EMBARRASSING MOMENTS, ALEX COOPER, & UNWELL FEST RECAP

Summary

Not Loveline – EMBARRASSING MOMENTS, ALEX COOPER, & UNWELL FEST RECAP

Hosts: Tana Mongeau & Trish Paytas
Date: October 20, 2025

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Episode Overview

In this festive and candid Halloween episode, Tana Mongeau and Trisha Paytas dive into a whirlwind of topics focused on their recent costumes, friendship rituals, embarrassing mishaps, and a no-holds-barred behind-the-scenes recap of Unwell Festival in Las Vegas. The two influencers share personal anxieties, friendship milestones, costume envy, and advice about embracing embarrassment. Notable showbiz gossip (Alex Cooper and the inner workings of Unwell Festival), Halloween costume banter, and reflections on lifelong internet fame pack the episode with laughter, vulnerability, and pure “girls and gays” energy.

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Major Discussion Highlights

1. Halloween Energy & Costume Traditions

00:44 – 08:46

• Both hosts share their excitement for Halloween, discussing costumes inspired by "Death Becomes Her" (Broadway version) and the evolution of their personal Halloween styles—from “male gaze” sexy to “girls and gays” fun.
• Trisha reflects on her Broadway and movie costume inspirations, especially the glamour of "Death Becomes Her" and how Tana participates enthusiastically even when unfamiliar with a character.
• The “love language” of doing creative photo shoots and planning group costumes comes up, highlighting the beautiful evolution of their friendship.
• Quote: "I love a girls and gays Halloween. Like just no straight men other than Makoa in sight for me."
  – Tana Mongeau [05:00]

2. Friendship & Personal Growth

05:54 – 07:59

• Both express gratitude for finding platonic soulmates to enjoy silly, creative moments with—like dressing as fembots two years ago.
• Personal growth around feeling liberated to be “dorky” instead of always sexy or performative.
• Acknowledgement that age and comfort transform the meaning and joy of Halloween costumes.

3. Couples & Group Costume Brainstorming

08:12 – 10:52

• Tana and Trisha swap costume ideas, joke about cliches, and brainstorm creative couples’ costumes, poking fun at their own over-the-top tendencies and nostalgia.
• Discussion about the difficulty of keeping costumes relevant and original, especially for internet personalities.
• Quote: “Couples costumes are hard. It's hard not to be, like, cliche.”
  – Trisha Paytas [10:40]

4. Learning Tap Dance Together

11:08 – 13:34

• The hosts discuss Trisha and Moses’ new “tap dancing” Halloween concept, and Tana’s tap-dancing background, with dreams of future collaborative dance numbers.
• They reflect on overcoming embarrassment and taking up new hobbies despite fear of looking silly.
• Quote: “A good takeaway from anything in life is you know, people are so scared to do things because they think they're going to look stupid... but you might as well just do it anyway.”
  – Trisha Paytas [13:08]

5. Embarrassment, Gatekeeping & Celebrating Others

13:39 – 14:49

• Insightful talk about the “mindset” of embarrassment and letting go of worry; how in LA, creative gatekeeping can limit community and joy.
• Celebrating friends’ successes (like Tana’s videographer getting bigger jobs) even when it affects them personally.

6. Minecraft Costumes & Sister Shout-outs

15:01 – 16:26

• Behind-the-scenes of planning a Just Trish group Minecraft costume and Trisha’s love for integrating family and crew.
• Lighthearted banter about watching siblings on TikTok livestreams.

7. Viral & "Messy" Halloween Costumes

16:42 – 18:29

• Tana recounts how she was “swindled” into doing an Alabama Barker and Bhad Bhabie costume with Paige; discusses living for slightly messy internet costumes and craving comedic chaos.
• The two reminisce on costumes as low-stakes, referential internet lingo, and making fun of James Charles’ viral “Coca Cola…hello” TikTok clip.
• Quote: “I do miss being funny messy with the costumes…like, it made me want to be James Charles.”
  – Tana Mongeau [16:26]

8. Disneyland & Theme Parks—Friendship in Action

22:21 – 23:26

• Tana’s rare visits to Disneyland spark plans for a group trip with friends who aren’t thrill-seekers.
• Quote: “I love finding a friend who's not in it for the rollercoasters.…I would love to go with you.”
  – Tana Mongeau [22:51]

9. Unwell Fest Las Vegas Recap

25:21 – 38:10

• Detailed chronological stress-comedy breakdown of the lead-up to the Unwell Festival:
  • Booking flights, stuck on the JetSuite tarmac, aviation anxiety, running-late disasters, and wild rain in Vegas.
  • Nail-biting logistics, missed appointments, and Tana’s record-level anxiety.
  • Trisha’s sneaker meal save (grilled nuggets!), dinner at the iconic Golden Steer (Elvis’ booth!), and the “dystopian” weather.
  • Tana’s epic restroom slip: “I am not kidding you, Trisha. I went horizontal in the air…like, that is how I felt—like out of a cartoon.” [34:59]
  • Hilarious failed security and Vegas bro encounters.
• Show night: fronting Unwell events at The Chelsea with Alex Cooper and Trisha’s Lifetime Achievement trophy moment.

10. Celebrity & Influencer Impressions at Unwell Fest

38:14 – 43:35

• Alex Cooper’s commanding presence, production energy, pool parties, and sponsorships up close.
  • Quote: “…she walks into a room and just commands the attention.”
    – Trisha Paytas [38:10]
  • Trisha finds Cooper “lowkey intimidating…but dominating for sure.”
• Notable guest run-ins: Bethenny Frankel mistaking Tana for a Housewife, Harry Jowsey in “Vegas mode.”

11. Sponsorship Egos: Chili’s, Domino’s, Arby’s & Food Loyalty

45:22 – 47:51

• The battle for food sponsorships—Trisha and Tana vent their (real) feelings about unrequited partnerships from Domino’s and Chili’s versus Arby’s loyal love.
• Joking plans to dress as mozzarella sticks for a Chili’s “cheese pull” as a final campaign push.
• Quote: “When I see someone with the chili sponsorship, I’m genuinely—like, I’m jealous. Like, I’m filled with envy. I’m green.”
  – Tana Mongeau [46:48]

12. Jewelry Shopping, Friendship Rituals & Material Culture

52:51 – 55:45

• Story of their whirlwind matching Van Cleef jewelry purchase, how jewelry acts as a friendship ritual, and musings on meaningful spending.
• Trisha’s reluctance to wear valuable pieces due to finger insecurity and Tana teasing her about unused jewelry.

13. Modern Fame, Meme Longevity & Internet Generations

75:15 – 76:19

• Gen Z and the eternal meme: Toothbrush rumors, “do dogs have brains?”, the burden/gift of being the internet's punchline.
• Nostalgia for meme eras that newer generations may not remember.
• Trisha gives a scoop on her upcoming "Euphoria" casting: "That’ll be my next 15 years…I’ll just talk about that for 15 more years." [76:12]

14. Future Plans, Broadway Dreams, and New York Itineraries

62:04 – 64:43

• Tana admits she’s never seen a Broadway show (Trisha is intent on changing that).
• Plans for playbills, iconic photo shoots, “channeling different New York energy,” and city food traditions.
  • Quote: “In LA, everyone cares what everyone else is doing…but in New York…no one gives a what you’re doing. It’s very freeing.”
    – Tana Mongeau [64:42]

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Notable Quotes & Moments

• On friendship & comfort:
  “It’s just so nice to find the person that you get to do that with…and have the best day ever.”
  – Tana Mongeau [05:54]

• On embarrassment and mindset:
  “Embarrassment is just a mindset…for the most part.”
  – Tana Mongeau [13:27]

• On celebrity interactions:
  “Two hours into the conversation, I find out she’s the star, not the Dancing with the [star]…I wanted to die.”
  – Tana Mongeau [70:42]

• On internet legacy:
  “You and I do just have thick skin. Like, everything that anyone could say about us, they have, you know."
  – Tana Mongeau [74:12]

• On meme culture:
  “People do come up to me and say it…It’s funny, though, because the video is about me talking about how a guy spread a rumor. If anything, he won in the end.”
  – Tana Mongeau [75:22]

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Episode Flow & Timestamps

• 00:44 – 08:46: Halloween excitement, costumes, “Death Becomes Her” Broadway adaptation, friendship photoshoots
• 11:08 – 13:34: Couples costumes, tap dancing, overcoming embarrassment
• 16:42 – 18:29: Viral costumes, being “messy,” James Charles references
• 22:21 – 24:07: Disney trips, friendship logistics, dinner plans gone awry
• 25:21 – 38:10: Unwell Festival: flight misadventures, show prep & anxiety
• 38:14 – 43:35: Alex Cooper at Unwell, production insights, Bravo cameos
• 45:22 – 47:51: Sponsorship envies, food loyalty, Chili’s and Arby’s debate
• 52:51 – 55:45: Jewelry as friendship, wearing the bling, material insecurities
• 62:04 – 64:43: Broadway, NYC energy, “no one gives a what you’re doing”
• 75:15 – 76:19: Meme legacies, Gen Z references, Trisha’s “Euphoria” announcement
• 76:43 – End: Appreciation for fans, upcoming call-in show tease

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Takeaways

• Friendship is best expressed through shared silliness and showing up for each other’s interests—photo shoots, costumes, travel, or just supportive energy.
• Embracing embarrassment and not gatekeeping creative resources is essential for personal happiness and genuine community.
• Despite years in the spotlight, both hosts deal with everyday anxieties and appreciate grounding, low-pressure experiences—even (or especially) in the chaos of influencer events.
• Fandoms, internet culture, and meme legacies live on—becoming both inside jokes and career-defining moments.
• The “girls and gays” ethos: do it for the fun, not the external validation.

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For New Listeners

This episode epitomizes Not Loveline’s blend of confessional friendship, irreverent pop culture commentary, and the unfiltered realities of influencer life. It’s a celebration of embarrassing stories, the joy of creative collaboration, and the magic in finding someone who truly “gets” your weird. Even if you’ve never seen a minute of Halloween TikTok or Unwell Festival livestreams, Tana and Trisha invite you into their world of heart, hilarity, and high drama.

Transcript

[Tana Mongeau]

I haven't had that much anxiety. Like, that was the most anxiety I've had in like a year.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, but then cut to Tana without a tooth on Tik Tok. Just being like, the clothes that. No makeup.

[Tana Mongeau]

I am on Instagram. Like, I don't know that girl. And we're going to figure that out. We are. She walks up to us. Where is this girl from? Like, I. Where have I seen her? I can't figure it out. Right. Two hours into the conversation, I find out she's the star, not the Dancing with the. And I'm like, oh, sorry. Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, you're good.

[Tana Mongeau]

Chugging my smoothie. I'm sorry.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we got Dr. Pepper and iced tea on the way.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, we are thriving. Hello.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Hello.

[Trisha Paytas]

Welcome to Not Loveline.

[Tana Mongeau]

Ooh, Spooky edition.

[Trisha Paytas]

Happy Halloween.

[Tana Mongeau]

Happy Halloween. It's a whole month for Trisha and I can.

[Trisha Paytas]

A ween.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, Trisha, ween. Like, come on.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is iconic. We have so much to talk about before we get into that. It's not Loveline where we do not take your calls episode.

[Tana Mongeau]

Not even one today. Like, not even one next one.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're. We're filming right after. This is going to be non stop calls, but we have so much talk about regarding Halloween, regarding our Vegas and, well, excursion. Excursion. Just what we're dressed as. Tana has no idea, but she's giving. She's here for it.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just want to say, though, I was telling you this earlier, but this is the first time in my life I'm, like, talking to the camera, to the people, because I'm so. I can't stress this enough, like, where I am not the person for, like, normally I'm forcing everyone to do everything. I'm holding everyone at gunpoint. I'm setting everything up. Like, no one's as excited as I am. Like, the whole thing. Not always. That's, like, a little mean, but, like, how cool is it? Like, today I'm getting. I'm in my karmic return. I show up. Trisha has a prosthetics girl booked for me. She has the outfit made. She's excited. Like, I.

