, if I had to put you into a dog, we went through this, like, okay, we did like an RM team building thing. And we were like, hey, it wasn't a team building thing. It was literally. We were sitting at lunch and I went, if I were a dog, what dog would I be? And they're like, what do you mean?
Emily
You're definitely giving me a Chihuahua with.
David
Like, your dog stuck out and it can't go back in. And you got only like one eyeball, but for some reason, you survive. You are alive. Okay. No, you give, like Afghan Hound.
Stephanie
That's what everyone said.
David
Like those kind of less common, very slender, tall.
Stephanie
Oh, not too sporty, not too, not too cuddly. Just like, exist.
Emily
Okay, but girls want golden retrievers.
Stephanie
I guess so. And then the girls counselor saying, you know, a lot of people like guys who remind them of big friendly dogs. So the first guy comes rolling out like a luggage wheel. You know, he just rolls, rolls, rolls. And he comes out wearing a jean.
David
Or a leather jacket.
Stephanie
Black leather jacket. He looks responsible. He looks funny.
David
I don't know how to describe leather jacket.
Stephanie
He's wearing a black leather jacket.
Emily
Is he. Is he looking for someone open minded?
David
No.
Stephanie
No.
David
He did not say, excuse me, you dropped your iPhone 17. Supermax Pro Max. Pro max. I put my number inside if you're open minded. He did not say that.
Stephanie
You know what he reminds me of? He reminds me of the type of guy that maybe he knew a few dangerous people back in the day or. But now he's kind of. You know, there's like a saying in Korea where oppas will always get. Their faces will always get larger and wider, you know, and they just like.
Emily
What kind of thing is that?
David
Like, you just. You just get older. You get older looking and like, suddenly the leather jacket isn't doing what the leather jacket used to do when you were in your 20s. And that's for. Okay. Because when I was younger, I would wear bodycon and crop tops. I don't do that anymore. And that's a. Okay. He looks like he wears a leather jacket to run his cafe business.
Stephanie
And then also you're kind of like, I don't know if that leather jacket is actually like. I feel like he is stepping on it and rubbing it onto things just to make it look distressed and weathered and worn.
David
But in reality, he bought it brand specifically.
Stephanie
Speaking.
David
No.
Stephanie
So the girls, they start clicking their buttons. It lights up behind him. Every time someone presses it, the ding sounds and it shows on the big screen how many people are pressing for him. The contestant says, I like someone with pretty lips, you know. And everyone's looking at him. He's placed first in the first 30 seconds with seven votes. The host introduces the next sweet large dog man. This man looks like a Dalmatian. I. He comes in pose with hearts on his head. He does this. He cups the top of his head. It looks like ears. He looks like a sweet dog. He's contestant number 26. It feels, you know, he says, I think, I think I'm having a good time with this, you know. And so people start ding, ding, ding, ding. Then the third guy is introduced. Leather jacket again.
David
Yeah. Okay.
Stephanie
It's kind of like the same vibe as the leather jacket guy, but more Lululemon.
David
The first guy looks like he builds muscle in real life. This third guy looks like he builds.
Stephanie
Muscle in the gym.
David
The second guy, Dalmatian.
Stephanie
I don't think he's thinking about bodybuilding.
David
Okay. Now people are kind of debating which of the three that they like. And the girls are changing their choices because there's three of them. They get assigned a color.
Stephanie
So all the buttons are different colors.
David
Now there's like red, yellow, blue.
Stephanie
It's very complicated. The producers, the sound guys, the audio.
David
Equipment, they're pulling their hair out on this one. I just know. I just know.
Stephanie
So now you just have their appearance.
David
You got their type. They're all the sweet large dog type.
Stephanie
You've got their appearance.
David
And now let's reveal their qualifications because we are talking about South Korea. That matters. So pink guy, leather jacket guy, rough around the edges guy, male number three. He is an employee at a conglomerate in Tokyo.
Stephanie
He walks down the Runway, he gets to to the end, and he does something that makes me want to viscerally scoop my insides out with a spoon.
David
You know those grapefruit spoons that have serrated edges? I want to stab myself in the stomach with that. He walks down the Runway and he goes with his hands like paws, like Pyong Pyong.
Emily
That's why he's a go to retriever, honey.
David
The host says he's been living in Japan for 12 years. He has permanent residency in Japan. He works at the biggest it's conglomerate SoftBank in Japan. He makes about $55,000 annually. He starts talking and I take back everything I said.
Stephanie
Remember how I said he probably knew.
David
A few dangerous People back in the day, no. This man doesn't even know someone who jaywalks. He is proper.
Stephanie
He does not sound rough around the edges. The leather jacket is a lie. He says in Japanese, nice to meet you. I'm very happy to meet all of you.
David
And he's super smiley.
Stephanie
After hearing his Japanese, one girl presses her button.
David
That's doing it for her.
Stephanie
And then he says in Korean, hello, I crossed the sea to find my partner.
David
I am male number three now. To add to his background lore, he.
Stephanie
Says, I've lived in Japan since college. I've lived there for 12 years now. The thought of starting a family and settling down came to me recently. I feel very nervous, but I can no longer live abroad in solitude. I must do something about it. Would anyone like to live with me in Japan? And now all the hosts are like, whoa, wait. She would have to move to Japan.
David
She's got to leave Korea.
Stephanie
And all the girls go quiet. It's okay if you don't even speak Japanese at all. I can be responsible and take care of you Immediately.
David
A girl clicks off her button.
Stephanie
It's just too far. So they're, like, talking to each other while they're clicking their button. It's just too far. I'm not gonna go to Japan. The hosts agree. Asking someone to move to another country is a huge deal. Like, it's a huge. You'd have to give up everything. Girl number 23 still has her light on. She was the first one to put her light on for him. And her seatmate, number 22, is asking her, you can move to Japan. I mean, I'd have to, right? And she keeps her light on, and she's so smiley.
David
And he places last when it comes to the number of votes after the whole Japan thing, the number of votes plummet down to four. That's it.
Stephanie
Only four girls still have their light on. And the host says, this isn't simply about dating. You know, marriage is the premise.
Emily
These host are yappers. Like, what are they talking about?
Stephanie
But they're celebrities, so they're cool. Yeah, don't offend them.
David
Don't offend them.
Emily
So they're cool. I mean, what are they? They're talking to each other or what?
Stephanie
Yeah, they're making commentary. But, like, it's good.
David
It's good. I like the host. Sometimes the host be saying some stuff.
Stephanie
And I'm like, I didn't ask for.
David
Like, the four ward. Like you did the. When they do the five pages before the recipe, sometimes the host be doing.
Stephanie
That these hosts are not. I'm just in defense of these hosts.
Emily
Okay, Sorry.
Stephanie
I am representing them as their attorney in this now.
David
So the host is asking him, are you not satisfied with the number of votes you got? Four votes.
Stephanie
He says, well, can I do something that might convince them to vote more? This is his secret weapon. And he stood, starts busting out into a dance move.
David
He's doing the dog thing. He's like, doing the dog, like, paw on his cheek. I would like to pass away. I. Some people love it. Apparently not many, though, because the four stay. But not really. Like, nobody else joins on.
Stephanie
It's just too much. I don't know what it is. This is why I think it's so interesting watching these reality shows, because other guys have the same amount of confidence or some of them will do the most outrageous things. But why is this not as cool.
David
As when some other people do it?
Stephanie
Something about it is just a little desperate.
David
It's a little weird.
Emily
Yeah. Just aura. He has no aura.
Stephanie
He's no aura. And the other guys.
David
All the other guys, the other 30.
Stephanie
Something guys are in the back just watching. Like, is this guy for real right now?
David
For a girl, that's insane.
Stephanie
So then number 23, people are wondering to the girl, like, you're really still gonna keep your light on?
Emily
Like, what do you see in him?
Stephanie
Yeah. And she says, well, I guess I'm just going to Japan. The girl next to her is like.
David
Well, have a safe trip. So here's the next sweet, large dog. Like, man number 13, please come out.
Stephanie
He walks onto the stage. This is dalmatian boy.
David
He halfway.
Stephanie
He stops, he poses. He does a finger heart. Wink, wink.
David
He looks cute. His face is like the size of your pinky.
Stephanie
Like, the top of your pinky.
David
Yeah. He's very tall, very broad shoulders, tiniest head.
Emily
Okay.
David
He's the CEO of an indie artist agency.
Stephanie
He graduated from Chang' an university with a business degree.
David
His annual salary is $55,000. Please introduce yourself.
Stephanie
I run an indie music record label. I am male number 13. I majored in business administration, But I love music very much. So I started my own management company. And if I meet someone on the show that I wanna marry, I won't look back, and I'm gonna put my everything into it. He sits down on a piano. They whip this out of nowhere. These people are like Liam and his guitar. I don't know where these musical instruments keep just re.
David
Evaporating.
Emily
So they do like, a little talent show.
Stephanie
Yeah. And he starts playing the Piano. And all of the hosts are like, see, he can play the piano. Women love the piano. It's just something about it.
Emily
Was he good?
David
He was good. He was singing. He was?
Stephanie
Yeah.
David
The host even said he nailed it.
Stephanie
You know, men who can play musical instruments are seen as very attractive. Contestant number 22 said, I thought he was very charming. I saw a lot of sincerity in him.
David
The number of votes start rapidly increasing.
Stephanie
Now he's got seven votes.
Emily
Oh, all of that for seven?
Stephanie
Yeah. Because you. If once you vote, you're in.
David
If you get chosen and you go on that date, you gotta go sit.
Stephanie
In the back now.
David
You can't date more people.
Emily
I mean, even the first guy has four. I'm assuming. Like he's gotta get more. But anyways, okay.
Stephanie
So then the last one of this group of the dog group comes out. And here are the last man's qualifications.
David
Hello. I am male number 14.
Stephanie
I am a Gangnam Native Marketing Company employee. Annual salary of approximately 42,000 USD.
David
I'm a recruiter, headhunter, marketer.
Stephanie
As I have a big build, I can carry your luggage. I can follow you everywhere. If you'd like to be at ease while dating, Please pick me.
