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Vicky
That'S not the person for you. You know.
Alan
What is up everyone? I'm your host Alan I and this your favorite podcast turn talk show and on the Yo a tus Personas favoritas para platicar y po s. So without any further ado, please help me welcome my guest tonight. Please help me welcome Marisoli Vicky Losaranga.
Vicky
It's like your energy, your spirit, everything, it's just, you know, it's just so, so nice. It's a really nice. What are you doing?
Alan
You know what's so funny? Did you caught that on. A lot of people always call me out because I say moon with the M and people like it's muchas.
Vicky
Where you from?
Alan
I've always said munas and a lot of people would try to correct me but whenever I try to like correct myself I'm like no, no.
Vicky
No.
Alan
Not once but twice. I've had you not the last season season but the season before that. And then you went ahead and was my madrina. Yes. When we did the live performances which those will come back this season you guys know but I'm so excited. I don't know, I think to me I was telling Marisol I I grew up listening to you guys music. You know I live by that and I feel like a lot of people they you that grew up listening to you guys live by that quote and you guys also had so many iconic moments. Go ahead and get your tickets. You know who you guys were growing up before, you know, you guys became these stars Unfancia growing up. How was Vicky and Marisol growing up?
Marisol
Go for it because I I already talked about this. Now it's your turn.
Vicky
Yes, yes, yes. She looking good.
Marisol
You're looking good, too.
Vicky
Thank you, sister.
Alan
You guys look both amazing.
Marisol
You look.
Alan
I'm like.
Marisol
Barbies. Flowers.
Vicky
Yeah, we were bad.
Marisol
Did I tell you about that last time?
Alan
No, you didn't.
Marisol
My mom. Crystal, Barbie, Peaches and cream. Peaches and cream.
Alan
Did you guys ever get the pregnant one? No.
Marisol
We'Re not allowed to get that. Hell no.
Vicky
It didn't exist.
Marisol
No, we didn't.
Alan
It probably did, because I think it existed during that time.
Marisol
Yes.
Vicky
Really?
Marisol
But yes. Yes, it did. And it even had a cradle. My mom was really upset, but then we wanted the Ken. And then she's like, you know this. And I'm like. So then I begged and I begged and, you know, I got it. So then Vicky, my cousins and I. My cousins know who they are. I'm gonna say this really wrong, but it's the truth. We would play La Casita because, you know, we were a little bit poor at that time. Like, it's huge. Anyways, so then, you know, with Peaches, with the rocker, with everybody. So Ken, we usually would close the door, but I don't know why it was up open. So we were doing the can. Like, this was sm. Smashing them so that, you know, they were doing the nasty. So they took Ken away from us. Why? Smashing like that?
Alan
Yeah, I don't guess. I'm guessing smashing like this.
Marisol
Like tortilla.
Vicky
Did they have a threesome? Do you. Do you remember?
Marisol
My mom took our can away. I was really upset on the. They just became lesbians. Start doing this, too. But never, you know, like. No, I didn't know about that. That. So they just smashed each other like that. We didn't.
Vicky
We didn't answer them. I don't know, because they were. Their legs would move.
Marisol
What the hell?
Vicky
No, they just smashed. No, I just figured, you know, we'd be creative because, you know your kids and you're creative.
Marisol
You know, that's great because you seem porn.
Vicky
I don't even understand how we knew about the Ken. Well, that was your fault, because.
Marisol
You know my doubt. Do you? I don't know if you remember this. When there was, like, private parts and like. Like in movies. My dad's like, no, wait, there. A mu. Oh, my God. I'm so sorry, guys. There was a mirror.
Vicky
No.
Marisol
No. Okay. You know the big tv and there's a brown W. Where the. Where the. Was. Yes. It was like a mirror. You could see through it.
Vicky
I was shiny. You could see Them.
Marisol
And I was like, damn that I think.
Vicky
No, but you wouldn't say damn. You were like, you're probably traumatized. And you, you.
Marisol
Barbies.
Alan
So were you guys more of like Barbie girls and not Bratz girls? So it was like more of a.
Vicky
Barbie thing without Ken. Garbage patch.
Marisol
No, no, not garbage.
Vicky
That you would collect. And it was a garbage pail.
Marisol
Kids, this is our manager, Cabbage Patch.
Alan
Yes.
Vicky
See Gorditas.
Marisol
Yes.
Vicky
Because my mom, she made it for.
Marisol
Us and we cried.
Vicky
She would buy the head and she would do the body.
Marisol
But I was so upset because I.
Vicky
Wanted they would have a colita and they would have nipples. Remember that?
Alan
That's crazy. And evolutionized over the years. Do it. Cuz I feel like at one point.
Marisol
Yeah.
Alan
Because this is too much for my.
Marisol
But he would smash him with clothes on. Of course I had Nalas the Barbie. Of course it did. And gg.
Alan
Hey, you would be surprised. That would probably be like a new launch coming soon. Estamos and Elas bb. I would not be surprised if Mattel came out with the BBL Barbie now.
Marisol
If I was younger, I would totally get a bbl.
Alan
I'm like, I would get the Barbie now. Huh?
Marisol
The BARBIE and the BBL.
Alan
You know, from breast cancer. When you were 10 and when you were in kindergarten, what was it like growing up without having your mom present in your guys life?
Vicky
So.
Marisol
And Vicky was also in kindergarten when my mom. My mom passed away and it was in April, so she was about to graduate.
Vicky
I was, I was six. See, I was gonna be seven and I was.
Marisol
I don't know if that was 10 or 11. Play 11. I don't know. But I was in fourth grade. Fourth grade, yeah. I don't know if Vicky feels like this because she doesn't have a lot of memory. Maybe you block it. I think it's trauma block. Because I asked her not too long ago, do you remember this? And she's like, no. And I'm like, like, how do you not remember that? And I'm like, because it was so. You know, I remember stuff when I was five and six, but then I don't remember stuff. Like when I was 11, maybe that year that she got super sick. I think I need her more now. When I, when I had my daughter in conforme, you know, that I had significant, significant, significant stuff happening in my life than when I was a child, I think.
Alan
Do you remember like the moment where you realized like, oh shoot, like mom's not coming back, Mom's not here. Do you remember like In a moment where you're like, oh, like, real.
Vicky
Well, we did see her.
Marisol
When she was passing away.
Vicky
She was passing away.
Marisol
You know what? Now that I'm an adult, I don't think I would have let my daughter see, you know, somebody passing out. I think it's super traumatic. But, you know, we did.
Vicky
I don't know.
Marisol
He went to Prince's house for Anita to call 911 because I don't know why he couldn't do it. Maybe because he wasn't all, you know.
Vicky
I guess he just needed some help.
Marisol
The bathroom was on the second floor.
Vicky
It was the second floor. And I'm like, I have to go to the bathroom. I wouldn't even fucking clean my house.
Marisol
You would sit and it would go like that. I would watch you. I'm like, hell, yeah.
