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Rory
New Warrior now who are the Grammy nominees? Oh yeah they need to bring back the oh yeah they don't say they don't say oh my God enough in R B no more yeah oh yeah.
Mall
I miss a good Joe to see.
Rory
Oh yeah, yeah you need the oh.
Mall
Yeah, baby cbd I think I'll cry for you probably as top one.
Rory
It's been announced and that's too long. That nigga was. Was Casey in love. He said it's been an hour since you've been gone and that's too long so come back home. It take more than an hour to go to Whole Foods.
Mall
True.
Damaris
Listen, that's what you need to be on. That's what you need to be on, man.
Rory
We are rolling. Oh, snap. My bad. Yo, Peas.
Sponsor Voice
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Rory
Don't let me know. That's the intro.
Mall
That's the ice clip already.
Rory
Let me know the mic.
Mall
We can wrap the episode up. I think we got everything we need.
Rory
Let me know the mic is hot, man. You can't do me like. We are back. Sponsored by Boost Mobile. Rory, unlimited talk text and for unlimited.
Mall
That's in the copy for the. They asked for that.
Rory
You know we got to read it fast at the end. That's what that was.
Mall
They actually don't speed it up yet.
Rory
We got to do it that fast for sure.
Mall
That's what they wanted, though.
Rory
Yeah. How y' all doing? How y' all doing? Y. Happy to be back. Happy New Weekend.
Damaris
Yeah.
Mall
What you do daddy duty?
Rory
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Mall
My pop's game. My pop saw Amara. That was fun.
Rory
Oh, man. My guy.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
He was up here.
Rory
Jake the Snake.
Mall
Yes, he was. He was up here. He was up here with his. His little camper trailer thing.
Damaris
Oh.
Rory
Still in town. Oh, he left already.
Mall
He left. He left at, like, 4am today.
Rory
Your dad is such a nomad.
Mall
In and out.
Rory
Yeah, there's no. There's no walls. There's no four walls that can hold Jake.
Mall
Of course not. He hit me. He hit me on, like, Wednesday. Was like, hey, you around this weekend? I was like, yeah, by Friday. I just expected, like, maybe he just forgot.
Sponsor Voice
Yeah.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
Here comes the camper right in my drop.
Rory
Oh, my God.
Sponsor Voice
Love it.
Mall
Two o' clock on Friday. I was like, all right, dad.
Rory
That's freedom right there. You ever see what American freedom looks like, Peach?
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
Look at Rory's dad. He's living the American dream. Then I got just me, my camper. Is there WI fi in that thing?
Mall
Nah, but he has, like, a little antenna on the top. I just don't know what it does.
Rory
We should get him wifi.
Mall
I mean, they got this. What's the Stargate? What's Elon got? I had it on the cruise. That shit was great.
Rory
We should get him WI fi and then check in with him. Right?
Sponsor Voice
That's what he is.
Mall
I had better WI fi on the cruise ship at one point than I did in my own crib in the Bermuda Triangle. Yeah, like, I needed that Elon shit. Then we got on regular shit, no service. Yeah, we got to get him to Elon.
Rory
Yeah, man. Let's get the dad. Let's get your dad some WI fi so we can check on him. Just check where he is in the. In the country, man.
Mall
Cursing me out for not having the NFL package.
Rory
That's a dad. Look at that. Dad being a drag.
Mall
Dragged me and Amara to the bar to watch the second half of all the one o' clock games. I'm like, dad, like, listen, I'll just get the package.
Rory
No, no, no, no, no.
Mall
In the rain.
Rory
We're going. We're doing the thing.
Mall
Didn't even wait for Amar to get her jacket on. N. We out?
Rory
Yeah. Come on, man. Tomorrow. It's just a little bit of rain. Don't worry about that.
Mall
That was pretty much it for my weekend. What about you?
Rory
What did I do this weekend? I felt like I went out Saturday.
Mall
Okay.
Rory
I went Out. My homeboy had. He had a baby shower, so I just stopped by for. Everybody's having babies.
Damaris
Yeah.
Mall
It's like what adults be doing.
Rory
Yeah. But I'm just like, God damn. It's just like. It's one every, what, two, three weeks for me. I gotta go to like. So I just went to a baby shower and that was it. That's all I did this weekend. Okay.
Mall
What was your favorite?
Rory
Watch some movies. What was my favorite? I didn't wear Burberry. Word. I promise you, I didn't.
Damaris
I hope not.
Mall
You go against the theme.
Rory
Yeah, that's not. I mean, it wasn't my baby, so I can't.
Mall
I can't. Did you come empty handed? Did you go to the registry?
Rory
Registry online. They didn't want to have, you know, to have to carry anything. So I like that when people don't just, like, just order it, have it mailed to the house so we don't have to carry anything home from the baby shower. Like, everything will be delivered to the crib. Let's just come and have a celebration of life.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
So that's what I did this weekend.
Mall
When did the turn change where, like, men were part of baby showers? Because I'd like to go back to, like, that. My homeboy had one double standard picture. Like, I don't want to be involved in it.
Rory
Yeah. It was just women of the family, like, friends, and they just have their get together and they talk about, you know, bash men all day.
Mall
Yeah. Like, please, go back to that.
Rory
Go back to that. Let us just come.
Mall
Cucumber sandwiches with the crust cut off. Mimosas. Like, I don't want to be a part of this. Like, this is.
Rory
It's not for us.
Mall
Yeah. Don't put me in the fake throne next to you. Like, I don't. Come on.
Rory
Yeah. I don't want to sit in this big straw chair and take pictures with your family that I don't know. I don't want to do that.
Mall
And then just have a bunch of people tell, hey, the work starts now.
Rory
Yeah. You'll say goodbye to sleep.
Mall
Yeah. Right.
Rory
Shut the fuck up. All right, cool. I'm looking forward to it.
Mall
Yeah. Or they'll say, how bad everything thing's gonna be and then end with. But it's the most magical time of your life.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
Like, it didn't sound that way. The way you just described it actually sounds like my life is preparing me for hell.
Rory
It's hell week, baby D. How you feeling?
Damaris
I feel amazing.
Rory
What you did this Week, you know, I just.
Damaris
I reflected. It was my first weekend alone in a while.
Rory
I've been running around, I thought about you. Saturday, I was gonna call you and just with you. But I know if you just saw me calling, you'd been like, what the.
Mall
Yeah, what's wrong?
Damaris
I don't know what's wrong. Something happened.
Narrator
Please.
Rory
You know, I don't never call. So see me call him, see my name pop up. It's like, you should have linked.
Damaris
We should have went out. But me and ma gonna go out tomorrow.
Rory
We outside, Baby D. We outside in.
Damaris
The streets tomorrow, baby.
Rory
Thank you for inviting me. No problem, Baby D. What you guys gonna do? It's her friend's birthday, right?
Damaris
Yeah, it's my friend's birthday.
Mall
Okay. You don't have to say location. What type of vibe? Like, is it hookah? Is it grown?
Damaris
Grown sexy hookah.
Mall
You know, grown in, sexy.
Rory
Some happy hour.
Damaris
Had a little happy hour on.
Rory
Hookah.
Mall
Okay.
Rory
Happy out. Yeah, it's early. See, I'm getting older. Invite me early. Don't tell me to meet you at midnight. I'm sleep though. I'm sleep. I'm watching Tulsa King.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
You know what I'm saying? I'm watching first 48 reruns. Don't call me after 11 o' clock tomorrow. Yo, we going here tonight. Don't do that.
Mall
People shit on industry events. But I love an event that starts at 6:30. Yeah, like I'm cool with that.
Rory
Yeah, get me out early so I can get home by 8 o'.
Mall
Clock.
Rory
I want to be home by 8. That's where I'm at in my life. If you're my friend, I'm want to be home by 8. Don't invite me to nothing after 8 o'.
Sponsor Voice
Clock.
Mall
And if you catch some rhythm at the birthday party, like you have enough time. Cause like if you catch rhythm at 3am, I'm too tired. We're not. But going back to my spot and if we do, I'm gonna snooze and I don't even want to sleep next to you.
Rory
Do girls leave? Do girls meet you out still and go home with you the same night? Does that still happen?
Mall
I wouldn't, but I mean, at one point it was a thing.
Rory
Baby, no, please, please, let's just.
Mall
Let's just.
Rory
Cuz I heard the ad, Libby D. So I gotta come right back to you.
Damaris
Please?
Rory
Nah. Cause you gave me a chuckle. Let me know what's going on. Let's just focus on the music, Baby D. Are women still meeting men out. They potentially going back home with them or to a hotel with them, depending on if the vibe is cool.
Mall
Why do you think there's so many baby showers?
Rory
Yeah, but that's like, people that I've know that have been together for a.
Mall
While, but it started that way.
Rory
Oh, it started.
Mall
Yeah. Those are the best relationships. Yeah. I don't like that disdain people put on, like, one first night. Like.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
My best relationships have come from that.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
We could still be forever together. Forever. If you let me beat the first night.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
Got that out the way. Now we know this is cool. Now we can build together.
Rory
Yeah. Because nothing is worse than waiting. And you go out on a couple dates, you caught a woman. I mean, you definitely should court. No for sure, but it's nothing worse than when you court a woman. You spend all of this time, you know, hanging out. Now, she's great. She gets your jokes. Y' all got the same type of sense of humor. Da, da, da, da. And then the first time you ready to get into it. Guess what, baby D, that booty stinks just a little more now I don't like you no more.
Mall
And isn't it better that you see, I court you after I beat, like, me courting for weeks on weeks, and then I finally beat.
Sponsor Voice
Yeah.
Rory
Cause what's worse, baby D, if I caught you for weeks and then we get into it, and then I'll ghost you because your butt stink or like, first night link, everything is great and I'm still courting you after. Yeah.
Mall
Let's do breakfast the next morning type thing.
Damaris
Depends. It depends on the person.
Rory
Depends on the person. Yeah. It depends on. So if the guy ghosts you, like you. Cool. Depending on who it is.
Damaris
No, but. No but.
Mall
What's more. What's more respected to a woman in that regard? Like, oh, hey, look, I made him win.
Damaris
It depends on the guy and what I think he values. It depends on what I think you value.
Mall
Okay.
Damaris
Because there's some people that will. They'll be like, you know, they'll keep like with you after you beat on the first night, but they don't exactly respect that, so you'll never get elevated to something.
Mall
Okay.
Damaris
That happens a lot.
Mall
That's more so on the.
Damaris
Not me.
Mall
Every time.
Damaris
Every time I've hit somebody on the first night, I end up in a relationship.
Rory
So every time you crack them on the first night, baby, I was giving you the verse. I was giving you the hook before that, baby. I was getting into the verse, the pre race.
Mall
Not even the bridge.
Damaris
Nah, the Grammys.
Mall
What's the longest you ever waited?
Rory
The longest I ever waited. I waited one time. I courted a girl for, like, three months.
Mall
Okay.
Damaris
Was it worth it?
Rory
It was. Hey, it definitely was. We still cool? Like, to this day, we're not. Obviously not together, but we still cool.
Mall
Yeah. I don't know how the longest I've waited. Like, with it. Like, with intentions. Like, I'm intentionally.
Rory
Oh, yeah. I didn't. Wait, wait, wait. Let me clear that up. I wasn't happy that I had to wait, but I did. Like, you know what I'm saying? It's cool. You know what I'm saying? Whatever. Like, I'm not thinking about it. And it happened. I was like, okay, that was. That was worth it.
