Noche de Pendejadas with Alannized

Alexia Maga Talks All: Missing Dad, Traumas, Healing, Drama, CHISME & MORE!!

Release Date: October 31, 2025
Host: Alannized
Guest: Alexia Maga
Language: Spanglish

Episode Overview

This episode welcomes influencer, artist, and streamer Alexia Maga for a raw conversation covering her tumultuous upbringing, the pain of her missing father, struggles with addiction, a traumatic experience at 16, personal healing, influencer drama, her growing music career, and, of course, some juicy chisme. Alannized creates an open and safe environment, inviting Alexia to dig deep into her experiences, while also sharing laughter and memorable moments along the way. The dialogue blends English and Spanish comfortably, maintaining a candid and unfiltered tone.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

Early Life & Family Struggles

Timestamps: 01:52–05:33

• Childhood: Born in Las Vegas, spent early years in Colima and Guadalajara, Mexico. Childhood started with both parents but her father later became absent and eventually went missing, a formative and traumatic event.
• The Impact of Dad’s Disappearance:
  • Alexia remembers realizing she couldn’t show her father's her school grades—one of her earliest moments of grief ([04:41]).
  • She talks of “mamitis”—her strong attachment to her mom.
• Moving to the US: Alexia and her brother suggested moving to Las Vegas for a fresh start after their father's disappearance. They found less family support than expected, which made her more independent.
• Quote:

  “At 14 is when I started to realize, like, oh, I don’t have a dad. Like, I have to provide for myself.” – Alexia ([04:01])

Teen Years, Addiction & Early Independence

Timestamps: 05:33–10:48

• Weed Addiction: Started using weed in 8th grade as a way to numb her pain; at one point, wasn't sober for six months.
• Social Media Hustle:
  • Started posting daily on Instagram for self-expression but also as a way to fund her addiction.
  • Went viral through consistency and strategic use of hashtags.
  • Social media became her escape and source of income at a very young age.
• Lessons Learned:
  • Weed started affecting her mood and health, prompting an effort to quit. Recovery was gradual and supported by changing her environment.
• Advice to Teens:

  “It’s okay to feel emotions, you don’t have to run away from them... try to replace it with the gym or something else.” – Alexia ([10:05])

  • She underscores the importance of not hanging out with the wrong crowd.

School Years, Bullying, and Boxing

Timestamps: 12:01–23:05

• Boxing: Used boxing to process her anger and trauma, sparking a “tomboy” phase shaped by independence.
• Bullying and Standing Up for Herself:
  • Recalls a violent altercation with a former friend-turned-bully, leading to school discipline but also newfound respect ([18:49–22:32]).
  • The incident highlighted how trauma and rumors can spiral in adolescence.
• Academic Motivation: Despite struggles, she excelled academically; her achievements earned her rewards like a trip to Disneyland.

The Social Media Journey

Timestamps: 23:35–29:41

• From Instagram to YouTube & TikTok: Consistently posting school-related content led to major online growth.
• Never Had a “Regular Job”: Social media has been her sole career.
• Dealing with Hate & Judgment:

  “I’m not really taking it personal because at the end of the day, I know who I am.” – Alexia ([28:04])

  • Understanding that hate often reflects more about others than herself.

Trauma, Vulnerability, and Healing

Timestamps: 29:41–43:58

• Sexual Assault at 16:
  • Shares a harrowing story of being taken advantage of after being given alcohol at a photographer's event ([30:00]).
  • Opening up online about the experience led to both massive backlash and support.
• Online Backlash:
  • The trauma resurfaced when others (notably adult men) mocked her online, compounding her pain.
  • Took time off social media to process, heal, and undergo therapy.
• Therapy & Spiritual Growth:
  • Mentions the value of mentorship, therapy, and spirituality as tools for self-healing and growth.
  • Exercises included writing about trauma to release suppressed emotions.
  • Learning to transform pain into motivation for self-development.
• Quote:

  “After you go through something, it’s always good to transform it into something positive.” – Alexia ([36:13])

