10: DATING MULTIPLE MEN AT ONCE!

Summary

Podcast Summary: Not Loveline - Episode 10: DATING MULTIPLE MEN AT ONCE!

Introduction and Theme In Episode 10 of "Not Loveline," released on February 10, 2025, hosts Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas delve into the intriguing and often complex topic of dating multiple men simultaneously. As always, the duo brings their unique blend of humor, personal experience, and candid conversation to the table, making the show both entertaining and insightful for listeners navigating the modern dating landscape.

Caller 1: Navigating a Partner’s Gambling Addiction The episode begins with a listener seeking advice on managing a boyfriend's gambling addiction. The caller expresses feeling sidelined as her partner prioritizes gambling and sports betting over their relationship.

Caller (00:10): "He is really into gambling, and sometimes I feel like he chooses gambling and sports betting and hitting the slots over me."

Tana immediately picks up on the situation, highlighting the seriousness of gambling issues within relationships.

Tana Mongeau (00:53): "It's just like, all vices, right? Like, in moderation. It's fun, but it's such a slippery slope."

Trish echoes these sentiments, emphasizing the importance of open communication and setting financial boundaries.

Trish Paytas (53:05): "Transparency is a good one. I think if you're honest, that's what dating is."

The discussion sheds light on the emotional strain that gambling can place on a relationship, advising listeners to have honest conversations about spending limits and the potential need for professional help.

Host Discussion: Personal Experiences with Gambling Following the caller's dilemma, Tana and Trish transition into a conversation about their own experiences and views on gambling. Tana shares her enthusiasm for poker tournaments and UFC fights, portraying gambling as a thrilling pastime when approached responsibly.

Tana Mongeau (15:08): "I love taking a man's money. You know what I mean? And, like, I do just love Vegas for, like, 24 hours, but that's quick."

Trish, while not as passionate, acknowledges the addictive nature of gambling and the fine line between entertainment and addiction.

Trish Paytas (54:19): "Use your limit when you gamble."

Their candid exchange serves to both entertain and inform listeners about the nuances of gambling within personal relationships.

Caller 2: Dating Multiple Men at Once The core of the episode revolves around a second caller seeking advice on dating multiple men simultaneously. This topic aligns perfectly with the episode's title and theme.

Caller (59:40): "I'm trying to build up that roster. So I just want to know how to navigate dating multiple men at once. Any advice would be appreciated."

Tana and Trish tackle this subject by discussing the importance of transparency and self-awareness. They stress that honesty with all parties involved is crucial to maintaining healthy relationships and preventing misunderstandings.

Tana Mongeau (60:44): "I think you should always be transparent."

Trish adds that managing multiple relationships requires organizational skills, such as maintaining separate schedules or using a calendar to keep dates straight.

Trish Paytas (60:11): "How do you manage it? You need a calendar just for your dates."

They also touch upon the emotional challenges, suggesting that individuals should assess their capacity to maintain multiple relationships without compromising their well-being or the quality of their connections.

Host Advice: Balancing Multiple Relationships Both hosts offer practical advice for those considering dating multiple men. They emphasize setting clear boundaries, understanding personal motivations, and ensuring that all relationships are consensual and respectful.

Tana Mongeau (67:25): "You might come across a guy too, in these endeavors that's like, whoa, I don't want you to date other people."

Trish highlights the importance of not overextending oneself and being mindful of the emotional labor involved.

Trish Paytas (63:18): "That's what dating is, just, like, going on dates. You're not, like."

Their guidance is rooted in personal experience, offering listeners relatable and actionable steps to navigate the complexities of dating multiple partners.

Additional Discussions: Relationships and Personal Growth Beyond the main topics, Tana and Trish engage in light-hearted conversations about their personal lives, upcoming projects, and relationship dynamics. They share anecdotes about their interactions with celebrities, experiences on tours, and future ideas for the podcast, such as involving Makoa and Moses in special episodes.

Tana Mongeau (20:30): "I think that we should do an April Fool's Day or just around that time episode where it's Makoa and Moses."

These segments add depth to the hosts' personalities, showcasing their camaraderie and creative thinking behind the podcast.

Conclusion and Final Thoughts As the episode wraps up, Tana and Trish reinforce the importance of honesty and self-care in relationships, whether single or involved with multiple partners. They encourage listeners to prioritize their emotional health and to approach dating with both caution and an open heart.

Trish Paytas (67:30): "I mean, it's okay to do a few. And I think it's like, just be honest. Don't tire yourself out."

Tana Mongeau (67:56): "I've seen all the sides of how everything can play out. And now I know exactly what I want for that reason."

The episode concludes with a heartfelt message to their audience, expressing gratitude for their support and inviting further engagement through their Patreon.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Tana Mongeau (00:53): "It's just like, all vices, right? Like, in moderation. It's fun, but it's such a slippery slope."
• Trish Paytas (53:05): "Transparency is a good one. I think if you're honest, that's what dating is."
• Caller (59:40): "I'm trying to build up that roster. So I just want to know how to navigate dating multiple men at once. Any advice would be appreciated."
• Tana Mongeau (60:44): "I think you should always be transparent."
• Trish Paytas (60:11): "How do you manage it? You need a calendar just for your dates."
• Tana Mongeau (67:25): "You might come across a guy too, in these endeavors that's like, whoa, I don't want you to date other people."
• Trish Paytas (63:18): "That's what dating is, just, like, going on dates. You're not, like."
• Tana Mongeau (20:30): "I think that we should do an April Fool's Day or just around that time episode where it's Makoa and Moses."

Final Thoughts Episode 10 of "Not Loveline" offers a candid and comprehensive exploration of dating multiple men, enriched by Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas's engaging personalities and personal insights. Through listener interactions and their own experiences, the hosts provide valuable advice while maintaining an entertaining and relatable atmosphere. Whether you're single, dating one person, or juggling multiple relationships, this episode serves as a thoughtful resource for navigating the modern dating scene.

Transcript

[Tana Mongeau]

I just could never, like. I feel like I would, like, literally start my period or something. Like, what do you mean your. Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Put, like, a makeup sponge up there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Or something like that little diva cup something to catch it.

[Caller]

You know, I do have an issue. So he is really into gambling, and sometimes I feel like he chooses gambling and sports betting and hitting the slots over me.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think Makoa got a voice changer and just called in. I'm literally not even kidding. Hello.

[Trisha Paytas]

Welcome back to Not Loveline.

[Tana Mongeau]

That we ate with that. That was everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, I didn't want to do, like, you know, cancel. You guys do it together. I'm like, let's do something different where we go, like, one after the other.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh. And I kind of liked that.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

It felt collaborative.

[Trisha Paytas]

Let us know what you guys think of our new set. Oh, yes, we have. We're getting even more. I cannot wait for you guys to see the chairs that Moses designed. They're so. They look like the Blues Clues chair. Like, brown, but leopard.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God, I love the Blues Clues chair.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's so. It looks just. It looks like a cartoon, and it's humongous. So, like, teeny tiny.

[Tana Mongeau]

We love a big chair. We love leopard. It's so funny. Every single time I come here, something is different. Like, even the waters just now. First of all, the Not Loveline waters. I. It, like, weirdly makes me really emotional, and it's like. It's a water bottle. Tana, you need a nap, but take.

[Trisha Paytas]

As many as you want. We have a whole 500 in the garage.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm, like, so happy, and it's so funny. Trisha walks in, and she's like, yeah, but, like, already ready to change them and order a new batch. Well, we're gonna.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're gonna rebrand a leopard soon. Leopard Pink and purple.

[Tana Mongeau]

We love leopards so much that we've just been decided. But, see, I would just think that forever. I would never, like, act on that. Like, I love you so much we're.

[Trisha Paytas]

Doing leopard because I just feel like there's also maybe. Correct me if I'm wrong, I feel like there's no podcast that's, like, a leopard theme yet.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And it's so.

[Trisha Paytas]

There is.

[Tana Mongeau]

I feel like it's so us.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, I think so too. Which is, like, kind of weird, because I don't think of you as a leopard person. I don't think of myself as a leopard person. But we do love leopard. We wear it a lot.

[Tana Mongeau]

We love. And just, like, we have that Y2K in us. We have that, like, we had our, like, Jersey Shore. It's so good eras, you know, I.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, did not love Jersey Shore, but I. I love Leopard, but I think that's why fought Jersey Shore for so long. I probably was more of a Snooki than I wanted to, like, admit. I was like, oh, I hate this. It's so trashy. But meanwhile, that's, like, was literally me at the same time, because we were.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, living Jersey Shore, probably. You know what I mean? Like, our own LA version, our own Hollywood.

[Trisha Paytas]

Were you into Jersey Store?

[Tana Mongeau]

Honestly? Yeah. I got more into it as I got older. One time, someone told me that if you have a hangover and you have anxiety and you hate what you did last night, like, go watch an episode of Jersey Shore to make you feel better. And it was the best advice I've ever received.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, just, like, I feel so much better about my life.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like, I'm watching Snooki, like, puke on the beach and roll around and cuss everyone out, and I'm like, oh, my God, I was an angel last night.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

In the best way.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think she was the first one that's like, you know, when she got punched in the face and everyone, like, rallied around her, I was like, oh, damn it. Like, pays to be a victim sometimes. You know what I mean? Because everybody just was, like, on board with Snooki after that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

And it was like, obviously, don't want to get punched in the face. But I was like, good for her for turning it around. Because if it was like, me, I'd be, like, humiliated, mortified, embarrassed. But everyone's just like, no. Snooki was, like, so real.

[Tana Mongeau]

Everyone would have been like, tana deserved that. Story of my life. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Have you ever gotten punched? Like, not in a DV situation, but just, like, out and about, like, at a party?

[Tana Mongeau]

The way I, like, went through a whole. Honestly, no. I've had girls try to fight me, but I've never gotten to the, like.

[Trisha Paytas]

You'Re not a fighter punching.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think growing up, I was much more down, much more, like, ratchy. Now it's like, nose is fake, teeth are fake, lips are fake, faces terrified.

[Trisha Paytas]

If I even think there could be a possible fight happening, I'm just. I'm running as fast as I can.

[Tana Mongeau]

100 now. I'm such a runner. It's like I am the definition of flight. Like, there's all. Yeah. Even on tour.

[Trisha Paytas]

The tour was wild, but that was so me. There are two people there's the people who are like, yeah. You're like, gotta go.

[Tana Mongeau]

I am flight to a T. I, like, frequently run away from things that aren't even. Like, if someone creeps me out in the grocery store, I'm running. Well, that was actually, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

Someone actually came up on stage. Right. That was actually. I would absolutely do the same thing.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was so out of there. I'm such a runner. Speaking of on stage. What?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my gosh.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, can I. First of all, I love O.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's like, what part?

[Tana Mongeau]

You just had your Broadway debut. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

You watched it. That was so cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

Trisha. We had a full watch party party. And it was. And I like, really, you know, I was like, on the fence about going and I just, like, I was like, let her have her moment. Like, 10 would be so far away from that. And then I was like, really do wish I went.