David
Thank you.
Emily
Pick me. Choose me.
Stephanie
Pick me. Choose me.
David
I will be your footsteps stool. I will bend down into the shape of a footstool. If there is a cabinet too high for you, please step on my face. Yes. He has five votes. He's got five votes. The host says, you know, he's got a very adorable smile.
Stephanie
He's very cute. I mean, their looks, their qualifications have been reeled now only the conditions for marriage remain. So the guys also have to have standards. So all of them get to reveal.
David
Whatever they've written down prior to this show. It's the one thing that they're looking.
Stephanie
For in their marriage partner.
David
Oof.
Stephanie
Okay, let's guess.
David
Please reveal. Okay, let's guess.
Stephanie
What do you think?
Emily
I don't know. Like open minded?
Stephanie
No, it's so much worse.
David
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Stephanie
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Stephanie
Okay, so remember the guy from Tokyo. His condition is a mom like woman.
David
Willing to start her newlywed life in Tokyo.
Emily
Puppies looking for a mother.
Stephanie
Everyone is disgusted.
David
All the girls are like what the.
Stephanie
Is going on right now?
David
And then they look to the next one and it's just like in a giant LED screen on top of their head. So you can't even miss it. You even act like you don't see it. You can't even be like let me ignore the red flag. It's on top of their skull. Okay, the second one, the Dalmatian looking boy that honestly I wouldn't even trust him to like keep a 401k. His thing is don't stop me from investing in stocks.
Stephanie
I'm like bruh.
David
I just.
Emily
He's looking for a woman that won't stop. Stop him. Yeah, for investing into.
David
You know what that means? He's lost so much money in stocks Already stocks.
Emily
Yeah, that's it.
David
That's it.
Emily
What a weird thing to say.
David
Because if you are making a lot of money investing in stocks, guess what? No partner is going to say, hey, random idea. You should stop that. But if you're losing a lot of money, they might say, hey, not a random idea. You should stop. Stop that. So I just imagine he's in the shitter, and then the third one is worse. I would like to marry someone who has some wealth that we can inherit. So you got a man who wants a mop. Okay, even number 23, she was ready. She's packed her bags. She's already applying for a Japanese visa. In her mind, she's doing the manifestation. She's visualizing it in her head so that when she gets home, the application. Application process is easy. She turns off her light.
Stephanie
Disgusting. Absolutely not.
David
Inheriting someone's wealth, everyone's turning off their buttons.
Emily
Wait, I don't get it. How do these men not realize what they wrote is heinous? Like, yeah, like you. It's very clear. This is a red flag. Yeah, but they're like, oh, yeah, yeah.
David
Green flag, green flag.
Stephanie
I don't know which one's the worst of the three. Can you guys please leave it in the comments?
David
If you had to choose to marry.
Stephanie
Someone, which is the worst?
Emily
Okay, so we got either you ready to be a mom? Are you ready? Anybody ready to adapt? I mean, not adopt.
David
Adapt to your life. Circumstances of having a man baby as a husband. Are you ready or us Husband.
Emily
Just, just, just like, just burn everything through money. But, like, don't stop me from chasing my dreams.
David
You're getting in my. Stop nagging me. I'm doing this for us. Okay? Life savings gone, just in depth.
Emily
And the third one is what?
David
Third inherit wealth. I mean, you know what that's like.
Emily
Okay, fine. Yeah, you're just kind of like, okay, you don't want to.
David
You shoot your shot. Yeah, but life's not fair.
Stephanie
So maybe he's normal there.
Emily
He. It sounds like he doesn't have the motiv to. To provide the life for the. For the family. So he's like, maybe, you know, maybe somebody can give us some money. Yeah, like a little bit of deputy energy, right?
Stephanie
Yeah. But interestingly, the girls don't like him the most.
David
Oh, most numbers went down for him.
Emily
So what? Where are we at now?
Stephanie
Okay, so now it's time for them to pick. They pick the one who wants the mom. The one. The Tokyo guy, he has to pick a date. He's got Three women? Yeah. Number four. She looks like a very strong tutor. She looks like she excels academically.
David
She's also very beautiful, but, like, she.
Stephanie
Just looks like someone that I'm like, why are you just so naturally smart? And then you get jealous of them and they're pretty, and then you're like, oh, it's so annoying, but also I love you. And then he's got number seven. She looks like the person who hired the tutor. She gives me, like, rich, wealthy woman will hire any tutor for her kids type of vibe. And then number eight is the beauty influencer.
David
She looks very cute.
Stephanie
Cutesy. She does look a little bit older.
David
She looks like me.
Stephanie
She looks like someone who will always put a fucking ribbon in her hair, even when she's 70.
David
Like, that's the vibe she gives me. The vibe is like, she's not trying to look young because, like, she's got.
Stephanie
The bow in her hair, but it doesn't look like, oh, she's trying to be perceived as young. It's like, no, she loves bows.
David
Like, you're gonna walk in her closet. There's like a color coded collection of bows.
Stephanie
So among the women, the men are going to pick the ones you know. And male number three, please choose your first pick. He chooses beauty influencer number eight.
Emily
Do they look like a good match?
Stephanie
Like, no.
Emily
No. Okay.
Stephanie
They just.
David
I don't know what's going on. But, you know, like, the first few.
Stephanie
Rounds, you just have to sit it out. It's like the guinea pig rounds. I just. They don't even show their first date, so I feel like it's not really. It's not good. So then the next two, we don't.
David
Even see who they pick. It's just, get them out of here. No one wants these dogs anymore. Send the dogs to the doghouse. We don't want them. Okay, now we've got the next train. These are the elites who studied abroad, and there's only two men in the category. So the train comes out. Choo choo.
Stephanie
And you only see their shadows, their silhouettes. It's like love is blind.
David
You got the backlit, and then you see their body.
Stephanie
You see their height, you see their build, you see the way that they're standing. One guy looks like he's got a toothpick sticking out of his mouth, and he looks like he wants to star in a gangster movie.
David
The other one is holding his lower.
Stephanie
Back, and I think he was trying.
David
To be hot, but the way that.
Stephanie
The light is just bouncing off of his Frame.
David
It looks like he has lower back problems. And he's just holding on for dear life like that. Choo Choo train took a sharp turn and he's injured. It is. It's impossible for women to not prefer elite men. That's what the hosts say. Elite men who studied abroad, usually they're well off. Their families are well off. They're cultured.
Stephanie
I mean, women think that they're very fun and engaging.
David
They have much.
Stephanie
They're open minded.
David
So if you like these men, ladies, press the button.
Stephanie
So they analyze the other guy with the lower back problems, his shadow. And they say, you know something about his shadow?
David
You know what he. You know what his shadow reminds me of? Ma Dong Seok. You know Ma Dong Seok?
Emily
Yeah.
David
Hello Kitty Man. Hello Kitty phone Case Man. Gangster Man. Hello Kitty phone case Man. He's actually my Uber Eats profile picture. So genuinely, they think I am him. Okay. They look very similar.
Stephanie
The girls are saying out of physicality, like 100. So a lot of the girls are picking him. The number of votes is increasing quickly.
David
Toothpick Boy.
Stephanie
Nothing.
Emily
Everyone wants a sturdy man.
Stephanie
Yes. And the hosts are saying, maybe the toothpick is the problem. And just on cue, he's like flicking it up and down from his mouth.
David
And they're like, yeah, maybe the toothpick is annoying. Like, is he in some sort of like, action movie? What does this even mean?
Stephanie
These are supposed to be elites who studied abroad. It's not giving that. Anyway, instead of revealing their appearance, first.
David
Let us reveal their conditions for marriage.
Emily
Oh, they're switching it up.
Stephanie
Yeah.
David
So for Toothpick Boy, his condition for.
Stephanie
Marriage is be my mother's daughter.
Emily
Oh, like take care of my mom for me. Serve. Is that what it means?
Stephanie
Like, I don't know. But immediately all the girls look disinterested once more.
Emily
Oh yeah, because. So he wants a wife to like, cook for the mom and.
David
Yeah. And then the physicality.
Stephanie
100 guy.
David
They reveal his condition.
Stephanie
I don't want to buy a home. And the girls sigh once more. And they say, good men are dead.
David
Good men have gone.
Emily
I'm confused.
David
Hard times create Hard men created soft men. Soft men create soft. Whatever. Who even knows? Who even knows? That's the vibe the girls are giving me. They're looking at each other like, I.
Stephanie
Can'T be here anymore.
David
Like, we.
Stephanie
We can't even play it up for the screens. Like, we can't even play it for national tv. Like, I don't need anything. I just want a woman to be happy no, none of that.
David
Be my mother's daughter.
Stephanie
Unbelievable.
David
Like, how do you pick out of the two? So the girls are like debating and.
Stephanie
The host says, you know, women always say a woman can never be a mot. Mother in law's daughter.
David
Many people say that, don't they? Be my mother's daughter. Like number four. Sir Toothpick man, like, what do you mean by this?
Stephanie
And you just hear his voice. I'm an only child. You're an only child. I'd like her to fulfill the needs that I can't as a son. I'm also ready to be a son in law who's like a son.
Emily
What does that even mean?
Stephanie
So he's saying, okay. In return, he's willing to be her mother's son. Because, like, I guess it's like my parents don't have a son. So maybe they want to do things.
Emily
That only like a blend of family.
David
Yeah. Okay. Then just say that a lot of girls actually like it. And they start kind of pressing the button.
Emily
He saved it.
Stephanie
Yeah. And Even contestant number 10 is like, I guess I can be a daughter.
David
Yeah, I guess so. I think I could be okay with that.
Stephanie
All right, male number nine.
David
Maybe you come out first because you don't want to buy a house. Maybe your body is the house. Show us your bod. He turns around and I think the.
Stephanie
Ma Dong Seok comparison did him dirty.
David
Because I was genuinely imagining him to.
Emily
Come out, but like a manly man.
Stephanie
Yeah, he looks nice. He doesn't look as manly as his shadow does, but it's not a bad thing. He actually looks very confident and comfortable. He looks very relaxed.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
He's got a confidence too.
