6: Is My BOYFRIEND Cheating With My MOM? DATING A 44 YEAR OLD!!

Summary

Podcast Summary: Not Loveline – Episode 6: "Is My BOYFRIEND Cheating With My MOM? DATING A 44 YEAR OLD!!"

Release Date: January 6, 2025
Hosts: Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas
Description: NOT LOVELINE is a weekly love, sex, and dating call-in advice show with Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas, two hosts who are definitely NOT experts but do have a lot of experience.

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1. Welcome and New Year's Reflections (01:17 - 02:03)

The episode kicks off with Tana and Trish embracing the arrival of 2025. Both hosts share their excitement and optimistic outlook for the new year, delving into discussions about the Chinese Zodiac, specifically the "Year of the Snake."

Notable Quotes:

• Trish Paytas (01:33): "25 is going to be everyone's best year. If you're watching this, it's your best year, I promise you."
• Tana Mongeau (02:06): "I was a mess."

2. Manifesting Goals for 2025 (02:03 - 05:03)

Tana and Trish explore their personal goals and manifestations for the year ahead. They discuss aspirations ranging from attending the Met Gala and owning a gold-plated toilet to completing and publishing their respective books. The conversation reflects their dreams and the playful nature of their collaboration.

Notable Quotes:

• Tana Mongeau (03:13): "My genuine goal was like, how can I make all the worst dress lists?"
• Trish Paytas (05:03): "I just really love the idea of, like, sitting on a gold toilet."

3. Personal Anecdotes and Past Experiences (05:03 - 10:04)

The hosts reminisce about their past antics, including Tana's infamous appearance at the VMAs with a boa constrictor named Lola. They discuss how their earlier, more outrageous behavior has evolved into a desire for more class and memorable experiences.

Notable Quotes:

• Tana Mongeau (03:13): "I was insane. Like, I was just truly, like."
• Trish Paytas (03:45): "I have a bad habit of bringing people up."

4. Building Their Future: Stand-Up and Book (10:04 - 18:08)

Tana expresses her ambition to venture into stand-up comedy, inspired by comedians like Chelsea Handler. Trish shares her dedication to journaling and manifesting, revealing her four different journals dedicated to secrets, gratitude, wishes, and manifestations. Their discussion highlights personal growth and the pursuit of new creative outlets.

Notable Quotes:

• Tana Mongeau (08:25): "I want to do stand up really bad."
• Trish Paytas (14:23): "I love journaling because it relaxes your mind."

5. Live Calls: Relationship Advice (18:08 - 53:00)

The heart of the episode features live call-ins from listeners seeking advice on complex relationship issues. Two main calls are addressed:

a. First Call – Jealousy Over Celebrity Crush (18:41 - 24:05)

Caller: Christina from [Location]
Issue: Christina feels jealous of her boyfriend's celebrity crush, Dua Lipa, especially as he plans to attend her concert with a male coworker.

Advice:

• Trish (21:15): "Like, what do you mean you're going with, like, a coworker to see Dua Lipa? First of all, she's not interested in you."
• Tana (22:24): "That's so valid."

b. Second Call – Age-Gap Relationship Concerns (33:56 - 58:26)

Caller: Anonymous, 20 years old, dating a 44-year-old
Issue: Struggling with a significant age gap and disapproval from family members, particularly an older brother.

Advice:

• Tana (54:26): "Love you, girl, and you deserve better."
• Trish (56:09): "I think it's like crazy. You're 20 and he's 44."

Notable Quotes:

• Tana Mongeau (36:03): "Listen to your gut."
• Trish Paytas (37:27): "Like, I love someone who can make a coin and yeah, I'm not going to judge."

6. Red Flag/Green Flag Game (53:00 - 67:18)

In a fun and interactive segment, Tana and Trish engage in the "Red Flag/Green Flag" game, where they assess various traits and behaviors in potential partners. This game serves as both entertainment and a light-hearted method to discuss serious relationship deal-breakers and positive attributes.

Notable Quotes:

• Tana Mongeau (59:08): "We need, like, yellow passion about a sports team."
• Trish Paytas (62:18): "But, yeah, we're here for you."

7. Final Advice and Closing (67:18 - 70:05)

As the episode winds down, the hosts reflect on personal boundaries and the importance of respecting oneself in relationships. They emphasize the value of honesty and setting clear limits to maintain healthy dynamics.

Notable Quotes:

• Trish Paytas (71:03): "It just won't work."
• Tana Mongeau (73:04): "We need more gays."

The episode concludes with calls to action for listeners to join their Patreon for more exclusive content and to continue engaging with their vibrant community.

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Conclusion

Episode 6 of Not Loveline delves deep into the complexities of modern relationships, tackling issues like jealousy over celebrity crushes, significant age gaps, and the importance of setting boundaries. Through their candid conversations and interactive segments, Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas offer relatable advice infused with their unique personalities. This episode not only entertains but also provides valuable insights for listeners navigating the tumultuous waters of love, sex, and dating.

Recommended for:
Listeners seeking honest, experience-based relationship advice with a blend of humor and heartfelt conversation.

Transcript

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[Tana Mongeau]

Like, if. If someone, first of all, if Mokoa came to me and said that I would burn the house down. I, like, will die on that hill. Like, I. I take it very seriously and it makes me so mad.

[Trisha Paytas]

Hi, guys. Welcome back to not loveline 2025.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God, it's 2025. As everyone's watching this, we have our, like, New Year's out.

[Trisha Paytas]

Happy New Year.

[Tana Mongeau]

Happy New Year.

[Trisha Paytas]

I just.

[Tana Mongeau]

I have a good feeling about 2025.

[Trisha Paytas]

25 is going to be everyone's best year. If you're watching this, it's your best year, I promise you. It's year of the. Oh, no. We just finished Year of the dream. It's year of the Snake.

[Tana Mongeau]

Year of the Snake.

[Trisha Paytas]

Snakers are lucky. What year are you? Do you know?

[Tana Mongeau]

No.

[Trisha Paytas]

Can we please. I need to know right now what year you are.

[Tana Mongeau]

So, like, how.

[Trisha Paytas]

19. What is it? 1998. Chinese zodiac. Okay, wait, you're probably not a snake. Oh, Malibu's a tiger. You just had your year in 2022. That was the year the tiger comes every 12 years.

[Tana Mongeau]

So funny, because 2022 was so not my year.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, no, really?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I was a mess.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. Snake is gonna be your year.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

For sure.

[Tana Mongeau]

I actually really love snakes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, snakes Are like, get a bad rap. They always think, like, oh, they're like snakes behind your back.

[Tana Mongeau]

But they're like, I've always wanted a pet snake. I love reptiles.

[Trisha Paytas]

I always got scared. Like, what if it. Okay. One time, someone told me a story. He had a bow constructor. It got out of its cage. It was like, measuring him up to, like, eat him. He would stretch himself out every night, the snake next to the body to, like, see, like, how much he could eat.

[Tana Mongeau]

I want, like, a little handheld one. Like, just, like, imagine, right, gnawing me and my snake. Okay. No, I don't need a snake.

[Trisha Paytas]

Didn't you have a snake? Am I, like, making this up? Didn't you, like, have a banana snake, like Britney Spears or something?

[Tana Mongeau]

I carried a snake. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

On the red carpet.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, it was. Her name was Lola, and she was like a boa constrictor.

[Trisha Paytas]

How did you get that?

[Tana Mongeau]

I honestly, I have no idea. I was so just, like, drunk and crazy at that time.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

That was the time where, like, my ideas. It was just like, anything. I would just think of something and, like, actually do it.

[Trisha Paytas]

You did crazy VMAs. Were you, like, working with, like, a. Like, why? What was it happening at that time? Because you did, like, amazing, but, like, such iconic looks. Like, so wild and random. Like, who was helping you? What was the it was idea behind it?

[Tana Mongeau]

Tyler Lambert was my stylist at the time. But, like, I was insane. Like, I was just truly, like. Because I was doing the reality show, you know, So I was kind of like, oh, like, you're tonight. No, you don't. You need a rehab, more sense.

[Trisha Paytas]

At least you were on mtv. I always think it's, like, a little weird when, like, influencers are there, like, doing the most. You're like. You're not even there, but you're, like, on mtv. You have to go represent and stuff like that.

[Tana Mongeau]

It was a really fun, like, wild time. But I just, like. It's so crazy. Like, I would wear for attention.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was so iconic.

[Tana Mongeau]

Now it's like, Jesus. I like, my goal, my genuine goal was like, how can I make all the worst dress lists?

[Trisha Paytas]

It's very. Who else does that? It's like Kathy Griffin or someone else does that, like, always tries to be, like, the worst dress. I think that's so good because it's, like, funner.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, it is. It is, like, more fun and memorable, like, doing those things. Things. But now I'm just so the opposite. I'm like, give me a house, a CB Black. Gown, let's call it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, you like to be the classy. What would you wear to the Met.

[Tana Mongeau]

Gala that I would be insane for?

[Trisha Paytas]

Would you go out again? Would you go, like, full out? Like, what would you do?

[Tana Mongeau]

I would have to be insane. Like, remember when Jared Leto carried his own, like, face or head? Like, that was so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, that would be really cool.

[Tana Mongeau]

I loved when Kim K. Was in, like, the all black. That one was really cool.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. That one was good, too. I like the one where they dress up as, like, furries. Like, dogs or. You remember, like, cat was like, car lager froze cat. Everyone was dressing up as.

[Tana Mongeau]

That was cool.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I was like, I would be like a cat. A hat or something. I like to be like a pig.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

What would.

[Tana Mongeau]

So, yeah. What would you do? I feel like the Met Gala is, like, real for you. Like, you might go this year, and I'm gonna be like, that's my friend.

[Trisha Paytas]

Totally. I thought about that. New York. She was like, I could be at the Met Gala this year.

[Tana Mongeau]

You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Like a pig on a roast or something would be so cute, right?

[Tana Mongeau]

Everything. It could be Peppa.

[Trisha Paytas]

Probably PETA would actually. Peppa, the demonic pig from last episode. Yeah, I would love. That's, like, a goal. What's your goal? We should do manifestations. Because I did my 2025 is SKIMS campaign. Because I love skims. We were just talking about this. I love a skims campaign. I would love to go to the Met Gala. I would love to have a gold toilet in my house. I would love.

[Tana Mongeau]

So talk to me about this gold toilet.

[Trisha Paytas]

I just really love the idea of, like, sitting on a gold toilet and not like, actually made out of gold, just like, a gold plated toilet.