[Trisha Paytas]

I wish more people came in the sense that I didn't. No. But I didn't think it was a big deal either because, like, Moses stayed with the kids. My mom and sister were just home. Like, I just didn't think it was, like, I didn't think it would. I was excited. I just didn't think, like, people would care because to me, I think people thought maybe it was like another tour stop or something where she's like, we rented out a theater. Like, I didn't rent out the theater. It was totally. People did the production on it, like.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And it became a huge thing. And I don't think I knew it was going to be like, that big of a thing.

[Tana Mongeau]

So it was all the more special, though. I had such extreme fomo. But our watch party, it was so emotional. Weirdly, even now, like, talking about it, I'm just like, I'm so proud of you and happy for you and, like, you were so natural up there and just hearing the crowd's reactions and even just seeing everyone on stage, like, it was the girl you had playing Broadway.

[Trisha Paytas]

So good. She was in Gypsy. Right now she's on a Broadway show.

[Tana Mongeau]

She was everything. Everyone was everything. Seeing you with your literal, like, heroes, icons, idols, like, yeah. Your little lost voice. You sound so cute.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was, yeah. No voice. For literally the day I landed, there was no voice. I was like, are you kidding me? Because, like, again, I don't think, like, anyone thinks I'm, like, gonna be Rachel Zegler on stage singing, you know, but it was like, I love singing and I have a passion for it, so to not like, to really just strain to get, like, a little Bit of voice out was. It did suck.

[Tana Mongeau]

But I almost think though that the lost voice was like the testament to you putting your literal blood, sweat, tears in this. My entire. For you, Paige was just you in different rehearsals serving, by the way, no makeup, body tea.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, oh my gosh.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, you did text me. I'm like a Saturday night. You're like, you've looked so great. And I was like, are you okay? Like, what have you seen? I've been looking so nuts. My nose has been red.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're so naturally hot. But I know that you'll try to fight me on that. And it's. You are. It's. But I just like, I'm so happy for you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you. It was actually like such a rush and so much fun and like, yeah, I think like having the Lost Voice gave a little bit more. Like people have to use the word fearless or confident, which just means like, yes, I could never do that because that's like I went up there with like very little to work with, but that's.

[Tana Mongeau]

I could never do that. Don't even think about that in the negative connotation. Like most people could never do that. You are Trisha Paytas and like it just. It shows through and through. And it was just like even. Just that video of you leaving the venue and everyone surrounding you. I was bawling like, oh my God. Like, I can't even. I'm serious. I'm so. Like, nobody does. Oh, my God. I was in Vegas. I'm tired. But like this. Nobody deserves it. Like, you forgive me? Like, I just. Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

It feels good. I mean, it has been like a good like year. Past couple years has been really great.

[Tana Mongeau]

Evan, and you deserve everything. Will you do it again? Absolutely.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. I want to like move there like part time, you know, and do like a full on show and I think if I can sing. The other part was there was like casting people from other shows there, from other Broadway shows. And a lot of times like Chicago is a big one that like, like not influencers, but I would say like, like Erika Jane goes in it. I think like, who else has been at Pam Anderson obviously huge. But I'm trying to think like just other people as Ariana Maddox. Like she went in it.

[Tana Mongeau]

You know what I mean? Oh, no way.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. So it's like a role that a lot of non Broadway people go into. So I was like so excited and I think there was a casting from there and Little Shop is another one that people do and I was like, so it Just made me feel so sad because I was like, they probably think that's, like, how I sing. You know what I mean? Just, like, barely getting notes out.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, everyone knows your lore. Like, everyone in that room has shallow. Everyone in that room. Like, you're. It's. It's insane. And I think you get what you want. You're gonna be in New York doing that. If you want that. I know that I did love it. I'm driving in New York. We're gonna be shooting that Loveline in New York City. I would do. Imagine the city line in the back. Like, this is real. This is quite literally building.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. This is manifesting, I guess. Yeah. We have a new. A new backdrop.

[Tana Mongeau]

The other one.

[Trisha Paytas]

This was always supposed to be the backdrop. It just wasn't gonna come in time. And then I was trying to make the other one work. What was the other. It was like a little.

[Tana Mongeau]

Can I say I'm so mentally vacant that I don't remember the other one.

[Trisha Paytas]

It memorable. It was like a. What would you call it?

[Tana Mongeau]

It was futuristic like this, but it was a road.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's a road with like a big car on it. Like a futuristic car.

[Tana Mongeau]

Devin. The fact that we are both having to ask. To us as human beings, like, to a team.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was very, like. It was more masculine, arcadey looking. This one I always like.

[Tana Mongeau]

This is gorge.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, so, yeah, this is it with the leopard.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. And I can't wait.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know about the plants either. I love them, but every time it's like between two. What's the word? Two ferns.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God, I forgot about that. Was that Galifianakis?

[Trisha Paytas]

Is that not still on? I thought it was, like, thing Now.

[Tana Mongeau]

I have no idea if he's still ferning, but I know it was iconic. Like, he was like, interviewing Obama.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's right. He was like the original Bobby Altoff. He was like. I guess she probably copied him.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. I never. I've never even thought about that, actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

Bobby Altoff. I don't know if she's still making podcasts. Talk to us.

[Tana Mongeau]

Back making podcasts, Dude, I saw that with the coin. That is like, she's back. I mean, dude, I feel so, like, sad. I think for that whole. Yeah, obviously there's a level where you have to hold her accountable, but, like, at the same time, like, bad management can really just.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I actually. That's my hot take. I never. I never loved the Hawk to a brand. And it's not her. It's not Haley. It's like, the Jake Paul of it all, the Bill Maher, all the guys, like, pushing her to be like, this sexual thing when I was like, okay, I don't think that's her brand. I love it all. And obviously this coin reeks, man. Somehow in there, like a male management.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I always just wonder, I think as like, even just like, not to blame one specific person on her management team, but just with every young girl in this industry, I think especially when I do stuff with them, I always leave. Like, even I'd be up in the Bop house. Like, are y'all happy? You know what I mean? Like, Bop House.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because you tweeted Astrovino was in the Bop house. I'm like, what is the bop?

[Tana Mongeau]

Are you there, Trisha? Oh, my God, I'm not there. I think that 2019 me would have had a sleeping bag in the living room.

[Trisha Paytas]

Who's in it? Who's in the Bob house?

[Tana Mongeau]

Who's in the Bob house? Why am I blanking? Ari. Ari was Ari Katka.

[Trisha Paytas]

Sophie Rain.

[Tana Mongeau]

Sophie Rain. It's a bunch of. Of girls who are living in a house together. Yes. I love that.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's so cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

And honestly, it is cute. And they're making a killing, obviously. And it's like the first. I feel like. I feel like a lot of people have tried of collab houses and they more so were giving like, brothel. And this one is very much. You can tell it's like the girls are running that it was there. I think that's why it never worked before. It was like management agencies and men trying to, like, get girls in a house. Whereas you can tell the girls are, like, doing this. And then, I don't know, Ash Trevino came over.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's wild. Is she doing.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh have now I have. I wouldn't be surprised.

[Trisha Paytas]

Probably would, right? I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

I mean, she was like, he see my pee pee and his new noo and whatever. His pee pee.

[Trisha Paytas]

My new. New has pee pee.

[Tana Mongeau]

I can't stop calling Mokoa Pee pee and calling myself Nunu. Like, I'm actually out to lunch.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think it's a cute. I don't know her lore, but I mean, it sounds cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think that's cute because it sounds like, you know when like, people call their, like, southern grandparents, like, weird random nicknames like, like, I think that's cute.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's just a live streamer, right? Like, yeah, people are tuning in because it's like a train wreck, I guess.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

Quite literally, like car crash. You cannot look away from but she's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just, like, making money. So she's like, I'm gonna keep. I always kind of. Again, hot take. Kind of feel bad for people like that, because I get it. It's like, the money because you're kind of rewarding this. Like, that's the problem is, like, she's getting money from it. And so then she didn't keep doing it 100.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's the thing is everyone's like, have her on canceled. And I'm like, that's such a fine line. Because it's like, I understand. People would watch. And, like, we all have questions.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

But, like, I don't know. You know what I mean? I'm not Diane. What's her name?

[Trisha Paytas]

Sawyer.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. I was gonna say Summer. Diane Sawyer. Suzanne Summers. I bet.

[Trisha Paytas]

RIP she just recently passed away.

[Tana Mongeau]

Really?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. I loved her. Diane Sawyer. Interviewing Ash Trevino would be wild.

[Tana Mongeau]

That would be so funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

She was the worst, though. Have you ever looked at old interviews with her by Britney Spears? She was such a cunt.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was just like, yeah, like, just. Oh, my God. All of the.

[Trisha Paytas]

She, like, blamed her for, like, justin, why did you do that to Justin? Why did you break his arm? Like, Like.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, quite literally. And has never apologized. All of that. I think even, like, Lindsay Lohan and, like, oh, my God, like, who else? Howard Stern to Anna Nicole Smith. I will never.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't even. I remember watching him and, like, loving him. Obviously, when I'm actually got talent then, like, seeing those clips now, I actually want to punch him in the balls. Like, I wish I could be invited on his show. Just, like, spit in his face because I'm like, that's the craziest thing I've ever seen. And I was like. But I remember I was so warped. I was like, I love him. He's so funny, so handsome. I was like, 100 apologies. That's what I'm saying. They're old now. And when you're old, it's like, apologize. Like, be like, you know what?

[Tana Mongeau]

Percent I think that we should have a apology tour for all interviewers. Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Jimmy Kimmel, too.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Was it. Is that. Was it Jimmy Kimmel who, like, flat out put Lindsay Lohan on the spot about, like, her David Letterman. David. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. He was like, telling her, like, you're going to rehab. You just went to rehab, like. And she, like, she was so uncomfortable. She's like, you don't want to answer the questions.

[Tana Mongeau]

He was full body goosebumps. I can't. That interview makes you on a projectile.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I Think Cher called him one time trigger. And like, I like love that Jimmy came out of the man show, which was like super misogynistic. And I used to like love that as a kid too. And like looking back, I was like, they were so. And now he's super woke, which is like great. But I think you have to like Jimmy.

[Tana Mongeau]

So Dobrik coded. I don't know how to explain that's why. Do you kind of like see where I'm coming from? No, I love making.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I could see it. I could see it. David Dobrik like in like when he's 40 becoming Jimmy Campbell and everyone just like forgetting about David Dobrik's past and just being like, like, and him never having to take accountability. He gets to be Jimmy Kimmel. He wants to be. I think that was his dream, is to be like a Jimmy Fallon. Like I think he wants to do that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, that's Jimmy Fallon. Might be a better comparison. Your hair looks amazing on a complete side. No, I'm like, wow.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love a little clip in extensions.

