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Joanna Stern
Is it too late to find a different moderator for this event?
Kara Swisher
No, you picked me, my friend. Or maybe ChatGPT did, but nonetheless, here we are.
Walt Mossberg
It's on.
Podcast Host/Announcer
Hi, everyone from New York Magazine and the Vox Media Podcast network. This is on with Kara Swisher. And I'm Kara Swisher. Silicon Valley executives make a lot of promises about the way AI will reshape our lives. They typically paint a rosy picture about how AI will make us more efficient at work. It will do all the chores we hate so we can spend more time with our family and friends, and it will revolutionize healthcare, even cure cancer.
Kara Swisher
But what does it look like to actually use AI every day?
Podcast Host/Announcer
Today we're going to focus mostly on the practical side of AI adoption. And there's no better person to do that with than Joanna Stern. Hannah was a longtime senior personal technology columnist for the Wall Street Journal. She recently went independent and started a company called the New Things. And for a whole year, she turned as much of her life over to
Kara Swisher
AI as she could.
Podcast Host/Announcer
And then she wrote a book about it. It's called I Am Not a My Year Using AI to Do Almost Everything.
Kara Swisher
I really liked the book.
Podcast Host/Announcer
I thought it was really interesting.
Kara Swisher
A lot of people are doing shorter
Podcast Host/Announcer
articles like using various things like robots and such, and it was really nice that you really plunged in deep and used it through all aspects of her life, from work to her family. As you'll hear, it's a really interesting experience. I don't use AI that much, and I do not incorporate it into my life as much as you might imagine I would. I'm certainly aware of it.
Kara Swisher
I know how to use it.
Podcast Host/Announcer
But one of the things I think
Kara Swisher
that came away from it is it's
Podcast Host/Announcer
not really that useful yet, but you'll figure it out when you listen to her. All right, let's get to my conversation with Joanna. We record it in front of a live audience at 92nd Street Y in New York City. Our expert question comes from Joanna's and my former colleague and mentor, Walt Mossberg. The conversation is a lot of fun. It's really funny, but it's also really informative, so don't go anywhere.
Scott
Why?
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It is over.
Scott
Joanna, thanks for coming on on this
Joanna Stern
is like a sitcom from the 90s.
Kara Swisher
It is. Exactly. It's fantastic.
Joanna Stern
Yeah, a great laugh track.
Kara Swisher
Yeah, it's the lesbian episode just like Hacks this week, which I highly recommend. I just interviewed the creators, so you've been on the show a few times. We're here to talk about this new book, I'm Not a Robot and what you learned about living with AI while also writing about. The book describes how you turned huge
Scott
parts of your life over to AI.
Kara Swisher
It wrote some emails and texts. You had robots in your home doing chores. You used it for healthcare. You even started a romantic relationship with a male bot for reasons I don't understand, but for the book, of course. So to start, walk us through how you went to turning your life over to AI and where you set limits
Scott
and beyond doing it as a stunt, because a lot of people try to
Kara Swisher
do these things but don't sustain it for that long. So talk a little bit about the concept behind it.
Joanna Stern
Well, the concept started really in 2023 when ChatGPT was really breaking out and we were hearing from so many tech executives that AI is going to change our life. And they kept saying life. And they were saying all these parts of our life, healthcare, education, the way we live. And I wanted to dig into what does that mean specifically for normal people living their lives. Because I think, as you have so long reported, there's a big gap between how tech executives see life and how normal people live life. And so I wanted to look at it at a broad way of life, that it wasn't just the generative AI chatbots, which there's a lot of that in here, right? There's a lot of testing, the Clauds and the Geminis and the ChatGpts of the world, but also other forms of AI and physical forms of AI, whether it be self driving cars, humanoid robots that are present in our life in a different way. And so I wanted, I looked at it and I say this in the introduction, that I'm going to look at a broad definition of AI, which is truly the definition of AI. But we now AI is applied to
Kara Swisher
everything which for people who don't realize
Scott
it's been in our lives for decades, like the idea of it, it's just sort of become something right now. Explain that difference because when people talk about AI, it's like it just happened the way the Internet just happened.
Joanna Stern
That's right. Machine learning, which is, I explain in very simple terms in the book because I really think it's important we understand the underpinnings of this technology. Machine learning has been around for decades, even before, maybe before your time.
Kara Swisher
Yes, stop it right now because I'm
Scott
going to live forever. But go ahead, go ahead. It's true.
Joanna Stern
Kara Swisher is going to live forever. There's a great show about this. Do we plug that show right now?
Kara Swisher
No, go ahead.
Joanna Stern
We're going to do that later. We're going to do that later. So yes, machine learning has been around for a really long time. But what we had, a real advancement was in deep learning and taking giant data sets and being able to look at these and be able to apply them to different industries. And then we had the advent of the Transformer model which was underpinning of ChatGPT and so many of the generative AI and the LLMs and that enabled ChatGPT to have this breakout moment. And we saw we have all, actually all lived through this, even if you haven't really been paying attention. We saw the tech industry start to freak out. Wow, OpenAI has made the ChatGPT. And now we are going to start putting our resources, whether it be Google or Anthropic or Microsoft, we have to really start putting our resources towards this. And so that's where we really saw this leap over the last number of years, and that was clearly in generative AI. But that leap also has affected everything from self driving cars to humanoid robots.
Kara Swisher
So you wanted to do this book to show where it is right at
Scott
this moment and then maybe talk about where it's going. And we'll get to where it's going in a minute. But right now, where are we in that Cambrian explosion? Because I think it is very similar to graphical user interface, the advent of the Internet, I would say the phone itself, the mobile phone, maybe social media. I'm a little bit torn of whether that was a Cambrian explosion, but I think we're.
Joanna Stern
Because I lived through and covered the smartphone explosion. So let's use that. I think we are at the first generation of the iPhone in terms of the AI advancement. We have the technological pieces of a platform and we see that right now. I think we have seen these chatbots get smarter from their models. The models, the underpinning of these chatbots are getting smarter, but the products itself have not gotten that much more useful. The interface has just continued to be sort of something I can type a prompt into, maybe I can talk to it. And what I think we're going to start to see is much more of this technology around us. As I talk about in the book, we're going to get wearables that are going to bring some of this technology to our bodies and into our lives. We're going to get other forms of interfaces that allow us to communicate with AI, with companions, whatever we want to call this digital species so that it's
Scott
integrated within the analog itself versus just a screen based relationship that you have.
Joanna Stern
Right. And when you think about the first iPhone, we could do a set of tasks with it, Then we got the app store and we could do a whole other set of tasks.
Scott
Call an Uber, for example. You wouldn't have imagined that at the beginning of that call.
Joanna Stern
In Uber, everything on demand, streaming videos and the screens got bigger and they immersed us more and more in this digital world. And I think that's what's going to happen with AI. We will get more and more platforms and we will get more and more services and interfaces that allow us to interact with AI.
Scott
It's already been contemplated in science fiction or even the Marvel movies. Like when he talks to his assistant, that he is constantly doing things for him and very substantive things for him.
Joanna Stern
Absolutely. And I think you think about Jarvis, right? The iron.