Vicky
And then when. And then when, before having my period, she's like, when you get it, I'm gonna make fun of you. So, like, little things like that, it's like.
Marisol
Like, it was the older sister, you know, it's.
Vicky
She was bully.
Alan
Hell, yeah. Do you feel like you had kind of like a motherly role with her?
Marisol
Hell no.
Alan
You're like, no, she was my mom.
Marisol
Ah, no. I think the older, like, in the band, she's been like, boss.
Alan
Okay?
Marisol
Not motherly, but she's always been more, you know, she's very organized and. No, you are much more than me. And she knows how to be a boss. Like, the other day I had to speed somebody and I cried all. All day. I can't. I can't be a boss. I just don't have the heart nor the. Vicky knows how to be a boss, and she knows how, you know, carry herself. I can't do it.
Alan
A mom plays a really important role, especially you guys being girls. Do you guys feel like there was certain things that were very hard for you guys to, like, learn and navigate on your own? You know, a mom is there to, like, show you guys, you know, confidence. You know, she's there to guide you. Your first period, first heartbreak, was there any moment where you guys realized, like, damn, like, this was when, you know, I maybe needed my mom the most and she wasn't there.
Marisol
Holy. The first time I got my period, this is tmi. But for women, you know, that are out there and little girls, it's. I think it's important for moms to talk about it. So my mom never talked about it. I don't know if it was maybe a taboo thing or, I don't know, too small. No. But I wasn't that small anymore. I was 11. But nowadays I think little girls know more. Like even eight, nine year olds.
Alan
Yeah.
Marisol
So I don't even know how to put a tampon or not a tampon. A maxi pad on tampon. She showed me when I was like 20 something. I'm being serious in Atoka. But I didn't even know I put a Rebel. Yes. What kind of shit is that? And who was I going to ask? My dad, you know. So I think a mother is super important in every stage of your life. You know, as an adolescente, as a ninja, as an adult. Now that I'm going through hormonal changes and I'm older. Yes. I'm getting old. I need to. I would like to ask some stuff that I have no idea about. I think a mom is very crucial in an important role in. As a woman.
Vicky
More helpful if my mom would have been there, you know, I feel I really needed like her support. Support at that moment. Because there was moments where I did feel alone. It was something that I didn't expect. And I think it happened to you too. La primera ves que este pegamos. And it was like, wow, you know, and you felt so loved and I felt so alone. And I just. At that time I just. I feel that. I remember I felt that I needed her, you know, that I needed a hug or something. You know, just that type of no sense security or warmth or comfort, you know.
Marisol
My whole adolescencia was really horrible at lots of points and. And I think that's one of the reasons why I got married so young. I did not want to be in my house anymore. So I found it fast, you know, a fast way of getting out of the house the right way without my dad being so upset at me because I was so afraid of him all the time because he was super strict. He didn't let me go to prom. You know, the only reason I went to homecoming one time is because I want freshman princess and I had to go. So then he let me go. But. But he was super, super strict. If he would have been maybe less. You know what, maybe not even that. I think I still would have left the house. So I left when I was 19 and I've never. I've never been back. But I think it made me stronger and it made me super independent and I'm still very independent, so. But yeah.
Alan
How was your guys's relationship with your dad growing up? Do you guys feel like, you know, your mom's passing made you guys Almost automatically closer, Almost like daddy's girls, you.
Vicky
Know, my dad was very strict because he was left with two women, two girls, you know, and I think that that's harder, especially on a man, you know, like, it's different. A mother and a father, you know.
Marisol
But then when you turn 15, you. You know, they let you start going out. After I got married.
Vicky
Well, yeah, of course, I'm assuming that. That he realized that he was a little bit more strict, that he was too strict with Marisol, and he didn't want to be as strict with me because of the fact that he probably didn't want me to make marry fast like that. You know, I can't complain. I'm very. I'm very thankful, very grateful for. For the responsibility that he took on, you know, after my mom passed, because I know that our grandmother Este wanted us to leave with. With her. He. He said, yo, este, yo yisa, la promesa, yo. And he did. And we're still here. And I don't think we're. We turned out so bad, you know, Un poquito menos. You know, he was brought up in a different way, you know.
Marisol
Yes.
Vicky
He has to be protective, and he was a little bit overprotective, because I'm.
Marisol
Not saying that I don't love my dad, and I, you know, I had a horrible relationship. I'm going to clear this up.
Alan
Up.
Marisol
I love. I adore my dad with all my heart, but just, I wish he would have been less strict, and I wouldn't have gotten married, maybe, but I wouldn't have had Marisolita, the only daughter I have. But I think I would have stayed there, you know, maybe if things would have been different.
Alan
But I think pasa muncho. So, you know, I feel like that each kid or each, you know, each one of your siblings gets a different version of your parents. You know, I can relate a lot with Vicky. You know, I'm the youngest, and I feel like my parents were very strict on us growing up, that like all my siblings, little by little, in cuanto Keri and Savan de la casa, right? And I feel like with me, since I was the last one, it's funny, because I think. Exactly. You know, I feel like as our parents, you know, started seeing their kids grow up, they're like, oh, la cage. Maybe I was too strict where I pushed them off. That's where my parents came in. They were like, okay, let's be a little bit. But I feel like it was very much like that, you know, I feel like Our parents, I always like to say we get different versions of our parents and that's okay because.
Vicky
Like, okay, so now understand studios and stuff like that, what we're used to, you know, like, oh, my God, or whatever, you know, but you have a child and you're like, oh, no, you know, this is not the way to do it, you know, and especially you start learning things, you know, and you're like, oh, well, now I understand. That's why I'm like this and this. That's why I'm like that, you know, okay, I want to do this things. Things different with my son, you know, and it's like, oh, this is hard.
Alan
I think it's like one of those things. I feel like being parent is one of those things. Que uno no sabe que a ser until you're in that situation, you know what I mean? And I feel like I hated my dad, you know, I didn't like being around him. I've always said this, you know, my mom growing up, because even seeing him eat would irritate me. I would be like, oh, like, for no reason, right? And I feel like as I get older, you know, what's funn with Alanis? I think I've been able to, like, process a lot of, like, my own trauma because I get to listen to, like, everyone else's life stories and I'm like, you know what? Like, maybe I'm not the only one that's gone through that. Or maybe, you know, my dad was this way because of his upbringing. You know, it's his first time living. I can't blame him for everything. He was just trying to do what he knew what to do and, you know, you know what I mean? And I like to say that. And now I feel like I'm at a stage with my dad where I, like, even though we don't have the best relationship, I feel like I'm at a stage where I'm like, you know what? I want to understand him and be there for him as a son because he was just trying to live his life too, while having to take care of all four of us, you know, queue, you know, you guys lost your mom at such an early age. What piece of advice, you know, would you guys give to anyone watching at home that has lost a parent at such a young, young age? And that feels like, you know, it's so hard to get through that, like, you know, time of their lives.