Mall
Yeah. I spun the block, like, with a decade in between. And then she made me wait, which I thought was actually kind of funny, but cool.
Rory
Wait, you. You waited for a decade?
Mall
No, no. Like we used to with each other.
Rory
Okay.
Mall
Then a decade passed.
Rory
Oh.
Mall
And then we reconnected, and, like, she made. No, she made me wait. Like, I already know what her booty hole looked like.
Rory
She said we're doing it different this time. I love when they do it different.
Mall
Like. Nah, still not. Still us.
Rory
Yeah, still. Like, Come on, man. I've seen it when it was a little bit of hair on it, like a Kiwi.
Mall
Come on.
Rory
Yeah. Don't make me wait. Don't make me wait. Yeah. I'm not trying to wait. I know what it looked like.
Damaris
Yo, Balloon. Yo. I'm just warning the listeners is I won today. I don't know what type of night.
Mall
Very silly.
Damaris
He had a crazy night last night, but he.
Rory
I'm just happy for life. See, when I come in here, happy to be just living and breathing, y' all like, yo, this on one. Not coming here. Don't talk and just sit down. Because I like to wait. I don't like to give y' all the spill before the mic turn on. Yo, this ma acting funny.
Mall
I like this energy, though.
Rory
You do? Yeah.
Mall
I could even tell when I got off the elevator, the mess with the Long John, I knew he was on some type of talk, man, you see me here.
Rory
God damn it.
Mall
Jamaican on top. Bronx under. Yeah, I see what you're trying to do.
Damaris
Jamaican on top.
Rory
Big up yourself. Big up. This is my. Big up yourself.
Mall
Pick up yourself every time you say big up yourself. All right, so Demaris took the weekend to reflect. I get it fall solstice, seasons are changing, so she wants to change.
Rory
Make sure winter solstice here, people change, like the seasons. And Baby D change that hair. When Baby D changed that hair, that's when you know she acting up.
Damaris
Oh, don't worry. A side part bust down with Red is coming.
Mall
I was about to say, when are we bringing back red hair?
Damaris
The red is coming soon, baby.
Rory
And when you bring that red shaka.
Mall
Back, yo, it's not even Mondani's safe. The city's on fire.
Rory
Encore.
Mall
What was that last word you say? Encore?
Damaris
Yeah, that's the shock the shaka concept.
Rory
Oh, it's Veterans Day today, right? Well, technically.
Mall
Technically, yes.
Rory
If you're listening.
Mall
Hold on, man.
Rory
Salute to all the veterans. Let's take a look. Pause real quick. Salute. Thank you to all the veterans around the world. We appreciate you. Appreciate your service to this country. We are nothing without you. Something without you, but probably a little bit more with you.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
Protecting our country. Thank you very much for your sacrifice. And, yeah, happy Veterans Day for sure.
Mall
Over the weekend.
Rory
Your dad's a veteran, right? No, I feel like all dads.
Mall
My grandfather's veteran. My cousin Evan, who's called into the show before, is a veteran.
Rory
Oh, salute to Cousin Heav.
Mall
So, yeah, no, I got veterans in my family, but, no, my pops, I think he said he had a number for, like, the last month of Vietnam, but he was, like, had just turned 18 or some shit. Yeah. But no, he never. Never went to war.
Rory
I got to ask my dad about Vietnam.
Mall
Was your dad in Vietnam? Okay.
Rory
I want. I want to get the stories, though.
Mall
I feel like the fact that he hasn't is purposeful. I think there's a reason why he hasn't been like, son, let me tell you about. Now, let me tell you about the rice patties.
Rory
Yeah, let me. Let me. Let me tell you all about my experience over there. It was. It was Charlie everywhere in the bush. We waited 12 days. No food, no water.
Damaris
Yo, stop. Shout out to us.
Mall
Shout out to the veterans.
Damaris
Shout out to the veterans. Because they're. Especially if you're still in the military right now. They're not getting paid currently, which is crazy.
Mall
There's a lot of. We going on.
Rory
We back. We back on. The government back on. Y' all opened. It's open.
Damaris
Oh, I didn't know you flipped the switch, Big Dog.
Rory
You know, Big Don went in there.
Sponsor Voice
And made it happen.
Rory
It was like, listen, he was the.
Mall
One that shut it down.
Rory
No, see, no, he did it. No, he did It. No, I'm just. Listen, we ain't gonna do that. But, yes, the government is back open. So thank you to everybody that voted last night. We were able to get the government back open. People were able to get their SNAP benefits back started. So, yes, thank you all very much.
Mall
Oh, I hope they overcharged what they did to the coal crush. Like, back paying shit. I hope TSA workers, everyone, like, gets the money they're owed when they weren't getting paid.
Rory
Yeah, yeah, yeah, they gonna get that.
Mall
Okay, good, though. I'm fine with my tax dollars going.
Rory
Yeah. They just had to get some other things straight at the table first. You know I'm saying negotiation.
Damaris
Yeah.
Rory
That's all it was.
Mall
And I mean, how. How do veterans, like, like, do veterans get paid? Yeah, no, but, like, the way they should.
Rory
If they. If they do. If they go through all the proper protocol and get.
Mall
Now, if you went, like, almost dying for our country.
Rory
Yeah, but if you went awol, then I don't think you get fair.
Mall
Like, how many people go awol?
Rory
A lot.
Mall
Like, your pops just popped up back in East Harlem and they was. Yeah, I thought she was in now.
Rory
Yeah, some people just like, how do.
Mall
You get from Nam to.
Rory
Yeah, I'm never going back to that. That. Yeah, if you're not awol, then. Yeah, the veterans, they. They do a pretty good job, I guess, of the veterans. Veterans helping them.
Mall
I don't know about all that. I see a lot of them on the street. Well, a lot of them, like, in the garb.
Rory
A lot of them awol.
Mall
Fair enough.
Rory
See what I'm saying?
Mall
I saw no one talking about the Grammy nominations over the weekend because nobody.
Rory
Cares about the gram.
Damaris
I did, actually.
Mall
I mean, I. I went and looked at them. I cared, but I got in a couple.
Damaris
Not little arguments, but little arguments.
Rory
You got into arguments about the Grammy nominee?
Damaris
Not arguments, little debates about what. Because Mariah didn't get nominated.
Rory
Mariah Carey?
Damaris
Mariah the scientist.
Rory
What would she be nominated for? Best R and B.
Damaris
Best R and B album or song? I think Best R and B album, not song. I don't think Burn and Blue should have been a contender, but whatever. So she didn't get nominated. And people were like, oh, thank God she can't fucking sing. And I'm just like. The writing on her album was. She had really good writing on her album.
Rory
I'm not mad at.
Damaris
Compared to anybody else's.
Rory
I'm not mad at these nominees. The nominees for best R B albums are. Giveon with beloved Coco Jones Why not? More Lettucey with the Crown, Teyana Taylor, Escape Room and Leon Thomas Mutt. Yeah, I think Leon gonna pack y' all up.
Damaris
I think Liana probably pack.
Rory
As much as I would love to see Tiana get a. Get a Grammy, that Leon Thomas album was. Was incredible. That's one of the best R and B albums I heard in a long time.
Damaris
I would have. I would have. I would give it to Give y' all on or Coco, but that's just me.
Rory
Yeah, I'm giving it to Give Yawn and Coco and let the split it.
Damaris
Give Yann or Coco. But we love Leon over here. Leon knows he's. He's loved as family, but I just think with.
Mall
With the quality of music. Yeah, you could debate between Coco Giveon and Leon Thomas, but the impact that Leon made while doing so, not so much traditional R B, but moving the genre forward with sound. I. I think he just. Yeah, he deserves. I think it's a cleanup for Leon if you're checking all the boxes. Yeah. But congrats to Tiana and let us see as well. Just for being nominated. Both. Both great albums, but yeah. Yeah, I think. I think Leon's cleaning up. As far as best R and B song, which. Which would you take off Tamaris? I'm not against.
Damaris
I didn't say. I didn't say. I don't think that Mariah. I think Burning Blue was really big and. But I think that her album deserved to be in best R and B album. That's just my opinion. But for song, I wouldn't take anybody off for song.
Mall
Yeah, I think they kind of nailed it on the song area. I'm kind of shocked they went with.
Damaris
I might take Burning Blue over Heart of a Woman. The songs for the best, the R, Best R and B song nominees are Folded by Kehlani, Heart of a Woman by Summer Walker, It Depends by Chris Brown and Bryson Tiller. Overqualified by Duran Bernard. And yes, it is by Leon Thomas.
Rory
That's a tough category. That's tough. That might be tougher than album. R B album.
Damaris
I think Folded deserves it. If Mutt was on here, I personally like. Yes, it is over Mutt, but Mutt had the bigger.
Mall
Just came out, man. Before the whole Brown.
Rory
Bryson Tiller. Yeah, that's tough.
Mall
I think Folded was the. The song of the year, but I wouldn't be mad at any one of these songs. Yeah, like, this might be the toughest category in my opinion. I think Folded should get it. But if any other record won here, I'd be like, yeah, I understand. But it should be between Folded and it depends. I would have preferred Not Fair by Leon Thomas over yes, it is. But I think Not Fair is. Is like the superior record. Yes, but I mean, I get it was on the original Mutt album, and that's what's nominated.
Damaris
Leon said, so when you tell me that it's mine so when I. When I ask you if it's mine All I want to hear is yes, it is My ears are sensitive so when I ask you if it's mine All I want to hear is yes.
Rory
It is Chanel in every city sitting pretty, talking dirty hello. Whoa, whoa when he said that, I said, this nigga's a genius.
Mall
Right on the wall this nigga's a genius.
Rory
The boy's good. The boy's good. Now, now, y', all, I'm not gonna lie. That R and B song nominee is. That's a tough category. I think Chris Brown and Bryson might win that.
Damaris
That won't be fair.
Rory
If anything, that overqualified Duran Bernard record is crazy. Like, that's just a tough category.
Damaris
But Folded was folded.
Rory
Folded is not. Folded is a smash. That's a big record. But Chris Brown and Bryson.
Mall
Well, congrats to Bryson. Cause we had him on the show and clearly he's right after he was about not wanting to do music.
Rory
Right after he was on our show, he became the biggest selling rp. Yes. That's to the. That's us. We did that.
Mall
Oh, for sure we did that. That's why Nori called. He was like, yo, I saw the Bryson interview.
Rory
You're welcome. Shout out to Bryson.
Mall
Oh, yeah. I mean, I think that is good, though, for him because he. He definitely has a bad taste in his mouth with the music industry. And not to say that the Grammys validifies anything, but, you know, I think it's great that he's getting flowers for the record he did with Chris Brown. Because it depends. Is incredible. We can go back to rap album of the year. Do we feel like they missed anything? I. I was not mad at all the nominations this year, to be quite honest.
Rory
Before we gonna think they kind of.
Damaris
You know what's gonna piss me off when gnx. Okay, sorry. The official nominees for best rap album at the 2026 Grammys are. Let God Sort Them out by the clips. Glorious by Glorilla. God does like Ugly by J I D, GNX by Kendrick Lamar. Chromo Copia by Tyler the Creator. GNX is going to sweep and it's going to piss me off because the Clips deserves to win. And that's not.
Rory
Kendrick just opened his mouth. Someone go handle my Grammy right now. Jamal, where is your aunt? Jamal? I'm just saying the boy is prophetic. That's all I'm saying.
Mall
He's a. He's a Grammy darling.
Rory
That's.
Mall
That goes without saying. Do we think Alfredo2 should have been in here?