[Tana Mongeau]

Are they just clip ins?

[Trisha Paytas]

Just clip ins.

[Tana Mongeau]

They look.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yours too.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, girl, I'm a mess. I like Trisha. I just. Typical Tana. Like I'm sitting here on what Wednesday was that?

[Trisha Paytas]

Wednesday?

[Tana Mongeau]

No, no, no. I mean on Wednesday. I. I wasn't gonna play in this poker tournament. I get an invite and I'm sitting there on Wednesday thinking to myself, you are going to be so exhausted on not Loveline when you come to film. But like I wanted to go and I just. Oh my. I went to bed at 5am last night and then got on a 7am plane.

[Trisha Paytas]

Are you even functioning?

[Tana Mongeau]

I took a little nap and honestly nothing gets me up more like Trisha Paytas. Like, I'm not even kidding.

[Trisha Paytas]

Coffee. You gotta remember to order like food and coffee.

[Tana Mongeau]

I brought a little like watered down coffee from this morning. Like literally in Vegas.

[Trisha Paytas]

You look so good. I would never know.

[Tana Mongeau]

You are so sweet.

[Trisha Paytas]

Stay up late or what?

[Tana Mongeau]

I went to 5am but what did.

[Trisha Paytas]

You do until then?

[Tana Mongeau]

Gamble.

[Trisha Paytas]

You love a gamble.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

You win.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, at all. It's like insane. I just, I love it. It's like my iPad, Kid dopamine. And it's so fun.

[Trisha Paytas]

I wonder what it is. Cuz they set you up to lose in Vegas, right? Like no one really.

[Tana Mongeau]

The house always wins. That's quite literally the phrase. And it's like I. I mean my parents quite literally taught me Texas hold them hands before the Alphabet. So it's in my Blood. And like, just. Even just growing up in that scene, it's like, that's what you do for fun. And, like, I love it. And poker especially, not necessarily. Gambling is a man's world.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And you go sit down at those tables. And men, like, quite literally yesterday, I had two different men tell me they're gonna, like, take my money. And then, like, they placed lower than me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, it's the best high to, like.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love taking a man's money. You know what I mean? And, like, I do just love Vegas for, like, 24 hours, but that's quick.

[Trisha Paytas]

So you only went for 24 hours?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And it was just like, such a. I don't know. It's such a crazy blunt rotation, these tournaments, too. I'm like, playing poker with Waka Flocka and I'm like, this is not, like, yeah. Oh, my God. Like an influencer or like, he's a rapper. Yeah. And like, UFC fighters, people. You don't give a flying.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do you love it? Are you excited about.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. Like, one of my favorite fighters was like. And, you know, why do I love that? It's so not on brand for me mentally. But, like, I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, that's so interesting. I didn't know you love, like, like, so, like, UFC fights.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, I love UFC fights. I don't love football. We've talked about that.

[Trisha Paytas]

But, like, right. No super bowl free.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just love the fights because I, like, can't look away. Same.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's so interesting. I get scared. I get, like, nervous. Watch.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know, I know. It is, like, an interesting concept, for sure.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's so Vegas of you. It's like fights and poker.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is. It really is. My Vegas shows in that way. But yeah, so I'm like. I'm gonna really be saying some delusional today.

[Trisha Paytas]

I am, like, so excited for it.

[Tana Mongeau]

I honestly am. And you're mogging me. I wasn't even gonna, like, address this, but, like, I'm giving. You know, like when Will Smith was on the red carpet with Jada and he was going like this at her, like, that's me today. Like, this is me.

[Trisha Paytas]

You so cute. No, mine. Thank you. Mine. You know, we love a fashion of a fit.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, cute one. Is yours cute minus Dairy Boy. Like Paige Lorenz's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, why did this sound so familiar? Oh, right. Alexis Oakley did a tick tock today saying she was waiting for the dairy boy drop and then missed it today. And I was like, what the hell's a Dairy Boy? You're the Second person.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I didn't know about it until a couple weeks ago. But she's like very clean girl and then like influencers brand. Yeah. And then she just like makes little clean girl things. Like and in my dream world I'd have like a slick back bun right now. No, no winged liner, but you know what I mean.

[Trisha Paytas]

The slick back bun was a movement for sure. Is it still a thing in 2025?

[Tana Mongeau]

I look like, like scary with a slickie.

[Trisha Paytas]

I tried it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like my forehead is entering the room like 20 minutes before me and it's just like I need hair in my face face.

[Trisha Paytas]

I went for like a little strip when I do it. But I still look stupid.

[Tana Mongeau]

No you don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

I need to full hair.

[Tana Mongeau]

I agree though. It's like my shield. The hair in the tan is just always going to save you from feeling some type of way. But I was getting a little crazy with my spirit ends last week. Like I don't even know. Get your dollars up with dollar up on DraftKings Casino, hit the reels for a modern take on old school styled slots. New players can play five bucks to get a spin on the mystery wheel for a shot at up to 2,000 in casino credit. Download the app and sign up with code not loveline. Then play $up exclusively on DraftKings Casino. The crown is yours.

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Gamble responsibly and you get someone come and spray you.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And it's just, I don't know. I need to dial back my addiction. I. I literally was saying I'm turning into your character on my strange addiction.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like actually like I did love being tan too. I'm trying to wean myself off of that as well.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, cuz you look amazing. It's like it's just a personal thing. Like, like, you know what I mean? Like I'm looking and I'm not like, oh, a tan. But then I look at me.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I know exactly what you mean. I never look at anyone and think they need a tan. But for me, I'm always.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And then I feel like I'm giving like Wonder Bread, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Well, this is our Valentine's Day episode. By the way. If you have a question for us. I know we're like halfway into the episode. Call us here.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Ask us your questions and if you have super spicy questions, we answer them on Patreon. Patreon.com not loveline. It is correction. Over on our Patreon, we have to just give more and more because honestly, that's where we have the most support right now. I was looking at it the other day. I was like, just everything I do a summary to like Tana's like people, her manager and account and everything. So I like do it all myself. I get the summary and Patreon as question. You guys love it. We post every Friday on there. So fun extended. Yes. Every week. And it's like sexy. So if you have like sexy questions.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, we. Devon was saying we need even more spicy. More spicy.

[Trisha Paytas]

The spicier the better. The crazier. They are pretty crazy. I was going to say the crazier the better, but we. It's wild.

[Tana Mongeau]

We do get some crazy, crazy questions over there and it's so fun. It really. We always say this, but we bond so much too. Like, like cuz we really start sharing.

[Trisha Paytas]

We know everything. If you need any questions about our sex life. Nothing's unanswered.

[Tana Mongeau]

No. At all. Every single episode on the Patreon, I share something that like you shouldn't be able to waterboard out of me. It's like, oh my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

Same. I know. I always see clips, like little clips here and there. Moses is always like, what does this mean? Cuz I think the one that got clipped or not clipped, but it's like, it was like a quote. Was like Trisha referring to her sex life as the quiet place and was like, what is this? Where is this from? It's like it's Patreon.

[Tana Mongeau]

Just quiet. Literally. Hope Moa never sees the Patreon because we go. So ball to the wall, by the way.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Do you. I have two random pitches for you. Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

Love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think that we should do an April Fool's Day or just around that time episode where it's Mokoa and Moses.

[Trisha Paytas]

Love it. Just be like the. The joke is like it's us, but it's Not.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And like, quite literally, they answer. They answer the question.

[Trisha Paytas]

Real, like, actually answer.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

What? Obviously he's upstairs, but McColl what I.

[Tana Mongeau]

Asked him on the phone today. He like, absolutely wants to. Yeah. Yeah. And I think that their personalities, weirdly, would like, vibe so well.

[Trisha Paytas]

I actually have no idea how that would work. Cuz like, yeah, the chemistry. I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think I weirdly think like them and their. Their water. They're calm. Like they. I think it'd be much more wholesome and like, real advice.

[Trisha Paytas]

I wonder if they could like, I don't know, Makoa like that on a social level. But Moses is like. I mean, he's so funny because I always think he can't like, converse. But then he can. But he's like, I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, he absolutely can. And Makoa is so similar to Moses. Almost like. I feel like they both kind of carry the like, almost speak when spoken to Vibe. Like, they're. They're so chill. But then they both carry such a good conversation wonder.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's like they're so chill. It's like speak with no.

[Tana Mongeau]

But I think. I think they would answer it. I think I have faith in them.

[Trisha Paytas]

Honestly, I love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm down if it's a dumb idea. Scrap of my second idea. I love it.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it. Let us know if you guys like it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, let us know if you want that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Honestly, I just think.

[Tana Mongeau]

Imagine them answering like, you know what I mean? Just like the.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm so weirdly, like. I don't know what the word is. Moses would do it in a heartbeat. I'm so much more like, protective. I'm like, okay. I like, look over him. I'm just like, okay, I hope you're okay. Again, like, even when we do just Trish, I'm always just like. I don't know. I get nervous when he talks. I don't know why. Because he's like, not like anything. I don't know. I'm just like, weird.

[Tana Mongeau]

You and I would be actually sitting here like, cleansing like dance moms. But it'd be fun.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. I'm such. I'm so bad with that. I would like, try to like, interrupt or like, take over, but. Yeah, me too.

[Tana Mongeau]

We're the. And we're so lucky to have them because, like, we are the stars and we want to be. And like, they love it. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

But okay, I love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

My other pitch is people would love it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Moa doesn't talk. He doesn't like go on camera a lot.

[Tana Mongeau]

You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

So I think that's good.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think it'd be really, really fun. I just made him do a try on haul to like test the waters and he honestly did. He did a couple. Yeah. A little white fox.

[Trisha Paytas]

They love that. I know Fashion Nova loves this like boyfriend rates my outfit and it's easy.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like less work for me. So I love it.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it too. Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

We should also do a pajama day. Like silk pajamas or something.

[Trisha Paytas]

Every time.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love when we get our leopard chairs. The leopard Dolce and Gabbana is restocking.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we can spy Dolce. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And like we'll literally blend in. We'll just be floating hats.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's my goal is to always wear leopard. Just every episode pajamas.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's so flattering.

[Trisha Paytas]

The skims Dulce is like so comfortable. I have every single piece from the collection.

[Tana Mongeau]

It was like made for you. I can't even express it enough. Like the way you look in it. It's like I don't want to wear it. Next know like 100.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're going to wear it together. We're going to be on it. Yes. I love it. Pajama day leopards.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm so excited.

[Trisha Paytas]

You're medium.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. Just want make sure. Okay, got it. I'll get it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Sometimes I love like oversized though. Depending on the. For me that's expensive. I'll go home and buy.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my gosh. It's on it.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're done.

[Trisha Paytas]

Not love.

[Tana Mongeau]

Not love. Line water.

[Trisha Paytas]

You won't be there for the relaunches. You won't be up. It'll be up. It's like 7am I got to get on red me.