Marisol
I still wouldn't be able to give an advice for that because I don't even know how to process that still, I don't know if you could. There's things that I still don't understand. So I. I don't think I'm somebody that can give an advice of that. I wish I would have had an aunt, somebody that would be, you know what, this is going to happen to you or this is going to. If, if you have a problem, come and talk to me or. Or this or that. But I don't think we really had that. We did have Atia that really helped my dad. But since she had her own things going on, you know, with her family, I don't blame her because now I understand her.
Vicky
First of all, it's really hard. It's really hard to lose a parent.
Alan
Yeah.
Vicky
And it's really.
Marisol
I think it ends and it's very.
Vicky
Necessary to actually be able to process your emotions. Like you need to process them. You need to cry. You need to make yourself, Estelle, take out those emotions that are making you feel the osap blocked or suppressed emotions. Yeah.
Marisol
Because like, for example, for me, it took me many years to be able to cry. And I'm still not a urona, which is, you know, now I'm a little bit more. Now that I became a grandma. I wasn't too fan of kids either until my grandkids were born.
Alan
Yeah.
Marisol
And now I'm a little bit more understanding of a lot of stuff. But it took my grandkids to be born for me to be like this. So that's like a lot of.
Alan
Of.
Marisol
So that means, I guess I have a lot of healing to do.
Vicky
Maybe we do need a lot of healing to do is to look for. For help.
Marisol
Yes.
Vicky
Look for somebody to. That can help. Maybe therapy or counseling or stuff like that. It doesn't make you weak trying to suppress those emotions just to look badass or that you can do it is actually a weakness. You know that it's me so that you can actually jelly sarte, you know, and. Yeah.
Alan
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Alan
1-800-Contacts estamos aquipa celebrar your guys reunion. You know los orozco pos de durango cumplen cin cuenta anos este ano yoya mente andamos not you guys. Because a lot of people have been in the comments. Like I've seen comments about that. You know what's funny? I was confused for like a second and Then I was like, no. Marisol told me that her dad started the group. Yes. Just because I know and know your story. And I was like, you know what? That's funny, because I would think that way, too.
Marisol
I told my dad that since I'm the oldest one, but sometimes they think Vicky is. I'm like, they think one of us is turning 50. I don't mind talking about it, because I think it's a gangster thing. But what. They think we're turning 50 and it's not happening yet. The day turn, I'm not going to say I'll tell you. I would see my dad practice, and I swear to God to. I wanted to be like my dad. I would even wear, like, botas vaqueras, and I would wear, like, some glasses, which. Which I actually wear, like, those aviators. He would wear those, but, like, as glasses because he couldn't see. And the other day, my cousin's like, dalila Armando Conostaba. And I'm like, oh, my God. Anyways, so I would see him play the keyboard, and I would, you know, want to play the keyboard. So the same people that were in the old band lasted for many, many years. And I would go downstairs, they tell me the story, right? I saw him at a funeral not too long ago. He's like, do you remember when you were three? And I'm like, I don't remember when I was. Was 20. And you would sing. And I'm like, I don't remember. He's like, oh. I'm like, no, I don't remember that. And then he hugged me, and he told Echuga that we went to a funeral a couple weeks ago. And he's like. And he just looked at me and laughed. He's like.
Alan
Do you remember, like, your first memory of, like, you know what?
Vicky
I was like, you know, I was probably screaming my ass off. And.
Marisol
My mom made your outfit.
Vicky
Well, made our outfits, because she make our outfits. She was in a con.
Marisol
Vicki won first place.
Vicky
Probably because I was, too.
Marisol
I don't remember.
Alan
Participation award, literally. You're like, thank you for showing up.
Marisol
Even in school, I was being bura. Like, they would be like, oh, but. But I was amiga of every single click. So. Okay, anyways.
Vicky
Going back, you know, anyway, just trying.
Marisol
To make myself feel better.
Vicky
So after my mom passed away in, like, one of the, like, the showgirls. Not showgirls. Like, no, not like Berkeley. Not like the movie.
Alan
Yeah, yeah.
Marisol
That was really boring. Graphic.
Vicky
I'm not gonna talk about that.
Marisol
With Elizabeth Berkeley. That's really Art Berkeley. Yeah, that's really English.
Vicky
Which I'll call it. That's why I remember. And for Silver, Offense Rancheras and stuff like that.
Marisol
Woolworth, Woolworth, Woolworth, Woolworth, Woolworth.
Vicky
So that. Those were my first moments in my first gigs. Yes. Like in the chairs and stuff like that.
Marisol
Because I had to. Because I was the official keyboard player.
Alan
So you were like officially working.
Marisol
You were doing it for fun, like for four hours. Hours playing since I was nine. Yes, every single weekend.
Vicky
And you loved it.
Marisol
No, I did. But you know what? There was a point where. So I played when I had La Viruela, okay. Because they couldn't find somebody to substitute me. So then the two sexes, which was my dad and somebody else. They would play sax, went in front of me because I was full of virue line my fingers and everything that they had at apartment. Because it was wrong. How are you gonna take, you know, a 10 year? Because I was 10 and. And yes, I was.
Vicky
Was.
Marisol
I was playing with Bir and I felt really shitty and I looked really bad too.
Vicky
And then I started doing koros for Mira when she would sing. And then I also played the trumpet, which I wasn't so great at.
Marisol
Wasn't bad.
Vicky
It was whatever. Yeah. You know, until here I am.
Alan
Did you guys ever feel pressure to be like, oh my God, I gotta like be, you know, this singer. I gotta like be on the keyboard. I gotta entertain at such a young age. Did you guys ever feel like that? Pressure?
Vicky
I never felt like that.
Marisol
I did as. Let me go back to my. Because I think that's where things got up. So then when my. My friends, all of my friends from like were having quinceaneras because I went to an all girls school, sort of. Vicky. Everybody was having quinceaneras. I was not able to go there to their quinceaneras unless I played in it. I'm being serious. But then there was prom and all kinds of other stuff, you know, going on because you want to be, you know, you want to be cool, you want to go to your hang around with your friends. But I couldn't. Couldn't because I had to play.
Vicky
But they didn't let us go to prom because of what they would always. No, but what would they say they get in prom? You know, the loser virginity and stuff like that.
Marisol
I already had lost it.
Alan
That bit. Lost.
Marisol
God, that had been gone. I was 18 when I lost it.
Vicky
Right, but in high school.
Marisol
No, I was in high school. And then I had Marisol, 19.
Vicky
Carlos. Okay.
Marisol
What was I thinking for you?
Vicky
But that was. That turned into your husband. Husband.
Alan
So did you feel like you had more of, like, a love for it growing up? Did it feel like more like a hobby?