Emily
How do the girls feel?
Stephanie
People like him.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
He's doing the Runway.
David
He's, you know, blowing reserved heart kisses here and there.
Stephanie
And he is an American lawyer from season one.
David
So we're actually very happy to see him again. He came back after getting an upgrade.
Stephanie
So flashback to the last season. He was on the same show and he used to be an athlete. Now he's an American lawyer. He lives in America.
David
He meets this girl on the show.
Stephanie
And he was very genuine, like, very.
David
Into pursuing love and trying to get married.
Stephanie
He was like a very consistent guy. That's what people are saying. So now the girls are pressing their button. He's gotten up to 12 button presses now. He gives off that stable man energy.
Emily
He's American doctor, like that attorney. American attorney. Like, shoot.
Stephanie
But it's not even just that. Okay, so sometimes, like, I think a lot of attorneys have a certain look, and they look in Korean. We have this word. It's called kadarawa. Like, just like you think they're going to be nitpicky about everything, they're very tricky to deal with. Maybe if you're a housewife, definitely not going to be the smoothest marriage. Like, they might pick apart certain things that you do in the house.
David
And you're like, why do you care how I can fold the socks, bro? It's not that serious.
Stephanie
But he looks very stable. He just looks like a good time. And so all the button presses are going up. And then he starts talking. He takes the mic and he says, so I was here last season, and I did feel I did fall really hard for one of the contestants. And all the girls start whispering. Do we turn off our lights? Then do we turn? And the panel of counselors are stressing.
David
Why is this guy talking? Stop talking.
Stephanie
When you're on blind dates with women, even if they ask you leading questions, you cannot talk about past partners.
David
Don't do it. Stop. Don't ever do it. I see a lot of ladies here with a bob haircut. I really liked last season. I was into a girl with a bob haircut. I made it all the way to the end with her. And the hosts are like, what the is this guy doing? Shut up. Stop talking about her. Oh, my God. He says in English, you know, And I stand by, Happy wife, happy life.
Emily
Wait, he's speaking English?
David
Yeah.
Emily
Okay.
David
And he gets minus three points for that. Like, three girls unbuttoned press. They're like, no. And he says, thank you very much.
Stephanie
The host said that was very weird. It sounded like a campaign speech for the US Presidential election. However, he was quite authentic in his feelings, so we do have to give him that.
David
And then now number four is revealed. It is black turtleneck, gray blazer coat, Turtle boy.
Stephanie
He's wearing oversized sunglasses. And you know those, like, comedy dramas where the rich guy with no job, the Nepo baby, He wakes up hungover, and his dad is calling him to the office. So he shows up in massive, oversized sunglasses. And then his dad is like, how's the merger going? And then he's saying, like, I got it, Appa. Like, trust me.
David
You don't trust me. And then the dad cusses him out, rips him a new one intellectually, of course, throws a stack of papers at.
Stephanie
Him and is like, get the out of my office. And then he's like, okay, see you at dinner. Love you. And then he closes the Door. And then he's like, my dad, son of a. Doesn't even know what he's talking about.
David
What he looks like. Do you see the vision?
Emily
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And now girls into that.
Stephanie
Yeah.
David
He swings his arm, takes off his glasses. He's got a very sharp looking face. Okay. The intense one that's staring at people.
Emily
So he's rich, he is handsome, and he's a douchebag.
David
Yeah. And people are like, wow, he's handsome. He comes out, he starts singing in Chinese. That's the guy singing in Chinese. I showed you. So I was like, honey, can you tell me if you understand this? And so I played this part where this man is singing.
Stephanie
And I was like, can you give.
David
Me, like, the lyrics to what he's saying?
Stephanie
And we listen to the whole melody.
David
We go through the chorus, the bridge, the verse, the bars, everything. And then finally my husband goes.
Stephanie
So I think it's good. I think he definitely studied abroad in China. However, I'm pretty sure that was Cantonese. And I speak Mandarin, so I have.
David
No clue what he was saying. It sounded like. I mean, I heard exactly what you heard. I just heard some noises, so that's what I said. Yeah.
Emily
Like we heard exactly the same thing.
David
And then my sister goes from the next room. Wait, I thought he was singing in Korean. I thought that's not Korean song. And I'm like, oh, my God.
Emily
Yeah, I couldn't tell you.
Stephanie
So he, the host, say number four.
David
Has graduated from the most prestigious university in China. He works at a conglomerate in China. Yeah.
Stephanie
He graduated from Tsinghua University. Yes. His annual salary is approximately $41,000.
David
He's got a lot of votes now he's getting more votes.
Stephanie
And then he. It's time for him to talk.
David
Talk.
Stephanie
He grabs the mic and you know what?
David
This is where he.
Stephanie
He. He deserves the votes. I will say it's very interesting how everyone has a different aura. He's very calm. Like, he's weird because that toothpick thing.
David
The oversized sunglasses, that was weird. That was very much weird. Right?
Stephanie
But he takes the mic and he says, I bet you were startled earlier. I'm not a weirdo or anything. I'm just a bit nervous to be here. But I mustered up a lot of courage. I joined the show and I just wanted to express my excitement to be here. And I.
David
It's very nice to meet you guys. So all the girls are kind of smiling because it's. I don't know, I guess, like all the other guys.
Stephanie
It's Just so overdone.
David
But he's playful enough where he's not too serious.
Stephanie
But also he's genuine. He's like, I'm just nervous. I'm just going to be honest.
David
Like, that was weird. But I'm just trying to have fun.
Emily
So turtle boy is very popular.
Stephanie
Yeah, he takes it very seriously. So he. He started with zero votes because of.
David
That toothpick, but ended with seven votes.
Stephanie
That's very impressive. So contestant six asks him a question, and she's very pretty. This is the idol that debuted in 1999.
David
And she said, what's the maximum age you'd consider dating?
Stephanie
She's straight to the point. The maximum age. And he goes silent, so silent for so long that the host says, if it's too hard, you could answer in Chinese. And he's done thinking about neuro. The maximum age I would consider dating would be my age, which is 36. Okay, so that's no to older woman. No to older woman.
Emily
She turned it off.
Stephanie
Yes. So she turned off her light. Meanwhile, the girl that he likes, number 10, remember the giggly girl in the beginning? She wants to turn off her light. She says to her partner, like her seatmate, should I turn off my light? You think he's gonna notice? Don't turn it off. Why would you turn it off? I was gonna turn it off when no one's paying attention. I don't know. I just feel like I made a huge mistake. Later, she says in the confessional, he said he wanted his wife to be a daughter to his mother. And he said he was ready to be a son to be to his wife's parents. I really like that about him, you know?
David
Then this guy was singing, you know, one of my mom's favorite songs, a.
Stephanie
Song by a Hong Kong star. So I kept my light on the whole time, but I didn't think he'd be that handsome. I don't like dating handsome guys.
Emily
Aww. She got a little insecurity.
Stephanie
Yeah, but she's so pretty. She's really pretty.
Emily
Yeah.
David
But also, maybe it's a preference.
Emily
Yeah.
David
You know?
Stephanie
And so the host says, okay, number.
David
Four, it's time to make your pick.
Stephanie
He walks down the Runway, and he's getting closer and closer, and he's got this very intense gaze.
David
It's so interesting because a lot of.
Stephanie
The other guys when they're picking the.
David
Girls are just smiling and the guys.
Stephanie
Are smiling and it's like a very cordial thing. Right.
David
But the girls will smile at him.
Stephanie
And then he will just Intensely stare and, like, nod and bow at them.
David
And then the girls get so uncomfortable, they start, like, nervously giggling because it's like, well, he's so serious. I don't know what to tell. The energy is intense.
Emily
So is 10 still on?
Stephanie
Yes.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
And so he finally walks up to the person that he chooses, and he said, 30 seconds. The time it takes to fall in love. I saw her smile. And my first pick is number 10.
David
So they get matched.
Emily
Yeah, they look good.
David
They look really good together. They. I actually Stan them. You know what's crazy? I Stan everyone in this show so far.
Stephanie
Well.
David
Yeah. So their one on one date begins.
Stephanie
And they have to fill out each other's, like, profile cards. So they wrote sentence finishers. It's like, I love blank. And then you gotta guess, and you can talk out loud and talk about all these things. And she's freaking out. Number 10 is freaking out.
David
She's so pretty, by the way.
Stephanie
She genuinely looks like an idol.
David
She says I'm too shy. Seriously, he's way too handsome.
Stephanie
When we were talking in private, she's telling the producers. I kept talking while looking at the photo card because, like, on the piece of paper, it had his picture on there, and he looks so much better in person than the photo.
David
And I couldn't even speak while I was looking at him. So I was talking and looking down at the paper because he was so handsome.
Emily
Wait, are we looking at the same guy? I feel like when I was watching the singing dude earlier, I did not.
Stephanie
Think, like, beauty is in the eye of the people.
Emily
Okay, all right, That's.
Stephanie
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
David
Because sometimes you say some shit to.
Stephanie
Me, and people in.
David
In the comments are like, are we.
Stephanie
Looking at the same right now?
David
I see her on the screen in 4K. I'm not getting where you're.
Emily
Okay, so you guys are not getting a sex symbol right now. That's what I see.
Stephanie
So his little paper says, I want to learn my mother's blank. And she's like, what could it be? What does it end with? Like, give me a hint. It ends with recipes. So your mother's a chef? Yes. Okay, you want to learn your mother's.
David
Secret seasoning recipe for her flavor profile? Side dish, broth sauce, meat dish, noodle dish.
Stephanie
The answer is just food. Oh, you just want to learn your mom's food recipes? Yes. Okay.
David
And then he asked her, do you like cooking?
Stephanie
Yeah, I do. Oh, so you're like someone who likes to stay busy in the kitchen.
David
Oh, no, when you.
Stephanie
I don't cook. Oh, so you like eating then?
David
Yeah, I like eating my family's cooking is what I meant. Okay, so you just eat the food that your family cooks? Yeah, exactly.
Emily
Is it like chemistry flying?
