DOING WHAT WITH YOUR NURSE!? + FALLING IN LOVE ON SET!

Summary

Not Loveline – Episode Summary

Episode Title: DOING WHAT WITH YOUR NURSE!? + FALLING IN LOVE ON SET!
Hosts: Tana Mongeau & Trisha Paytas
Date: February 9, 2026

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Overview

In this lively episode, Tana Mongeau and Trisha Paytas catch up on celebrity run-ins, navigating male-dominated spaces, fostering (and falling for) rescue dogs, substance stories (Manjaro injections), and the challenges of acting and impostor syndrome—peppered with their signature humor and brutal honesty. They also take calls on women’s confidence in casinos and nursing impostor syndrome. This episode exemplifies their off-the-cuff, no-holds-barred approach, blending chaotic storytelling, heartfelt advice, and plenty of memorable, relatable moments.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Celebrity Sightings and Red Carpet Recaps

• Tana almost ran into Trisha at the “Moments” movie premiere, describing her close brush with Kylie Jenner and Charli XCX.
  • [03:19] "If you saw a girl in a gray colon and double taking, it was literally me." – Tana
• Trisha shares her nerves and excitement about interviewing A-list celebrities (like Charli XCX and Chapel Roan), feeling intimidated yet proud.
• Both marvel at the surreal glamour and “Meemaw” (grandma) feelings on carpets:
  • [07:12] Trisha: “I am old where even next to the director... I feel very much like grandma here…”

2. Personal Updates: Foster Dogs, Motherhood, and Matching Outfits

• Tana describes fostering a rescue dog named Buster Brown after being inspired by Alex Earl; discusses fostering “fails” (keeping the dog):
  • [16:45] “Foster failing… it’s a good thing, but they call it a fail.”
• The emotional complexity of fostering versus adopting and how it’s “loving something enough to let it go.”
• Both discuss motherhood (human and canine), with Trisha joking that dog-mom life is harder than baby-mom life due to peeing/marking:
  • [15:09] “I think it’s harder to be a dog mom, like, because, like, little babies, you know, they’re like—babies. Dogs...”
• Anecdotes about their children (and dog) raiding their makeup products and how kids are growing up fast.

3. Addiction, GLP-1 Shots, and Substance Stories

• Tana recounts her wild dash to get a Manjaro shot before closing time; reflects on drinking while on GLP-1 meds, hookup stories with the nurse, and overall unhealthy habits:
  • [11:10] “The amount of nights in my drinking era I would shoot up Ozempic, drink a bottle of wine, and then throw up. So unhealthy.”
• Honest talk about alcohol addiction, quitting, and the overall shift among young people toward sobriety and self-care.
• Acknowledges some claim GLP-1s can lessen alcohol cravings, but not for everyone:
  • [11:24] “That’s how I knew I was an alcoholic: Because I was like, nope, mama still wants this just as bad.”

4. Influencer Life: Brand Deals, Acting, and Authenticity

• Both discuss the weirdness of scripted versus authentic brand deals and the importance of genuine representation:
  • [31:14] Tana: “They sent me a script for the entire 15-minute video... I was like, I’ve never done that in my life.”
• Reflections on career evolution, reputation “rebrands,” and how both have managed to secure big sponsorships despite past controversies.
• Trisha discusses her ventures into acting and singing, and the challenge and fun of self-tapes, French accents, and the unpredictability of auditions.

5. Falling In Love On Set & On-Camera Chemistry

• Deep dive into the blurred lines between acting romance and real-life attraction (Margot Robbie & Jacob Elordi; Sydney Sweeney & Glen Powell):
  • [47:44] Trisha: “You’re doing such, like, sexual scenes... Is this real?”
  • [48:32] Tana: “…the greats have the ability to compartmentalize and almost, like, split…”
• Both admit they couldn’t handle their partners doing intimate scenes and laugh about being jealous even over small things.

6. Women Owning Male-Dominated Spaces: Casinos & Nursing

• Caller 1: Struggles with male-dominated casino tables and confidence.
  • Advice: Leverage “feminine power” and don’t hesitate to ask men for chips in Vegas; own your space and use the social advantage.
  • [56:47] Tana: “If you go sit at any table that men are gambling at in Vegas as a woman... you just look at them and say, ‘Can I have $25?’”
• Both assert that women possess emotional intelligence and resilience that often “outwits” men in competitive spaces:
  • [66:27] “Our emotional intelligence as women... you will outwit them every time.”
• Caller 2: Young nurse experiencing impostor syndrome.
  • Advice: Know everyone feels nervous at first, but you put in the work and are ready; even the best pros had a “first day.”
  • [74:28] Tana: “You put in all the work to be capable and deserving of this. Sometimes you have to jump in the water and swim... You got this.”
  • [77:34] Trisha: “Same. I don’t know what I was doing at 23. Not saving lives like she is.”

7. Body Positivity, Friendship, and Emotional Growth

• Open discussion of body image, negative self-talk, and personal growth with support from each other.
  • [44:48] Tana: “You taught me… I have to put forth, like, more effort to be like, no... everything’s gonna be fine.”
• Express gratitude for their partnership, mutual growth, and their shared “powerful women” energy.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On almost crashing the red carpet:
  • Tana [02:54]: “I should have brought a gown in the car. I gotta start keeping a gown in the car.”
• On fostering dogs:
  • Tana [18:35]: “He wakes up every day and chooses violence until nighttime.”
• On brand authenticity:
  • Tana [31:14]: “I’m not gonna say like, ‘Makoa was chaotic in the beginning of our relate—’ like, that’s not my thought and that’s not true.”
• On women’s power, especially in casinos:
  • Tana [56:47]: “If you go sit at any table that men are gambling at in Vegas as a woman... you just look at them and say, ‘Can I have 25?’”
• On impostor syndrome and the medical field:
  • Tana [74:28]: “Sometimes we sink, but then we sink and we pivot... The lesson that comes from sinking or realizing you can swim.”
• On positive manifestation:
  • Trisha [45:12]: “You kind of have to believe that. Otherwise... life just gets complicated...”
• On friendship & gratitude:
  • Tana [82:12]: “Yeah. And vaginas are better than penises.”
  • Trisha [82:15]: “Yeah. Prettier. Women are so powerful. And I'm just happy to get to do the show with you, my powerful woman.”

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Important Timestamps

• Red Carpet/Kylie Jenner Story: [02:21]-[06:09]
• Meemaw Vibes & AG Cook “Out of Touch” Interview: [07:09]-[09:04]
• Manjaro Shot Story & Hooking Up with Nurse: [09:21]-[10:46]
• Foster Dog/Buster Brown Saga: [16:08]-[19:07]
• Brand Deals, Authenticity, and Reputational Glow-Up: [30:05]-[33:44]
• Acting, Improv, and Red Carpet Nerves: [38:39]-[41:12]
• Casino/Female Power Call & Advice: [54:45]-[58:37]
• Nursing School Impostor Syndrome Call & Advice: [73:15]-[76:57]
• On Power, Female Confidence, and Emotional Growth: [65:34]-[66:56]
• Women’s Day, Body Positivity Wrap-Up: [81:02]-[82:53]

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Tone & Style

The episode flows with unfiltered honesty, playful banter, and heartfelt support. Tana and Trisha mix comedy with empowerment, embracing their infamous “chaotic” energy and a tone that is confessional, uplifting, and fiercely loyal to each other and their growing fanbase.

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TL;DR – Key Takeaways

• Women belong everywhere: Confidence is key, and feminine intuition is a superpower, whether at a poker table or in an ER.
• Impostor syndrome is universal: Everyone’s scared; you have the tools, just jump in and swim!
• Friendship & self-growth: Surround yourself with people who make you braver, laugh harder, and believe in yourself more.
• Don’t be ashamed of your journey: Learning, rebranding, or embracing your chaotic past can lead to greater opportunities (and Skims deals).
• Laugh through it all: From bled-on doors to dog-assistants—chaos is inevitable, but joy is a choice.

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End of Summary

Transcript

[Tana]

What is natural? When you read natural flavors on a label, most people don't realize it's often.

[Trisha]

Not real food at all.

[Tana]

Those hidden ingredients quietly work against how your body feels and functions over time. That's why just Ingredients uses only real food ingredients. So you know exactly what you're putting in your body. Stop guessing. Start knowing. At Justingredients, us people do that. But I get, like, more nauseous if I do it myself. And I used to have someone come to my house and then I hooked up with them. So then I had to, like, stop for the GLP1. Yes. I like. I like. No. Cute. What did I just. Oh, my God. I texted you it. But I was dying. And I mean, dying at Moses, saying that the girl in I Love La Talula was Lila Gibney.

[Trisha]

I swear on it, I was dying. Even, like, privately, he's like. He was, like, so serious, and I was, like, being annoyed with that. I'm like, it's not. And he's like, no, that's so lilac. That's so niche right with it. And then he's like.

[Tana]

He's just so funny. Like, he was like. He's like, that is the only influencer I know who acts like that. Like, he was just being so funny. Like, the dynamic you guys have on just Trish, like, cracks me up.

[Trisha]

Me too. I'm always like, who is this person? Because this is, like, so normal. He's literally the most normal person to talk to all the time. And he is funny. Like, when we talk and be up, funny conversations. Just Trish. He's like this whole other person. Like, Chronically Online knows Amari. But that's what I love. I'm like, what the hell? Like, he'll, like, bring stuff up. I'm like, the Chinese baddies he of it all. I'm always like, where are you? I'm with him 247 in the one hour when we're not with their kids, when they're napping, it's like we're watching Bridgerton or something. So I'm like, how are you seeing all this? I think he, like, stays up at night. Yeah. Did you watch it? I love the season.

[Tana]

New Bridgerton.

[Trisha]

Bridgerton. You need to get.

[Tana]

I know.

[Trisha]

It's so good. This season's really good. Anyways, welcome to Not Loveline, you guys. Before we get started, then we'll get back to that look for it. We always forget to plug it. But we've been going so hard on our Patreon. Patreon.com loveline we're doing. Hopefully we're doing vision boards today. If not today, next time. So excited to do that with you too. We gotta manifest.

[Tana]

I got lots of visions, girl.

[Trisha]

You have lots of visions?

[Tana]

Yes, I have visions for us. I have visions for life. I have so many visions. That's so Raven.

[Trisha]

Yeah. Literally, since you've been here, we've been talking about so many visions and so many things, so many stories. It's like, what? So much catching up on and it's only been like a week.

[Tana]

I know, but I like love that. I just. I do. Oh, my God. So check this one out. Okay. The other day, I'm in Beverly Hills and I have to go to the chiropractor. Okay. And I'm. It's like 7pm at night and I'm going to see my chiropractor, like, after hours. He's my bestie. So I just go in after hours and he cracks me and we hang out and whatever. And I'm like in my pajamas and I'm driving and on the side of the road, I like see all these flashes and I'm like, what's going on over here? And I look out my window and I'm like, that's Kylie Jenner. And I'm like, okay, so L. A, by the way. Like, I'm just like, that's Kylie Jenner.

[Trisha]

Like, what's going on the road?

[Tana]

Literally on the side of the road. And I'm like, in my sweats. I'm like, I should have brought a gown in the car. Like, I gotta start. I gotta start keeping a gown in the car. Okay. And then I realized that it's the moment premiere and you're there and I'm like, I would just be one inch away from you, but I'm just getting my neck cracked in aloe. And you're like interviewing Charli xcx. We were dying laughing.

[Trisha]

Why did you should have stopped at that point? Because literally, we talked about it on Dust Trish. We're literally on the corner of a street.

[Tana]

Like, literally.

[Trisha]

I was talking about on just Trish. Like, anyone could just like stop by and jump out or whatever. She really should have.

[Tana]

If you saw a girl in a gray colon and double taking, it was literally me. I was like, oh, my. No. Why wouldn't you stop?

[Trisha]

That's kind of interview.

[Tana]

I just.

[Trisha]

I was interviewing everyone. I was like, vanilla maize tar yummy. I would have been like, Tanner would have been like. I would have been everything.

[Tana]

I know. I'm really. I'm really Must have got lost in the mail.

[Trisha]

I'm really sad about that one. Especially in sweats. That would have been so. No, you would have. No, they would have been amazing too.

[Tana]

Like, it was Amazon. Okay. Like, I. I had no business.

[Trisha]

Wait. That is so, so crazy. Oh, my God.

[Tana]

First of all, like, that just would happen.

[Trisha]

That was a crazy one because I was talking about how it was, like, literally, like, on the street of, like, Wilshire, which is like the busiest, like, street in la. It was just, yeah, like very much outside and literally. Yeah. As the celebrities were coming, like, they were coming one by one, like Kylie and Chapel and all this. And they were all coming out just like, right there. They were just like, drop them off and then they're coming right around us. And I was like, oh, okay.