Rory
Absolutely.
Mall
Okay, but what do we take out?
Rory
Gen X?
Mall
You can't take out one of the highest selling.
Rory
All right, so let me be misogynistic, Glorilla.
Mall
Okay? I would agree with you. The only reason I was trying to.
Rory
Keep a female representation there, I was trying.
Mall
The only reason why I think they got it right because I'm not looking at whatever my taste is. If you're trying to put together a proper category that does reflect the entire genre, I could see why you would put Gloria in there. The album is good. I personally would put Alfredo to there before it. But I get why they would do this. Like, yeah, some. Sometimes they keep it fair, sometimes they don't. I could never really, you know, figure that out with the Grammys, but, I mean, congrats to everyone in this category. I think. I think they'll. I think they'll give it to clips. Let God sort them out, but won't give it to them in the album of the year category. I don't think they'll snub the clips twice. I don't think the Grammys has the balls to do that.
Damaris
They've did it to Beyonce like 15 times. You don't think they got the balls to do it to the clips.
Mall
Yeah, but Beyonce never sold coke.
Damaris
You don't know that. You don't know that.
Rory
Not knowing if Beyonce ever. So coke.
Mall
She's never stepped on something to make it.
Rory
Yeah, Beyonce never tap danced on a brick before. We know that.
Damaris
So y' all don't think that Jid could be taken out for Alfredo too?
Mall
No.
Rory
Okay.
Mall
No, it would be Glorilla for me in the rap category, but I. I don't want that to look like it's Glorilla hate, because she is my favorite female rapper and I thought the album was good.
Rory
But Glorilla is your favorite female rapper currently.
Damaris
He didn't say of all time.
Mall
He said definitely not of all time.
Rory
Oh, I'm about to be like, what is happening? But currently, no, no.
Mall
She's my favorite rapper of all time. Not even female of all time. All time.
Rory
All genres.
Mall
Across all genres.
Rory
All genres and genders.
Mall
It's Glorilla that's like.
Rory
Yeah, no, it's glow. Big glow.
Mall
I thought she should have been nominated in the R B category too.
Rory
Yeah. So she has some melody on there, but yeah.
Mall
Predictions. I'm going clips. Damaris, you say GNX mall.
Damaris
Predictions, not who you think should win.
Rory
Predictions. Oh, Kendrick.
Damaris
Yeah.
Rory
I think you know that. We know what we know.
Damaris
What would yalls preference be? Who do you think should win?
Mall
Clips.
Rory
Yeah, clips.
Damaris
Clips. I'm going with clips too.
Mall
Clips, for sure. Rap song. We have clips. The Birds don't sing. Tyler, Sticky, Glorilla, TJI Fridays, Kendrick Lamar, TV off. Dolce Anxiety.
Damaris
I think Sticky. Nope. I think Sticky is gonna win. Me personally, this could just be because I'm a girl. I think TJIF deserves to win. It's 7pm Friday. It's 95 degrees.
Mall
It's a great.
Damaris
No, got me. My bad.
Mall
You know, I think that that should win best performance after her reflection.
Damaris
No, but seriously, I think that that song had the biggest impact. Listen, I think that song had the biggest impact when it came out, and I think it lasted the longest out of all of those songs.
Mall
I agree with you there. Yeah, you. You make a very good point with. With that. I do think. I think the clips may clean up. I think Birds Don't Sing may get this too.
Damaris
It is a very Grammy song, Glorilla.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
It's got John Legend on it. Come on, let me get the hook.
Rory
The birds don't sing. The birds don't sing. They screech in pain. The birds don't sing. You gotta get at a Grammy. The birds don't sing, they screech in pain. I'd be like, john, get the fuck out the hoop with that shit. John, get your ass.
Mall
That's actually one of the better John Legend hooks I've heard in a very long time. I like that.
Rory
H that because John, right here. Stay right.
Mall
See the line. We only need this.
Rory
We only need this. Y' all don't go crazy.
Mall
But yeah, I see birds don't sing. Did they announce the performance? Stuff like who's.
Damaris
No, they probably did. I ain't check.
Mall
I could see them doing Birds Don't Sing at the Grammys with John Legend. And if John is busy, you know, I don't know, saving the Democratic Party, they should just. They should just hire molecules. I think, just to fill in.
Rory
I'm available right here.
Mall
The same way ho took Bridget Kelly to do Alicia Keys part. I feel like you could be. You're the Bridget Kelly to Alicia Keys to John Legend.
Rory
Oh, in my opinion, okay. In Europe, you're his Bridget and you're very humble.
Mall
You're Ma Kelly to. To John Legend. But I think Laurelli should get best rap performance with that record.
Damaris
Oh, yeah, for sure.
Mall
Because that. That was by far the best performance out of everything.
Damaris
Album of the year nominations. Debbie Tirer. Maz photos.
Mall
I was gonna. Yeah, I was gonna let you go.
Damaris
Bad Money Swag by Justin Bieber, Man's best Friend by Sabrina Carpenter. Let God sort Him out Clips. Pusha T and Malice clips. Mayhem by Lady Gaga, GNX by Kendrick Lamar, Mutt by Leon Thomas and Chromo Copia by Tyler the Creator. Bad Bunny should win.
Mall
Well, I just want to say congrats to Leon and clips for being in the album of the year nomination, because again, we know the Grammys shout out to Leon.
Rory
That's major. That's major. Leon.
Mall
Amazing that you guys have far surpassed whatever genre they have tried to put you in. So I think that's incredible because everyone else here has been nominated, I think, for album of the year before shout out to Tyler because I thought they played him with. With Igor by making a rap album instead of album of the year. So I think that's great as well. This is the one, I think, ironically, I think this is the one that GNX does take. I'm giving my predictions, not what, not what. I. Even though I do like GNX a lot, I'm just giving you what I think is going to happen.
Rory
Do you think he deserves it?
Mall
If album of the year is based off numbers, impact, and dominating the year within the Grammy dates, then, yeah, I don't think that's a bad take for. For what it did, impact wise.
Damaris
Justin Bieber up. Justin, I was about to say y' all got. Y' all got the Grammys and Justin Bieber up.
Mall
First of all, I think Swag is an incredible album. I think Swag two is an incredible album. I would never be mad at that. But, I mean, I. I think. I don't know, with the insider trading that we're gonna get to eventually. This is what, two weeks before Super Bowl?
Rory
Come on. You saw him high five. Lucian. Sir Lucian. Last year, you saw the high five. That five meant we're gonna parlay this over into next year to the next Grammys as well.
Damaris
Nah, I think bad. I think. I think bad Boonie gonna get it.
Mall
Yeah, this is too close to. To the super bowl, man.
Damaris
And also, if y' all talking about numbers and impact, like, come on, Baboony.
Mall
Is this like. Is this like His Illmatic. You know, I'm like. I'm asking, like, where is this in. In Bad Bunnies?
Damaris
Don't piss me off.
Mall
I'm not trying to be like. I'm really trying to have a serious conversation. I don't know enough about his. His discography.
Rory
Like, this is not his.
Mall
Is this one? Is this one.
Damaris
I don't think this is his Illmatic.
Rory
The album was dope. Okay, sure, Definitely.
Mall
Well, like, compared to the rest of his catalog. I mean, everyone's like, yo, he took it to the next level.
Rory
I'm not the one to speak on that. I'm not that big of a bad Puerto Rican. Yeah, but I don't. I don't consume the music like that. But, I mean, I know that this album definitely shook the bodegas up for sure. Yeah. You couldn't order turkey and cheese without hearing this album. That wasn't happening.
Mall
But, yeah, I think. I think with super bowl, that. That Bad Bunny may get it, but if not, I'm on the side of gnx. But what's your final answer? You're going with Tyler, right?
Rory
No. Come on, man. Gnx.
Mall
You're going with gnx. Damaris.
Damaris
I'm going with Swag. Oh, I'm going with Bad Bunny. I lied. I'm going with Bad Bunny.
Mall
I would like to see Swag win just because I saw Justin Bieber with some. Some alleged coke on.
Damaris
I think it was cigarette ash.
Rory
That's why you want him to win, because you saw coke on his.
Mall
I want to see the speech. If he's in that, like, that bag right now, I prefer the moment. I don't care about the awards.
Rory
Yeah, like what?
Mall
I want beef. I want beef to get it up.
Rory
I don't care who's taking the trophy home.
Mall
I need a Beeb speech.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
I could care less about a Kendrick or Bad Bunny speech. Biebs off a little because that's the last award, too. So that means they're sitting there with their vices that long.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
Like, beeves may use the bathroom three or four times before album of the year. That could be a crazy speech. These may show up shirtless to that.
Rory
That album was dope, though. Like, B album.
Mall
Oh, it's incredible.
Rory
Yeah. About that album was dope.
Mall
I could even see Bieber Valley bringing up. Bringing up the real wave.
Rory
Max.
Mall
I could definitely see it.
Rory
That's not happening.
Mall
Like, no connection at all. But just. Just. He just comes up with him. Like, the way Eminem used to bring proof up for, like, stuff. I could see Beeves bringing up up Max B. No to accept album on his behalf.
Rory
That won't happen on his behalf. You taking home Max.
Mall
Max is now affiliated with. With the Saudis via French. Yeah, it's a different. The people funding the Grammys right now. Max may host for all we know.
Damaris
Yeah.
Mall
Well, welcome home to Max B.
Damaris
Welcome home to the Wave.
Mall
It was great to see him at the jets game having some fun. I. I did not go to his. His welcome home party. I wasn't sure if. If I'd see you in those videos in the background. But that's not you. That's not your thing.
Damaris
Why not, Ma?
Mall
It looked wholesome.
Rory
Oh, no. I'm sure they had a great time. Yes. I wasn't gonna be there.
Mall
Okay, gotcha.
Rory
Somebody just came home doing 17. I won't be at that first party. No.
Mall
Everyone's in good spirits.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
Give it a week. Give it a week is all right. Yeah. Once that.
Rory
But shout out to Max B. Welcome home. I am excited to hear any new music that he's been working on. I think right now, more than ever is a perfect time for Max, especially where, you know, music, the sound of hip hop is right now. A lot of melodies. Many people don't do it as good as Max do. So I think it's a perfect time, especially New York. Just New York. The music scene in New York right now is. We can use it. We can use a Max B tape right now.
Mall
Some melodic shit as well. If I was on Max B's team, I would try to get him to be pressed for the Grammys red carpet. I think that would be.
Damaris
Oh, that would be great.
Mall
Hysterical. I think Max should do as much of that type of stuff as possible.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
I think his music still fits with the times. Like, he's one of those. But Max's personality right now is the gold mine. Like, Max on the red carpet would be the funniest thing ever. And he could just ask all the questions of, like, is this really rigged? Because that. That kind of skipped over. Did that get the press you thought it was going to get with the whistleblower?
Rory
No, nobody cares, Rory.
Damaris
And also everybody kind of already, like.
Rory
Knew that nobody cares.
Mall
Okay, but y' all don't think it's crazy even though we knew this, that the suspended Grammy CEO, which I also think it's hilarious. You could be suspended as the Grammy CEO, did an interview with NBC saying that the Grammys are rigged. Mind you, this was the CEO. Grammys are rigged. Either artist influence or their labels execs do it on their behalf. Deserving artists are removed out of the spot, and decisions are made mostly by white male execs. Not that this was like a shocker bombshell the way they said it.
Rory
It was confirmation, though.
Mall
But it's like, this is the CEO.