David
Yeah, it's chemistry flying.
Emily
It's actually so cute and cute.
David
It's so cute. It's not even awkward. Oh, they're just kind of funny.
Emily
Oh, yeah. Okay.
David
Nothing about it feels awkward.
Stephanie
I know.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
And she says, you know, I just normally don't find tall guys attractive. Then what's the range for, like, desired height usually? Well, if he's taller than me, I. I guess I don't like anything taller than, like, 5, 9, 5, 10. I don't find those types of guys very manly. Is that so Is there, like, a reason for that?
David
I mean, you're tall, too. Usually.
Stephanie
I like guys who are shorter than me. Oh, so you like short guys? Yeah, and I like if they're even shorter than me.
Emily
She likes short, ugly.
David
And she's like, why don't you like tall guys then?
Stephanie
I guess I just don't like the traits associated with it. I don't like when guys brag about their height. And also all my male guy friends, they're all really tall. And when they're tall, I just think of them as, like, friends who brag about their height. And it's just. Ah, I see. And he's very serious, and he's very seriously just saying. Okay, then tomorrow I will just wear slippa.
David
Slippa? Slippa.
Emily
Is that what he said?
David
Yeah, slippa. Slippa.
Emily
Oh, slipper. Really?
David
That's how we call it? That's how.
Stephanie
That's what we call slippers.
Emily
Oh, slipper is Korean.
David
Yes.
Emily
Oh, my bad. Slippa.
David
Okay, okay. Why are you laughing? I thought you were being actually so rude. I thought you were being funny calling my parents. You're making fun of our culture and language. I think that's actually offensive.
Emily
No, I'm just so happy I learned a new word.
David
Do you know what computer is in Korean?
Emily
Computer.
David
Computer.
Emily
Computer.
Stephanie
Computer.
Emily
Okay, okay.
Stephanie
Do you know what battery is?
Emily
Battery.
Stephanie
He says, I won't wear my dress shoes tomorrow. I'm gonna wear slippers to reduce my height. And she said, thank you, and it's actually really cute. So in the confessional, he says, I was actually really nervous because I'm taller.
David
And in that short period, I was.
Stephanie
Actually quite attracted to her. It was fascinating.
David
So overall, very cute.
Stephanie
Date. Next train. Moving on.
David
Next. Key words. What are we doing? Gentle. And gentle. And gentle.
Emily
And hold. On, hold on. Gentle and cuddly.
Stephanie
Gentle and rich.
Emily
Oh, gentle and rich. That's a good one.
Stephanie
Gentle and rich. That's a big one. The host says the word rich. That one is powerful. Gentle and rich. I mean, we can't wait.
David
So the guys actually see everybody getting compartmentalized into their own little groups. And they actually sit with their groups while they're watching all of this unfold. And all the guys are like, gents. Gentle and.
Stephanie
Who cares about money?
David
Okay, Whatever.
Emily
How many people?
David
There's only like three in there.
Emily
Oh, are they gonna. Are they gonna tell us how rich they are?
David
Yeah, gentle and rich. Just like rich. Whatever. The guys are like, you know what? Some of the guys are like, I'm. I'm not. They're not even competition to me. Okay.
Stephanie
The other guys are like.
David
You could just tell by the way they be sitting. They even sit differently. Rich people be sitting differently.
Emily
It's like that. Ha ha.
David
Yeah. It's a. Rich people laugh. They just be laughing differently. Sitting differently. And so we've got numbers 2, 27 and 28. These are gentle and rich. The girls, without even seeing any of their silhouettes, they start pressing. Okay. Because you know why? It doesn't matter.
Stephanie
It doesn't matter.
David
So the host say, first, we are going to reveal their conditions for marriage.
Stephanie
Marriage.
David
First, gentle and rich guy.
Stephanie
I want a woman who is as.
David
Naturally beautiful as Kim Tae Hee. Kim Tae Hee is one of the most beautiful women that has ever walked this planet.
Emily
So he doesn't want anyone have work done, Is that what he's saying?
Stephanie
Some work, probably.
Emily
But that's what he said, like, naturally, right?
David
Yes.
Stephanie
But then, you know, it's like. I think it's also a preference. So in Korea, you could probably get a lot of surgery done, but it's not the exact look.
Emily
Like plastic surgery look.
Stephanie
Yeah, yeah. Like you could get as much surgery.
David
Done and have a different look.
Stephanie
I didn't. I think nothing's wrong with it, right?
Emily
You're saying he wants that natural look?
David
Yes.
Emily
Like, no makeup. Makeup look.
Stephanie
Yeah. And when guys say that, it's like.
David
Let'S see your face then. Let's see.
Stephanie
Okay. And all the girls are like, as beautiful as Kim Tae. A lot of the girls start pressing out because they're like, what's the point?
David
I'm not.
Stephanie
So whatever. Right. Everyone's withdrawing their votes. The middle guy, his condition is, I don't want women who have had many plastic surgeries.
Emily
Oh, my goodness. What the heck?
Stephanie
It's an aggressive condition. The Hosts are talking about it, but what's crazy is nobody withdraws their votes. So the host is looking at them.
David
Blinking, and he says, you know, so I think in a lot of the contestants minds, it's that thigh, you know, that a lot of us do.
Stephanie
All of us do it.
Emily
Who's gonna.
David
I didn't get that many. It's mainly injections. It's not surgery, it's treatment. Treatment I got, you know, it's like needles. I was awake.
Stephanie
It doesn't count.
Emily
Yeah.
Stephanie
And then the third left.
David
Trust my high risk investment.
Emily
A woman that trusts his high risk investment. Yeah, bro. Another. Another bro.
David
Yeah, another bro, please. Oh my God. My God. Someone like these types of bros need to be chained up in a basement with no access to any like cryptocurrency platform. I genuinely think so. They are on like a rocket ship to bankruptcy. It's crazy.
Stephanie
So that is it. I wonder what kind of change there will be. Revealing their faces and backgrounds.
David
Gentle and rich. Let's do it. The girls are getting so excited. The says, male number two, please step forward.
Stephanie
He starts walking out and all the girls are saying, what the hell is this?
David
What is this?
Stephanie
One of the girls says, he wants a woman who is naturally beautiful as Kim Tae.
David
He's got big dreams.
Stephanie
I would say something, but I won't.
David
What Meaning, how can you want someone as beautiful as Kim Tae when you look like that? Okay. Ho says he's a restaurateur with irresistible charms. He's the CEO of two Chinese cuisine restaurants in Busan. He has assets amounting to 5, $5.5 million.
Stephanie
And everyone said, wait a minute, did he. Did they say $5.5 million? He lives in a high end building and he's kind of cute. In a flashback video, he says, I got married in 2011. My marriage lasted one year and three months. I have never smoked a cigarette. I don't go fishing. I don't play video games. I don't ride motorcycles. I'm pretty good at cleaning and I don't eat breakfast. I feel like those qualities make me an easygoing guy and a desirable match. Question mark.
David
He goes out onto the Runway and he said no. But the way he even says I don't eat breakfast is so funny.
Stephanie
Like, it's like because my mom was talking to me about this. Yeah.
Emily
Why did he say, even say that? Like, what does that mean?
Stephanie
Because every single. I mean this is like an older generation. I think he's. He's definitely older than a lot of the girls sitting there. It's not like crazy old.
David
He's not my dad's age, but he's older.
Emily
Is this saying that he's easier to fed? Like, he doesn't consume a lot of.
David
Resources, basically, like, I'm very low maintenance. Please.
Emily
That's good.
David
Like, yeah, I don't think you'll be.
Stephanie
Too annoyed at me. So what happens in a lot of Korean relationships, my mom says is in the beginning, a lot of the girls are like, my husband is never home. Why does he want to spend time with me? And then they reach a certain age. And then my mom said, all the wives are like, why the is my husband always home? Why the does he not eat out?
David
Why does he keep yapping about how he's hungry?
Stephanie
Like, am I supposed to do something?
David
I'm sorry, I didn't know that restaurants.
Stephanie
Don'T exist all of a sudden because.
David
All you did was eat out in.
Stephanie
Your 30s and 40s and 50s.
David
Okay. So him saying, I don't eat breakfast is almost like a.
Stephanie
You don't have to even make me breakfast.
David
Like you nothing. It's like a very. The way he said it is very bizarre.
Stephanie
And he says, I would like to apologize for saying that I wanted a Kim Taehee. I only meant that ladies with unique appearances. I just did not want someone who looks like Kim Taehee but has like their own aura, their own essence. Yeah. And so someone clicks. Yeah.
Emily
Clicks on or off?
Stephanie
On.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
Yeah, yeah. And then the second person comes out, he starts walking down the Runway. And almost instantly, all of the girls. Yeah. Are withdrawing.
Emily
Withdrawing.
Stephanie
Withdrawing.
Emily
Dang.
Stephanie
Yeah.
Emily
Why? Why?
Stephanie
He looks like any one of my.
David
Dad'S friends who's come over.
Stephanie
It's not a bad look, I guess.
David
But he looks older. He looks older.
Emily
Okay. You know, like 50s.
David
Yeah.
Emily
Okay. Okay.
David
But he's probably not in his 50s, but he'd be looking a little bit in his 50s. And you know, I. I don't know. I don't know. You tell me why they dropped off. Votes are withdrawn. He's a dentist who graduated from Yonsei University. It's a sky school, one of the top schools in South Korea.
Stephanie
He owns an apartment unit in Yongsan and Panpo.
David
And he's a very popular type. These days. A lot of celebrities, a lot of.
Stephanie
Female celebrities will marry wealthier businessmen that look like this type. It's the teddy bear type. They look like, you know, businessmen who.
David
Can down a few Soju's. And they're the life of the business party.
Stephanie
And then he's got to Go home and sit on the couch.
Emily
But why do girls don't like him then?
Stephanie
I think you got to get a little older. Like that is the vibe.
Emily
I think that's interesting.
Stephanie
Yeah.
Emily
So the, the wealth didn't save him.
