Podcast Summary: My Therapist Ghosted Me – Episode: MTGM EXTRA! "He wants a break. I haven't slept."
Hosts: Joanne McNally & Vogue Williams
Release Date: June 11, 2025
Podcast Description: Join Vogue Williams & Joanne McNally for a weekly chat with 100% honesty guaranteed.
1. Introduction and Technical Troubles
Timestamp: [00:02 - 04:30]
The episode kicks off with Joanne McNally joining from Amsterdam and Vogue Williams from London. Vogue humorously laments the absence of their usual co-host, Joe, indicating early on that the episode will feature some light-hearted banter and complaints.
Vogue exclaims, "I don't know how it's recording, but it is. And Joe's not here. So let's, let's start by bitching about Joe." (00:21), setting a casual and candid tone for the discussion.
2. Delivery Frustrations and Home Updates
Timestamp: [00:36 - 03:18]
Vogue shares her distress over a delayed homeware delivery, expressing her frustration with the delivery company's lack of communication and mishandling of her order. She recounts, "I actually just nearly burst into tears. I was like, I just can't believe." (01:32) This segment highlights the everyday challenges of managing home improvements and the emotional toll of seemingly minor inconveniences.
Joanne transitions to her own home updates, discussing her new Italian vintage coffee table. She humorously mentions receiving "snowflakes" (comments) jokingly suggesting it’s a setup for a party involving "class A drugs." (02:28) Their playful banter underscores the blend of personal anecdotes and humor that characterizes their discussions.
3. The Rise of AI and Its Impact
Timestamp: [04:07 - 05:00]
The conversation shifts to concerns about artificial intelligence (AI) replacing human roles. Joanne expresses her fear for voiceover artists, stating, "There are going to be a serious amount of money and jobs now." (04:28) Similarly, Vogue draws parallels with self-checkout tills, emphasizing the value of human interaction: "There's nothing like a real person." (05:00)
They lament the loss of charm and charisma in AI-generated content, with Joanne remarking, "It's like listening to a USB bark at you. It's just awful." (04:45) This segment reflects a broader societal anxiety about automation and the diminishing role of human touch in various industries.
4. Book Recommendations and Reading vs. Listening
Timestamp: [05:12 - 07:02]
Joanne and Vogue discuss their preferences for reading over listening to audiobooks. Joanne mentions her current read, Hags by Victoria Smith, focusing on the demonization of middle-aged women, and prefers reading it to better absorb and annotate the content. (05:57)
Vogue shares her enthusiasm for The Go Between recommended by John Boyne, praising its captivating narrative despite initial doubts. She advises, "If you've bad eyesight, I'd maybe, I don't know, get it on your Kindle and make it bigger." (06:33) Their exchange underscores the importance of engagement with content in a manner that suits individual preferences.
5. Upcoming Shows and Personal Plans
Timestamp: [07:02 - 09:09]
The hosts discuss their upcoming show in Amsterdam, including a visit to the Museum of Prostitution. Joanne outlines her packed schedule: "At eight. No interval. They don't do intervals on the continent, so it's for road 15. Me straight on, hour and 10. Bang." (07:45)
Vogue muses about partaking in local customs, mentioning edibles and alcohol, while Joanne jokes about having a pre-show cigarette to manage stress. This segment highlights their dynamic personalities and the balance between professional commitments and personal indulgences.
6. Relationship Struggles: "He Wants a Break"
Timestamp: [09:34 - 17:56]
The core of the episode revolves around Vogue’s personal relationship challenge. Vogue shares her heartbreak as her boyfriend, after nearly five years together, asks for a break. She articulates her pain: "I haven't slept since, and it's killing me. What do you do?" (11:00)
Joanne empathizes deeply, echoing similar past experiences. Joanne recounts a relationship where intermittent breaks led to a "nervous breakdown," emphasizing the emotional turmoil such situations can provoke. (13:24)
Vogue draws parallels with the TV show Friends, referencing Ross's infamous "we were on a break" line to illustrate her fears that her boyfriend might be using the break to see someone else. She states, "It's shorthand for I'm going to have sex with someone else." (11:29)
7. Advice on Navigating Relationship Breaks
Timestamp: [12:30 - 17:56]
Joanne and Vogue offer candid advice to listeners dealing with similar situations. They discuss the manipulative nature of taking a break, where one partner maintains control and leaves the other in emotional limbo. Joanne suggests, "If you can bring yourself to, sack him off if you can." (16:34)
Vogue emphasizes self-love and not allowing oneself to be dragged down: "I love myself more than what you're willing to give me." (12:31) They advocate for recognizing one's worth and not settling for ambiguous relationship statuses that cause unnecessary suffering.
The hosts encourage direct communication, advising that if a partner’s actions indicate testing the waters for other relationships, it might be healthier to end things outright rather than endure ongoing uncertainty. Joanne adds, "A break is just... he's trying to maintain some level of control over her." (17:26)
8. Intimacy and Relationship Dynamics
Timestamp: [17:57 - 21:04]
Transitioning from relationship woes, Joanne and Vogue delve into the dynamics of intimacy. Vogue humorously shares that her husband prefers her masturbating him over having sex, lamenting, "It's out there girls and our lives are lived one wank to the next." (19:03)
They discuss the challenges of maintaining a fulfilling intimate relationship, especially when preferences diverge. Joanne jokes about unconventional solutions, like a "wank sleeve," highlighting the candid and humorous approach the hosts take towards personal and often taboo topics.
9. Listener Emails and Humorous Exchanges
Timestamp: [09:56 - 20:32]
Throughout the episode, the hosts engage in playful banter, often veering into humorous territory. They joke about listener emails, with Vogue mentioning, "Yoval don't even speak to me." (20:18) and Joanne quipping, "Come on, that's something one of your gay meer female friends suggest a threesome." (19:49)
Their light-hearted exchanges provide comic relief amidst the heavier discussions, showcasing their chemistry and ability to blend serious topics with laughter.
10. Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Timestamp: [21:01 - End]
As the episode wraps up, the hosts reiterate their support for listeners facing similar relationship issues. They encourage reaching out via email for more discussions and promise to continue providing honest and unfiltered advice. The episode concludes on a hopeful note, emphasizing resilience and self-care in the face of emotional challenges.
Notable Quotes:
- Vogue Williams: "I just can't believe." (01:32)
- Joanne McNally: "It's like listening to a USB bark at you. It's just awful." (04:45)
- Vogue Williams: "I haven't slept since, and it's killing me. What do you do?" (11:00)
- Joanne McNally: "A break is just... he's trying to maintain some level of control over her." (17:26)
- Vogue Williams: "It's out there girls and our lives are lived one wank to the next." (19:03)
Conclusion:
In this engaging and heartfelt episode of My Therapist Ghosted Me, Joanne McNally and Vogue Williams navigate through a blend of personal anecdotes, relationship struggles, and societal observations with their characteristic honesty and humor. From dealing with delivery issues to contemplating the impacts of AI, and offering support to those in rocky relationships, the hosts provide a multifaceted discussion that resonates with listeners seeking both laughter and solace. Their candid approach and relatable experiences make this episode a valuable listen for anyone grappling with similar life challenges.