[Trisha Paytas]

This.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's so cool to be on the other end.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was so excited doing the tick tocks. And like, I. I'm a new Death becomes her fan. Because I've always seen it. When I was a kid, I was like a kid in the 90s and we were, like, born in the 90s, but I was like a kid in the 90s. I remember going to, like, Blockbuster and Seeing, like, this poster. It's like an iconic poster. It's Goldie Han, Meryl Streep, Bruce Wilson's, like, this iconic poster. And I always thought I was kind of scared. And I was like, I never really wanted to see it. Sound like scary movies. Well, then fast forward. Like last year when I was. I went to see a bunch of Broadway shows. I saw, like, Sunset Boulevard. Death Becomes Her. And it was the musical. And it has Megan Hilty and Michelle Williams and, oh, my gosh, Jennifer Simard. I was like, I can't. I can't.

[Tana Mongeau]

Look at you go.

[Trisha Paytas]

Love them. They're all icons. Michelle Williams from Destiny's Child is so good. She's the one that has the potion. Anyways, I was so gagged, I didn't know what the story was. And it was like the Broadway. So we're just as, like, the Broadway musical version. Because I do think a lot of people do the movie posters. We're dressed as the Broadway version. So you're the Megan Hilty. You're Madeline Ashton herself. I said, you're the star. Because I was doing, like, a scared, like, face. And she's like, oh, I'll be more scared. I'm like, no, you're like the sexy. I love that.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're so cute.

[Trisha Paytas]

Willing to get into a character you don't even know, which is like.

[Tana Mongeau]

I appreciate that. I mean, first of all, you are the sexy star. Like, the red hair on her. Like, am I gay? Like, it's like, you look so hot. Like, the red hair is like. I think you should have a real red hair moment.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it. I don't know if I could commit because I do think I only look good with it glam. Like, I love red hair people. I think me, I'm, like, so washed out most of the time. I don't think I could, like, pull. I do love it, though. Like a Bridgerton. I love a Jessica Rabbit, a Meg with red hair. Lindsay Lohan. Like, I do love a red hair moment.

[Tana Mongeau]

I watched Freakier Friday last night.

[Trisha Paytas]

How was that?

[Tana Mongeau]

It was good. It was cute. I wanted to. I'm watching Death Becomes her tonight. Okay. All I know about Death Becomes her is that it's kind of. And correct me if I'm wrong, it's like the OG Substance.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes, very much. When you were telling me about substance, because I haven't seen it, I was like, that gives. Death Becomes Her.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, yes. Just trying to stay young and drinking the potion. And it has the negative, like, effect.

[Trisha Paytas]

There's no pot right? There. Can you shake it up? Drip down was like, got to shake it up to get that glitter. She also said we could drink it, but I was like, maybe not for my gluten free stomach.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, yes. I was dying at the comments. By the way, I read all of the Not Loveline comments like every week because they're just so cute. And one of the top comments last week was like, tana will do everything but see a doctor. And like, you are so real for that. I'm seriously, now that I'm gluten free.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm feeling better, you guys, which is great for you. Yes. There's the potion. So they. Yeah, you. They pay like all their like life savings for this potion to keep them like young forever. Sabrina Carpenter and Jenna Ortega did it for her taste. Music video too. They recreated it. Basically have to basically live for eternity young. But the problem is they can crack and they can do all these things like that. They have to preserve their bodies. This one, Ms. Malone Ashton gets pushed down the stairs. They also switch husbands a bunch throughout the thing. So she steals. They steal each other's husband back and forth and then it goes back and forth. So then when he goes back to the original. Why am I blanking out her name? Goldie Hawn's character, Madeline Ashton. And why do I not know who I am? It is Helen Sharp. Helen Sharp, that's right.

[Tana Mongeau]

Helen Sharp.

[Trisha Paytas]

Helen, yes. And they. She has him first, then Madeline steals them. Then they. She goes back to Helen and then he pushes her down Madeline down the stairs.

[Tana Mongeau]

Damn.

[Trisha Paytas]

Breaks her neck. I showed you the clip. It's like from the 80s. Yeah, she's twisted. And she like walks backwards to him and then you shoot me in the stomach with a shotgun. And she goes flying. And then she like gets up out of the water and she's like, I'm sorry, I'm fine.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just have this whole.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah, they're still.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's such a. It's just so cool. And it's really cool that it's very much for the girls and gays.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like 100.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love a girls and gays Halloween. Like just no straight men other than Makoa in sight for me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yes, exactly. That's what I do to it. Do it everything for. And they have a song in death becomes with the musical called do it for the Gays and Madeline Ashton characters sing it. And yeah, she starts. It's kind of like supposed to be for like the male gays, but obviously it's a very gay song because all the gays come out with, like, their out and it's, wait, that's everything. Ellie. And like Judy Garland and it becomes like a super gay anthem. And I love it. It's a great show. Go see. Go see Death Comes Around Broadway. After you see Beetlejuice. Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

After you see Beetlejuice.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Then you come see, that becomes. But I'm so, so happy we got to do this. Like I said, my. We were talking in the glam room. My, like, love language is like, I love doing photo shoots. Like, I love doing them and I love when people participate with me. So if Moses will do one for me or you'll do one for me. Like, it feels like, oh, they love me. Because like you said, everyone loves it. Like, we love it. Like, if someone set up a photo shoot for me. Like, yes, I'm gay for it. But not everyone is, like, so down.

[Tana Mongeau]

They're like, but it's so nice to, like, find the person that you get to do that with and have the best day ever. I've always. I was like, weirdly emo in the glam room. Even thinking about, I don't even know how long ago this was now. Like, two years when we were fembots. Yeah, two years ago. I remember coming in and you had your wig person put the wig on me and I was like, oh, my God, like, how cool is it that we get to dress up and, like, I'm like, getting closer with this girl who, like, loves to dress up. Like, me, like, all these things. And I was just like, sitting in the glam room and I was like, that's so I'm emo. Like, just how far we've come.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I feel the same and I just didn't know that side of you. Like, I always just bring it out of me wild hair. Like, you always have this, like, cool style. Like, you don't strike me as, or back then anyways as like, the person who would just be down to do like a dorky cosplay or something or. I love it. Yeah. And that's the thing you can manage is fun. And I don't feel stupid. Like, oh, I'm so sorry. You know who these characters are. No, I act with me.

[Tana Mongeau]

I feel like you're, like, putting me on to the gospel and the knowledge and the things that you're into. And it's like, it is so fun. And it's cool because I think I used to be a lot more like, I want to be sexy. I need to be Pamela Anderson in a CVS on Tuesday. In 2007, like, every Pam, like, now I'm, like, so married that I'm like, I want to be Dr. Phil. I want to be this. I want to be.

[Trisha Paytas]

I. Just liberating, right?

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's. It's the best feeling. Yeah. I still love, like, being sexy, like you said, for the girls and the gays. I, like, love it. Like, okay, let's put out some boobs. But I love it too. I love just being, like, a silly.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like a male gaze. Halloween is like, don't get me wrong. Like, it's fun, whatever, but, like, I don't know, just doing it for the girls and gays for Halloween is so much more fun.

[Trisha Paytas]

You've been there, done that. I think if you're, like, you're, you know, in your early 20s and you love it, like, of course, like, have that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. I was going out and I was a. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know, because it's, like, acceptable. Yes. By society to be, like, naked on Halloween.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

She'd be, like, naked all the time. I would love everyone to be naked all the time. But we are. We are. Death becomes our. Thank you. We ran out of time. We were gonna do more costumes, and we just kind of ran out of time. I'm leaving in a week. You're, like, leaving. You were supposed to be leaving in a few days, and now you're not. So it's just, like.

[Tana Mongeau]

And Halloween just every year, I always say I want to do the year where I'm just a black cat, and that's my whole year. And then every year, like, honestly, this is what started me wanting to do Halloween. I wasn't gonna really do any costumes. And then you were like, I want to do this one. Obviously, I'm doing a costume with Trisha. And then I was like, well, now I want to do this and this and this and this.

[Trisha Paytas]

And it's going so hard. You went from doing. I'm just doing a black hat. I'm over Halloween, like, two weeks ago to, like, literally every day on Tick Tock have been posting things. I'm like, oh, my God, booked and busy.

[Tana Mongeau]

So I've already been Alabama Barker Carrie Bradshaw. And Death becomes her this week.

[Trisha Paytas]

When did you get Carri Brad Job?

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, two days ago.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's so good. So Carpenter did it for SNL this week.

[Tana Mongeau]

Did she really?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, like, the curly hair and out.

[Tana Mongeau]

On the street today.

[Trisha Paytas]

Where'd you shoot it?

[Tana Mongeau]

I shot it in Beverly Hills. We, like, went all over town. We did the whole Sex in the City. So, like, Isabella Ashley And Trevi were Charlotte, Samantha, and Miranda.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I love a group costume.

[Tana Mongeau]

It also just this year, so, like, me and my girls, like, I just, like, even doing that, I was like, we are so Sex in the City, like, laughing in this bar and, like, us doing this. I'm like, we are so. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm very happy, very grateful.

[Trisha Paytas]

Have you thought of your troubles costume?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't. I'm. Yes. Like, we're going to be.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know. Yes. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Jane and Tarzan. Or there's one more that I'm not sure about yet. I can tell you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

But, like, I don't. Nothing will ever make me feel. What Avatar did. I, like, can't top it. And, like, we did Sharpay and Chad from High School Musical.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's a good one.

[Tana Mongeau]

And he looks just like. Like, he gives Corbin blue very much.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I can't get this year. I can't think of, like. So it's like, whatever.

[Trisha Paytas]

Does he look like. Like, he also gives me a little Jason Momoa a little bit. Like, you guys could be like Aquaman and Merit. Merida. I don't know the girl.

[Tana Mongeau]

What if I'm just. Whoa. What if he's Aquaman and then I'm literally Elvis Presley? Aquaman.

[Trisha Paytas]

Elvis.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, wait, that's good. Just. Will you write that down?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I. I got you my Aquaman. I was like, okay, what's the tie in, guys? Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, that's kind of funny. Me and Moa are just Aquaman and El.

[Trisha Paytas]

Love it. Sorry. Malibu.

[Tana Mongeau]

Someone's got to be Malibu.

[Trisha Paytas]

Half and half. Yeah. Amari. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Amari's Malibu Barbie. Every year, it just ends up happening.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, he. He looks like a lot of people. He also could be, like, in a good way. You know, I love. I feel like when I say this, because I say you look like this person, too, but I know you're like, oh, my God. It's, like, traumatizing. But I love Michael Jackson, and I know he could be a Michael Jackson.

[Tana Mongeau]

I embrace my Michael Jackson era at full. I'm actually getting back to it as I'm becoming brunette.

[Trisha Paytas]

He can't even be Michael Jackson. A little bit too.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, he could have, like, the. I wasn't seeing the vision. He could have, like, the curl. You're right.

[Trisha Paytas]

Even, like, his face structure. Like, Michael had a really, like, strong jaw. Like, I just was obsessed with Michael Jackson. He, like, these good.

[Tana Mongeau]

Whoa. Who am I?

[Trisha Paytas]

Michael Jackson?

[Tana Mongeau]

We're both. I'm just, like, doing the whole night. That's actually really funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love Michael, so I'm trying to do a Michael Jackson anytime I can. I don't have the body for a.

[Tana Mongeau]

Michael Jackson outfit, but that's actually like, really?

[Trisha Paytas]

I like that. I know it's hard. Couples costumes are hard. It's hard not to be, like, cliche. Even these costumes. I've always loved Death becomes Her, but people do it, like, so much. I didn't always love it. I loved it in the past year. But I was like, people do the costume so much. So when Broadway came out, I was like, oh, we can do it.

[Tana Mongeau]

But it's hard.

[Trisha Paytas]

Couples costumes, especially, like, what's relevant? Like, what's a relevant couple costume this year? Like, it's hard.

[Tana Mongeau]

Someone should do Severance. I'm surprised that you and Moses didn't do Severance, because he loves it, but.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't even know what that is. And he wanted to put a costume together. Like, what am I from severance? He'd be like, I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

But the fact that he committed to tap dancing with you, are they gonna see that by the time this comes out?

[Trisha Paytas]

No, but I mean, it's not. I was like, gatekeeping this by, like, who's really stealing this idea?

[Tana Mongeau]

Got this one. Like, I don't think any else.

[Trisha Paytas]

That made like 6 years old. So I'm like thinking. I'm like, oh, it's a hot Halloween outfit. But yeah, we recorded a song in the studio. We did it with our own voices. We went tap dancing. We're getting Drip Dome back. Shout out Drip Dome to build like a little church stage and stuff like that, which is so cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

And like, Trisha showed me the video today, but it's like, you're in a full dance studio. Moses has on tap shoes. You guys are doing a full routine. And I was like, it's just so cute. Like, I just like, I love our men. Like, he. Moses reminds me so much of McCall because he would just be in the tap shoes tap dancing. Like, yeah, whatever, I'm here.