Stephanie
No. And then all of we get a flashback video where he's telling the producers, I don't have much to do after work. I don't have hobbies. I want to meet a woman who's my type and marry her. Is educational background important? They're asking him. Not at all. What about her occupation? I don't care. Her assets or annual salary? Don't care at all.
David
You know, I'm a guy, so I.
Stephanie
Want to meet someone who.
David
Who's my type, appearance wise. And that's it. That's it. I don't care about anything else.
Emily
Disgusting.
David
Disgusting.
Emily
I just want a woman that's open minded.
David
Yeah, like he's disgusting. You're too old to be this disgusting. So he goes from 10 votes down to two. And even the hosts are like, why did that happen?
Stephanie
None of the girls respond, so.
David
All right, last one, step forward. It's a man wearing a suit. The minute he turns around, he looks like a oily, greasy salesman. And he says, hello, where do you want to go? I'll take you anywhere you want. What do you want to eat? I'll buy you everything.
Stephanie
And the girls want to die. They want to die.
David
If you are all here on couple.
Stephanie
Palace 2, who is guarding paradise?
David
My angels.
Emily
Wait, is he singing?
David
English in Korean.
Emily
Oh, but like in the exact tone.
Stephanie
Yeah. And all the votes go down to zero. And the host says. Okay, thank you. All right, all right.
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David
So we thought that things would be.
Stephanie
The most competitive with gentle and rich. Yes.
David
But let me be a good older.
Stephanie
Brother for you guys, okay? Let me be a good oppa.
David
To the girls. The hosts are saying that this man $5.5 million. This man $3.4 million. This man has got 10 real estate properties. This can make unhappiness go to happiness.
Stephanie
Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
Emily
What? It all went up.
Stephanie
Everyone clicks off.
David
All three have zero votes.
Emily
You're kidding me.
David
Zero votes?
Emily
Oh my gosh. This is so different from what I imagined.
David
Yeah.
Emily
Wow.
Stephanie
It's over.
David
People.
Stephanie
People say girls are gold diggers. No, we're not.
David
Yeah, no, we're not.
Emily
Respect.
David
Apparently we just want dogs, which is one human pets. Okay.
Emily
Choose a dog over a millionaire.
David
Yes. Okay. So the host is like, this is very unexpected. We thought that this would get there with very competitive. And so all of them have to.
Stephanie
Do the walk of shame to their cars. And all of them are saying, you think it's really about the looks? Yeah. One of the guys says, winter feels colder this year, doesn't it, boys? And they just slowly walk to their cars.
Emily
What car? Like their Mercedes, Like.
Stephanie
Yeah. And they're going home.
Emily
Okay. Okay.
David
The next train has arrived at the station. Specialist. The girls start jotting down in the.
Stephanie
Notes and the hosts are confused.
David
They're like, the only thing we revealed was the keyword. What are you guys writing down? So, like passionately.
Stephanie
And they're asking one of the girl contestants, Oh, I wrote specialists.
David
I guess you just wrote specialists at the top. She's like, yeah, I wrote specialists at the top because, like, they weren't excited about any of the other ones like that. And a lot of them were like writing in the, like furiously writing. Okay. My goodness. So we've got train of specialists, two specialists.
Emily
So specialist is very popular in Korea.
David
Yes.
Emily
Not only because they are like successful, good income, but also very respected.
Stephanie
Yes. Very prestigious.
Emily
And it's all about that prestigiousness in South Korea.
Stephanie
Exactly.
Emily
You want the respect.
Stephanie
Yes. It's like the age old question. It's not ages old. It's just like a random Korean question. It's like, would you rather a Guy that goes house to house picking up dirty diapers to throw in the trash, but he makes. Makes a million dollars a year.
David
Or an attorney who makes $300,000 a year. A lot of people will choose the attorney.
Emily
Yeah. In Korea.
David
Yeah.
Stephanie
And I'm like, bro, I'm going door.
David
To door picking up diapers with you. That's crazy.
Stephanie
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
David
So given the silhouette, a lot of people like contestant number 24, except he just keeps coughing.
Stephanie
Okay, do we see him?
David
No.
Stephanie
We just see a silhouette, and then we reveal his condition for marriage.
David
And.
Stephanie
And it's just five words. Can you guess it?
Emily
No. How can I guess that?
Stephanie
I. What's the next word?
Emily
I want.
Stephanie
I can't.
Emily
I can't have babies.
David
That's four words.
Emily
I can't lift. I can lift your bag.
Stephanie
I can't lift heavy things.
David
And all the girls are like, what? I can't lift heavy things. This is so weird and random. What is happening right now? The hosts are confused, and he starts losing votes after his condition is revealed. A lot of girls say not being.
Stephanie
Able to lift heavy things is pretty bad.
David
People are saying for that to be.
Stephanie
A condition as marriage, I don't think anyone's gonna pick him, you know? But there's someone, right?
David
Someone didn't withdraw her vote.
Stephanie
So there's one girl who is holding on strong.
David
Okay.
Stephanie
And. Wait, what? That's what the hosts are saying.
Emily
Oh, my goodness.
Stephanie
And then the girl goes, wait, what?
David
What?
Stephanie
Oh. And then she unclicks her button.
David
She just forgot.
Stephanie
Yeah, she forgot to turn off her light.
David
Okay. So the host are so confused. You went from a bunch of votes to no votes because of your condition.
Stephanie
Like, how bad could you be at lifting heavy things? He says you still can't see him. To be precise, I can lug a small suitcase by myself, but if there are a lot of things, I would rather just put them into two suitcases.
David
What the. So the girls are like, okay, if we were to go on a trip, then I would be the one carrying suitcases.
Stephanie
Right? Like, this is crazy. His significant other has to carry the suitcases.
David
The host is saying, I guess you really don't like lifting heavy things.
Stephanie
He just says, I mean, there is a reason that people invented wheels. I can push things. I just can't lift them.
Emily
See? Like anti gym bros. Yeah. I don't live.
David
It's kind of crazy.
Emily
I don't like lifting.
David
So then they reveal him, his look. He's handsome.
Stephanie
He looks nice.
David
He's a little nerdy looking. The Producers were asking him earlier, you.
Stephanie
Know, what's the one thing you can beat the other others in our show, I believe I probably have the fewest mood swings. Then, conversely, what are you not good at? Being manly or strong? I'm not really good at that. What if your wife asks you for a piggyback ride? Yeah, I mean, she might as well just call an ambulance. I can carry her. I don't think I could give her a piggyback ride. Yeah, I think that would be too much for me.
David
Okay, number 24 has zero votes, but.
Stephanie
Their weapon has not been revealed yet. So let's reveal their qualifications. Okay.
David
So he walks out.
Stephanie
He's very handsome. He's got. Some people say, oh, no. You can just tell he can't lift heavy things. Look at the way he's walking. He has no energy. No energy, you know? Number 24 is a former golfer on the national team.
David
He is now a dermatologist. He competed as a professional golfer to follow in the footsteps of his father, an ophthalmologist. He became a doctor, and suddenly. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. No woman can hate a dermatologist. That's what the women are saying. He's got assets amounting to $2.7 million.
Stephanie
He owns four commercial buildings in Seoul.
David
He owns multiple real estate properties. Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding. His annual salary is $172,000.
Stephanie
And the girls say, I mean, he doesn't have to lift heavy things.
David
He's got people for that. Okay, he went from 0 votes to 10 votes.
Stephanie
The hosts are saying, it doesn't matter if you can't lift heavy things.
David
He's got people doing it.
Emily
Right.
Stephanie
I mean, there's a reason for everything.
David
Please introduce yourself.
Stephanie
This man does not introduce himself. He just starts singing. Please press the vote button just this once. Please press the vote button just this once every day if you're happy. Every day. And then he loses a vote. So he says. A poet named Longfellow once said, love keeps the cold out better than a jacket. I'm sensitive to the cold. He loses another one.
David
Now we're down to eight. And number six, former Idol, debuted in 1992. 1999.
Stephanie
She says, I'm also sensitive to cold and I can't lift heavy things. Are you fine with a woman who is very similar to you? You.
David
One of us has to lift it then?
Stephanie
No, he says, I mean, we can use wheels. And everybody bursts into laughter.
David
And the host say, this man loves wheels. Okay, number 24, the dermatologist, has received eight votes, which is a lot. So then we move on to number 19. Number 19, please introduce yourself.
Stephanie
He's very young. He's got a. He's got a very tall, like, young vibe about him. He says, I graduated earlier this year. I am a pharmacist. And a lot of the girls like him. It's been a little over six months since I started working. And I like to read. I like to read a lot of books by philosophers. It's greatly impacted my worldviews. So, for instance, I believe that you cannot deny fate. I believe it is something that you must accept. When I ask my ideal type, what do you think destiny is? Rather than someone who responds, why do you even think about stuff like that? I would like her to answer, I think this is what I think. Think or I think this. I would be thrilled if she said that maybe I will meet the woman of my fate. Oh, yeah. So they both pick their little partners.
David
Their little lucky partners. I don't even know if this is.
Stephanie
Gonna end until the end of the.
David
Season, like if they're gonna stay with these first date partners or if they're all gonna switch up on each other.
Stephanie
In the next episode. So I don't want to get too invested. I want to get too invested. So he chooses number 13. And she looks like very beautiful, soft girl.
Emily
The pharmacist.
Stephanie
Yes. And they go into the little date room and she's like, okay, I'm filling out your form. It says, I am very in relationships. Are you romantic? I guess you could say close, but a little different. Oh, I feel like you're very philosophical, Correct? Yes. I love having philosophical talks about love. I like talking about non action and naturalness and Confucius. I like talking about all of those things. And her eyes get giant. I love Eastern philosophy. I believe that. I mean, one of the biggest things I live by is a human screed is limitless. So you shouldn't look for happiness from materialistic things.
David
And they're both looking at each other, and I'm like, I didn't know this happens in real life. Okay. I didn't know that these moments happen in real life.
Stephanie
And she was like, I was so deeply inspired by that. I stopped looking for happiness and materialistic things.
David
And oh, my gosh, I mean, it's not about where happiness comes from.