[Tana Mongeau]

I won't be up.

[Trisha Paytas]

You are so on time. I'm so not used to it. Like you come literally at if it's 4 Tennessee at 405. It's like I'm so not used to it yet.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's so funny. Today it was like 4:13 and I was like, oh my God. No, no.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's crazy how on time you. Every time we've done this, you've been.

[Tana Mongeau]

Cuz I know you'll just be waiting and especially when we shoot later. I know that you hate filming later into the night. So I like don't want to be the not late, not not late line. Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. By the end of the sec. Fourth episode, which is our second Patreon, I'm like just.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't oh, my God. The things we say on that fourth Patreon. Truly, like, don't even. That's not even me.

[Trisha Paytas]

I never review and you never review the Patreons. You review the main ones. We never review the Patreon, so who knows? I never look at anything, so I have no idea what comes.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. I know. And we just. We just be yapping. I mean, I feel like it's good.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we're pretty good because, like, because we talk about saucy things on there. It can't be clipped anywhere. So it's.

[Tana Mongeau]

Which is. No, it's actually. It's the perfect formula. I think that's why I don't, like, review. Like, if. If it could be clipped to Tik Tok, I probably would. But it truly feels like a safe space, which is. I. Forgive me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Love those. I love it so much.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know so much.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's not Loveline and Valentine's Day coming up. What are you doing for Valentine's Day?

[Tana Mongeau]

I honestly don't know yet.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, you don't plan? Does he plan?

[Tana Mongeau]

He does plan and he really slays. He's very, like, sentimental and, like, just does lots of, like, cute little things and stuff. I am gonna try. Last year, I, like, didn't do Jack or Makoa. And then I was like, wait, oh, my God. We were just newly dating, and I, like, didn't know what he was gonna do and, like, stuff, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

What did you do?

[Tana Mongeau]

We ended up. He ordered dinner. Like a lavo, Like a nice meal at home. And we ate it with candles. He got me a bunch of cute little presents. And then we. We painted each other. We, like, sat down with watercolors and, like, we're staring at each other and painted each other.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's fun.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then he painted my roots. I was like, you could have left those out of the painting.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love that he used to pay attention, details. Who set it up, who set the canvases up and stuff.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, it was like paper and watercolors. I just had it. It was kind of like a last minute idea. We were just like, let's do it. But it was cute to, like, be at home. Honestly.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love being home. Going out for Valentine's Day is, like, the craziest.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know. And then you're like, in the whole dress and, like, the heels. Like, my dream world is like, I was in, like, a tank top and sweats. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just being comfy.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And, like, eating and, like, we smoked and, like, it was just, like, so cute. I don't know what we'll do this year. I'm excited for whatever. There was something that he planned for our one year anniversary. And then I got injections the night before our one year anniversary. So then I couldn't walk. So then we couldn't do whatever he planned. So, like, maybe we'll just.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know what it was supposed to be.

[Tana Mongeau]

He's been. He won't tell me. He's like. But he's like, no, this one's for the next anniversary.

[Trisha Paytas]

This will be your two year anniversary coming up in October.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Or wait, coming up in December. Jesus Christ.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because I remember you came on like October. You said you kind of met. Maybe it was December.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. We officially started dating in December. Which I don't think I've ever officially been dating someone that fast in my entire life, but I just knew, you know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah. Minutes, like get there.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I was like drunk on our. When we started dating. So I was like sobbing. I was like, I love you.

[Trisha Paytas]

How do you even ask someone if you were dating? Did you just say, are we? What are we?

[Tana Mongeau]

We were. Yeah, that's exact happened. I'm not even kidding. And it's so funny that I'm hitting this man with the. What are we? He's like, what's your middle name? Like, you know what I mean? It's like you.

[Trisha Paytas]

What is your middle name?

[Tana Mongeau]

Marie.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, Tana Marie. That's so pretty.

[Tana Mongeau]

Okay, Yours is Kate, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Wow, you have a good memory. Tana Marie. That's pretty.

[Tana Mongeau]

Donnie and Marie.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's right. We're going to go see them.

[Tana Mongeau]

We have to.

[Trisha Paytas]

We quite literally.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. I want to. Maybe that's her first outing. No, I'm not kidding. It's Vegas.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

But we stay at Harrah's. I want the whole Trisha experience.

[Trisha Paytas]

The Harrah's is so fun.

[Tana Mongeau]

I want like the entire Trisha experience.

[Trisha Paytas]

They have a really good, like Ruth's Chris actually at Harris.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. You've been telling me I want to go. And like, truly, like, we need a pink limo. We need like, absolutely.

[Trisha Paytas]

We had to go at like 5pm too, when no one's there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's like the earliest dinner reservation you can get at.

[Tana Mongeau]

I would love.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because then the Show's at like 7, so it's like right downstairs and you just feel like, yeah, ready to go?

[Tana Mongeau]

We're going.

[Trisha Paytas]

All right. Donnie, Donny Osmond's manager actually reached out to us after the Broadway debut, reached out to Moses and was like, oh, I showed Donnie and he's really loved it. And I was like, so happy because Donny Osman's the reason I want to do Broadway, so.

[Tana Mongeau]

Stop it. We're coming to manifesting a moment with him in Vegas. Would you do that?

[Trisha Paytas]

I would love. I'm performing April 12th at the Cosmos, so if he wants to.

[Tana Mongeau]

At the Chelsea.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Oh, yeah. You play there? Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is so iconic. You're going to have so much fun.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you feel ever on tour is how I feel because we're doing Radio City Music hall and like, the Greek too, that maybe the show isn't big enough for, like, those kind of.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. When I am on stage, like, exposing a rapper in, like, these esteemed. For me, a big thing was not only the iconic places, like even the Chelsea. You're walking through, seeing Adam sand learn, like, all the people on the walls and it's like, Jesus Christ.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, what am I doing?

[Tana Mongeau]

But also the architecture, for some reason really got me. Like, I would be in these theaters that were quite literally built by hand. You know what I mean? Just beautiful. Talking about. And it's like, holy. You know what I'm saying?

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know how to get quite over that because, like, Hugh Jackman was just at Radio City Music hall for like a week with, like, an orchestra behind him. I'm like, do I really go with, like, my track and, like, my music videos playing behind me?

[Tana Mongeau]

And just like, like, at the end of the day, like, our fans are the reason that we're doing this tour. And that is what love. But yeah, we had a night where we were playing the same venue at the same time as, like, Jerry Seinfeld and, like, our crowds. It was so funny to see all of the girls and the gays and the days and then all of the, like, boomer Jerry Seinfeld crowd, like, they.

[Trisha Paytas]

Were horrified playing the same night.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, it was like a theater that had two. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Two stages.

[Tana Mongeau]

I haven't. No, you.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's great. That's the craziest thing I ever heard of.

[Tana Mongeau]

Why do I feel like we were in Ohio? I might be making that up.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know where we were, but.

[Tana Mongeau]

But it was. Seeing the two crowds. I felt so bad for the Seinfeld crowd. Like, just. It. It was so funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's wild. Yeah. No, it was crazy. I know. With the. When we did the Broadway show too, like, literally everyone's like, they didn't even have enough barricades. Cuz like, we just never see, like, fans like, this on Broadway, you know, they were just like so sh.

[Tana Mongeau]

And my.

[Trisha Paytas]

And two, when I came out it was like so loud and thunderous. Which is great for a live show. But Broadway, it's like so funny cuz like you have to hear music cues and like wait for it, like whatever you like couldn't hear anything. And it's wonderful but like I couldn't imagine doing like Chicago and just like never getting through a line. Cuz everyone's just like, oh, that is.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like the most con out. You know, like at the end of the day it's so. So iconic. Yeah. There's definitely a lot of imposter syndrome. I think with touring, you know, I feel. Yeah, because it's just like how the did I get here? And it. I. I don't think it'll ever. It's always pinched me when you see. We see the numbers on not Loveline every week. You know what I mean? And on just Trish and on Canceled and everything. But then, then you see those people in person and you see their outfits and their shirts and they tell you their stories and oh my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, they'll be like, my dad will be like, I saw everyone like in pink rushing to the theater. He's like, I knew to just follow that.

[Tana Mongeau]

I saw him getting a little interview and it was so cute.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was like Oscar Crave. You know those craves.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oscar who got an interview with my dad was so funny.

[Tana Mongeau]

I didn't know that that guy was Oscar Crave because I follow the craves on Twitter.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, he showed his face. A lot of the craves, like to be anonymous, but he shows. Trish Craven was there too, but he doesn't show his face. He's also super cute. He's like a really cute guy. They're both cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

That is so sweet and amazing that everyone was just there. It was like so cool and it's just. I don't even know. I love seeing. I love that you have all your different eras too. I think it's so cool seeing all the fans, cosplay, the things that you have. It truly feels like this like just community of like besties and imagine how many people probably became like best friends forever. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

I always say that my shows. A lot of people come alone actually and it's really cool because they all like meet each other and it's really fun.

[Tana Mongeau]

I couldn't agree more. I think it's the people who come alone are my favorite people because I'm like, you're a bad. Yeah, it's it's iconic.

[Trisha Paytas]

We love, we love to see it.

[Tana Mongeau]

So your makeup looks great too. I'm just staring at you like I haven't seen you feel so long. Well, you're doing the most iconic. Iconic.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, oh my God, so are you.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yo, I'm not kidding, Trisha. When we were at home watching, you said like, and shout out to all the people at home, like streaming. And I was like, I was like too moved. Like I was crying and goosebumps. I was like, that's amazing.

[Trisha Paytas]

Were you watching it like live?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wow.

[Tana Mongeau]

And we all just like had a cute moment and it wasn't here.

[Trisha Paytas]

It must have been like 4:00 or something. In the afternoon?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, like, no, like five or six, I think.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, right. Because it was eight there, so. Yeah, probably.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And we all just. It was so fun. Everyone was at the house and then we just went down to the theater and like blacked it out and we felt like we were there and it was like so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God, that's so cool to see. Yeah. Thank God for Tick Tock. I was just thinking like, if Tick Tock got banned, like, I love going home afterwards and just seeing all the clips and oh my God, if Tick Tock wasn't around, like seeing the get.

[Tana Mongeau]

Ready with me is and like feeling like you're there. It's like the fo. Like obviously you go on Instagram, you see all the photos, but yeah, seeing and even just like all the girls like in their car on their way.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, oh, it's literally like it's my whole timeline or just seeing like reviews of it too. People were so nice. Like I was just so like mortified thinking like, oh God, I'm gonna get ripped apart. Which I kind of already knew do with like my voice anyways. But then like my voice being gone as I got people gonna. But people were so nice and I.