[Trisha Paytas]

Moses has never tap dance. And he's just like. And he was. He was given. He. You know, I think he was like, you didn't kind of feel silly in the moment, but once we do it, I think it's gonna.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it's like, you were good. You were step, shuffle, leaping girl.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know if I was. It was. No, I was not getting much air, cuz I'm.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, you practicing, but you hit the heel.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

No. One look at my dog.

[Trisha Paytas]

I did put it. I did put that Little small clip of just me doing it on TikTok right before we filmed this. I have no idea what people are saying, but I can just only imagine the comments being like, girl, because I'm not lifting my legs or anything. So I was just practicing, so I was getting tired.

[Tana Mongeau]

Well, a lot of top. It's just the foot on the floor. I swear. Like the little like baby shuffles and stuff.

[Trisha Paytas]

Dancer, which I didn't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

I have a tap dance era in, like middle school.

[Trisha Paytas]

I had no idea. I feel like we should do a tap dancing number.

[Tana Mongeau]

I would love to. Amari too. Like, we. We have tap shoes at the house and whenever we smoke weed, we just put them on in. Amari and I tap dance around the house. Like, we love it. And I have a harmonica and like, oh, my God, what's this called? The tambourine.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wait, what do you guys do with it?

[Tana Mongeau]

We're just weird as.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you guys tap together as kids?

[Tana Mongeau]

We did, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I. Okay. We need to figure out something. It's like singing in the rain or something.

[Tana Mongeau]

I would do anything for Trishmas. I think you and I have a full T dancer team.

[Trisha Paytas]

Done and done.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, how funny. How funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was my daughter's ballet teacher and I just like, called up the studio because I see they do tap dance for three year olds. I was like, could you teach adults?

[Tana Mongeau]

No. That's perfect. That's what. That's exactly the caliber that I'm at. Nothing harder. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And you know, people are so sweet. You always feel like, I guess like a good takeaway from anything in life is like, you know, like people are so scared to do things because they think they're going to look stupid or they're going to. It's like. But you might as well just like, do it anyway.

[Tana Mongeau]

I agree. I couldn't agree more. It's like everyone feels like at some.

[Trisha Paytas]

Point doing something, you know, embarrassing, like, embarrassment really is.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, obviously some things are just textbook embarrassing. Okay. Like some things like your pants or something.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, that's embarrassing, you know? But like, for the most part, like, embarrassment is just a mindset.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, it's like we were saying that too in there. There's just like so many things I've, like, let go. We're talking about people like Gatekeep people. You know what I mean?

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, there's in la, you know, there's glam or videographers or whatever, you know, set designers. And so many people, like, don't want to share. They don't tag people because they don't want either. They don't want them to get busy. They don't want people who don't like using them.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I'm just. Or like, you know, whatever, like, oh, they'll take away time for me. And I was just like, at the end of the day, like, I think just wanting everyone to do good is just like where it's at, you know, I want to be busy. I want to make money. I said to my glam too, I'm like, if they book something that pays more, they, you know, get a better opportunity. I'm like, cancel me. Like, what? I'm literally just sitting in my house and glam, like, and life is just.

[Tana Mongeau]

Too short, you know?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Like, who cares? I would get so mad if I didn't like hair and makeup booked. And I'm like, it also does not matter that much.

[Tana Mongeau]

And just like, yeah, seeing people win, you know, I keep talking about that with J Rod, like, my videographer. He is like, he started a very successful company and it's succeeding so much right now. And like, I'm so happy for him, but, like, obviously also heartbroken. I'm looking for a new videographer and editor and just someone, please.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like, you know, but you got to be happy for people, like, taking strides for themselves.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think that with anyone, like, if there's like a better opportunity or new opportunity for them, like, like, take it. Cuz, you know, it's like life is.

[Tana Mongeau]

Short and life is. Yeah, it's like, you don't want to hold people back. It is so true.

[Trisha Paytas]

All of it. Or you can just be like, me. I give Jimmy like 10 days of work. I'm like, okay, well, you can work for someone else. But also I'm going to give you a lot of work too.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, Yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love Jimmy. Jimmy is a good editor.

[Tana Mongeau]

He's the best.

[Trisha Paytas]

He's. He's so funny too. I just love everything. We're doing a Halloween costume. Jimmy. I look as if Jimmy's here. He's over there on the picture. Hunger Games picture. That's why I looked over there. But yeah, we have a. A group costume for like just Trisha. It's just like, what are you guys doing? We're doing. We're doing Minecraft. Yeah. Because I feel like that's kind of relevant. It came out this year, right? Yeah. And you know, Jason Momoa has a pink jet in it. So I was like, I can wear it. I need a pink costume always for Just Trish. So finding a pink costume is very tough.

[Tana Mongeau]

So that's actually really.

[Trisha Paytas]

And then I told all the just Trash crew, like my sister and Oscar and Jimmy and Mose. I'm like, I don't know, just pick a animal. Like pick a sheep or whatever they had. I don't really play it, but I was like, I don't know about it.

[Tana Mongeau]

McCoy always tells me I'd like Minecraft, though.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like the movie. Oh, yeah. I don't never play the game. The movie's good. Actually. Lowkey.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think I started the movie. I don't remember. I am like a little iPad kid. Like, I could see myself liking the game.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, my sister loves it. So maybe she like streams too. Yeah, she's streaming all day.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love seeing her stream. Like when she comes up on my Tik Tok a lot.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, Like I always see your sister or sister. Speaking of sister.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Sister.

[Trisha Paytas]

I said that just like Halloween costumes that didn't make the cut this year.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, my God. I really. Well, so on the last episode of Not Loveline, I was talking about how Paige was asking me to be a costume and I wasn't sure about it. And then I ended up doing it. It was Alabama Barker and Bhad Bhabie. And all the comments were so funny. They were like, this is what you were talking about on Loveline. Like everyone.

[Trisha Paytas]

I didn't put two and two together. Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

That was what I was apprehensive about because it was a little messy and my intentions were pure and I'm in my peace era. But Paige, she swindled me into it and it ended up being so fun. Like, I do miss being funny. Messy with the costumes and like, Like, I don't know, it made me want to be James Charles.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, that's just messy. Messy because Alabama's cute and you ate. Like, to me, I didn't even look at it as, like, messy. I. I know there's like some like, lore backstory between. But to me, I was like, oh. Like, I. I don't know. I'll be. I'm like that. Personally, I feel like she'd be in on it because, like, that is the cuteness of her. She's just live 247 doing her hair and like, yeah, kind of everything.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it was so light hearted. Like, obviously, just like, it was like, just us being funny. Silly. And it was a good costume for me and Paige. I felt like our energy was feeling bad babies.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Danielle Bergol.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, she killed it. So, yeah, it was James Charles, but the Coca Cola. Hello, Disney. Like, in the Jord. Someone do it.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love that because it was so specific. Tann's like, I want to go to Disneyland and to do this.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I want to get in the car and go to Anaheim in my George.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, as much as. As much as I. I really just, like, I block James everywhere. I really dislike his antics. I'm not doing camp, though. Like, I mean, because it is like. And not like, I mean, he's a good example of, like, no, you know, if you're embarrassed, just do it anyway sort of thing. You know what I mean? Because it's just like, who you know?

[Tana Mongeau]

Hello. Yeah, it is so funny trying. He was trying, like, a Coca Cola. Hello. Yeah, or like a Coca Cola.

[Trisha Paytas]

Freeze was like a special or just a Coke.

[Tana Mongeau]

Honestly. Can we get some Intel? Can we get some research? Hey, research.

[Trisha Paytas]

I want to say it was like a cold brew from, like, Star Wars Land or something.

[Tana Mongeau]

That was James Charles drinking in the Coca Cola. Hello. Video.

[Trisha Paytas]

Video.

[Tana Mongeau]

What type of Coca Cola?

[Trisha Paytas]

He was just drinking a Coca Cola.

[Tana Mongeau]

That makes it, honestly way water.

[Trisha Paytas]

Hello.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like, what?

[Trisha Paytas]

I need to see this. I don't remember this.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's also the multiple angles. Like, the fact that we, like, the vlog is out, and you can see it that way, and then you can see other people. Like, it's just very, like, societally is my word right now, but societally, camp.

[Trisha Paytas]

Please go to Disneyland to do that. That's kind of everything.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is really funny. But they were in Africa in, oh, Epcot, and it was a frozen brown elephant. A frozen brown elephant.

[Trisha Paytas]

Hello.

[Tana Mongeau]

He was doing, like, the Drink around the World challenge.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, Drink around the World challenge.

[Tana Mongeau]

I did that for 10 years.

[Trisha Paytas]

Actually. Have you been to Disney World in Florida where he was like, animal Kingdom.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm once. Yes. I feel like we've been talking a lot about the things that we have been going through as we get older, and one of the things is definitely being more aware of your credit.

[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

It's so true. I mean, really, when I look back at my life, if I Could go back and yell at younger me. I would definitely add credit into that spiel. I'd be like, and care about your credit.

[Trisha Paytas]

Care about your credit. Like, make those on time payments. There's been times in my late 20s, even 30s, let's be real. Where I had the money in my bank and I just forgot. I simply forgot. With Kickoff, they have automatic payment plans so you don't forget. So that credit is building and you don't have to worry about that. And a lot of people out there may be like, I don't even qualify for a credit card. How am I going to build this? Okay, news flash. It's been over 16 years since the federal minimum wage was raised to $7.25. Company productivity has doubled while our wallets have not. One in five of us don't even qualify for a basic credit card. So you are not alone. I was not qualifying for those credit cards once. I like was getting them and not paying them. I was not qualifying. It feels like the system is broken and we deserve to be able to get an apartment, house or car just like our parents could. That's where Kickoff comes in.

[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

Making on time payments is the biggest detriment, whether it's good or bad. Like if you miss, like they dock you so much. And this is like what I've learned. So like get those payments on time.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it seems like Kickoff can help.

[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Tana Mongeau]

God, you're so good at that. I love it every time. Build credit fast and get your first month for just a [e-mail] notloveline today. Thanks to Kickoff for sponsoring us. I've only been to Disney to. I don't know if I've ever told you this. I've only been to Disney two times in my entire life. No.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's so sad. Maybe three. Wait, why?

[Tana Mongeau]

One when I was really little and then one was the day after Tanacon. So I immediately left. I was like, time and place. And you did it at my birthday dinner.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe I should.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then I went to Downtown Disney in Florida once. I've never done like a proper day at Disneyland.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh my God, we have to go. We really should because Holly was like for Halloween and again, time just didn't work. But like Christmas time is really fun at Disneyland too. Like they decorate it really magical.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love like finding a friend who's not in it for the roller coasters.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Oh no.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like that. I would love to go with you because that's a big problem too is everyone's like, we're going to Disney, but we want to sit and ride tower of terror 100 times.

[Trisha Paytas]

No way.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I'm like, that is actually my purgatory.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh right, you don't like roller coasters either at all? No. Never go to Six Flags roller coasters cuz Disney has like the cute kid. You like a Pirates of the Caribbean where you're just like on a boat.

[Tana Mongeau]

I would do that in like Small World Tea cups. Teacups is my Max Teacups I can't even do.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'll get. I'll throw love. Love my corn dog. I'll do that storybook going through the whale's mouth in a boat. Like, I'll do those.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, I also went to Disneyland. Another. I'm. Now I'm remembering. Maybe I've been more than I thought.

[Trisha Paytas]

We should really go with Holly. She is queen of Disneyland. She's part of the Club 33, which is like a super ultra rare club. She also got married at Pirates of the Caribbean. Like she is a Disney.

[Tana Mongeau]

She's a Disney buddy. And so sweet. It was so great seeing her in Vegas.

[Trisha Paytas]

We should talk about that.

[Tana Mongeau]

We should talk about Vegas.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's like the sweetest, the most patient. She's like a real life Disney because she is. She's always just so sweet because if like plans, our plans didn't fall through, we end up going out. But like if plants get pushed or fall through, like she's just down. She's just.