[Tana Mongeau]

I feel like you could have that here in 20 minutes. Like your Trisha Paytas.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I guess I could just, like, buy it, But I like to manifest it. Maybe like, gifting it to me or something.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's so funny. On your manifestation list. Just saying, like, I want a fish tank, honestly.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right. Oh, but fishings are expensive. I would like to manifest that, too. Those are. I remember looking into. I don't even know he ever got one, but I remember when I was friends with him, he was looking into a fish tank, and it was going to be, like, literally, like, $1 million. One of those big ones, like the middle of the wall and stuff. Like, that was, like, crazy expensive for a fish tank. Maybe it was, like half a million.

[Tana Mongeau]

But he didn't do that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe Yeah, I don't think he did that. And I'm. But, my God, we already start off to a bad start. 2025. Already mentioned. God blew the name. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, yeah, that's a goal of mine. I just want to leave all dramas in the past. Like, I'm just really manifesting peace.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Leaving people in the past.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just have them a past day in the past. I have a bad habit of bringing people up, and I'm too. Let me not. Why are they still on my. Like, in my.

[Tana Mongeau]

Me too, though. I'm the same way. We're. We're messy by nature, but we're growing. We're messy by nature, but we're growing.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm Damn near. I'm 37 this year, and I'm like, oh, my God. Still thinking about 2018. Just traumatized.

[Tana Mongeau]

You look 21, though, Trisha. Like, your skin in person. You do. Like, it's insane.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thanks.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I feel like that's crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

I feel like we're like, we were seven.

[Tana Mongeau]

So young, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

The substance before this, and I'm like, you're my substance. I never seen it, but you got mad at me.

[Tana Mongeau]

I didn't get what you meant.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, because I never seen it. So I'm like, are you my substance or, like, I take the substance. I'm not sure what it is, but you're like, the zippered version of me.

[Tana Mongeau]

Someone comes out, but that is so funny, saying, you're my substance. That's so funny. I was just saying that. It's so annoying because, like, if the substance came out, like, I know I'd fall victim and there'd be, like, a little.

[Trisha Paytas]

What is it? You take a pill and then, like, a young, hot version of you comes out.

[Tana Mongeau]

You like liquid, which is crazy with, like, all the Ozempic stuff. Do you know what I mean? Like, that it's, like, similar. And then out of Demi Moore's, like, back came, like, a younger, hotter her and what she.

[Trisha Paytas]

Where's the old one at?

[Tana Mongeau]

So then the old one would, like, sleep for a week while the new one had to, like, feed it. Like, feed your, like, carcass and go do her thing. And then they would, like, switch back, and then the young one would die. And then she would have to, like, feed her.

[Trisha Paytas]

What's the point?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is she feeling it? She's like. She gets experience being young.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's what I was, like, not understanding. I was like, I wouldn't want to do it if, like, the other person had a completely different conscious, like, yeah, I'm just dead for a week of my life and some young hot is thriving. I'd be so pissed.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. That is weird.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like, I felt like there were some tweaks to how I would want the substance to really be, but like. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, so what's your manifestations for 2025?

[Tana Mongeau]

Finish my book and put out my book. I just, I'm. I see it. I truly do. Wow.

[Trisha Paytas]

You see, like, that. You don't have to say it, but you see, like, the COVID the title, the picture, everything.

[Devin]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And just like my story being out there, I'm scared. There's a lot of stuff I still have to, like, work out, you know, just like, people are gonna get exposed. And I mean that. Like, it's just like, wow, because I can't tell my story without it, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Have you. Do you have, like, lawyers that go through it?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, but I think that people will know exactly who the. I'm talking about stories. I probably will, but there's like, no point at the same time.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's what I think too. I'm like, well, it's like it's clocked out there. Like, they're gonna know the era, the time, but I guess it saves you maybe more legally if you don't say.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, like, why do people do that? I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know either.

[Tana Mongeau]

I want to do stand up really bad. I want to get into.

[Trisha Paytas]

What steps are you gonna take for that?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know. I think just with my Chelsea Handler.

[Trisha Paytas]

Lore, it's like, oh, my God. That's actually so iconic.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just. I love her and I am inspired by her. And I feel like what we do on tour, telling stories on stage.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

Is similar. Like, I'm trying to make my fans laugh and I'm telling stories with the punchline.

[Trisha Paytas]

And like, you're so good at telling stories too, the way you, like, have so much energy. I've said this so many times. I'll say it again, but it's like, anytime I've ever gone to a podcast live, I feel like it's the most boring thing. I see it online. Podcasts I love, I watch online. I'm like, this couldn't be more boring. Watch. Going to your show and like, hearing you, like, tell those stories is so entertain. Like, jumping up, running back and forth on the stage. Like, that's why I wanted to do this with you. I was like, mesmerized. Cuz I was like, wait, how are you making this entertaining? Like, for an Hour and a half longer you were going, though.

[Tana Mongeau]

Because your live show is my dream. Like, you actually are making me want to, like, do music. Like, we have to make you do music.

[Trisha Paytas]

You do more music than I do yourself. And like, platinum. Like, you do music.

[Tana Mongeau]

Platinum's crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did she go to platinum?

[Tana Mongeau]

No, no, no, no, no, no. I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

But you want to do a song with you manifesting. That's cut off your manifestations. But I also want to do a song with no.

[Tana Mongeau]

That was literally where I was gonna go that we have to do a song together this year.

[Trisha Paytas]

You talk to Jeremy. He's, like, so down. He's written us, like, five songs already. He's like, I want to do these songs. So.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it's just the way you have such amazing gay people is around you is. I'm manifesting that actually just like a full team of gays. Like, when I come here, you're everything and, like, your producer. Like, I was like, oh, my God, I'm so excited to, like, be in your studio.

[Trisha Paytas]

But, like, not with the straight man so much. He's like, they're all everyone. Everyone on my gay queer, every. I love. I've always said that. And they just, like, inspire me. And it's just. I don't know what it is.

[Tana Mongeau]

And you just feel so much more seen and understood versus, like, that feeling of trying to explain the girl gay. Like, sorry, you'll have to bleep vision. Like, to a straight person, it's not the same.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it's amazing. No, Jeremy's amazing. I've known him literally 10 years. Everyone I've known, like, Cedric, my choreographer had known 10 years. Like, I know everyone for so long, and it's. It's just the best. Oh, manifest more gays for sure.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I'm. I'm literally manifesting way more gays. I need.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I feel like that's when you, like, thrive. I feel like if you had more like a gay team, gayer team, I think you would, like, thrive more because they would just, like, get you more, like, bad. They're obviously doing something right, but there's just.

[Tana Mongeau]

We need more. Yeah, I need to talk to a gay person and you talk to a gay person.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my gosh. She ate with your posse is though, like, you know, you roll deep with it. And that's why I think it's good energy around you.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was telling Makoa that the other day. I was like, I'm so grateful because accepting me means you're also accepting, like, seven like demon gays.

[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

Like, like, I mean you said they're on their best behavior around you because they know, like, I swear to God, I even Mario the other night I was like, okay, you've talked to Trisha enough.

[Trisha Paytas]

Literally the sweetest person ever. He's so nice.

[Tana Mongeau]

They love you so much.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love them and I.

[Tana Mongeau]

But I make sure everyone's like 10 odd around you because my friends are insane.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like they're just, I can't even envision that at all.

[Tana Mongeau]

Bad insane. Just like wild. Like we're all, we got like dinner.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like buffalo wild wings. And I thought, oh my God, it's gonna be crazy because they're all like 10 years younger than me. But everyone's like very civil. And when I tell you like they.

[Tana Mongeau]

Were on their best behavior, I really not like, like Ashley and Isabella and stuff. They're very like poised and stuff. So like my gays are. They're crazy. And I love it.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it too.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love that like my man accepts that because I really do come with 10 games that are gonna be in our bedroom waking us up on like a Tuesday.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, you know, that's amazing. No, that energy is good. It's needed in this world. So, okay, so you're manifesting your book a stand up tour would be actually insane. And actually when you think about it, not to be like all about like money, but that's like where it's at. You don't have to travel very deep with people. Like, I love my show and I'll do it forever. I'll travel with 10 people. I have like sound tech, choreographer, dancers. I do hair and makeup for the meet greets. But when you do stand up, it literally could just be like, you on the road. And there's something kind of like, nice about that, you know, it's.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I just like stand up comedy. It's like all I watch. Like, I think it's like, so cool. And like, even when people like, what do you do on stage? I'm like, oh, it's like a live podcast. But it's kind of like stand up, like, and I just want to be able to be like, I do stand up. Oh, my God. Let's go.

[Trisha Paytas]

I see you doing that for sure, because you are so funny. I feel like too, like, I feel like stand up is so hard, but, like, finding someone who can just tell you, like, the basic, like, format of a stand up show, you know, that's the thing.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm about to, like, harass all the comedians to give me a crash course. I actually think I'm gonna start doing, like, little random rooms in Hollywood. Like, not selling tickets, like, just filling sloths.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love that. Just going up on like open mics.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Because I feel like that's how it's different from mine. Like, of course my fans are gonna laugh. They know my lore and they like, you know what I mean? But, like, I want to make like a 45 year old, like, couple laugh.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, doesn't know me, you know, I would come.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

Flappers and Burbank. I'll be there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Stop it now. I'm not kidding. That's exactly what I want.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's. That's actually such a cool goal. I love that one so much. Well, I told you my. What other ones?

[Tana Mongeau]

Toilet skims and the Met Gala.

[Trisha Paytas]

The Met Gala for sure. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Those are all happening. I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love everything.

[Tana Mongeau]

I need you to have a manifestation book. That's my manifestation for.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, I'll do a manifestation book this year.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm serious. Like, tell me in the comments below. Like, tell me you wouldn't read that. Like, I would.

[Trisha Paytas]

I have some secrets that I never even say. I have like a book of secrets upstairs. I do four journals and I hand write them. Secrets. And there's like a. There's the. There's the manifestation journal. There's a gratitude journal. There's my book of wishes, and then there's my book of secrets.

[Tana Mongeau]

How often?

[Trisha Paytas]

Every night to all four.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's a page a night. And they're huge. They're like huge books. And I have.