[Tana Mongeau]

Was like so much more than just your voice. And again, I really do think the lost voice speaks volumes to how much of yourself you put into this. Like, you truly gave it your all and it showed and it was like so proud of me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God, thank you. So much fun. I know. I really don't feel like I have any. Like, I don't know. That was my dream. I don't know any other dreams. What's your dreams? What's your biggest one?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know. I really. I guess this God forsaken book I can't even put out this year. Trisha. I'm trying. I was actually writing on it last night because I couldn't sleep. And it's. It's so funny, the questions I'm googling, like, how old are you in third grade? When did Hannah Montana, how old are.

[Trisha Paytas]

You in third grade?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, how old is a person in third grade? Like, I have to fact check everything because I don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know.

[Tana Mongeau]

Trying to, like, figure out, you know, it's just. It's so. The details are so crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is crazy to, like, try and, like, remember things through, I guess. Your life has been so on the Internet since you were a teenager. She could go back to your videos almost and be like, I have to.

[Tana Mongeau]

For that time, really rely on my digital footprint and just the people in my life. Thank God for like, Amari and Isabella and stuff. But I remember there yet. Yeah, he remembers everything, which is so great. But the childhood is crazy. It does come to you as you write. Like, even last night I was like, just telling this. Writing about this story about just my mom and just this, like, awful story, like, whatever. But then I remember that after this, like, awful day, I went home and watched Hannah Montana. And that didn't come to me until I was in the writing process. And then I was, like, realizing how much Han Montana almost shaped me, like, because I would go home and, like, wish that I was Miley Stewart and that Robbie Ray was my dad and that I could live this double life where I was famous and that people loved me for. You know what I mean, me. And, like, it came to me in the. In the moment as I was writing it. So I was like, you know, it's. It's doable. It's just tough.

[Trisha Paytas]

It goes so deep, too. Like Hannah Montana. You just think like, whatever, but it's actually, like, so deep.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, exactly. Like you. I don't even think, oh, I need to write about Hannah Montana. But then as I'm in this story, like, remembering being in third grade, how I thought it went home and you know what I mean, wished I was Haley Stewart, you know, and you are now.

[Trisha Paytas]

I feel like you're kind of. You kind of do have that life.

[Tana Mongeau]

Best of both worlds, I mean, I guess. Yeah. But I think that even just Hannah Montana and Icarly now, looking back, watching those in trying times, even before YouTube shaped me to want to do what.

[Trisha Paytas]

I wanted to do, I. Carly, which one is that?

[Tana Mongeau]

She. It was Miranda Cosgrove and she had, like, a web show on the Internet. And this was almost like as the very first YouTubers like Ray William Johnson was posting at the same Time that this show came out.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like what year is this, you think?

[Tana Mongeau]

God damn. I. I don't know. I really don't know. I mean probably like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Are you a teenager?

[Tana Mongeau]

11. 12.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, oh, 2007. So I'm like 18. So you must have been like eight.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, so yeah, so I was nine.

[Trisha Paytas]

Nine, yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

When it came out and then so probably loving it when I was like 11. And that makes perfect sense. It was like the jump before YouTube.

[Trisha Paytas]

But wow, they were on it back then. It was a Nickelodeon show. Yeah, yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And she like had a little web show and like. You know what I mean? Like it like. I don't know, even just those things now looking back like made me want to do that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. So.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Your inspo. Have you ever met them? Have you ever met like Miranda Cosgrove or Hannah Montana?

[Tana Mongeau]

I didn't. Miranda Cosgrove.

[Trisha Paytas]

How was it?

[Tana Mongeau]

It was honestly amazing. It was a wild night. That's the story for the book. Really? Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And was she like wild maybe? Yeah, like a.

[Tana Mongeau]

What did she say when she. She's like, I cuss a little. I'm like, yeah, a little.

[Trisha Paytas]

What did she say? What is that line?

[Tana Mongeau]

She goes, it's Whitney Cummings asking her if she cusses. And then she says what her favorite curse word is. Probably. Probably. Oh yeah, yeah. Oh, I love her.

[Trisha Paytas]

Love her too.

[Tana Mongeau]

She's everything. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Much better. I like that.

[Tana Mongeau]

She's one of those people, I think that has always just been like good, you know, like perfectly clean, brand good. Adorable. She looks the exact same. She had a really crazy stalker, you know? Like really.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, what happened?

[Tana Mongeau]

I mean they show up to her house. I don't. Can you look up? This is public knowledge. Because I don't want to out it if. If So I guess cut this but like feel like.

[Trisha Paytas]

I feel like this sounds familiar.

[Tana Mongeau]

He. He set himself on fire in her lawn. How crazy is that?

[Trisha Paytas]

Did she ever have any interaction with him?

[Tana Mongeau]

I. I know he would like follow her a lot and like even just in my like deep depths of my stalker Josh Peek would give me a lot of advice. Cuz he like saw it through her, you know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

That is so wild. Oh my gosh.

[Tana Mongeau]

So sad. Yeah, he. Oh yeah, he shot at her from her car. It was. Oh yeah. Yeah. Like she for some reason had a gut feeling one night that she should go stay at her parents house because of her stalker. And then. And a car drove by her house that was the same make and model as her car. And he shot at the car. Isn't that crazy. The chills on my face. Poor thing.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is she, like, out there? Is she, like, doing stuff out there now, like, publicly or. She's kind of.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I think she still acts. I know. There was an icarly reboot. Yeah. And it was actually like, really good. They, like, kind of made it adulty and, like, which is cool. I feel like a lot of reboots, like, you know what I mean? Like, Fuller House, they just try to, like, pick up where they left off.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, did anyone watch it?

[Tana Mongeau]

Full House.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you watch Fuller House?

[Tana Mongeau]

I tried to.

[Trisha Paytas]

I loved Full House, too, but Fuller House, I don't know. I couldn't get behind.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. I, like, watched a few episodes, and it just wasn't the same.

[Trisha Paytas]

But, like, that's JoJo Siwa's number one nemesis is Candace Cameron Beret.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

They have beef. She really doesn't like her.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. That was, like, passionate.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Candace Cameron was weirdly passionate about that. I didn't love that.

[Trisha Paytas]

No. She's crazy. She's, like, just hates, like, D.J.

[Tana Mongeau]

Tanner. Like, D.J. tanner would not have been homophobic.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's so true. I think she's. She was like, Hallmark movies shouldn't have gay couples. I was like, girl, it's a Hallmark movie. Like, what are you upset about?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, okay. Are you the Hallmark movie police?

[Trisha Paytas]

She is. I think so. Yeah. D.J.

[Tana Mongeau]

Tanner would have never. Her. You know, her and Gibble were scissoring. Like, come on.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is the ultimate LGBT couple.

[Tana Mongeau]

Kimmy Gibbler was for sure lazing out. Come on. We take a question on that.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know. Are we even?

[Tana Mongeau]

I went through 1500 calls.

[Trisha Paytas]

1,500.

[Tana Mongeau]

Impressive. All right, Lived a life.

[Trisha Paytas]

Let's answer some questions.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. But also, like, what food should we order? I know I'm starving.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. What are you thinking?

[Tana Mongeau]

Something insane.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, what's insane?

[Tana Mongeau]

I know, like, actual, like, bubble gut surprise. Like, I need some.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, I just gotta.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I always want to say Chili's. Like a Nashville. Mozzarella sticks always sounds amazing. Chili is good, but I'm down for your pick. I feel like Chili's.

[Trisha Paytas]

We can do chilies.

[Tana Mongeau]

I feel like I always pick.

[Trisha Paytas]

I like a Chili's.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm down if you're down, but maybe we'll look. We'll peruse.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. Go on.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, we'll. I never got to have it with my family when I went home.

[Trisha Paytas]

Chili's. Okay. We'll try.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're having it tonight? Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're good at Chili's. Is.

[Tana Mongeau]

Or we could do something different so we can mukbang it and it's different. Like, we can see if there's anything.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think your channel should only be Chili's book.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, you're right. But at this point it's like, pay me.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it. I love that everything is just Chilies.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I would accept a Sizzler or Applebee sponsorship. That's why Chili's isn't gonna pay me.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know Sizzler show around?

[Tana Mongeau]

I think so. Yeah. I actually saw. Yes, I saw one in like North Hollywood or something.

[Trisha Paytas]

A Sizzler.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. I just saw a Sizzler driving recently. I was like, damn, I should go there.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's crazy. Do you like Carl's Jr.

[Tana Mongeau]

I haven't had in so long.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you see the Alex Earl Carl's junior Super bowl commercial?

[Tana Mongeau]

That is like whoever did that. Genius marketing. Whoever was at the CARL's junior headquarters and said, we need like a modern day moment. And it's so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Look so good. She looked so good like that.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I literally just want to be a hater because I'm so damn jealous.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, for sure. If I was like 10 years ago, I'd be like, that could have been me. Even now I'm like, that could have been me. I mean, that should have been me. Like, I get so jealous.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. That should have. Like, you would slay that.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's crazy. Don't think that's quite their brand.

[Tana Mongeau]

It almost reminds me of you. I could see you doing something like that and paying homage to you almost in like the Eminem music video. Like that same energy burger, like on a vintage car. Hot. So hot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Sign me up. No, I loved it. I think I recreated that commercial, the Car Junior one with Paris Hilton. I did it for a music video. I like, loved that so much. I think I tweeted it today just to remind people. I was like, just so you know.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait, are you in Paris Hilton?

[Trisha Paytas]

No, it was me recreating the Paris Hilton where she's like in the black one piece swimsuit. It's like a commercial she did. Probably were like a baby.

[Tana Mongeau]

I always think I know your entire discography and lore, and I get something new every single time.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love the Carl Jr. Commercial I did. The game was too so hot back then. She looked. She looks so good.

[Tana Mongeau]

And being able to eat a burger and be hot is. I know for a fact I could not do that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, you could do it. What would your super bowl commercial be if you could go with any branch?

[Tana Mongeau]

Well, you know. Yeah, I'm shocked.

[Trisha Paytas]

They have it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Chilies. What else do I really like? Venus razors. They're good.

[Trisha Paytas]

What would you do? You do the song?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, like, shaving my pits. Like, I love them.

[Trisha Paytas]

I can't shave mine. I always miss a spot in the middle all the time. Why is it in the middle?

[Tana Mongeau]

Sabrina Carpenter put her arms up at the Grammys, and I straight up took a big, fat sigh. I was like, my armpit will never be that. So it wasn't even an armpit. It was like a forearm in the armpit.

[Trisha Paytas]

Get waxed.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yep. But still, even I just laser.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, laser. It never works for me. I used to always do laser, but I never worked. I used to try and get my everything lasered.

[Tana Mongeau]

I always want to get laser, but whenever I go and get my tattoo lasered off.

[Trisha Paytas]

Which one?

[Tana Mongeau]

Youngest on my ass. Because it's like, you're not gonna have young on your when you're 45.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, but that's everything if you're like, 50 with youngest.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know there is a point there where I could. I have it, like, halfway still. I'm at the halfway point.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's wild.

[Tana Mongeau]

I could keep it. Yeah, it's. Oh, my God. I got it at 10 con during 10. No. People are getting sunburns, and you're tattooing young.