[Tana Mongeau]

She is literally a Disney princess. She's just so, so sweet and kind.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like she was like, she's. She. She got reservations at this restaurant like I was like dying to go to, cuz I see it all over. Tik Tok has these like giant lobster tails. And you're so sweet to go too, cuz I knew Tina didn't like lobster tails, but I was like, I really want to go to this lobster place. Literally. It was like a.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it's iconic Vegas. Like which you had never been to though, right? Yeah, never been there. I just knew it was like, I knew where it was and like people talk about it a lot and it was so cool. And we sat in Elvis Presley's booth himself. He used to sit there and go there and all of his records were like around.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was surreal. I got like chills. The blue Hawaii was above us. That picture was in your house?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I just framed that. Exactly. Exact photo and put it in my Hawaii place. And then we get there in Vegas and the photos behind us in the booth and I'm like, I'm just. I felt very like I'm where I'm meant to be.

[Trisha Paytas]

It felt aligned. Right. And that was very me too. Okay, so before Justin Bieber. What?

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh no. You go no, no, I heard Bieber. You go, no. I was gonna say we also needed that, like with our day, that moment.

[Trisha Paytas]

Well, we should start from the beginning on that. But before Justin Bieber had his baby, like years ago when I was like 20, there's probably a video of me even saying it. One of my kids names for my boy. Because I wanted an Elvis. I wanted a Malibu and a Barbie. I thought two different girls. But I was like, Malibu are before mine. And then I also wanted a boy named Blue Hawaii. Like, that was always like, I love the name Blue.

[Tana Mongeau]

Blue. But then everyone.

[Trisha Paytas]

Justin Bieber, I think the little Ivy. Yeah. So Blue became such a popular name.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I was such a good name. But then I also think of Bluey, like the dog, the cartoon clues. Yeah, I love blue dogs.

[Trisha Paytas]

A lot of dogs that are blue. Yeah. But Vegas. Vegas was like a fever dream fierce. That was the weirdest best. It was.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, it was the biggest trip. It was. No, honestly, it was the most down bad I've been in Vegas as a sober person. Like. And, like, down bad means just like, down bad. Down bad. Yeah. Like, there were great moments, but, like. Like chaotic. Like, things were not going. I don't. I don't know. I don't want to say things weren't going in our favor because we were there for Unwell Festival and the show went amazing. So things also did go in our favor, but it was just. I haven't had that much anxiety. Like, that was the most anxiety I've had in, like a year. Like, well, let's take it from the top, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

Take it from the top.

[Tana Mongeau]

We'll have a small tangent.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. What part?

[Tana Mongeau]

The jet suite.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay, so let's start. Very beginning. Yeah. Yes. Because we have a minute for this episode. Very beginning is. I remember saying, like, yeah, I'm doing this, like, Unwell Festival. Because you had talked about Harry Jazzy. I was like, yeah, I'm gonna see him on a while. And like, oh, my God, they asked me do that. I was like, oh, my God, say yes. Because, like, you said it was just like an email. You didn't, like, get back. I'm like, oh, my God, say yes to it.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I was like, yeah, I saw it in my email. And then I was like, well, Trisha's doing it, so let me talk to her about it. And like, whatever. And then I didn't know that they wanted me to specifically host your segment. And then we ended up finding that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Out, but I don't even know if they knew. And I mean this, like, in the. In, like, the best way, because I remember when they asked me to do it, it, like, originally they talked about me performing. And, like, I don't know. Honestly, I don't know if they even knew. Yeah. Because I didn't know until a week before. I was like, what am I doing? Like, oh, you're getting an award. I was like, okay. Or like, and the game, all that. I think it was all like, kind of like, what can we do with these people? You know?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. 100. And it was like, it almost felt like if Tanacon went successfully, like it was like a convention. So many influencers on stage doing various different things. Honestly, I was gagged. I could never. You did.

[Trisha Paytas]

You did do it. You it for what? What happened with Tanacon? Like you did do a lot of it. Like was Lena the plug marrying people on stage. Gabbie Hannah was performing like Shane David. Like you had all the 10 minutes.

[Tana Mongeau]

Of Tanacon was great. But Alex Cooper on, well, she like, she really did.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's like a big production company helper and writer.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it was at the Chelsea, which is cool because we've both performed that stage for our own tours.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then I came out as a special guest and performed on that stage with you for your show. And it was one of my favorite memories of my entire life. Like so one of the best days of my life. Like I love that.

[Trisha Paytas]

So fun. Professional special guest over here.

[Tana Mongeau]

And we always. I really am. I love being a special guest cuz nothing can fall on me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like it's just like I feel more relaxed than anything.

[Tana Mongeau]

Cuz I was like, oh.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like I feel pretty relaxed cuz it's like this is like their show.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Not being your show is always cool. Like you just kind of show up and do your thing. So then when it was like, wow, we get to perform the Chelsea stage together again. This is so iconic. And then I'm convincing Trisha and you can roll the tapes. This is all on the podcast fast. I'm like, fly jet suite with me. Fly jet suite with me. It's so great.

[Trisha Paytas]

Originally you had said private jet. And then I was like, I don't know a lot of things. The price crazy. I was like, we're so funny because there's certain things like you don't like to spend money on. There's certain things I don't like to spend money on. And I was like, that's is. That's crazy. And then I'm also kind of just scared of like private jets. And even on well offered private jet for us too with like the other influencers. They were like all going there. But something about private jazz is like, I can't do. And then. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

So then we book jets. Jet suite. And I have hyped this service up to Trisha. I'm like, it takes 20 minutes to fly to Vegas. It's the smoothest flight ever. It's so easy. I've never Had a bad experience on jet suite.

[Trisha Paytas]

Literally ever Tanner postman filet to the airport. She knew how it goes. She's like, I'm gonna just postmate there. They give you a carry on drink. I was like, oh, you know I.

[Tana Mongeau]

Love me some jet suite. But we had a concern raised about a week prior because air traffic control in Burbank has been having issues prior. It was like a couple days prior.

[Trisha Paytas]

Traffic controllers. So like, why the would they work? Because.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And then we were debating switching our flight to out of LAX because of that. We kind of decided like, no, it'll be fine. We'll just fly out of Burma.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Like a few days. I'm like, they're, they're gonna fix it. They're gonna get paid. It's gonna be fine.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's gonna be fine. We get to the airport, every single flight is on time except for hours. Trisha puts some manifestation power into the world and they let us on the plane. I'm like, okay, everything's to going going fine. Like, and I have a vlog coming. You can see this all. It's very funny. And then we get on the plane and we're like about to take off. We're rolling down the tarmac. And then they're like, just kidding. Air traffic control is. That's not what they said literally at all.

[Trisha Paytas]

But basically.

[Tana Mongeau]

And we're stuck on the tarmac for like. Well, I, I'm so exaggerative. I'm about to be like for nine hours. No, but like over an hour. I'm having the panic attack of a century. I've convinced Trisha Paytas to fly jet suite. We're stuck on this tarmac. People on the plane are sighing, freaking out like. And now whole schedule, every minute is getting well.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's why it was because we had, we had literally a like a 10 hour day before I was gonna go to sleep. And so we had like, no, not even 10 hours. We had probably eight hours in Vegas before I'd have to go to sleep. So we had a plan to like a tea down to the Minnesota tech rehearsal for unwell and the show for unwell and just like allowing for time. So we had. And you specifically had everything. Plantana was so sweet because. And this is my like good karma traveling with you because I'm always the planner. So it was like so sweet. T was like, we have have Cartier at 2, Van Cleave at 3 because we wanted to get matching 10 always wears bracelets. I always compliment her bracelets. Working at matching Bracelets.

[Tana Mongeau]

And we were so excited to shop for an hour.

[Trisha Paytas]

You had it unlocked. You're like, we had the appointments. It's gonna be great. Yeah. So, you know, we were like, oh, my God, we're gonna make it.

[Tana Mongeau]

So.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Being.

[Trisha Paytas]

And then we were stuck on the tarmac and like, well, we can't turn around because by the time we turn around, we have to go. Which wasn't true. We could have definitely turned around and got off because.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. And they're holding us on this plane. They're like, no, it's like, too much to deboard you and reboard you. But we're on the tarmac forever. Then we take off. And I'm so happy we didn't take a jet, actually, because we are flying through the thunderstorm of a century. I have never. And the planes are smaller than, like, a Boeing.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. And I'm like.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I always base my fear of turbulence on how other people around me are acting. And of course, the woman in front of me is acting like we are on a fighter jet in the military. She's like, like freaking.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I'm.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm literally. Literally, I have my eyes closed. I'm blaring punk rock music. I'm rocking back and forth. I can't look at Trisha. I literally am like, what have I done? What have I done? It was fierce. And then we land. And it's like the one day of 365 days a year that Vegas is pouring rain. I've never seen that much rain, like, in Vegas ever.

[Trisha Paytas]

That was ever crazy dystopian sky. It's like the cracks are coming through of, like, fire orange sky. We're like, what is happening?

[Tana Mongeau]

It literally was post apocalyptic Vegas. And then we get to our shopping and it's like, like, people are mobbing. It's pouring rain. We can't. Our hair and makeup from the show. We're running through the, like, fans. And the rain. It's like out of a movie. And I'm like, a scary movie.

[Trisha Paytas]

D takes her jacket off to cover my hair. I was like, you had a wig.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was like, I can afford you.

[Trisha Paytas]

You were looking so good. Well, we had the tech rehearsal. We were just like. And starting. Thank God. Oh. Because tan's like, do you want chick Fil A? And I was like, no, I'm good. We're going to eat when we get there. But thank God we. You had gotten, like, grilled nuggets and then there was, like, a fried nugget. I don't know if they were somebody's or what, but you're like, you can have those. And I was like, I want to eat some of these. Because I was hungry. And thank God, because we were stuck.

[Tana Mongeau]

Forever starving and saying God.

[Trisha Paytas]

Our 6:30. Our reservation was supposed to be at 5 for Golden Steer.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then everything was pushed so bad.

[Trisha Paytas]

Everything was pushed. We had of course, get to the tech rehearsal. That one pretty. That one smoothly. It was just like, yeah. Everything else, logistics, the car, the everything. And it's like.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then what would be a 10 minute drive in Vegas took like 35, 40 minutes to get to dinner. And it's like traffic. Like New York City. Vegas doesn't have traffic.

[Trisha Paytas]

That part was so weird. To turn left to get to the golden state took literally 30 minutes.

[Tana Mongeau]

30 minutes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Pouring rain, so we couldn't just get out. It was like poor and the sky.

[Tana Mongeau]

Is like this color. Like not on some cute sunset. On some. Like, what chemical is that? Yeah, like so scary. I just want to say this. This didn't happen to anyone else.

[Trisha Paytas]

I.

[Tana Mongeau]

We. We get to the dinner and I'm still having a panic attack.

[Trisha Paytas]

Honestly, like, I didn't know you held it well. I didn't realize the severity of your anxiety.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I just. I don't know what it was. It was like the plane and the turbulence. I was really like scared on that flight. It just carried into my. My day. I texted Amari, like, turbulence is so bad. Like, love you. Like, I was low key. Like, my God, girl.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I keep telling Tana, like, be positive. Visualize us landing.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, sending goodbye texts.

[Trisha Paytas]

I didn't know that I could feel it because I actually don't get like one. I've never had turbulence.

[Tana Mongeau]

So I was like, so Trisha paid us coded.

[Trisha Paytas]

And even on tour, you're like, have you never. I'm like, we never miss a flight. Flights, we're never. They're always on time because they always just think they're always on time. They're always this. But I do know what you mean. Maybe the people, like everyone, like the lady in front of us. Maybe your anxiety, which I didn't know, but like, maybe that was like culminating because I was like, why are we hitting this turbulence? Like, why is it so crazy?

[Tana Mongeau]

We flew through a thunderstorm to get to Unwell festival. Like, I landed so unwell and like, oh my God. Yeah. And then we get to dinner and Holly's there now. So I'm like, oh my God. I need to like keep my composure together and just like lock into this dinner. Have A good time.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we're an hour and a half late, which I hate being because says, like, it's hard to get reservations. Like, I could not get a reservation. Holly had it. Like, she has her own booth there too. So she's like, calling. She's like, whatever. She's also, like, there by herself. So she's like, waiting this whole time, which is like, so, like, I felt so bad, but she was like, doesn't bat an eye. Me, I would be a little agitated when someone come in. I'm like, it's fine. But she's like, just, it's fine. Everything's good. Like, she's just so nice. So.

[Tana Mongeau]

So, yeah. And I felt so bad. And I was trying to just, like, be like, oh, my God. Like, you don't understand how bad we want to be here. We're just living out of an apocalyptic movie today. And then I did my. Want to, like, explain it all to her. I get up and I go to the bathroom, and I have never taken a tumble. Like, Tana takes a tumble.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I didn't know this.