Stephanie
It comes from inner peace. You're so right. He tells the producers later, I'm in trouble. We're way too compatible. I've read books on Buddhism, liberation, affliction, Nirvana. I mean, it talks about being a noble person and how a great person is, you know, and how petty a person can be.
Emily
Wait, she's talking.
David
Yeah.
Emily
He's saying I'm in trouble because he's so in love.
David
Yeah.
Stephanie
Oh, they're hitting it off. It feels like they are both faded for each other.
David
Choo choo. The next train arrives. They only show us the good dates. Train numbers with boy number seven and eight. Boyish charm. Some girls are like, oh, this is my favorite.
Stephanie
It always makes my heart flutter. A lot of the other girls are.
David
Like, this is not my favorite. There's not a single one. Nothing's gonna happen here.
Stephanie
Some of the girls are like, I.
David
Cannot date a guy with boyish charms.
Stephanie
It's just not my type.
David
So boyish charms. They come in and the entrance looks like. Okay, all the other silhouettes.
Stephanie
Yeah, you had the toothpick guy. You had some funny ones.
David
These guys are like posing like.
Stephanie
Like the Athens statues, you know, like they're. They're being goofy.
David
Straight off the bat, it just looks kind of funny. And all of them start busting out laug because it's so reminiscent of the boyish charm. And they certainly do look different through the silhouettes. It's cute. So lots of clicking. Lots of people are voting. So now let's reveal the conditions for marriage. This one says, I want a woman.
Stephanie
Who'S older and is ready to get married.
David
Okay.
Stephanie
This one says, I want a woman who understands my job rotation and how I need to travel a lot. Okay. Interesting. And the host is. Asks for a follow up and he says, my company has branches all over the country, so I travel a lot. And everyone ding, ding, ding.
David
Just based off of his voice.
Stephanie
Okay. Yeah, just like his voice.
Emily
Oh, he got deep.
Stephanie
It's not a boyish voice. It's deep. It's probably the deepest voice so far on this show.
Emily
Like, like, like this deep.
David
Probably not as deep as that though. Yeah. So he walks out.
Stephanie
This is the guy that has the deep voice.
David
And he actually looks not too boyish. He looks like kind of of a fuck boy. He works in the public sector. He's a romantic soul. So he says. And he gets more votes as he reveals his face and his voice and people start liking him. Then you got this other guy that comes out and he starts dancing and.
Stephanie
Doing all of these things and everyone's like, where did you learn those dance moves? And he says, I work at a bar. Which bar? I can't exactly say. The name itself is x rated.
David
What?
Stephanie
So he didn't get any votes, which.
David
I think is kind of messed up, but they move on. These boys, charm boys, aren't doing it for the audience. It's working, but not really.
Stephanie
And then introducing manly men. These are the opposite of the guys with boyish charm. It must be fun to see them, you know, comparing each other in the back. These are the manly men. So they come out. Out. Male number 17, please step forward. He comes out. He looks like a mafia guy. Very intense, very masculine. He's in a suit. I don't know why. I just feel like he's in a mafia. He's not.
Emily
Are they into it?
Stephanie
Some girls are. They're pressing their buttons, but it's not.
David
Like, overwhelming, explosive button pressing. It's just like, you know, he looks.
Stephanie
Reliable, and then he's walking down the Runway, and then all of a sudden.
David
He does, like, a forward roll, and people are like, wait, did he trip on purpose or was that planned?
Stephanie
Everyone's like, oh, that was planned. He says, I have been serving the country, and I am here to find the woman who I will serve for the rest of my life. I am number 17. I'm a manly man.
David
I've been through a lot, so join.
Stephanie
Me on the smooth sailing from now on.
David
He messes up his sense, and then he gets a little nervous, and people say, actually, I. It makes him more attractive, you know, because.
Stephanie
And then his, like, nervousness isn't like, I messed up.
David
It was, like, very cute. Like, I messed up. It was really cute. Okay. So then the next guy comes out, and he is manly man, but in the opposite way. Like, this guy was sturdy mafia man. He. You don't want to invade that guy's house. That's for damn sure. Like, second one, the first one.
Emily
Oh, yeah.
David
You do not want to go in there when he is home. Maybe a burglary. Not a home invasion type of guy. That's all I'm gonna say about that. This next one, you could home invasion. You probably could, but in the sense.
Stephanie
Of, like, he kind of looks a little unhinged.
David
Oh, so maybe not.
Emily
Okay, yeah.
Stephanie
He comes out, and he's a little scrawnier. He's wearing, like, full, casual clothes. And he says, I've been a rapper for 10 years.
Emily
Yeah, that's good.
Stephanie
Why'd you laugh like that?
Emily
Oh, no, I just.
David
Why'd you laugh like that?
Emily
I saw the picture of Future.
David
Because everyone says Future is Korean. Oh, yeah. Have you seen Future with, like, the K pop song edits? You're missing out.
Emily
It's Future. Oppa now.
David
Yeah, Future oppa. So he was on a show called Show Me the Money, a rap show.
Stephanie
And everyone is. He's like, I'm Iki to heck. I'm 34 years old and my rap name is McDaddy.
David
He says, even though I'm a rapper, I mostly stay at home. I play with my cat and I make music at home. I also cook, actually. I had a whole YouTube channel where I posted my cooking videos. I'm confident that I will never let my family starve.
Stephanie
So I want to get married. And I'm sure that a lot of people think that I live a wild life because I'm a rapper.
David
But if you keep an open mind, if you keep an open mind and approach me, you will find out how sensitive I really am. Okay, so he starts rapping.
Emily
Huh?
David
How is it he's actually so good at rapping? Oh yeah, yeah, he's really good at rapping. Like, actually really good. He's a vibey rapper.
Stephanie
He doesn't try to. Okay. Because I know a lot of, like Korean rappers get a lot of. You know that one? I don't know. I don't think she's a big rapper. But she was like making gun shooting noises and everyone was like, you guys don't even have guns in Korea.
David
I'm so confused.
Stephanie
She was like.
David
And everyone's like, you don't even have guns. Like, what are you doing? But he just was.
Stephanie
He's like a vibey rapper. Like, it could be like a chill rap. Does that make sense?
Emily
Yeah.
David
Play it and play card games.
Emily
Yeah. They say. They say the biggest damage a rapper can make is when they start singing love songs.
David
Oh yeah. Oh yeah. It's about to be this. It's about to be this. So one of the girls is like raising her hand and she's like, wait, I have a question. Were you on the show show me the Money?
Stephanie
Yes, I was.
David
Okay, I have another question. She's like, really cute and bubbly. Were you recently on Rap Republic as well?
Stephanie
Yes, I was.
David
You were? I'm such a huge fan. Oh my gosh. I'm such a huge fan. I was wondering. And then like, everyone is staring at her like, she's so cute because she's so genuinely excited to see this guy.
Emily
It's a meet and greet.
David
Yeah. And then she's like, oh my God. I was just making sure that you were the rapper that I had in mind. And everyone's smiling and then the host looks at her. How do you not recognize him?
Stephanie
If you're his fan.
David
I'm so confused. And then she's like, no, no, no. It just like he looks a little bit different. Like his style changed a little bit. And then he's like, oh, yeah, I used to have blonde hair. And she's like, yes, yes. So it is you. Oh, my gosh, this is so crazy.
Stephanie
And then all the host is like.
David
Wow, he's meeting a true fan. What if he marries his fan? We don't know. Good luck. Right?
Stephanie
So now he's gonna pick his date. And the host is saying, this honestly just feels like a meet and greet. And they get matched.
Emily
Oh, he picked the fan.
Stephanie
Yeah.
Emily
Okay.
David
Yeah, it's actually really cute.
Stephanie
So they go and they sit down together and she's like doing her little thing and it says, I believe a man should look fierce.
Emily
She said that?
David
Yeah.
Stephanie
And so he's like, I do look a little fierce. And then he said, what do you feel about if your future spouse wanted you to have a meal with his mother once a week?
David
And then she's like, oh, my gosh, I can't believe I'm sitting here imagining marrying McDaddy like she is. This is a fan meet and greet. And then he's like, well, we have been matched with marriage in mind. And she said, I know, I know. I'm just so fascinated. I know. Okay. Sorry, I.
Stephanie
Okay. Really though, I think I have a lot of respect for elders and I think I would love that. I think I could gain a lot of knowledge from being around people who have lived more experiences than I have. So. Yeah, I think I'd like that. She just seems so genuine. And he's like, really? Wow, you seem like a very upright person. Yeah, that's. That's what it feels like. So it says, you want a blank in a husband? And he starts guessing, and then eventually the answer is CEO specialist.
Emily
Oh, she wanted that.
Stephanie
So he drops his head and he's. He tells the producer, you know, she wants man who has a specialized job.
Emily
But what else is she gonna write? She wanted me Daddy?
David
Yeah, she wanted big daddy.
Emily
Like, what the heck? Yeah, like she didn't think she's gonna get McDaddy.
David
Also, I got a new phone.
Emily
Uh huh.
Stephanie
Uh huh.
David
Okay, okay. I got a new phone. And I put it down for a.
Stephanie
Second and I was like, honey, I don't know how to like, into like.
David
This bank thing, whatever. He logs in. I go into my phone later and tell me why your profile name, your contact name is Husband Daddy on my thing now. What is that so? Yes. Maybe she would write husband, Daddy McDaddy on there.
Stephanie
And he's like, but I'm neither. I'm not a CEO. I'm not a specialist. I just feel so small. I mean, if we think about it seriously, yeah, we've been matched. But, you know, know. And he asks, would you be willing to marry a guy with like, a job like mine that's not a specialist or a CEO? I mean, just be serious. It's okay. We're just getting to know each other. And she's like, I think, if I'm being very honest, I think that being a rapper is also a very specialized job. You're one of the best in your own field, so you have to be in like the top 1% to get to where you are. So I think that is a specialized job job. I think as long as someone works really hard in their own field or their industry and gets to where, like, for example, where you are now, I think that's what really matters.
Emily
Damn. That's the correct answer.