[Trisha Paytas]

You should react to that. I saw you react to your music videos.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

React to the Shane documentary of your channel. Because we did that for my patreon, and I was shook.

[Tana Mongeau]

I absolutely should, because I truly. And I will need to for the book. Honestly, too. Like, I don't remember anything. Trauma block central.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was so shocked to learn so much. And then about the end, I'm kind of like, wait. But no, you actually were asking these questions, and they had, like, proof of it. I was like, damn, you really got.

[Tana Mongeau]

Set up when you try your best. But you don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's why, as I feel for Haley Welch a little bit too, is like, I don't think she's, like, a mastermind about this. Someone's probably like, you can make all this money? And she's. I probably was say I probably the same way at that age. I can make this money not knowing the scam of it all 100%. It's like the same vibe. Someone sees a young girl, I'm like, you can make this money.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, exactly. And just, like, blindly believing in people because you don't know any better. I. I only now don't blindly believe in people because I had to get my trust. And you know what? I mean, broken. I had to get embarrassed, fall on my face so many times, you know, this will change forever, probably, you know. No, they made a hawk to a coin joke at the Grammys.

[Trisha Paytas]

I mean, that, like, kind of everything kind of made it.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, that's what I was saying. I was like, talking about that on Canceled and I was like, no, I think that's like, what did they say? It's Trevor. Is that his name? Trevor? No, he. He was telling. It was actually crazy. Trisha, correct me if I'm wrong. You know, I love saying things that aren't true. He was making a. He was saying, like, donate anything you can to the LA wildfires. Like, donate money. Donate this. Like, we accept anything but hawk to a coin. And then it directs directly cuts to Taylor Swift. I was like, this feels like almost like scary movie. Like a parody of today's society, you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Know, she's just like, nothing.

[Tana Mongeau]

She was just mogging, voguing. Can't even. I can't believe she didn't want a Grammy.

[Trisha Paytas]

She nominated.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Her and Billie didn't win anything.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. I feel like they do her wrong. I don't know, like, much about her, but I know they said, like, every year they show her, like, losing and she's always just like. Yeah, a little more sad each year.

[Tana Mongeau]

All of the albums are amazing. Truly. This Grammys, every category story was like, even like, Best New Artist. It's like Sabrina or Chapel. Like, I can't choose.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, they say both won something, which is.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Which is really good. This Grammys was, like, iconic. It felt like we were in a different timeline, you know, Like, I miss it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you go?

[Tana Mongeau]

No.

[Trisha Paytas]

You didn't go?

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I went to Grammys after parties, but.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, right. You had your Bianca moment.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Which I just. That was crazy. Bianca, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

What did you think about it?

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my. Well, I'm like, dying on the hill. That I think she's like, like exhibitionist. Oh. I mean, no, I, I, it feels like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, really? I used to think that, but I feel like at his point. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Or a kink that I think she.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, you must want to do it.

[Tana Mongeau]

I hope.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe not.

[Tana Mongeau]

I hope and I pray people. Now all the lip readers are saying. You can hear her saying to Connie that she doesn't want to do it, but then again, she's always doing it on the street with him, so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right. I don't know. That's interesting. I didn't really think about that.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just could never, like. I feel like I would, like, literally start my period or something like. What do you mean your. Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

To put like a makeup sponge up there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, something like that little diva cup. Something to catch it, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. No, it's. Hers is wild. You look good in yours, though. Did you have a stylist?

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I, I. You know what's funny is I bought that dress for the tarte trip and then I didn't go, so. Because I was trying to just mog all these on, like, sequin night.

[Trisha Paytas]

This is a new mog.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. I know. What does mog look better than? I think it started with the. The British girls.

[Trisha Paytas]

I never heard of mog.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, mogging. Like, you're mogging me right now.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

I want to mog all day long.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Like, you're. You're a mogger.

[Trisha Paytas]

You be that, like, you know, like vog for Madonna. You can have mog.

[Tana Mongeau]

Mog mog our song. You know, if I do come back, it's only with you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Really?

[Tana Mongeau]

100%.

[Trisha Paytas]

I would so down. But, like, what? Like, you need to come out with, like, a full album.

[Tana Mongeau]

Trisha, I'm not kidding you.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love your music.

[Tana Mongeau]

My literal ultimate hype woman.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

I. After finish filming that video, reacting. I already told you by. I was like, in fetal position. Like, I so good. I would do it with you. 100. I've been texting your guy and, like, did you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do you set up a time to.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, Right, I haven't set up a time yet. But, like, whenever you're free, I'm down.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm down with you because that's. That's like camp iconic. Mine teeters the line too much of is she serious? And I'm not good enough to be serious. So I need you to add the camp ability.

[Trisha Paytas]

But mine is. It's so funny because I think mine. People think it's camp. I like, I was being so serious.

[Tana Mongeau]

But that's why I need you to almost, like, bring that out of me. And then therefore we it is. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

I love, like, trying to be serious and just, like, missing the mark because it's like, not on purpose, but then people kind of think it's camp. You know what I mean?

[Tana Mongeau]

Which is, you know, I need to start thinking. I want to think of, like, the ultimate chorus because if we make a song and honestly, it doesn't go viral on Tick Tock, like, I'm. I'll start paying, like, big bricks brands. Like, I'll start paying. Do you get those?

[Trisha Paytas]

I can hit up all the Time to use songs that are already popular on Tick Tock and like.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, I do them all the time.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do you really?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, quite literally. I. I just had to do one with Amari where I was like, dancing. And it's funny because a couple days prior, Amari asked me, he was like, we should do this trend.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's so funny though, right? Those are so funny. Because the song's already popular.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And then sometimes they do well. So then it's like you're making a creator fund and.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And even. Honestly, even ours, like, then, like, the fans loved it. So. So it's like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, sometimes it's good.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. They know what's.

[Trisha Paytas]

They know what's trending on the Pulse.

[Tana Mongeau]

Told you eight.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't have any sounds anymore. I literally just eat on TikTok because I'm like, I don't know what to do anymore.

[Tana Mongeau]

Me too good at it.

[Trisha Paytas]

You're good.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I feel you, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it too. Especially like, in New York. I was by myself. I'm just gonna eat for like 10 minutes.

[Tana Mongeau]

You are like my comfort person. Like, watching you eat and eating with you is like the best.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thanks.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm so creepy though. It's like I leave her house and then I'm watching her eat, eating. Oh my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's like.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're a murderer, Tana.

[Trisha Paytas]

I do. Thank you. I love E. I do love E. I need to chill a little bit though. I was eating a little too much.

[Tana Mongeau]

No. Oh my God. Are you kidding me? It's my favorite pastime. That when we did our Taco Bell moment, that was like just the best.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh yeah, The Taco Bell mukbang made the Patreon.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Oh my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know what that was, but I love that you retweeted it. It was just you in the thumbnail. Like, do you.

[Tana Mongeau]

It was just me in the thumbnail. You're hilarious.

[Trisha Paytas]

I guess cuz we didn't pose or anything. So Jimmy's like, I'll just use this one.

[Tana Mongeau]

That is so funny. Have you tried the Baja Blast? Do you like Baja Blast?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

They have a new Baja BL soda with cream in it. Like, almost like vanilla cream in the soda and in a dirty. I am not kidding you. The other night I ordered three largest for myself. I drank three largest to myself.

[Trisha Paytas]

What's in it? Is it like.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's just Baja Blast and like.

[Trisha Paytas]

But what's in Baja Blast? Is it like, toxic?

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. That's so funny. But like redneck tears.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, who Knows probably, like, red 40 or something.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Everything bad, every carcinogens, I'm sure, like, you know, But I'm down to get it. That is one of those things where you could straight up tell me that if I keep drinking Baja Blast, it'll take a year off my life, and it's like, I don't need to see.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you ever try the new Baja Blast menu? I don't think it's out anymore. But it had, like, the pies and stuff.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, because they were only at select locations.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, the test kitchen's in Irvine. Like, go get it next time you.

[Tana Mongeau]

Drive to a test kitchen or something like that. I'll absolutely go with it.

[Trisha Paytas]

When they did the chicken wings years ago for Taco Bell, I drove to Irvine to get it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Please invite me if you ever do, because I always see those things on snack later and then don't get them.

[Trisha Paytas]

Snack later. Shout out snack.

[Tana Mongeau]

We love you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Snack always has, like, the newest stuff coming out. Oh, everything looks so good.

[Tana Mongeau]

I will go with you anytime.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. I'm serious.

[Tana Mongeau]

Please invite me. If I see you going to a test kitchen without me, I'll be her. Not kidding.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'll go with you.

[Tana Mongeau]

That'd be so fun. That's a good one for us.

[Trisha Paytas]

A road trip. Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

We have to. We're trying to figure out what we can do outside of podcasting. That, and I quote, won't make Trisha uncomfortable.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. No, I know. That would be a good one. That's a good one.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we just, like, drive, eat, and it's like, if it's filming, I still consider it, like, oh, it's, like, work, so it's not awkward, you know? Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

But then it will just slowly, slowly, we'll take the camera away a little more and more. Eventually, we'll get to a movie in theaters. Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

That would be everything.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know I saw it. One last show. Girl.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's probably not even in theaters anymore, but I do want to see it.

[Tana Mongeau]

We could even do a thing here. We can incorporate filming. Maybe one time we do one. Not Loveline. And then, like, we watch it. I'll wait for a movie, because I know that's, like. That's, like, far on the end of the spectrum.

[Trisha Paytas]

The movie's just the awkward part to me for. I'll wait. And it's like, do we sit next to each other or apart? Well, have you been to a Broadway show?

[Tana Mongeau]

I've never, ever, ever been to a Broadway show. I know I would.

[Trisha Paytas]

Theater.

[Tana Mongeau]

We could go in disguise.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then I want to make that a video.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's like, that's so fun.

[Tana Mongeau]

When I think of us filming everything, to me, it doesn't feel like, sociopathic. Like, you are my friend, and I enjoy hanging out with you, like, and love doing things with you. Like, it's like, if the camera went away, I would still do it. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

But I still enjoy yapping with you, and. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. I always see that. It's like, what. Who is Trisha's friends? And it's like, I don't know. I don't really, like, have. You're my friend. I get to ask my friend, but it's like, that is my friendship.

[Tana Mongeau]

You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, doing this kind of stuff is, like, fun. I don't really.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. That is, like, our hobby. And, like, at the same time, too, like, yeah. It's like this job within itself is such a blurred line of, is this real life or is this a job?

[Trisha Paytas]

Anyway, we wouldn't do a podcast if I, like, we didn't like each other.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. 100. I always say that with, like, Jeff, too. It's like, all we really do is film. But, like, I. That's my friend. I have a great time.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is he good?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, he's good. He's good. I mean, just got another surgery, and it's like. You know what I mean? Like, just crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know.