Rory
It's confirmation. But that's the thing. Once you get confirmation on things that we all kind of felt and to some extent known, like, once we get the confirmation, it's like we don't even care no more. It's like we. Like, duh. We knew that. But the point still stands of yes. So now it's confirmed that the Grammys are rigged, which is why some artists you see don't care about the Grammys, don't go to the Grammys, don't support the Grammys, because they notice as well that this is all rigged. It's just for. It's like a big talent show. It's like a. What do they call it? Like a participation trophy. A lot of the times we see our favorite artists that have great years, they don't. Either they don't get nominated or they don't end up winning their category that they should win. But this is why it's all rigged. It's all a part of a whole thing behind the scenes, you know, relationships and things like that that play more. More of a part in it than the music being actually good. So, I mean, we been knew that, you know, she just confirmed what we've known. But again, Rory, I don't think people really. People don't care.
Mall
Well, I mean, I think it's just a reflection of everything. I don't think this just happens in the music industry. It happens with literally every business. But I don't know. You guys know I have mixed feelings with the Grammys. I don't think it defines you, but I think it's also cool if you want to be Grammy nominated or win a Grammy. Like, I think both are fine.
Rory
You can walk into a room a little differently when you're Grammy nominated. You could walk into a recording studio a little differently when you're Grammy nominated. Forget winning. Yeah, just being nominated, your walk is a little different through those.
Mall
You're amongst names of people that you idolized as a kid. But I mean, even like. Like, I don't know. I do think there's gray areas. Like, Leon Thomas deserved it. I'm sure him being on a major helped with the influence there. But nobody would say Leon is here because it's rigged. So I don't know as much as we know it's rigged. I'm. There are people that still are, well, deserving within their awards. Even if it's rigged, even if you're on a major. Like I told you guys, when, with my first album, when I got the price of what a Grammy consultant is, I was like, wait, that's a full time job? Yeah, it's six figures to hire a Grammy consultant where all they do is just consult.
Rory
No, you should do this. No, this person should be.
Mall
This was like a no show mob job.
Rory
Yeah.
Damaris
What do you mean?
Mall
They sit and they. They go to meetings and just say, this one. Yeah, here's some money.
Rory
There you go.
Mall
But I don't know, I still don't think it takes away from the people that do deserve it.
Rory
No, I mean, sometimes people get snubbed. We know that. But you know, for the most part, at the end of the year, the songs or the artists that we think should be there, they usually find a way to get them in one of those categories. May not be the category we want or expect, may not always be the winner that we expect. But, you know, we can point to some years and I'm not gonna. I won't do it. But I could point to some years where influence was directly a thing.
Mall
Every year. Yeah, not in every category. Whatever.
Rory
It's one year, though. It's one.
Mall
It's Macklemore.
Rory
No, it's one year, but. Oh, that's another one. Yeah, definitely.
Damaris
It's a couple years.
Rory
Oh, it's a few years. I was like, all right.
Mall
You don't think he thrifted that Grammy?
Rory
Listen, man, you know, just. Blessings to everybody, man. Blessings to all. Blessings to all. That's all I can say. No worry.
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Rory
Can't stop thinking.
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Mall
Speaking of award shows, did you watch the Outkast Rock and Roll hall of Fame on Saturday?
Rory
I didn't watch the Disney, but I watched them Accept their award salute to outkast. Congratulations on the Rock and Roll hall of Fame. I mean, much deserved, we know that. But it was just dope to see outkast, man, again. I'm a little older than y', all, so I remember outkast from the very beginning. And to see them, you know, this weekend going to the Rock and Roll hall of Fame was just. It was some cool shit to see that, man. It was dope to see them, you know, still together. A lot of the times, you know, it'd be a lot of negative things when you talk about groups and bands when it's time to go into the hall of Fame, you know, certain members don't speak to each other anymore. It's a lot of bullshit. But with big boy and 3,000, it's always been a brotherly relationship, you know that their family, they've kept it that way the entire way. So it was dope to see them receive their flowers and their hall of Fame.
Mall
Yeah. And I thought Childish Gambino did a great speech on exactly what. What you said before they got on stage. Just about that entire thing of like, you can have disagreements with somebody, but that doesn't change the family or what.
Rory
You guys built, like, right?
Mall
Even when we thought outkast was broken up, then you'd find like leaked pictures of three stacks at Big Boy son's high school football games. Like, yo, we put way too much into people's personal lives. Like, just cause they're not making music just doesn't mean they're not.
Rory
We're not making music. Don't mean we not still family, though. We don't still speak, obviously. 3,000, his, you know, his creative. His creative energy has kind of shifted a little bit. And he's doing exactly what he wants to do and creating what he wants to create. But again, I mean, what outkast means to hip hop in the culture, just to the south, you know, it was just. It was. It was really cool to see them on stage as outcasts.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
3,000. As 3,000. You know, big Boy gotta have a fur on, you know, I mean, it's just like they ain't changed. They script much, man. They still who they are when they first came in.
Mall
And with all the Dungeon Fam too. Not just the two of them up there.
Rory
Rest in peace, Rico. Wade.
Mall
Yeah. Three Sacks was seeing people in the crowd like, no, you need to come.
Rory
Up here too, man. Like, yeah, it's family. It's family. And that's what would outkast represent And I think that we all. From the first time you've ever saw outkast or heard their music, I think we all collectively knew that they would end up in the hall of Fame.
Mall
Yeah, I did see a lot of people upset that Three Stacks didn't participate in the actual performance stuff. But to your point, I thought that was cool. Like, Three Stacks is just going to do what he wants to do. If you don't want to perform, he's going to go sit down and Big Boy is going to do what he wants to do.
Rory
I want to perform.
Mall
So Jid filled in. I thought Jid did an incredible job. And I just think that's. That's cool from. You know, Jid and I think are the exact same age. Like, just thinking of that perspective. He grew up in Atlanta. Like, now I get to rock with Big Boy at the Rock and Roll hall of Fame and rap with him. Like, I'm sure that was probably crazier than him putting out his album this year.
Rory
Oh, yeah.
Mall
Like, I get to do this.
Rory
It's more of a personal, like, just dream to be able to do that.
Mall
Yeah. You gotta speak. You gotta speak for your homegirl, man.
Rory
Who's my homegirl?
Damaris
Go.
Mall
Let's. Let's get into the rest of performance. It came out with At Aliens, Big Boy and Jid smoked that. And then your homegirl came out.
Rory
Who?
Mall
Doja Cat. Which I was like, great pick. I think Doja Cat would be a great. Even if it's not obvious, definitely still part of the Outcast family tree as far as sound goes.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
You see.
Rory
You see the influence.
Mall
She didn't even know the lyrics to Ms. Jackson.
Rory
Oh, she didn't? Oh, she.
Mall
They cut her off halfway through like, it was bad dog.
Rory
Oh, man. Damn.
Damaris
If you know you have a performance coming up, why would you not. That's what lyrics.
Mall
It was confusing. I don't know if maybe she didn't have an earpiece in and couldn't hear.
Rory
That don't sound like Doji. There was a. There was. There was something wrong.
Mall
No, it was a clear.
Rory
Doja definitely knows Ms. Jackson.
Mall
And then.
Rory
Are you kidding me?
Mall
She was about to get into the bridge and they cut it off. Like, whoever was DJing cut it off right away with the band. Like, it. Something was wrong, but it was. It was bad.
Rory
Maybe she is. It had to be a technical difficulty. I. I refuse to believe that Doja catches that. Doesn't know Ms. Jackson. Everybody knows Ms. Jackson.
Mall
I think it had to be something.
Rory
It was a technical difficulty.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
I just don't think you should address it since then.
Mall
Not that I saw, but, yeah, it was. It was weird. Then, thank God, Tyler came out right after and saved the day with bombs over Baghdad, which I don't care who you are, is a very difficult fucking song to try to keep up with. And rap every word to that type of beat. Tyler went nuts on. That performance is great. Then Janelle Monae came out to do. Hey, she got killed for it. I thought it was a really good performance. She put a little, like, weird effect on her own voice for it that people were mad about. I thought. I thought it was cool. But she did get smoked for it. Like, people were not happy about it. Then Killer Mike came out, which was great. I don't know. I saw a lot of people giving the performance a lot of shit. Outside of Doja Cat, I thought it was incredible.
Rory
I mean, Janelle Monae makes sense as 3,000.
Mall
They were mad at her rendition of it. I was like. I thought that she was cool.
Rory
Yeah. I mean, Janelle, you know, she's. She gonna. She gonna be Janelle. But you definitely see the 3,000 influence.
Mall
For sure. Killer Mike did a whole wide worlds. It was just cool, man. It was great to just see all of Atlanta together.
Rory
Yeah. Salute to outkast, man. That's some major, major shit right there.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
Rock and roll hall of Fame. Look at hip hop, man.
Mall
No, absolutely. Since we're staying on music, Summer Walker, we get on Friday. Finally over.
Rory
It's summer. Finally over. Summer, Summer, Summer, Summer.
Damaris
Yeah.
Rory
Is she finally over it, though?
Mall
I don't mall. I think this is your. Your chance now. Now that she has a dump truck, which is getting rid of all her baggage. I assume this was part of the marketing. We'll have to ask Justice. Getting rid of all the baggage with a dump truck and putting it, you know, in the garbage disposal where it belongs to make room for mole. It's kind of how you can throw.
Damaris
Your ex's stuff out. Out in it. That's what it was for.
Rory
Yeah, that was dope.
Mall
That's great.
Rory
Everybody show up. And anything that they have. Anything that they have of their ex that belongs to the ex truck up there.
Damaris
Had to bring another for me.
Rory
They would.
Mall
How much stuff you got?
Rory
Would you come to the dump truck for me? Yeah. So the ex. Anything. If you had anything of your exes or that belongs to your ex and you know you want to get rid of it somewhere, they had a dump truck truck for Summer Walker. You pull up, you dump the. In the Truck. Take a picture with someone.
Mall
Yeah. Brilliant marketing. Shout out to lvrn for that. You know how pissed I would be if I saw some of my favorite hoodies just be thrown in a dump truck in Atlanta? I'd be tight.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
I'd show up for the photo op just to climb in the truck and get my back.
Rory
It's a great. It's a great marketing thing, though. That's. That's. That's genius. I like that.
Mall
I mean, so you think now, I mean, we'll see what this album, like, what the type of content is on there, but do you think, like, maybe she's in a better space where you guys could. Could make it work?
Rory
Summer and myself, yeah. Oh, no. I think Summer needs time to, you know, just take care of herself. And, you know, she has to heal from so many, you know, broken relationships and things like that.
Mall
Well, I mean, judging by how long the album took in between. What was that, year and a half? Two years still over. That's enough time to heal.
Rory
Yeah, but then she.
Mall
Then she. Then she found out that was really just Meech's cousin.
Rory
Yeah, but she showed up to the awards with an older white guy.
Damaris
Yeah. Because she's to the point. It seems like she's just to the point where it's like, yeah, I give up on love. Just spend money. I want your black car. You could keep your heart.
Mall
Which I thought was also hilarious. Marketing. Isn't that the album cover, too?
Damaris
Yep. The Anna Nicole Smith wedding. Yeah, it.
Mall
But first of all, Anna Nicole loved that gentleman. We all know that.
Rory
Yeah. Come on.
Mall
Everyone knows that.
Rory
That was love in his purest form. Yes.
Damaris
Okay.
Mall
Predictions for this. This is. We say. We say it a lot with certain artists. There's a lot of pressure on Summer. Yeah.