On Relationships, Patterns & Self-Worth

Timestamps: 47:28–61:14

• Long-Distance/Toxic Love:
  • Details a relationship that mirrored her father's absence—attracted to emotionally unavailable partners who were “providers” but not present ([47:48–55:56]).
  • Eventually discovered her boyfriend was having a baby with someone else, which broke the cycle for her.
• Healing from Heartbreak:
  • Therapy, mentorship, and return to her creative passions pulled her through.
  • Sees such painful experiences as lessons, not losses:

    “He came into my life to teach me what I don’t want in a man and also to heal that wound of my dad.” – Alexia ([58:47])

• Current Dating Approach:
  • Now values options, independence, self-focus, and slow-burn relationships.
  • Flagged red flags: controlling behavior, lack of effort, and absent partners.
  • Believes men “love to chase” and that women shouldn’t rush or give themselves away easily.

Women, Independence, and Setting Standards

Timestamps: 61:14–66:44

• Alexia’s Ideal Partner:
  • Must be working on themselves, driven, and able to accept a strong, independent woman.
  • Rejects intimidation and control from potential partners.

Music Career, Manifestation & the Business Side

Timestamps: 67:25–77:03

• Origins & Inspiration:
  • Passion for music started as a child—singing lessons inspired by her father and idols like Jenni Rivera.
  • Paused when her dad disappeared but picked back up at 18.
• Songwriting:
  • Writes her own lyrics, drawing from her personal experiences, especially love and heartbreak ([69:15]).
  • Prefers reggaetón but is open to pop and R&B.
  • Example: Her song “Balas” was inspired by her aforementioned relationship.
• Facing the “Influencer-Turned-Artist” Stigma:
  • Acknowledges public skepticism; credits passion and authenticity as motivators.
• Dream Collabs:

  “My top three musicals is Bad Bunny. I love Bad Bunny. Karol G and Puma... Kenya and Anitta, too.” – Alexia ([71:25–72:37])

• Independently Pursuing Music:
  • Cautious about signing to labels due to fear of exploitation.
  • Invests heavily in content, marketing (especially TikTok and YouTube ads), and producing high-quality music/videos.
  • Spirituality and intuition guide her decisions.
  • Believes in manifesting and “trusting God’s timing.”
• Five-Year Vision:
  • Sees herself on tour worldwide, growing into a respected artist.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On Victimhood vs. Growth:

“You’re responsible for your reality and for whatever you create in this world...” – Alexia ([59:47])

On Using Social Media for Good:

“If you want to be your own boss, I would recommend social media, you know, like social media is everything.” – Alexia ([26:15])

On Music & Healing:

“After you go through something, it’s always good to transform it into something positive.” – Alexia ([39:15])

On Healing Wounds:

“When you have wounds, they trigger you sometimes... if you didn’t have that wound, you wouldn’t be affected by it...” – Alexia ([42:10])

On Finding Her Path:

“I manifested my dreams. Like I’m slowly getting to them, you know.” – Alexia ([74:57])

Important Timestamps

| Topic | Timestamp (approx.) | |----------------------------------------|--------------------------| | Early life & missing dad | 01:52–05:33 | | Addiction and social media beginnings | 05:33–10:48 | | School years, boxing, bullying | 12:01–23:05 | | Going viral & social media advice | 24:31–29:41 | | Sharing & processing sexual trauma | 29:41–43:58 | | Healing journey & spirituality | 39:15–47:01 | | Relationships mirroring family wounds | 47:28–55:56 | | Advice for young women/dating | 60:14–63:59 | | Music, manifestation, business | 67:25–77:03 |

Closing Thoughts

This episode offers a compelling, authentic look at Alexia Maga’s life: her struggles, resilience, and ongoing quest for healing both personally and artistically. From heartbreaking family trauma and the dangers of influencer culture to the hope of creative dreams and spiritual growth, Alexia’s journey is both cautionary and inspiring. Listeners will walk away with a deeper understanding of the influencer experience—not just the glam, but also the shadows and the inner work that fuels true growth.