[Tana]

But it's so funny because I swear when I. When I. Obviously I got to see something in person on my way to the Cairo, but when I was seeing everything online, it was all you and people so happy for you. Chap. Chapel. Tell me how that was.

[Trisha]

Yeah, it was everything. It was really cool because I didn't know she was going to be there. They kind of give you a list of, like, the cast and people who may show up. And Chapel wasn't even, like, on the list like, that I saw anyway, so I was not, like, prepared.

[Tana]

She was really sweet.

[Trisha]

I try to play it cool, like, I always try to play it cool with these kind of things. And they both were, like, really, really sweet. I don't know, I just love interviewing people who want to talk to me.

[Tana]

You know what I mean?

[Trisha]

Because it was like a little wild because I was there with a 24. So I thought, like, I was just there to do the Correspondent. But when they'd go up to people, they're like, oh, will you do an interview with Trisha Paytas? And I'm like, oh, I could go one or two ways. As you know, people could either be love Trish. Yes. Or like, absolutely not. Like, what? Nothing do with it. But luckily scary.

[Tana]

And you try not to let it, like, hurt your ego.

[Trisha]

Oh, for sure. Yeah. And I'm like, I'm someone who totally understands it. I just don't want the rejection, like, live in person in my face. Especially that carpet. You thought it was like a smaller. So it just felt like they were literally a foot away. So one person's just like, should pays over there if you want to talk to her. And if they're just like, no. Or you could hear it. I didn't hear no. There was People who were just, like, weren't doing interviews. But yeah, everyone was, like, nice for the most part. But it was really cool. We were so close to Kylie, but she was getting in there, like, because they're like, she's gonna talk to you. You have two questions. And then, like, y got late and we didn't get.

[Tana]

You're gonna get it, though. And she's a sweetheart. Like, honestly, like, that's so good.

[Trisha]

I hear from everyone. And I was. Yeah, I love a red carpet. I really.

[Tana]

What was. Who was your favorite person to see?

[Trisha]

Oh, gosh. I mean, I did love. I was gagged by like, a Charlie. The Charlie. A Charlie xx. Because she was like, she has the moment. She is, like, gorge. She's like a list, you know, I get really, like, flustered and intimidated by a chapel. Like, I love chapel row. Yeah. Like, I was very much, like, intimidated by it all.

[Tana]

She's very intimidating in, like, a good way, in a boss way.

[Trisha]

I was talking way for sure.

[Tana]

I was talking about that today. Even about the Grammys, how, like, all the photographers were being quiet. And, like, she did that. She set a boundary and put people, like, in their place in the best way. Like, I think it's cool.

[Trisha]

I. I do too. I think she's everything. I always just want to be respectful and, like, not weird with anyone because it also was, like, really, really last minute. So I just.

[Tana]

And he looked great. Like, the fact that they were like, one secret about your outfit. You were like, this was 12. I was like, you look so expensive.

[Trisha]

Nothing. Nothing fit. I had this one fashion nose jumpsuit.

[Tana]

And I was so. The latex was, like, so correct for Charlie.

[Trisha]

Okay, thanks. I didn't know. I don't know the vibes ever.

[Tana]

I was obsessed. Oh, thank you so much. And did you like the movie?

[Trisha]

Yeah, loved it. I got to see it a couple nights before, so that was really cool. Alexander Skarsgard is in it and it was. It was really. Kylie was great. Rachel Sonnet was in it as good. Like, it was really, really good.

[Tana]

I can't wait to see.

[Trisha]

It's really funny in it. And I. I, like, love her, you know? Like, I wasn't, like, so familiar. Like, I'm, you know, like any music, I'm just not so familiar. But then, like, once I did the deep dive. Now I'm obsessed. Now I'm like, in the Brat era, Like, two years later where I'm like, I'm obs. But I love Brat. Only.

[Tana]

Only, like, you could just, like, I could bring it back in Full effect.

[Trisha]

Well, she had a phone case in the movie. It was like a wildflower phone case. And I went to go, like, look it up because it was like the green with, like, little heart emoji on the back. I was like, oh, I want this. But they only make it for, like, iPhone 16. And I was like, where's the iPhone 17 Pro Max? Like, I want it, but they don't make the updated versions. But I'm like, I'm really ready for Brat. She's ready for it to be over, but I'm ready to start it. Yeah, I loved it. And I. I am so. I am old where I do feel not old. Like, I know I'm not old, but I feel old when you're next. Even the director, like, Aiden's Mary, he's like, really, like a posh photographer, and he's like, young and cool. And you just feel, as we were saying on Just Troche, very Meemaw vibes. I feel very much like grandma here, like, trying to interview these people. My little fashion nova, like, Charlie's in his bra in this course. It just looking so hot. I'm just like, you have never a.

[Tana]

Day in your life given. It's me vibes. Meemaw, Meemaw loss. You are lost on me, girl. Meemaw, she says, giving me my.

[Trisha]

It was giving, like, literally Meemaw. The memaw moment was definitely me interviewing AG Cook. Do you know who that is? He's like her producer for, like, all her album, all her music. And he was like, a big deal. Like, that was the one. Tar Yemi was next to me. She was like, oh, my God, Ag Cook is right. So I was just like, okay, I need to get an interview. Like, everyone was, like, really gagged for him. And again, I am like, super. Like, the music I listen to is literally, you know, Donny Osmond. Like, I listen to Donny Osmond. That's about it. Maybe dear Evan Hansen, like, cast recording, like, that's it. So I'm very out of the loop with music, but I was like, okay, big deal. And then obviously, like, looking at me and I was like, oh, like the biggest deal. And he was very nice to talk to me, but in that moment, it was very much like Meemaw just like, took her out of the home. This is her night out. You know what I mean? So it was fun. I love being there. I'm happy.

[Tana]

So funny.

[Trisha]

Giving took her out of the.

[Tana]

By the way, the home in question is like a triple gated pink mansion. Like, you Are literally. You're not. Meemaw. I love you so much.

[Trisha]

I was happy to be there. I was happy to be there. Truly. It was cool.

[Tana]

I was like, yes, ma'.

[Trisha]

Am. Oh, I love that.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

Yes, ma or ma, the horror film.

[Tana]

I was thinking about ma, the horror film. The horror film.

[Trisha]

Well, your substance. Horror film. What was your substance Story. I need to hear my goods.

[Tana]

So I went to get Manjaro the other day. Love this. And they close at 5:00'. Clock. Okay. No, no rules. No except like no exceptions to the rule. And we left at like 4. And I live far, but we're supposed to get there like 4:40. And there was just unexpected traffic. And you can go in at 4:55. It takes like two min minutes. And we pull up at 4:58. And I'm running through this Beverly Hills lobby, like knocking over models, like running in the elevator. I run into the Manjaro office. It's 4:59. Because they were like, as long as you get here before 5, we can shoot you up. And I get in there and no one's in there. So I'm roaming around like ma, the horror movie.

[Trisha]

I feel like.

[Tana]

I feel like Demi Moore in her yellow coat. Like, please shoot me up. I can't stop. Like, I need. I. I like, I need to stop. And bas were like, we clocked out. Like you have to go. Like, you can go make it. No, they were just like at five.

[Trisha]

At five o'. Clock.

[Tana]

And it takes like two seconds. I was like, give me the needle. Give me. I'll shoot it up. But it was just so embarrassing. I was like, all right, I'll see you guys soon. Like, wait, that's crazy.

[Trisha]

You didn't get it. So that's why. Okay. Yes.

[Tana]

So that's why I've been just wait.

[Trisha]

So you go somewhere and get the shot?

[Tana]

Yes.

[Trisha]

Okay. I thought everyone was just like doing it themselves.

[Tana]

People do that. But I get like more nauseous if I do it myself. And I used to have someone come to my house and then I hooked up with them. So then I had to like stop for the GLP1. Yes. I like. I like my.

[Trisha]

No, that's like a little trade off or something. I was like, I love that.

[Tana]

I wish some in exchange for some deal. That's fine. That's expensive. No, I paid. I paid.

[Trisha]

So what happened? Yeah.

[Tana]

And tips.

[Trisha]

Before or after the injection?

[Tana]

I don't remember. We got hammered.

[Trisha]

Oh, I see.

[Tana]

This is. This was a while ago.

[Trisha]

And you drink into GLP once. You should I guess maybe I don't know how that works.

[Tana]

The amount of nights in my drinking hour, I would like shoot up Ozempic, drink a bottle of wine and then throw it up. Like, so unhealthy.

[Trisha]

Yeah, that's probably the.

[Tana]

That was a cautionary tale, by the way. Like that is. I'm not proud of that. Like, that's very sad.

[Trisha]

Yeah, no, it's good. It's good you let people know because then it's like, I did not feel well doing this.

[Tana]

And so a lot of people say that. A lot of people even who struggle with like alcoholism or addiction will say to shoot up. Like shooting up a GLP one because it turns off certain craving, like centers of the brain can help them stop drinking. And that's how I knew I was an alcoholic. Because I was like, nope, mama still wants this just as bad.

[Trisha]

And now how does it feel now? Like just being completely off of it. You're like totally fine, right? You don't like crave it alcohol?

[Tana]

Yeah, the majority. I was like, no, I need it now. I know I don't. The cons so heavily outweigh the pros that I'm clear headed. I think that when you're in that state, your mind can like convince yourself that you need it. Like whenever I was at my like, lowest, my mind to be like, I can't live without this. And now like looking back, it's like, no, you were just so lost, you know?

[Trisha]

Yeah. And then you just like feed into it all. They say if you quit anything for like 30 days, it's like supposed to like stop your craving.

[Tana]

And that's like when you start to feel better stopping drinking. Like by day 30, you're like, I'm superwoman. Like, you know what I mean? You can take on the worst.

[Trisha]

We're in February now, but like a lot of my friends that did that drive, January, like, I'm just kidding, keep going. I'm like, love that.

[Tana]

I know, I love seeing that. I love. We always talk about this, but just that this newer generation and just now like the way it is now, like people are finally talking about alcohol like it's something that should be stopped even when you're young, like that that conversation happens like that. It's not good for you and stuff, you know, because it was never like that before.

[Trisha]

Scary.

[Tana]

But yeah. So yeah, I was looking like the substance we're matching.

[Trisha]

I literally was gonna say that.

[Tana]

I was like, look at us.

[Trisha]

We didn't even plan that.

[Tana]

We're so like, it's Actually crazy. We did the ballet flats. We did the leg warmers, like, all without knowing. Oh, my God. And today we're literally Ugg slippers on this. This is cute, by the way. The pink and the red.

[Trisha]

I saw it at Target and I was like, oh, I want it because it's giving. Britney's Dump him. You know?

[Tana]

I love her Dump him. I just put that on, like, a mood board for something I'm working on. I was like, I want it to be.

[Trisha]

Wait, what are you working on? Can you say?

[Tana]

I can't say, but something light. It's nothing, like, crazy. Like, just some light. Something light. Like, it's something. I don't know why I said it like that. Something light. Okay, I'm, like, about to. We're about to get in the studio, and I'm talking, like, Hefner Tana.

[Trisha]

I'm very excited for that. I'm very excited for that. Where is this from, Depop? Always.

[Tana]

Always. I just saw Hit him with your car. I think it's, like, actually a vintage shirt. And I'm like, I want to make this. Like. Like, if it's not still being made, I want to make this. I love. I just love. Hit him with your car.

[Trisha]

Yeah. It's a little aggressive, but I like it.

[Tana]

Yeah, you're more. You're more. Dump him. Like, you know, if it's good for you. And I'm more. Hit him with your.

[Trisha]

Even this is aggressive. I'm like, that's kind of like me. Like, who are we dumping?

[Tana]

Oh, yeah, that's. I think that these are with the precedent of, like, if that's what should be done.

[Trisha]

Right, right, right. That part. Well, I thought. Yeah, not Loveline. We said that button that said, like, dump him. So I was like, yeah, I don't know where the buttons go. My kids are always playing on here afterwards, and they take those buttons.

[Tana]

I know, but I love it. Elvis just came down here, had my maracuja lip, like, my tart lip sitting on the thing, and she was, like, putting it on and being so cute.

[Trisha]

And then so much of it, too.

[Tana]

Yes. And it was so cute because then she, like, Trisha was trying to, like, give it back to me, and I was like, no, she can have it. Literally, it's taking over my house. I have a whole room of Tana X tart. Like, please, Elvis can have it. She loves it. And then she, like, was sad that, like, she wanted it. You know what I mean? So we gave it to her, and it was so cute. I just love Her? Yeah.