Rory
Well, I mean, if you.
Mall
Yeah, she has. She has not missed on. She has a classic, in my opinion.
Rory
She has a classic.
Mall
This is a big project for her. Yeah. This is a defining. As far as the next level and where she stands in R B legacy, I think, falls on this album.
Rory
I just believe in LVR and too much. I don't think they're gonna let you know anything go out that's not to a certain standard, to a certain level. And I definitely don't think Summer would. So, yeah, I think this is gonna be right on par with the over it series. But it's hard to over it to me. Y' all know, I feel like that's a classic, so I don't know where this will stand in that whole discography. But we know that it'll be a certain level, and it's gonna have some joints on this. It's gonna be a great album.
Mall
Any feature predictions? Cause I don't believe they put out the track list.
Rory
I could see Brandi on there.
Damaris
I need a Cardi B. I need a Kehlani. Oh, no, I don't see any features.
Rory
Glorilla.
Damaris
Oh, glow. Yeah. Oh, that's it.
Mall
I don't believe that that's the whole thing. Yeah, I don't believe that this is the. The final track list with features whatsoever. But I'm with you. I think there'll be a legend on there.
Rory
Yeah, I see Brandy or Monica.
Mall
I could see. I could see a Cardi with the verse swap shit, because she was just on. She did the intro, right?
Damaris
She did the intro, and she has a feature song on there, too.
Rory
Do we. Do we get another Sierra prayer on there?
Mall
Nah, that's in the past.
Rory
Sierra not gonna pray again.
Mall
Yeah, we need the mall prayer.
Rory
You don't want to hear my prayer? Alhamdulillah, inshallah.
Mall
Huh?
Damaris
What's your prayer for, Summer?
Rory
That's Patreon. We gotta pay all that. Y' all want to hear what I'm about to start?
Mall
That'll go against most publishing, like. Yeah, we can't do that for these airwaves.
Rory
Not gonna do that.
Mall
But let's mark that down. Down for. For the Mall prayer. Yeah, for Patreon.
Rory
Yeah, you need the mall Prayer.
Mall
Or we could even. We could even read it on air after the. The album comes out.
Rory
Okay.
Mall
Yeah, maybe you can make the deluxe.
Rory
Yeah, we'll do that. We'll do that. They got that.
Mall
Just imagine the deluxe just being your prayer. Like, just one second.
Rory
That's all you're gonna need. Just have me on the end of that thing praying, that's all. Get it right.
Mall
But, yeah, I'm excited for it. I know some of our listeners hate when we get in our full R bag, but this is Summer Walker, and that's a list R B right there. So I'm super excited for the. For this project. And I know Damaris gonna be going caption crazy with that one.
Damaris
You ever got sad? Yeah. I'm actually very much looking forward to Summer's album. I'm looking forward to Kehlani's album. I'm excited.
Rory
That was like your. You know me and just the background music for you, baby. I get your off.
Damaris
Thank you so much. All on today. Y'.
Mall
He on that Diddy moonshine.
Rory
That's why.
Damaris
Yeah.
Mall
Did he bottle up that toilet water? Hey, that's the new Sorak.
Rory
Hey, Diddy, I ain't gonna lie. I know you drinking because I knew you was drinking a week before they said it said Diddy was in Fort Dix. They said he got everything in that motherfucker. Sure.
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Rory
He got a Sorak in there. He got all kind of in there.
Mall
Well, they're saying he. He. He made his own. What do they call. It's not moonshine. What are they called?
Rory
He didn't make anything. It was made for him. Yeah. You know, they got to make it.
Mall
But what do they call that? That the jail. Okay. That's what it is. They said it was made of Fonta Sugar apples. Ferment into an alcohol substance.
Rory
Yeah, you gotta let the fruit, you know.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
Gotta make hooch.
Mall
No, I hear you with the toilet water. Right?
Rory
Well, no, you can get water in prison. You can get drinking water.
Mall
Yeah. But you got to mix it all up in the toilet bowl, right? Yeah, I'd probably drink that in jail.
Rory
Of course you would.
Mall
If you don't really have much else going on.
Rory
You're an alcoholic.
Damaris
Being in jail sober, crazy as.
Rory
I never understood that, being in jail.
Damaris
So out of all the places I'm.
Rory
Be in the world, you think being in jail, period.
Damaris
Being in jail, crazy, but being in jail sober or wild as. I'm not doing that.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
If I. I mean, it depends if I had like, a life sentence, I mean, at that point, I'm probably just gonna start, like, smoking. Sherm. Whatever the y' all got, like, whatever, like on aluminum foil. I smoke. Just give me the lighter. Yeah, but if I got, you know, a year or two, that puff does. No, I'm not gonna start getting addicted to whatever the y' all smoking in there.
Damaris
Yeah. Pill popping animal.
Rory
Having a little party, man. You know, fellas just drinking a little bit. Fellas night in, you know. You know, fellas night in is every night in prison. But Sebastian. Sebastian's not in jail, man. Is he. Sebastian's in jail right now.
Mall
Sebastian Telfair, he's in prison right now.
Rory
He is.
Mall
Wait, Sebastian Telfair is in jail?
Rory
Nah, that's. That gotta be cat. Wait, I didn't know Sebastian was in prison.
Mall
He went to prison for the gun thing, but he got out, right? Or maybe he just didn't do his sentence. I remember when he got.
Rory
Oh, yeah, he is. He's in Fort Dixie. Oh, shit. He was ordered to prison in August 2020. Oh, so he just. Okay, August for Violating the terms of his supervised release. Oh, yeah, and he was part of that healthcare fraud case.
Mall
Yeah, I forgot about that shit.
Rory
Yeah, him, Glenn Davis. It was a few other players, right.
Mall
Because he had initially went to jail for the gun thing in Brooklyn. So. Yeah, I guess that that went against his parole. I just saw a clip on Twitter today of Sebastian Telfair doing like MTV Cribs of his project apartment, like, currently. Well, I'm sure it was old, but damn, man. I feel for Sebastian though. Like, if you know that story, he, like, he was mishandled by all the influences around him. Grown man, I get it. But he. He should took his time and went to Louisville and I think things would have been a little different. Different for Sebastian, but I feel for him.
Rory
Yes. It's. That's. That story is just one of those. That's like, damn, you know what I mean? Like, we saw it from high school, you know, all the way through college, NBA, and then unfortunately, now the Fort Dix. But you know what I'm saying, It's. That's how life goes sometimes, man.
Mall
Yeah. I mean, which is crazy because. Because he was never even like that type of guy that you would be like, he'll end up in jail.
Rory
Yeah, nice kids.
Mall
But I mean, the. Lance saw that and he did the real through the Fire after he saw what happened with Sebastian. So, I mean, Lincoln got something out of it.
Rory
But what did Lance do?
Mall
Successful in the NBA?
Rory
Oh, yeah. I mean, Sebastian played 10 years though, right? I think he did.
Mall
He had some good years.
Rory
Like, I mean, if you last 10 years, that's.
Mall
That's okay. See, he did okay. I hear that.
Rory
But the fact that he still. He was in the league, what, 10 years?
Mall
Something like that?
Rory
Less than 10. He didn't do 10, Sebastian. Oh, y' all think y' all got that wrong. I think he did 10 years, bro.
Mall
No, he's doing that now.
Rory
No, no, he's. He's not doing 10 years.
Mall
I'm sorry. That was step.
Rory
Thank you. I'm right.
Damaris
See, Ma said I'm right. Haha.
Mall
Sebastian should have hired Kim Kardashian. Wouldn't be in this mess right now. Is she allowed to represent people even if she didn't pass the bar? I don't think so, because I thought she's been a Instagram lawyer for the. For the last 10 years. Whole time Sebastian was in the league, I thought Kim K was freeing, freeing the guys.
Rory
I do think it's dope that Kim. Cause I didn't know she was really like Trying to be a lawyer. So I think that's dope that she's really, like, going after this and taking the bar. I think that's fire.
Mall
I'm not here to shit on her because I would definitely fail the bar exam too. I'm not here to clown her, but I always thought that was a serious thing. That wasn't like, a troll that her and Kanye were doing. I felt like she really wanted to do that.
Rory
That was dope.
Mall
And she's freed some people, but I don't know. To make Ms. Pat gotta have Kim K. On. On her show. That would be said since she failed the bar. If she passed the bar. No, but since she failed it, I think Kim K. Should be a regular lawyer on Ms. Pat's. Like, she should be the d. A For every case with Ms. Pat.
Rory
The D. A. That's crazy. No, I want to see. I want to see a pass to bottle. That'll be fine. Kim Kardashian is a lawyer. That's fire.
Damaris
I want that for her, the family.
Rory
Her dad, you know? Right. All of that, man. That's fine. That story is crazy. I think that's a. I think that's a great story. I think Kim Kardashian becoming a lawyer is. Is crazy.
Mall
Your honor, this case is so not cute. Cute. I feel like that's what you'd say.
Rory
See? Nah. Kim go coming in and really know them words, though.
Mall
Know them words.
Damaris
Know them words.
Mall
Gonna fuck y'.
Damaris
All.
Rory
You know? You know them. You know them court terms that we don't know. We gotta be like, yo, what she said.
Damaris
Okay.
Rory
Yeah. She gonna know all of that before.
Mall
We get our back to Kim.
Rory
The suits is gonna be crazy. Oh, she gonna walk in that mother. You know she gonna walk in there. The suits is gonna be crazy.
Mall
That's gonna be the new venture.
Rory
Yeah, for sure.
Damaris
That'd be the new Michelle Obama's wearing.
Rory
I like that.
Mall
All put Kamala and all them.
Rory
All y' all that was influenced by Kim to do other things. Now go past the bar. Yeah. Get from behind the bar and take the bar.
Mall
Yeah. Don't go just from the bar to.
Rory
A real estate agent and take the bar. Let's see them do that. Let's see that challenge.
Mall
That challenge.
Rory
Not the baby boo challenge. I don't wanna see the baby.
Damaris
Yes, you do.
Rory
Let's see the pass the bar challenge. Let's see that.
Damaris
You know how hard it is to pass the fucking bar?
Rory
I mean, hey, it's hard to shake ass, too, if you ain't got nothing, but some of them is doing it. They up there on that click the baby boo challenge right now. It's some on there that don't need to be on there.
Mall
They should be studying for the bar.
Rory
Yeah, you should be studying for the bar. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Let Kim K. Pass the bar, become a lawyer, and let. Let her inspire and influence the next generation of young women to pass the bar. Not be at the bar. Yeah, not at the bar.
Damaris
Well, it's gonna be. It's so in California, you're allowed to take the bar exam without going to law school and, like, becoming. Having your degree in that. But that makes it hard. I think it's cool. But I also think it makes it a little harder to pass the test.
Mall
Like, well, obviously, because you're not going to a law school that teaches you all this stuff, but there's some people that are not built for school and are just geniuses that should still be able to be lawyers. If you can pass the bar, like, that's the point of going to law school, is to then pass the bar.
Rory
Didn't Frank Abagnale pass the bar? Come on, Frank, How'd you pass the bar?
Mall
Studied my ass off.
Rory
How'd you do it, Frank? How'd you do it? Classic movie. They don't even know that movie. Rory, catch me if you can. Was it the Barnell?
Mall
Yeah. Okay. I thought. I wasn't sure it was real estate.
Rory
No, he passed the bar. How'd you pass. How'd you pass the bar? Come on, Frank.