[Tana Mongeau]

How long have you been doing this.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe three years now? Since 2021. So yeah, about four years. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Trisha, that's so cool and like emotionally intelligent. Like that's really, really cool.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thanks. I just like write down secrets to like that I learn every day. Like secrets to happiness, secrets staying calm. Like secrets to the universe. Like I type in like little secrets that I just come up with.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just kind of make four books written. Like I'm imagining.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like that is so cool. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I feel like I'm always like oh, I want to journal and then I don't.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like journaling is fun because it like relaxes your mind. Like you don't overthink things when you journal and I love it so much and I feel like for like manifesting and visualizing like when you write something down it's like written. You know what I mean? Like it's out there to the universe. It's done. Like when you write it, it's just done. It's taken care of.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's so funny the way you inspire me. Like I'm going home and like I'm going to be in my little journal and I'm like Trisha does it. So like I'm not kidding.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'll get you a little journal. 2025 cutest. I love journals. I like go on Etsy and buy like all these journals all the time. They're so fun. I love.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm obsessed with you. It's actually insane. I don't get me started. I know you guys but I'm obsessed with Trisha Paytas.

[Trisha Paytas]

You like a disco ball. I love it. We're like really matching disco balls. You.

[Tana Mongeau]

It just heals my inner child much the way we like like we always say this but like we're just like so we're just girls together and we get to dress up.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is what's fun. Off camera too. You're like this is so fun. I'm like, I know. I just.

[Tana Mongeau]

Cuz it's just like it feels like a sleepover. Like our work days feel like it's like it doesn't feel like work.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, it feels like a sleepover. It feels, it always feels like fake vibes to me. Like we are just having like a sleepover and like Devin's our friend that's like pretending to be a producer. I'm like sit over there and be a producer.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like literally, Literally.

[Trisha Paytas]

You guys look great. I'm like thank you.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm like, we're just ordering food after this and doing well.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is actual sleepover vibes.

[Tana Mongeau]

I can't wait.

[Trisha Paytas]

We. We did decide on chili. Well, that's.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, we can't decide what restaurant to. To Mukbang.

[Trisha Paytas]

They're like, wow, like Chili's a lot. Okay. No, 2025. Manifesting a Chili's commercial for you.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God, I love you so much. Yeah, I need like Trisha manifestations. Like, I wouldn't even think of that. Digital.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, remember when Shane was in a digital Taco Bell commercial? And like, that's what you should do. You should be in the digital chili.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. Well, and now that it came out of your mouth, I feel like I have a chance of it happening.

[Trisha Paytas]

Could you imagine that's gonna be mine?

[Tana Mongeau]

Imagine that. Wow. That's gonna be like my. Like, you're my friend. So like now I can just ask you to say things for me so they come true.

[Trisha Paytas]

The channel. Tana triple dipper.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my.

[Trisha Paytas]

That was so good.

[Tana Mongeau]

Hannah's triple dipper, please.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, that's. That's iconic. Make it happen.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love it. Oh, my word. Triple dipper.

[Trisha Paytas]

Together we are a triple dipper.

[Tana Mongeau]

I want to be the mozzarella sticks, sliders.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I like a chicken nugget. I like the chicken. But what are they? Chicken crispers.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Oh, my God. Should we take a collar?

[Trisha Paytas]

Let's get it. Oh, also go call this number if you want to call. Keep it short in and sweet. Keep it fun. Keep it nice. Or not. Also, if you have. If you're in distress, call us.

[Tana Mongeau]

Actually, I'm gonna go on the complete opposite of that. I want to hear a rant.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

Who pissed you off this week?

[Trisha Paytas]

Love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, wouldn't that be so fun?

[Trisha Paytas]

Sugar and spice over here. Yeah, let's do.

[Tana Mongeau]

Tell me about your co workers. Like everyone has that one at work where it's like, you, you know, let's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Get into that then. And then also Patreon.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's a negative. God. Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I love it. You gotta let it out, you know, you just gotta like, sometimes you have to let out the negativity.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love venting. Yeah, I do love it to you. It's so nice.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's why we're here. I love and it like. I truly do like, cuz you to get it out feels like good. You know what I mean? Otherwise you like bottle up and you're like, okay. I just like went through something so, like, awful.

[Tana Mongeau]

I like walked into Trisha's house today and she was like, hi. I was like, hi.

[Trisha Paytas]

How are You. I just like, no, I never seen you crying. I was just like, oh, my gosh. Wait, this is like, a lot. And then I'm. I'm glad you said everything. And now you're like, so I'm gonna.

[Tana Mongeau]

I feel lighter. I truly feel lighter. And it's crazy. It's so lovely.

[Trisha Paytas]

You have to. And that's why we're here, to rant it out, vent out, and cry to us. If you want, we can listen to it. Also, we have a patreon. Patreon.com not loveline. We answer saucy sex questions. They get wild.

[Tana Mongeau]

Dude, we just shot one. And, like, I have the most fun doing that ever. I'm not even kidding.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's so fun. Like, I love just getting into it.

[Tana Mongeau]

And we just went crazy. Like, we were talking about our. Like, let me stop. Like, our kinks are everything. Like, oh, my God, it's so fun.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. Just all the shapes. You can cut it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Not kidding.

[Trisha Paytas]

Go rinses her hands over here like dolphin stars.

[Tana Mongeau]

Listen, someone had a bush question, and I had answers.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, patreon.com not loveline if you want to see those. All right, let's get into question number one.

[Tana Mongeau]

Devin just said the cutest thing about everyone calling and, like, using us as, like, therapy and tyvet and, like, truly, like, everyone needs that, you know? So thank you, guys.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is. It is really nice.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, he said there was trusting us, you know, for sure.

[Trisha Paytas]

The fact that he gives them call, he says they call in and leave. Like, so if you want to leave a long one, feel free. It might not be on the air, but feel free. If you feel like you need to talk and let it out. We are. Are here to listen and we do hear from them. Thanks to Devin. He can transcribe them from us and get the. Get the. The vibes and get them out. I love that.

[Tana Mongeau]

We love you guys so much.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, seriously, this is so cool that, like, the call. And I love that.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know. Imagine no one called in. Like, thanks, guys. But, you know, imagine we just had two calls, and it was Paige and Devin. Like, thank God.

[Trisha Paytas]

Shout out to those podcasts who do that, though. I love podcasts. Again, like, and I mean this so sincerely, not in any way, but I. I would do it too. I've done it, actually. I've had a podcast podcast. It was a lost podcast. I had like 3, 000 views. And it's like, I love the people who still do it. You know what I mean? And, like, no one's, like, Watching. And I'd, like, love that. I've done that. I've done it so many times.

[Tana Mongeau]

You never know when something can pop off. I saw this thing on Tick Tock where it was this old guy, he was like, super old, and he had a YouTube channel where he would just, like, go fishing and show his fish, and it was getting, like, one view and then people blew it up and he was getting, like, millions of views.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, really?

[Tana Mongeau]

And coming back to his, like, vlogs and, like, thanking his new viewers and it's like, like it's never too late. Like, you never know.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, seriously, like you said they could. Anything could pop off and blow up. And I like that so much.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I was posting things with seven views for so long, you know, like, just never give up on your dreams.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was doing that, like, a couple years ago. Like, no one was watching my podcast and I was posting every day.

[Tana Mongeau]

Stop.

[Trisha Paytas]

Seriously.

[Tana Mongeau]

We do just love to yap. It's our passion.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love yapping.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love making passionate yappers.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's a good name for a podcast too.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. We're gonna have another podcast in five minutes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just talking, literally. Round table question number one.

[Devin]

Hi, Trish and Tana. My name is Christina and we need your help. So my boyfriend has made it clear that his number one celebrity crush is Dua Lipa. And I get it, Dua Lipa said, but I can't help but feel a little jealous whenever it comes up. And so next year, Dua Lipa is doing a show in our city, and I already told him that I don't want to go because I feel like I'm just going to be going to watch him, like, thirst over another girl. But now he's saying that him and his male co worker are making plans to go together. And, like, this isn't even his kind of music. Like, he doesn't even, like pop bop. So I'm like, you know, But I just want to know, am I being so anti girls girl if I, like, ask him not to go or do I just need to check myself?

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you.

[Tana Mongeau]

Love you. Oh, my God, we love you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my gosh. No.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I hate men. I'm sorry. I sound like a broken record. Seriously, that one got me, like, fired up. Like, I feel it in my blood.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, what do you mean you're going with, like, a co worker to see Dua Lipa? First of all, she's not interested in you. She wants nothing to do with you. Like, you going just to go, like, be weird and creepy. Like, don't. When you have like this lovely girl at home who actually loves you and wants to be with you.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh my God. I like, I would get vengeful. I would be like, listen, I love Benson Boone, right? I'd be like, Benson Boone is daddy. And then I would go to a Benson Boone show with all my girls. Like, I would have to, like.

[Trisha Paytas]

You would get even by just going to another hot guy's concert.

[Tana Mongeau]

And like, I would like be telling like my man like that I think this guy guy is so hot. Like, if he's dead set on that and you're not gonna break up with him, like, no, don't break up with him. Jesus.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's like extreme. Like, I think, like, look, when people, when guys search over celebrities, I do again, hold a little double standard to this. I'm kind of like, okay, you're kind of like, weird. Like, that person's never gonna be into you. Like, why are you thirsting after them? I think when girls do it, it's like cute. When guys do it, it's like, you're weird. Like she doesn't want anything to do with you. Like, what?

[Tana Mongeau]

So that's so valid. Like, when a girl does it, it's camp. And when I got. But like, on a serious note, it's like, even. All double standards aside, I think it's okay to like, voice with your partner. Like, you know, if you think a celebrity is like, you know, good looking or something like that. But like, when it gets to that point, like, obsessive and like, her energy is very much like, okay, I get it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, yeah, well, especially when she's pretty adamant. Like, I don't want to go to this thing with you. Like, you know, she's like, she is upset about it that you're.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then you're just going to go with your male coworker to do a leap of giving.

[Trisha Paytas]

Weird. It's giving. Creep. It's giving. Yeah, I don't like it at all.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't, don't. I don't like it. I don't like it. I'm sorry.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because again, he's not like a child. Like, why does he need to see this, like, person? Like, what?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, why even in the flesh if you don't even like the music?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, like, just look at her Instagram. Like a creep from afar. You know, don't be in person. Creeper. It's weird. It's.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like you're spending money that you could be spending on me.

[Trisha Paytas]

See? Yeah. Being home with me. Like, we could actually be having. Other than you just, like, fantasizing about someone who wants nothing to do with you. Like, it's so weird.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I think. Okay. Honestly, that's my advice. Become so randomly obsessed with a male celebrity that you can also see live and be so extreme about it. Like, I need you to be wearing the merch. Like, I need.