David
And so he just is like, giggling, gaggling the whole time. And then she's like, I felt like I was dreaming. I've always been a fan of his. And it was just so fascinating and surprising. Like, I couldn't find believe this was happening. It was so fun. Yeah. Okay, so then the next choo choo train comes up. Fridge body. Show him silhouettes.
Stephanie
Boom.
Emily
That's it. The only description of these men are like, fridge body.
David
Fridge body.
Stephanie
They got them fridge bods. That's it.
David
That's all you need to know. That's it. Everyone. Every guy, when they were looking for who's gonna fit into this category, every guy's shoulder's got a little taller.
Stephanie
Every guy was like, fridge body.
David
I'm a fridge body. Okay, so we've got like a Samsung fridge, an LG Fridge. They're just in the silhouettes.
Emily
What is fridge body in Korean?
Stephanie
It's like, wait, you don't know what.
David
Fridge body in Korean is? There's like a, I think a shortened slang for it.
Emily
Oh, okay.
David
Even it's like a fridge body. You know, you look like a fridge.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
And so there's a guy with headphones on and the girls are whispering, he must be a dj. Oof. One of the girls says, how would you feel if your boyfriend was a dj? How would I feel? I would really hate it. So they. They wait for the qualifications. Number 26 is revealed. Fridge body. He is a DJ. There's a DJ soundboard. He's like, DJing in the silhouette. The other guys think it's really cool. They're like, oh, he's so good looking. He's tall and he's a dj. But then when he walks out, he's kind of awkward.
David
He.
Stephanie
He is tall, but he looks nerdy. Like, you would never think he's a dj. So he says, I'm a patent attorney, and I'm also a DJ. I earn around $120,000 a year.
Emily
Oh, high earner here.
Stephanie
Yeah. So that's. That's my life.
David
And all of a sudden the girls.
Stephanie
Are like, ding, ding.
David
They just thought he was a dj, but now they're like, patent attorney and a dj. Yeah, they liked it.
Stephanie
And then the host is like, oh.
David
Yeah, was that you playing the music?
Stephanie
Like we saw you DJing? And he said, oh, no. Like, they didn't have a DJ soundboard, so they asked me to fake DJ.
David
So he was fake DJing?
Stephanie
Yeah.
Emily
The real DJ in the back's like, yeah, yeah, that was me.
Stephanie
Yeah, give me the credit, bro.
David
Okay. They're like, oh, okay, that's cool. So he said that he actually doesn't.
Stephanie
Like being in this group.
David
He doesn't want to be a fridge body. He wants to be a. He wants to be a specialist or a gentle enrich. So he's actually very upset by this. He's got a lot of beef that he wants to iron out with the producers later on.
Emily
So, I mean, who the fuck want to be categorized?
David
A lot of the guys wanted to be fridges. They wanted to be inanimate objects. They wanted to be refrigerators. They wanted to be plugged in, and.
Stephanie
They wanted to put some meat inside of them.
David
Mm, yeah. Put some raw meat in there to marinate.
Stephanie
That's what they wanted.
Emily
Kind of weird, but okay.
David
Yeah. So that's all we get out of the fridge bots. We don't see the rest of them.
Stephanie
And instead we get a very lengthy preview to the next kind of sus.
David
Yeah, what's gonna suss me?
Emily
The raw meat to marinate is gonna.
David
Okay, so the girls get called in.
Stephanie
Okay, now this is like a preview for the second episode.
Emily
Wait, are we done?
Stephanie
Apparently.
Emily
Oh, fridge bodies are all like, are they matched or.
Stephanie
No, no, we don't even see who they match to. This is like a very long preview. So we see the girls, they go through the same thing. They get categorized, their conditions come up, and the guys are having a hard time because a lot of the girls are saying, I want a matrimonial home AKA when we get married, this is the home. I need you to buy me a $1.4 million home or more. And the guys are freaking out. One of the girls even asked one of the guys, if we were to live in the US you would get a loan. Right. For that kind of house. And the guy's like, you are very specific.
David
It's just a lot.
Stephanie
And she, she's just explaining, listen, I want my matrimonial home to be at least $1.4 million.
David
I don't think love is everything.
Stephanie
I don't think love is the solution to the world. I believe that you cannot just be in like a regular happy marriage without financial stability. Most men just aren't enough for me. So I'm not dating anyone. When I talked about marriage with my first boyfriend, the matrimonial home that he got for us was over $1.4 million. And that was a few years back. I don't want to live in a house that's cheaper than that.
Emily
What's a matrimony?
Stephanie
It's like, I guess in Korea because you don't really live together until you get married. So usually like the husband will provide the home. You know, it's marriage. Yes. And then she's like, if he has a fortune to inherit in the future. Yeah, you can just make like $7,000 a month. I'm okay with that.
David
But if you're not inheriting a trust.
Stephanie
Or anything, you need to make a lot more every single month. Yeah.
Emily
Do we see the girl? Which girl?
Stephanie
So we don't really see her yet. Okay. She's like behind the screen. All the guys have pressed out on her except fridge bod. DJ patent attorney.
Emily
Oh.
Stephanie
Oh, yeah.
Emily
Oh. He hasn't even, he doesn't even know who's behind.
Stephanie
He kind of does. He get.
David
He.
Stephanie
He's got an idea.
Emily
Oh, oh. The girl's like saying all these demands and he's like, I know who you are and I got you.
Stephanie
Yeah. And she comes out and she's got short blonde bob.
Emily
Oh, okay.
Stephanie
And she's dressed head to toe in what looks like Burberry.
Emily
Okay.
Stephanie
Stilettos. And she's strutting the Runway. She said she's an open minded.
Emily
No, she did not.
Stephanie
She did.
Emily
No way.
David
She's open minded worker working for a company. S tier company.
Stephanie
Her annual salary is around $50,000 and she owns a property in Seoul. Yeah, yeah. So a lot of people are like, wow, her looks don't really match being like a corporate employee. And he said she left A strong impression on me. What I watched closely were her heels. I think she wore one that matched her perfectly.
Emily
D.J. said that.
Stephanie
Yeah. They're both so psychotic.
David
I think I love them together. Like I genuinely love them together because they're so crazy. Like, I could never date either of them. However. However, I could be friends with that kind of couple. They seem fun. They seem crazy. Okay.
Stephanie
She said, I studied abroad for about 15 years. So my Korean is a little bit awkward. And she starts speaking a little bit in Chinese.
David
Turtle boy.
Emily
Oh, she studied aboard in China and.
David
Korea or no, in America, I think.
Stephanie
And so Turtle boy, the Chinese one. Yeah, that was in China. He kind of is a little like analyzing her Chinese. I don't think he's impressed.
David
And then she switches to English, Then.
Stephanie
She switches back to Korean.
Emily
English.
Stephanie
It was not the best.
Emily
Oh, okay.
David
Like the American attorney.
Stephanie
Perfect English.
David
I wouldn't even know.
Stephanie
Right? And then she says, as I've lived abroad ever since I was little, I prefer international students. So with my passion for cooking, I just think, bring home the bacon and dinner is on me. Due to my bleached hair. I'm sure a lot of you guys have misunderstood who you think I am. And a lot of the guys are whispering, no, I think it's because you want a $1.4 million house. I'm confident in becoming the cutest and hottest partner. All the guys are looking at the patent attorney. Dj, are you okay with this? Are you fine with this?
Emily
Uh huh.
Stephanie
So I'll give it a shot. So she goes to make her pick, and he's the only one that's got his light on. So she only has one choice or she can choose nobody.
Emily
Yeah.
Stephanie
And she says I actually turned my light on for him when it was the guys check train and he didn't pick me.
Emily
Oh.
Stephanie
Honestly, if I'm not the first option, I usually refrain from approaching first even further. And he's smirking at her. And she walks straight up to him and her stilettos. Do you want a dj?
David
And he gets up and they start walking to their little.
Emily
Are they your favorite?
David
They're really cute.
Stephanie
I really like the rapper and the fan.
David
I really like the philosophical couple. Oh yeah, that was crazy. And I really like them too.
Stephanie
These, they're the most fun.
David
I just feel like the other two couples might work out better, but they're so fun.
Emily
Okay, okay, that's good.
Stephanie
And he's asking her, what were you gonna do if you didn't get any votes? I also love that he's like, very blunt. He's like, what were you gonna do if you didn't get any votes?
Emily
Yeah. All that confidence and got zero votes.
David
Yeah.
Stephanie
And she's like, I was gonna go cry and sulk and I was already unhappy because you didn't pick me yesterday. Yeah, yesterday I was very nervous and I was all over the place. So what? Did I not stand out to you? Did you not notice me? It's not like my blonde hair is that easy to miss. Yeah. I mean, I could only see your hair. I'm sorry, but can I walk on the other side? I feel like this is my better side.
David
And then she flips to the other side and it's just like. I'm like, what is happening? Their one on one date starts and.
Stephanie
Then she's like, did you graduate from Australia? Australia? When did I ever say Australia? No, I think you're thinking of the other guy, right? And you're like, what, five, ten? I'm. I'm six two.
David
Dang.
Stephanie
Oh, you're really tall.
David
My cute. My category yesterday was six two, Fridge Body. You were there yesterday?
Stephanie
No. Oh, yeah. I couldn't recall.
Emily
Is there energy? Like just kind of bickering?
Stephanie
Yeah. And your job. Okay, do you remember my job? A patent attorney and a dj. Okay, thank you. Yes. Do you know the show Suits? I really like the show Suits.
David
Who said this? There was that.
Stephanie
I think there was that.
David
The girl.
Stephanie
I think there was like a patent agent in that show. I think so.
David
Which one do you think is higher.
Stephanie
Your IQ or your eq? Do you. Do you speed when you drive?
David
Like, what are your thoughts about a.
Stephanie
Partner with like, opposite tendencies? Like, do you think opposites attract? Or like, what do you think about that? Do you enjoy music festivals? Where do you live? When I lived with my parents, it was in Yeouido, and my parents live in Bucheon, and it's very close to Yeouido. And I think it's like about a 20 minute drive by the car.
David
Later, he tells the producers, I think she was eating me alive. I mean, she made really good eye contact the whole time.