Vicky
Mine was a hobby. You know, it's that I really wasn't as necessary as Marisol, you know, So I pretty much did it, like, for fun. And I liked it, you know, I did love it. I. I actually. I wouldn't really go to quinceaneras or to violas or, like, stuff like that, or to my prom. I wasn't allowed to go to prom either, you know, because. Was Porcinos go to prom either? No, I wanted to take my.
Marisol
I had no idea.
Alan
When do you feel like it started becoming like a job for you.
Vicky
Turned into a hit? Because then we started working more, and then we. I started realizing that it was serious, you know, And I don't know.
Alan
How it got started and how it blew up, you know, I want to know your point of view. You, Vicky, you know, those locos blows up. You know, Los oros de Durango are being called every. What was that like? You know, that Rise to Fame or that first song that you were like, oh, like, this is serious. We can really make it in esto. What was it like for you guys? For you when, you know it was blowing up?
Vicky
It was a little bit crazy, like. And I was like, what the are they looking like? I was like, what the are you looking at? You know, because I used to be ghetto like that, like, what. What like. And then I was like, okay. And I was like, oh, wait, it's because the song and this and that. I was like, oh, wow, I need to calm down. What you looking at? Literally, I was like, oh, damn. You know, in Indianapolis, the. The headliner was singing, and we were just watching, you know, and either I.
Marisol
Know who the headliner. I ain't gonna say names.
Vicky
Like, to take picture with us. The headliner was getting upset, and we didn't even realize why until the. The. The. The security, they say. I'm like.
Marisol
They said for us to stop and to leave.
Vicky
I'm like, why? You know, that's. Well, the people are coming, and we're watching, you know, what the hell, you know, outdoors, you know, tornado. There's no place like home, you know, like, tornado.
Alan
And.
Vicky
And they were afraid that the stage was going to fall so muchacha, like, crying like, Vicky, Vicky y mabrasa. And I'm like, pero porquestac. Like, I was really worried. Are you okay? The tornad. What's going on, you know, And I was like. That's when I started to realize. I was like, holy. Like, wow. You know. Oh my God. This is. This is really nice. You know.
Alan
Do you guys feel like fame kind of just creeped up on you guys? Like, were you guys. Was it kind of very much like you guys were working over and then it just kind of blew up out of nowhere, you know?
Marisol
What. Okay, so was. It blew up in Chicago. So then we knew. Knew who the groups of Durangense were the big ones in Chicago, and we were amongst them, you know, so we would go to all the nightclubs, they would give us, you know, the Long Blue. The long.
Vicky
No, they were called blue.
Marisol
I didn't want to say it in the iced tea.
Vicky
Well, it was like a long iced tea, but it was like a blue. Oh, no. Yeah, the. It's different. Long Island.
Marisol
Yes. So then they would give us like free drinks and they treat us like royalty. And I felt like a. I felt like a rock star then not when the group hit, it was different. It was kind of scary. But then, I don't know, cuz I. I couldn't I see Milaro until Vicky, you know, mentioned a couple things and I'm like, oh, my God. When we play Naguascalientes, which is Laeras and Marcos, I was like, what the hell? People are like singing so loud that we couldn't hear a presentation. I'm like, wow. Holy. Are we famous?
Vicky
No, we were like that. Yeah. We're like dumbfounded. We were like, what is.
Marisol
What's going on?
Vicky
Wow.
Marisol
Yeah.
Alan
What was it? Oviamente? Working as sisters at that magnitude, Was it, you know, smooth, who played what role, you know, in el grupo, especially during that prime time.
Marisol
She's still the boss, and she's always the boss, so, you know, she.
Vicky
But still the boss. Pero.
Marisol
She wants things smoother than I do. I'm a little.
Alan
I'm Vicky.
Vicky
I'm Vicky. That's why I was like, what's your sign? Because I don't know why. I kind of thought maybe you were like a cancer.
Alan
Is that what you think that was? That I like to have control. Like, I like to know what's going to go on, how we're going to do things.
Vicky
Yes. Because I like structure. I like things to be organized, even though my life is not organized. But when like, like other stuff, like por hemp trajo, I need to feel that there's some type of organization because then I. I lose it. I lose it and. And Then, yeah, that's not good. So at that time, I think, yeah, I was. You know, I. I was trying to keep, like, some type of structure because. Because Marisol is maze. Relax. That's another thing that kind of, like, helps Tamien, because maybe I was too serious. And then she would kind of, like, give the balance in the group. But sometimes that. That he wouldn't let us practice. You know, it's like we're trying to.
Marisol
Learn a new song.
Alan
Practice? Wait, would you guys ever fight about that?
Marisol
No, I'm trying to remember, like. Like, boxing. Like that, you know? Like, you know, it got to a point where, like, you know, whatever, and then I would leave, you know? No.
Alan
Actually, yeah. You would do that.
Marisol
Yeah.
Vicky
There was times I would be like, okay, look, because we had a chat. I'm like, we're gonna practice this day. I'm like, but. But, Marisol, don't come this day. Come the next day, and I'll go the next day. No, you would not go the next day.
Marisol
But then. But then I stopped doing it, because then I'm like, you know what? I think I'm like. Like, I think I'm a problem right now. Let me go the next day.
Vicky
Because there was days that, like, we were trying to, like, sakar Cancun, like, in the. The instruments. We're trying to sakado and stuff like that. So it needed to be. There needed to be more concentration, and everybody would start, like, laughing because everybody loved that, you know, like, it's like, it's our break. Okay. Yeah. You. Yeah.
Alan
Do you feel like it was very much like you would kind of be like, just show up when we're done, and we just need your voice?
Vicky
Well, no, not like that, but it was like, let's. Let's get this first. And then in the next practice. All right. Let's all get together. So go. You know?
Alan
Yeah. And I feel like that works out. I feel like. I feel like. That's why. I feel, like, on stage, too, you know, Obia Mentee, you say that you guys are like the yin and the yang. You know, you're more seria mas. You know, we want to get this done.
Vicky
But on stage, I think I'm, like, the more, like, more hyped up one because I dance more, maybe because she.
Alan
Already took it out during practice. I think it was probably that, you know, as artists and crazy things. Do you guys have, like, a crazy, I don't know, fan interaction or where something happened that was crazy, and you're like, oh, my God, I Do have.
Vicky
A lot of, like, memory loss.
Marisol
So, okay, somebody licked my toe.
Vicky
Oh, yeah, that.
Alan
On stage? Yes. Oh, you were somebody.
Marisol
That was. No, I was singing on stage. So an important person from a radio came up, went down on his knees and licked my toe.
Alan
In case he says, my toes are.
Marisol
Crusty that day because I was going through tierras.
Alan
So what did you do? How did it happen?
Marisol
I felt grossed out. I'm like, you know, but I couldn't say. And I'm like, this is me. I'm, like, smiling like this, you know, trying to be as graceful as possible. And I felt the lingua go like, oh, no.
Alan
Like, in between the toes.