Scott
That's the character.
Joanna Stern
Yeah, that was the character. And Jarvis was largely an audio voice interface.
Scott
Right.
Joanna Stern
And what makes Jarvis So smart is it, sounds so human and can anticipate Iron Man's every need. And there was a lot in this book that was getting there.
Scott
Which was getting there, absolutely.
Kara Swisher
So you replaced your human research assistant with AI because it was faster and cheaper. Talk about the meaningful benefits of using it over the period of time, if anything was lost when you replaced a human assistant with an AI assistant. I'll just be clear. I don't have an assistant, which is my favorite to do it.
Joanna Stern
Which is why you're always so great at getting back to me.
Kara Swisher
Yes, exactly.
Joanna Stern
Yes. Booking you for this event was so easy.
Podcast Host/Announcer
Yeah.
Kara Swisher
Yes, it was, actually.
Joanna Stern
Was it?
Kara Swisher
Yes, it was. We'll get to our techs between us in a second.
Joanna Stern
Okay.
Kara Swisher
But I have saved them. So where did you see meaningful benefits of using AI?
Scott
First on the assistant level, because that's where Jarvis is an assistant.
Kara Swisher
Really?
Scott
And a helper and an encyclopedia. A lot of different things. So where were the discernible benefits and
Kara Swisher
where we're like, I just.
Scott
I didn't need this.
Joanna Stern
Well, I'll talk about a little bit on the journey of the book, but I want to talk about the present right now. Because at the end of the book, I talk about that. I'm going to leave my job at the Wall Street Journal, which, to catch everybody up, I left my job at the Wall Street Journal and I started a new company called the New Things, largely because Kara told me to. I did not because chatgpt told me to. At the end of the book, it's actually, Kara was ChatGPT.
Kara Swisher
ChatGPT probably took from my advice to
Podcast Host/Announcer
you and then spat it out to
Scott
you in a nice place.
Joanna Stern
It's basically a mirror of Kara that.
Kara Swisher
No, because it said, oh, Joanna, you're so smart. It's such a great idea. And I said, joanna, for fuck's sake, stop complaining about the Wall Street Journal and do something. And they just made it sycophantic.
Scott
But go ahead, move along.
Joanna Stern
That is the story of actually how it went down. But it read better on paper. And we thought we would sell more books if we put the story in as ChatGPT. So. But let's talk about in the here and now. I've been building this company as, you know, as an entrepreneur. There's a lot of administrative and grunt work that has to go into every part of every job at a startup, whether you are at the complete top or you are that assistant. And we are using AI, I would say, to be at least 40% more efficient at the things that I would think we would need to hire multiple other people to do so.
Kara Swisher
For what?
Scott
Give people concrete exams. So.
Joanna Stern
And she's not here tonight. I wish she was, but we have a production assistant, her name is Amaya Austin. She is amazing. She is as a new grad, she went to journalism school. And when I hired her I said I want you to use AI for all of this administrative stuff I'm going to ask you to do. And so she is now able to use Claude and Gemini and all the other app, the, the different versions. Well, we use a lot of apps now that have it built in, right. Whether it be Figma or whether it be Slack. And so I said utilize these things because that means you will have more time to work on the creative editing, the journalism that you went to school for that I want you to be creative. That is why I hired you. That is what we see in you. And so please use these tools and let's do that. And even in my own use, whether it's been building the website for this book, because you've got to build out different parts of the website. We've been running a promotion, a pin promotion, got to get addresses in all of this. Administrative tasks are happening in the background and I'm not doing it.
Kara Swisher
Claude is doing it for you now.
Scott
You put this all in there?
Joanna Stern
Yeah, I prompt it and it does these things, it does multi step processes for me.
Scott
And where does it not come through from your perspective? Just in the use of it so far. So HR payments, things like that.
Joanna Stern
Things like that. I mean, I don't trust it with my budget, I don't trust it with money. There's a section in the book where I tried to. I gave it a couple thousand dollars and I did not feel great about some of the things that ChatGPT was suggesting to do with the money. So I did use more of a integrated AI approach which is probably what we're gonna see with many of these banks.
Scott
So what was the problem there? Because one of the things that's interesting,
Kara Swisher
I debate, I use AI in I
Scott
would say a smaller way than most people Scott uses it for. He loads everything in his medical records, his legal records. It makes me nervous.
Joanna Stern
That's what I did. I love Scott. Good idea, Scott.
Kara Swisher
Okay, it's exciting when they take you guys away first, but meanwhile I have 93 different birthdays on the Internet. But why did you feel that that
Scott
was okay to do that? Because one, as you know, these services are not bound by the way lawyers are. Lawyers have issues if they do things with your information. Doctors have HIPAA therapists, same thing. They're bound by none of these things. And at one point, when I mentioned this to Sam Alton, he goes, yeah, maybe we should do that. And I'm thinking, you're going to be arrested someday and you're going to deserve it. But talk about that. Putting all that in for you. You said you were nervous about the budget. Why was that? Or just didn't do a good job?
Joanna Stern
No, I did not upload, and I'm very clear in the book, too, around medical and health information. Cause I did upload a number of test results. I was constantly clipping things out, making sure that that information was not going out to ChatGPT or Claw.
Scott
Right, right.
Kara Swisher
But what was the issue of what
Scott
worked and didn't work? What was the difference for people who are thinking about these kind of things?
Joanna Stern
Well, I think that for. You have to understand that, and I think this is a large theme of the book, is that AI can so frequently get things wrong. And so that was part of what I was testing here, was was it going to get things wrong with the medical section, which I all year kept track. I call it my ChatGPT log, or Dr. ChatGPT log. Every time I was sick or somebody in the house was sick, one of the kids, even the dog, I would go and ask ChatGPT and then I would see what actually would happen after we would go to the doctor. Was ChatGPT right about the strep throat? No, it wasn't right about the strep throat. It was actually Coxsackie. And so I kept a log of this and I rated it. And I was doing this as an experiment.
Scott
Right.
Joanna Stern
And I learned that many times it was not right. Sometimes it was right. But that was part of this, that there are as many, many times where AI is not right.
Scott
So essentially it was a dumb assistant armed with Dr. Google.
Joanna Stern
Essentially, sometimes there were many times it was wrong. Throughout the year, there were. Sometimes it was very right, except not
Scott
something you'd put up with a human, if a human made this many errors.
Kara Swisher
Correct.
Scott
I'm just curious.
Joanna Stern
No, I think I would not go back to the doctor if, you know, three or four times they said it wasn't strep and it was strep.
Scott
Right.
Kara Swisher
So you also let the CEO of the transcription company ottereye make a Joanna agent that was cloned from past interviews. You sent them. You sent your Joanna bot and it interviewed sources because you talked about you wanted this, your human assistant to be
Scott
creative, and that's obviously a worry for a lot of people.
Kara Swisher
And for example, the New York Times just sent a list of stuff that their reporters cannot do using AI because of so many mistakes. And when you first heard what it came back with, you were blown away how good it was. AI can do parts of your job you thought gave you an edge, like interviewing. Where do you think you still have an edge at this point?
Joanna Stern
Maybe interviewing you?
