Meredith recaps The Real Housewives of New Jersey Season 4 Reunion Part 1 (Episode 21), noting it was filmed a full year after the season events, leaving the cast unusually angry. She explains typical Housewives filming/reunion timing, then breaks down reunion highlights: the seating arrangement; ongoing “strippergate” blame and claims it was a production-driven “nothing burger”; Jacqueline’s absence from the prior reunion and her allegation she has a recording of Teresa asking her to expose Melissa as a stripper; Caroline and Jacqueline’s constant digs at Teresa; Jacqueline revealing son Nicholas’s autism diagnosis and her decision to go public via People; Caroline addressing viewer backlash and Lauren’s lap-band surgery; escalating magazine/blog and family feuds; and a blowup between Teresa and Kathy that ends with Rosie screaming backstage after Teresa mentions Kathy’s father.

00:00 Reunion Setup

01:00 How Filming Works

05:17 Why Everyone's Furious

06:13 Strippergate Perspective

11:02 Mediator Cast Roles

12:35 Reunion Seating Shade

18:19 Jacqueline Skips Reunion

20:21 Setup Accusations Explode

23:20 Birthday Party Fallout

25:59 Teresa Justified Anger

31:47 Jacqueline Segment Begins

35:16 Nicholas Autism Reveal

39:19 Vaccines Myth Rant

40:56 Personal Early Intervention

42:25 Jacqueline Turns on Teresa

43:15 RV Eavesdropping Fallout

44:59 Breaking the Fourth Wall

46:26 Going to Hell Rant

47:53 Called Into Work

48:51 Caroline Gets Dragged

51:09 Lauren Lap Band Reveal

52:36 Online Cruelty and Empathy

59:32 Teresa vs Manzos Explodes

01:03:11 Napalm Ghostwriter Gotcha

01:04:33 Teresa Apology and Weave Fight

01:07:36 Kathy and Richie Clash

01:11:22 Parents Insults and Rosie Rage

01:14:34 Why the Family Imploded

01:16:17 Wrap Up and Next Reunion

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