Marisol
And I have a big ass toe. So I felt it throughout the whole time. They make fun of me. They make fun of me all the time. Like, my primo was a road manager and Vicki was like, yeah, but. Yeah, I do. And I'm like, wait, what do they say? Yeah, but they would do from the.
Vicky
Flintstones, like, the Flintstones to.
Alan
Oh, my God. What do you feel like has been the craziest thing that happened to you? You know, Oya meant to ask, you know, I feel like artists always have, like, crazy stories. What do you feel like is one of your craziest stories? It doesn't have to be, like, a fan interaction, you know, last time, Marisol, like, what's been something crazy that you're like, I can't believe that happened to me.
Vicky
Holy. It's just a whole bunch of things, like, start to, like, come to mind, and then they just crash into my head, into my brain. So now I can't think.
Marisol
I know a lot of your stuff, but that's not me, it's you.
Vicky
Like, what about. I ain't going to say so where they bite me.
Marisol
It wasn't a year you don't remember.
Vicky
Dude, where did they bite me?
Marisol
Your lip. They bit her lips. Lip. Yes. So they. I don't know if they tried kissing her or something, but they bit her lip. How do you never do?
Alan
I. Okay, she's like, I have a lot of crazy interactions.
Marisol
That was a crazy interaction.
Alan
But what happened? Like.
Marisol
What the.
Vicky
Dude.
Marisol
And then the security brought. Security brought them down, and then that's it. Brought the person down and that's it. But they bit her lip because it's juicy.
Vicky
But how did they. How did they actually.
Alan
Yeah, how did they get in their face? Yeah.
Marisol
Wait, okay, let me tell you how they got to their face. So then I. We played in Long Beach a week before my marriage. My. My wedding with Echuga. So there's a fan that always goes up on stage and tries to kiss me in the mouth. But I already know her, so I have my microphone like this.
Vicky
Oh, the girl that went up on stage, she didn't bite my lip.
Marisol
Talking about me now. Oh, so then she came up and I saw it. So I blocked my mouth, you know, because my lip and I saw the chew other he wouldn't gotten mad anyways but I didn't want her to do that, you know, cuz you know she does it all the time. I let her do it a couple other times. So then she tried to kiss me in the mouth but the microphone hit my. My mouth hit my tooth. And that night was my second bridal shower in la cuz I had one in Chicago. So my sister in laws and my, you know, Vicki went any. Anyways, so then I felt like something cracked because I have an ears. Anyway, so then in the night after the, the bright.
Vicky
The bridal shower, she was toothless and ruthless.
Marisol
Wait, shut up. So listen, I was really drunk, you know, I left and then my, my sister in law is a doctor. So we, we got to her house and I don't know what she gave me that I chewed and my tooth fell off. You know, like in hangover. Okay. So the chuga, he's, you know, he's a musician too. So he played that day and went to go pick me up and he saw now my sister in law and me trying to crazy glue the tooth back on so he wouldn't see it.
Alan
So how did you do it for your wedding?
Marisol
Drunkard. So thank you. I called him because I know, you know, we have an ear. So you know, we've been your friends and I'm like, you know what? I'm toothless and I'm getting married. He's like, they put, they put a tooth on me because I was toothless and ruthless.
Vicky
You know what? They broke my tooth too. Yes, they broke my tooth at all. I mean, I don't, I don't care. I just had.
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Vicky
I just had like a crack and like the microphone banged like my. My tooth and it makes it black.
Marisol
A little bit, you guys.
Alan
But if someone like hit you, you.
Vicky
Like, the Repente fans come up like really excited and they want to hug you. So it's like when we were taking pictures, some girl and. And all I heard was like, and now I have a hooker hole, you know, like my ear is like.
Marisol
She got a whole. A whole ear.
Vicky
It's like. It's a big ass whole.
Alan
She made it all big. It's all a plush. It's all like things are here.
Vicky
I should put. Probably just start using one of those like, like, like the big one.
Alan
The plugs. Yes.
Vicky
You think of it, you can get.
Marisol
It like stitched up.
Alan
There was one time in the club too. Someone scratched my face so hard. I don't know if they were hater or I don't know if they were trying to get to me. Cuz we were trying to go through, get on stage. So the security was like trying to get us to the stage. So everybody was like, boom, I was bleeding. I'm ruined. But it's crazy because sometimes you do situations where like I feel like the adrenaline and just the excitement is all there, that you're like, like yen. But people just get so excited. Yes. I think that's what it is. Like it's not the intention, it's more like it just happened because of the excitement, the adrenaline. You were in a very toxic relationship that also led you to leaving the group for a whole year. And why it led you to leaving the group.
Vicky
Well, that was my first. He was my first. And so I guess, you know, it says, you know, I was like so in love and stuff like that. And. Yeah, and well, anyway, you know, and. And he was an older guy, so I guess, I don't know, I just felt maybe like very dominated at the moment and very in love. And I just didn't. I didn't want him to leave me at that time. And he had told me he's like el Grupo Oyo, you know. And this was actually in 2002 when I left the group. Maybe like two years together or a year and a half, something like that. Anyway, so I ended up leaving the group and. And I was miserable that whole year. I think every weekend that they would go to play, I would cry. I gained so much Weight. I ended up weighing, like, 200 pounds. I was 198. That was my heaviest because I was so depressed. And you know what? I feel like, maybe because he would always just order, like, Chinese pizza and like that. Yeah, he would eat, too, but he would work out a lot, and he. His ass was in stress, so I would try to work out, and I wouldn't lose £1. So, yeah, it's the stress, the depression and everything, you know, it just got to me, and it was really, really hard. And I don't know. No se cumo estuo, pero I feel like if maybe it was my mom or God, and, like, wake up. Wake up, girl. You know, Este. I was gonna say wake up. Is not gonna say that. And I realized that this is not where I needed to be. This is not where I wanted to be, that quesi. Una Persona real. And it was just a lot of stuff, you know, thank God, you know, and my mom is that I. I realized that it was wrong. And in 2003, you know, I decided to come back, and he's like, you know what? Forget it. And I don't know. It was just. It was very, very toxic in many ways. Not just in that he was a bit abusive to, too.
Alan
Like, physically, emotionally, verbally.
Vicky
Emotionally, verbally, and physically, too. And physically, too. No, I. I had a couple of, like, episodes where megarabasi, like, alafuerza and, like, una ves mestru que de toda esteb Moretonia. Because he threw me into the tub, and he was grabbing me there, and. And just stuff, like. And we got in a couple of arguments because of my family, of what he thought, and obviously, I got upset.
Marisol
Upset.
Vicky
And I slapped him, and then he slapped me back, and it was just, like, really back, really bad.
Alan
Did your family knew what was going on? Like, did you, as your sister? Did you?
Vicky
Because that's. That's another thing that, like, it was always like. Yeah, I think so. I think so. At that time, Marisol had had mar. That was, like, maybe, like, 4,5ish. And I feel that I missed out a lot on her, on my niece's childhood, you know, because I was so whooped on this guy, you know, And I. And I was also. So. It wasn't even whooped, you know, I was just manipulated.