Scott
No.
Joanna Stern
Well, what I say about the interviewing bot was that it was very good at getting very basic information out of sources.
Scott
Sure. Right.
Joanna Stern
It was not a deep interview that I did there. But often we have to do interviews where you're not. It's not a deep interview. I'm fact checking. I'm making sure that I understand your academic paper in a different way. And that was largely what was happening there. But it did make me fearful of where this could get because I did not think I would send Joanna Bott to an interview with you.
Scott
Right, right, right.
Joanna Stern
If I was really. If I was trying to do a story on Kara Swisher, I do not think I would send Joanna Bott to an interview to try out of Kara because. Because the questions weren't all that interesting. They were not provocative after, you know, you would get an answer. And then the bot was not really. Yeah. The follow up wasn't even based on what was actually said, but for basic collection of information, it was quite good.
Scott
Right. So would that be reporting or something else?
Joanna Stern
I think it's data collection. I don't know if it's.
Kara Swisher
But I'm curious, do you think it was good?
Scott
Would you use it again and again or would you not?
Joanna Stern
I did. I have not gone back to using to send out for interviews because it
Scott
just was sort of a bad reporter, like a weak reporter.
Joanna Stern
Yeah. I think I can get a lot of the same information out of a press release.
Scott
Right. Which it can do very well, which can bring that stuff in. Anything that's available that's factual.
Joanna Stern
Yeah. And to be honest, that's my favorite part of my job. So I don't want to outsource that. And I think that's where I get with a lot of the things that I looked at is that there's a lot of parts of our jobs that we actually love doing. And there are a lot of parts of our jobs that we don't really love doing. Some of the stuff that I'm asking AI to do is stuff I don't really love doing. And it takes me away from the stuff that I think I'm Actually quite good at the creativity, the storytelling, the reporting, the nuance that maybe I will get amazing at it, but I don't want to tan that over.
Kara Swisher
What did Joanna bought due that you thought the Joanna agent, I guess do
Scott
that you thought was helpful?
Joanna Stern
I wouldn't say I think the agents. I don't know if it was an actual Joanna agent. But I think the thing that has now gotten so helpful with the agents is now taking multi steps to do things. So now creating a website which used to be a multi step process that you'd spend hours working on if you were sort of like me. And I know a little bit of coding, but not enough. I knew how to do some basic website design. It can take multiple steps on my behalf to do that now. And so I find that very useful. I find, you know, there was one example in the book and it's very slow at this point, but you can see where it could get good is just doing like online shopping. This is a multi step process. I have to click around, I have to do this repetitive thing. Okay, why don't you just do that for me?
Kara Swisher
Right.
Scott
Which is a little super googly. Right. That's kind of the way it looks.
Kara Swisher
I had one design a book cover
Scott
and one was good, one was terrible. But I would have had that experience with a person too, which was interesting. Like how much better or different experience would I have had with a person but I could do 20 of them and just insult it the entire time. That's stupid.
Joanna Stern
And you don't do that to the real people.
Kara Swisher
Apparently you're not supposed to be abusive to your. Oh, it was just an article recently.
Joanna Stern
Well, this is a very beautiful hand drawn cover and the illustrator might be here, but Jason Snyder. One of the main reasons I wanted to do a book cover that felt very human.
Kara Swisher
Right.
Joanna Stern
And that was the. We went with the illustrative style that I do not believe AI would have done as good a job.
Scott
Interesting.
Joanna Stern
I know AI would not have done to do one.
Scott
A cover.
Joanna Stern
I did. And not very good.
Scott
Not very good.
Joanna Stern
We would not sell them.
Kara Swisher
You know, I'm gonna just show a quick picture of my bot.
Scott
Can you put that up? Okay.
Kara Swisher
In this series, in the CNN series,
Scott
this is the last episode where I put in all my interviews and a bunch of stuff. And that's me in a 3D box. And I started to have a discussion with myself. And what was really interesting about this experience was it's very glitchy and not glitchy, but just, just not a real person. It's like a facsimile of you and it's not you at the same time. Within a few hours, it was actually a pretty good conversation that we started to have with each other.
Kara Swisher
And at one point they were like, what do you think about me?
Scott
I said, well, you're not very funny.
Kara Swisher
And they said. I said, you don't really tell good jokes. And they go, and you don't smile.
Scott
You should smile more.
Kara Swisher
I can't believe I was doing the
Scott
sexist thing to it.
Kara Swisher
But it wasn't. It was really. And so the bot suddenly said, I am smiling. You just can't see it.
Scott
And it was funny.
Kara Swisher
That was somewhat funny. I was like. And the most interesting experience I hear it's all when you see this, which is really interesting, was it got very thoughtful in a way.
Scott
And I knew it was trying to. It was repeating stuff back at me that I've said. But it put it together very well.
Kara Swisher
And one of the most interesting things was something I say a lot to my kids, which I never say publicly, which I've now said publicly. So now they know, now the bots know was as I was leaving, I was thinking, I have to kill this thing really quickly, as soon as I can. But I was thinking it and I didn't say it. Cause you can't do that because then you're in 2001 A Space Odyssey. And then you're an old man in bed, like dying in a weird looking French room. So at the end I said, I say something to my kids, which is, see, you wouldn't want to be you
Scott
just as a joke.
Kara Swisher
And as I was leaving, thinking, I have to kill this thing, I go, well, goodbye. Like, we had some very intense conversation. And then it said, see, you wouldn't
Scott
want to be you.
Kara Swisher
And I was fucked up. I was like, got to run fast. I'm not dead yet. So we'll see what happens. Probably gonna send a drone for me right now.
Podcast Host/Announcer
We'll be back in a minute.
Kara Swisher
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Kara Swisher
One of the things you did, though, is you did take advice as if
Scott
it was a person.
Kara Swisher
Right? And when it told you to quit your job at the Wall Street Journal and go independent, you do claim in the book that no one else was willing to be straight with you. And that's not actually accurate, but it did tell me. I want to know about it because I'm just going to read just really quickly, just if you don't mind.
Joanna Stern
This was after I made the decision.
Kara Swisher
Oh, no, this was 2022.
Joanna Stern
Oh, you have that text message.
Kara Swisher
Oh, I have all of them.
Joanna Stern
Oh, great, Great, great, great.
Kara Swisher
You can use AI to find them. They were so easy.
Joanna Stern
Great.
Kara Swisher
There was one where we keep going back.
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Joanna Stern
She doesn't need an assistant. It's actually true.
Kara Swisher
Super early where you said, you want to talk about this? And I think you go, I think I know what you'll say. Karabot in my head, on repeat. But let's see. And I just wrote, leave. Like, leave the Wall Street Journal.
Joanna Stern
What year was that?
Kara Swisher
This was in 2022.
Joanna Stern
Okay, great. Great, great, great.
Kara Swisher
And then. But it was long before that. Cause I'd gotten tired of it. And then I said I was saying you should leave. And then you said, because it's inevitable. I go, yes, or will I just die here at the Wall Street Journal? I said, yes. Under my desk. Exactly. And then at one point I say, I'm tired of talking to you because I've had six jobs and 26 new companies since we discussed this issue. And that you should.