[Trisha]

No, it's funny because she doesn't really, like, Malibu loves makeup, and I never really seen her that into makeup, but she, like.

[Tana]

And the shade looked lovely on her.

[Trisha]

It did look really good. Yeah. She was, like, holding it like. Like it was a prize every time I come here.

[Tana]

Just all my ideals on not being a mother right now, like, go out the window so hard. Like, your kids are just so amazing. And, like, even the way I miss them, like, even, like, not only will I miss you, like, when I don't see you for a week, but I'll also be like, I just, like. Because every time I see them, they're bigger too. Like, you know what I mean? It's like, oh, my God, I miss them. And, like, I'm gonna get knocked up the more I come here. It's like, oh, my God.

[Trisha]

I feel like you. I know you always. You keep saying that. I'm like, well, I feel like it's gonna one day be like, this dog.

[Tana]

Is making me want to be a mom, I swear.

[Trisha]

Oh, my God.

[Tana]

Yes. Yeah, actually, I'm a mother.

[Trisha]

You are. Literally. We were talking about this earlier. Like, dog mom is, like, I think really hard. I mean, this maybe hot take. I think it's harder to be a dog mom, like, because, like, little babies, you know, they're like. They're babies. Dogs are, like, you have to take them out to pee and poop. Like, you know, not to be, like, too graphic, but, like, babies have diapers and. Thank you so much.

[Tana]

Well, Buster also has diapers, so I literally. Well, he has diapers. He has male wraps, which are kind of like a little boy diaper. Because he. It's not about him just peeing. Yeah, he wants to mark his territory all over my house.

[Trisha]

That's what I'm saying. It's. Babies don't do that.

[Tana]

Yes, yes. And with the boy dog of it all, it's not like a girl dog will pee onto the floor. He's lifting his leg and choosing the most expensive furniture item in every room. Like, he loves boucle. Anything boucle. When a chair is like, boucle, like, the.

[Trisha]

Oh, naughty. It's kind of like, naughty looking. I love those too. Those are cool. Okay, so he'll just. Just.

[Tana]

He finds the boucle items, and he's like, these are. He has great taste. He's just like, mommy, like, he's a true rags to riches story. Okay, I love him, but.

[Trisha]

And what's his name? Buster. When you got him, you. Oh, no. So you're fostering, which means you wait till they get like a permanent home or you're seeing if it's a good fit for your home.

[Tana]

I don't know how anything both realistically. I. I mean, I started this all because I was so inspired by Alex, Earl and Asia. She had her pitbull and she was fostering Asia, and then she ended up finding Asia a good home, and she was super sad about it. And then it didn't end up working and Asia needed a surgery, so she ended. Now Asia's her dog. She ended up saying, like, I'll take her back.

[Trisha]

Oh.

[Tana]

And which they call foster failing. It's like a foster fail. If you like foster and then you end up keeping them. Like it's a good thing, but just they call it.

[Trisha]

Wow, that's such a weird fail. Sounds so bad.

[Tana]

I know, I know, I know. But so she foster failed with Asia, and now she, like, kept her. And I was just like, this is such a cool good thing. Like, I think that I have such a soft spot for any. Whether it's a dog or a child. You know, I want to adopt children. Like, the idea of providing this good home in this safe space for little Buster Brown. I was like, I want to do this. I had no Buster Brown. Well, I named him that.

[Trisha]

I love that.

[Tana]

Yeah, he was blooper, but he didn't respond to any names. Like, it's just very sad. He's two and like, he doesn't know how to play with toys. He, like, doesn't respond to any names. He doesn't know any commands. Like, even treats. You can. He gets like, he'll have, like, random little panic attacks. Like, you can tell he's just very anxious. Oh, no. And I. I didn't expect to love him this much. Like, I didn't think that, like, people always say in life they're like soul dogs. You know what I mean? Like, just that, like, and sometimes I'm like, really? But at the same time, it's a full time job and he's. He wakes up every day and chooses violence until night time.

[Trisha]

It's a lot. Especially if you, like, travel or, like, anything.

[Tana]

Like, if he has an assistant. I hired him an assistant.

[Trisha]

The dog?

[Tana]

Yes.

[Trisha]

Oh, my gosh. What does the assistant do?

[Tana]

Everything. Everything.

[Trisha]

Okay, so it's a little easier with an assistant maybe.

[Tana]

Yeah. Buster has a full time assistant. I'm also full time mothering still. Like, Meg is here helping, being so gracious. It's not in her job description. I know she wants to quit. Like, no, she loves Buster. It's really cute. Makoa's helping, Amari's helping. Like, it takes a village especially because it's like he's two and he was on the streets until like, you know, they found him and like, he just doesn't know any. And so it's like, you know, it's like he's very curious. Like, yeah, he just discovered climbing. Like he's climbing things. Like.

[Trisha]

And he's two, you said, oh my God, he is really cute. Like, it is. It's hard with dogs and like, just.

[Tana]

Showing him like good treats and good toys and like, no one's gonna hurt you. And like, him and I have a similar story. You know, no one taught him anything and he's just like, he needs someone to save him and I feel for him. But I can also recognize that maybe my journey in life might be to continue to foster and help as many dogs as possible and find him a. Find him a home. But I do not foster. It didn't. I didn't realize how strong people who foster animals are because it's like you are falling in love with this and then you're loving it enough to let it go.

[Trisha]

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[Tana]

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[Tana]

Because of what's best for. And like, I can't even, like, think about it. Like, even when I'm like thinking about, okay, like, if I were to. Because some of my friends have been kind of reaching out and I'm like, oh, this could be great if it's someone I know and I can still see him, but they like, are home more, travel less. You know what I mean? But then I just cry. Like, I love him so much. I don't. I wasn't expecting this. I don't know.

[Trisha]

I never. Yeah, I didn't know about fostering dogs. Like, I never knew that was like a thing. Because I know people like foster kids and kind of the same thing where it's like you foster kids with like, the. The goal is to like, bring them back to their family, to bring them back to the birth mom. Because it's like the birth mom's going through something, so you're just Keeping them temporarily. But I would imagine that would be so hard. I think they say they try not to even give them to people who are having fertility issues. They don't want people or infertility because they don't want people to get too attached. Yeah, because like again, the goal is like to regroup them with their family. But that'd be so hard because like you have, you care, you care for a child, right?

[Tana]

That's in your home.

[Trisha]

And I assume a dog would be.

[Tana]

Probably the same way. I care for him so much and he loves me so much. That's like, like it'd be easier if I was like, this little dog doesn't even like me. You know, he's walking me like a dog and like whatever. He loves me. Like I just love him. I don't know. But even like I could not bring him here. Yeah.

[Trisha]

Because last time you're like, I might get a dog, can I bring him? I'm like, yeah, like you can bring him. And then you're like peeing the plant or something.

[Tana]

But he's too into everything. That's the thing. He's very like right now he's with Makoa and they're like playing in the yard and it's probably perfect. Like McCall is being a great sport. That's also the other thing I don't necessarily like. McCo is very responsible and I think he's very like 10. I'm not sure we do travel a lot. Like, you know.

[Trisha]

Well, I think that's like realistic. I'm sure even like Alex drums she has someone that like helps watch her dogs. Like if you travel it and your dogs need people. Like my sister can like, she never travels because she doesn't have someone to like watch the dogs. Like if I'm in Vegas or something, my sister just can't come because she has, you know, the two dogs. And yeah, it's a lot.

[Tana]

That's even like last night I was gonna go to a Grammys after party and then I was like, I, I can't bring Buster Brown. Like so I' staying home for a lot of things. Like cuz I love him so much.

[Trisha]

What happened with that? You were going, you're like, I want to go to the Grammys, but everyone's booked.

[Tana]

How did it happen?

[Trisha]

Why was it last minute? Why did they give you a ticket?

[Tana]

So it wasn't the Grammys. It was like a friend of mine has like connections and she was like, I have two tickets for the Grammys. So then I immediately like make The Tik Tok. And then she was like, you're going to have to pay for them. After I make the Tik Tok, I found out that it was like, they're for sale. And then I was like, is that how.

[Trisha]

That doesn't usually work? I thought you always had to pay for them.

[Tana]

Yeah. Or. Or you're invited by the Grammys. And obviously I wasn't invited by the Grammys. How did you get invited?

[Trisha]

It's not like Jake Weber. And I love Jake Weber, but how.

[Tana]

Jake Weber was at the Grammy.

[Trisha]

He was walking the carpet.

[Tana]

These people have. PR teams are working. I love Jake Weber. I would die for him.

[Trisha]

Same. And no, I'm like, how? Why? I never get.

[Tana]

Literally, how.

[Trisha]

Why?

[Tana]

Jealousy. That's all I'm saying is pure jealousy.

[Trisha]

No, see, but like, truly, I feel like maybe it's like an email you missed. Because even the moment thing, it was like literally just an email. Like, do you want to host record? I'm like, it was like, email.

[Tana]

I would have known. I would have known if I got invited to the Grammys. And then. Yeah. And then the carpet. So I wouldn't even. I don't even know how that works. If you buy the. I don't think you walk. And then I just would have. It was like three o'. Clock. I live far from where it was. It started at 5 and it's like.

[Trisha]

The glam of it all. That's why I need the gown in the car.

[Tana]

Yes. Literally expensive. And, like, if I were to do it, I would just because I saw a girl today being like, Tana just didn't go because she couldn't get full out. And it was like, like, like that sad girl just go, life is short. You know what I mean? But, like, the reality was is that I would have had to pay and I really didn't have anything, like, to just like, throw on for the Grammys and, like, new dog. Yes. And I just want to do it the right way. And honestly, also, like, the price that they were asking, it's. It was a lot of money. Dollars.

[Trisha]

And for one or two?

[Tana]

For two.

[Trisha]

That's not bad for two.

[Tana]

And I do love Bieber.

[Trisha]

Like, Coachella weekend, right?

[Tana]

Yeah. And it was one song. And like, Coachella will just be everything and more for me, you know?

[Trisha]

Did you see his tattoo? Do you think it was. Do you think it was Jesus or Haley Bieber?

[Tana]

I. They're the same thing to me. No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. But I'm actually also not kidding.

[Trisha]

At all.

[Tana]

Like, I love them. So her little clockette, she looked in that thing and like, whatever people do, people have so many opinions. People love to say so. Oh my God. I was getting like fired up today just seeing like negative opinions. It's like he's been through so much, like, and like he rightfully has some disdain and anxiety towards this industry and like the fact that he's still willing to share his talents. And I love that he. I love that he came out shirtless in a pair of boxers. Like, he said, I'm just gonna share my vocals and be me. And it was so good. I'm Justin Bieber. And like, it was so good. And people are just haters. Someone commented like Justin Bieber hate on my TikTok today. And I don't block people ever. What did you say?

[Trisha]

Justin Bieber. What hater?

[Tana]

Like, hate. Like, someone was just like, I don't understand all the hype. And I was like, I want to block your bad right now. Like, not on my page.

[Trisha]

Did you block them? Oh, I would like that kind of stuff. I would block. I'd be like, no, I'm not tolerating this. Like, you know what I mean? Like, if anyone says anything bad about the people I love.

[Tana]

Ye. Yeah. It's like, come on. Like, he's just. They've been through so much and like, even I loved how Noah, the host was like super light on them. Like, not roasty.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

Was like, very nice. It's just like they've been through so.

[Trisha]

Much, especially when they like already go through Chinese.

[Tana]

Moses.

[Trisha]

Wow. Thank you. There's a pack underneath there.

[Tana]

Oh my God.

[Trisha]

Wow. Can I take a picture again? I love when you put them on little trays. Like, this looks so fancy.

[Tana]

I know.

[Trisha]

Thank you, Moses.

[Tana]

Thank you, Moses.

[Trisha]

Wow.

[Tana]

Moses made us Chinese baddy tea last week and it's all I've been talking about. Like, it is so good.

[Trisha]

I think it's relatively easy to make. I know every morning he brings it in the thing. Thank you.

[Tana]

It's apples. I need the recipe. I need to like text you guys. Cuz I need to ask Ashley to make this for me.

[Trisha]

It's just boiled water. You say, baby, you don't know me. Just be like, I made this. It's like boiled water and apples, right?

[Tana]

Apple ginger juju. Be like a goji. I got another one. And like the fact that you just like whipped that up in two seconds, this would take me half a day. He's like, just ginger. Just cut. Like, how do you even cut Up, Ginger.

[Trisha]

I know I'm with you. I'm the same way. I have no idea. Even boiling water, I'm like, I just start this.

[Tana]

I just saw a clip of you for something. I don't know what it was. It was just like, someone clipped something you did, but it was you, like, whisking something, and you were, like, pretending to whisk it for some, like, cooking.