Stephanie
I, she. She definitely gave off non Korean vibes. Very outgoing.
David
I mean, I felt uncomfortable to the.
Stephanie
Point where I couldn't even look her.
David
In the eye anymore. What about property?
Stephanie
Do you own any property? I do, but it's not worth $1.4 million. Well, that's okay if you don't own one right now, as long as you're competent enough to get one eventually. So you're fine as long as your partner has the ability to buy a $1.4 million property.
David
Yeah.
Stephanie
As long as you have the potential. Yeah, I think I have the potential. I have the confidence. Students. Well, then that's all that matters. God, I don't think I ever met anyone that was six two and you live in Gangnam and you're an attorney. Yeah. I think job wise, you pass, so that's cool. Also, you have like two master's degree. Your annual income isn't bad either. Yeah, yeah. I don't think a Korean can usually be as tall as you. Right. Like, it's kind of a miracle as Asians to be 6:2. And he's just looking at her speechless.
David
The whole time, he's just looking at her like, what the did I get myself into?
Stephanie
But also he's kind of digging it.
David
And then eventually she's so blunt.
Emily
And.
David
Yeah.
Stephanie
And then she looks at him and goes, you trim your own eyebrows. Right?
David
And then he can't even help himself. He just like, this girl is so ridiculous.
Stephanie
And later he tells the producers she left a better impression compared to the first time. Yeah. I don't think I will have a change of heart with her.
Emily
Oh, he wants her.
David
Oh, yeah.
Stephanie
And then the next girl comes out.
David
She's like a celebrity. I mean, this girl.
Emily
Now we're jumping to the girls fully.
Stephanie
These are like previews. The next girl preview comes out and it's like, this is. Now we're getting into the emotional stuff. So the whole time when the guys were out there, she didn't press a button a single time. So a lot of the girls felt like it's because she's so pretty that none of these guys live up to her standard. But the truth is probably not that. She's actually very quiet, very reserved. And she said, my mom, younger sister and I, my family consists of three members. I don't have a dad. So as the eldest, I'm kind of fulfilling the role of the dad. When I was little, I was the type where I needed to eat what I craved, but not being able to eat it the next day if I had it today made me really sad. And that's one of the reasons I work really hard. So she's talking about how she didn't grow up with much. So she works really hard. She dated a really bad guy before and a really popular guy before, and she didn't like either of those. And she says, I just want to have a normal relationship. Yeah. And even the host is like, you didn't pick anyone. You didn't Ask any questions, like, what's going on?
David
Is it because you are scared of rejection?
Stephanie
And she says, I don't know. I don't think that's true. I think everyone was really cool and amazing. I think I'm just a very cautious person. I just don't want to meet someone bad. That's it. And then when she walks out, all the guys are like, oh my God, she's so pretty. She's so pretty. And then her statement is, I never once stopped working. I believe I will become a very supportive partner to my future husband. And she gets the most votes in the instant stint. But then the girls start whispering and this is where the episode ends. Didn't you hear the rumor about her? Yeah, that's her. They're like, yeah, I've heard about her.
David
What is this like in a bad way? And then girls are running out of the warehouse crying. They're like, I don't want to be here anymore. And then it's just like a whole mess. Other people are saying, I need to.
Stephanie
Give my mother a two thousand dollar allowance. But some girls are writing, here are my marriage conditions.
David
Don't show affection. People are screaming like, why would you even date him? Are they holding hands right now?
Stephanie
Yeah.
Emily
What is going on?
David
This show is about to get so crazy.
Stephanie
What are your thoughts on it?
Emily
Damn.
Stephanie
It's so good.
Emily
It's good. I like it.
David
Oh, my God.
Stephanie
So much is happening in like the span of 60 minutes.
David
One around the clock.
Emily
Yeah, I feel like it's just like a little too many people.
Stephanie
So many people. But I think we're going to narrow down.
Emily
Oh, okay.
David
So let me know if you want.
Stephanie
Part two and if you want me to start narrowing it down, let me.
David
Know in the comments. I hope you guys enjoyed and I'll see you in the next one. Bye.
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Podcast Summary: "Mid Guys On Korean Dating Show Demand 'Open-Minded, Hot, Motherly, Rich' Girls To Marry Them"
Podcast Information:
In this episode of "Moral Of The Story," host Stephanie Soo delves into the intriguing and intense dynamics of a popular Korean dating show titled "Couples Paradise." Accompanied by her husband, David, and their friend, Emily, Stephanie navigates the complexities of the show's premise, contestant behaviors, and cultural nuances that make it a captivating watch.
"Couples Paradise" is described by Stephanie as the "Squid Games of speed dating" in South Korea, emphasizing its high-stakes and cutthroat environment. Unlike typical Korean reality shows where relationships rarely culminate in marriage, this show’s ultimate objective is for contestants to find a spouse, often culminating in staged wedding scenarios.
Stephanie [02:33]: “And this is like the squid games of speed dating in South Korea.”
The show features 30 men and 30 women entering a windowless warehouse, each assigned numbers and categorized into specific traits that the contestants are seeking in a partner. The men are grouped into categories such as "Sweet, Large Dog," "Boyish Charm," and "Gentle and Rich," among others. These categories reflect the attributes deemed desirable in Korean society, including economic power, physical appearance, and professionalism.
David [02:15]: “So this show that everybody's been kind of obsessed with in Korea, and it's called Couples Paradise.”
One of the standout female contestants, Girl Number 10, is noted for her infectious giggles and bright red cheeks. Her initial interaction with Turtle Boy (Contestant Number 3), a man wearing a black turtleneck and gray blazer, sets the tone for dramatic tension. Despite Turtle Boy’s seemingly intense and uncomfortable demeanor during his introduction, Girl Number 10 remains interested, highlighting the show's rapid judgment culture.
Stephanie [05:12]: “Girl number 10 is the one that all the guys like.”
Turtle Boy presents himself as a civil engineer with a sharp nose and a focused gaze. Initially misunderstood as a software engineer, his reserved and stern demeanor earns him a few votes, but his awkward attempts to engage with the contestants reveal his genuine yet unrefined personality.
David [05:12]: “He looks like a software engineer... He doesn’t correct it.”
Stephanie [05:43]: “He has serial killer eyes. He’s just scanning through the crowd of women with his laser-focused eyes.”
Male Number Three, an employee at SoftBank in Japan, exhibits desperation by suggesting he wants a wife who can fulfill a maternal role. His intense plea for someone willing to relocate to Japan drastically reduces his appeal, showcasing the cultural clash between personal desires and societal expectations.
Stephanie [26:00]: “He must do something about it.”
David [27:03]: “Only four girls still have their light on.”
Another notable contestant, Male Number 13, is the CEO of an indie artist agency who impresses with his piano skills. His genuine passion for music and business presents a multi-faceted personality that attracts several contestants, highlighting the value of artistic talent in partner selection.
Stephanie [30:00]: “He starts playing the Piano and all the hosts are like, 'See, he can play the piano.'”
Emily [30:13]: “He was good.”
Male Number 17 embodies traditional masculinity, presenting himself as a reliable and strong individual with a background in military service. His performance, including an awkward forward roll, adds a layer of vulnerability to his tough exterior, making him both intriguing and relatable.
Stephanie [81:38]: “He says, 'I have been serving the country...'"
David [82:16]: “He messes up his sense, and then he gets a little nervous.”
Initially perceived as having limitations due to his inability to lift heavy objects, Male Number 24 reveals his true qualifications as a dermatologist with substantial real estate assets. This twist underscores the show's emphasis on economic stability and professional success as key marriage criteria.
Stephanie [74:04]: “He owns four commercial buildings in Seoul.”
David [75:03]: “The hosts are saying, 'It doesn't matter if you can't lift heavy things.'”
A significant aspect of the show involves contestants revealing their conditions for marriage, which range from practical expectations like owning a luxurious home to more personal demands such as dedicating time to familial duties. These conditions often lead to immediate and intense reactions from both contestants and the audience.
David [14:12]: “Economic power is at least a basic requirement.”
Stephanie [32:03]: “He needs someone who doesn't have many plastic surgeries.”
The stringent conditions set by the contestants reflect broader societal pressures in South Korea, where financial stability and professional success are highly valued in marital partnerships. This often results in contestants facing backlash or rejection when their demands are perceived as unreasonable or overly materialistic.
Throughout the episode, several promising matches emerge, each with their own unique dynamics:
Turtle Boy and Girl Number 10
Stephanie [53:29]: “They get matched.”
Emily [53:35]: “He's American doctor, like that attorney.”
The Philosophical Couple
Stephanie [77:01]: “He chooses number 13.”
David [78:09]: “He tells the producers, 'I'm in trouble because we're way too compatible.'”
The episode offers a window into the cultural intricacies of Korean dating shows, where societal expectations heavily influence personal relationships. The intense focus on economic power, professional status, and physical appearance often overshadows emotional and personal compatibility, leading to a high turnover of contestants and fleeting romantic connections.
Emily [14:32]: “How do you pick that in 30 seconds?”
David [32:08]: “They're like, ooh, that's so cool. A software engineer.”
The participants’ struggles and the audience’s reactions underscore the tension between traditional values and modern relationship dynamics in South Korea.
Stephanie Soo, alongside David and Emily, reflect on the chaotic yet fascinating nature of "Couples Paradise." They discuss the desperation and awkwardness exhibited by some contestants, questioning the balance between genuine connections and the performative aspects of reality TV dating shows. The episode concludes with anticipation for future episodes, leaving listeners eager to witness the ongoing drama and evolving relationships.
David [103:30]: “I love them together because they're so crazy. I could never date either of them, but I could be friends with that kind of couple.”
Stephanie [103:28]: “It's so good. I like it.”
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This episode intricately dissects the intense environment of Korean dating shows, highlighting both the spectacle and the underlying societal pressures that shape contestant interactions. Through engaging discussion and humorous commentary, Stephanie Soo provides listeners with a comprehensive understanding of "Couples Paradise," making it an insightful addition to her series of recounting global scandals and unusual phenomena.