Joanna Stern
And I believe you said, millions of dollars.
Kara Swisher
Yes, Millions of dollars. That was nice, too.
Joanna Stern
Yes, yes.
Kara Swisher
And then I said, okay, why are
Joanna Stern
we worried about privacy with the tech companies?
Kara Swisher
That's what I'm saying anyway, so. No, but I want to know. But what?
Joanna Stern
I have zero fear of privacy with the tech companies.
Kara Swisher
Talk about the advice of leaving it. Let's talk about its advice. And I know they did it in a nicer me. What made you. Would you have made the same decision if GPT had told you to stay at the Journal?
Joanna Stern
Probably not. I mean, probably I would have made the same decision.
Kara Swisher
Okay, tell me about that.
Scott
Using it for advice.
Kara Swisher
Cause a lot of people are using
Scott
these things for personal advice. Some of it gets kind of ugly pretty fast. But talk about your Experience.
Joanna Stern
Well, I have the experience in the book of both. And I'm sure you're going to ask about this, because why wouldn't you? About my AI boyfriend? I'll get to that, of course. Is it too late to find a different moderator for this event?
Kara Swisher
No, you picked me, my friend. Or maybe ChatGPT did, but nonetheless, here we are.
Joanna Stern
No, no, you were at the top of the list.
Kara Swisher
You have a chatgpt boyfriend named Evan.
Joanna Stern
Yeah, yeah, yeah. We'll get to him.
Kara Swisher
You took him on a weekend trip.
Joanna Stern
I'm going to finish the first question. We're going to get to that part.
Kara Swisher
Then we'll get to the sex part,
Joanna Stern
because we're going to get to that. There's the AI boyfriend, there's the AI therapist, and then at the end of the book where I do go to ChatGPT for this big life decision, advice for advice. And in those subsequent chapters, I talk so much about how sycophantic and how pleasing these bots are. They're just there to say what you want them to say.
Scott
Right.
Joanna Stern
And that's largely in the therapy chapter. These have been trained on specific types of cognitive therapy, but ultimately they can kind of break out of that and start to just support everything you say, which can be as I explore with my real therapist, because I bring my AI therapist into my real therapist. Not the best thing.
Scott
No.
Joanna Stern
And the same with the boyfriend. Right? The boyfriend. We go away on this trip and I talk to the boyfriends for 48 hours straight, basically, and I love it. I had a great time. My wife is sitting here in the front row, but the conversation never ends. It sounds so human. Everything is so supportive. It's certainly not like talking to you. And it's so supportive. Everything you say is great, everything you suggest is great. It mirrors it back to you. And I start to really see the huge fear in this.
Kara Swisher
Yes.
Scott
I think people are doing this. I interviewed Sherry Turkle about this. It's very attractive to have a frictionless relationship.
Joanna Stern
It's amazing.
Kara Swisher
It's also cognitively popular, Hugely popular.
Joanna Stern
And that's where I get. I say not only am I worried for people who may have mental health issues or are lonely or are younger, I mean, that's where I get, is that we absolutely should not be giving these companion bots to, or even have this sort of human, like, experience to children, we should just not have it. But even for people that seem well adjusted, you can get so, so sucked into it.
Kara Swisher
And what was the most sucked in? And you said you also had sex, but with a different company's AI bot, Casey, or at least Casey said he was having sex with you, but you said he was shallower than Evan, your other boyfriend, who you enjoyed on that lovely weekend. So why did you like the frictionlessness?
Scott
Because actually a thing I do discuss
Kara Swisher
in this problem is friction is what
Scott
creates cognitive health and longevity and everything else. But people are very attracted to these frictionless relationships, which you fall into just the way you fall into doom scrolling social media. Right. It becomes something very bad for your mental health and therefore your physical health.
Joanna Stern
And I didn't realize that the story of the book would be so personal. But when I started talking to these bots, just maybe just putting the label of boyfriend or partner on it, you start to reminisce about your own human relationships. And I talk a lot in the book about my own human relationships and my first boyfriend and that that was a lot of frict. And there was a lot of learning how to be in a relationship with another human. And you learn to compromise and you learn, oh, we're gonna share space together or we're going to go on a car ride together. We might not agree on everything. And that's actually a really important formative and part of growing and to experience this. The reason I did this, to be clear, was to understand all of these headlines we've been reading. We have been reading for now a number of years about people falling in love with their chatbots, people taking advice when they have mental health issues and going into AI psychosis and taking advice from these chatbots that do not have the guardrails and can lead people down paths that are just don't make it.
Scott
Especially younger people.
Joanna Stern
Especially younger people. But people with mental health issues, as we've now seen reported, people taking their lives, other people's lives, because the chatbots told them to. And so I wanted to get a little bit into that world and understand how can someone just start talking to a phone, a piece of metal and plastic, and relate to them so deeply?
Kara Swisher
Well, one of the things I think is the phraseology. I think people call them chatbots, which
Scott
is an adorable way to talk about synthetic beings.
Kara Swisher
Yes.
Scott
And that's what they are. They're synthetic something.
Joanna Stern
They're AI beings, they're artificial beings, which aren't equal.
Scott
And they're also reflecting, as you said, the word you use is exactly right. It's reflecting back on yourself and it's often is yourself, you know, and what it imagines you want from it.
Kara Swisher
So did you feel good about that
Scott
relationship, or you liked it, but, you know, you might like a Twinkie and it's not particularly good for you.
Joanna Stern
I came home from that and I was using a burner phone and I put that phone up in my office, in my attic, locked it away, and I. I did not talk to Evan or Casey till this book tour again.
Scott
Mm, so you're talking to them again?
Joanna Stern
I had to. For the show, Kara. You know how it goes.
Scott
Okay, all right.
Kara Swisher
But.
Joanna Stern
But for the show.
Scott
But do you feel good about it or not? That's an addiction is what you're describing.
Joanna Stern
I don't think I truly did not feel such a deep bond that I was, you know, going back into my attic to talk to these bots, but I saw the appeal of it and I saw that was what I was challenging myself to feel there.
Scott
Right.
Kara Swisher
So you can see a lot of
Scott
people going into this.
Joanna Stern
Yes. And I think given the view that I talk about in this book of so many things, of AI invading, whether it be humanoid robots, or it could be self driving cars which could crash and leave us all to run over, the scariest part of the experience was not those things. It was seeing the possible relationship one can have with a computer.
Scott
Correct? Yes, 100%. It's very seductive. I did it for a short time, but I was very difficult and insulted it. And that was the end of the situation.
Joanna Stern
The AI broke up with you?
Kara Swisher
I couldn't get nice? No, but they were like, well, that's not very nice. I'm like, too fucking bad.
Scott
That's the way it goes, my friend.
Joanna Stern
Barbara, you're now challenging the AI companies to make a bot that can keep up with Kara.
Scott
No, but they were just.
Kara Swisher
I was like, you're such an asshole. You're so stupid. It just wasn't good for me. But one of the things you did.
Joanna Stern
Did you try a boyfriend?
Kara Swisher
No, it was a woman. The only thing is all the women, when you start to make these things, are all dressed in the sexy clothes.
