Podcast Summary: New Rory & MAL
Episode 369 | Family Therapy (w/ Pour Minds)
Release Date: May 9, 2025

Introduction

In Episode 369 of New Rory & MAL, titled "Family Therapy," hosts Rory and Mal delve deep into personal relationships, past conflicts, and the intricate dynamics of sustaining a successful podcast amidst personal turmoil. Joined by recurring contributors Lex P and Drea, the episode serves as an extensive therapy session where vulnerabilities are exposed, misunderstandings are addressed, and the path toward reconciliation is explored.

Revisiting Past Conflicts

Lex P initiates a tense discussion about past events surrounding the Henny Palooza festival, where misunderstandings and miscommunications led to strained relationships within the podcasting circle.

• [03:30] Mal: "I'm scared for you to introduce this one. Honestly."
• [03:32] Rory: "Why? I have known Lex for... I have no idea how long I've known Lex."

Rory reflects on his longstanding relationship with Lex, emphasizing their roots in Port Arthur, Texas, and expressing both nostalgia and confusion over Lex's recent rise in celebrity status.

• [03:50] Mal: "You don't know Atlanta."
• [03:52] Rory: "I've ridden in the back of a pickup truck from Houston to Port Arthur."

The hosts navigate through Lex's controversial statements about former figures like Trump, highlighting the ripple effects of public comments on personal relationships.

• [05:21] Lex P: "Yes."
• [07:14] Drea: "We didn't know that."

Navigating Miscommunications and Apologies

A significant portion of the episode focuses on Lex P's apology to Rory for past remarks that inadvertently damaged their friendship. Lex acknowledges the impact of her words and the importance of communication.

• [27:07] Lex P: "I will apologize because I should have texted you before I did it to let you know what I was about to do."
• [27:55] Rory: "I'm fine with it. I love Lex, so it's like... Yes, but I'm still... Yeah, I'm still mad."

Rory shares his frustration over feeling neglected and misrepresented, stressing the importance of mutual respect and understanding within their friendship.

• [30:23] Rory: "So I'm like, why is somebody I consider a friend tweeting about something that has nothing to do with one."

Lex counters by highlighting her stance on protecting herself as a woman and the necessity of standing up against harmful narratives.

• [29:53] Drea: "That's what he was saying. Like, he felt like you shouldn't have just said nothing."
• [34:05] Mal: "I'm not wrong right now."

Personal Growth and Podcasting Challenges

The conversation transitions to broader topics of personal growth, the evolution of podcasting, and maintaining authenticity amidst fame.

• [16:26] Rory: "Now it's just podcasting is so crazy. Everybody wants to have a podcast."
• [17:12] Drea: "We can tap into a lot of people."

They discuss the saturation of the podcasting market and how Only the genuinely talented and those with core fan bases can sustain success.

• [20:44] Rory: "Like, when you were doing podcast, and facts."
• [21:02] Lex P: "We're talking about life, everything. Dating, music."

Relationships and Personal Reflections

Rory shares insights into his relationship dynamics, particularly concerning his role as a father to Amara and the challenges of balancing personal life with podcasting responsibilities.

• [43:14] Rory: "I'm just a father to Amara."

The hosts provide relationship advice, discussing the complexities of long-term commitments, the impact of financial support in relationships, and the importance of genuine connections over monetary transactions.

• [59:54] Rory: "He says he wants to be a billionaire. I was like, who doesn't."

Embracing Vulnerability and Authenticity

A heartfelt segment is dedicated to the importance of vulnerability in podcasting, allowing listeners to see the authentic selves of the hosts beyond their on-air personas.

• [66:05] Drea: "I need to make sense. It needs to be specific."

They emphasize the therapeutic nature of the episode, addressing past grievances openly to foster healing and strengthen their collaborative bond.

• [73:18] Drea: "Yeah. Yeah."
• [74:23] Lex P: "Yeah."

Future Endeavors and Moving Forward

As the episode draws to a close, the hosts discuss upcoming projects, including Lex P and Drea's travel show "Travel Queens," highlighting their commitment to diversifying their media presence while maintaining the integrity of their podcast.

• [95:25] Lex P: "Shop blinds.com now and save up to 40%. Site wide rules are restrictions may apply."
• [110:11] Lex P: "So, how y'all doing?"

They reflect on their journey, acknowledging the support of their fans and the resilience required to navigate both personal and professional landscapes.

• [116:03] Lex P: "We built businesses, but we built businesses."

Notable Quotes

• Mal: "I'm scared for you to introduce this one. Honestly."
  [03:30]

• Lex P: "I will apologize because I should have texted you before I did it to let you know what I was about to do."
  [27:07]

• Rory: "Why is somebody I consider a friend tweeting about something that has nothing to do with one."
  [30:23]

• Drea: "If you accept him, everything was getting accepted when I was, but like we on you now."
  [108:00]

• Lex P: "But prenups aren't a bad thing."
  [130:00]

Conclusion

Episode 369 of New Rory & MAL serves as a candid exploration of personal relationships, the challenges of maintaining authenticity in the podcasting world, and the journey towards healing and understanding within their dynamic. Through open dialogue and heartfelt apologies, the hosts demonstrate the importance of communication, vulnerability, and resilience in both personal and professional realms. As they look forward to future projects, their commitment to authenticity and growth remains steadfast, offering listeners a profound glimpse into the lives behind the microphones.