[Trisha Paytas]

She becomes the next Brianna. Like, with Zach Brian. Like, they meet at a concert and start dating. Well, hopefully doesn't end like that, but, you know, at least, you know.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

What is a couple that ends good where you meet someone as a fan and they date? Is there any good story like that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Justin Bieber and Haley.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, Justin Bieber. Oh, yeah. Be the Hailey Bieber. Go find Justin.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know, shake hands with him backstage, get that photo.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then I am manifesting, like, you doing the exact same thing, but, like, slaying 10 times harder.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Like, actually dating. Actually becoming the. The girlfriend, the wife, the. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Or even just like, at most, like, I think you need to piss him off to the point where he's like, stop.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Guys are way more sensitive. Like, if you were doing that and he was uncomfortable, he'd be so. You know, you guys are so much.

[Tana Mongeau]

Tantrum.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. You're being actually too close.

[Tana Mongeau]

You have the power, diva. You have the power.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

There are so many great male artists that are touring cities near you. So that's my go to SeatGeek.

[Trisha Paytas]

Not sponsored. Why isn't seeking sponsoring this? There is one to everyone.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my. Taylor Lautner is the other one.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's married to his wife who was a fan. Oh, Taylor Lautner married a fan named Taylor?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, her name's Taylor too, so she's Taylor Lautner, actually. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's weird.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's kind of right.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, if I met someone named Trisha, I don't know if I could date them.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, that's actually so true. Like, if my boyfriend was named Tana, I would be like, oh, my God, you want to be me so bad.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Or did he date Taylor Swift too? It's like, does he only date people with the same name as him?

[Tana Mongeau]

That's. Oh, my God. I actually know someone who dated him, and she told me that he would, like, make her watch his, like, stuff.

[Trisha Paytas]

Lauder. Yeah, I can see it. I guess that's why he married a fan.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's probably like, let's watch Twilight together. Like, yeah. 5,000 times.

[Tana Mongeau]

Please do.

[Trisha Paytas]

They invited me on their podcast, and I was like, I. I only would want to know about Twilight. Like, I don't think I have any interest in anything else.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. I mean, but honestly, how funny if you show up, like, as a werewolf. Yeah, like, that's so funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

We cosplayed Twilight. I think Moses was definitely Jacob.

[Tana Mongeau]

Where the hell have you been, loca?

[Trisha Paytas]

Where the hell have you been, Jacob? It's been three months.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait, that's so fun. Yeah. Were you. Are you Edward or Jacob?

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, if I could be that one of them.

[Tana Mongeau]

No. Like, who do you want more? I always was Jacob up.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, really?

[Tana Mongeau]

Then I switched to Edward.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm kind of more into, like, God. Who was the doctor? Carlisle. I liked him. He was so hot, right? Yeah. Looks like he's the dad of Edward and he was like, a doctor, and he was so hot and pale. Moses kind of looks like him, actually.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha Paytas]

One time I put him in, like, he was also Edward one time, and I put him in, like, the makeup and hair. I'm like, wait, you kind of look like Carlisle.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait, that's everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Okay. I was never even, like, when I came out, I just did not find them hot. Not to be a pick me and be like, I never found them hot, but, like, I kind of didn't.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was such a pick me over Twilight. Like, everyone was into it, so I, like, had to, like, be into it, too, to, like, be cool.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was like, the pick me where I'm like that. I don't even like Twilight.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just, like, read better books. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. I was like, don't know what it is. I didn't. I didn't watch it for so long, but then I got into it. Like, a couple years ago. We started watching. I was like, oh, I kind of like it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait, that's up for you.

[Trisha Paytas]

I wish I could have had a wedding. Like, there's, like, in the forest. Like, I wish I would have done our wedding before my Twilight era, because I would have totally done it, like, oh, my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

But, like, Maui wedding. So iconic.

[Trisha Paytas]

My wedding was great. I know. You're so jealous you're gonna be there. Oh, you were there for New Year's Eve.

[Tana Mongeau]

We're doing a trip. Us four.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

We need to.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love Hawaii, too.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Let's go.

[Trisha Paytas]

So cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

And like, us at a resort, like, very. What's that show?

[Trisha Paytas]

White Lotus. Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's so White Lotus.

[Trisha Paytas]

The new White Lotus, for sure. Oh, my God. We should be on that show. Manifesting that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Manifesting.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you watch both seasons? Yes. I am so obsessed with that show.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, so good.

[Trisha Paytas]

They just finished the one In Thailand, and it comes out this year. And I was, like, campaigning so hard to be on that. I'm like, that show is my favorite show ever. And it's, like, not relatable to me at all. Like, definitely not one of those people. But I. I just. I love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's a great show.

[Trisha Paytas]

They shoot out Four Seasons. I wonder what their next location will be. They're always in, like, some, like, fancy four seasons.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know. I was staying at that Four Seasons. That's what made me watch it. I was like, well, I should watch it. Yeah. I literally watched it in the hotel. And I was like, this is so cool.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love. And then you're like, I'm actually. I know. I want to go back to that one. That one's so good. Oh, we need to be on there. We could be, like, the influencer. I feel like, you know, when they need, like, an influencer for something, I feel like we could be the influencer couple. That's like. I think they. Wait, they might have one on the Thailand. I don't think that it's a real influencer, but I think someone's playing an influencer. And I was so jealous. I was like, why don't you? Like, real influencer, right? But after snl, I'm telling you, I'm so delulu. After snl, I'll be the influencer for everything.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like, after snl, I feel like it's like White Lotus. That.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's, like, nothing compared to that.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's insane. Oh, my God. This is your year. While you're manifesting, we should manifest to bring back the Idol.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I need another season.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I would love. There was somebody at my show that was on the Idol on Sunday night. It was on the last restaurant. She was there, and she's like, I was on in the scene in the Valentino store where they were like, oh, that's a.

[Tana Mongeau]

Hottest.

[Trisha Paytas]

Tell me. I might. Tell me all about it. I was, like, so excited.

[Tana Mongeau]

Hottest scene.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's.

[Tana Mongeau]

I. The other day, I heard that song, like, we are family. It's like, for the first time. And I was like, what is this from? And then I was like, oh, my God, I need the arts.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, I thought you hated it at first.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I loved the idea. Oh, you put me on, though. I hadn't seen it. And then you were like, watch it. And then I watched it, and I love.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I swear I remember you on Cancel being like, oh, my God. Wait, what is wrong with Trisha? No, wait, really? Oh, my God. Okay. I just. Literally.

[Tana Mongeau]

False memory.

[Trisha Paytas]

I had no idea. Oh, my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

I loved the idol.

[Trisha Paytas]

I would love for it to come back.

[Tana Mongeau]

So lesbo for Lily Rose. Depp too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, same. Did you watch? Did you go to Nosferatu? Why do I remember seeing you there? The premiere that just happened? No, everybody was there. It's like the new Lily Rose. Who else is in that movie? Someone else. Some old person. Oh, Garrett, I love some old person. The one who's the Green Goblin. William Defoe. I think he's in it. Aaron Taylor Johnson.

[Tana Mongeau]

No.

[Trisha Paytas]

Bill Scarsgard. Bill Skarsgard.

[Tana Mongeau]

I haven't seen it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Everyone thinks he's so hot. I don't know how I feel about that. No, no. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Let me see.

[Trisha Paytas]

He played it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my. He was just at this party that I was at.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, maybe.

[Tana Mongeau]

And everyone was freaking out.

[Trisha Paytas]

People really do like him. He is one of those interesting faces where it's like an acquired taste.

[Tana Mongeau]

Looks like. Who does he look like?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, God. Who does he look like?

[Tana Mongeau]

He looks just like someone else.

[Trisha Paytas]

Pete Davidson, A scary clown? Yeah, a little bit.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love me some Pete. I love Pete. David, stop. I have to stop talking about Pete Davidson.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, why? I feel like he's kind of on the come down. You could, you know, like, in the sense, like, not everyone's hyping him up like they used to. So you could probably date him.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, no.

[Trisha Paytas]

You're dating. It's late, you guys. It's late. We haven't he in. Oh, my God. What? It's so late. I was.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, we've been filming for hours. Don't worry, we're. But I love our Brain Rod episodes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Brain rot for me because I'm like, don't stay up late. And I'm just doing, like, going, going. So it's like one of these things where I'm, like, thinking about the food. Then I was thinking about the girl. Boss Tom predictions, you know her on Tick Tock.

[Devin]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

She predicted Pete Davidson dating Brianna. So I was thinking, like, oh, you should. But I was like, wait, no. What? Like. But also me in my head, I always think I should date people. And I. Oh, wait, I'm being married with kids. Like, why? Like. But sometimes I think about it. I was like, oh, I should date that person.

[Tana Mongeau]

So funny. Trisha. That is so funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, randomly, like, you literally. Not like, obviously, Paul Mescal's dating Grace Abrams, and I'm like, so married. But I was like, oh, like, we probably could date in, like, a different universe or something, but not even that I was thinking like, oh, we would probably date, but. But also, I'm married. I don't know. It's like.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I get it. I get it though. I do get it. I get what you're saying. I'm just. I have to be so careful. Like, even like if I said something like that, like, I just get cook looked for things like that. We. Why like, tomorrow my for you page would be like, tana Moshe wants to cheat with Pete David.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, it would just be like, so funny. Yeah, it is interesting that people are like that. I get it. I think people just are used to me seeing outlandish things that no one ever says that's about me. Like, I could say, like, I love the weekend or whatever. People are like, okay, you know what I mean?

[Tana Mongeau]

I know. I want that. How do I get that?

[Trisha Paytas]

I think you just. I think it's because it's a possibility for you to date Pete Davidson. Like, if you were single. But there's like, it's not a possibility for me to marry Palmer. I don't even care about Paul Masculine, but, like, he's just the last person I could think of me talking about SNL again, you know, Mezcal.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just know. I don't mean like, mezcal tequila.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe it's his tequila. Yeah, maybe he owns it. He was nice. I don't know. I didn't know anything about him either. But afterwards I was like, I love him. He's great. Next caller. Devin, you're so good. You should be hosting. He's the one that's like, next caller. Let's get it moving.

[Tana Mongeau]

I like, forget that we have calls sometimes I just start yapping and I get in the zone.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, where are we? What are we doing?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, it's an advice show.

[Trisha Paytas]

When I wake up the next morning, I always think, like, what. Where were we? What were we doing yesterday? Like, it feels like a dream sometimes because the lights are also very bright. We got more lights, so it almost feels a little hallucination after a certain.