[Trisha]

Oh, it was with Rosanna Fancino for her cookie show. Oh, that's so funny. She's just, like, expert chef over here. And I'm just, like, so mean to be fair.

[Tana]

Look, I don't.

[Trisha]

I don't know this event because I didn't know what I was doing. But people were like, oh, the bowl was too small for mixing. So I think that's why I was going slowly with it.

[Tana]

And, like, you just were serving. Like, I think it's camp. I love that, like, Very simple life, you know, where it's just, like.

[Trisha]

I mean, baking it. There's just, like, no hope for me cooking and stuff in general. Like, I like to do it. I'm just. I'm really just, like, not good. Like, I definitely have Moses, like, help me measure everything out and stuff like that. It's just too complicated.

[Tana]

God, I want to. One day in the next, like, four or five years, I'm gonna, like, That'll be my hyper fixation.

[Trisha]

You should do a series like you did with Makoa teaching you how to ride a bike. Like, you should do, like, Ashley teaching you how to, like, cook.

[Tana]

That's actually so true. Like, continue, because I really. That was so, like, awesome. You know what I mean? Like, learning.

[Trisha]

That was the fun. You were so cute. And sponsored by skims twice. I was like, yeah, I guess I. Buster get a sponsorship. And then I saw it.

[Tana]

He was. That was just pr. But, like, like, still Buster's first gifting being scams.

[Trisha]

I know because we had the same. I had that top, too, and I was like, oh, my God, bring that top. Then we can match. And then your vlog.

[Tana]

Yes, I know.

[Trisha]

I was so.

[Tana]

And it's so funny because I posted mine, and everyone was like, trisha just did hers.

[Trisha]

That's how. That's how it was when you posted with Buster. Everyone's like, oh. Like, literally, like, within an hour, I had posted mine, and I was like, oh, my God, that's so crazy. And then I was watching your vlog, and then you're like, sponsor my skills. I was like, okay, I love them for just.

[Tana]

I love them for this. Like, I Was so. Even on the call, I was like, thank you so much.

[Trisha]

I have a call, too. That's interesting because we have, like, different people and different agencies and everything like that. And it's, like, so funny how it's, like, the same, because I never get on call. Well, I don't know if I have to. I've never been on a call with a brand ever. I guess I never really talked to brands on the phone, so I never. That was a first. And then, like, skims once. It needs to talk to, like, someone from the podcast. I'm like, me, talk to me. On that call. I was just, like, not ashamed of anything. I was just like, can I please have your email at skim so I can. Because they're always like, contact us if you need anything. I'm like, I need an email because everyone says it. So I was asking on that call. I mean, everyone else. Because you're not really supposed to, like, like, there's, like, a client. There's, like, a person in between the client. You're not really supposed to be, like, contact me directly. But I was like, contact me Selling myself, too.

[Tana]

I was like, I can do more of these if you like this. Like, come on. Because I love them.

[Trisha]

No, I love them, too. I, like, give them free PR all the time, too. And I was just like, so. And it was so crazy because, like, a couple days prior, I was, like, texted you. I was like, I ordered us the entire Valentine's skin collection. I did. I got, like, every size of everything for us.

[Tana]

You're so cute.

[Trisha]

And then, like, literally, it was just like, oh, the Fits Everybody collection, which I do wear all the time, too.

[Tana]

So I know that's. And it's a good starting, like, the Fits Everybody is actually. It's the most bomb thing ever. Even yesterday, I, like, was throwing out all my other bras because it's like, they're uncomfortable.

[Trisha]

I love that we're just doing an ad for them now, even though we're not a sponsor.

[Tana]

Like, and it was so easy. I've been like, no, I love it. It's so interesting because I like, I love being more brand safe. And I've been, like, so honored. Even you. And I, like, just got offered a deal that, like, if it goes through.

[Trisha]

Will be, like, so crazy, especially together, if we do it. I was kind of like, we have to do it honestly.

[Tana]

And, like, it's so fun, but it is just such a different ball game than, like, what I'm used to. I, like, passed on a deal. The Other day, which I never do because. Because they. It's like a long story, but they. It was a dedicated YouTube video for the brand. Oh. Normally I prefer doing integrations within the video so it's more authentic.

[Trisha]

Yes.

[Tana]

And then kind of back. And I think that converts better anyways because it's more authentic.

[Trisha]

Right.

[Tana]

But also, like, I don't mind doing a dedicated video so long as it's authentic. It's still the video I want to make and I'm integrating it authentically. Whatever. And they sent me a script for the entire 15 minute video like they wanted. And it wasn't like, about their company. It was like, like they were just forming opinions for me. Like, just genuinely like. Like, let's say you and I were having a conversation, but like someone scripted it. Like, do you know what I mean?

[Trisha]

Oh, yes.

[Tana]

Like just where it was like just scripting. Like things I would be saying about Makoa or things I would be saying about.

[Trisha]

That's odd.

[Tana]

And like, they just wouldn't budge on the fact that they wanted me to read this script. And I was like, I've never done that in my life. Like, I'm not trying to go back.

[Trisha]

And be like, hey, can we like change this a little?

[Tana]

Well, hey, like, I'll read your talking points about your brand and insert them where you've put them in the script. But you're going to have to allow me to form my own thoughts and opinions across this video in between them.

[Trisha]

That's like kind of 101. With it comes that stuff. It's just like, well, let me talk.

[Tana]

Like, I'm not gonna say like Makoa was chaotic in the beginning of our relate. Like, that's not my thought and that's not true. Like, I'm not gonna just like, like say lies for 20 minutes like for your brand. And that's crazy.

[Trisha]

That's really weird. Yeah, that's. Yeah.

[Tana]

And it's just like for you, for.

[Trisha]

Turning it down, you are very authentically. You even we did unwell. Like, it was a really funny script and I like the script and stuff. But you are very vocal. Like, I wouldn't say that. You know what I mean?

[Tana]

Which is good.

[Trisha]

Me, I am like, there are of course things I wouldn't say. I want to be like. Like Moses is like chaotic or anything. But like, you know, I'm usually like, whatever if you think it's funny. But you're very.

[Tana]

And like, I get that too. Even in like shorter integrations. Like, sometimes I'll use my little Ad read voice and people will kind of like, you know what I mean? That I'm like, maybe reading something and, like, that's fine, but, like, for a 20 minute sit down, like, especially when, like, I've done story time my whole life, like, I take pride in my word being my bond and the things that I say, like, that cannot and never will be written for me. Okay, maybe for like, 5 million bucks. And then I'm telling everyone, like, sorry, skip to the next one. But, like, like, 5 million, I probably would.

[Trisha]

Would you see anything for 5 million?

[Tana]

Anything is a stretch, but damn near I'm gonna go 98%. Because I also think that we have this amazing bond with our girlies where they would be like, get yours, diva.

[Trisha]

Yeah, it is crazy. That is. I think we're both in that era because, like, it is cool that we're getting, like, brand deals now with, like, big brands. And most people would be like, another sponsorship, but everyone's like, yes, another sponsorship.

[Tana]

So sweet. It is like, it's so. Because I really do hope that people see it and they know that, like, at least speaking for myself for, like, the 10 years of my career, I never, ever, ever thought that I would. I would have a skim sponsor or that, like a Tinder sponsor on a podcast that I'm doing. And they want me to be like, you know what I mean, Reading these things. And, like, I hope that there's some hope core in that that, like, you can turn the way you're perceived around and, like, you can work really hard and it might be a little harder for you than it is for other people. Like, sometimes people get things really easily. But, like, because I was chaotic, I know that it's something I have to work for a little more and, like, beg for and stuff. But you can get it too. Like, you know, I think that.

[Trisha]

I think that you hit the nail on the head with that too. It's just like, I was talking about that today, too. Who was I talking about it? Like, maybe it was. Stay on the podcast. We're talking about reputations and. Oh, we were talking about Gabbie Hanna. She kind of does. She has a little rebrand right now. She's got married, so she's like Gabrielle Croner and she's, like, very religious.

[Tana]

I saw her. I like. I liked what she did. She apologized to Rebecca Black. I saw that video.

[Trisha]

Did you see everyone, Joel, see why she's apologizing? Apologizing, everyone. She's, like, on a little apology to.

[Tana]

Her right now, but I Think that's really cool to be like, wait, like, you know what I mean? I'm older now, and I'm looking back at this thing that I did, I should do that and apology to her. Yes. Like, it's, you know, it's. It's important.

[Trisha]

Yeah, No, I love it. She was definitely being, like, a little extreme with religion in regards, like, Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey. Like, she was being a little.

[Tana]

Really.

[Trisha]

But, like, you know. Yeah, okay. That wasn't even, like, the point, but the point was, is that she has this, like, rebrand. She, like, found God, she's married, all stuff like that. And yeah, people are calling it manic. She's posting so much. Like, she's posting so many apologies and so many things. So there's, like, people saying that and it's like, I think it's because it's her, right? Like, if anybody else was posting, like, they found God and they love being married and they're. They're addressing Tara's world because she wrote to Tara's world and she wrote. Yeah, she kind of, you know, going to all these influencers. So people are calling her, like, manic, which I don't know. I mean, she's posting a lot, but, like, whatever.

[Tana]

But I think because of her. Oh, yeah, that is interesting.

[Trisha]

Like, if I was just like, if I went away for four years and then I come back and I'm just like, God told me to speak to you. Which she was kind of seeing with Taylor Swift. Like, I think a normal, like, you know, Christian people say that and it's like, fine. And I think it's fine. She is. I'm kind of, like, torn on it because I'm like, maybe that's just how she feels. But because it's her. Same thing with me, I will put myself in the same category. Is like, sometimes I'm not the right messenger because of my, like, how people perceive me. Not anything that's important. If something's important, I'm gonna talk about it. Whether people are like, she's a piece of or not. Like, if it's important, I'll talk about it. But there is, like, something where it's like, maybe people perceive me as being, like, messy or something. Maybe I'm not the one to, like, get involved or, like, stand up for, like, someone. You know what I mean? Like, Michael, I can't go, like, too hard on her or anything because I'm like, well, I've been there. You know what I mean?

[Tana]

I don't know. So I saw her do that. Sit down video too where she was talking about like getting lost in the influencer world.

[Trisha]

Oh, I haven't seen that one. Is it new?

[Tana]

Yeah, she like did it get ready with me where she was just saying I have been really lost like these past few years like in the influencer world. And I was like that vulnerability is like hard to do. And especially just knowing that it's going to be met with a lot of hate. But doing it anyways is.

[Trisha]

Yeah, I think that's her strength. I think when she's like real like that people really like it. Cuz it's.

[Tana]

Yeah, I agree.

[Trisha]

It's real.

[Tana]

And that's. She's so talented with makeup and stuff too. Like she really is.

[Trisha]

I really wish I could slay makeup. You have a wispy lash on today.

[Tana]

I do. We're wispy girls together.

[Trisha]

Yeah, we're very.

[Tana]

We're so natural in the pan.

[Trisha]

I know. I do love your natural era.

[Tana]

I love yours though too. Like this glam beings. I've been telling you this is my favorite glam on you. I think.

[Trisha]

Wow.

[Tana]

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[Trisha]

Thank you. I was telling you this is my self tape glam today. I was. It's my natural like when it's like be yourself I'm like, all right. Yes.

[Tana]

The wispy lash says like, oh, this is just me.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

Like, ooh.

[Trisha]

It's like I do a French acc today for myself. Not White Lotus, everybody. But it was a French accent.

[Tana]

Can you give me a little French Bonjour.

[Trisha]

That's what I did. It didn't start without mercy, but that's all I could do. I was like, I've actually. I had Moses even leave the room. Usually I have him in there for a self tape. I'm like, leave the room.

[Tana]

Yeah. French is hard too, because it's a lot of like.

[Trisha]

Yeah. I wish I could say the like, lines. I feel like it'll like, give it away or like, maybe they don't want me to.

[Tana]

Oh, my God. I'm so excited to find out off camera. I love that you're in your acting era.

[Trisha]

I. I love doing it at two, but this one I definitely like. You know, there's just certain parts, you're just like, this is definitely not for me. This is not my role. But I like to do it anyways. Just to like, put it out there. Like, here I am, you know?

[Tana]

Yeah. And you just never know what can come from anything. And you're passionate about it and you're good at it and you like it and that's what matters.

[Trisha]

Yeah. I've been taking like, acting classes. Really? And singing classes. Singing lessons. I've been doing singing once a week on Zoom, but I wanna start doing it in person. And then I've been doing acting on Zoom too, but I kinda wanna do like an in person one. I just don't know, like in this area, if there's like good acting classes, I feel like it would be probably.

[Tana]

A little maybe Hollywood maybe.