Mall
Do we want to go with some of these bar questions? I see fentanyl out the gate.
Rory
Okay, so. Damn, Josh. Okay, you are.
Mall
Let's see. Let's see what? Kim couldn't answer that. Maybe. Maybe we could. Maybe we should move to California and become lawyers.
Rory
Okay. You are a criminal defense lawyer representing a client who has been charged with fentanyl possession. The police found this fentanyl in the guest bedroom of the client's uncle's house. House one responded to a noise complaint at the house. Before entering the house, the officers knocked on the door. When the uncle answered the door, the officers asked if they could look inside the house, and the uncle agreed. So that's, you know, the owner of the house gave them consent to come into the house. Right. The client did not live in the house and was not there at the time of the search. The client had stayed in the guest bedroom of the house two nights prior to the search. The uncle told the officers that the client was the last person to have slept in that room. You are considering filing a motion to suppress the fentanyl under the Fourth Amendment, which everyone knows which of the following legal. Legal topics are the most important for you to research to determine the likelihood of success on a motion to suppress.
Mall
So there's A, consent search, B, exigence.
Rory
Exigent circumstances, C, hot pursuit, D, probable cause, E, reasonable suspicion, and F standing.
Mall
Was the uncle standing when he let them in?
Rory
The house definitely was standing.
Mall
So, I mean, this seems like the most reasonable one. All right, so the consent to search did happen because the uncle said, come on in.
Rory
Yep. So I would say. I would say a consent search.
Mall
Well, no, because he can say, yeah.
Rory
Yes.
Mall
I feel like is the only one I know is off the.
Rory
Okay, yes. A, I guess we would have to take C out hot pursuit, because I.
Mall
Don'T even know what that means.
Rory
Yeah. E, reasonable suspicion. I think we would take that out.
Mall
I would say would be.
Rory
Yeah, I would say B, exigent circumstances. And.
Mall
I don't know, but it's the. Like I'm doing in a multiple choice test when you just try to take out answers, you know, like, I would do. I don't know the right answer. I just know what the wrong answers are.
Damaris
I would do E. And I would do E and D. E and E. What are you guys doing?
Rory
Yeah, Andy, I'm going B.
Mall
And.
Damaris
Okay, so I'm doing D and E, which is probable cause and reasonable suspicion.
Mall
Oh, wait. Okay. Because the question is, are the most.
Damaris
Important for you to research. To research to determine the likelihood of success on a motion to suppress?
Rory
I'm going B and.
Damaris
Which is exigent circumstances.
Rory
Yep. I'm gonna go B and.
Damaris
Or exigent. F, B, F. Okay. Standing in exigent circumstances. Rory, don't look up.
Mall
I'm not. No, I'm not. I'm also on my computer. I wanted to take consent search out, but if that was the last place that I slept, I didn't give consent. Even if it's his house. Like, if I was the last person to be there and my is in there, wouldn't I have to give consent?
Damaris
It's not your house.
Mall
Well, I would want to research that to see if there was anything I can. Okay, so, like, if I'm standing among. And all my islands is in his guest room and he says, come on into my house. Like, I didn't say you could look through my.
Damaris
So you're gonna do consent search. And what's the second one?
Mall
I'm gonna Go A and B.
Damaris
You're A and B. Consent, search and exigent. I think y' all just doing that because y' all don't know what it means.
Mall
No, it's. No, that's exactly. That's Damaris. That's exactly why I picked circumstances.
Damaris
And I'm gonna do so. And Mall's gonna do exigent, circumstances and standing. I'm going to do probable standing.
Mall
Me.
Damaris
Probable cause and reasonable suspicion. All right, what's the answer, sir? Josh. Consent to search and standing. Damn. One of y'. All. You got one and Ma got one. I got both wrong.
Rory
That.
Mall
See, that's why we're the lawyer duo, right?
Rory
That's why Kim should have just called me. She would have passed it by.
Mall
What does standing even mean?
Damaris
I have no clue where you.
Mall
Where you were standing, yo. Your honor, he wasn't standing there, so how could you?
Rory
He wasn't standing there.
Mall
All right, maybe let's try one more.
Damaris
Yeah, let's do one more. Your client owns a carpet cleaning company. The company recently contracted with a customer to clean the carpets throughout the customer's 10 story building for $15,000 with payment due in 30 days. Before payment was due, the customer sent your client a check for $12,000, along with a note specifying that several of the carpets still had stains and included pictures of the stained carpets. The customer's note also said that if your client cashes the check, the remainder of the customer's debt will be discharged. Your client now seeks your advice as to whether the company can ca check without relinquishing its right to recover the remaining remainder of the customer's debt. Which of the following search terms will be the most likely to produce resources that will answer the client's questions. So, basically, client, we're a lawyer. The client has a cleaning company. It was due for $15,000. Payment due in 30 days. Before it was due, they sent 12,000 saying, Y' all ain't do your job well enough. If you cash this check for this 12,000, I'm not giving you the other 3,000.
Mall
So out the gate date, I'm going offer an acceptance because they stated what it would be.
Damaris
Yeah.
Mall
And if you accept that, meaning cashing the check, you've accepted the terms that the client said.
Damaris
So I would do A and D because I don't know what novation means.
Rory
You said just pick one.
Mall
No, it says select one.
Damaris
Oh.
Mall
So D seems so obvious that I feel like I'm probably wrong, but I'm going, Dan. Okay.
Damaris
All right. I'll go a.
Mall
All right, well, Kim gotta call three of us though.
Damaris
Yeah.
Mall
Ready of the cleaning questions we got.
Rory
I didn't pass.
Mall
She's a woman.
Damaris
That was funny. That was interesting. We would fail terribly.
Rory
Shout out to Kim, man. I, I'm, I'm definitely, I definitely am rooting for her though, to pass the bar and, you know, seeing Kim in courtrooms. Yeah, you know, practicing law, that would be some cool shit.
Mall
But she's gotta practice law in a state that allows cameras. California definitely does because of the OJ Shit.
Rory
We just got to see the suits. The suits, yeah.
Mall
Oh, that fit check is going to be.
Rory
Oh, my God.
Mall
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Mall
Speaking of Kim and lawyers, I did start the Vince Staples show last night.
Rory
Oh, I forgot.
Mall
Yes, it was available this past Friday. Shout out to Vince Staples, season two.
Rory
I gotta watch that this week.
Mall
I got through three episodes yesterday, and I'm not spoiling anything. I do love that they're still running with the narrative that O.J. simpson is Vince Staples uncle. Like that narrative.
Rory
It's even.
Mall
It's tripled down in the second season.
Rory
How's the production? You see the money?
Mall
Yeah, no, it's in there.
Rory
You see?
Mall
No, it's definitely in there. Okay. I. I love it so far. It's definitely drastically different than the first season in the approach and the comedy and the writing and how it looks like, again, not giving away too much more, just sampling to go watch it. Events. Having a whole kung fu scene in a Hertz rental parking lot was not something like I expected, but I laughed through the entire thing. Like, Vince doing kung fu was hilarious to me.
Rory
That. Forgot it came out Friday. Man, I definitely got to check that out.
Mall
Yeah. Shout out to Vince. I suggest everyone watch that on Netflix now. I. I don't know if it's a Netflix thing. It's not on the queue the way I feel like it should be, even with my algorithms. I feel like Vince's show would be, like, right there when I opened Netflix, and it wasn't. So, you know, I think everyone should keep promoting Vince's, you know, as a culture, because I don't see Netflix doing it the way that they did for the first season and first three episodes. I think it's better than the first season.
Rory
You definitely got to support that, man.
Mall
It's. It's super, super funny, and I think it's. What is it, six or seven episodes?
Rory
But, yeah, so I'm almost finished that in, like, a day.
Mall
Yeah, I'm almost halfway through first season. I finished in a day, but I. I just, you know, had to get to sleep. But I'm gonna finish it probably tonight or. Or Tuesday.
Rory
Shout out to Vince, man.
Mall
Man, you guys watch anything else?
Rory
You know, finishing Tulsa King. Okay. Chief of War. I don't know if y' all started. Anybody watch that?
Mall
No.
Damaris
No.
Rory
I gotta check out Chief of War.
Damaris
It's good. What is it about? Quick, quick rundown.
Rory
It's. What's. What's Aquaman's name Vincent Chase. Jason Samoa. Jason Mimosa.
Damaris
Oh, my Lord Jesus.
Rory
Jason Momoa. Yeah, Jason Momoa. If you, if you saw C, that was another great show that Jason Momoa did. Chief of War is kind of along that same like line, just a different, different story. But yeah, it's fire though. I think y'. All. I think y' all would like that.
Mall
Was he in Game of Thrones, that guy?
Damaris
Yes, he was. He was the king of the Dolph. Rocky.
Rory
He was the king of.
Damaris
Rocky of the Dothraki, which is a culture of people.
Rory
Okay, so he's. So they got him kind of like reserved for those type of roles, I guess.
Mall
Yeah, they're racist.
Rory
Yeah, they got him reserved for those type of. Because I feel like he's gonna play.
Mall
The rock in his biopic in 20 years.
Rory
Yeah, because he's like. He's like. He's like the rock but like indigenous. Yes.
Mall
Like the rock is not indigenous.
Rory
No, the rock is indigenous.
Damaris
The rock just look like a light skinned black. It's different.
Rory
Well, the rock, once he cut his hair off, once he went bald, it was like he was trying to. That's like when Leonardo DiCaprio, they wanted him to like change his name. It's kind of like the Rock, they was like, listen, we gotta get rid of the hair if you want these roles. Cause it was still too like. It's like what you is like what your mama is and what your daddy is. You know what I'm saying?
Mall
That ambiguous shit works. Cause you can be in different roles at that point.
Damaris
Yeah, he had this one role where his daughter. I think I was watching San Andreas, which is one of my favorite rock movies. I love that movie. And his daughter was like blue eyed white woman.
Rory
Yeah.
Damaris
I was like, yeah.
Mall
And then. And then in Gridiron Gang, his mother looked like Damaris Mother.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
It was like, wait, can I see the dad?
Rory
Yeah, you see how they sway that?
Mall
I thought that was exhibit's mom in this movie. Yeah, that was not. That casting was crazy.
Rory
Yeah, man, he.
Damaris
But he gives. He gives light skinned black. But Jason is indigenous all day.
Rory
Yeah, he's not cutting his hair. He's not doing that peach.
Mall
Remember when we did Palooza in San Francisco and we did the day party and then follow. We had to get out of there because that guy was doing a watch the Game of Thrones DJ set Jason Momoa. So I believe it was San Francisco. And they rushed us out of there because they had to put together the Game of Thrones set. Like they was Bringing in trees and, like, furry.
Damaris
Oh, my God. Oh, God.
Mall
After we got, you know, after back end payments and all that, we walked out and it was around the corner with everyone dressed as Game of Thrones.
Damaris
That's so cool.
Mall
And, yeah, I guess he. He does like, celebrity dj Game of Thrones. I just wanted to know, like, what type of music you're playing at the Game of Thrones. Like, what's your set look like for a whole Thrones party?
Rory
That's a Baby D question.
Damaris
I'm sure it was just a regular DJ set, but he wasn't playing the score from the.
Mall
I wasn't sure. When I saw everyone dressed that way, I was like, are we gonna go through each episode and he's just gonna, like, mix?
Damaris
No, he was probably just playing regular shit. But because of who it is, like, it's like it.
Mall
We cosplaying him, I wanted to stay for that one. That looked crazy. And I. I could tell just by that crowd, like, they all be each other.