[Tana Mongeau]

It 100, like, my eyes start going crazy. I also forget everything we talk about always. Like, I just. Like, it's like in. In one ear and out the other.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like we even watch them before they come up. Cuz I'm like, I probably would overanalyze it. I'm like, let me just. If I didn't care. That's why in the moment I say cut. Cuz I'm like, tomorrow I won't care. And I'll be like, whatever. It's. But, yeah, so true.

[Tana Mongeau]

Okay, having watched four episodes so far, there's magic here.

[Trisha Paytas]

A thank you. I do like watching clips. So thanks to you, Devin came up with a really great game which is why I love him. So good. Thank you so much.

[Tana Mongeau]

Okay, next, a straight person could never.

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[Devin]

Some advice because my boyfriend is literally amazing and perfect. We've been together for like a year and a half, but him and my mom are best friends. Like they text each other tiktoks and recipes and it's okay. Like, I don't think there's anything weird going on with them, but I get a little jealous because like, is it weird that they're texting each other? It's not. It's not. But sometimes I'll go to bed and they'll hang out together alone. And I just think it's a good relationship overall that they have together. But maybe they're a little too close. Like, I trust him and I trust her and I don't know why I'm getting a hang up about this. Some advice and I love y'all. Thank you.

[Tana Mongeau]

We love.

[Trisha Paytas]

Listen to that gut. You're like, I don't know why I feel like this. Well, there's like a reason. There's like intuition for a reason.

[Tana Mongeau]

Huh. Like, okay, I don't think the texting's that word, but I think the hanging out after you're in bed.

[Trisha Paytas]

100.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, like, like, like the. The hours of hanging out. Like when the sun goes down, like and you go to bed, like, what are they staying up and doing? I also have a lot of people PTSD from that. Like not for myself but like I feel like someone is always telling me that their boyfriend, their mom.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, really? I didn't know that. I would say like friend or whatever, but mom is wild.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like I think we had a one call like that maybe. And then like on tour I would always get girls telling me that and it's like, I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Jesus. Oh my God. What Kind of moms are out there. That's so wild. And like, yeah, I think that's way too much.

[Tana Mongeau]

And you want them to be close. You want your significant other in your family. Family to get along. It's. I mean, but if you want to talk to them about boundaries, like, they should respect your boundaries and hanging out after you're in bed, like, have you ever asked, like, what do they do?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, like, why I could see, like, if you're like, went to the bathroom. Like, I always love. Like, I always feel comfortable. I used to never want to go to the bathroom because I never wanted to leave like Moses with my family. Just because, like, I always, like, didn't know if they got along or they felt awkward. So I was like, okay, I never want to leave the bathroom. So I'm always there in the conversation. But now I feel comfortable, like, leaving to go to the bathroom. So that. And they converse. So, like, that's, like, healthy. If you can converse with someone, great, you. But, like, if I'm, like, going to bed and was like, I'm going to stay down and hang out with your mom, like, in theory, I guess it's, like, not bad. I don't know. But you have a feeling. Because in me, I was thinking if it was me, I'd be like, yeah, that's fine. Like, whatever. I don't really think anything of it. But I guess if you have a gut feeling that you also, like, like.

[Tana Mongeau]

You guys are married, you've had a lot of time. Like, if this is just your boyfriend of like a year, like, it's still kind of like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, I don't. If I think about it in my relationship, I wouldn't mind it. So I'm like, trying to think. But I guess if you have. Have that feeling, like, if you're like, this feels weird, then you should probably listen to that. But in my head, I guess it's not. I guess not.

[Tana Mongeau]

And, like, how much do they text? Are they just sending, like, recipes and TikToks, or are they like, good morning, good night. I need, like, more context. Please call back in. I'm not kidding.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, that's.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just have a lot of PTSD from that. Like, immediately in my head, I'm like, you don't even want me to finish that sentence, girl.

[Trisha Paytas]

But everyone I know, I've known quite a few people who have told me, like, there's this one guy I know that's like, he was married to this girl for, like, 10 years, and he's like, yeah, they were friends they would hang out when I would go to bed. And like, now that those people are married, and I think, like, it just always never is, like, a good sign. Someone's, like, hanging out while you go to bed.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I've definitely gotten cheated on in that way. Like, you know what I mean? Like, I go to bed and then something happens. It's like, no, like, we're going to bed.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think the part. The partner should do that for sure. You, like, always should have your partner go to bed when you go to bed. That's, like, the number one thing for me. That's, like, the biggest thing if you're.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, they're, like, watching a movie or playing a game, like, alone, doing their thing.

[Trisha Paytas]

But yeah, staying.

[Tana Mongeau]

Staying up. Frequently someone, like, come rail me, like, what do you mean you're staying up with my mom at night? Like, or.

[Trisha Paytas]

Or play your game in bed or at least with me, like, do something else. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know. I. Like, I feel you. Yeah. Listen to your gun.

[Trisha Paytas]

It seems like there's. There might be something, and it could.

[Tana Mongeau]

Be an easy conversation, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Just.

[Tana Mongeau]

And maybe they just love each other, and that's awesome. And you're gonna marry him, and it's awesome.

[Trisha Paytas]

They get closer. They get more. Closer than ever.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Devin]

Like, jeez, Patrician Tana. I'll get straight to the only. Is it okay to lie to your boyfriend and say that he's your first love when you already have one? Love you both. Bye.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is it insane? Is that what you said? Is it insane? Is it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Is it okay. Okay to tell your boyfriend that he's your first love even though you've already had.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Lie. I would. I would love to hear that all day long.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, I love a lie like that. Because what's it hurting? Nobody. It's only making someone feel bad. Better.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, that's so true. Like, I. I feel like I battle that a lot where, like, I'm like, I can be fully honest, and I want to be like, I never, like, I want to be so honest. But there's a point where there is certain honesty with your partner where it's like, why are you telling them that? I just had one of my friends do that to his, like, new guy. Like, he was telling the new guy, like, oh, that's my ex over there. And I was like, why even tell him that? Like, why even have it in his head like, that your ex is over there at a party?

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, Right. And what was their response? What do they say?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know, I think they were just gonna be like, whatever. Yeah, like, yeah, like, I just wanted to be honest. But I'm like, sometimes, like, yeah, honesty's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Not the best policy.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Sometimes yourself, you know, I love.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I love saying that, too. I love being like, yeah, but sometimes you, like, mean it. I don't know. Like, I think you can have. I think you would have a lot of, like, you're the only person I loved sort of moments, you know what I mean? Because with each person I found, I'm like, wait, no, this is love. That you're the only person I actually loved like this. So he could be like your first love in that sense. But I guess if she's like, oh, he wasn't. I don't think it hurts anyone. Don't tell him he's not your first love. Just, you know, either.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I think that you could even, like, PR answer that, right? Like, you don't have to say you're my first love, but you can say, like, I've never loved anyone the way I love you. Or, like, you know what I mean? Like, because each love is, like, different, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

You should be, like, a crisis manager for sure. That's so good. The way you spun that was so good.

[Tana Mongeau]

Except my literal own crisis I can't figure out to save my life.

[Trisha Paytas]

But you ever get a PR crisis manager, you pay them, like, $5,000, literally be like, don't say anything.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like, okay, than managers are, like, the. One of the biggest scams in la. It's so crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, don't say anything. Don't say anything. Because anyone I know who's been through, like, cr. I've never had one. But anyone I know who's been through, like, a scandal or cancellation, they can't handle it. They call these people up and they always just say the same thing. Like, don't say anything. Don't.

[Tana Mongeau]

And donate to charity. Don't say anything.

[Trisha Paytas]

Donate to charity. I love that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, it's always donate to charity. Like, the PR crisis. People are like, oh, donate to charity. Okay. Like, what the. Yes. But like, I'm paying you $7,000 a month, babe. I'll just give that to St. Jude. Jude's like, you know, she always donates.

[Trisha Paytas]

To St. Jude's you can, like, up at $5.

[Tana Mongeau]

See, I knew I loved them.

[Trisha Paytas]

The little drawings in there, too, are always, like, the little colorings. It's always, like, to donate to St. Jude. That is cute thinking about that. Chili says cheesecake. You guys. That's so crazy. I love that you love cheesecake because Moses does not like cheesecake, so I can never eat it, but I love.

[Tana Mongeau]

We can always eat cheesecake.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

Always. I love cheesecake.

[Trisha Paytas]

Me, too. It's my fave. It's my fave. And he likes. Does not like it.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's so good. Like, the texture.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it's like. What is it? Like frozen cream cheese or something?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, and I love cream cheese. I think that's right, too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like on a bagel. So is it. If you could. Can you make a. No. Baked cheesecake with just cream cheese or what else is in there?

[Tana Mongeau]

Let's try. Let's make our own tonight. I'm sorry. I don't know if you had plans, but let's.

[Trisha Paytas]

Bacon. No baked cheesecake. I'm down.

[Tana Mongeau]

We're in delirious hours.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know.

[Tana Mongeau]

Hey, diva.

[Devin]

Okay, guys, my problem is, is me and my boyfriend have been dating for six years, and it's been since I was in high school. So he says that he doesn't care if I go out and sleep with other people. He thinks it's hot. It's kind of like his kink. And, you know, like, I was all for it, so I went and I did it and I was like, oh, like, then I can experience other people because I've been with him for so long. But no, I like that he doesn't want me all to himself. Even though this was, like, my dream. Like, oh, I have a man that's all about me, and he doesn't care that I. Other people. But no, somehow I still find a way to not be happy about this. And I don't know if I should bring it up because I don't know if I want to stop other people or if I should just, like, let it go and be grateful for what I got. Thank you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you. I love the endings to it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

There's a lot there.

[Tana Mongeau]

So her boyfriend's down for her to sleep with other people, and she wants. She's like, why don't you want me all to yourself? Like, what's he.

[Trisha Paytas]

He wants her to. Oh, that's his kink.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, like, go sleep with other people. But she's like, what the. Like, you're fine with that? Like, what do you mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I think that's just, like, a kink that he has. And, like, it's like any kink. It's like if you're not down for it. Like, if someone likes to pee on you and you're like, I don't want to be peed on.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

It just won't work.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's. That is true to me, you know, that feels like. Like if. If someone. First of all, if Mokoa came to me and said that, I would burn the house down, I think because I.

[Trisha Paytas]

Want to see you with other people.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Because I would just be like, okay, like, what the. You're bored. Like, you know what I mean? Or like, you want other people to. Like, why are you together? Like, I don't know. There are. With couples who do that. It's not my personal cup of tea. It does work for some people, but to me, it would also feel like a setup. I would be like, seems like a setup setup. Like, why do you want. You, like, do you want to sleep with other people?

