In every relationship we have, we often set expectations. When these expectations aren’t met, we feel unloved and uncared for. And sometimes, we feel that it’s not working and that it isn’t true love.

What we fail to realize is that our expectations are based on our standards, our own ideals, our own terms. OURS, not theirs. It’s one sided. We want the other person to meet our standards, ideals, and goals; but we never consider THEIR own expectations of us.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty explains why setting unrealistic expectations only leads to a failure in your relationship and builds up your insecurities.

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Key Takeaways:

01:34 What are your expectations when you’re in a relationship?
03:45 Expectation #1: We create a list of expectations that we will find
07:07 The three G’s: Goal, Growth, Gratitude
11:20 Expectation #2: Our partner should be perfect
15:50 Expectation #3: Expecting your partner to make you happy
18:56 Expectation #4: Our partners can read our mind
22:20 Expectation #5: Know how to do things we usually do that we’ve never explained
25:33 Expectation #6: Have it all together all the time
27:38 Expectation #7: Our partner want the same things we want
30:03 Expectation #8: Our partner should understand us immediately

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