Damaris
Oh, my God.
Mall
Like, you could just tell, like, it was ComicCon times 10. Like, these look like a bunch of.
Rory
Horny in the Game of Thrones days.
Mall
No, I'm saying all the people in line.
Damaris
Oh, this like, nah.
Rory
Back in, like, they all num.
Mall
Days.
Rory
Oh, they was like, what?
Mall
Whatever Discord would have been at that time, whatever chat server they had, like, they was all for sure.
Rory
Oh, okay.
Damaris
Yo, you know what's so crazy? I went to a. So it's so funny. I went to a Patreon dinner when I left here on Thursday, and I was talking to Mandy. Me and Mandy were there just give. Patreon wanted to know how their new, like, implementations that they did for the. The website and things like that, how they were going, how creators can make it better, whatever. So I was there and Mandy was there, and Mandy brought up how people. How our Discords. Because somebody from another Patreon was like, hey, how do you guys create community? And Mandy was like, immediately Discord. Because our Discord members, you know, with horrible decisions, the type of people that's in there, she's like, they be meeting up, like, creating, like, community and family. And I'm like, our Discord like, members have met up and, like, created, like, travel groups and things like that. And they go to the live shows. And I'm like, damn. Like, do our Discord members be. We got freaked because I feel like our show. We got freaked out fans, too.
Rory
I don't know if our Discord. I mean, but we had the Zoom Zoom Room the felon that was in the Zoom Zoom room. He fucked the therapist.
Mall
That's true.
Rory
He met up, like, maybe, like. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. So, yeah. Yeah. Our community be. Yeah, sure.
Damaris
I feel like the podcast communities be. So we can't just put that on the Game of Thrones people. The podcast communities.
Mall
And I've definitely, like, after our live shows and we kick it just on the stage with everyone. I can see groups that had only talked online, like, meeting for the first time. They went, like, after Howard Theater. They all did something. I'm not saying what they did, but something happened.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
So, yeah, they probably.
Rory
Yes.
Mall
Which I think is healthy.
Rory
Yeah. Listen to the pod.
Damaris
And then they wake up in the morning and listen to us.
Rory
Yeah. Through it. Through the episode. Even if you're not listening, press play through the episode.
Damaris
Hearing mall singing while I'm.
Rory
Will piss me, baby. Would you play the Patreon for me.
Mall
Do you think? I'm not saying anything. You haven't admitted. Do you think the fan. That you accidentally. Years and years and years ago, do you think that. That that woman is in our discord. We could siphon through all the names.
Rory
I hope so.
Mall
Run it back.
Rory
I mean, I hope so.
Mall
What's done is done.
Rory
I don't even remember her name.
Mall
Damn.
Rory
Where was I? Why'd you let me do that? Let's talk. Let's have a. Let's have a session. Why would you let me do that? Why would you let me sink so low and, like, sleep with a woman that I barely even knew, don't know her name, just met her. Why would you let this.
Mall
How I know you forget the entire thing.
Damaris
Thing?
Mall
Because I was trying to do the opposite. Because I was trying to be.
Rory
I don't remember it that way.
Damaris
Rory.
Rory
It's in such a dark place. Back then in my life, I think.
Mall
I remember the region and it may have been the same as Game of Thrones. I remember her being very attractive. That's all I remember. I remember me jokingly hating. So, like, I. I was sitting there like, I hope he don't beat.
Rory
I hope she don't give him none. I hope.
Damaris
I hope he don't beat the f hater.
Mall
I hope he stands on his morals and be like, yo, yo, I don't fuck fans.
Rory
Like, oh, my gosh.
Mall
But, I mean, I couldn't have stopped you.
Rory
Yes, you could have.
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How?
Mall
We were in separate rooms.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
Would you want to knock on the door?
Rory
You could have just been standing outside my door, knocking on the door.
Mall
Like, how do you Think that would have went over in the van the next day if everyone found out I knocked on your door in the middle of you in the middle affair? I would have looked like the biggest block hater.
Rory
Thank you. I. Rory, thank you. Thank you for that, man. Because you know me better than that. Hold me to a higher standard. Rory, God damn.
Mall
You've thrown. And I'm not. You know what? Let's not even put this on Patreon. You've thrown some bodies on me that I didn't take that. I was like, damn, why would you. Why would you send this body my way?
Rory
Throw it on you? What do you mean? Like, introduce you to a woman?
Mall
Like, we was on different floors, and you sent somebody downstairs, and I was like, nah, you could go back upstairs.
Rory
Oh, that's because I was just trying to. I was just. I mean, I was just trying to go to sleep.
Damaris
You could go back.
Rory
No, so was I. I was just trying.
Mall
And I didn't want, like, I don't know you.
Rory
And somebody was asking if you were coming to my room to hang out, and I was like, nah, he's in this room.
Damaris
Yo, I tried to throw a body on Rory one time, and then Rory wasn't taking the body. So I was about to take the body, but then, like, I fell asleep.
Mall
Where was we at?
Rory
You fell asleep.
Damaris
If I tell, give a timeline. But we ride.
Rory
Always fall.
Mall
Clearly, I didn't take the body, so it's fine.
Damaris
Yeah. Oh, yeah. We're out of town.
Mall
How many times we've been out of town?
Damaris
You know where we was at? You know where we was at with that girl with the fat ass? You know where we was at?
Rory
She had the fatty boom baddy.
Damaris
We was at dinner.
Rory
We was at dinner. Gotta feed the ass we was with, bro.
Mall
I don't know. I have a bad memory.
Damaris
You.
Rory
I'd be pressing delete on purpose in my shit. I'd be like, shout out to her.
Mall
Like, in your memory. Yeah, no, me too.
Rory
I pressed delete quick. I don't remember your name. Don't even remember the night.
Mall
But see how upstanding of a citizen I am? Both y' all just throw bodies at me.
Damaris
And I'm thinking, nigga, you bought the body to dinner.
Rory
Oh, you bought the body.
Damaris
You know what I'm talking about.
Mall
I don't. I still don't.
Damaris
But a steakhouse? You brought the body to the steakhouse. And we was like, yo, you beating. And you was playing. So I was like, yo, I'm.
Rory
You brought the body to the steakhouse.
Mall
I mean, hoes gotta eat, too.
Rory
That's a fact. That's a fact. Was I just gotta feed him?
Damaris
No, you wasn't there. You weren't out of town with us. One of our other homeboys was.
Mall
See? Gotcha.
Rory
See, when I ain't around. Yeah, that's why y' all be needing me around, so y' all don't do dumb shit. Y' all don't be wilding.
Mall
No, I think.
Rory
Cause when I ain't around, y' all start wilding.
Mall
It seemed like a calm evening where everyone just ate great steak and went their own respective ways and went to sleep.
Damaris
Is writing in a group chat to us. I'm even gonna talk about it. We ain't even gonna talk about it.
Mall
I wish I remember this so I.
Rory
Can play into it.
Damaris
Yes. Yeah, for sure.
Rory
She had ass.
Damaris
Yeah, a lot of ass.
Rory
Table for three.
Mall
That's why I needed to feed her steak. Table for three. Yo, Tomahawk.
Damaris
One of our homeboys. Almost one of our fans, too. I had to tell him, like, yo, that's a fan, and she already one of our staff members. So I need you to.
Rory
One of our homeboys.
Damaris
I'll tell y' all off air.
Rory
Almost fucked one of our listeners.
Damaris
M.
Mall
Yo, you remember the time. Remember the time we was all in the elevator with a fan and we didn't know.
Rory
My God, we didn't know who. That was the craziest.
Mall
When she walked in the elevator, I was like, who is she with?
Rory
That was the craziest.
Damaris
I remember y'.
Mall
All.
Rory
Craziest night ever. That was so random. And it was almost like, yo, fam, just claim your bodies, man. Like, don't. Don't do that, cuz. I. Now I'm sitting here like, yo, who is this?
Mall
We playing quarters. No, we playing quarters. It was four of us, and then she was in the middle, and when we started hitting the buttons, I thought, like, maybe she stayed at the hotel.
Rory
Fam, claim your work. That's all I be trying to tell on the. Just claim yours, yo. And then I don't know who this.
Damaris
Young lady now, when we discovered the pictures of Shorty posing with everybody on Twitter, cuz she was at the show.
Mall
Yeah, yeah. And here's my thing. If you want to do your dirty, who am I to judge? But do it correctly. Don't get in the sprinter with all of us with the work. Go get your own Uber. Be like, yo, I'll catch up with y'.
Damaris
All. Don't put us in it.
Mall
Don't make me have to sit in the back to be respectful. And she get a captain chair. And I don't even know.
Rory
I don't want to have small talk.
Damaris
A captain chair. Funny as fuck.
Rory
Yeah, I don't want to have small talk with your work.
Mall
Especially a small ass elevator.
Rory
I don't want to have small talk with your work.
Damaris
Is she a fan?
Mall
And what was funny is said person was on a higher floor than all of us. So Eddie got off and it was like, all right, well, she ain't with Ed. All right, well, let's go. And I knew for a fact she wasn't with me and Ma. And me and Ma were on the same floor. So me and ma get off and then when the elevator door closed, we just start bus out laughing.
Rory
Claim your work. So all you gotta do is claim yours. Yeah, man, claim yours.
Mall
And then hit us with the excuse and. Oh, I thought we was all going out to the bar after. No, you didn't.
Rory
The bar's not a lot.
Mall
Not one person brought that up.
Rory
The bar isn't a lot. Hobby. Cut the man.
Mall
We thought she was going to your mini bar.
Rory
Yeah, cut it out. Before we get into voicemails, do want to send rest in peace to NBA legend, coach and player Lenny Wilkins? Yeah, he passed away over the weekend. Legend in every word. Great guy. Had the opportunity to meet Lenny Wilkins on a couple occasions. So rest in peace to the legendary late Lenny Wilkins. And last week, we. We didn't. We didn't send our proud condolences to Poster Boy legend out of New York City. 106 and park legend. You can't talk about 106 and park and not mention Poster Boy or Blind Fury. I think those were the two.
Mall
Or Jen.
Rory
Or Jen.
Mall
But still, I mean, it started with Poster Boy.
Rory
Yeah, Poster Boy was the one that started it all. So we lost him a couple weeks ago. So rest in peace and prayers to Poster Boy and his family. And we'll get into voicemails. Josh, do we have voicemails and males from voices?
Mall
Can I? Like two minutes.
Rory
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Mall
How'd you know? Hey, guys. Huge fan of the pod. I just wanted to know, from a.
Damaris
Male'S perspective, how do you guys know when a guy is showing up as like a representative and not his actual self?
Mall
I'm sure you guys have met a.
Damaris
Lot of your females partners, and I'm.
Mall
Sure in some of them, there were.
Damaris
A few things that you saw that.
Mall
You might have warned your female friends about or not. But what were those things that you.
Damaris
Were like, I know that this guy's probably not a good guy for you. And then when you guys were in.
Mall
Your early 20s, what were things that.
Damaris
You guys did to other women?
Mall
To essentially fuck them and then leave.
Rory
To fuck them up and leave.
Mall
Mall and I would never do that.
Rory
I would never just fucking leave.
Mall
Yeah. I'd stay twice and then like.
Rory
And then leave. Or wait till dinner's finished and then leave.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
Representative and not your true self. We all have a representative. We all have. We all put our best foot forward when we first meet a woman that we like. I think.