[Tana Mongeau]

But he's in good spirits. I think. He's, like, healing. He was just asking me if I wanted to go to New York, and I was like, yes, you're back.

[Trisha Paytas]

What are you guys doing? What are you gonna do?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know. He wants to go to Fashion Week. I might. I don't know. We've done it before. It's just. Fashion Week's a lot.

[Trisha Paytas]

What, did you just, like, sit in the fashion shows, Trisha?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, quite literally, yes. And it's like, it looks so cool online, you know, and, like, it. It is. Don't get me wrong, my favorite activity is, like, serving. But, like, you get there, and it's like you put on an outfit, you go to a show, you go back to your hotel, you put on another outfit, everything. You go to another show, then you put on another outfit, you go to an afterparty. Like, it's literally just putting on outfits and attending things to, like, be seen. And, like, obviously, when you're serving a look, it hurts. Nothing ever is comfortable.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, God, no.

[Tana Mongeau]

You know, like, the.

[Trisha Paytas]

How are you sitting like for here, we're always like, okay, how do we.

[Tana Mongeau]

Sit with our legs? I stopped. No more skirts on. Not Loveline. I, like, I quite literally, literally had my cooter out.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is so much better when it's just like, pants.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Should we, like, take one?

[Trisha Paytas]

We should probably take one question. Where are we at? Are we, like, over the limit already?

[Tana Mongeau]

And honestly, I do just want to say to all the fans listening, like, the fact that you guys comment, the fact that we started an advice show and then you love just watching us. Yeah, like, means everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I would love a whole just yet because some people say there's a just yet podcast. But again, we were trying to, like, get away from our podcast. That we do. But it's just we do love to yap and.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And like, I just love our dynamic. I, like, feel so comfortable with you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Especially when I haven't seen each other in so long. And it's.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, the catch up of a century. Like the kiki.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know, even in between, like, changing clothes. Like, it never takes, like, it's supposed to take like four hours technically because we do four episodes, but then it ends up being like six or seven because you just talk so much in between.

[Tana Mongeau]

But I love it. And we, like, spill the tea. I like if the people could hear the conversations in that glam room. Oh, my. They should never.

[Trisha Paytas]

I feel like one day because, like, everyone listens to everything on the phone. I feel like one day it's gonna happen where they just hear everything.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. I know. And we spill tea in there. Always. Did you get okay?

[Trisha Paytas]

I did, yeah. I did not do my own makeup in hair. I know you do yours all the time. It's not my life.

[Tana Mongeau]

It looks phenomenal, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, she just met your vibes.

[Tana Mongeau]

Little wing. I just have to. I feel like my eyes are small, so I have to, like, bring them up.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, you do the job.

[Caller]

Hey, Trisha and Tana, it's Ally here. I'm calling because I have been with my boyfriend for around three years now now, and I am totally expecting to get engaged within the next couple of months, but I do have an issue. So he is really into gambling, and sometimes I feel like he chooses gambling and sports betting and hitting the slots over me, and it just makes me feel really insecure. I really need some advice.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my gosh.

[Caller]

Thank you so much. Love you guys. Bye.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think Makoa got a voice changer and just called in. I'm literally not even kidding. Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

So funny. He's like I really want to get engaged, but they have a gambling problem.

[Tana Mongeau]

Dude, I like, think about that sometimes. I'm like, what about the kids? No, I mean, it's so real.

[Trisha Paytas]

People, like, lose their houses, like, over gambling.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's just like, all vices, right? Like, in moderation. It's fun, but it's. It's such a slippery slope. Just like drinking, an occasional recreation, you know, all the things it's like. And it's. It is one of those things that, like, people do just want to do more and more. Like, once you love it, you usually love it. So it is scary. And like, I mean, it's hard if he stays within the bounds of your finances, slash, if he's good at it, you know, Like, But I think even.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, what if you even win? Like, you can win a million dollars, but then you're just so addicted you end up losing like 50 million because you're just like, well, I gotta get that high back or something.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is, like, so true. And I, like, do not have any answer.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, how do you stop yourself from going too crazy? Like, how do you not lose all your money when you gamble?

[Tana Mongeau]

I bring people who give a. About me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Honestly, Bring other people with you?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Even, like, yeah. Like, I try not to, like, run in the gambler cruise too much, you know, I try to like, bring people who will be like, stop, because it is, like, hard and I guess limiting myself, like, you know what I mean? Like, having my card have a limit and then knowing what I'm taking out, and then it's like, win or lose, walk away.

[Trisha Paytas]

Use your limit when you gamble.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, I start asking other people for money. It's insane. Like, yes, all the time I hit my limit and thank people to the atm and thank God. Thank God I have limits. Honestly, Like, I am insane, truly. But. But I'm also like, overall in life, I'm very much up. Like, I think I found the games I'm good at and I've won more than I've lost.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, so. But you're, like, lucky and not everyone is, so.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, that's true. No, but I do think that you can on, like, understand safe betting. I don't want to put it on to anyone else, though. Like, that's the thing is, like, yeah, I understand. I do spend so much of my time literally, like, researching safe betting and, like, you know what I mean? Like, understanding the odds of a game and trying to learn and stuff and, like, playing safe within my financial bounds, you know, so it's like. And it is Just such a fine line. So it's like it, I think it's one of those things. Same with like, if people have a problem with anything else, where you just have to have that open line of communication. And so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, what's your advice to her?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like you, if you guys are about to get married, obviously your finances become meshed. Right. So it's like you have a conversation where it's like, this is the amount of spending money I'm comfortable with yearly. And if you choose to gamble it or you give them an ultimatum if you really feel that way, you know, like, right.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like you go into the slots at 5am I was concerned for you.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was like, yeah, no, it's, it is crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

You're smart. But I feel like sometimes people just, especially when you're like more desperate in life sometimes, you know, when you just.

[Tana Mongeau]

Really need the money, I always think about that. I even like, because I do notice myself. I'm not the type where it's like, let me play with this amount of money and if I win or lose it, I paid for the experience. I want to win. So when I'm like down, I'm very much in my head, like I have to make it back, you know, and that's not good. I could see myself stopping fully. I'm cold turkey with everything though. Just like alcohol, it's like I'll probably hit point where I lose an amount of money that hurts and walk away.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just stop and you can forever. You're able to. That's good.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm just yin or yang. I, I, I can't do many things in moderation so far. So even with gambling, it might not be a long term thing. Some people do it forever and you know, they, they set limits for themselves. I feel like I meet a lot of old gamblers, like old guys and old people in Vegas who've done it forever and they just love to do it and they set limits for themselves, you know, that's the way to do it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I gamble with, I guess the lottery every, every day, day. And I just buy, just do $20.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, but that you're gonna win the lottery.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, I know that's the only reason I play is because I like saw.

[Tana Mongeau]

It, you know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

And I saw the numbers, so. And they've never come up. I've been playing for five years now, every day and the lot, the numbers have never even come up, not even close to the sequence. And I was like, man, it has to hit soon because they never come up, period. In the history of the lottery.

[Tana Mongeau]

Well, that's the. That's the odd. That's what the gamblers say. You know what I mean? Like you gotta keep going. One day you're gonna hit.

[Trisha Paytas]

I mean even when I was in New York, I had Moses get her. In London, I was having Moses get it. When I give birth, I'm always get like I have someone get them. Like I always.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's so funny. You're giving birth and someone's going to get lottery tickets.

[Trisha Paytas]

Literally. No, like the day. Cuz I feel like the day I don't play is the day my numbers would hit and I would be like, yes, brutal.

[Tana Mongeau]

So.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, but I saw it in a dream. That's the only reason I play is like, I know I'll win it. But yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's so iconic though. Damn, I want to start playing. No, I can't wait.

[Trisha Paytas]

I heard. I tell people either because I was like, well, I know I'm.

[Tana Mongeau]

And if someone in your life wins, like you'd be. I'd be so pissed.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is kind of everything though. Like if you won the lottery, I'd be so happy.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's sweet.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love the. I do. I know what you mean. That's why I don't buy them as gifts. I used to give them for like my mom as like a gift. But that. What if I like give someone like $100 million? Right?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like you love Oscar, but like you'd be like, damn, what the. That was my ticket. You know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Exactly. I'm always just like, I need to win and then I'll help other people.

[Tana Mongeau]

Exactly. And you'd be so giving with it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I'll be so philanthropic after I win.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I agree. Oh my God. That's iconic.

[Trisha Paytas]

So anyways, I would say don't get engaged.

[Tana Mongeau]

I. Well, I'm a gambler, so I'm feeling for your guy. I don't know. I don't know, dude. I mean, I think it's open communication and obviously if you can't get ultimatum because that is again same like with being with an alcoholic. I don't know. Just certain things. It's like, I don't know how bad it is. You know what I mean? Like, is it just his like fun thing that he's doing inbounds? Is he winning?

[Trisha Paytas]

You know, did you have another issue or was just that.

[Tana Mongeau]

It was just that.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was just cute gambling and. Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

Damn.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's a big issue. It's your money.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's your life.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's. Oh my God. Now I like, need to ask Makoa, like, on a deep level, like, how do you feel about this in our future?

[Trisha Paytas]

He needs like a side bank account.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just in case for both of you.

[Tana Mongeau]

So responsible, like, so financially responsible because. And like, I am, I. I can be super financially responsible, but I have my moments, you know, Like, I love my same. My like, frivolous things, but that's also why I try to like, work more because it's like, I love living a fun life, you know, same.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love a good hustle because, like, I need, I need things in life. Moses has a separate bank account. We have a joy. And we also have separate because yeah. He's like, I don't know what you're do with our money.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Oh, my God, that's so real. We're. We're quite literally with the same man. That's so funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

We love it. All right, good luck. Let us know how it goes.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, please do call back in. I, like, I need advice. Like, what do you do? I'm going to talk to my mom.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you get engaged? Should we take a quick one? Another quick one more? Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love it. I really do. And God, I can't leave on that note.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, let's get a happy one.

[Caller]

Hi, Trish and Tana.

[Tana Mongeau]

Okay, so I need some advice on.

[Caller]

How to date multiple men at once.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm finally in like, a good, healthy, single girl era.

[Caller]

And, you know, I'm trying to build up that roster. So I just want to know how to navigate dating multiple men at once. Any advice would be appreciated.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you. I love you guys.

[Tana Mongeau]

Guys, I actually think, like, doing your eyebrows is harder than dating multiple men at once. Like, it is the easiest thing ever.

[Trisha Paytas]

What I was just going to say, like, how do you even have time? How do you manage it? You need a calendar just for your dates.

[Tana Mongeau]

I guess that's true. But, like, you know what I mean, like, you have Mark on Monday, you have Trent on Tuesday, you have William on Wednesday.

[Trisha Paytas]

How do you keep them straight?