Alan
Did you ever suspect anything? Like, were you ever, like, I don't think my sister and her relationship are okay, you know what?
Marisol
I like them. And then there was moments where I ended up. Ended up not liking him since I was so into. My daughter was small. I was in college. I was still married to my daughter's dad. I was in the group every weekend. And then it was practicing. I had a lot of going. I just bought my first house. And it was a lot of things going on, so. And I feel really bad, you know, that I would. I didn't. I was not there as a sister. And it's really up me saying this.
Vicky
You know, she was there in the breakup, which is where I. I needed it, you know, I don't think that.
Marisol
I was there that much the way I should have either. Just older, you know, now that you realize things and it's like, no.
Vicky
Also, let me tell you, like, after that, as soon as I broke up, oh, my God. Like, in two weeks, I lost 15 pounds.
Marisol
And then she started looking hot.
Vicky
I felt, like, free. Like, so free. Like, I was. We would, like, drink and party, like, every day. And it was just like.
Marisol
The party was really bad.
Vicky
Like, everything that was, like, locked up inside of me, it was just like, I'm free, I'm free.
Alan
I want to do it.
Vicky
All.
Marisol
Was getting big at that big at that time. So then it was like, it was a rock star.
Alan
How did you tell your family in the group, you know?
Vicky
No, it wasn't at the prime yet.
Alan
Okay.
Vicky
It was right before the prime. Yeah. My dad was really, really sad, and I. And I lied to him. I told him that it was because I wanted to focus more on school because.
Marisol
Tell him you were in opera.
Vicky
Because I had never taken, like, music lessons and stuff like that. And the only reason why I took it was because I really needed music. Because. And I was like, I can't take this. I really to need. Need music. And my dad's like, no, mija. Otro, otro, otra carrera. I just couldn't find myself. I was just like. I felt like I wasn't in a good spot because I wasn't, like, really. I wasn't studying something that I wanted to. And then I was with somebody that was making my life impossible. Even when I was in school, like. And what were you doing? And this and that. And like, it was like a headache. I couldn't even concentrate.
Alan
He was, like, hovering over, you know.
Vicky
It was like, so much like. And. And I just. I just couldn't even. I was taking computer classes.
Marisol
Computer science? Yeah. Yeah. That was really bad.
Vicky
I was doing Program Gangster. I. I don't remember.
Marisol
Smart. Wait, she graduated National Honor Society. Always in an honor. Always.
Vicky
That was before. I don't know what Happened to all that? All the party and the drinking? No.
Marisol
We were in the university together and I would like study my ass off. And she would be like. And she was always do really well. And I would not. I would do.
Alan
What did you guys graduate in?
Marisol
It was in the last year, like my senior year. I don't know what year you were.
Vicky
In or what since. Okay. So when I. When I left the group, I decided to take something with music because I couldn't. I couldn't handle it. So I was like, okay, let me take some voice lessons. And they're like, no, in order for you to take voice since is you need to take vocal technique first because you need to understand your body, how you use it for singing. I'm like, okay, let's do it. So when I did it and then my. My teacher, she's like, you really need to, you know, study this. You know, you. I really see a bright future for you and blah blah. And I'm like, really? So I decided for it to become my major. That was my second major. So I was doing a double major and then a minor in. In business administration. And Ilogo was. That's when I started studying like for like vocal performance. I was studying opera and I loved it. And I was like, I fell. I fell in love with it. And it was. I think maybe. I think that helped me to realize. It healed you. Yes, it did because I really needed it.
Alan
And.
Marisol
And she was good at it too.
Vicky
I was pretty decent at it.
Marisol
You were good.
Vicky
Pero bueno. Total. I. I think yeah. When I decided to come back and stuff like that, I. I don't know. Just things. Things started to happen and I had to leave the school. You know, Studio computer studies. Because after computer science that I realized I couldn't do it. I was like, okay, it's going to be computer studies.
Marisol
I didn't know you. I didn't know.
Vicky
I couldn't. I couldn't handle that C class. It was a headache, especially with that X. So which makai. So it was a. A double major Computer studies and musical music performance. The business administration for the minor. So we never graduated.
Marisol
My dad from. We have two Grammys.
Vicky
Those are titles studios which was very unfortunate but very fortunate things happen, you know, and. And just, I don't know, say super fast. Super fast. And. And it's really awesome. You know, you can't sometimes you can't have both. So they're like, well, you could go back. But I'm like, no, my brain doesn't work anymore.
Marisol
I Don't even remember.
Vicky
But, you know, it's. I'm grateful, you know, I'm grateful for everything that that's been happening. And esa relacion actually made me learn a lesson, a very valuable lesson, you know, and if they don't respect your passion, what you Persona tu entidado familia. That's not the person for you.
Alan
You know, you need someone to support you and want to see you do great, doing so good. And it's like, no. I feel like when you find your partner, it should be someone that uplifts you. And it's like, no, like apoyando, you know, which I feel like it's great. And you learned from it, you know, because I feel like there's a lot of women that go through stuff and sadly, sometimes, you know, they just repeat the cycle of like, you know, or they stay there. But you were able to be like, you know what? No. Yo, parami. Yes. That Persona is just, you know, blocking me from getting trash. Get rid of the trash.
Vicky
Get rid of the trash.
Alan
So, you know, four years ago, didn't little breakup, and now you guys are getting back together. Before we get back to the hea, tell us a little bit more, you know, part ways, you know, tell us a little bit more about that.
Vicky
Okay, so I got pregnant and. Sorry, momento. You know, unfortunately, I started like going through some complications. Well, anyway, the point is we stopped a little bit earlier.
Marisol
She did do a really good job on stage. Pregnant with heels, dancing until she was eight months.
Vicky
You know what I think it was? I was seven months because they told me that I needed to stop in Maine. So they made me. They induced my pregnancy because he was supposed to be born like in the beginning of August, and he was born. Yeah, July 17, which he lasted 46 hours and then a C section afterwards. Horrible. Well, I took my break, obviously, from. To take care of my son, you know, to be a solo lowest. And well, she thought it was interesting. So she took it, which. And actually up. You know what it's. You live and learn.
Alan
Yeah.
Marisol
Yeah. I don't know. I. I should have just stayed home, you know, and done. Done other stuff. I could have, you know.
Vicky
No, you know what? You live and learn because it made her. It made her more responsible and stuff like that. I think she needs to start like, looking at the more positive things, you know, from that, from lessons you can.
Alan
Learn something from even the bad moments.
Vicky
Exactly. I mean, yeah, it was a little bit rough, the breakup, but it gave me time to be with my Son, like full time. And I didn't miss anything, you know, And I was always just there. So. Este los tiempos de Dios, un perfectos. And I think it was the moment. It was a moment for me to be me. And it was the moment for her to be, you know, her, she's very talented. She's an instrumentalist. Instrumentos y canta. And I think she needed to express her herself.
