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Andrew Limbong
Hey, it's Emperor's Book of the Day. I'm Andrew Limbong. Listen, I love the Sopranos as much as the next guy. I think it's very obvious watching that show why Tony Soprano was the character that defined the life of the late actor James Gandolfini. But I recently watched the 2013 movie Enough Said. It's a romantic drama comedy that he stars in opposite Julia Louis Dreyfus, and he's great in it. He's soft and vulnerable and a little goofy, nothing like the ominous figure he casts as Tony Soprano. It made me really appreciate what a skilled and varied actor he was, which is the point of the new book. Jim, Tony and the Life of a Legend by Jason Bailey. Up ahead, Bailey talks to npr. Scott Simon about some key early moments in Gandolfini's life that turned him into the actor he became.
Scott Simon
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Jason Bailey
Tony Soprano in the HBO series for six seasons ending in 2007. And the Sopranos was considered an instant classic. The New Jersey mob family headed by a boss who had to fret about rival mobs, FBI stings, as well as his own family, all while dealing with growing older and his crime family scrambling to survive. He tried to work through some of that with his therapist, played by Lorraine Bracco.
Tony Soprano
You know where I was yesterday when you called?
Scott Simon
Hello?
Tony Soprano
I was outside a house. Well, a guy that works for me was inside beating the out of a guy that owes me money, broke his arm, put a bullet in his kneecap. How'd that make you feel? Wish there was me in there.
Jason Bailey
James Gandolfini, who was acclaimed as the Marlon Brando of television, at times struggled with that tough guy Persona and the glare of celebrity. He died in 2013 at the age of 51. Jason Bailey, the film critic and historian, has written a new book, Jim, Tony and the Life of a Legend. He joins us from our studios in New York. Thanks so much for being with us.
Thank you so much for having me. It's a real pleasure.
What made you Say to yourself, this was a life and talent that needs their story to be told.
I felt like he was such an enormous talent. He was an actor of such tremendous skill, but was also an actor of incredible range, which I don't think people talk about as much. You know, Tony Soprano and the Sopranos had such an outsized influence and sort of cast such a giant shadow over television and over popular culture in general. That Tony Soprano is what everyone thinks of when they think of James Gandolfini. And I understand why that is, But I felt like his story was one of, first of all, of a working class actor who considered himself a character actor and aimed only to be that, and was sort of became an unlikely star, which I think is always of interest to people who struggled after that show ended to continue to grow as an artist in spite of sort of the box that that show put him in, which I think is fascinating. And more than anything, I just. I would hear these stories mostly after his passing from friends, from colleagues of his tremendous character, of his personal generosity and kindness. And I certainly was fascinated by the sort of incongruity between that and the Persona of his most famous character.
He really was a Jersey guy, wasn't he?
Yeah, he was not far at all removed from his Italian roots. Very much a working class background. You know, his father was a bricklayer when he was younger. And I think that background is really important. Understanding who he was as an actor and who he was as a person.
He was a part time bartender and a student at Rutgers, and his girlfriend, yeah, Lynne Marie Jacobson, died in a car crash. Do you think this kind of changed direction in his life?
It did. He talked about it only on a couple of occasions, but one of them was one of his Emmy acceptance speeches. He thanked her, he dedicated the award to her and said, she made me want to be an actor. And what he meant by that was, you know, he had tinkered with acting on stage as a high school student and loved it. But, you know, he was a working class guy and the arts is not something you go into. And when he went to Rutgers, he did advantage of their wonderful theater program. He studied, you know, communications and journalism so he could get, like a real job. And I think losing someone he cared for so deeply really sort of reconfigured his priorities in terms of the kind of life he wanted to live and realizing that he did want to be an artist and that it was okay to pursue that.
He got some early notices, especially in a production with Alec Baldwin, of A Streetcar Named Desire. But he was not a marquee name when he auditioned for the role of Tony Soprano, was he?
He was not. He had carved out a very nice space for himself as a character actor in the 1990s, you know, starting with Tony Scott's True Romance. You know, it's a small role, but he has one incredibly memorable scene and just kind of a big monologue as a Quentin Tarantino screenplay. And so throughout the 90s, he would pop up in small but memorable supporting roles. And I think that's the kind of actor that he saw himself.
What do you think he came to see in Tony Soprano?
I think Tony's vulnerability is a huge piece of why that character was one that he could relate to. A lot of the tough guys that he had played up until then had been sort of one dimensional stereotypes, basically, which was what he was trying to avoid. But what made Tony Soprano compelling to him as an actor was the same thing that made him compelling to us as an audience, which was that he had all of these multitudes, that he had sensitivity, vulnerability, weakness. And also, I think part of the reason why we found his performance so compelling was a lot of those same contradictions existed within him.
There came a time when he held out for a pay raise after the show became a success.
Yes.
But it was extraordinary how he spread it around.
It became sort of the talk of the tabloids at the time. And the thing you have to understand about the Sopranos, especially for, you know, east coast media, was that at its height, there was no story about the Sopranos that was too small for coverage. He felt that the kind of money that other actors were getting on network shows for, frankly, a lot less work than he was doing, those salaries had grown so large at that time. He was generating so much money for hbo. So he and his team saw that he was in kind of a power position and renegotiated and got a nice salary bump. And then when he went back to set, he. He called each of the supporting players for the show into his trailer one by one, handed them each a check for $36,000 and said, thanks for standing by me.
What was happening when there came a time when James Gandolfini didn't show up for work?