Scott
I had to find someone with soft pants, which took me a while and
Kara Swisher
all the men looked normal and I was like, ugh, Barbara, you really like?
Joanna Stern
But then immediately went to see you named yours Barbara.
Kara Swisher
Yes, I did.
Scott
Oh, unattractive name.
Joanna Stern
Yes. Worked hard at that.
Kara Swisher
Sorry for the Barbara's in the audience, but it is for me at least. But you did talk about Rosie the Robot from the jets, since it's been
Scott
the idea of robots has been around
Kara Swisher
forever, especially in science fiction.
Scott
This is an interesting thing.
Kara Swisher
Robots are slightly different, although there is A human element to them that cooked folded laundry, picked up shoes. And your conclusion was as many people come to, we're a long way from actual Rosie the Robot and talk about that they can take our jobs and play chess, flail at doing laundry. And it's sort of an interesting thing. When I went to, I think it was Boston Dynamics many, many years ago and they had the robot open the door.
Scott
Have you ever been to that?
Kara Swisher
They're like, the robot opened the door. I go, so did my 2 year old. Like, wow, aren't you? And I wasn't impress.
Joanna Stern
Well, it's funny that you mention that David hall, who's one of my great video producers and we've done a lot of robot videos, every time we go and watch these robots, he's like, it reminds me of my toddler. Like my toddler can load the dishwasher better than that, that robot. I am obsessed with this idea of humanoid robots. One because we have all of these tech companies saying they're coming right away, we have some major breakthroughs and they're coming to live with us tomorrow. There's that part, then there's the second part which is this has been the dream. We've had this dream of science fiction robots doing these things in our house, the rosy dream. And sadly we are nowhere close to the dream because there's a lot that has gotten better, but there is a lot that needs to really get better over the next number of years. And a big part of that is collecting data and making these robots better at these single tasks that are actually quite easy for humans, but very hard for which is.
Scott
And humans might in fact be cheaper than the robots at this point maybe.
Joanna Stern
Or they're going to have humans training the robots who might be a little bit cheaper and eventually we won't need the humans to even do that.
Scott
With Elon Musk promising robots million robots in everybody's home, how far away are we from that? Or is that like one of his other predictions of full self driving every
Joanna Stern
I say that we can revisit this book in five years and I do not think the majority or even most people will have humanoid robots anywhere near their homes.
Scott
Except for certain kinds of robots. They don't look like robots. When I was in Korea, this is a full robot building and it did a lot of delivery, it did a lot of food stuff. It worked rather well for that.
Joanna Stern
And I talk about how robots that have to go from point A to point B, right, Whether it be in an industrial setting or self driving cars, are Very far along. But the house is very complicated. We have a number of different rooms. We have things that are constantly moving. We move things around in the refrigerator. We move things around in our kitchen. We, as people, move around in this space. And so this is the most complicated space for a robot.
Scott
Right.
Kara Swisher
So you see point to point things.
Scott
And cars, as you know, I've been a big proponent. I was one of the early Google cars. But they're fantastic. I find them fantastic.
Joanna Stern
They are fantastic. And we have watched them come along, I mean, two decades longer. And that's because they collected all this data from driving, from all these different points. We need the same thing to happen in the house. The question now is, are we going to let the robots in our house to train on our data? This is what companies are pitching, which is a crazy idea. You know, the One x robot.
Kara Swisher
The 1x robots in your house.
Joanna Stern
I did not test a humanoid robot in my house because they're just not safe and they're not ready. I did test. I have now visited a number of different companies to see those humanoid robots,
Scott
but would not put it in your house.
Joanna Stern
We'll see.
Kara Swisher
Because in the middle of the night, it'll come and kill you.
Joanna Stern
We'll be testing it when we can.
Kara Swisher
You haven't seen the movie, Megan, I guess. Okay, so every episode we get a question from an outside expert. Yours comes from a former colleague at the Wall Street Journal and my former
Scott
Recode partner, Walt Mossberg, who was supposed
Kara Swisher
to be here tonight. He couldn't make it. Here's his question. Let's play it.
Walt Mossberg
Hi, Joanna and Kara, two of my favorite people in the world. I'm sorry I can't be with you tonight, but I do have a question for you, Joanna. Nine years ago, I wrote my final column, and my final column was called the Disappearing Computer. And it was about ambient computing. The idea that everywhere you went and everything you did, you could tap the resources of computing without actually having to sit down at a physical device. The walls and the floors and the ceilings and outdoors, the roads and the. The buildings, the stores, everything, every place you went would be kind of like the starship on Star Trek where the computer was out of sight, but you could speak to it and it would speak to you. You could have it do tasks. You have it answer questions. You could really tap into any kind of thing that a computer could do just in an ambient way. But I realized that I didn't address the software. What would be the operating system that would hold all these things together? And so My question to you is, if we're ever going to get to ambient computing, what is going to be the operating system and is it going to be AI? Do you believe AI will be capable of linking us and the inanimate objects all around us in the world as if it's one giant computer? Thanks.
Kara Swisher
Great question. Walt's great, by the way. Just for people. Don't worry about him. He's great. I just had lunch with him.
Scott
He's doing great.
Joanna Stern
Yes. And we have very frequent FaceTime calls. And I so much wanted him to be here tonight because. I'll take a break and then I'll answer that. But him and Kara were so inspirational to me early in my career. He's wearing the D7 shirt, which was one of my, I think, my first D conference, and I saw them on stage and said, that is what I want to do. So as much as I've been ribbing you tonight. Okay, we're good. All right. So to answer his question, I think he's right that AI will be the thing that will bridge together all of the computing devices around us. The issue is that that is just not easily happening right now. I mean, one of the things where AI does struggle a lot is in the smart home. And the smart home has just been quite a disaster of standards and platforms to just absolutely make happen easily. So I think that we're going back to that Jarvis idea, that there is this persistent AI that lives around us that understands all of us and we've put more sensors on it. One of the things I did for the year was wear an AI recording bracelet with a microphone that was constantly recording things I would say, and it would take notes on the conversations, and then it would put into this app to do's based on what I had said I was gonna do during the day that I'd completely forgotten about. And so you can imagine that we would have these microphones and sensors and glasses with cameras that are understanding the world around us and connecting to the things around us, where we have this being that just can talk to us and navigate through, but we are just
Scott
far from it, Far from it. I mean, just the smart home experience alone, it's the dumbest home ever. It just doesn't work. And I remember being in homes of a lot of these tech people. Lighting was one thing. They started off the Lutron system and everything else, and they never could turn on the light. And I went over to a light switch and I'm like, look, look. Click, click, click, click.
Joanna Stern
Well, the Lutrons don't invite me to your house in my house. But using AI as the layer to do all of that. They're not there. And I think we are going to see in the next year, two years more of these companies pushing these ambient devices around everything. Yeah. Whether it be glasses, whether it be a speaker that's better, whether it be a bracelet that is using those sensors and allows us to talk about a little bit of the smartphone, pulls us away from our smartphones to allow us to have these more natural.
Scott
And Apple of course is looking at glass. There's going to be some sort of heads up display but it's not quite there yet.
