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Your brain measures engagement. The more you engage in your OCD thoughts, the stronger those specific thoughts are going to become and the more new similar thoughts you're going to get. So your engagement is what the brain measures, what thoughts are important and what thoughts are not. So if you're asking yourself why am I getting these specific OCD thoughts? It's because you are engaging in RA reaction, in solving, in doing compulsions connected to these thoughts. If you view them as nothing, even though it's difficult for you right now, if you choose to view them as nothing, over time the brain will send less of them because you're showing non engagement, not importance. Your brain doesn't want to send useless information. It doesn't want to give you resources that are unnecessary. It wants to utilize what is necessary. So show your brain that this is unnecessary through non engagement. Emergency session is available. The link is in the description.
Host: Ali Greymond
Date: February 16, 2026
In this focused episode, Ali Greymond discusses a core concept in the path to full OCD recovery: your brain’s method of measuring engagement with intrusive thoughts. She explains how the mind selects which thoughts to promote based on your reactions, and outlines practical strategies to weaken obsessive-compulsive patterns by demonstrating non-engagement.
Brain as a Filter:
Ali explains that the brain “measures engagement” with thoughts. When you repeatedly engage—by ruminating, reacting anxiously, or performing compulsions—your brain flags these thoughts as “important” and brings similar ones to you again.
“The more you engage in your OCD thoughts, the stronger those specific thoughts are going to become and the more new similar thoughts you’re going to get.” (00:01)
Engagement vs. Non-Engagement:
Reacting, solving, and performing compulsions only reinforce these intrusive thoughts, teaching the brain to keep sending them.
Active Choice in Response:
Ali makes it clear that while it can be incredibly difficult at first, learning to “view them as nothing”—even when it doesn’t feel true—sends a powerful message to the brain.
“If you view them as nothing, even though it’s difficult for you right now, if you choose to view them as nothing, over time the brain will send less of them because you’re showing non engagement, not importance.” (00:13)
Natural Brain Efficiency:
She reassures listeners that the mind does not want to waste resources on unimportant thoughts.
“Your brain doesn’t want to send useless information. It doesn’t want to give you resources that are unnecessary. It wants to utilize what is necessary. So show your brain that this is unnecessary through non engagement.” (00:28)
Ali on the consequence of engagement:
“If you’re asking yourself why am I getting these specific OCD thoughts? It’s because you are engaging in RA reaction, in solving, in doing compulsions connected to these thoughts.” (00:08)
Ali on re-training your brain:
“Show your brain that this is unnecessary through non engagement.” (00:30)
Ali Greymond’s tone is direct, practical, and encouraging, emphasizing that non-engagement is a skill that must be practiced consistently. The episode serves as a concise motivational guide for listeners seeking actionable steps towards full OCD recovery.
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