[Tana Mongeau]

Straight, like as in gay or like as in like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, how do you get them from turning to.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I get what, what you're saying. Like, well, I do think that, you know, listen, in my life, I feel like I've probably taken both routes where I've been really transparent with the people that I'm seeing. Other people and maybe like, not so much. And that's not good. I think you should always be transparent.

[Trisha Paytas]

But you tell them you're like, hey, I'm just dating other people.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I'M just having fun right now. I don't necessarily know if I want anything serious. I maybe never leave it off the table, but you know what I mean? Like, but do you.

[Trisha Paytas]

So you don't have feelings for them, really, because you're kind of just going with whoever?

[Tana Mongeau]

Well, I kind of look at it as, like, okay, let's say you go to a restaurant and you have four appetizers, and then you're like, oh, my God, the Nashville hot mozzarella ended up being way better. Like, next time, that could even potentially be my entree. Right. Like, you know, like, I. I don't. I think, especially in today's climate, sometimes, only if you're wanting to be single and have fun. Like, I'm not saying that that should be your approach to life always, but I think everyone, especially in today's climate, like, deserves that era where you're, like, figuring out what you like and not settling for less. And, God, it's like, also, men are just so awful that sometimes you need to, like, really see the.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I guess. Yeah. What dating is, is just, like, going on dates. You're not, like. Yeah, I guess I would always, like, feel bad. I'd always be like, oh, my gosh, Wait, Like, I. I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

But if you think about it, most of those guys are probably doing it, too, and then they're gonna lie. And.

[Trisha Paytas]

And that's so true. That's so weird to think about. Like.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

How you're, like, competing against. I guess. But then when you find your person, that person's just meant for you no matter what.

[Tana Mongeau]

100. Like, even just loosely. Especially with dating apps, too. It's like, you don't know this person at all. And, like, the date could mean nothing, or it can mean everything. Like, it's. I think it's okay to do a few. And I think it's like, just be honest. Don't tire yourself out. Obviously, it's only if you want to.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do it Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday.

[Tana Mongeau]

I mean, I was crazy at one point. Like, it just. I don't know. But. And then when you know, you know, Like, I think that at the end of the day, especially as women, our intuition speaks so loud, you know? Like, when you know, you know, and then you don't have to do that anymore. But while you're dating, maybe these people. Because, two. It's like, sometimes it can be fun. Like, while you're dating these people that aren't filling up your cup fully.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

You have other people that can. Like, maybe you've Got the one guy who comes in and cooks a meal and cleans up the house, and he's maybe a little more vanilla missionary. But then you got the other guy with the motorcycle and he's you from the ceiling, you know, like, go with.

[Trisha Paytas]

Vanilla missionary any day.

[Tana Mongeau]

I agree.

[Trisha Paytas]

Motorcycle from the ceiling is wild.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I agree. It's.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's like, you know, it sounds fun in theory, but it's, like, exhausting.

[Tana Mongeau]

Exactly. But that's why that could be fun for.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's true. You know, so your wild oats out there. That's.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like, just see the. See the playing field. I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was depressed. Every time I went on a date, I just hated. I was like, none of this was working for me ever.

[Tana Mongeau]

I agree. That's the thing, too, is just so many people don't work out. And I found myself, even in life, like, trying to force it with someone that just maybe there's nothing literally wrong with them, but they are just not for you. I met someone kind of a couple months before moa that was like, that.

[Trisha Paytas]

That.

[Tana Mongeau]

Where. There was nothing wrong with this man, like, at all. He was great. He was a super, super nice guy, but I just didn't feel that spark. And I kept going on the dates and I kept, like, trying, and then. You know what I mean? It was like I had to go see what else was out there.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, that happens a lot. And then you think, like, oh, my God, maybe, like, there's something wrong with me. Like, why don't I like this person? But you'll know when you know, like, you just feel.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

A spark.

[Tana Mongeau]

100%. And it's like, I'm not against, you know, trying before. You're buying a little.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Out in the field, especially, because men just do it too.

[Trisha Paytas]

They do.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

But also, too, I do think, like, over time, like, there was no, like, big spark between me and Moses. Like, at the beginning. Maybe at the beginning. But then, like, it faded because, like, he was, like, too honest and too blunt. And I was. I was like, okay, I don't like this anymore. But then, like, over time, and then, like, now, even now, every day, I'm just like, God, I, like, love this person even more. And it's, like, crazy when I think back to when I met him.

[Tana Mongeau]

How did.

[Trisha Paytas]

How do we get from there to, like, literally him just, like, doting on me, just, like, painting pictures of me, sending me, like, love notes, and I'm just like, I don't know where this.

[Tana Mongeau]

Did there. Was there a comfortability with you and Moses in the beginning though that you maybe didn't possess elsewhere.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was on a lot of Xanax a lot.

[Tana Mongeau]

So everything was comfortable. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

So I was like falling asleep like mid sentence all the time just on him and just like literally in the jacuzzi. Just like he like brought me up and I'm just like always passing out.

[Tana Mongeau]

So.

[Trisha Paytas]

So I think on his end too, he saw me in a different like cuz he's just like, oh God. Like he thought like I was one way online, like really confident and all stuff. And then he saw me like in real life and he's like, oh my God, this girl like it doesn't have together. So I think he kind of like pulled away. And then he was also like really blunt. I don't want to call him rude, but like blunt. And I've told the story multiple times, but he'd be like, I just like it when girls like wax and not shaved. I'm like, you, you like, I can shave. Like what the. Like or I don't like, it's just great.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't want to over time, like, I guess you've grown to love that, right? Or like, you know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, no, I, I helped him because he didn't realize it like that it was socially.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because he, he is like a little. That's what I'm saying. Like, and he'll. He'll say it too. Like he is socially just like unaware sometimes. So he like didn't know. So I've helped him tremendously. I'm like, you can just like say whatever comes to your mind, like you know, whatever. And obviously now I don't shave my legs for like two weeks and he doesn't care. You know what I mean?

[Tana Mongeau]

So. And just loves you. That's actually really sweet that in all the ways you guys probably helped each other flourish to your best selves, which is truly what love is.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. So I guess on that note, like you don't have to have this mark. I wouldn't necessarily say like stay with someone who makes you miserable. But we were in quarantine and I was so bored and I had no one else and I was like, okay too.

[Tana Mongeau]

Is giving people the proper chance.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, that is so true.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because he really did kind of show up time and time again and I was doing of at the time. He really did show up a lot and I was kind of like, okay, it kind of like worked, but it was kind of.

[Tana Mongeau]

And sometimes too, I think when you've been so Mistreated and whatever. Like, sometimes that is what can make you really fall for someone. I have such bad, anxious attachment and stuff that it is like, the way Mokoa shows up time and time again does make me love him more and more every day. Knowing it's not just the good. Oh, yeah, some people love that. You know, some people can fall in love just based on the good. But I think that I'm the type of person who's been through so much trauma that I need to see how you are in the bad to know if it's real.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's exactly what mine was. And it's like, I don't, like, obviously you're not supposed to, like, test people and like, they shouldn't stick around for testing, but there was so many, like, tests that I unintentionally, like, gave him and like, he, like, just every time kept coming back and, like, past it and like, yeah, it was. Yeah. It's like during the bad times is when I'm like, okay, I, like, am in love with this person. Then the good times, it's like, okay, we're there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, we're so happy. And this is effortless and this is amazing, but it is true. And, like, I think we're an anomaly in that sense. There are probably so many girls out there with so much less trauma who just can catch a vibe with someone and that's it, and they're off to the races. But at least a girl like me, like, I. I need someone to really show me who they are. And yes, bad moments.

[Trisha Paytas]

And there's those guys out there that are like that.

[Tana Mongeau]

So the question was, girl, I think you just have fun, don't read into it. Do what you want to do and communicate well.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, transparency is a good one. I think if you're honest, that's what dating is.

[Tana Mongeau]

And you might come across a guy too, in these endeavors that's like, whoa, I don't want you to date other people. I don't like this. And then you might like him enough and then it might work out perfectly, you know, like it's, you know, everything is case by case. I think just have fun and just be young. You know what I mean? Even just looking back on all that craziness, I am glad I. I did it all.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

I've seen all the sides of how everything can play out. And now I know exactly what I want for that reason. And therefore, so true.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm just like, thank God I never have to date again and anything happened to Moses, I'm Never dating. I'm just. I'm happy just being.

[Tana Mongeau]

Quite literally. It'll be us. Quite literally, yes. Like, I can't even. And I think I am a person too. Where. And I've tried to change this a lot in my mind, like mentally over time. And I'm much better at it now. But especially as I was younger, I was very. Grass is greener on the other side. So I had to see that grass. I had to go mow every lawn, you know, Like, I had to like, really know. And now it's like, I know the grass isn't greener on the other side. And I'm happy I taught myself that lesson. Cuz imagine I was with Moa and I was still thinking like, like that. And then I. Something amazing.

[Trisha Paytas]

That was me in all my 20s. I was like, I'm gonna. I'm waiting for Brad Pitt to come along. Like, I really thought that. So it's like, yeah, even if I.

[Tana Mongeau]

Married a cardboard cut out of Brad.

[Trisha Paytas]

Pitt, I was hoping he'd see it and want to marry me. I thought maybe he'd like, see it like that, girl. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

I remember Jordan was managing both of us at the time and I would beg him every single day to tell me who you were marrying. And he wouldn't. He never broke the manager clause. He was like, he knew. Oh, yeah. I forgot.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was even trolling him. I'm like, yeah, I'm about to get married soon.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, yeah. Oh, yeah. He didn't know we were grilling him. I was like, tell me who Trisha's married.

[Trisha Paytas]

I told everybody. I think I told Shane, like, no, I'm actually getting married. Like, I think I'm just like, everybody has. Just a psychopath.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's iconic though.

[Trisha Paytas]

But then you see all this stuff about Brad Pitt coming out in the divorce. I'm like, well, thank God I didn't marry Brad Pitt. You know what I mean?

[Tana Mongeau]

So true. Even Angelina Jolie will get played on.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Crazy. So moral of the story, that's like.

[Tana Mongeau]

That'S what makes it so hard because I have the utmost faith in my man. But then you see Angelina Jolie getting played.

[Trisha Paytas]

Don't date famous or rich guys. They're just annoying.

[Tana Mongeau]

I couldn't agree more. I was talking about that last night. I could just never go back to be dating in the scene. It's like, I love being with this human being who's a human being.

[Trisha Paytas]

Feelings for.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Not competing with you. All the things. It's the best, you know? Yeah. Well, we love you, girl. Have fun. Other guy. I hope he stops gambling. I hope I stop gambling. We love you.

[Trisha Paytas]

We'll put the gambling number down there for our draft kings. If you have a gambling prize problem.

[Tana Mongeau]

Speaking of call. Call this.

[Trisha Paytas]

Call this number.

[Tana Mongeau]

Number. And come over to our Patreon. We are about to talk about the crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes, it's wild patreon.com. not loveline.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm ready. All right. Bye, guys. We love you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Bye.