Mall
I think if he agrees with you too much throughout the day, I'm not saying you need to get an argument or a debate thing, but if he just literally is just like, anything you say, he's like, oh, yeah, for sure. Yeah, I think that's. You don't have to go full Rory and like, you know, talk about Gaza or anything. But I. I think if you overly agree with a woman, that is a bit of a red flag. Like anything she says, you're just like, yeah, no, totally.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
If he doesn't. If he's. I would say if he's maybe a little too quiet.
Mall
So you. I'm not quiet actually, around women. No. You're not?
Rory
Yeah, no, around women. No. You know, I love women. Yeah. It's men that I don't talk to. I'm not gay. Yeah. But no, I think if he's a little too quiet, I think if he's. If he seems too, I guess is up. Say too nice.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
If he's too, you know, the guy that's just like. He's just. It's like, all right, this guy's perfect. Like, what the.
Mall
I think that's a New Yorker thing, though, because in general, not even dating, we don't trust people that are overly nice. Like some. Something's wrong here.
Rory
Yeah, something's wrong with this.
Mall
Like, you have people in your basement tied up.
Rory
Yeah.
Mall
If you're this overly nice. But yeah, I think that. But I think that way with women too. Like, if she's overly nice and agreeing with everything, that's a red flag to me. I think it goes both ways with men and women in dating.
Rory
But it's hard to gauge when you're seeing a representative, though, because if I Don't know this guy. I don't know if that's him or not. I don't know if that's his true self or not. So it's kind of hard. That question is a little. I would say just pay attention to habits, patterns. People can say anything, but just watch what they doing.
Mall
Yeah. I think obviously you don't know off the first date because everyone puts on their representative. Just observe how they act in certain situations, because that's when it'll start to reveal the actual person.
Rory
Just watch, Pay attention.
Mall
Anybody could be funny for an hour and a half the first time you meet them and, and easygoing. Just wait till the valet doesn't have their ticket and then. Then go see the real Rory.
Rory
Yeah, yeah. Watch you throwing the fit out.
Damaris
Oh, did I ever tell y' all Rory almost fought a parking attendant cuz they.
Mall
Which time?
Rory
Which time? Yeah, which day was this show, Joe? This is like every Wednesday.
Mall
Which time?
Damaris
It was me, Kellen, Penny, you remember, it was the day my best friend died. And y' all like, took me out to, like, it was her funeral. Took me out to distract me. Yeah. And we are all like, holding Rory back from trying to fight the parking attendant.
Mall
I don't remember. I remember that night. I don't remember exact. Cuz I've done that with parking attendants, like a lot. I'm not proud of it. Like, that's just like. I'm just. I'm really not sure which time. I don't remember. I mean, I'm. I don't just do it out of nowhere. Like it's usually for they.
Rory
They do something. Right.
Mall
Yes. Okay.
Damaris
I think they were just taking a long time and they couldn't like, find your car or something, and you were just like, fucking ready to blow again.
Rory
Yeah, like, that's not, that's, that's. That's feasible.
Mall
If, if I show up and do my job on a microphone. Cool. If I stop, you guys should be mad at me.
Sponsor Voice
Right?
Rory
Right.
Mall
If your job is to go find a car, shouldn't you know how to go find the car?
Rory
Correct.
Mall
Okay.
Rory
Yeah. See, he's right. Yeah. So. Yes. Pay attention to his habits, his patterns, his actions. And I think that's the way you kind of, you know, can gauge if he's being his true self. His words and his, you know, his actions align. You just pay attention to his. His patterns.
Mall
Yeah. And when you have your emotional moments, you should pay attention to how she reacts to those. Those things.
Rory
Yes, absolutely. Because that's very telling.
Mall
Because I mean, I've, I've shown people who I am pretty quickly, especially when it comes to parking garages, parking lots, parking attendance. They see the room, anything. Parking tickets, parking meters. Sometimes those guys get kicked over. Like, you know, I show people that pretty early. Yeah. So when women are cool with that for like a year, don't get mad when I start doing traffic violations and yelling at me in the car like, this is who you met. I'm always going to break the law when it comes to traffic.
Rory
Yes.
Mall
So I think that's a red flag with women. Like, he was cool with it for a year. What, you think I was going to change? I'm not changing. They always think I'm always going to take the wrong exit to get in the Holland Tunnel. I'm always going to go around the cop. That's never going to change. Yeah, I'm not waiting in this line.
Rory
All right, do we have another one or. That was it.
Mall
Well, I wanted to hear from Damaris.
Damaris
Hey, obviously I'm pretty bad at this. I can just.
Rory
Yes, I'm pretty bad at this.
Damaris
Just. You never know when people are giving you their representatives or not. All you can do is pay attention to when the representative disappears. And when the representative disappears, move accordingly.
Mall
What's. What's been a red flag you think you've missed in the past? Not anything to do with anything.
Narrator
More.
Mall
I try to have a serious conversation.
Damaris
A red flag that I've missed in the past that was like, right in.
Mall
Front of your face. Because we've all had red flags right in front of our face, but because we like the person we just was, we ignored it.
Damaris
I've ignored an insecure red flag.
Mall
Okay.
Damaris
When I knew somebody was insecure from the beginning and I, I like, it's usually so people can pretend to be one person, but if you shut up and let people talk enough, they'll tell on themselves.
Mall
Yeah.
Damaris
So when I started hearing, like, you know what I'm saying? Like, you know, like I'm real, like, just insecure red flags about like possessiveness and things like that and. But it was like presented and wrapped in a bow. Like it was just love and obsession. It's like, nah, that's, that's insecurity.
Mall
A woman I was talking to, which I ended up in a long term relationship with. When we were in the talking phase, we had a mutual friend, but not like a friend friend, just like a friend, you see out type of thing. And she, I found out out months, almost a year later, she told this girl to watch out Because I'm possessive. Mind you, this girl has not known one person I've ever dated or. And, Damaris, you know me pretty well. I don't think I'm a possessive person in that regard.
Damaris
You're not.
Mall
Why do. Why do women feel like they can just lie like that to their friends to put stories on our jackets at that time?
Damaris
Well, we all.
Mall
Because now this girl's looking at me like I'm possessive because she sees that I know her friend, and I've known her friend for a while, but not like that. Like, I only see that woman out, has no idea who I or dated in my life, and I'm not possessive. And now all of a sudden, you're putting shit in a woman's brain to make me look when there was no red flag, people at the time.
Damaris
People actually do that all the time. Not just with that situation, but people do that all the time. First of all, we're all living in. No one's living in reality. We're all living in someone else's perception of what reality is. Right. So if you had one girlfriend who had a possessive experience with you.
Mall
Right.
Damaris
You're not a possessive person. But sometimes people do things right. And that one story that you did made it to one person, that made it to another person. Rory is now a possessive boyfriend, even though that's not. That's not the truth.
Mall
But, yeah, if she would have, like, told her, hey, he shuts down, and you'll have a great three months, then he's probably gonna shut down, and you guys may not speak. I would have been like, why would you tell somebody that? But I could at least respect some of the truth that would be there. Yeah, but possessive. I was like, I'm the complete opposite of that. Like, I don't care. Yeah, that's my problem is the opposite of being possessive.
Damaris
Yeah. People are just living in their own perceptions and their own projections. We're all living in someone else's projection of what reality is. So. But people need to understand that. They need to not spread that. Like, for example, if somebody comes to me and I know a man, and they like, what is. What's it like dating him? I didn't date him. I know someone who dated him. But everybody's experience dating someone can be different. So this is what this person experienced from my third ear, telling it or hearing it. But that doesn't mean that that's how he is. Right. But you should never go and be like, this person is like this. And I hate when people are out Here claiming to be like my friends or to know me. I hate when people claim to know me because then when people. When people ask them about me and the information that they give them, people are automatically going to believe them. You see what I'm saying? Same thing with my friends. Somebody if. If we cool or we're cordial. Don't tell nobody about me because they're assuming that we're friends because they've seen us together. So now they assume everything that comes out of your mouth is true when you don't know me like that or you just have a different idea of me because of an interaction that we've had. And now you're projecting because of what you've been through in your life. Don't. I don't. Don't ask nobody about me. Don't tell nobody about me. Experience me yourself.
Rory
I know that's right.
Mall
Fourth quarter, baby.
Rory
D. Experience me by yourself. Unless you have a friend that looks just like you and she wants to experience everything together. Y then she's more than welcome to join us in this holy matrimony.
Mall
That'd be very arrogant to go find a person that looks just like you for the threesome. Like you think you look, which I'm not. I mean, I'm not mad at that idea, but it's just. It's a very vain way of thinking. Like that's how you know a man.
Damaris
Really attracted to you. I had a. I had a man. I told you. I had a man that used to look up brown skinned women or caramel colored women with back dimples.
Rory
He used to look them up weird like on.
Damaris
On pornhub. That's what would be his pornhub search church. He wanted to find women who looked like me.
Rory
I'm glad you're not talking to him no more. Are you good? He's a weirdo. Do we have another voicemail?
Mall
Specific like is wrong with that dude?
Rory
Like, get out the house. Stop punishing yourself.
Mall
Is there like SEO for that?
Rory
I don't know, man.
Damaris
He will find him.
Mall
Before we get out of here, shout out to our guy. Reason. Everything in my soul blue is available now. I love that. Since reason has been independent, he's been able to put out music way more consistently than he was before. And I promise you it's not a shot at tde. So everyone in that community relax. I'm just happy to see my friend able to put out music when he wants to. So definitely check that out. I'm still listening to the Banks album, Still listening to the Big L album. There's been a lot of good music in the last last few weeks.
Rory
Got some good projects.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
So shout out to reason.
Mall
Yeah.
Rory
Everything in My Soul Blue available now.
Mall
Also shouts to our brother Royce. I know, I know he's. He had came out and told the world about some of his health problems and I'm glad he's on on the road to recovery. I'm glad able to tell the world too, because I know he's, you know, been feeling a little weird about that because certain people are asking him things and you know, he can't fulfill certain stuff because of what he's going through health wise. But I know he's on the up and up and trying to get there. So shout out to Royce.
Rory
Yes.
Mall
You know, happy. Happy that we're. We're getting to a good place with. With what he's to going through. So. Yeah, this. This was fun. That's all I got today.
Rory
That's all you got?
Mall
That's all I got.
Rory
Listen, man, you gave it your best. That's all that matters. Rory, we'll talk to y' all soon. Be safe, be blessed. I'm that nigga. He's just ginger. Peace.
Damaris
No worrying now.
Mall
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Date: November 11, 2025
Podcast: New Rory & MAL (iHeartPodcasts & The Volume)
This episode sees Rory, Mal, and Damaris dig deep into the newly announced Grammy nominations for 2026, debating notable snubs, surprises, and predictions for the big show. The trio’s signature blend of lighthearted banter, music industry insight, and irreverent tangents brings extra energy as they riff about the state of R&B/adult nightlife, Outkast’s Rock Hall induction, the reality behind the Grammy “rigging” controversies, and the funniest moments in their own personal and professional lives.
The episode is energetic, irreverent, and candid, with plenty of self-deprecating humor and industry-insider perspective. Serious music debates are balanced with playful confessionals and sharp observations of modern life. The hosts maintain a conversational, comedic, occasionally raw NYC-adult flavor throughout.
Episode 422 is a lively “state of the culture” slice: music’s highest honors, nightlife evolution, industry cynicism, and memorable tangents about friends, fandom, and relationships. Rory, Mal, and Damaris do what they do best: take the biggest news, break it down honestly, and still keep listeners laughing.