[Trisha Paytas]

The paranoia kicks in.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, like. Like, if Moses was like, trisha, I want you to go sleep with other people. Wild, like, wouldn't you be like, okay, like, so then are you gonna go sleep with other people?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I think it's definitely something you. If you get it, you get it. If you don't, you don't. Because, like, I could never. I'd be like, what the hell?

[Tana Mongeau]

You're tired of railing me?

[Trisha Paytas]

Some people just love watching. Like, there's a lot of. There's a lot of influencers that just love watching, like, male influencers. And you're just like, this is odd, huh? Like, on all spectrums in the beauty community and the vlogging community, like, there's.

[Tana Mongeau]

Just so much, like, so much. It's like a real thing. Like, people. I feel like, like, like that's happened to me. Like, I want to watch you and your boyfriend.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes. It's very odd. It's very.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think it makes it a little better if the boyfriend wants to watch it in person, but if he's straight up just saying, like, I'm going to stay at home, you go get.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, it's like, that is so. Yeah, that's weird. That's like him just being like, I want the house to myself.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like, honestly real.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, leave and, you know, to stay up for a couple hours. Yeah. Like, oh, gosh, maybe he likes the smell or something when she gets back. Or the.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know, I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

Do you guys know what this kink is called? What is it?

[Trisha Paytas]

No. Oh, okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know, I used to call everyone a. Like, you're a. But people love it. Like, if you love. Love doing that. And some. Probably some women love that too. They love to just go out and, like, like, live their best life. But it doesn't sound like you are a match with him and you've been.

[Tana Mongeau]

Together for six years. I don't know. Maybe do it. I think I'd be pissed but like maybe I'd do it. I, I, but then like when I come up my real life, like like really in my real life I wouldn't do it but like I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

But it's like you're serious and you're in love with someone. That would be like so hard to hear. But I guess some people just like get it. So I think he needs to find someone who also wants that in a relationship because I'm sure there is somebody who wants that too. So.

[Tana Mongeau]

Same seems like a setup to me.

[Trisha Paytas]

The paranoia.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I know. I'm such a.

[Trisha Paytas]

Seems like not a match to me.

[Tana Mongeau]

But you know, not a match.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did we do an intro for this episode?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think so.

[Trisha Paytas]

Smart. You remember everything.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm not at all hanging out by a thread up here. Walnuts rattling around in my skull actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

But oh my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

Or here.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do you remember that youtuber where her name was Walnuts and she would like oh yes, Blair Walnuts.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, that's a TikTok stalker.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, she would buy like gear clothes from Poshmark and be like I bought Tana stinky clothes. But she also didn't mind. Like I bought her stinky clothes. She'd call them stinky and I'm like okay, we washed her. I washed my clothes before Poshmark. She would buy them from like depop and wear your clothes. What the November. But I think it is player ones. I think she was a YouTuber and she used to make those videos.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was so crazy about making sure my depop didn't smell when I did it because I was just like I will never outlive these allegations. No.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I think she started those too and it was like so annoying because I was like okay, no one wants to be called stinky. Even if it was like a troller.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm like shower my.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did it come up? Let me see. Yes. Is this a Tana one? She is there one with Tana's clothes? Cuz I swear I know she did one with mine but I'm pretty sure.

[Tana Mongeau]

A smart idea for like views. I'm not going to lie like buying.

[Trisha Paytas]

Why do I sell somewhere? Did you used to sell them?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I used to have a depop for like a long time. I actually miss it cuz I just wear things like once.

[Trisha Paytas]

Same, same, same right now. Yeah, my mom just Sells mine on Poshmark all the time.

[Tana Mongeau]

You should do that again. But I made so much fun of Alyssa Violet Steep Hop. I didn't even mean to, but she.

[Trisha Paytas]

Had a good description. Didn't she have good descriptions? Like, I feel like I like when someone has, like, I wore this and this night. Like, she can.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, because you're kind of buying it for, like, the lore.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Like, so you know so much lore with your clothes. Be like, this is the night I did this.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, this is the night I did. One of her videos is, I spent 300 on Tana Mojo. Stinky used clothes from her teapot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, that's what it was. Stinky used clothes. She said it to mine, too. She's like, I bought stinky clothes.

[Tana Mongeau]

Stinky is crazy.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is crazy.

[Tana Mongeau]

That is, like, one thing. That is one thing about me. Like, I. That just makes, like, people thinking that I. I smell good.

[Trisha Paytas]

You smell very good.

[Tana Mongeau]

I, like, will die on that hill. Like, I. I take it very seriously, and it makes me so mad.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I hate it, too. I hate that. Because it's like, I'm definitely not, like, a stinky person. It's like, because I think. Because I say I shower, like, every other day or every couple days, but I'm like, I don't stink if I stuck. Like, it's weird. I'm, like, not a stinky person. So I do hate that.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I love deodorant. I love a good perfume. Sometimes I smell like. Or like, maybe a Crunch wrap now and again, but, like, I love a Crunch wrap, too. Love sounds so good.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think Thursday, Taco Bell's coming out. Chicken nuggets.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're.

[Trisha Paytas]

But does that sound good from Taco Bell?

[Tana Mongeau]

The nacho cheese, I would eat that up. I love their cheese.

[Trisha Paytas]

Cheese is so good.

[Tana Mongeau]

Their nacho cheese. I could lie.

[Trisha Paytas]

I never did a jelly bean sweets mukbang in front of moa. Just chowing down on a burrito.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait, I'm doing it later. No, I'm kidding. I need to spice it up. I'm doing it later. I. I, like, do that without filming it all the time. I'm just eating next to him. Like I was eating Wendy's saucy nuggets off my chest the other night. Like, they're good. Yeah. As I'm like, I don't smell. Wait. Nuggets Diva. Should we get another caller? I love bags that are items you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I know.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like a cheeseburger purse.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, that's so cute. Yeah, I saw, like, Aani one. I love The Judith Liber ones. But they're so expensive.

[Tana Mongeau]

They're so expensive.

[Trisha Paytas]

Why are they $10,000 for a bling phone?

[Tana Mongeau]

And I feel like you could just, like. There's so many takes of that.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. They're so expensive. I love them, though.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think my new bit's going to be Dharma Cage skate. What is that like buying fake bags? Like, maybe. Maybe I'm in my Santee Ali era, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

I love. I used to love Santee Alley. I used to get all this stuff. Yeah, we should go down there.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's a fun video. That's a really fun video.

[Trisha Paytas]

I used to buy all my old, like, knockoff Louboutins down there. They were like, so it's the way to go off. I thought this was, like, an original concept for a show. And then Tana was telling me, like, what was it we were talking about? He's a therapist, does calls at the end. I always thought he just interviewed, like, major celebrities, but, like, no, he takes calls. Calls.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Vanita, I forgot to call. I was like, oh, my God. Wait here. I thought we were being so original. I was like, everyone's just our lives.

[Tana Mongeau]

Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know.

[Tana Mongeau]

I really thought he's copying someone.

[Trisha Paytas]

Literally. Me just copying. It's okay. It's not the full show. I mean, we literally copied. I knocked off Loveline for this. I really wanted to call it Loveline, the podcast, but I was like, I think your managers or lawyers were like, oh, it's too close to Loveline. And I was like, well, if we call it not Loveline, it's parody, actually. I felt like such a lawyer going back. Actually, it falls under the category of parody, not lawyers. I was really, like, adamant on this day. I mean, I know you were like, whatever. I don't know. I don't care. But I was like, no, this is the name. No, I loved Loveline. I wanted to host it so bad without the misogyny.

[Tana Mongeau]

But, yeah, Drew, we're gonna cosplay a whole episode.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, yes, let's play an episode.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's what we do.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, he has hair. I think. I think a Dr. Phil.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait, I thought Dr. Drew was bald, too. Jesus.

[Trisha Paytas]

He has gray hair. He has nice gray hair. Hair.

[Tana Mongeau]

I will say, in having worked on Fanina's and watched Jake's show, those callers don't compare to y'all.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, Devin saying we got the best callers.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. I mean, our fans are just. They're. They're like us, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

They really are. I really, like, that's Why I love live show so much. You probably relate to, like, when you meet people. I'm like, God, we're all just are relating and crying and just, like, all, like, feel the same energy. It's very Cynthia Riva. Ariana Grande in the Wicked tour. Just, like, crying and no one understanding him. Yeah. And everyone's just, like, sobbing together. And probably everyone. Everyone's just like. Like, I have a guy that moves people through the lines. Okay, thank you. I'm like, give us a minute. Yeah. He's just like, I don't even know what's happening. I'm like, you don't need to know.

[Tana Mongeau]

That always happens. Like, the venue security is, like, in the corner of my shows, horrified. And I'm like, you don't get it. You don't have to.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, no. They're literally like, okay, let's go, let's go. I'm like, we're having a moment.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Oh, my God. I'm the same way. I will spend hours.

[Trisha Paytas]

Next call.

[Tana Mongeau]

Next call.

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[Devin]

Hi, guys, this is Kelsey from Kentucky. I need some advice. It's really for my friend. She gave me permission to ask, but my best friend found pictures of her fiance posing in the mirror in her lingerie. It wasn't a joke or anything. These were, like, hidden on his phone and she found them. She hasn't confronted him yet because she doesn't know what to do. She also went through his phone and saw that he's been sending nude photos of not only himself, but also of her to another guy. So we really need advice to give her. Please help. Love you guys so much. Bye.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think I draw the line when someone sends your nudes to someone else. I loved. I was so into, like, him wearing the lingerie.

[Tana Mongeau]

Love.

[Trisha Paytas]

I would, like, gag if Moses wearing my lingerie. Like, wow, that's literally really same everything. Like, trying it on, exploring. Love that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I know. I was, like, riding for her until the nudes.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was like, love this guy. And then as soon as she's like, oh, he sends our nudes, too. I was like, what? Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

The second part, in my opinion, no. If Sands or Butts is grounds for a breakup, the first part is so, like, I'm just. I love Mako's little butt. I'm imagining it.