[Tana Mongeau]

The floor. You didn't know this?

[Trisha Paytas]

No. You fell?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. The floor was wet. There was no wet floor. Side. Honestly, it's okay. It's fine. I'm. It's fine. And I'm like, walking to the bathroom. I am not kidding you, Trisha. I went horizontal in the air. Like, I am talking, like, the noise in the cartoon. And it's like, like, that is how I felt. Like out of a cartoon. And I just like, I'm sitting there on the floor. Floor. Mind you, I hired security who just like I'm paying this bodyguard who didn't help me at all when I fell.

[Trisha Paytas]

She was a last minute security person.

[Tana Mongeau]

She was a last minute security.

[Trisha Paytas]

She gave us directions at the wrong car. We went outside. She's like, oh, it's that car. So we're like, getting into someone else's car and they, can I help you? And I was like, is this not our car?

[Tana Mongeau]

I am. Can I be honest with you? And I like, I. Because I take my security very seriously. I really like, especially with my stalker. And the security is expensive. It's over a thousand dollars for a day every time. So it's like, I'm paying you a lot of money to ensure that nothing bad happen me. And I swear to God, I think this security company, like, found the nearest barista.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, like, no, she was. She was. She was just, I think, like, older and just, you know, you know, she's. She was like small Petite. You know, I feel like I could.

[Tana Mongeau]

Take on some like I just. I don't know. And it's like I don't know, like just telling her before like please don't let people get too close to like Trisha or whatever. And then like two minutes later after telling her that like some girl is like snorting something off off your.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I'm like, this could be a murderer exaggeration.

[Tana Mongeau]

It was an order. It was a very sweet girl. It's the principal though. It's the principal. I'm paying you.

[Trisha Paytas]

I think it's more. Yeah. If it's like people that you know would like watch us. It's more the people that's like the creepy guys in Vegas or something that would like come up to us. It's like okay, maybe them like you know, get in between. But like they become. They were coming up. It is crazy. Like Vegas is like the only place too. I never get like approached by like guys. My mom and I left at like 4 in the morning, which maybe it's not the right time to leave. But to us that's early morning to Vegas. It's like they're coming home from a party. So we're going through the cosmo at like 4am People are this like hammer drunk is like coming up to me to hug me. I like I literally scream and like the scary's like oh everyone. It's like. I mean he literally was just like hugging me. But I was like, I don't know why. Middle age, like balding, like did not know me and I was just like dying. I was gay but. And so when I say hitting I mean like drunk people there. But then another person in the valet was just like. They kept coming. They came up to me and they're like those Grant had sweatshirt on. I have like sweatpants. I'm like what the is happening?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, it just even just like a lot of the people that were inside of the Cosmo this trip like it was very. I never when I go to Vegas like I have the best experience every single time. I feel very like clean and happy and like. Like there was a layer on my skin this trip like I. I never am like get me out of this God forsaken city. I also lost a ton of money. That also helps.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, you actually went out. So we ended up doing the Nwell show which I'll show start a little late. So this one started a little late. Me and Tana were like. We were like the finale. Which is kind of everything though. It's kind of like, oh, I love that we're like that because it was. I'm so bad because I don't watch, like, Bravo, but a lot of people said, like, a lot of big Bravo stars and Bravo, I know it's, like, all the rage, but it's a lot of Bravo love island people were there. So I was very honored that we got to be, like, the closer. I thought that was cool. Also, just getting a lifetime achievement was so funny. I take it so seriously. Upstairs, living room. I was like, I love this. This is the whole thing was surreal. Like, we were talking about Alex Cooper. Holly. She is just so, like, huge. She's like.

[Tana Mongeau]

So I was like, it was crazy. She'd walk into a room and just command the attention.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, thank you so much to Ro. Response today's episode of not love Light. You guys, your healthcare isn't just about your physical health. It's how you show up. Okay, Tana. It's how you show up today. You know what? You weren't feeling great, but you showed up. You were giving. You're like, you know what? I'm pushing through. And then I show up for you by being like, hey, let's take care of that health. But I understand it. We also talk about GLP1s a lot, and we're like, what's right for you? I'm always asking you, like, okay, was it this? Because I know some people on Manjaro ozempic will go via, like, is it right for me? Well, the first step is, does the insurance coverage it? And you're like, how do I even know? Like, this is so complicated. Time is money. So sometimes you calling and calling back and calling the next day and being, you know, giving the run around, it's like, I just want to know if my insurance covers it. It can be challenging, but RO takes it out with their free insurance checker.

[Tana Mongeau]

And we love RO for that. Honestly, even we were just talking about it. But today I feel like each day as I get older, I'm learning that prioritizing your health is very important. And finding a good service to help you like Roe is very important.

[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you so much to Ro for sponsoring today's episode of Not Loveline.

[Tana Mongeau]

Honestly, I was very overwhelmed. Like, like, it's. It's so fascinating to be inside of this empire. Like, to see it because you see unwell things all the time, but you don't see the hundred employees and you don't see Alex Cooper being like, we're gonna do this sound and then this sound and then everybody listen and then we're gonna do this music video and then we're gonna take these photos and then everyone posts for this and then this is happening and then the show. Thank you guys so much. Like, she's very like, yeah, like, she was everywhere.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's at the pool party with Paris Hilton. She's hosting the state. Like, she's everywhere. She has all these spots, sponsors. I keep saying Arby's, but who else was there? There was a lot. Arby's Bows was a sponsor. Like, there was like all these sponsors and it is.

[Tana Mongeau]

White Claw was a sponsor. Me saying that I was like, can't have that. I know.

[Trisha Paytas]

We were like trying because they gave us all these, like goodie bags in the room, which I love a goodie bag. And there was White Claw there. We're trying to give it to someone because, like, we couldn't take it back or whatever. But, like, yeah, Holly doesn't drink. Like, no one was drinking. So I was like, should we just, like, leave it outside to give it someone? But White Claw's a huge sponsor. Yeah. You know, we love that. But it was crazy. I get, like, weirdly intimidated by her. Even when I did, like, call her daddy when I'm scared. I get. When you look at, like, someone selling their podcast for $130 million, you're just like, you seem better than me. I don't.

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't even know if it's, like, the stigma. I think she has a very commanding personality. Like, when she talks and she is, like, sassy and funny in that way, but, like, it's commanding. You know what I mean?

[Trisha Paytas]

She's like you.

[Tana Mongeau]

And it's like, ma', am. Yes, ma'.

[Trisha Paytas]

Am.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, you know what I mean? She's very, like, fierce. Like, I was like, yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it's. It's. She's dominating for sure. I get scared of a lot of people. I get scared of most pretty girls, but then a pretty girl with. With, like, dominant, like, domination. Like, it's like, yeah, amazing. And then just also, she is like, she interviewed Kim Kardashian. We were talking about how she, like, the Kim Kardashian. Then look at the next line is.

[Tana Mongeau]

Me swiping it being Kim Kardashian and then swiping to me with no face tune was the most humbling thing to ever happen to me.

[Trisha Paytas]

So good. You're so silly. Like, we take so many photos together, and I'll send it once to Tana and then she'll, like, send it back to me. Like, hashtag, it looks the exact same as the photo you sent me in the spread.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

That.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, it's true. It's never a difference. I'm like, what the. I was like, it's so weird.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know. It is like, just minor tweaks and I'm like, very.

[Trisha Paytas]

But then I. Without a tooth on tick tock. Just being like the close up, no makeup.

[Tana Mongeau]

I am on Instagram. Like, I don't know that girl. And we're gonna figure that out. We are.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was cute. That was funny. And I love. I love. Yeah, Alex Cooper is. It was gorgeous. I was happy to be there. I was like, I like to be involved with anything. Alex Cooper and unwell.

[Tana Mongeau]

It was very cool. It was. Yeah, it was just, like, very cool and surreal to be there and like, like, over stimulating, but in the best way. Like, so much going on that you're happy to be a part of, you know? And, yeah, it was very cool. And Vegas, like, how special. And having you is so special because I think that had I been, like, alone, like, in that environment, it would have been much scarier. Like, even going out on stage, I was like, we're just doing a not love line.

[Trisha Paytas]

I agree. That's why I brought my mom. Like, it was if we would had Moses, too. Like, Moses is, like, so calm. He'll take care of everything. I mean, you have me, which is me. Thank God for me. Because also, we would be, like, so crazy. But, like, if Moses is with me, like, he just literally takes care of anything. This one, I was like, I had my mom, which is, like, great, and it's, like, comforting. But I also was, like, kind of like, okay, how do I get to my room? How do we call? Like, I didn't really have anyone's contact information or anything. And Moses, like, you just takes care of that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. It was chaotic.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it was a little chaotic, but I. I loved it. Again, just being in and out and being a part of it was cool. And. Yeah. Bethany Frankel, did you.

[Tana Mongeau]

She thought I was a housewife. Okay.

[Trisha Paytas]

I talked about this on just something. I don't think she knew. No, she.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, she, like.

[Trisha Paytas]

She, like all my stuff. So I'm like. Does someone else comment on her behalf, you think? On TikTok, she always comments on my.

[Tana Mongeau]

It also, like, was just so, like, they were rushing off stage. She's with Harry Jowsy. He's drunk as. Love you, Harry.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. You didn't talk to him because he was, like, in the hallway. You didn't talk to him?

[Tana Mongeau]

No, we talked for, like, a second, but, like, he was. He was in Vegas mode, which is lit.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's Vegas. Ignore. I just ignore. I'm a very, like, avoid. I avoid everyone. Honestly, I avoid if I'm, like, intimidated by avoid if I don't know the person. I just off of if I ever said anything bad about the person. I'm like, you know, let me just avoid. So I just, like, have died.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then I had a club appearance.

[Trisha Paytas]

After all of that, which was Went straight to sleep. I didn't even eat. I was like, go to sleep.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just appeared. That is all I did.

[Trisha Paytas]

What did you do?

[Tana Mongeau]

I showed up. I walked the carpet. I went inside for, like, the amount of time and.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you imagine other people come with you, Meg?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, like, we all went, but it was so fast, and it's so funny. To me that I used to be at the club until it closed. I was in that club for a total of 25 minutes.

[Trisha Paytas]

What'd you do? Like, what are you doing a club?

[Tana Mongeau]

Just like, I, I, I did what I was contracted to do. When I got out, like, literally, I walked in, I took the photos, and.

[Trisha Paytas]

I, like, I love the double Hustle. Because you went and did the club appearance. I did my. I had a little Arby's partnership there. So I did love the little, like, side hustle. Arby's was also at F1 that weekend. I saw someone else having, like. I was like, okay, love it. Arby's is. They sponsored. Who was it? You showed me that today.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, Ty.

[Trisha Paytas]

Ty. And I was like, arby's got that money.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, they do.

[Trisha Paytas]

They sponsored all of Unwell.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm next. Arby's, please, please. That's funny.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

So.

[Trisha Paytas]

Because Arby's is it. It is so curly. We're talking about gluten free. You're like, fries are gluten free.

[Tana Mongeau]

Fries are so gluten free.

[Trisha Paytas]

Fries are my favorite. The crinkle and the. Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

And Chili's. Like, tomorrow, Trisha and I are dressing as mozzarella sticks as a cheese pull. As a cheese pull from Chili's. And we are gonna shoot it outside of there. And mark my words.

[Trisha Paytas]

What? Let's mark them.

[Tana Mongeau]

Fine, fine, fine. If they don't sponsor me after this, I'm gonna lose it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, that's real. That's real. Only because if they weren't sponsoring anyone, I get it. But they do sponsor everyone. It's me with Domino's. Domino's sponsors everyone. I'm telling you, I saw a partnership one that was posted like, two weeks ago, and it had, like, 700 views and said, paid partnership Domino's. And I was like, where is my paid partnership down? So I really have stopped eating Domino's because I was like, I'm annoyed. Which you don't have to be, but, you know, you see everyone else get them.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, but there. There are other restaurants out there. And Chili's. They did. I've made strides. They DM me. They asked to send us these costumes rooms, which is huge. Normally, it's me and their DMs. They were in mine. That was exciting.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

But I'm hoping that this does do something, because the girlies, we love chilies.

[Trisha Paytas]

Everyone eat that triple dipper.