[Trisha]

But that's like a long john.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

And then what is even an acting class? Is it just like a group of people just doing, like exercises, you know?

[Tana]

It would be so fun is doing an improv something together.

[Trisha]

Improv for so long. But that to me, okay. I'm like, I'm someone who does weirdly get embarrassed. Like, I. Not easily, but like, no, Even on the like, red carpet thing, Like, I'm very much. There's a picture of Kylie coming out of the car and I'm literally just like wallflowering myself. Just like trying to be as, like, small as possible because, like, I do get a little bit cringe or even. Okay, perfect example. Red carpet. You know how everyone does, like, their getty image. They're like, do you want to go? And I'm like, no, that's. I don't. It's. For me, it's embarrassing. Even though it's not like, I want the Getty image. I want to be there, but I, like, refuse to.

[Tana]

It's hard because we do live in a society where, like, okay, JLo's glambo is kind of a bad example. Like, because, like, be. Be nice. We already talked about it. But I just saying, like, even just glam bots in general, like, Joey King's Glambot would be a great example, like, where it's like, people are just so perceived and picked apart. And, like, I saw someone talk about this the other day, but, like, 2016, being romanticized right now. And someone was picking apart the difference in 2016 and now. And I agreed with it tenfold. Where it was, like, in 2016, it was cool to try. It was cool to, like, be like, I'm going to take this Instagram photo. And clearly a bunch of effort went into this. And, like, like, now people think this new generation thinks that effort is so corny. You know what I mean? Like, oh, you tried for that red carpet and you tried for that glam bot. And, like, you're getty. Like, that doesn't look just like your Instagram. And, like, and you. You can, especially in our jobs, like, let those thoughts and the perception and stuff, like, ruin. I'm the same way now where it's like, I'll know how something is going to be picked apart, and then I maybe won't do it. Whereas, like, in a 2016, no question I'm doing it.

[Trisha]

And, like, like, you know, that's a good observation. Yeah. Because there are certain things I don't care where I'm just like, whatever, I'm just gonna do it. But I don't know, like, weirdly, red carpets and all that kind of scene a little bit. I don't judge anyone else but me. I'm very much like, that's stupid, Trish.

[Tana]

Don't do it.

[Trisha]

But then I really want to. And I'm like, yeah, I, like, want.

[Tana]

To see your getty.

[Trisha]

Like, you know what I mean?

[Tana]

I know you would slay, but, I mean, at least we're acknowledging that. And, like, hopefully, I don't know, I'm just waiting for the tables to turn. Like, I think not giving a. And just doing whatever you want, like, is so cool. And, like, effort is so cool. Yeah.

[Trisha]

They say cringe is, like, out. I'm hoping that's.

[Tana]

Yeah. Like, it's just because it is. It's so Sad. Like the best life that's lived is the one where you are free of fear, of embarrassment.

[Trisha]

Yeah, I agree.

[Tana]

You know, because like in reality, nothing is embarrassing. It's only embarrassing if you make it embarrassing or like. But then other people like to say things and it's like ignoring them, I guess. Like it is just. Just like, damn.

[Trisha]

Yeah, I know I need to get better at it because I just. Yeah, I miss out. I miss out on some things, but some things I'm like, whatever, it doesn't matter.

[Tana]

But I get what you're saying. But I wonder also, I think that the anxieties and like those thoughts do come with like doing this for so long because I just. Do you ever think about that? Like, I'm not. I don't. I don't want to be crazy Tana again. Like, I want to be this Tana. Like I'm very. I wouldn't change it for the world. I'm very happy or I'm at. But sometimes I do miss how much this. That girl didn't give a. Yeah, like just when you have nothing to lose, there is something a little magical about like for sure swinging. And a lot of times you're missing, but the hits are sick because you just don't give a. Like, you know what? I. And now I like, I'm anxious and like, like I didn't have anxiety until like three years ago, you know?

[Trisha]

Yeah. Cuz you're just trying to be like a better you.

[Tana]

Yeah, it's.

[Trisha]

Yeah, it's different because like your unhingedness with was like kind of harmless, I suppose. My unhingedness was like pretty harmful. So I'm like, oh, I'm glad I'm not that person. But yours, yours had like point and merit behind it. Mine was like, I was literally just calling Tati Westbrook for no reason. Like, I didn't even know anything about her. And I was like, like, you stupid.

[Tana]

I think I'm closer to that than you're. Than you're living.

[Trisha]

I was so angry. If you look up, like, Tati Westbrook. Dumb as hell I think is what I called it. Literally never heard of Tati. Literally had no idea what she did. I was like, so angry. I was like, you smell stupid for no reason. And Gabby too. I was responding to Gabby. She's like, I wrote this song for Trisha. I think it'd be really good. I'm like, you dumb crazy. So mad for no reason. Anthony Padilla was catching strays and I know nothing about him either. And I Was just like, oh, I hate this. Like, I was like, I hate you. I hate. Like, I was, like, possessed. So I know the possession of Trisha Betas, but yours was more camp. You had story.

[Tana]

You hit, though. It's the same. I don't think I ever hit. No, I can think of a few hits.

[Trisha]

Give me one. Hit it.

[Tana]

I'm coming for David.

[Trisha]

One hit. One hit worked. That was my luck, though. That and actually not luck. I was like, ah, something bad's gonna happen. It was almost like a. A manifestation that I shouldn't have done. You know what I mean? I should just left it as it is. But I digress. Yeah, same.

[Tana]

We're big digressors over.

[Trisha]

Usually I would. I will go on record and say I had zero. Zero hits. Even the David one. I was like, maybe I, like, manifested something bad happening. Cause I was like, something bad's gonna happen. And then, like, a year later, later, poor Jeff got it. I believe in it because that's why I like my witchy powers. I'm very much like, I don't want to use them for bad. And so sometimes when I say stuff like that, I was like, oh, maybe, like, you are very.

[Tana]

You're like, the best about that of anyone I've ever met. Even right now, me and Devin were being like, I'm myself. And Trisha was like, leave me out of that sentiment.

[Trisha]

I'll live. Yes.

[Tana]

Literally, let's all live. And, like, you're so real about, like, really, like, yeah. Because for me, at least, I do think it takes effort for everything to come out of my mouth to be positive. Like, I. I can resort to a. Like, oh, my God. I'm just gonna, like, a complaint really easily. And I have to put forth effort because I, like, in my head. I'm just kidding. Like, you know what I mean? When I'm saying some stuff, I'm like, oh, I'm just joking. That's who I am. But that. At what point are you, like, manifesting negative things by saying that? So I have to put real.

[Trisha]

Yes.

[Tana]

And you taught me that I have to put forth, like, more effort to be like, no. Like, this is all gonna work out fine. And, like, no one sucks. And, like, everything's gonna be, like, fine. You know what I mean? You're just good at natural, naturally being that way. Like, the positive thought, it's taking work.

[Trisha]

But, yeah, I think I was, like, negative for so long. I was like, I suck. I'm not deserving of love. I'm fat, I'm gross. Like, Also, I feel like I was very negative and then like, yeah, just it took like a psychosis to like really be like, okay, Trish, get it together. Change something. You know what I mean? But words are powerful.

[Tana]

But it's so funny because if I just knew you now. Met you today. Like, I always think that about you. Like just immediately even it can be the worst thing ever. And you're immediately going to like be like, this is how it's supposed to be. Like, yeah.

[Trisha]

You kind of have to believe that. Otherwise also, life just gets complicated because even if people are like, oh, it's all whatever, it's like, I'd rather just believe everything's okay, everything's fine than like spiraling.

[Tana]

Yeah. It's so true.

[Trisha]

Cuz it's like scariest place to be.

[Tana]

I always think about that. I always think about like, I never want to be 80 and look back and think I spent any time of my life unhappy or ruminating, you know? And it's just like, because it's like, why this is. We're so lucky. And that is so true. Yeah. So beautiful. So it's true.

[Trisha]

Don't waste that energy on.

[Tana]

Do you know, we got. It wasn't a hate comment, but we got a comment on not Loveline that has like, literally it was like burning. I almost responded. I almost got away. Like, I know it was one comment. It was like. And everyone was being so sweet and they weren't even being mean. I hate. Hate is not. It's so terrorist world of me to say that they were a hater. Actually, they were not being a hater. They were like, you guys never take calls. Like, so you need a rebrand. Like, this isn't even not Loveline. Like, you guys need to rebrand. Yeah.

[Trisha]

Honestly, that's what it is.

[Tana]

It's whenever something has a little bit of truth. Like, it was such a read. I was like, I don't want to rebrand. I love not love.

[Trisha]

I love not Loveline to. Because sponsors always be like, we love a formatted show that we know we're getting the phone calls every week. And I was like, period. We got to do more.

[Tana]

You know, maybe not Loveline. And the call sometimes are the friends that we make along the way. Okay. Because we're still trying to give advice from our experiences and talk about our experience.

[Trisha]

I love, I love that. It's just like we do kind of go so few and far between shows and it's like we have so much ketchup.

[Tana]

Yes.

[Trisha]

And like you don't like you know what I mean? Like, it's just like. I don't know, it's just like, such a different experience, like, catching up. But we are doing, like, somewhat of a rebrand. The set is coming. Drip Dome is back in town for Valentine's Day. They're doing my Weathering Heights sets. They're gonna do a Chinese dragon upstairs.

[Tana]

What are you doing? Weathering Heights?

[Trisha]

Oh, we're doing all of it. We're doing the whole cosplay for Valentine's Day. Yeah, we got the red shiny floors. You know, the premiere was crazy because we've been building that set, and I'm like, we literally have that exact same set from the premiere.

[Tana]

She would just have that, like, at home. So what have you been thinking about Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi?

[Trisha]

Oh, the whole, like. I mean, it's a lot, but I love it. It's a lot.

[Tana]

Yeah, it's. It's so funny, cuz, like, I feel like the formula started working and now everyone does. The formula?

[Trisha]

Yeah. Like, be flirty.

[Tana]

They're just so, like, beautiful that I, like, cannot look away like I want them to. I'm sorry. To Maro's husband.

[Trisha]

Right, right. Well, that's what I was going to ask you. Would you. Would you be that flirty if you had to promote a movie?

[Tana]

We all love to say no, but then Jacob Elordi's, like, covering your room in roses. Like, we're only so strong. Like, even. Just, like, even if it was just objectively, like, that was a really nice gesture. But then he's like seven feet tall and like.

[Trisha]

And you're doing such, like, sexual scenes, like, his fingers in your mouth, and you're just like, well, is this real? Yeah, I mean, it definitely has, like, a troll. It's definitely, like, to promote the movie because, like, look at the Cindy Sweeney and Glen Powell.

[Tana]

Yes.

[Trisha]

You know, like, it was like, oh, they're just being camp and they have significant others, and then now they don't. You know what I mean? And it's like, love them. But that's the thing.

[Tana]

That's the thing. Nicole was like, the love of my life. I could never act like. Or have him act or, like, I don't know how people do that. You know what I mean? Like, I will say that. Like, it's so. Even any friends I have that are actors, I'm always asking them, especially if they're in relationships, I'm always like, how do you guys, like, like, what do you mean? You're just gonna go do a sex scene with this person, and then you're gonna go home to yourself.

[Trisha]

I've always said the same thing. Because it's like, you have to feel something. Something as an actor. Like, you're feeling. That's. That's the whole point of an acting. You're feeling emotion. So, like, if you're doing a horny scene, you have to be feeling somewhat turned on, I would assume.

[Tana]

Yes. And, like, obviously, people would argue that, like, the greats have the ability to compartmentalize and almost, like, split, I guess. Right.

[Trisha]

Like, I'm a great splitter, and I don't think I could do it. I still think I'd be, like, in it somehow. You know what I mean? Yeah.

[Tana]

Because it's just like, your bodies are touching and, like, you're like.

[Trisha]

I always want to say, the guys. I'm always like, do they take something to, like, not be? Because, yes, from what I hear, sometimes you can just get, like, a boner. Just be cut. Like, you can't help it. Like, you can't pull. Push it down.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

So, like, do they take something to.

[Tana]

Like, Margot Robbie's, like, busting and open? You're telling me he's Jacob, a lord. He's not bricked up?

[Trisha]

That's what I'm saying. Yeah. Like, that's kind of. It is kind of crazy, right? Because if you can't control it, like, yeah, I guess you control it at a certain point. But, like, yeah, you. I don't know. Like, you said, no matter what, even if you were, like, the most loyal person in the whole world, like, someone's, like, rubbing up on you, like. Like, that's.

[Tana]

That's exactly, like, what I'm trying to say. Like, even 100 loyalty, it's still, like, a very interesting, like, predicament.

[Trisha]

Yeah. Sometimes only wearing, like, a sock, you know? And you're like, this is crazy.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

I don't know if I could. I don't know if I could.