[Trisha Paytas]

And, like, so cute in the little lingerie.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And, like, I'm. I'm such a confrontational person, too. I'd be like, so, what's up with you? Or wearing my garter belt, you know? Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

I would, like, leave some out on purpose. Be like, maybe try this tonight. But, like, not say it, but just, like, leave it out. Be like, oh, that.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, that's better. That's better.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just so I. He knows I know, and I'm good with it. Like, here's more. Oh, yeah. I kind of love it, though. I love it. Especially with all the cameras. Like, we were talking about having cameras in her house. You could just see it and have, like, spy a little fun. I think that's cute, but.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think that's cute. But the Sending your nude, that's literally so. To another guy. If Makoa was. Yeah. Like, oh, my God, like, why is he doing it?

[Trisha Paytas]

What's like, the. What is he saying?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, yeah, that's grounds for a breakup, in my opinion. I really would be, like, absolutely.

[Trisha Paytas]

Immediately.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's just so disrespectful. And.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, I, like, such a freak. Such a freak.

[Tana Mongeau]

I. I hate to. I'm really, really trying to be less like, dump that man. But sometimes it's just like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, I think we get at least one dump that man. And this is my one that I would use Dump that man. Everyone else, you know, you want to be friends with my mom. Okay, Yes. I want to watch that ring all night. But I think. I think this one is, like, you're a freak and a psycho, and you shouldn't be let out of the ward.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it's one thing. Yeah, it's. It's like, one thing. If he was like, hey, can I do this? This is my fetish. Like, that is so violating. Like, I would be like, what the.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do you mean?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, this Grinder stranger has my pick, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

No, that's, like, literally essay. Like, that's literally insane. That's like, that's actually. I'm gonna call the cops. I'm worried for your safety. That's so scary. Like, what?

[Tana Mongeau]

We love you, girl, and you deserve better.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's a breakup. I think we get one. Definitely break up with him. And I think this is.

[Tana Mongeau]

We should Have a button. We should have like a dump him button.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then we press it once a show.

[Trisha Paytas]

O.

[Tana Mongeau]

Maybe twice, maybe three times actually.

[Trisha Paytas]

The golden buzzer. Yeah. Okay, great.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love the golden buzzer.

[Trisha Paytas]

The golden buzzer, yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

We need a golden buzzer for dump him.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

Now we'll have one tomorrow.

[Trisha Paytas]

Said I'm getting it. He's like, I'm getting it. That's what I'm saying. He's like, me. He's just like, I got it. I'm getting it tomorrow. Ordered it now. Ordered it already.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's so funny. I could tell Trisha, I literally want a pony and tomorrow there'd be a pony. I love you.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm going to send it to your house. Last question, Last caller.

[Devin]

Hi, Trisha. Hi, Tana. I'm going to remain anonymous for this, so this one's kind of a long story, but I'll give you the sparks Note version. I'm 20, my boyfriend is 44. We met at work and my family, like my mom and my dad have come around to the idea of it and they just want me to like be happy and. But I have two older brothers, 29 and 40, and they basically hate the idea of it. And my older brother who's 40 has come around, but my younger brother who's 29, basically told me that he still wants to have me in his life, but he wants nothing to do with my boyfriend. And I just feel like I need to live my life for me, but I don't want to choose my boyfriend over my family. What do you guys think I should do? Love you guys.

[Tana Mongeau]

We love you. That's hard. I think if both brothers were against it, it's giving, like looking out for you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like I, I think I've had so many times in my life where I am like dying on the hill of doing something so, like, not good for me. And the people who loved me knew before I was willing to accept it, you know, and try to be mindful of that, you know, if that's the case, 20 and 44 is also a crazy age gap. Like I feel like, yeah, until you're like 25, you are not, you know, all there.

[Trisha Paytas]

Ew. Hate it too. I don't even want you to watch this anymore. Like that's crazy. No, I'm glad you're watching this because you need to hear this, but that's actually crazy. Nothing comes from a 20 year old dating 40, 49 year old. But more on the 49 year old. Obviously not on you. Like I get it, I was 20 dating a 55 year old. Like, it's so disgusting and so like manipulative and wrong. And like what, like, what does a 49 year old have in common with a 20 year old? Even if you have everything in common. Just like mentally, he's like the, the older, the, the power dynamic of an older man is already off balance. I hate this. I hate this so much. You know, with passion. Listen to your brothers. Honestly. Yeah, this is like, I don't care if it was like literally like the Dalai Lama, who, how old is he? He must be like 70. Even if it was the Dalai Lama being like, I want to date you, I'd be like, absolutely not if you're 20, you know what I mean? Like, I don't care.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then he's mentally stuck there, if that's what he's going for. Like, I, I don't think it's going to be your end game, girl. And I think that it's a lesson that a lot of people learn the hard way. And your brothers are probably just looking out for you, you know what I mean? And you're 20. Go get a hot, sexy 23 year old. Like let that geriatric man, you know? Yeah, geriatric, but you know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

Or wait till you're 30 and date a 50 year old. Like if you really are like, I love an old man. Like, you know, like live a little and then I guess date like an old guy. I got. If it was like my daughter, I honestly would probably either like forbid her. I probably would just like not talk to her. I don't know, like tough love, something. I mean, I guess I'd be there for her, but like, it's literally the scariest situation to ever be in. The most manipulated, like awful things that gets ruined in me, like traumatized me, like literally gave me a personality disorder. Like, it's just awful. And like everyone I talk to has this like same thing. And the people who think they're like not and they think it's like, no, but ours was good, ours was okay. Or they don't think they were groomed. Like they're still going through that trauma. Like 100.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I like, I fully agree with you. Honestly, I just think it's like crazy. You're 20 and he's 44. You have to think about it from your brother's perspective. Like, I'd be so scared. Yeah, for, for you. Because it's like, you just have to understand that everyone else is looking at it. Like, why does he want to be with someone that is so much younger than him. Why?

[Trisha Paytas]

Without the life experience, with the knowledge? Because, like, you just don't know as much as someone who's been here 20 years more than you. Like to be the dumbest person on earth, but still, like, knows more because he's just been on the earth longer and been in more relationships.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I feel like I. When I was 20 years old, I thought I knew everything. I am just. I can speak on that. Like, I genuinely. I think I fell victim to so many things like that because I felt so much older. And now, even looking back, even though I was like, so mature, had so much life experience, like, for my age age, it was still like, you're weird because you wanted me. Like, you know, 100 same.

[Trisha Paytas]

I, like, was so attracted to people in their 50s and 40s and I was like, this is what I want. Like, they get me. I'm just older, like, whatever. And it's just like, they all actually were, like, looking back, you're just like, there was. There's some sort of control, power dynamics, something that they. Or just like something honestly wrong with them. Even if I look back at relationships, like, but I was so in love with him, I'm like, there was still something wrong. I just look back and even like, no, there's something weird with him. I just don't know what it was. You know what I mean?

[Tana Mongeau]

I agree. And just that he's 44. Like, you have to think about really deeply, like, why isn't he married? Why is he dating women his own age? Like, just. I would really maybe try to hear your brothers out a little more and maybe just see what's in the dating pool a little closer to your age and take it from us, Save yourself probably from some trauma.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you for all the numbers, though. Thank you for being so specific on it.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, honestly. And thank you for calling in with that. Because I think it's like, yes. No, that's a good question to ask both of us, I feel like. And yeah, we're here for you.

[Trisha Paytas]

The majority of, like, influencers who've dated people that are older. Like, we'll give you that, like, line that we'll tell you that now. Like, we thought it was cool and it's not. And it's like.

[Tana Mongeau]

And everyone says that, but it is just. It's hard at that age to take anyone's advice. I thought I knew everything.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, of course, you know, you're different or exception to the rule.

[Tana Mongeau]

So we. Devin came up with a little Game.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I'm so excited for Red Flag. Green Flag. With the actual Red Flag. Green flags.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. We love a prop.

[Trisha Paytas]

What is he the one? I love it. Is that a TV show already? I feel like that's already a show on Netflix.

[Tana Mongeau]

Are you the one?

[Trisha Paytas]

Are you the one?

[Tana Mongeau]

Look at you go.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't remember it. Okay. Oh, wow. Oh, my gosh. Thank you. Oh, my gosh. The advantage of having a younger friend.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait. I'm so excited to see if we agree or disagree.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it. It really does feel like we're on, like, the Newlywed Game or something.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, oh, my God, I love this.

[Trisha Paytas]

New game called Red Flag. Green Flag Flag. Devin, our producer, is going to give us a trait, and we are going to hold up a flag depicting our opinion on the subject.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. I was like, yes, yes, yes. So, yeah, Red Flag or Green Flag? I'm so excited to see if we have the same opinion.

[Trisha Paytas]

Same. Well, and for audio listeners, we will obviously tell you the color that we're holding.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

But go to the video because it's fun, because it's visual. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Come hang out with us. Our outfits are really cute anyways.

[Trisha Paytas]

True. So true. They are a passionate supporter of a sports team. Red flag, Trish. Green flag. Tana. Why the green. Green flag is wild?

[Tana Mongeau]

Well, we need, like, yellow.

[Trisha Paytas]

We need yellow passion about a sports team. What's the thought process?

[Tana Mongeau]

I mean, I guess it's just good to have a passion. Like, I'm passionate about, like, eyeshadow palettes. I don't know. I don't know what I'm passionate about. Like, that's not a good example. Like, yeah, Like, I stand things. I just try to look at it in my head. Like, how, like, if a girl's standing wicked. Like, that's his wicked. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

No, Football could never be wicked. Any ball could never be wicked. I'm sorry. People just being so upset after a loss. I've seen people. There's an influence I follow, and she's like, thank God that my team won today, because otherwise my husband would be so upset all day.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, yeah, that's awful.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I'm like, get out. Get out of that relationship.

[Tana Mongeau]

When you put it that way, like, that's a red flag. Like, I just mean passionate, happy, excited for the game. If he's, like, taking it into his real life and, like, throwing temper tantrums over the team's winning. And that is embarrassing.

[Trisha Paytas]

Embarrassing.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I would be like, aren't you embarrassed?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, that's sad. Like, I'm imagining being with a man, and he's like, to you all day because, like, the Giants lost.

[Trisha Paytas]

How I know people like that? Like, I literally, as soon as someone says they like sports, I'm like, bye. Never talking.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, that's, like, horrible, Horrifying.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. So.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. If Moa was like, that's so funny. Like, if he was, like, being to me because a team lost.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, I've had people in my family be like that. I'm like, this is psychotic. Like, what?

[Tana Mongeau]

No, that's. That's, like, insane. That's insane. Healthy passion is good, but.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. I think we need yellow. I fear step into the world of.

[Tana Mongeau]

Power, loyalty, and luck. I'm gonna make him an offer he.

[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

Okay, we've got Tana with the red and Trisha with the green.