The thing you have to understand about him and this show was that this was a level of fame that he had never wanted, had never anticipated. It was sort of a public pressure that he was not prepared for. And there got to be some days where he just didn't come to work. He would often warn people he would say, I'm not coming in tomorrow. I spoke to a lot of the cast and crew about this. There isn't really a consensus because there would be different reasons. Sometimes it was just all of the work had gotten to him. Sometimes there was a really difficult scene that he didn't feel like he was ready for. Sometimes he just had been out all weekend and it was Monday morning and he'd had a heavy weekend and he just couldn't make it in. He also was wrestling with what nearly every person I talked to classified as demons. You know, that there were demons of addiction, there were demons of self doubt and of sort of succumbing to that pressure. And that was his coping mechanism. But what's fascinating about any of the sort of issues that you hear about is that they would all tell me those things, but not one of them would badmouth him in any way.
You venture to guess what James Gandolfini would think about your book if he were still with us today.
This was something I was told by Robert Eiler, who played Anthony Jr. On the show, that, you know, one of the constants throughout all of the interviews, everyone who knew him, was that Jim couldn't take a compliment. And so Mr. Eyler believes that Mr. Gandolfini would actually not care for the book at all because he would get very tired of people saying nice things about him in print that he would find it quite tiresome. And you know what? That's a criticism that I'll that I'll respect.
Jason Bailey, his new book, Jim, Tony and the Life of a Legend. Thanks so much for being with us.
Thank you again for having me.
Andrew Limbong
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Episode Title: A New Biography Tells the Twin Stories of James Gandolfini and Tony Soprano
Release Date: May 15, 2025
Host: Andrew Limbong
Guest: Jason Bailey, Author of Jim, Tony and the Life of a Legend
Duration: Approximately 10 minutes
Andrew Limbong opens the episode by highlighting the multifaceted talent of James Gandolfini, best known for his iconic role as Tony Soprano in HBO's The Sopranos. He introduces Jason Bailey’s new biography, Jim, Tony and the Life of a Legend, which delves into Gandolfini's personal life and his portrayal of Tony Soprano, offering listeners a deeper understanding of the man behind the legend.
Andrew Limbong [00:02]: "I think it's very obvious watching that show why Tony Soprano was the character that defined the life of the late actor James Gandolfini."
Jason Bailey discusses the impetus behind writing the biography, emphasizing Gandolfini's range as an actor and his struggles with the overwhelming fame that came with portraying Tony Soprano.
Jason Bailey [02:40]: "I felt like he was such an enormous talent. He was an actor of such tremendous skill, but was also an actor of incredible range, which I don't think people talk about as much."
Bailey highlights how Gandolfini navigated his identity as a character actor, striving to maintain his craft beyond the shadow of The Sopranos.
The conversation delves into Gandolfini's early life, touching on his working-class roots and personal tragedies, such as the death of his girlfriend, Lynne Marie Jacobson, which profoundly influenced his career choices.
Jason Bailey [04:27]: "He talked about it only on a couple of occasions, but one of them was one of his Emmy acceptance speeches. He thanked her, he dedicated the award to her and said, she made me want to be an actor."
Bailey explains how this personal loss propelled Gandolfini to fully commit to his acting career, leveraging Rutgers' theater program to hone his skills.
Bailey provides insights into Gandolfini’s casting as Tony Soprano, noting that he was not a household name prior to the role but had built a solid reputation through memorable supporting roles in the 1990s.
Jason Bailey [05:24]: "He was not a marquee name when he auditioned for the role of Tony Soprano."
Gandolfini's embodiment of Tony Soprano is credited to his ability to infuse the character with vulnerability and complexity, distinguishing him from stereotypical tough-guy roles.
Jason Bailey [05:54]: "I think Tony's vulnerability is a huge piece of why that character was one that he could relate to."
The biography also sheds light on Gandolfini's generosity towards his cast and crew, as well as his personal struggles with fame and the pressures of his role.
Jason Bailey [06:32]: "He called each of the supporting players for the show into his trailer one by one, handed them each a check for $36,000 and said, thanks for standing by me."
Bailey recounts instances when Gandolfini faced the overwhelming nature of fame, sometimes leading to him not showing up for work, a testament to his internal battles despite his outward generosity and kindness.
Jason Bailey [07:36]: "He also was wrestling with what nearly every person I talked to classified as demons. You know, that there were demons of addiction, there were demons of self doubt and of sort of succumbing to that pressure."
In discussing Gandolfini's legacy, Bailey reflects on how those who knew him remember his humility and reluctance to accept praise, suggesting that Gandolfini might not have been comfortable with the accolades the biography received.
Jason Bailey [08:52]: "Mr. Gandolfini would actually not care for the book at all because he would get very tired of people saying nice things about him in print that he would find it quite tiresome."
Bailey emphasizes the importance of portraying Gandolfini’s true self, beyond the formidable persona of Tony Soprano, highlighting his personal generosity and the profound impact he had on those around him.
The episode concludes with a brief promotion of NPR's Book of the Day Plus service, encouraging listeners to support NPR and access ad-free episodes.
Andrew Limbong [00:02]: "I think it's very obvious watching that show why Tony Soprano was the character that defined the life of the late actor James Gandolfini."
Jason Bailey [02:40]: "I felt like he was such an enormous talent. He was an actor of such tremendous skill, but was also an actor of incredible range, which I don't think people talk about as much."
Jason Bailey [05:24]: "He was not a marquee name when he auditioned for the role of Tony Soprano."
Jason Bailey [08:52]: "Mr. Gandolfini would actually not care for the book at all because he would get very tired of people saying nice things about him in print that he would find it quite tiresome."
Jason Bailey’s Jim, Tony and the Life of a Legend offers a comprehensive look at James Gandolfini's life, balancing his immense talent and the profound influence of his most famous role with his personal struggles and generous spirit. This biography serves as a testament to Gandolfini’s enduring legacy both on and off the screen, providing fans and new audiences alike with a nuanced perspective of the beloved actor.