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Have you ever taken a personality assessment and thought, "That's not quite me"? In this episode, Mary and Jay dive into why looking at just one lens, personality, spiritual gifts, or any single element, gives you an incomplete picture of who God made you to be. Jay shares how nearly 30 years of coaching thousands of people taught him that the real insights come not just from the profile in front of you, but from the words people use to tell their own story. From a quiet chair-setter who turned out to be a leader, to a Bible museum that started in a coaching session, these real-life examples show what it looks like when all five PLACE elements work together. Whether you're exploring your own profile, mentoring someone, or leading a church, this episode will help you see how the puzzle pieces of who you are fit together and how to help others see theirs. The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-st... Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-... Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-… #PLACEProfile #KnowYourself #ChristianPodcast #MyPlacePodcast #SpiritualGifts #PersonalityTest #FaithAndPurpose #ChurchLeadership #DiscoverYourPurpose #GodMadeYou #ChristianGrowth #MinistryTools #IdentityInChrist #MaryAndJay #PodcastEp104

How do parents truly understand their kids? How can students discover the purpose God created them for? In this episode of the My Place Podcast, Mary and Jay dive into one of the most impactful experiences they've ever hosted: a Parent + Student PLACE Weekend. Through powerful conversations, personality insights, spiritual gifts, and real life stories, they unpack how families can better communicate, encourage, and understand one another. From discovering purpose and calling to learning how to influence rather than control, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom for parents, students, church leaders, and anyone wanting to grow in self awareness and relationships. Topics Covered: • Helping students discover purpose and direction • Parenting through influence instead of control • Why validation matters for teenagers • Spiritual gifts and personality insights • Building stronger family communication • Using PLACE as a discipleship tool • How knowing yourself changes relationships #Parenting #ChristianPodcast #Purpose #YouthMinistry #SpiritualGifts #ChristianParenting #SelfDiscovery #FaithBased #ChurchLeadership #ChristianLeadership #PersonalityTypes #Discipleship #TeensAndFaith #PurposeDrivenLife The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-st... Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-... Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-…

EP102: Jay and Mary sit down to discuss the role spiritual gifts play at work and in your career. The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-st... Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-... Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-… -------------------- #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblePodcast #GospelPodcast #JesusPodcast #ChristianTalk #ChristianContent #FaithTalk #PodcastForChristians #explore

Jay and Mary sit down to discuss the spiritual gift of faith and the way that God has wired us inidivually for His purpose and plan. The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-st... Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-... Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-... -------------------- #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblePodcast #GospelPodcast #JesusPodcast #ChristianTalk #ChristianContent #FaithTalk #PodcastForChristians #explore

What do you say when there's nothing left to say? Sometimes simply being present and being there for someone is the right call for ministry. Jay and Mary dive into this topic and more. The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-st... Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-... Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-... -------------------- #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblePodcast #GospelPodcast #JesusPodcast #ChristianTalk #ChristianContent #FaithTalk #PodcastForChristians #explore

The right questions can leave a powerful impact on someone's life, but how do you know what to ask or what to listen for? In a world full of zoom meetings, online inventories, and technological connection amidst relational disconnection, Jay and Mary explore why sitting down with people still matters. They dive into what a coaching through the PLACE Assessment can look like - not a scripted process or way to label someone but rather an outlet that leads to one question: what is your purpose? You'll hear why an assessment is just a tool—not the solution—and how true coaching goes beyond profiles to focus on the person behind them. We also unpack what makes PLACE coaching unique, how to navigate moments when people look to you for answers you may not have, and what anyone—not just "official" coaches—can learn about building better, more meaningful conversations. The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-st... Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-... Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-... -------------------- #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblePodcast #GospelPodcast #JesusPodcast #ChristianTalk #ChristianContent #FaithTalk #PodcastForChristians #explore

Could the desires of your flesh talked about in Galatians 5 be reflected in your personality? What then does it mean to put to death those desires, walk in step with the Spirit, and bear the fruits of the Spirit? Through practical examples and honest reflection, Mary and Jay unpack how submitting the natural tendencies of our personality to the Spirit leads to growth, freedom, and a more impactful life. The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-store/the-dark-sides-of-personality/ Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-your-spiritual-gifts-get-started/ Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-get-place-online-assessment/ -------------------- #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblePodcast #GospelPodcast #JesusPodcast #ChristianTalk #ChristianContent #FaithTalk #PodcastForChristians #explore

Everyone responds to crises differently - even the people closest to Jesus. In the events surrounding Jesus' death and resurrection, the gospels recount many of the responses of those closest to Jesus. In this episode, we look at their real reactions. Could there be evidence for their personality style, and even our own, in the events that transpired that weekend? Their responses don't just tell their story…they reveal ours. Who's reactions that week do you relate to most? - Peter's impulsivity and curiosity - Thomas' questions and doubt - Mary Magdalene's loyalty amidst fear -Joseph of Arimathea's action and initiative Jesus' responses to them…say something about Him. The Dark Sides of Personality Book: https://placeministries.org/online-store/the-dark-sides-of-personality/ Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-your-spiritual-gifts-get-started/ Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-get-place-online-assessment/ -------------------- #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblePodcast #GospelPodcast #JesusPodcast #ChristianTalk #ChristianContent #FaithTalk #PodcastForChristians #explore

What happens when you have an incomplete picture of who you are? In this episode, we explore why effective leadership starts with self-awareness—understanding both your own personality and the personalities of the people you lead. We also discuss why personality alone isn't enough to truly understand yourself or those around you. As an individual or as a leader, you need a more complete picture that includes your gifts, abilities, and passions to you where you, and those you lead, will thrive. Are You Committed? Book: https://placeministries.org/online-store/are-you-committed-hard-cover/ Learn about our PLACE workshops: https://placeministries.org/finding-your-place-in-gods-church/ Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-your-spiritual-gifts-get-started/ Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-get-place-online-assessment/

What tools help leaders lead people well? In this episode, we explore how a tool like PLACE can help leaders ask better questions, grow in self-awareness, and understand how they—and the people they lead—are wired to thrive. We'll answer questions like - How PLACE can identify what type of leader you may be - How PLACE can expose blind spots and aid in development - How PLACE can help leaders adapt to the people their leading Are You Committed? Book: https://placeministries.org/online-store/are-you-committed-hard-cover/ Learn about our PLACE workshops: https://placeministries.org/finding-your-place-in-gods-church/ Discover your spiritual gifts with our brand new Bible study! https://placeministries.org/discover-your-spiritual-gifts-get-started/ Take the PLACE assessment! https://placeministries.org/what-you-get-place-online-assessment/ -------------------- #ChristianPodcast #FaithBasedPodcast #BiblePodcast #GospelPodcast #JesusPodcast #ChristianTalk #ChristianContent #FaithTalk #PodcastForChristians #explore