[Tana Mongeau]

I see that. That is. That's why it hurts a little more. Like, that's a knife twist. Is that. I see it every single day. Like, I'm just like, ah, yes, yes. Because it's not about the money. It's about the recognition.

[Trisha Paytas]

I agree. Like, I. Then Mr. Reaction will, like, she'll influence me all day to Domino's. Once a week, she gets a Domino's monster. Not even exaggerating. Like, for once a week. For the past, like, probably like three months, she's gotten a Domino sponsorship every week. And I'm like, I'm so. I couldn't be more jealous. I do love Mr. Reaction. Deserving.

[Tana Mongeau]

I know jealousy comes into play here. Like, when I see someone with the chili sponsorship, I'm genuinely, like, I'm jealous. Like, I'm filled with envy. I'm green.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, your whole channel is like Chili's Mukbangs for the past, like five years.

[Tana Mongeau]

And the amount of people who come up to me or comment or tag me, like, please. So we're doing the final cheese pull. That's what I'm calling it.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love that one. And done. So that's what I was saying. I was like, are we going in to eat? And you're like, I don't know. I guess if they're not sponsoring.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I mean, I'll always eat chilies.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's the thing.

[Tana Mongeau]

Even if you don't hear me yapping about it, I will be.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, you just want to say it? Yeah, like, just. I stopped eating Domino's. Got kind of sad about it. I was kind of like, well, boycotting the whole pizza. I did. I was like, I kind of don't want this anymore. So sad. I take it so personal.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm not too addicted.

[Trisha Paytas]

Can I tell you? That's what amplified my love for Arby's. And I'm not sponsored right now. But I like, I like, actually don't want to go to like, McDonald's or anywhere else. Like, or eat it on camera. Cuz I'm like, but Arby's is so loyal to me. I want to be loyal to Arby's because I truly love Arby's. They don't. This is my third partnership with them and I truly love them. I put all the thumbnails from like the past 15 years. Every time I eat at Arby's. Like, I love Arby's. And because they love me back now I'm like, I don't want to eat anywhere else.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, this is my boyfriend and I think the.

[Tana Mongeau]

The food passion, like, I'm so passionate about, like, I'll see people sponsored. And I'm like, that is the only time you're ever eating that triple dipper so long as you're alive.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's what my thing was, too. They always would sponsor, like, really, like, health conscious. I remember. Love Joey, But I remember Joey Graceffa got one for, like, McDonald's and, like, he is like, well, only, like, green chicken and, like, our greens and grilled chicken and stuff like that. And I remember him getting the McDonald's and being like, but when did you actually cook that? Let me show you how to really do it. Like, this is shout out Arby's for being a real one. And yes, I know. I saw Alex Cooper in bed eating Arby's for a sponsorship with. Do you know Graydon Cutler? Is that his name from TikTok?

[Tana Mongeau]

Is he best friends with Hallie Bachelder?

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't know who that is, but maybe he makes butter noodles on a stove. And he's always like, hey, guys, like, I'm making these butter noodles. So he has kind of asmr. He was eating in a bed and Arby's with Alex Cooper. Maybe he's friends with.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'd have to see the other one.

[Trisha Paytas]

Sounds familiar. Haley, that's Halle. Halle who she's familiar with.

[Tana Mongeau]

She's like, share podcast. I'm literally the worst. I'm a man. She's like. So it's like, okay, bro.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's not so familiar.

[Tana Mongeau]

Extra Dirty is her podcast. She's very, like, raunchy.

[Trisha Paytas]

And she was at. Oh, she was in. In.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, yes, yes, yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

I did see her. Was she in a silver dress there? Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes, yes.

[Trisha Paytas]

I remember being like, she's very pretty.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, she's gorgeous.

[Trisha Paytas]

That might be. Yeah, that might be their best friend, I think. Yes. There was a bunch of really pretty girls in the opposite dressing room. I think maybe Chris.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm really so many Love island baddies.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe that's what it was. Because the guy in the Arby's, he was shirtless in an Arby's overall. And someone's like, he's someone from Love Island.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think that was Rob. And then Alandria was there, and I didn't see her. She's from the new season. I, like, wanted to see her in person.

[Trisha Paytas]

She did the makeup campaign, right?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, she's just beautiful.

[Trisha Paytas]

They're all beautiful. Like, everyone there was actually gorgeous. And I was like, let me.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, you look stunning. What are you saying?

[Trisha Paytas]

Own type of gorge. But then there's those, like, girls that are just like. They're just there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like the hot girl in the Mini dress trope is everything and all, but, like, you were giving full showgirl Vegas. Like, that is. That is why you're the icon that you are. Like, you know what I mean? Like, like, the full fantasy.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was an aging showgirl, for sure. I was giving aging show girl. Like, last show girl. That was. That was the vibe. It was a literal last showgirl replica. And you know how Pamela's with, like, Brenda Song and they're the, like, young, hot ones. Like, that was giving what I was giving.

[Tana Mongeau]

But I. I love Brenda Song, by the way. I just watched Running Point on Netflix. You should watch it. It's. It's Kate Upton, right?

[Trisha Paytas]

Kate Hudson.

[Tana Mongeau]

Kate Hudson. I'm so good. It's Hudson and Brenda Song, and they're so funny in it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Song is good. She said actress, and she.

[Tana Mongeau]

I feel like she's just getting all these cool roles lately.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love seeing that, too. I love, like, a renaissance. Like, she was her am. Like, obviously. They were, like, child stars, and they were like, everything on. They're so, so cute. They were at backstory boys together at the Box in the Sphere. I'm, like, determined to go with you to this year. And Holly and Ari, my makeup artist, is obsessed with Bach boys. She's seen them, like, 10 times at the Sphere. Yeah. Yeah. So we will get, like, a box.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm excited to read you because, like, as much as we were in Vegas.

[Trisha Paytas]

Vegas.

[Tana Mongeau]

And doing unwell, like, that wasn't a trip to Vegas. I don't know how to explain it.

[Trisha Paytas]

No.

[Tana Mongeau]

A work trip and, like, 100 that.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we were, like, lucky to get to do it together. Like, I was so happy you got to do it with me, because I would have done it. Obviously, I was down to do it, but, like, it was nice to have that comfort, because. I agree. Also, just being, like, a duo together is. Yeah. Nice.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's the most fun. It's so rewarding. Like, yeah. But I mean, I want to go back and, like, Harrah's and, like, Donnie and, like, just be leisurely.

[Trisha Paytas]

Also, Donnie, if we go to Daddy as when I will.

[Tana Mongeau]

Because Vegas is also about, like, doing whatever. Whatever you want at whatever time.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Being on such a schedule there. I'm like, no, no, no.

[Trisha Paytas]

We need to, like. I love that, too, because I. And I also love that you're so down. Like me. Okay. Reversal with me going to. I was like, what is that?

[Tana Mongeau]

I love your compound. Because, like, whose semi truck is reversing and beeping out.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know what it is. It is a Delivery of just dress merch. I have a new pajama set coming out. The pajamas are so cute.

[Tana Mongeau]

That truck sounds like it is the size of this room. That's so you go look.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is. Yeah. I'm getting new. We have these really cute just Trish pajamas being delivered. They're like, it says I heart just Trish on the pants and like, the top. Yeah, I mean, I can open one. There's twenty hundred bucks.

[Tana Mongeau]

I'm getting in the truck.

[Trisha Paytas]

My mom will be there opening up the boxes. But I love too that you don't, like, you're down with me going to bed. Because sometimes I'd, like, go to bed. It hasn't happened in a while because obviously I'm usually with Moses or my mom. But people will be like, no, stay out. And they get like, so mad that I go to bed at like 8, like right after a shower. And I was like, I need that.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I think that me younger was maybe like that, that. But now it's like, sleep is the most important thing ever to me. And, like, so important. And like, I've had at length discussions about that and being rested and like, you are Superwoman. Like, what do you mean you're going home at 4:00am to, like, be there before the kids wake up after Vegas?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like, I'm not. Who am I to, oh, come gamble with me. Go to bed. You're the best mother ever.

[Trisha Paytas]

And you're like that even here too. You're very, very sweet. Like, I like. And I don't mind, like, when people linger, want to talk, like, it's so fun. But you are very sweet too. Like, when I, like, need to go, you're like, okay, bye.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, I'll see you again.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. You're really sweet that way. And I really appreciate that. So that's why I feel comfortable going to Vegas and being like, oh, we could just like, I love a shopping, I love a dinner, and I love a Donny Osmond or Bakshi boy.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's what Vegas is about. And we got our matching jewelry. We need to show you guys at some point.

[Trisha Paytas]

Next episode we'll wear. You wore it today. And then I put mine. I got my extender and I couldn't.

[Tana Mongeau]

Put it over my prosthetic neck.

[Trisha Paytas]

She was so sweet though. Val, the girl who did the prosthetic was like, oh, I can powder. You can put it over there. I'm like, could you mind, like, a Van Cleef?

[Tana Mongeau]

That is actually so funny. It is kind of. Death becomes her to Just have like diamonds over.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's very true.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, it was really cute. And like, we intended on shopping, but we just picked up these Van Cleef matching necklaces and bracelets. Literally, like it was like an iced latte. And I've never done anything like that in my entire life. We were in the store for all of three minutes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Those ladies, I thought we were crazy because, you know, they love to do a presentation. They'd love to do this. I'm like, we need this. Like, nah, just wrap it up.

[Tana Mongeau]

Swipe. Like it was. Honestly, I'll never forget it. I kept saying it like the day was stressful, but I was like, this memory is gonna be fierce.

[Trisha Paytas]

And good thing we looked though, because they did have. There was miscommunication on what necklace we wanted. And this is like so first world problems. But they had the mother of pearl matching. But we wanted the diamond matching because.

[Tana Mongeau]

The mother of pearl tarnishes in water. And Lord knows. I'm a swimmer.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Are you a swimmer?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, Underwater, Hawaii.

[Trisha Paytas]

Why? Okay. Yes, yes. There's like swimming laps in the. Boy, I'm glad that.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, never that. Yeah, I'm too fake here. I'll melt.

[Trisha Paytas]

But we got a good deal. We had a budget and our. We actually got two items for like half of our budget that we were into and nothing crazy. We both want these like Cartier bracelets that are like 40,000. Like, could never. Like, we'll never. Tana is in her like, Timu. Is it Timu? You love the era where you just buy like the knockoffs from somewhere.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, I love dhk. I'm not in the era yet. But like, I don't know. I think fakes of things other than jewelry. Jewelry's nice to have the.

[Trisha Paytas]

The real.

[Tana Mongeau]

The real. And it's really cute. While we got. It's very friendship. Like bracelet and necklacey. Like it's a little pendant. I've been getting a lot of compliments on it too.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it's really pretty. When you had to say, I need to go get mine on. It's very dainty. Yeah, I didn't try it on. I usually try it on cuz I do think they come in different sizes too. And I got an extended for mine. Thank God. But I tried on. I was like so tight. But I was like, whatever, we're gonna rock this.

[Tana Mongeau]

It was giving Vegas choker. But I get what you're saying, like, longer is cute and I'm just very. It's cute cuz like, even we went to Claire's like a while ago and we got little friendship bracelets. And then we were like, wait, how do we make these diamond?

[Trisha Paytas]

Because I see your stack. And I was like, we need to get that stack.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is. But Trisha, also, I found this out about you. It's funny you posted this tick tock and it's the unfortunately I love trend.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh yeah, yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And you were unfortunately, I love like food without sauce. Like all these things. And I literally commented on it. I was like, you need to add not wearing my designer jewelry. Yeah. I found this because she's so funny. I'll be like, oh my God, I want this Cartier ring. And she's like, oh, I have that. And it's just like a seven thousand dollar ring. I'm like, put it on your finger.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like my mom wears that every day. It was like when we got married, my mom and my sister were like my bridesmaids and we all got them. And I haven't worn it since. My fingers are. I'm very self conscious. Like, I. I think I do think I look good. I like my body. I like everything. Fingers are literally my like.

[Tana Mongeau]

And she's so.

[Trisha Paytas]

They're so chubby. Sausage even sending me that picture. Jimmy, remind me to send it to you. I'll send the picture. Like I was trying to make them look as skinny as possible and they just look so. And they are new. Like, they're like this one's at least a size 10. This is probably size 11 or 12. They're humongous.

[Tana Mongeau]

But like all the drip, it's so like you have so many. She literally has like a hundred thousand dollars in jewelry sitting upstairs that she never wears. And I'm like, put it on.