[Tana]

I don't think I. I don't think I could ever date an actor either.

[Trisha]

That's what I'm saying. I could do the acting because, like, I know myself. Whatever. I don't think I could, like, let Moses go to a scene with, like, Margot Robbie. Be like, Nick, it all probably lose my. Yeah, I don't even.

[Tana]

Like, when there's a girl barista making a coffee for makoa. Okay. And I shut up about it. Like, you. We were just somewhere in Hawaii and we ran into this girl, and we, like, kind of know her, and she, like, comes up to us. And she's like. She looks at me and she like, both of us. And she's like, you guys just look so good. Like, you both look so good. But then she was, like, locking eyes at Makoa saying it. So she's looking at Mako being like, you guys just look so good.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

And, like, no, like, we kind of know her. But Mako is perfect, okay? He would literally never do anything. He's literally.

[Trisha]

He doesn't even.

[Tana]

Like, he couldn't even, like, fathom doing something.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

And that. So then that also creates this, like, naivety that he has. Like, even with that girl, I knew if I walked away and I was like, wants you, he'd be like, no. Like, she doesn't. Like, you know what I mean? Like, because he really genuinely perceives things that way. Like, he'll hear me out, but, like, I just think that he. We perceive things very differently the way that we both are. And, like, I know that on in him. Okay. Yeah, I know. I know me eyes when I see them.

[Trisha]

Okay. Thank you.

[Tana]

Back in my back when grandma. Back when Meemaw used to have to get. Give me eyes. I know him. Okay? Like, whatever. Amar used to make so much fun of me. I was always that, you know, you're.

[Trisha]

Like, I know that look.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

Like.

[Tana]

Like at a party or something like that.

[Trisha]

She's, like, in the corner with some guy. Like, wait, what is the look? I don't even know. What is it?

[Tana]

I don't. I don't think I can just, like, actually do it right now. Like, I. I'd have to have Jacob Bi here. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. That was a joke.

[Trisha]

I know we were, like, up, but, like, just.

[Tana]

Yeah, whatever. Whatever. Should we take a call? Yeah. So we don't have to rebrand.

[Trisha]

Oh. My point of that is, like, Drip Dome's coming with a new set. Oh, yeah. We have the bedroom like I was telling you about.

[Tana]

Keeping. Not Loveline.

[Trisha]

We'll keep not Loveline, but different wall. And we are gonna do the bed. I'm really nervous about this bed. I don't know if it's gonna give what we think it's gonna give.

[Tana]

Really, like, whatever.

[Trisha]

It just, like, looks like we're just. Just, like, we're just cheap. And it's got a mattress on the floor.

[Tana]

Well, then, you know Moses is going to be back down here with a Chinese baddie tea putting these chairs back. No, he's definitely.

[Trisha]

Like, I can build, like, a headboard. He just doesn't know without Knowing the backdrop. He's like, I don't really know like.

[Tana]

The size a leopard headboard would be or like a fuzzy headboard would be cute. You could take this and like we're always in pajamas. I do think we like let us know in the comments. But I think we like give sleepover.

[Trisha]

We're like yeah, but it could look like just like. Yeah, I will try. Yeah. We have a huge mattress so we're. We are down to put it in.

[Tana]

I think we try.

[Trisha]

Cuz we did do this like very last minute. I like it. But it is. It's been over a year now. We know.

[Tana]

I'm going to. I'll start shopping for like throw pillows.

[Trisha]

Like we need really big ones.

[Tana]

Yeah. Oh I just saw a good big one. Like honestly out shopping like I think I could. I could help. So I'm excited and I'm just excited for the bed. Like all. All looks aside like my back is ready for that. That's what I'm saying.

[Trisha]

I hope it's a good because are you gonna be like laying down? That's what I'm saying. You kind of have to.

[Tana]

I'm in one of those like body pillows. It's like not cute at all.

[Trisha]

That's what I'm saying. I'm trying to figure out how you're gonna like lean. That's why we would need kind of like a big cushion pillow or something to like get your back up. Because I can't really. I can't picture your like laying against here like on the bed. Like. I don't know.

[Tana]

I know you might have a point.

[Trisha]

I don't know. I guess we'll see. We'll. We'll try and get some big pillows made like this. I'm just. We'll try. The first couple episodes may be a little.

[Tana]

Yeah but I'll get some like black fuzzy pillows. Like we'll just get enough pillows and anything can work. Right. Love a good pillow. That's like we don't talk about that enough. I love pillows. Like they're just. They're every like this pillow. This pillow. Like they just help so much.

[Trisha]

I love it. The time stamps like at the 45 minute mark. Jimmy's like go to 45 minutes and talk about pillows.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

Like scratch. Cuz you know I see like the most replayed like where people go. Do you know that like on see that they might come to the pillow.

[Tana]

Talk of at all.

[Trisha]

That's a good name. Maybe that would have been a better name than not L. But I'm sure that's taken by a 5,000 people already.

[Tana]

Charlotte Tilbury. But I don't.

[Trisha]

Other than that.

[Tana]

Tilbury, the pillow talk lip liner.

[Trisha]

I love that. You know you're such a makeup guru.

[Tana]

Not as good as channel.

[Trisha]

Yeah, it's true that Elvis ran away with yes. Literally like Meg put that down. And she's like. Like she's perfect.

[Tana]

She's perfect. Should we.

[Trisha]

Let's make a call.

[Tana]

I want to. Because I just want to say like sincerely I love the call so much. And I. I also love the catch up so much. I love them both equally. And like I just.

[Trisha]

We were.

[Tana]

We want to get to them Devin saying they're getting better and better.

[Trisha]

So call us. And I meet a lot of girls.

[Tana]

Who are like I just met a girl at five below. She was like, we call you all the time.

[Trisha]

What's that below the sports store?

[Tana]

No, it's big five. You're thinking big five.

[Trisha]

Below.

[Tana]

Kind of like a dollar tree. But it's $5 and below. But now it's not. Obviously because of inflation. Everything was honestly 5 above. But I had so much fun in there. It's like t Tik Tok shop in person.

[Trisha]

O I love that.

[Tana]

Like it was.

[Trisha]

I've never find anything. I like Tik Tok shop cuz it curates me. It's like, you want this? It's like, okay, but like at a store I don't know what I want.

[Tana]

And it was like one of those things where I left and I was like landfill store. Like I. I went and I tried it. Like just very landfill. Everything should be in a landfill. Like it doesn't. It's like everything is going to be in a landfill. I should say like it. I. I felt gross in the. My contribution to consumerism after going like it was very fun and like I got like slime and I got like cute little like things from Akoa like snacks and stuff. But a part of me was like I never need to come back here again because I'm like such a hoarder, you know.

[Trisha]

Are you saving it from going to the landfill? Like why it doesn't go to the landfill.

[Tana]

I guess that's true. But like still just none of those things should be like made. I don't know. I mean I did get like some weights for my gym. Like there were some things that were like going. I got some weights. We'll see.

[Trisha]

You look buff, toned. You do.

[Tana]

I've been working out more than normally.

[Trisha]

Feel good?

[Tana]

Yeah. But I don't know. The dog mom of it all has set me back. That's my workout.

[Trisha]

That's a big change.

[Tana]

Chasing his around the house.

[Trisha]

A week it's been. Yeah, A week's like, it's a lot to dust to. It is like, surprise, you're here. Like, I was like, I. I like.

[Tana]

It is draining me. But I love him. Yeah, I do. So we'll see you.

[Trisha]

Spoken like a mom. Like, the kids are draining me, but we love them.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

Like, literally. Let's go.

[Caller]

Hi, Trish. Hi, Tana. It's Evelyn. And we're currently at the casino right now, but we've only been playing slot because we feel like all the tables are like, male dominated and we need someone like Santa to teach us how to play poker and all the game. Yeah. So if you'd be down to teach us because I've just been the dummy losing money at slots and I want to be at the big table.

[Tana]

Well, thank you for the call for only me. Devin.

[Trisha]

I love it.

[Tana]

It's true. I actually, I saw this tick tock the other day that like, really evoked a thought for me that I've never talked about. But if you are ever strapped for cash as a woman, women get your to Vegas. And I don't mean this in the way, like, in that way. I don't mean, like, you don't. I was just thinking about the fact that I do this all the time in Vegas. I do this, like, to this day. I saw a girl making a tick tock about it. But if you go sit at any table that men are gambling at in Vegas as a woman, and you literally just look at them and say, like, Can I have 25?

[Trisha]

Can I have it?

[Tana]

Because it's in chips. Like, do you know what I mean? Like, people like, fake money. Well, just. Yeah, like, and people are drinking and like, men love the feeling of like, providing. They love to be like, like, I always look at guys in Vegas and I'll be like, do you want to donate to the Blonde Girls of America fund? Like, always look at them and say that. And like, I've had managers hand me like a $500 chip. Like, well, if you're in Vegas, you need to go in the high limit rooms. You need to sit down at a guy and do roulette. Because roulette is like the fun vibe. Everyone's around the table.

[Trisha]

That's the wheel.

[Tana]

Yes. Like, whereas, like blackjack and baccarat and some people are more seriously locked into, like, what they're doing. So they're not as like, Fun and friendly and, like, roulette's very social. Walk over to a roulette table if you're a woman ever and ask men for money. And if it does not work, like, call me back. Okay. Because, like, I was just thinking about that. Like, it doesn't. I've never talked about that. And, like, men in Vegas are just so stupid.

[Trisha]

Well, I think it's important to preface. You think you have to be a pretty girl, because that's never happened to me.

[Tana]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha]

You are a pretty girl. Well, I've never once got a coin.

[Tana]

We're going to do it. We're going to do it next time we're in Vegas.

[Trisha]

Oh, you have to ask.

[Tana]

You have to ask.

[Trisha]

You have to give me some money. That's kind of what I'm saying. That's what I'm solicitating.

[Tana]

It kind of does. But I think at the casino, it's okay because it's like I'm down. Like, I've lost all my money. Like, can you just give me, like, 25 bucks? And then, like, I love taking a man's 25, putting it on red or black, making it back, giving them their money back, walking away. I don't know. This whole thought process came to me the other day where I was like, solid advice.

[Trisha]

I trust you more. I never asked. So that.

[Tana]

That's what it is. It's about, like, just. In Vegas, you can get away with asking men for money and getting it.

[Trisha]

And I feel like that doesn't.

[Tana]

It doesn't happen anywhere else in the world. And I needed to give that advice out. And it's nice because, like, because it's gambling. There's. It's not like they're expecting it in exchange for anything. I've definitely had men where I'm like, can I have money? And they're like, for what? And I'm like, nothing. And then they'll still give it to you.

[Trisha]

Like, so cool. Like, I love that you're that girl.

[Tana]

No.

[Trisha]

One time I had a guy who.

[Tana]

Was like, that AP on your wrist is my mortgage. And I go, but I don't have any chips. He gave me money.

[Trisha]

But what's an ap?

[Tana]

An Audemars Piguet?

[Trisha]

What is that?

[Tana]

It's not on my wrist right now. It's just like a watch that I wear in Vegas.

[Trisha]

Oh, are you a watch girly? I know nothing about watches.

[Tana]

I. I do love a good watch.

[Trisha]

What is the big one? The Richard Millie?

[Tana]

That's, like, crazy, though. That's like for like angry men.

[Trisha]

Angry men.

[Tana]

Yes, I guess.

[Trisha]

Rich angry man.

[Tana]

Rich, rich, angry men.

[Trisha]

Like people that rob form over the hills. I know. They're always like, he was wearing a Richard Millie watch. I'm like, well, don't wear that watch.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

Victim shame.

[Tana]

But no, Those are crazy though. I could see you with like, Cartier tank.

[Trisha]

Yeah. What's that?

[Tana]

Like the square Cartier watch.

[Trisha]

I think I have one. I think Moses got me one. I think. I can't remember. My wrist doesn't fit.

[Tana]

I did.

[Trisha]

I sent you a picture. No, it was actually put away. It was in my closet.

[Tana]

Oh, my God. I love.

[Trisha]

That's why I looked. I was like, oh, right there.

[Tana]

Do you have it on?

[Trisha]

Well, well, I, I got a little bloated since then, so I gotta lose a little. And I need to get the extended.

[Tana]

I need to also get an extender for this one.

[Trisha]

No, yours looks perfect. Yours. Oh, I see. Like a little longer. I, I, I'm excited. I'm gonna wear it. I'm gonna stack them up like you. Because I have so many. Moses got me like three Van Cleef bracelets. The Cartier watch. Like, yeah, he's like, over the years. Over six years. But like, I never wear, he's like, you never wear them? And I'm like, I will. Just give me like, my wrist has to go down a little bit. You know, I finally got to wear my, like, wedding ring after so long. I'm like, oh, finally.