[Trisha Paytas]

The excitement over the little things in life make me happy. It's the little things that matter.

[Tana Mongeau]

Why are you, like, swaying me, too? Like, you ate with that.

[Trisha Paytas]

We just survived this plane ride together. Thank you, Jesus, for landing us safely.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love. No, you're eating down. But see, I'm just. As. As a woman. Okay, As a man. Why are you doing that? Like, what? You need attention. Like, oh, the plane landed.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's happy.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know why.

[Trisha Paytas]

I hate that. She's happy. He's alive. Sorry.

[Tana Mongeau]

No. Yeah, you're so right. Like, why do I. I hate that. Where were we? We were flying somewhere, and it was like, Veterans Day. And everyone clapped when the plane landed, and I was so mad. And then it was like it was Veterans Day, and I felt so awful, like they were clapping for our veterans.

[Trisha Paytas]

We didn't hear the announcement.

[Tana Mongeau]

We're looking around.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're like, those are weird.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. Am I a judgmental?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yikes.

[Tana Mongeau]

He claps when the plane lands. It depends on the guy, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

I mean, if you get the ick, you get the ick. You know what I mean? Who was it? Millie? Probably Brown was like, I get the ick. When he has a bloody nose, it's like, girl, like, didn't she.

[Tana Mongeau]

Isn't she, like, 11 with the blood? Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Was that. She said that right? Am I just making this up? Yeah. She's like, oh, it gives me the ick when like, either has a. Yeah, I think she has, like, her boyfriend got a bloody nose next to her on the plane. It's like, I got the egg. I was like, I didn't even think about that. I never seen Stranger Things. I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

But.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, right.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think that it's. It's dependent on the type of person. Like, if he genuinely just has, like, a lust for life and joy, fine. If he's like, attention seeking, like, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's like, yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

It just depends.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, just. Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

You were right.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is it. She's like, I got the ick from a bloody nose. I was like, okay. So sorry.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, that's funny. That is funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

They still have photos of their ex on their socials. Why did you think about that? That's literally. We both have red flags up. But Tana hesitated.

[Tana Mongeau]

Because, like. Well, now it's because I do. It's literally just because I do. I'm like, I mean, your Instagram was like a history of your life, but, like.

[Trisha Paytas]

But they're not a part of your life anymore.

[Tana Mongeau]

I should go archive some photos.

[Trisha Paytas]

Definitely.

[Tana Mongeau]

I never archive anything, though. Like, I just, like, leave up all my.

[Trisha Paytas]

I delete everything. Oh, my God. Like, if you ever did a video with an ex, I don't care if it has. I had a video with an ex that had 120 million views.

[Tana Mongeau]

Remember the one?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And it was like. It, like, broke my heart when I take it down because I was. Damn. 121 million. 120 million views was crazy. But I was like, this person's like, not in my life anymore. Why is this on my channel?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, but that's also what. Maybe why you're good at manifesting. Like, do you know what I mean? Like, you're not even keeping that negative energy or different eras, like, attached to you. Damn. I should. I, like, I've said this before. I should go on an archive spree. Like, I used to use Instagram. Like, it was like my text messages. Like, why did you grid post that?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Do. Do a little clean out. I think that, like, helps the aura of you now.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's so true. You're so right.

[Trisha Paytas]

2025 is the year to just leave the past in the past.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm gonna have two photos left on my Instagram. If I clean out everything that I don't claim anymore and the archives will always be there.

[Trisha Paytas]

Someone already screenshot it. People already have it. Like the archives are there. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just never have. I like always like leave it all up. Like. Yeah, but you're right.

[Trisha Paytas]

Honestly that's crazy.

[Tana Mongeau]

And like you're right. If you're like dating someone else and like they have all these kissy photos of someone else, it's a turn off.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like absolutely. Like why are they still up? Crazy.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, well, I'm excited. What's our next one? I like this game.

[Trisha Paytas]

I do too. It's so fun.

[Tana Mongeau]

This is fun.

[Trisha Paytas]

They make money selling feet pics online.

[Tana Mongeau]

I do all of these things.

[Trisha Paytas]

I like we both had green flag.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, there are money motivated.

[Trisha Paytas]

I do love someone who can make a coin and yeah, I'm not going to judge. I mean we sold pictures for you know, way less and doing way more.

[Tana Mongeau]

And like feet picks. Like I think that's like so light. Like the fact that people even make money off feet picks is crazy to me.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's funny how people though, like people who are not into of are doing that kind of worked. Like I just want to like sell my feet. Like they think they're gonna make like a million dollars or something. I mean there's like an art to it. Like you have to like know like the arching and like. Like right now I was looking at ours, we have like pantyhose stockings. Like that's such a thing on. Oh. Like I can't even show it because it would have to be 18 plus. But like people love the webness and like that. Like I used to like do that and I was like it is crazy. There's like such an art and a format to like selling feed pics. You know, I had a friend who.

[Tana Mongeau]

Would like write all the guys names on her feet and then like take.

[Trisha Paytas]

Photos one at a time or all together.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like what? She'd be in my house for hours. Like Mark, Stephen, like writing their names or something. Like Sharpie or like Pen.

[Trisha Paytas]

How did you get the Sharpie off girl?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know. That was not my journey. I'm not writing anybody's mark on my foot.

[Trisha Paytas]

I kind of love that. Damn. What was she charging?

[Tana Mongeau]

Probably like $5. She was a crazy girl. Wow.

[Trisha Paytas]

I would do like a hundred dollars for that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, that's like cuz it's personal. Personalized feet pick or the ones where.

[Trisha Paytas]

They smush cake with their feet. I always loved that one.

[Tana Mongeau]

I've always wanted to do that.

[Trisha Paytas]

It feels like good. Like the sensory is you done it. Yeah. The Madonna in cakes are so good for that. I used to do it with my hands, but then I used to do it with my feet. They're so good.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're my favorite person.

[Trisha Paytas]

Those champagne cakes just like sticking our feet.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh my God. I want to do that later. Maybe we can do that with our chili cheesecake.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. I think we have to like, it's far. Madonna in is like two hours from now.

[Tana Mongeau]

We can do it with the chili cheesecake.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know if that gives the same effect.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, we gotta have like a nice.

[Trisha Paytas]

Madonna and champagne cake or a chili cheesecake with raspberry sauce.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's crazy. That that's a fetish.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it's. But I guess it's very specific.

[Tana Mongeau]

Isn't there cake farting too?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah. Or cake sitting. Is one the whole.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't need cake in my.

[Trisha Paytas]

Uchi. Uchi. No, we need nothing there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, kid. That sounds like a yeast infection. Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

They take off their shoes and socks up. No. Oh my God. You're a walking red flag.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I'm not even going to hold a green one. Cuz I. Every time I do it, I'm like, I can't believe I'm doing this.

[Trisha Paytas]

Shoes and socks.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I. I am like, I think that's why I'm literally with a Hawaiian. Like, I'm a barefoot. Like, I'm a barefoot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, that's cute. I actually like that because I was once in a first class flight with Jason Momo and he was barefoot and he had his bare feet out. No way. And I was like, I kind of like loved it because it was him. And I was like, okay, that kind of makes sense.

[Tana Mongeau]

So free. I love grip. Like right now, like in my dream world, I'd be gripping this table with my barefoot.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love feet. I. I don't love. I don't like anyone else's feet. I do like my bare feet.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I like it even when I see someone else do it. I'm like. Like, I know that's wrong and. And gross. Like.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Why are feet gross? It's weird. They're not. They're not the uncleanliest. Like, they're the ones that's hidden the most from things.

[Tana Mongeau]

Being barefoot on a plane, though, it's diabolical. I do it, but I'm aware it's a red flag.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, please don't do that. That's actually like just so gross. Unless you're Jason Momoa. I don't want to see those feet anywhere.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I need to get like a plain. No, I just need to stop doing that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Red flag, final red flag, green flag. They call their parents mommy and dad Daddy still. How are you thinking about this?

[Tana Mongeau]

Sorry.

[Trisha Paytas]

Me being so judgy to you. I'm just like, yelling at you this whole time. Like, why are you even thinking?

[Tana Mongeau]

No, are you kidding me? I'm trying to think. Wait.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Okay. That. It's like, a girl can do that, but a guy cannot do that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Mommy, Daddy. I don't know. That's like.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, hi, Mommy.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know. I don't know. I'm really close with my mom and I don't think I would say, like, hi, Mommy. I don't know. No, I don't.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, especially Daddy. Like, I just think of Daddy as like, completely a sexual.

[Trisha Paytas]

Definitely. Definitely not when you're like, past the age of like. Yeah, like 18.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, it was like, daddy.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, Lose my.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, crazy.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, hi, Daddy. Like, yeah, that's like, wow. I think it's more okay for a girl, but as everybody. Thing is.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's what I'm saying. Yeah, we're like the anti patriarchy here where we're like, it's okay for a girl, not a guy.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. I don't know. Jesus. But I am realizing I do half of those things and I'm gonna have to do some reflecting about that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Say mommy, Daddy.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, not that one. That one's just that I say daddy and like, us, like, I call Mokoa daddy. Do you?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I used to do that. I think when I got older, I'm just like, okay. It feels, like, weird now, but I did like it back in the day. It's cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't just. Just like, daddy. Like, he's hot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah, that's.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, but I say daddy, too. What am I saying?

[Trisha Paytas]

Daddy's cute. No, I used to like it, too. It's kind of. Kind of hot.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Is he older than you or younger?

[Tana Mongeau]

Younger.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love that you call him daddy when he's younger. That's so. Yeah. Hey, Daddy. Yeah. All right, you guys. Well, if you want to see more chaos and cucumbers, go to patreon.com, not loveline. Did we talk about cucumbers or no? Am I just making that up?

[Tana Mongeau]

I feel like we did have, like, a food with something.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, that's La La Land Cafe.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, yeah, we talked about cucumbers.

[Trisha Paytas]

You love cucumbers.

[Tana Mongeau]

I do love a a good cuke.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, if you want to go see cucumbers and go to patreon.com not loveline and we'll answer all your spicy questions.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's gonna get.

[Trisha Paytas]

We gotta order those spicy moths. So it's our reward.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is our reward after we answer all these questions about God knows what.

[Trisha Paytas]

We can't wait. We love it and we love you guys. Here's to a really good 2025. May this year be full of all your wishes coming true and manifestations coming to life. If you believe in, you can achieve it. If you can see it, you can be it. Believe it, achieve it.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's your book. Okay, bye guys.

[Trisha Paytas]

We love that.

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