Podcast Summary: New Rory & MAL
Episode: 277 | The Kinsey Scale
Release Date: June 14, 2024
Hosts: Rory & Mal
Produced by: iHeartPodcasts and The Volume
**1. Tour Announcement and Updates [00:00 - 00:54]
The episode kicks off with Rory and Mal enthusiastically announcing their ongoing tour dates across various cities, including Philadelphia, Detroit, Chicago, London, Toronto, Atlanta, and New York. They highlight the unique aspect of doubling up in London and New York for specific reasons, teasing live performances and guest appearances.
- Mal: “We are back on tour. Tickets are available right now.”
- Rory: “I'm not gay no more. I am delivered. I don't like men no more... I will love a woman.” [00:54]
**2. Personal Anecdote: The Uber Incident [01:32 - 02:57]
Rory shares a personal story about an awkward encounter with an Uber driver where they locked eyes twice in the rearview mirror. The conversation delves into cultural misunderstandings and perceptions of masculinity.
- Rory: “You can't keep. You can't lock eyes with a man in the rearview mirror. Like, twice.” [02:02]
- Julian: “He figured out that you were ma From.” [02:02]
**3. Movie Discussions: Bad Boys and Peaky Blinders [04:13 - 07:00]
The hosts discuss the Bad Boys film series, expressing strong preferences for the second installment over the first and third. They also touch upon the new Joker movie, mentioning Lady Gaga's role and comparing it to the emotional depth of shows like Peaky Blinders.
- Julian: “Bad Boys 2 is the greatest Bad Boys of all.” [10:24]
- Rory: “Peaky Blinders is so well written, so well produced...” [07:22]
4. Social Media and Technology: Instagram Likes & Privacy [07:36 - 33:36]
A substantial portion of the episode is dedicated to discussing the implications of Instagram's ‘likes’ feature and its impact on relationships. The hosts debate the visibility of likes, the potential for misunderstandings, and the evolution of Instagram’s algorithms.
- Damaris: “It's who really who you are what can get you in trouble.” [28:37]
- Mal: “Probably some nasty porn, but you can bookmark that.” [25:20]
5. Parenting Challenges: Mal’s Sleep Training Journey [16:25 - 24:43]
Mal opens up about the struggles of sleep training her 16-month-old daughter, Amara. She describes the emotional turmoil and physical exhaustion faced during this phase, sharing raw and relatable experiences.
- Mal: “I have never felt pain like that ever. Not when relatives died.” [16:46]
- Rory: “I was just about parking. I didn't say driving.” [26:00]
6. Pop Culture and Entertainment: Hot Dog Contests & Final Destination [29:03 - 44:49]
The conversation shifts to popular culture, specifically focusing on hot dog eating contests. They critique Joey Chestnut’s sponsorship changes and anticipate a showdown between Chestnut and Kobayashi on Netflix. Additionally, they briefly discuss the Final Destination movie series, expressing mixed feelings about its portrayal of horror.
- Rory: “Most people place Bad Boys 2 as the best one.” [06:45]
- Damaris: “He was like ‘Oh, look some girls…’” [40:30]
- Mal: “Final Destination made me feel weird because I was young...” [39:37]
7. Sexual Assault Awareness: Michael Rainey Jr. Incident [48:21 - 55:07]
The hosts address a serious topic involving Michael Rainey Jr., an actor from Power, who was sexually assaulted by his sister during a live stream. They discuss the implications, societal reactions, and the importance of addressing sexual assault irrespective of gender.
- Damaris: “They just stream and laugh and then… she grabbed him.” [49:18]
- Rory: “That's why we got to download his podcast.” [47:54]
- Julian: “If you wanna be real, you should talk about it.” [58:07]
8. Personal Relationships and Mental Health [55:30 - 87:09]
Rory shares a poignant story about a friend declaring her estrangement to him shortly before her untimely death. The discussion evolves into broader themes of mental health, emotional expression among men, and the stigma surrounding seeking help.
- Rory: “Stop. Think you're a terrible person.” [91:16]
- Julian: “If that was the best way, y'all wouldn't be killing yourselves.” [91:56]
9. Sexual Orientation and the Kinsey Scale [89:03 - 117:56]
The episode culminates with an in-depth discussion on the Kinsey Scale, exploring the spectrum of sexual orientation. The hosts debate the fluidity of sexuality, societal perceptions, and the scientific basis behind the scale.
- Damaris: “It's a spectrum.” [113:05]
- Mal: “If I've watched porn that had guys in it, I'm a one, right?” [116:37]
- Rory: “Nobody is truly fully heterosexual...” [113:04]
10. Basketball and Current Events [117:56 - 118:55]
Brief segments touch on recent basketball news, including the passing of basketball legends Jerry West and Bill Walton, and the Boston Celtics' performance in the finals.
- Rory: “Shout out to Boston. Jason Tatum, Jalen Brown...” [118:06]
- Damaris: “There was a lot of funny tweets around Jerry.” [118:44]
11. Wrap-Up and Future Topics [119:11 - End]
The episode ends with the hosts teasing future discussions on topics like sexual orientation, mental health, and current events. They acknowledge the sensitive subjects covered and invite listeners to engage further through Patreon.
- Mal: “We can talk about on Patreon.” [88:55]
- Julian: “If I'm done…” [119:35]
Key Insights and Themes:
- Mental Health Stigma: The hosts emphasize the challenges men face in expressing emotions and seeking help, highlighting societal pressures and the resulting high suicide rates.
- Sexual Orientation Complexity: Through the Kinsey Scale discussion, they shed light on the nuanced and fluid nature of sexual orientation, challenging binary perceptions.
- Parenting Stress: Mal’s candid recount of sleep training underscores the emotional and physical toll of parenting young children.
- Social Media Impact: The analysis of Instagram and Twitter features reveals the deep-seated impact of social media dynamics on personal relationships and self-perception.
- Pop Culture Critique: From movie preferences to hot dog eating contests, the hosts provide a blend of humor and critical thinking on contemporary entertainment.
Notable Quotes:
- Rory: “Nobody is truly fully heterosexual...” [113:04]
- Mal: “I have never felt pain like that ever. Not when relatives died.” [16:46]
- Julian: “If that was the best way, y'all wouldn't be killing yourselves.” [91:56]
- Damaris: “It's a spectrum.” [113:05]
- Rory: “Peaky Blinders is so well written, so well produced...” [07:22]
Conclusion:
Episode 277 of New Rory & MAL delves into a diverse array of topics, blending humor with serious discussions on mental health, sexual orientation, parenting, and pop culture. The hosts’ candidness and diverse perspectives offer listeners a rich and engaging experience, encouraging deeper reflection on societal norms and personal challenges.
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