[Trisha Paytas]

That diamond Rolex is crazy. That was like the ice box days, like when Comp would show her like diet. I was like, I need that too. But like wearing though, could I wear.

[Tana Mongeau]

That just like to the kitchen? Like, just wear it around the house.

[Trisha Paytas]

And like rapper, Like, I feel very rapper in it.

[Tana Mongeau]

The Icebox watches are fierce but like worth nothing.

[Trisha Paytas]

I try to sell them in my like broke era, like a couple years ago. And I like just owed so much money. I was trying to sell them and like, couldn't even sell them for 7,000. They paid like 50,000 for those watches. And because they're aftermarket diamonds on a Rolex, everyone's like, it's a worthless Rolex.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is so fair. But I do love it, honestly. Let me take a look. I'll be a customer who knows?

[Trisha Paytas]

Just telling you all my stuff, I love. Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And you're black and gold. Van Cleef, like, wear that.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. Okay, so put it on. Moses loves the gold. It's so funny. I always show him Van Cleef. And you started it for me because I never cared about Van Cleef till I saw your bracelets. And so, like, the first year I showed him, he got me this, like, gold and black one because he liked gold and black. I don't really wear gold or black, but I was like, okay, then.

[Tana Mongeau]

Mind you, though, this bracelet could be worn with everything. And I'm going to drive.

[Trisha Paytas]

You're inspiring me. Maybe I will. And then the other one was a golden blue, and I'm like, blue and black doesn't go to the together. And Tina's like, no, all the colors. Just wear them all at the same time. Yes. Because then we got a silver and diamonds, and I'm like, do I just wear them all three? Yes, maybe.

[Tana Mongeau]

Because I love, like, when the girlies do their stacks and they're like, all the different things. I don't know. So out of touch. I could go on an hour tangent about it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Thank you so much to Tinder for sponsoring today's episode of Not Love Life.

[Tana Mongeau]

Ooh, Tinder.

[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I do love that. Hey, hey. Can say so much. It sounds dramatic because. Well, it is. I mean, even the most mundane moments become monumental with a crush. You start clocking things like the sky's exact shade of blue at the time you hear from them on a random Tuesday. I love that the sky is blue. Do you see that sky?

[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

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[Tana Mongeau]

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[Trisha Paytas]

Did you see Kylie's stack? She did like a. The King Kylie thing and she had like. She had like 20 of those, like, diamond cards.

[Tana Mongeau]

That was her era. Like, when she just, like, didn't give up. She said, I'm a Kardashian.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

You.

[Tana Mongeau]

You're gonna see this moment.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, you loved it. So people are like, not loving that.

[Tana Mongeau]

That she's bringing back the original king Kylie era. 100 shaped me as the person I am today.

[Trisha Paytas]

Really.

[Tana Mongeau]

I. I was like, 18, 19. Okay. 17, 18, 19, 16, 17, 18. Like right around there. And like, it changed me. Like, I. I don't know if I would have ever gotten, like, lip filler. And like, it's all like, kind of vain things that I'm saying, but, like, I just can't stress it enough. It was like, you wanted to be King Kylie. Like, just.

[Trisha Paytas]

It was so, like, even me, I was like, I'm gonna get lip filler. You know, I didn't really heal in.

[Tana Mongeau]

The hair and the diamond stack. She'd have a different wrapped car every single day. It was like, how is this car? Hot pink. It was blue yesterday.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, oh, right before people I probably.

[Tana Mongeau]

Knew about rapping, they're like west coast customs. They were like snorting lines and wrapping her.

[Trisha Paytas]

I was doing west coast customs to her. You're right. I didn't think has that influence because I didn't care. But I was wearing the Bellamy clip ins. They had the teal at the bottom and I was doing that. You're right, I was.

[Tana Mongeau]

Weirdly, the outfits too. Like, just like the, like baddy. Like it, like the two piece sets. I don't know. Like, it just changed everything to me. Like, her grills, like, I had a grill. I went and got my teeth molded. Like, I was obsessed.

[Trisha Paytas]

Grill. I need to see that.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, never again. You will never. I don't have it anymore. Thank God.

[Trisha Paytas]

What is that? Like, just diamonds, like on your teeth. It's like a plate that you put up there.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, they like, they like stamp your teeth into like a mold and then they make your teeth in diamonds. Shout out Big O. The jeweler. I love you. Where they used to make my grill. He's here in L. A. And he like. Yeah, it was just like all of.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, why did I have a grill? But like, that was King Kylie's influence. Influence. And she's bringing it back. But I will say, like, she's being cleaner about it.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's.

[Tana Mongeau]

She's much more clean, girl. I want to see, like, the cut crease.

[Trisha Paytas]

I don't think it was enough.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. Like, I. King Kylie had some like her. Like, she's giving King Kylie, like, cutesy still.

[Trisha Paytas]

Just, like, clean, glam.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. King Kylie, you know, giving King Kong.

[Trisha Paytas]

But I like it with the way he said it. You're giving King Kong right now. In the movie. Doesn't there, like a bloody. Not the monkey. The beautiful girl that he's, like, holding.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, slam.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's all.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's what it is.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was like. I was like, wait. I was like, am I giving this? I could.

[Trisha Paytas]

That could have been our Halloween costume. I could have been King Kong. And he could have been the girl.

[Tana Mongeau]

She loves this, but not a bad way.

[Trisha Paytas]

We were saying how we love being ugly. Like, I really King Kong and I'm.

[Tana Mongeau]

The girl in your arms. Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. Next year, sexy King Kong, you know, kind of hot. Yeah, I love King Kong's hot.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, you too.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Like, that's.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's a vibe all day long.

[Tana Mongeau]

Next year we're gonna go crazy. I feel it's like 10 costumes.

[Trisha Paytas]

Wow.

[Tana Mongeau]

Ye.

[Trisha Paytas]

Maybe Depends on what we're doing then. But yeah, true.

[Tana Mongeau]

It always just.

[Trisha Paytas]

You were at a party last night where we. Oh, we got time. You had a party last night.

[Tana Mongeau]

We're so back. Cpk the life of a showgirl, baby.

[Trisha Paytas]

We're just saying how busy I was like, oh, wow. We show. See death becomes her. It's like, oh, I can't. I'm in a show.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. Literally, she can't see other musicals because of her musical, which is the biggest flex ever.

[Trisha Paytas]

It is, actually. I was excited about it because I. I've never not been to New York and not seen a show. I've never been to New York and not seen a show. So I was like, kind of like.

[Tana Mongeau]

But you are the show, baby.

[Trisha Paytas]

Now. You're right. And honestly, be what I see every time I go to New York. So now I get to see it every single night.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I'm so excited for you. It's actually just so, so sickening. Thanks.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm excited for you. Have you seen a Broadway show ever?

[Tana Mongeau]

I've never seen a Broadway show. Oh, my God. I've never seen a Broadway show. On the first one I'm seeing too. Wait, you never been to a Broadway show?

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, my God. It's everything It'll, like, change your life.

[Tana Mongeau]

And they give you the little pamphlet.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, the playbill. Yes. The Playbill is iconic. That's what was cool about my show in on Broadway this year is because, like, yes, it's not, like, an official production, but because it's an official Broadway theater. I got a playbill. It was at the St. James Theater where they did Sunset Boulevard. So it was like, the Playbills are, like, the iconic thing, and your, like, picture appears in it and stuff like that.

[Tana Mongeau]

So I'm really frame my playbill for you. Thanks.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm so excited.

[Tana Mongeau]

So excited. It's gonna be fun. And New York. I love New York. Like, the. You getting to go for like a month. It's just New York's a great place.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. We've already, like, playing outfits like black trench coats and black and mysterious and Plaza Tea and just, like, crazy shopping is right by there.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

I'm really excited.

[Tana Mongeau]

Your channel a different. Oh, my God, yes. No, no, we're done with the shopping. We're not done. I mean, I'm on a show, big man. Unless Trisha Paytas wants to go shopping.

[Trisha Paytas]

Same. Can I say? I. I really don't buy anything anymore. Okay. Just together. Just buy everything when we're together.

[Podcast Guest/Announcer]

Right.

[Trisha Paytas]

Tana does a $50,000 haul, and Lex.

[Tana Mongeau]

Is like, okay, no, no, no, no. Same thing. Trying to be better.

[Trisha Paytas]

We have a budget. We had a budget and we had a low budget. It was nothing crazy. So we had a. A lower. I mean, it was, like, more money, I guess most people, but at the same time, it was a budget.

[Tana Mongeau]

Crazy, but not as crazy. Not as. And I'm. I like that we bought something that I have on my wrist every single day and my neck every single day. Like, just. It's the over consumption where I'm trying to, like, chill, obviously, but New York.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Are you so excited?

[Trisha Paytas]

I want to do, like, a photo shoot here. We just. All these plans. I'm like, oh, we should do a photo by, like, the Brooklyn Bridge, you know, like, just doing Times Square. What's really cool about Times Square? My makeup market. Makeup artist Ari did it. Last time we were in New York, like, you can go in Times Square and you know how there's, like, superheroes you take pictures with and stuff like that? Yeah. They have photographers that are just, like, on the spot, and they're like, send them directly to your phone, but they're, like, professional.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's like the Eiffel Tower.

[Trisha Paytas]

They do. Oh, yeah, I've seen that. I didn't know people could do.

[Tana Mongeau]

I was like, begging a Parisian man to take out his dance. Yes. I did it. I did the whole thing.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's.

[Tana Mongeau]

I've never done it in Times Square.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you post it? I didn't see it. Oh, I didn't know. Okay, that's everything. It's so cute. It was like a photographer's, like, on the street and they just like, okay, Zel me and I'll give you these photos.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. And then they try to do a really high price and you have to, like, barter with them.

[Trisha Paytas]

But, oh, my God, I could never. I'd be like, all right, that's fine.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, it's like thousands.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I was like, no, Thousands of dollars.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then he was like, fine. And I was like, yeah, but getting that from the tourists for sure.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, yeah, that'd be so much, so much fun to do.

[Tana Mongeau]

But yeah, we should do that. Like, time squared up. I feel like New York is just it almost. You channel a different energy there.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's very different.

[Tana Mongeau]

It's just so fast paced. And you know what I love about New York so much, so much is that, like, in la, everyone cares what everyone else is doing. Like, when someone's walking into a restaurant, everyone's kind of turning and looking like, you know what I mean? Like, people are looking at your outfit on the street. You feel. You feel the eyes on you and, like, the judgment from others and like, so la, you know? Whereas in New York, like, no one gives a what you're doing. And it's just like, it's very freeing. Like, I just feel like you get to channel a much more like, free, authentic, weird energy in New York. And people are just so real, which I love.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love it. And I love that the Postmates are so, like, warm food. Yes.

[Tana Mongeau]

Because they've got. Hot dog stands are my favorite thing ever.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, I think I did that. Britney Spears did a David LaChapelle shoot with her hot dog in front of a stand. And those are like, my favorite things. I like the pretzels on the street. I like the Benihana on 6th Street. Like the Olive Garden in Times Square. I like. Stop.

[Tana Mongeau]

I love you so much.

[Trisha Paytas]

Restaurant Carmines. Love it all.

[Tana Mongeau]

I just love a street hot dog. Like, it's because it's like, I feel like I'm always getting hungry randomly, like, all the time.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

And like, in la, you have to, like, go to. It's just so nice that you can be on your way somewhere and get your hot dog. A New York City hot Dog is like, I eat like 20 every time I'm there. I love them.

[Trisha Paytas]

I wish I liked a hot dog cuz it does sound good. Have you ever been to Stardust Diner? No, that with the singing waitresses. Like they like sing on top of the table and they're like Broadway. They're like aspiring Broadway performers. So they're like really, really good singers and they're like delivering food to you, but they're singing like defying New York.

[Tana Mongeau]

Where can we go?

[Trisha Paytas]

It's super famous on Glee when Lea Michelle's character Rachel Berry moves she waitress is there and she meets like Adam Lambert and Demi Lovato, our waitresses at the, at the Stardust Diner in Glee. And it's based on that and it's like really cool.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wait, that's cute. Yeah, I would love to like see all of your favorite things in New York too, because it's like same with.

[Trisha Paytas]

You because I feel like you put me onto so many things. So mine are all very touristy. Like I love a junior's cheesecake. I love them, you know, schmackeries, cookies. But I would love to see mine are all food, as you can tell.

