Podcast Summary: Not Loveline - "HE IS HIDING ME FROM HIS FAMILY!!"
Release Date: May 12, 2025
Hosts: Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas
1. Tattoos and Family Acceptance
The episode opens with a discussion about the challenges adults face when introducing partners who defy their family's expectations, particularly those with tattoos and unconventional appearances.
- Tana (00:00): “Adults have trouble, like, upsetting their parents over, like, someone they're dating is the craziest thing.”
- Trish (00:08): “Don't put this tattooed baddie through hell.”
Trish shares her experience with changing her appearance to navigate online harassment, leading to a conversation about identity and self-expression.
- Trish (00:21): “I switched looks. I literally took the wig off Trisha Paytas' head… trying a brunette moment when it comes to me.”
- Tana (00:41): “I love this look on you. You look so good.”
2. Jonas Con vs. Tanacon
Tana and Trish compare the recent Jonas Con event to their own Tanacon, highlighting organizational differences and fan experiences.
- Tana (01:16): “You were Tanacon and you were there fraudulent.”
- Trish (02:29): “The Jonas Brothers were there. But Tanacon was just not organized… people were trying to get in.”
They discuss attendee experiences, special guests, and the overall atmosphere, drawing parallels and contrasts between the two conventions.
3. Parenting: Screen Time and Teaching Sharing
The hosts delve into parenting styles, particularly focusing on screen time for children and teaching them to share.
- Tana (04:41): “That's like, so mean to do to your kids though… they're still learning about sharing.”
- Trish (05:17): “You might just have like, really… your kids are perfect.”
They explore the balance between restricting screen time and fostering creativity, citing examples like "Cocomelon" and discussing their own approaches with their children.
4. High School Memories: Stealing and Social Dynamics
Tana and Trish reminisce about their high school years, sharing stories about stealing from malls and the social pressures of carrying popular books.
- Trish (17:08): “My binder had Lil Wayne in it for all of my years.”
- Tana (18:07): “I got banned from the mall for like a year. I got hired at one of the PacSun…”
They highlight the ease of shoplifting during their youth and the subsequent consequences, offering humorous takes on past behaviors.
5. Pop Culture: Family Guy and Robert De Niro Films
The conversation shifts to their differing tastes in entertainment, particularly their views on "Family Guy" and classic Robert De Niro movies.
- Trish (11:05): “I've really have not seen any classic movies. I've never seen Titanic…”
- Tana (12:09): “Someone was like, let's watch Family Guy. I'm like, get out.”
They debate the merits of adult cartoons versus traditional cinema, reflecting on how their preferences shape their personalities and relationships.
6. Listener Call #1: Dating a Firefighter and Abandonment Issues
A caller seeks advice on dating a firefighter while dealing with abandonment issues. Tana and Trish offer their perspectives on the emotional challenges and the realities of such a relationship.
- Caller (23:48): “...he's a firefighter and I have abandonment issues because he's gone all the time.”
- Trish (24:23): “People always romanticize, like, I want to date a firefighter… but it’s like, yeah, I would lose it every day.”
They emphasize the importance of trust, communication, and understanding the inherent risks of such professions.
7. Listener Call #2: Non-Consensual Sharing of Nudes
Another caller discusses the trauma of having non-consensual nudes shared by an ex-boyfriend. The hosts provide emotional support and practical advice on handling such violations.
- Caller (29:00): “...recorded without my consent and spread amongst many, many friend groups.”
- Trish (44:50): “I’d say something that's very tana moo. You are the main character…”
They address the emotional impact, societal blame, and the frustration with the judicial system's handling of such cases, advocating for self-worth and resilience.
8. Listener Call #3: Tattooed Girlfriend Hiding from Conservative Family
A female caller expresses frustration over her boyfriend's reluctance to introduce her to his conservative family due to her tattoos and piercings.
- Caller (51:04): “His stepmom specifically hates tattoos and piercings… he won't bring me around that side of the family.”
- Trish (52:50): “If you’re hiding you, then ew, leave him. I have enough context to like really run at home.”
The hosts discuss the dynamics of prioritizing romantic relationships over family approval and the importance of authenticity in partnerships.
9. Discussion on Music Streaming Services vs. Purchasing
Tana and Trish debate the merits of purchasing music versus using streaming services like Apple Music and Spotify, sharing their preferences and the implications for artists.
- Tana (40:34): “Do you ever try a streaming service? No, because, like, how do you find it?”
- Trish (41:05): “I would check this one out… it’s the same app.”
They explore the financial aspects, user experience, and personal connections to music consumption.
10. Personal Anecdotes: Parenting and Daily Life
The hosts share light-hearted stories about parenting, their children's behaviors, and their own daily routines, adding humor and relatability to the conversation.
- Trish (58:12): “She's not talking, baby. But just tell her how much he loves.”
- Tana (58:37): “Say, I love you, Tana.”
They discuss the joys and challenges of raising children while managing their public personas.
11. Final Thoughts and Support
In the closing segment, Tana and Trish offer words of encouragement and support to their listeners, reinforcing themes of self-worth and resilience.
- Trish (61:30): “We love you guys so much. Please do not settle for less. You're worth it.”
- Tana (61:39): “We love you. Bye.”
They conclude the episode by reiterating their commitment to their audience and expressing heartfelt appreciation.
Notable Quotes:
- Tana (00:00): “Adults have trouble, like, upsetting their parents over, like, someone they're dating is the craziest thing.”
- Trish (24:23): “People always romanticize, like, I want to date a firefighter… but it’s like, yeah, I would lose it every day.”
- Trish (44:50): “I’d say something that's very tana moo. You are the main character…”
- Trish (61:30): “We love you guys so much. Please do not settle for less. You're worth it.”
Conclusion
In this episode of Not Loveline, Tana Mongeau and Trish Paytas navigate a wide range of topics from relationship dynamics and family acceptance to parenting challenges and personal anecdotes. Through heartfelt advice, humorous exchanges, and candid discussions, the hosts provide a relatable and engaging listening experience for their audience.