[Tana]

This barking at me right now too. It's so, what's just the engagement ring?

[Trisha]

It's not even the bands, and the bands don't fit. So I'm, it's getting there. I'm, I'm out on a fitness journey too. I've been doing Pilates three times a week. I've been like, walking. That's just like, hard.

[Tana]

But it is, it's so hard. I think that some people, people just. I always think that with Ashley too. Like, it's so ingrained in her. And it's like the opposite of ingrained in me. Like, I have a genuine disdain for it. But I do understand that the dopamine comes after consistency.

[Trisha]

I know because I go three times a week to Pilates and I'm still like.

[Tana]

But that's a lot, though.

[Trisha]

I like it. I like the feeling. I don't know if I get like a dopamine rush from it, but I feel a little stronger picking up my kids and stuff.

[Tana]

That's why I like cardio. Like, if I walk for long enough I will feel like that. I can't say runners high, but Walker's high.

[Trisha]

We should be runners. We should try and, like, we should train for a marathon.

[Tana]

I literally have been saying that I want to, and then Mako let me know that it was like, 30 miles, and then I was like, oh, no, America 26. Like, what do they have marathons that are like, oh, we should start our own marathon where it's just two miles and at the end you get a treat.

[Trisha]

That's a good one.

[Tana]

That's a good one.

[Trisha]

We should do it.

[Tana]

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[Trisha]

That is a good one.

[Tana]

Creme brulee Crawl. Like, I.

[Trisha]

That's the way you're eating. That's actually so good. How do we do it? How do we start it?

[Tana]

Oh, my God. We could do it for charity. Should we start, like, doing walks?

[Trisha]

I love a charity event. Yeah, that's maybe the two mile walk.

[Tana]

Yeah. Yes. Maybe three. And then we could work our way up to, like, maybe, like, four or five. But these 26ers, it's like, oh, you people are.

[Trisha]

But you can walk the 26 miles.

[Tana]

Yeah. Across a year. It would take me a year.

[Trisha]

I think we could do it in eight hours. I do, like, a mile in, like, 45 minutes now.

[Tana]

I want to, like, get on the treadmill tonight and just, like, factually see. Or, like, tomorrow, one of these days, just see how many miles I could walk before I feel like I'm gonna. Gonna die.

[Trisha]

And do you get to stop at a certain point with a marathon? Like, I feel like you can stop.

[Tana]

Okay, let's do it. Honestly.

[Trisha]

Oh, you are a marathon. Here we come. When we were there, they had the New York marathon. We could have done it there.

[Tana]

Oh, my God. And, like, that always happened. Like, even when I was just in Maui on Oahu, they were doing, like, the Hawaii marathon in the rain.

[Trisha]

That'd be better. Oh, I mean, I love New York, but I think a marathon in Hawaii sounds warmer.

[Tana]

Yeah, definitely warmer. What did this girl ask that? I didn't answer at all. I just told her. Oh, confidence in male dominated fear fields. I think that I don't. I mean, you just have to remember that like, at the end of the day, no matter how good a man is at something, you have a power over him that like, is your confidence and is your aura. Like, unfortunately, just the way that society is, men either a expect something from you or want something from you. And there's such a way to like flip that on its head and use it in your power. You know what I mean? Like, and I think that the step one for anything like that is just remembering, like. Like, I don't know, like they ain't like literally just like they.

[Trisha]

That's a good point. Men are. They're not as like, smart and powerful as you think. Like, they're kind of. I was thinking about that even on TikTok, like when people talk about like marriages and stuff, how it like really only benefits the women and it's kind of true. Like, men just want, like they can't take care of themselves. Like, they need a woman to like, take care as opposed to like the woman leaving a marriage. Like in general, obviously, like gender stereotypes, whatever. But like, they can take care of themselves with the men, like, crumble without the woman, their, like house becomes like, messy and they can't properly feed themselves and they don't take care of the kids. They don't. You know what I mean? So I think like, in general, the world needs women more than they need men. And I feel like that's like a powerful thing to think about.

[Tana]

Yes.

[Trisha]

Nobody would exist without women. So you're really the creator of literal.

[Tana]

Life and that just. Yes. And like that the confidence, like you just have to even fake it till you make it in those situations, you know, where it's just like. Because that's happened to me so many times. I've had so many guys be such to me in playing poker. Like, where I sit down and they're like, oh, this duck dumb. You know what I mean? I've got. This happens to me all the time. By the way, when I play poker with men where they will call me, they know my name is Tana. Like, I'll be like, hi, I'm Tana. And then they'll be like, hi, I'm Bill, right? And then I'll sit down and they will repeatedly call me Tana. Like, and I'll be like, it's Tana. And they'll continue to call me Tana. Tanya to like, Tina, like, anything other than Tana as this, like, power play, as this, like. And the amount of men who, like, I have knocked out, like, I was like, okay, I'm just gonna get really good at this game, and then I'm going to take your money and it's going to be so sad. You're going to have. Have to. There's this one guy where I, like, I said something that I've never said to anyone, like, in their entire life. But, like, he just kept calling me Tana, and it was so rude. And I kept saying tan. And he was, like, laughing in my face about it. Like, he literally was laughing in my face about it. And so I just sat there and I played the long game. I played poker for, like, four hours. I took all of his money. He stood up and I literally said, now let's compare net worths. Like, I was such, like, pull up the bank. And I never. I don't ever do that. But I was like, waddled away, tail between his legs. And at the, like, you could have been nice to me. Like, we could have had a great time. But, like, you wanted to be like, because it's a man's game, you felt some type of way about me playing this man's game. And I had to sit here and beat you for you to end. Then he's still, like, walking. You know what I mean? Like, it's just like.

[Trisha]

No, but it's always like, this inferior, like, complex. That's why they. Because they know, like, man puts on, like, a woman in any capacity. If they're, like, confident they have it all together. It's always people who, like, haven't. Doesn't. Don't have nothing. Yes.

[Tana]

And it's like, you're just the type of guy who wants me to be the cocktail waitress.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

You want me to be. Be serving you while you do this man thing. But the reality is, is, like, in that moment, it's like, I'm better than you. You know what I mean? Like, you actually.

[Trisha]

And that's what it is.

[Tana]

It's like sitting down in those rooms and just letting it. Because I also think I notice this a lot too, on game shows, right? Like Survivor or like, Traders or like, whatever. How even Beast games I'm watching right now and I'm noticing this. All the men come in with, like, the bronze and, like, you know what I mean? And they're like, we're gonna win. And then almost in every season of Every single show, you watch a woman play the long emotional manipulation game and knock those men.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

And, like, obviously, there are instances where, like, men play a really good game. I'm not saying that, but the guys who come in and think that their strength is just gonna, like, mog. These women always end up getting outsmarted and outwit. And I think it's, like, such a. Because our emotional intelligence as women. There are obviously lots of emotionally intelligent men out there, but I'm talking about these, like, douchebag type of guys. You will outwit them every time. Time you will. And it just, like, sometimes it just takes time, and it's. It's about not backing down from those situations.

[Trisha]

Yeah. That's the best piece, like, of advice is just like, stand. Stand your ground. Stand whatever you're passionate about. Like, if you love poker, like, play poker. Like, do I like anything? Meal down. I'm trying to think where I'd be. Like, love this. I'm here. I don't know. If I do.

[Tana]

Nothing, girl, things are usually just better. I will say that.

[Trisha]

Are you a football fan? Like, you're gonna watch Super Bowl? Oh, yeah. You are.

[Tana]

I love Super Bowl. I do love. But I. I've been talking about this a lot lately because I've been. Someone's been trying to book me for a job on the super bowl, and I keep saying, like, I'm not like, a shoot. Like, a full day shoot on the super bowl, and I keep a Super Bowl.

[Trisha]

I thought you meant for the Super Bowl.

[Tana]

Oh, my God. I'd be there in a heartbeat. And I keep telling these people, I'm like, I'm so sorry. I would love to do this shoot for you, but I'm not doing it on the Super Bowl. And I keep explaining it to everyone. Everyone's like, tanner, like, why? And because I don't really care about football ball, but I love the Super Bowl.

[Trisha]

What do you like about it?

[Tana]

Just the vibe. Food. Like, I love, like, and the camaraderie. Like, you know, and everyone's, like, in there. Like, I usually will pick my team based on, like, colors and vibes.

[Trisha]

Who's the vibe and colors? This will air probably the day after the Super Bowl. So who's your prediction?

[Tana]

It's the Seahawks and the Patriots. Yeah.

[Trisha]

Oh, my God. Why were you gagged?

[Tana]

Oh, my God. See? Okay, I'm leaning towards the Patriots. McCoy is leaning towards Seahawks, because I guess there was some year where the Seahawks and the Patriots played, and they were. The Seahawks were supposed to win, and they got, like, robbed in the final second. I don't know. But, like, I don't know. It's. It's not about the actual football game. Even the commercials. I love the marketing, like, and just everyone all together and, like, the performance. And, like, even last year, like, everyone, like, watching the performance at my house, it was, like, so fun.

[Trisha]

Those are fun. The performances are fun.

[Tana]

Yeah. Like, it's just, like, the camaraderie of the Super Bowl. I live for the camaraderie.

[Trisha]

Are you doing a party?

[Tana]

We're doing, like, a kick back. I don't know. Honestly, I'm pissed.

[Trisha]

Wait, why?

[Tana]

Because I, like, wanted to go to Vegas. I love Vegas during the Super Bowl. I was just there. No one else wants to go.

[Trisha]

Really? I feel like that's the place to go, right? You, like, bet on the game?

[Tana]

Yeah. Yes. And, like, just. It's fun. But then I'm like, it's probably for the better. I'd be drained. I'm like, need to just focus on work. And then all of the Straits, McCoy Straits live in San Diego, and, like, Isabella is dating one, Ashley's dating one. Everyone wants to go to San Diego. And I'm like, why the do I have this house with a mother with my heated pool and my outdoor dining area and a theater?

[Trisha]

And we're like, what? We're just. Let's just go rent a room. No, I'm the exact. I do not want to, like, have parties anywhere else. I don't want. I'm like, nope. We have a backyard. We're like, rather than pay, like, 8k for a venue, I'm like, we're doing it right outside. We're gonna get heaters, and we'll do it right outside. Like, that's, like, why you put money into our house. Yes.

[Tana]

And I'm just. I'm. I'm defeated. I lost this one. Amari wants to go to San Diego.

[Trisha]

San Diego, where they're having the Super Bowl.

[Tana]

No, no, no, no. They're having it in San Francisco. I was debating that too, but then I was like, what, am I just gonna be, like, some hoe in a group with, like, I just.

[Trisha]

That's fine. Little sugar bear hair trip.

[Tana]

Yes. But. Well, no, I would do that. But the only way I could feel like I could go right now is if I texted, like, a straight man and was like, bring me.

[Trisha]

Yeah. Would you go?

[Tana]

I decided. No, I just decided that, like, I'm a retired baddie. Okay? Like, I don't need to be, like, on a one of like, 10 girls that a guy's, like, bringing to the Super Bowl. Like, it's just not.

[Trisha]

Oh, I see. Like, you have to go with him. You can't just be like, can I get some tickets? Yeah.

[Tana]

Yeah, exactly.

[Trisha]

Yeah. Not for me. I don't really get the Super Bowl.

[Tana]

But yeah, I just love the commercials. I swear. Like, it's like. So Jake Shane.

[Trisha]

Is Charlie d' Amelio always in one?

[Tana]

She, like, is Alex Earl, Jake Shane, Noah Beck, Charlie d', Amelio, who I'm gonna predict Nora Smith. Right. Addison Rae, Alex Warren. I could see with Ben Stiller.

[Trisha]

Yeah, that was good.

[Tana]

No. What did Benson Boone and Ben Stiller do?

[Trisha]

All the advertising.

[Tana]

Skittles or.

[Trisha]

They were flipping. He was flipping. And Ben Stiller was like. They were in matching outfits. Because a lot of the commercials come out, like, Kendall Jenner for that sports betting.

[Tana]

So good.

[Trisha]

That was good. That was giving you vibes in the sense of, like, the betting. Because it was for, like, a sports bet website or something. That's you for DraftKings Super bowl, which they really should have. You. You are the DraftKings girl.

[Tana]

I filmed a DraftKings Super bowl out in the car on the way right here in the car.

[Trisha]

You're the it girl for draftings. Like, I love. I mean, it's kind of good, right, that they keep wanting you back. It's.

[Tana]

I mean, I use it right? Like, it's authentic. Betting is authentic to me.

[Trisha]

Yes.

