Move First, Parent Later

Meltdowns!?! Why Behavior Isn’t the Whole Story.

Every parent has faced it—the dreaded meltdown. But what if meltdowns aren’t simply “bad behavior” to be corrected, but instead signals from your child’s nervous system that they need support? In this very first episode of Move First, Parent Later, hosts Kim and Armisetti dive deep into what’s really going on in your child’s brain and body during a meltdown, and why addressing root causes (instead of only managing behavior) can transform both your child’s regulation and your relationship. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why meltdowns are not just willful misbehavior but often a reflection of an overwhelmed nervous system.The hidden connection between movement, brain development, and emotional regulation.How parents can shift perspective from punishment to partnership.Practical examples from Armisetti’s homeschooling journey—how consistent movement routines changed the game for her youngest child (and for all four kids).Simple first steps you can take to help your child’s nervous system feel safe and regulated. Why This Episode Matters If you’ve ever felt frustrated, guilty, or confused in the face of your child’s meltdowns, you’re not alone. This episode will give you both the science and the strategies to respond with more confidence and compassion—so you can raise resilient kids without burning yourself out.