Alan
Yeah.
Vicky
And I needed to be a mother because this is what I. What I always wanted. And then I shut down that dream and I was like, no, I don't want to be a mom. Whatever, you know? And now I am. So I'm. It makes. It has made me very, very complete inside.
Alan
Do you feel like it was hard to, like, adapt to this new life of becoming a mom?
Vicky
Yeah. No. You know what? Because you don't know. You're learning as you go. And then.
Marisol
Especially the rhythm we had.
Vicky
Yeah, you need to be more patient. You need to start, like, slowing down, you know, to get to, you know, help your child and learn and, you know, at the same time, it's a little complicated for me because I'm always 24. I've been 247 with my son. So, like, pordos dias. It's like, okay, I could do this. I could do this, you know, but, yeah, we gotta make this work because now we have a hira, literally cuatra.
Alan
Juntar, you know, which is what. What we're here for today, you guys.
Marisol
Through the family therapy.
Alan
Flyer on the screen. How did this idea of getting back together come to you guys? Was it scary being like, you know what? We haven't been together, Inario, for four plus years. What was that whole like? And why did it make so much sense sense now?
Vicky
Dude, you need to start talking because you do this.
Marisol
This really well. You explain it really well. I'm going to say something. And then it. It doesn't make sense, but you do. Well.
Vicky
Well, you know, I. I guess it wasn't very much thought of, you know, I'm just like, we're. And I wouldn't really think much of it. I was very stuck in my mom mode.
Marisol
And I was doing Top Chef and I was doing all kinds of stuff, you know. Yeah. Living in. In Colombia.
Vicky
So we were like, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, we were. Let's listen. We're like, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, we're not. We're not even together, you know, and it kind of like, deemed to us. It's like, holy, you know, it's like People are listening to us. They're maintaining our. Our music alive. They're maintaining the name Elado de Rosco Poz Durango. And. And then it's like, this makes sense, you know? You know, because in reality, it's never stopped.
Alan
Yeah.
Vicky
And in the beginning, when we stopped yoga, you know. You know, I don't know. I just. I just never felt like if it was like, the end of the book, you know?
Alan
Like, you never. It wasn't very much a. Like, I'm done with this. Yeah. Yeah. I'll revisit this book later.
Vicky
So. I don't know. It just. It just seems. It just made a lot of sense, you know? Like. You know, and. Yeah, so it's like, let's do this.
Alan
What goes into being, like, concert ready for you?
Marisol
It's because it's a whole different, you know, scenario. We were kind of more used to, like, nightclubs, and now it's theaters, now it's arenas. So July 18th here in Los Angeles is our first concert in the Noble, and it's sold out. So the 19th, you know, is the next available date. And then it. Mexico City. We sold out the arena. It's August 23rd, so. Holy.
Vicky
You know, I. I still feel.
Marisol
It's like, you know what I. I mean? Like. But it's like, not in a different level.
Alan
Did you guys have doubt before you guys agree to do this? Did you guys be like, oh, there's no way being gone for so long that we can pull this together?
Vicky
Yoshin Toque. My dad and Mirsa were a little bit more doubtful. Beautiful. I'm like, no. I'm like, don't you guys see how people, like, they add. They're asking for it, they're yearning, you know, and. And it's like they want it. And I. I really feel that this is gonna. That this will be big.
Marisol
I know it's gonna be, you know, a nice comeback. But when we went to the arena and I was standing there, and I'm.
Vicky
Like, no, I didn't. I didn't expect that.
Alan
No, no.
Marisol
So then I know Katy Perry just went Lady Gaga. They sold out. And then. And I'm like, holy. What the. Sorry. I'm like, how is this gonna happen? I swear to God, too. I had a migraine that day because I was scared. And then I'm like, I would look.
Vicky
At it because you were tired, too.
Marisol
Hell, no, I was tired. I would never do that again that day, you know, flying.
Vicky
No.
Marisol
Anyways, so I thought to myself, all right, I'm gonna be Positive and be positive. And I'm like, then I would look at it again. I'm like, oh, hell no. And then he sold out. And then it's just a bunch of stuff is happening.
Alan
I said, you guys ended like a new day and now you guys even added even more dates. A bunch of dates. I saw today you guys announced all these other dates. But honestly, it's a big deal. Like being in hiatus for so long.
Marisol
And coming back strong and the special guests like feed me, you know, and it's Johnny. But I. Yeah, well, we had a face. They FaceTime. Like Johnny FaceTime as we were together. Like, I'm like stuff like that, you know, it. I think it's really cool. And it's still really stressful and scary. Now it's, you know, Mondo show, which is another. Another process. Which is.
Vicky
Yeah. Because it's. We've never worked in that type of.
Marisol
Level, which we haven't even talked about that. And I'm here and I talk about it in pieces.
Alan
It hasn't been made.
Marisol
We know somebody that, you know, might be able dress us and. But we haven't been.
Alan
But it's going to work out. It's going to work out. You know, condos. It's going to work out and you guys are going to do amazing. And I'm so excited to see you guys. You know, Inario, for those that are interested or maybe don't know what they can expect at one of your guys upcoming show, what can the people watching right now expect?
Marisol
Oh my God.
Vicky
Yeah, expect. Going back to your happy.
Marisol
Expect. Okay, the. The people that experience it with us. The happy times. The people that. That listened with to their mama. They were cleaning their house that. The Welitas that were cleaning their house that too.
Vicky
Feeling that nostalgia, feeling that happiness, you know, like. Yeah. Expect all the Los Lo sex to have fun. To relive a lot of like those moments from the past. What else? I don't know.
Marisol
Just.
Vicky
Just a big celebration. I mean, because.
Marisol
Normally, you know, like, you know how Fidma does it. Maybe not to that degree sometimes, but it can't be that bad anymore because it's a whole different. It's scary.
Vicky
Well, you know what though? This is going to be a big show. Oh. So expect a long show. So it's gonna be like maybe like from two, two hours and a half to three hours. So we can't not. We cannot get Pedas like that, you know, because not like before. Yes. We can't be halfway through the show and just like Gone.
Alan
No, but I feel like people are gonna have so much fun. I feel like, like you said, nostalgia. And just to go, great time and I'm so excited.
Marisol
Thank you for joining us.
Alan
This big milestone. And also linked down below. Gracias for making time out.
Marisol
Thank you for answering all my FaceTimes schedule.
Alan
What was that?
Marisol
Thank you for answering all my FaceTimes.
Alan
No, thank you for calling me and thinking of me. Because I'm like, she's thinking of me while she spelled time.
Marisol
I've been. I'm like, why are you.
Alan
No, there'll be times where I'll be like, in bed and she'll call me and I'm like, let me go downstairs.
Vicky
And get the bottle.
Alan
And I'll take that shot with her. Literally. You guys, I almost.
Marisol
I want to be a better person.
Vicky
Okay.