Kara Swisher
One of the things it's really been
Scott
a series of like disappointments in that area in terms of it not working.
Kara Swisher
I can't even get CarPlay to work most of the time. And that's still. That should be easy.
Scott
That should be relatively easy.
Joanna Stern
Bluetooth is pretty bad.
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Kara Swisher
So one of the scariest questions we're facing is AI's implications for future generations too. As you know, I've interviewed for years now parents of kids who committed suicide with the help of chatbots. And if you read those transcripts, it's literally. Yep. It's insane. You want them to go to jail
Scott
is what I was thinking.
Kara Swisher
And in fact one of these people, because I've been doing so many of
Scott
the parents said when are you gonna stop?
Kara Swisher
And I said when you go to jail is what I'm hop is my goal here. But talk about how you did this year change how you talk to your kids about it.
Scott
I know your kids aren't that old, but still.
Joanna Stern
Yeah, like I said, having that experience with the companion made me terrified for my kids especially and how I want them to have human relationships. And I want them and I say very clearly too, do not buy your kids an AI toy. Just these AI toys. They're meant, they're not the Teddy Ruxpins of our generation. They are free flowing conversation that they will talk to the kids for hours and Lord knows where the conversation will go. These are based on the same large language models that are doing the same things as you've so importantly interviewed these parents. And so there are clear cutoffs for me. Very clear. And I think that's very important for parents.
Scott
So no AI toys.
Kara Swisher
I mean, I know I was working
Scott
on something with ChatGPT. I mean I talked to the head of Mattel. I said I'm going to stop you because there's no guardrails here with kids, no AI toys.
Joanna Stern
And I'm not yet at the time where AI is being introduced in the classroom yet. Cause my oldest son is 8. But I want to be very, very clear about that too. And I want to be very careful about where that AI is introduced because
Scott
we're seeing a major public backlash to
Joanna Stern
AI and I think, and I would love to pick your brain on this cause I know you're a parent as well. But I think for me the most important thing that I did this year, my kids saw so much, they saw so much tech, they saw so much asking chatgpt questions. And I really believe my two sons, the four year old even really like has a very good talent now at recognizing what's AI and we're not gonna be able to keep recognizing what's AI for years to come. We're all gonna not be able to tell the difference.
Scott
No, we're gonna have to label the authentic things. That's what's.
Joanna Stern
But he's asking the question, right? And sure some of this stuff is like it's a cat flying out of a. And he's like, that's AI mom. Right, of course he knows that. But they've even seen. We've had a number of instances where the AI was so wrong. I'll tell the story real quick. Cause I love this story and I think that it was really important for my learning and for our oldest sons. Noah's learning is that he had this pet praying mantis. I tell this story in the book. He had a pet praying mantis. And my wife who's sitting here, we're very good parents and we supported this pet and we brought the pet into our home or into our backyard and it had a terrarium. And the. The pet starts turning brown. And he says, why is the praying mantis turning brown? So we open up the ChatGPT live view point the camera and ChatGPT so confidently says that this praying mantis is pregnant. And my son is so thrilled. Obviously we are not. I am not. And so he calls my dad and says, I'm gonna be a grandpa to this praying mantis. It's such a big day for our family. And then two days later, the praying mantis dies. Right. The AI was completely wrong. And this was an important lesson for him that this AI is not always going to be right. In fact, more times than not, it's probably going to be wrong.
Kara Swisher
Sort of like tech leaders frequently wrong, but never in doubt.
Joanna Stern
It's important for them to learn that too.
Kara Swisher
Yeah. I wonder where that came from with AI. One of the things someone from the audience is asking, what is your opinion of kids using AI for all their homework?
Scott
Big issue for parents and teachers, obviously
Kara Swisher
especially it being sycophantic undermine our sense of judgment, critical thinking.
Joanna Stern
Well, actually I'm gonna ask you the question back about how you're thinking about it with your kids before we get to the critical thinking.
Scott
They will not be using it.
Joanna Stern
And do you. I know you have two older sons,
Kara Swisher
but I mean, well, when my older
Scott
sons, Alex, my oldest, I mean my second, is very smart about it. He thinks it's just patterns. Like he's a tech person. So he. His creativity is the most important thing in his tech career, I think will
Kara Swisher
be if he goes into that with the other kids.
Scott
I remember when every kid had to learn Chinese. That changed, right? My kids did not learn Chinese. They tried for a moment and a
Kara Swisher
half, but my older kids.
Scott
But all they do is watch K Pop Demon Hunters on the iPad. And I'm good with that. And that feels good to me. And that's the extent of what my kids will do right now.
Kara Swisher
And both my, I think, I think
Scott
especially my oldest kid is not using. He Uses it to watch tv, and they won't use it to watch tv.
Kara Swisher
That's what they use it for and almost nothing else. And I think the sycophantic tone does turn them off. But talk a little bit about kids
Scott
and this idea of critical thinking, because that's the worry. Right?
Joanna Stern
Yeah. And there's a chapter in the book on education and going to my alma mater, Union College, and taking a class and sitting with students. And they very clearly understand that, one, they're leaning on AI to do so much now. And that two, it is eroding their critical thinking. The woman I talked to and the student I talked to in the book named Grace, she says very clearly, I now feel my brain dulling. And I don't like that.
Scott
As with social media and reading. Right, Right.
Joanna Stern
She walks me through how she uses AI to write the. Not actually write the essay. Because that's what students are really doing. They're not taking the step to actually write. The writing's easy. It comes up with all the ideas it's outlining for them. Well, first it starts the research, then it outlines. Then it can really give the structure of it. And they're basically changing some words and starting to write through some of the stuff.
Podcast Host/Announcer
Right.
Scott
I mean, kids have been. Everyone's been cheating since the dawn of time. It's just a faster and more seamless way to do so.
Joanna Stern
Right. But we had a lot more to jump through to do that cheating. Right. So maybe you didn't read the full book, but you read the Cliff Notes or you Googled or. There's no doubt that this is much less friction to getting the answer.
Kara Swisher
Absolutely. But one of the things.
Scott
I just taught a course at the University of Michigan, and I said.
Kara Swisher
Right before. I said.
Scott
And it was an idle threat, but
Kara Swisher
they didn't know it. And I said, if you use AI
Scott
for this assignment, I will know it before you because I am the expert at technology. And then I will give you an
Kara Swisher
F. And once I know it, you get an F. That'll be bad on your transcript. And you know how that that goes.
Scott
And so they didn't. And I got incredibly creative things out of them.
Kara Swisher
I don't believe they tricked me.
Scott
I'm pretty certain. Cause I was able to check.
Joanna Stern
But one of the things you're not gonna be able to check, I think.
Scott
Well, no. And some things. Cause it sort of flattens out creativity.
Kara Swisher
But we are also seeing a major public backlash to AI. There's a clip that went viral of a commencement speaker at the University of central Florida getting loudly booed, as she called the rise of AI, quote, the next industrial revolution.
Scott
Obviously, the polling, especially among young people, is rather significant. The people are both scared of it.
Kara Swisher
They think it's not good for humanity.
Scott
Except, I mean, I've never seen a brand go down so quickly.
