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Being too critical about the things your partner does, unknowingly, makes you the toxic person in the relationship. When you get the same treatment from your partner, you often feel unappreciated and unloved without realizing that you’ve been doing the same thing to them. As this cycle continues, the foundation crumbles and the relationship inevitably fails.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains the mistakes we often make in our relationship and how we should be mindful of our actions to strengthen it.

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Key Takeaways:

00:00 Intro
01:47 The common relationship mistakes we make
03:53 Mistake #1: Being too critical to our partner
07:42 Instead of criticizing, get creative in removing complaints
09:42 Mistake #2: When jokes go too far
14:57 Mistake #3: We become deflective, we become defensive
17:35 Mistake #4: Disconnecting or becoming aloof
19:41 Mistake #5: You focus on the value displayed in the moment
22:13 Mistake #6: Our partners aren’t our coaches

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