Welcome back to No Filter Femme, the podcast where we have real, unfiltered conversations by black women, for black women. Today’s episode, titled Rebel Love, is all about redefining love, relationships, and intimacy for women over 40. In this unapologetic episode, Melia and Kelli explore how love at this stage in life often defies traditional expectations.

Show Notes:

[00:00:00 - 00:03:30] Introduction

Melia and Kelli welcome listeners to the episode, introduce the topic: "Rebel Love," and share the purpose of redefining romance for women over 40.
Both hosts introduce themselves, with Melia and Kelli explaining how they will explore the joys and challenges of love after 40, whether single, dating, or in relationships.

[00:03:31 - 00:10:00] How Love Changes After 40

Discussion on how love, relationships, and expectations evolve in your 40s, 50s, and beyond.
Kelli shares her personal experience of being ministry and career-focused in her 30s and navigating relationships before marriage.

[00:10:01 - 00:15:00] The Impact of Life Stages on Love

Kelli and Melia discuss the importance of open conversations around sex and intimacy over 40, along with navigating new relationship dynamics.

[00:15:01 - 00:22:30] The Quest for Healthy Connections

Melia talks about the importance of staying true to oneself and redefining what a fulfilling romantic connection means after 40, including how self-awareness plays a role.

[00:22:31 - 00:29:00] Personal Stories on Love, Expectations, and Breaking the Mold

Kelli shares her past assumptions of what her love life would look like, including once envisioning a life as the co-pastor of a traveling ministry couple. She reflects on how much her expectations have evolved as she’s grown.
Melia reflects on her own relationship journey, explaining how she initially had a "list" for her ideal partner but found her husband outside of those rigid boxes.

[00:29:01 - 00:34:11] Letting Go of the Checklist

Kelli talks about how letting go of superficial "checklists" (e.g., six-pack, six-figure salary) allowed her to experience a deeper connection with her husband.

Thank you for joining us on this bold and empowering journey in today's episode of No Filter Femme: Rebel Love Edition. We hope our stories and insights have encouraged you to reflect on how you define love after 40, whether you're single, dating, married, or somewhere in between. Remember, love at this stage is all about what works for you—without filters, without limits.

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Redefining Love Over 40: Rebel Love Edition

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