[Tana Mongeau]

No, that's good though, because I like, like, I don't know, I like New York restaurants. Like I love like. But they're hard. Like the reservations and all that stuff. Like, I would love to try more things than what I like.

[Trisha Paytas]

My agent, Lydia Shout out at caa, she just moved to New York like a year ago and she. Yeah, she always, when I go there, takes me to like at like 10 o' clock at night to these like bougie spots, like Haley Bieber and Justin Bieber just here last night and Taylor Swift was here. So I love stuff like that. So I like in a car for like 20 minutes to go to like this thing that like everyone goes to and I feel, ooh, so bougie.

[Tana Mongeau]

That's what it is. New York is so like elitist bougie that like nowhere else could be. You just feel so cool. And you're wearing your little blazer and you're like, no one gives a. And you just like, oh, I love it.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's when I got that Bottega bag, the one that you wore to Vegas. I had gotten that New Yorker stylist bought it for me and I just felt so New York with it. I was like, oh, yes, I'm in a black. Yeah, that probably should because you should.

[Tana Mongeau]

Wear your Van Cleefs.

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[Trisha Paytas]

Okay. Bring yours.

[Tana Mongeau]

I will.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

I literally will. And I'm so excited.

[Trisha Paytas]

But I love that you do go out like everywhere. Like even here. Like some. Last night you went to the. Was it last night you went to White fox?

[Tana Mongeau]

White fox's 12th birthday was last night. And company. Yes. Oh, okay. They're like family to me. It's so funny. Like I've just, I've been working with White Fox for, for like literally 10 years now. Like I was with them in the very beginning and like I go to everything. I see the girls, like, we are friends. Like, I love them.

[Trisha Paytas]

Who, like. Okay, I don't know anything about them. They're like LA based. Are they young? Are they what?

[Tana Mongeau]

They're.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's very.

[Tana Mongeau]

There's some various ages, but it's all women.

[Trisha Paytas]

Okay.

[Tana Mongeau]

And they're all just like, it's so cute and sweet and Australian and funny and there's so many of them. Like, and even their warehouse, it's like massive. It's like, you know what I mean? A huge, huge brand. It's like thousands of jobs and, and it's like all women.

[Trisha Paytas]

Oh, amazing.

[Tana Mongeau]

Making just like the cutest clothes and they're just very sweet. So their 12th birthday was last night and I went, I met Whitney, who's on Dancing with the Stars, and I.

[Trisha Paytas]

Don'T know her, but I am.

[Tana Mongeau]

So embarrassing. Honestly, I can tell you what happened.

[Trisha Paytas]

What did you say?

[Tana Mongeau]

I don't even know if I want to say this online.

[Trisha Paytas]

I needed the lore because I was so excited to ask you about her. That was my main thing. I was like, I need to know about Whitney.

[Tana Mongeau]

Well, so I. She walks up to us, and then Brooke is kind of, like, freaking out, and we're all talking, and I'm like, trying to figure out because, like, Brooke's interests. Like, she. Brooke loves the challenge. Brooke loves Dancing with the Star. She loves certain things. So I'm like, what? Where is this girl from? Like, I. Where have I seen her? I can't figure it out, right? And then someone looks at each other, too. Yeah, yeah. And they're like. They're having their little moment. They're like, we look alike. And I'm just standing there trying to figure it out and trying to figure out where she's from. And then Dancing with the Stars comes up, and then I spend the next 15 minutes talking to her as though she's not, like, the star on the season, as if she's the dance star. Like, oh, like, pro.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Who's recurring. And I'm like, it must be so cool to see the show grow and, like, new guests over the years. And she's like, yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

And I'm like, oh, that's sweet, though. Like, she's, like, going with you.

[Tana Mongeau]

She was going along with it. And then obviously, like, two hours into the conversation, I find out she's the star, not the Dancing with the. And I'm like. And then she's on. They were talking about Mormon Wives, too, all night.

[Trisha Paytas]

Night.

[Tana Mongeau]

And I was like, yeah, I've never seen the show. I don't know. Like, don't they swing, like, whatever. Like, I didn't know she was a Mormon wife. I wanted to die. I literally wanted to die.

[Trisha Paytas]

Did you say anything to anyone correct you, or they're just, like, letting you go?

[Tana Mongeau]

I think she probably just left and was like, God, that Tana girl's stupid. Genuinely. Just like, I was giving. Stupid dumb blonde.

[Trisha Paytas]

No, but she is very niche. And, like. And I mean that, like, in a sincere way. Same thing with me with that. Anyone on it. Like, if you don't know, you don't know.

[Tana Mongeau]

You know, I haven't watched this season yet just because I've been so busy. I've been keeping up with clips of Alex Earl just, like, watching her kill it because I love her and I follow her. So I see them and she's killing it. But I haven't actually watched this season.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's really good. I love it.

[Tana Mongeau]

I want to. And I do love Dancing with the Stars. I've just been busy and I'm like, oh, my God, I fumbled. Whatever that interaction with Whitney was.

[Trisha Paytas]

She come up to you and like, be, I love. Did she know you? Was she, like, excited to see you or she just was like, I can't.

[Tana Mongeau]

I think so. I think she said, I love you, but I don't know if it was just like. Like, she was like, ah, yes, I think so. Because I went to follow her today and she followed me already. So I was like. And she was so, like, sweet and funny. Like, I just didn't know anything about her.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, yeah, it is Nishi, for sure.

[Tana Mongeau]

And then it was like a bunch of Love island girls. And it's. I've talked so much about Love Island, I cannot keep up with who I've been on and who I haven't. So I just apologize immediately upon meeting you.

[Trisha Paytas]

Do you say sorry?

[Tana Mongeau]

Yes. I literally was like, nice to meet you. To this girl Bella. She was on Love island. And I was just like, I have no idea what I said. So I led with an apology. I was like, I'm really sorry, by.

[Trisha Paytas]

The way, but what if they don't know that you.

[Tana Mongeau]

But then she was like, well, I didn't know if you hated me or not. And I was like, ah, checks out.

[Trisha Paytas]

That's crazy. I know. I have that same fear as you, but I'm gonna change it. Because even on while I had that fear and I said, you know, I'm gonna change my mentality. I'm gonna just be like, you know, everyone likes me, and I love everyone. You are.

[Tana Mongeau]

You are right.

[Trisha Paytas]

I should.

[Tana Mongeau]

I guess with the Love island girls. I do feel like I got really opinionated, though. And, like, I definitely. Some people were like, that was fierce.

[Trisha Paytas]

I know. No, I'm. We're the same that way. I totally get it because, yeah, we love.

[Tana Mongeau]

I literally told her last night to the. To Bella, I was like, girl, I got way too parasocial. Like, you are so beautiful. You were so graceful. I hope you know that. Like, I just have very thick skin. So, like, I will say things flippantly that I think other people can handle or I'm joking in a way that, like, I can handle when people joke about me in that way. And, like, I always expect that other people are the same as me and they're not. Some people are like, why is that, Tana?

[Trisha Paytas]

That's true. We were talking about that, you know, earlier in the episode. We talk about just Campus Alabama or James Charles. It's like. Like, I don't know how they would take it, but, like, me, I think it's, like, the most flattering thing when someone dresses me as Halloween. Even if it's like, me, like, in my worst era, like, crying on the kitchen floor or something like that. I'm just like, oh, I'm so flattered. I'm just like, well, that's cool.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah, I love it. I love the bit. Like, I think. I think people making fun of people, if it's done in, like, an SNL way.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right.

[Tana Mongeau]

Like, paying homage but also making a little fun and, like, whatever, like, is so, so funny.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, I think so, too. But some people. Yeah, some people. You said don't. Like, like, the. I forget her name from White Lotus. The Amy. The one who was, like, Walton Goggin's young girlfriend on the show.

[Tana Mongeau]

Oh, I know you're talking about. She's beautiful.

[Trisha Paytas]

She's gorge, like a model. And she. SNL did a parody of her and basically just made a lot of teeth jokes and she was, like, not happy about it. She, like, didn't love it. So it's like, I get. I get it. But it was like, me, if someone was like, she's a fat, I wouldn't care. Like, if someone's like, oh, like me, it was like a piggy noise with me. I'd be like, oh, that's cute. Whatever. You know what I mean? Like, I don't. I. I think it's, like, flattering. But I get why people, also.

[Tana Mongeau]

You and I do just have thick skin. Like, everything that anyone could say about us, they have, you know.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. There's literally nothing. And. And I will laugh at most of it, like you said, if it's done funny or done, like, well, like, I'm usually, like, laughing.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah. I live for it. But I also understand that some people are more sensitive and just because they're in the limelight, I guess. Also, like, I go with the general public sometimes with the thought of, like, you're in the limelight, therefore you signed up for this, therefore you're, like, down to clown, down for the smoke, all the things. Things. When in reality, like, some people might not feel that way. Like, just because I'm in the limelight doesn't mean I'm, you know, maybe I'm a sensitive person.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah. You know, I think we've like, made ourselves like the punching bag, you know, for so long. Like, it's like, easy. We just, like, let it roll.

[Tana Mongeau]

But exactly. That is true. Like, just for so long. It was like, I have to be in on this or against it.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

So let's be in on it. And that made me who I am today. But yeah, like, some people are like, shut up about me.

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah.

[Tana Mongeau]

Brush convention girl. Like, it's like, shut up.

[Trisha Paytas]

You know? That's so funny. Do you think this new generation, like, Gen Z, knows about the whole, like, toothbrush lore?

[Tana Mongeau]

People do come up to me and say it, like, now. And it's so funny because I really never got with the toothbrush. I'm here to say it once again.

[Trisha Paytas]

Right.

[Tana Mongeau]

We're always clearing the air on that as many times as we can get it out there. Like, it was. It's funny, though, because the video is about me talking about how a guy spread a rumor. Yeah. And then, like, if anything, he won in the end. Yeah, yeah. Like. Like, the rumor is still to this day.

[Trisha Paytas]

That is crazy. People still, like, you know, because there are so many things, like, back in the day, that would have been a meme. Like, there was one I had called, like, do dogs have brains? But, like, no. Gen Z knows it now. But, like, back in the day, that was, like, the meme. Everyone came up to me, like, the dogs that brain, girl. But, like, no one knows.

[Tana Mongeau]

Well, you were asking if do dogs have brains?

[Trisha Paytas]

Yeah, it was like, just like a troll video.

[Tana Mongeau]

No.

[Trisha Paytas]

Me. You don't even know. It's like, so it was like my first file. One of my first files. Like, 3 million views in, like, oh, two days. It was, like, so crazy, like, everyone. But it's so funny now because, like, yeah, Gen Z probably wasn't even, like, born. Literally. It was like, 20, like, 10 or something.

[Tana Mongeau]

So, yeah, that's wild.

[Trisha Paytas]

They were just, like, not even born yet.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is crazy. And then there are some people. People will just keep talking about the same thing until you die. We were just.

[Trisha Paytas]

I love that, though, too. I. I love, like, my Modern Family, like, cameo. I'm like, that was talked about for, like, 15 years. And I was like, not even talking. So it'll be announced by the time this comes out. But, like, tomorrow, we announced, like, euphoria. And I was like, oh, that'll be my next 15 years. Where I. That'll be. I don't care if I book another job. Because I'm like, I'll just talk about that for 15 more years.

[Tana Mongeau]

Which is so iconic. So I cannot wait to see.

[Trisha Paytas]

It's so far away. It's like May, like spring of next year, but it's.

[Tana Mongeau]

It is one of my favorite shows of all time. So one of my favorite people of all time is on one of my favorite shows of all time. I'm literally going to levitate.

[Trisha Paytas]

Like, I'm so excited. I'm excited, too. I'm excited they finally announcing it. It was like, for so long, like I couldn't say anything. So I'm sad they're announcing it. But anyways, that is it. You guys, thanks so much for listening to us talk and yap. And we're going to do next week. We're going to do all calls and.

[Tana Mongeau]

We'Re excited to take the calls. Just so grateful for you guys. Guys, I like I said, I'm always reading the comments on here, but we have the most beautiful little community and.

[Trisha Paytas]

And we love. Makes me feel like I.

[Tana Mongeau]

We get to help some people when we answer calls.

[Trisha Paytas]

Not right.

[Tana Mongeau]

Yeah.

[Trisha Paytas]

All the messiness wasn't in vain. Like, we learned something. We were able to help other people and it's great. So head over to Patreon for extended podcast o patreon.com not loveline. We'll see you there. Yes. Happy Halloween.