[Tana]

Oh, my God. Like, I was just huffing in Vegas. Huffing till the house blew down.

[Trisha]

Like, you should have been in a DraftKings commercial for them, I thought. I'm saying they got money. That's so funny. Oh, my God.

[Tana]

But I also, like, understand people's discrepancies, and I always try to make it a thing where people know that I'm sponsored because it's a part of my lifestyle. And, like, gambling is also very dangerous. You know what I mean? Like, for sure.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

Like, be smart.

[Trisha]

Jimmy usually puts a number here for people who have a gambling.

[Tana]

Yes. And honestly, I might call it.

[Trisha]

Sabrina did a Pringles commercial. I still saw that one that was out.

[Tana]

See, like, that's just. That's the fun, like, the. The screaming even that their one year. I want to say it was two to be. To be. Did a commercial where they. The commercial looked like people were going to their Apple TV home. And, like, all the men started screaming because they thought that the game was just, like, turned off. And it was, like, genius marketing, like, because it was just people Screaming everywhere. Like, why is it off? Like, you know what I mean? Like, freaking out.

[Trisha]

Funny if you were, like, recording the reactions.

[Tana]

Yes. Like, because everyone thought, like, I remember we thought the super bowl turned off and everyone was, like, freaking out, and it was just like, g. Even like, well, no, let me not.

[Caller]

Hi, Trish. Hi, Tana. I don't really have a question about sex, love, or dating, but I do have a question just about life. I am graduating nursing school in June of 2026, and I'm so nervous because I'm only going to be 23. So I guess my question is, do you have any advice on impostor syndrome? I'm going to be in rooms full of people that have been practicing medicine longer than I've been alive. So I just am feeling really nervous because I also start in the emergency room, which I'm terrified about, because I literally just want to work with babies and moms. But anyways, please help. Love you guys. Bye.

[Tana]

Okay, obviously, my first advice. If you have not watched Grey's Anatomy, watch Grey's Anatomy. You're literally. She's going to walk in and be like, I got this. And you're gonna meet your McDreamy or McSteemy. Like, it's gonna be so fun. Okay. Also, that's, like, horrible advice, because I'm sure it's nothing like Grey's Anatomy.

[Trisha]

I buy similar. I would assume something.

[Tana]

Some people say it's not similar at all. But I just had a nurse give me an IV and I asked her, I was like, the IVs in my arm. And I was like, is the hospital anything like Grey's Anatomy? And she was like, everyone is. I think imposter syndrome just means that deep down you might not have the belief that you are capable or deserving of this. And in the reality is, is you put in all the work to be capable and deserving of this. And I think it's great in life sometimes to, by your own doing, work hard at something and then therefore have to jump in the water and swim to push your limits to that. You know, something that makes you anxious, something that you may not be well versed. And you're jumping in the water and you have to just swim. And yes, sometimes we sink, but we. Then we sink and we pivot. Right, Right. Like, it's. It's so important. Either the lesson that comes from sinking or realizing you can swim and you learned everything. You have every tool to do it. And, like, you got this.

[Trisha]

That was very optimistic of you.

[Caller]

I like that.

[Tana]

Cuz it's, you know, it's like if you put in the work, like she put in the work. It's not like. It's not like you just woke up one day, saw a tik tok and said, tomorrow I'm going to be a nurse. Like, you blow sweat and tears.

[Trisha]

Yeah. Don't doubt it.

[Tana]

And that's what a lot of things in life are, right? It's about learning about something. And then eventually you feel like you've learned everything. But the day comes where you. You actually have to do it right. And it is horrifying because it's like you can't really fully learn something, I imagine, until you're doing it. Until you're for her, quite literally cutting that person open or, you know, that's crazy. It is. And that is.

[Trisha]

That is wild, I think. Not that with anybody in the medical field. It is, like, actually wild because at the end of the day, like, people working on you, like, wonderful, smart, everything prepared. But, like, even if you're the most prepared, smart, but, like, just people are humans, you know, like, mistakes happen. And I'm always just like, how are you? How are you just here?

[Tana]

But they all have the collective ideal that they want nothing more than to save a life before their own, you know? And, like, think about all the greatest. And this is in so many fields, but all the greatest nurses and doctors and people, they all had their first day where they had to walk into that ER and they didn't know anything. And that's like a metaphor for so many things, you know, like the people that you look up to and the thing that you're inspiring to do. Those people all had their first day and they all felt uncomfortable and nervous and under prepared, and then they ended up being goaded at it, you know? And, like.

[Trisha]

And it just becomes so easy. I know, like, the doctor who delivered my baby, like, he's been doing it for like, 35 years.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

And he literally acts, like, literally nothing. Like, they'll literally be like, taking the baby out and talking about, like, golf. Like that weekend, like, we're gonna play golf. I was like, what the hell? It's so crazy how relaxed. Like, it's like he's like, just not nervous at all to, like, just cut it out of you.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

Like, why? Well, practice makes perfect. Everyone starts somewhere.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

You did put in the work. That's a good point. Like, you. You know what you're doing.

[Tana]

Yeah. Just like, I feel like a lot of times our brains especially, because you're going into this big like, what if. You know, and the anxiety side of your brain is going to be like, I'm under prepared. I don't know anything. I don't know these people. They all have camaraderie together. Like, I'm new. What if I up? But then you have to reassure those thoughts by being like, wait, all of those people did the same exact thing that I did, and I learned all of these things and. And like, I'm gonna give it my best attempt. And sometimes you do prepare for something and you give it your best attempt and you fail. But that doesn't make you a failure either. That, like, you know what I mean? Like, sometimes that, like, what is it? Rejection is divine protection, you know? So either way, you're met where you need to be. So go give it your all. And if this is the path you're supposed to be on, girl, you're gonna be the best damn nurse. You're gonna be working with those babies. You're gonna be doing exactly what you want.

[Trisha]

God, you were so enlightened and smart. Sometimes I look at you and I'm like, you're so smart.

[Tana]

I love you.

[Trisha]

You are. You're such an intelligent person.

[Tana]

My Trisha. No, but so are you. Like, I. And I think that, you know, our lives gave us some emotional intelligence. Right? You know, but she's 23 and she's a baby, and I totally understand that. 23 also just as is, is like, you're not supposed to be sure of yourself. You're not supposed to have anything figured out. You are just doing. You are falling and failing and learning. That's what the beginning of your 20s are. And the. The fact that you're 23 and you're like, I'm gonna go save lives. Like, I wish I did anything good at 23.

[Trisha]

Same. I don't know what I was doing. Not saving lives like, she has.

[Tana]

You, like, have so much together, and you have to think about how many people would also just like, kill to be in your position. How many people, like, maybe didn't take the leap to do all of these things that you did and just, we're very proud of you. You got this girl.

[Trisha]

You have a career for life. Medical is like something. You'll always have a career and you never know. But a podcaster, you know, but. But that medical degree or medical education can take you far.

[Tana]

And you're. You're the one of, if not the most valuable person. Like, you are so valuable in people's lives. And people never forget, you know what I mean? You'll never forget those doctors and nurses that helped you deliver your baby and make sure everything was okay. And.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

That for every scenario. You know what I mean?

[Trisha]

I always look at them like you are superhuman. Like what? Like how casual it is that you just brought three lives into this world. Like, you know, yeah, we couldn't do it without you.

[Tana]

And you're putting your emotions aside and like, even like, that is something with Gray's where I'm watching. And it's so crazy, the scenarios, because obviously all the scenarios that are happening on Grey's Anatomy very much could or have happened in a hospital. And it's like, if someone was, like, dying before me, I would be a mess. And these people are able to, like, coach people, like, through, like, being diagnosed with cancer, like, losing a loved one or, like, you know, like, not only is it this amazing, amazing talent, it's also this amazing mental gift, you know?

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

It takes a lot and to think that to know that you're capable of that, of being that person.

[Trisha]

I would say they are the most, like, mentally stable people. But not to get end out on dark note, but did you see that one guy in Ohio that, like, on a lied.

[Tana]

It's always Ohio.

[Trisha]

I know his wife, his ex wife of like eight years and her dentist husband.

[Tana]

They're the bad eggs. But overall, the consensus is like, hero. You know what I mean? Just absolute, complete, like, real walking hero.

[Trisha]

Or remember that doctor that impregnated 100 girls with his own sperm?

[Tana]

Yes, I watched that.

[Trisha]

Like, how do you become a doctor? And then, I don't know.

[Tana]

It is wild that people are just like, there are sick people in like, even just teachers, doctors, like, certain fields. I would you wish, I guess, that there were more like mental screens.

[Trisha]

Great.

[Tana]

And then some people you just don't know. And there really are tragedies in the world. And that's like, so sad. I don't know.

[Trisha]

Yeah.

[Tana]

Yeah.

[Trisha]

Anyways, thank you to baked cookies for these baked SoCal. They're delicious.

[Tana]

Oh, my God, we love her, Eden. She makes the best cookies.

[Trisha]

I have known Eden for a while. You've known eaten for a while. What are these? What are they? Cranberry, raspberry brownie. They smell so good. Oh, it's a new recipe. You guys are the guinea pigs.

[Tana]

Ooh, I love it. Should we.

[Trisha]

Really good. Yeah, let's try it.

[Tana]

I want. You want to brownie cookie stuffed with a raspberry truffle chocolate ganache. I love ganache.

[Trisha]

What is a ganache?

[Tana]

That's what See, that's another one that we could do our 5k runs for.

[Trisha]

The ganache.

[Tana]

The ganache.

[Trisha]

I love that. What's the pants? Are they like goulash? What's the ones I like? The short pants.

[Tana]

Yes. Goulash.

[Trisha]

Goulash pants, right? Yes. Where it's like half shorts and half.

[Tana]

Why do I feel like those are coming back? Yeah.

[Trisha]

Who were those? Drew Barry Moore worm.

[Tana]

I love her gaucho.

[Trisha]

Gaucho. Yeah.

[Tana]

Oh, it was gaucho. I'm literally. You should never actually ask me to confirm information.

[Trisha]

Goulash might be pasta, right? Like a beef pasta.

[Tana]

No. Yeah. Or is goulash like. Like a stew?

[Trisha]

Okay. No one should ask.

[Tana]

And I said it with full conviction. I said those. Goulash is the pants.

[Trisha]

Goulashes. I feel like that is like a.

[Tana]

Gaucho is the pants, though.

[Trisha]

But there is like galoshes. Anyways.

[Tana]

Doesn't matter.

[Trisha]

Matter. I just want like a little tiny piece. Oh, it is beautiful.

[Tana]

Can I rip? Yeah, you're right.

[Trisha]

Galoshes. Galoshes. Are those pants? Okay, so we were like, close.

[Tana]

Oh, my God.

[Trisha]

It's a galosh. It's like a waterproof sort of pant.

[Tana]

Like a fishy pant. I love a salt on a cookie more than anything in the world. Like sea salt mixed with chocolate. Wow. They taste like Valentine's Day. Tell me about my cuz. We're guinea picking them. That's my review. Yeah, she is. Tell her that they taste like perfect Valentine's Day. And like, weirdly, they're dark chocolate and they taste healthy. Like, this is the healthiest thing I've ever had.

[Trisha]

There's got a little berry in there.

[Tana]

Isn't dark chocolate healthy?

[Trisha]

They say that. I don't know. Maybe I think healthier than milk.

[Tana]

Your heart. Right?

[Trisha]

Like having chocolate a day. It is really good.

[Tana]

It just gets better, you guys.

[Trisha]

Well, thank you as a always for being here.

[Tana]

And we love you so much. And I think that. Yeah. My takeaway from today's episode is because both. Both questions were even hers was kind of women in male dominated fields. It's just lead with confidence. Fake it till you make it. If you're questioning yourself out there about anything, like, you got this.

[Trisha]

Yeah. And vaginas are better than penises.

[Tana]

Yeah. Prettier women are so powerful. And I'm just happy to get to do the show with you, my powerful woman.

[Trisha]

Woman. Thank you. My powerful uterus bleeder.

[Tana]

Big bleeder right now.

[Trisha]

Me too.

[Tana]

Me too.

[Trisha]

On the way to that premiere, she would have stopped at the Ralph's off of, like, Tahonga Boulevard.

[Tana]

I bled on my door the other day, and, like, the door is not near the toilet. Like, bled on the door. I was scrubbing the door. Buster Browns. Like, what is. What are you doing? What is this?

[Trisha]

Is this cooling Passover?

[Tana]

Yeah, it was. It's a lot. It's always a lot. So shout out to the women out there doing crazy things while also bleeding.

[Trisha]

So good, right?

[Tana]

Yeah. We love you.

[Trisha]

We love the bleeders. Thank you guys for watching, and we'll see you in the next one. Bye.