Marisol
I don't want. Sorry, no. Getting Chris Jenner's facelift. Me like nine.
Vicky
He's going to be like nine.
Marisol
A little bit older than Juan.
Vicky
Yeah, I. I don't know. I don't know.
Marisol
I don't know where the hell.
Vicky
I.
Marisol
Want to have a house in Cancun.
Alan
You have a lot of dolls.
Marisol
What do I want in la?
Vicky
Okay.
Marisol
You need a pool. Even if you're going only open it in the summer.
Alan
She's like, wherever it is.
Marisol
I'll still be FaceTiming.
Vicky
You are too deep for me.
Alan
I don't know what the I want to do tomorrow.
Marisol
I don't know what I'm going to do after you right now.
Alan
I don't know where I'm going after that. I'm so glad. Go ahead and follow them. I'll leave them down below as well as on the screen so you guys won't miss any future episodes. And with that being said, thank you girls so much. I adore you girls, too.
Vicky
Oh, I do, too.
Alan
And thank you guys so much for watching. And we'll see you guys in the next one. Bye, guys.
Marisol
Mom, dad, you should shop Amazon for Back to School and save some money. See, I'm currently obsessed with superheroes and need all the superhero stuff. Superhero launch box, superhero backpack. But next year it'll be something else. Maybe dinosaurs. I don't know. I'm not a fortune teller, but I can tell you not to spend a fortune and shop. Low prices for school on Amazon. Kay, good chat, Amazon. Spend less, smile more.
Alan
Samsung Galaxy S25.
Vicky
Con Galaxy AI Por Quenta Nuestra y.
Alan
Quatro lineas Porso.
Vicky
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Podcast Summary: "Los Horoscopos De Durango Talk All: Grief, Toxic Relationships, Motherhood, NEW Tour, CHISME & MORE!"
Podcast Information:
Marisol and Vicky, the featured guests, delve into their formative years, sharing vivid memories of growing up in Durango. They reminisce about their childhood activities, such as playing with Barbie dolls and managing homemade versions fashioned by their mother.
Marisol [06:30]: "We played with Barbie, but not the commercial ones. My mom made our outfits, and it was something special, but also strict."
Their upbringing was characterized by a strict father who had to shoulder the responsibility of raising two daughters after their mother's untimely passing. This strictness deeply influenced their personalities and future decisions.
Vicky [17:13]: "My dad was very strict because he was left with two girls. It was different raising daughters without a mother."
Losing their mother at a young age profoundly impacted both sisters. Marisol vividly recalls witnessing her mother's passing, an experience that left lasting emotional scars. Vicky, being younger at the time, has limited memories of the event, likely due to trauma-induced memory blocking.
Marisol [12:04]: "I remember seeing her pass away. It was one of the most traumatic moments of my life."
Vicky [15:28]: "It's really hard to lose a parent. You need to process your emotions, cry, seek help."
The sisters discuss the importance of emotional processing and the challenges they faced in dealing with their grief without adequate support systems.
The podcast highlights the complex dynamics between the sisters and their father. Marisol expresses a longing for a less strict paternal figure, wishing for more emotional support and understanding.
Marisol [18:20]: "I love my dad with all my heart, but I wish he had been less strict. Maybe I wouldn't have gotten married so young."
Vicky acknowledges her father's protective nature but also reflects on how his strictness shaped her independence and resilience.
Vicky [17:13]: "He had to be protective, especially after losing my mom. It made him overprotective, but I understand now."
Both sisters share anecdotes from their early days in the music industry, describing the transition from local gigs to gaining significant fame. They recount humorous and unsettling fan interactions, such as an incident where a fan licked Marisol's toe during a performance.
Marisol [39:52]: "Someone from the radio came up, got down on his knees, and licked my toe. I felt so grossed out but had to stay graceful."
These experiences illustrate the unpredictable nature of fame and the challenges of maintaining professionalism in the face of bizarre fan behavior.
Vicky opens up about her toxic relationship that negatively impacted her mental health and led to her temporary departure from the group. She describes the emotional and physical abuse she endured, which resulted in significant weight gain and depression.
Vicky [48:07]: "He was emotionally, verbally, and physically abusive. I was miserable and gained a lot of weight because of the stress and depression."
The discussion highlights the importance of recognizing and escaping harmful relationships, emphasizing self-preservation and mental health.
Vicky [54:46]: "If someone doesn't respect your passion and your family, they're not the person for you."
After a hiatus, Marisol and Vicky discuss their decision to reunite and relaunch their music career. They express excitement and nervousness about returning to the stage, now managing larger venues like arenas instead of nightclubs.
Marisol [62:06]: "Our first concert back in Los Angeles is sold out, and Mexico City’s arena is sold out too. It’s a huge comeback."
The sisters reflect on the growth they've experienced during their time apart and how they’ve prepared for the demands of performing on a larger scale.
Vicky shares her journey into motherhood, describing the challenges and fulfillment that came with raising her son. She talks about balancing her career and personal life, highlighting the transformative effect of becoming a parent.
Vicky [58:38]: "Becoming a mother made me very complete inside. It was a rough breakup, but it gave me time to be with my son full-time."
Marisol, now a grandmother, discusses her own healing process and the positive impact her grandkids have had on her emotional well-being.
Marisol [22:48]: "It took me years to be able to cry and understand my emotions, but my grandkids have helped me heal."
Throughout the episode, the sisters offer heartfelt advice based on their experiences. They stress the importance of seeking help when dealing with grief and toxic relationships, advocating for therapy and emotional support.
Vicky [23:19]: "Look for somebody who can help you, maybe therapy or counseling. It doesn't make you weak to seek help."
They also emphasize the significance of family support and understanding in navigating life's challenges.
Marisol and Vicky discuss their preparations for their upcoming tour, addressing the differences between performing in intimate settings versus large arenas. They highlight the excitement and pressure associated with returning to the spotlight.
Marisol [62:32]: "We need to adapt to performing in theaters and arenas. It’s a whole different level, but we’re ready."
They share their aspirations for the tour, aiming to recreate the nostalgic and joyous experiences of their past performances while embracing the new opportunities their reunion brings.
The episode wraps up with Alannized expressing his support and excitement for the sisters' comeback. Marisol and Vicky reiterate their gratitude towards their fans and reflect on the journey that has brought them back together.
Alan [67:02]: "Thank you girls so much. I adore you girls, too."
Vicky [62:50]: "People are yearning for our music. This makes perfect sense to come back now."
Their story is one of resilience, healing, and the enduring power of family and passion for music. The episode serves as an inspiring narrative of overcoming adversity and reclaiming one's place in the world.
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This episode of "Noche de Pendejadas with Alannized" offers a deep and engaging exploration of Marisol and Vicky's personal and professional lives. From childhood memories and coping with loss to overcoming toxic relationships and embracing motherhood, the sisters provide a candid and heartfelt narrative that resonates with listeners who may face similar challenges.