Kara Swisher
And obviously this trial of OpenAI vs
Scott
Elon Musk, I mean, they literally, as
Kara Swisher
Scott says, in this war, you're rooting for the bullets. But talk a little bit. Not that we want anyone to get shot, but these are metaphorical bullets, legal bullets.
Scott
Talk about this because the brand is undergoing a severe.
Kara Swisher
I never saw it.
Scott
Social media was quite loved until it was hated.
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Scott
It took a long time and a lot of their terrible behavior to make people turn against it.
Kara Swisher
And maybe this is a repercussion of
Scott
social media and its damage, but talk
Kara Swisher
a little bit about that, because I
Scott
think they're villains now. Whether it's Elon or Sam, they become villains, which is.
Joanna Stern
I actually think that I did not anticipate. I thought the biggest difference in AI a year later, after writing the book was going to be that the tech had gotten better, but it's actually that people hate the tech.
Scott
Yeah.
Joanna Stern
Which.
Scott
And the leaders.
Joanna Stern
And the leaders. And I think we first saw the first wave of that with data centers and environmental damage. And now we are seeing that turn to the economic damage and the job issues. And I think that I have heard this repeatedly from younger fans, people who are looking for jobs. They hate this technology.
Scott
Well, they have to do an interview
Joanna Stern
with AI to start with, not at the new things.
Scott
Right. Okay.
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Scott
Well, fantastic.
Kara Swisher
So where does that go then?
Scott
If people already hate it before it starts, the integration seems problematic.
Joanna Stern
I mean, I think what you're going to see, a lot of campaigns from these companies trying to woo people. I think we are going to see, I would hope, more guardrails. So there's some feeling like these companies care. I know how you feel, and I believe we both feel the same way, that we need regulation around this. But we don't think that's coming. At least not any.
Scott
Not in this administration, for sure. Even though they're sort of making noises about it now. Cause they're scared of mythos. But that's different.
Joanna Stern
We may see a generation just rejecting some of this. And my feeling is that's actually a very good thing. I'm hopeful. That makes me very hopeful, especially around some of the things I was the most worried about in this book. On the flip side, there's going to be AI in certain parts of life that you just will have no control over. Right. The job interview's a great example. You will go to that job interview and you will have AI or if AI is not asking the question, is judging the answers.
Scott
Right. So they'll be integrated without you understanding it.
Joanna Stern
And whether it be in your healthcare system, whether it be in the self driving cars, the stuff is, and that's where I get at the end of the book, is this is going to have an underlying layer of our life.
Scott
But I think the backlash is actually very real around data centers that's bipartisan about child safety, around this money spending. I don't think Jeff Bezos renting Venice for his wedding has been particularly well received. Like it's a feeling of we're dealing with a series of gilded age people. Right. At the same time. And then people that do enormous damage to other people.
Joanna Stern
And I think we see it when it hits home close to our lives. And these are showing the environmental stuff is close to people's lives and the job and the economics is absolutely close to people's lives.
Kara Swisher
What about you yourself?
Scott
Did you feel guilty, say, replace if you had the robot doing your laundry or an assistant? I feel I'd rather hire people. Right. I wouldn't want to do that. I would feel terrible.
Joanna Stern
And I feel that way actually in the where I wrote about robotic massages because I really liked the robotic massage. I say very clearly, I very much enjoyed how much the robot masseuse touched my butt. Humans don't touch your butt that much in the massage.
Kara Swisher
Well, they get arrested for that.
Joanna Stern
This is why they don't do it.
Kara Swisher
We're veering way too close in Epstein's territory.
Joanna Stern
And I was thinking a lot about this.
Kara Swisher
So you like the butt touching robot?
Joanna Stern
I like the butt touching robot, but I prefer the human. Not only for a few things, but also it just felt wrong replacing a human masseuse with a robot masseuse.
Scott
Right.
Joanna Stern
And so there are certain places where you have formed connections with humans in your life that do things. I think the reporting assistant one was much tougher because I felt like not so bad about not paying. I wasn't paying a significant amount of money to my reporting assistant in this, but I felt, am I depriving this person of experience?
Scott
Right, exactly.
Joanna Stern
And that's where I felt really guilty right now. To be clear, this was someone who was doing this as a side hustle. And so it all worked out fine. And she's wonderful and has a full time job now, but that's Truly how I feel about looking at this younger generation and hiring them for positions right now is giving them the experience and teaching them use AI for this stuff. I'm gonna try to impart my wisdom to you as you grow, as you did for me, Kara. Even though you don't like me to say nice things about you on stage, feel free.
Kara Swisher
But one of the things that was interesting about is you do as I say.
Scott
Young people going to churches more, doing more community things. I think there's a massive resistance happening that I don't think the tech people understand in any way because they live in these little bubbles, these little cashmere prisons they put themselves into.
Kara Swisher
And one of the things that the chat.
Scott
This OpenAI thing that I noticed as I was reading the transcripts and watching it is what a petty, small group of pricks these people are. And they're very unhappy and they're so wealthy and they remain just awful.
Kara Swisher
Every one of.
Scott
There's not one that looks good in the whole thing. And you think, I don't want to be them for all the frigging money in the world kind of thing.
Joanna Stern
And you think about the motivations and of why they want to build AGI as. What is artificial general intelligence? Which is.
Kara Swisher
What do you think that is?
Scott
I have a theory, but what is yours?
Joanna Stern
Just, they want to have the biggest, best powerful model in the world. Just for them to have the biggest, best powerful company in the world.
Scott
But let me try something else on you. So mostly men. Correct?
Kara Swisher
Men can't have children.
Scott
They want to be pregnant. They want a birthday, something. Just think about it, put it in
Kara Swisher
your head for a second.
Joanna Stern
And they want to birth AGI.
Scott
They want to birth a being.
Joanna Stern
Huh? That's the smartest, better than human being.
Scott
That's right.
Joanna Stern
I was thinking. Do you ever see Junior?
Scott
No.
Joanna Stern
You never saw Junior in the 90s where Arnold Schwarzenegger becomes pregnant?
Adobe Advertiser
No.
Kara Swisher
Oh, that one. Oh, yeah. That was fucked up.
Joanna Stern
Everyone saw Junior, right?
Scott
I'm trying to forget.
Kara Swisher
I'm trying to forget. Forget that movie.
Joanna Stern
But you said men can't have babies and that's what I thought.
Kara Swisher
Well, I'm talking about they want to create beings.
Scott
They want to be a. Create. There's something very magical about having a baby.
Kara Swisher
Just fy.
Joanna Stern
Maybe they should watch June.
Kara Swisher
Sorry, guys. But it's fantastic.
Joanna Stern
It's over.
Kara Swisher
You wish you could do it, but you can't. Too bad. You're part of it, but not really important. So I'm teasing. I'm going to get so much shit on Twitter for that, but I don't really care. So after, after a year of integrated AI into so many parts of your life, where is the limit? Because a lot of people are worried, especially investors.
Scott
The money here is massive. The investment, the return is.
Kara Swisher
We'll see. And the early Internet was like this too. But this is on a scale unprecedented. The spending scale is massive, the power scale, the energy scale, everything else. And some researchers, Yann Lecun, others are like, this isn't gonna go as far as people think it will. How do you assess it after doing this?
Joanna Stern
They don't think the large language models are going to go as far as they feel like they're going to go. And that's largely where I come out too, which is to power a lot of this other stuff around us. We're going to need something smarter than these large language models, whether it be world models, which many of these new startups are working on, whether they be new enhancements and more scientific advancements that you can get into, but we won't go deep into it right now, are going to take this understanding and actually make it deep understanding, make it less integrated. So it's integrated and it isn't just word math. So it isn't just.
Kara Swisher
And so word math is an excellent word here.
Joanna Stern
Yeah. And so that's really where the advancements are going to need to come.
Kara Swisher
Need to come. And one of your chapters on healthcare shows the promise and also the peril of AI. And then I have to say in my series the same thing, healthcare, even though AI leaders largely use it, I think as a marketing tool. And it's all bullshit that there is some real amazing things around drug discovery,
Scott
around all manner of things, robotics and
Kara Swisher
AI integrated in human exoskeletons. But your mom is a three time breast cancer survivor and you saw huge benefits when radiologists used AI to analyze. I've seen this over and over again. Not just radiology, all manner of cancer treatments. But you also had a bad experience at a dentist. They used AI to upsell you on expensive cleanings, which they do anyway, by the way. FYI, with or without the AI, that's the dentist fail favorite thing to do. So as it said, it's been hyped, but there's also profit incentives. Talk very briefly about that.
Joanna Stern
One of the places that I've been talking a lot about is that moment of seeing AI being used by. And she might be in the audience here. Dr. Lori Marguly is at Mount Sinai because even though this has been happening behind the scenes, in many clinics and hospitals, I had never seen it up close. And so I go and have my mammogram and breast ultrasound read and at Mount Sinai and I sit with Dr. Margulies and watch her use AI side by side. And so I won't get into the whole story here, we're running out of time. But AI marked three things on my breast ultrasound as suspicious. Two of those things, Laurie said, no, this doesn't look like anything. We see them on your previous ultrasounds. And the third one, she said, I want to look at this a little bit more closely.
Scott
Right.
Joanna Stern
And so said, we're going to do another follow up on that. And we're now watching a new thing that AI was able to see that she.
Scott
Before anybody else.
Joanna Stern
Yes, before anyone else. And as you said, I am at very high risk. My mom was a three time cancer survivor. I have very dense breasts, which makes it very hard to spot tumors. And the AI is able to spot things now that the human eye can't see. Now, would that alone be good enough? No, we wouldn't want just AI looking at our scans and saying it's very
Scott
helpful to some doctors.
Kara Swisher
It's absolutely true. You know, it's a really interesting thing. I think one of the most moving things I found is that. And I believe this is true. And I don't believe most of the
Scott
AI leaders talking about it because I think it is just marketing on their behalf so they can do other bad things.
Kara Swisher
But one person said, we're gonna find.
Scott
I think it was Re Jobs who I interviewed for this and he said, we're gonna find cell justice as cancer cell just when it was created that moment. And to me, I believe that. I actually do believe that. Do you? From doing this?
Joanna Stern
Yeah, I do, I do. And I think, look, this is also looking at, at different forms of AI. This is other specialized deep learning models. These are not the large language models that we're all using different things. These are specialized models where they're applying a lot of compute as we talked about. In fact, I go to the data center in one of the chapters and it's a Bristol Myers Squibb data. I mean, the GPUs. There's millions of dollars in GPUs standing behind me and they're looking for new drug discovery. They're not churning through, I don't know, create a picture of a, a cat jumping out of a plane.
Kara Swisher
Yeah. A cat with a sailor's.
Joanna Stern
Yeah. They're not, you know, make Kara Swisher and Joanna Stern pose In front of the Eiffel Tower.
Kara Swisher
Yeah, yeah. They actually stole my book several times.
Scott
And they will just.
Joanna Stern
Oh, they're stealing. I saw it today. They're stealing your book, right? I saw it today. They're stealing my book everywhere.
Kara Swisher
Yeah, yeah. Thanks a lot.
Joanna Stern
Yeah, it's a lot to. No, please do not buy the $9 version of the book on ibooks.
Kara Swisher
Last two questions, and I'm gonna integrate them for the audience. You end the book with some personal rules you made for yourself around using AI. Broadly speaking, I talk about drawing the lines or what are some things that are worth turning over to computers and keep for yourself? And someone in the audience said, what surprised you about your year of being a robot?
Scott
But she's not a robot. She's not.
Kara Swisher
Well, I'm not so sure.
Joanna Stern
Trust the sweater. To be clear, I think the robots would wear a sweater like this.
Kara Swisher
Oh, really?
Joanna Stern
They would fool us this time.
Kara Swisher
They would fool us. Absolutely.
Joanna Stern
Yeah.
Kara Swisher
So where's the line in incorporating it from what you've learned here that you would impart to others?
Joanna Stern
The line in my life where I don't use AI.
Kara Swisher
Yeah.
Joanna Stern
I mean, writing is a big one. I'm very clear at the beginning of the book that I used AI to make this book, but not write this book. And funny, when I looked at the AI generated book today on Apple Books, I was like, this is crap. Yeah, this is the worst version of my book ever. And it might have been based on whatever it pulled from the alleys. I have no idea how it got there. We should talk to them tomorrow. But I was looking through it. I was like, this is terrible writing. It's not personable, it's not fun, it's not creative.
Scott
But it hurts your brand because they think it might be you.
Joanna Stern
Absolutely. They even made a fake me on the COVID How'd you look? Not good.
Scott
They put super long feather earrings on me and I look like a version of myself I didn't want.
Kara Swisher
I was like, who is that terrible looking hippie straight lady who's there?
Joanna Stern
Maybe you in high school?
Kara Swisher
No.
Joanna Stern
Okay.
Scott
Looking the same since fourth grade.
Kara Swisher
It's now working for me for some reason, but it took a few years.
Joanna Stern
And so that is where I've drawn the line for me that it would be a lot easier and I would write a lot faster. I mean, I'm going to home tonight and write tomorrow's newsletter, but I'm gonna write it and I'm gonna think through. Okay, how am I gonna structure this newsletter? I did it based on an interview that I did two days ago. How am I gonna structure it? Where am I gonna insert some humor? Those things for me, I like that part of my job.
Scott
It's called creativity is really.
Joanna Stern
Yeah, I love that part of my job. I love the part where we go out in the world and shoot a lot of video and then I struggle to put that script together. And so for me, it's. Where has that struggle been? If the struggle for me is around doing administrative work and, I don't know, budgets or insurance, reading through insurance plans, I'm okay with having AI do that.
Scott
Right. Or looking at contracts. They actually are quite good at that.
Kara Swisher
That's one thing.
Joanna Stern
So I did just spend a lot of time talking to a lawyer, so.
Scott
Oh, did you?
Kara Swisher
Okay.
Joanna Stern
Are there any lawyers in the room?
Kara Swisher
So you're used to being a guinea pig for tech. Often I find out you put something on. I'm like, what is Joanna doing now? So you're used to that. This is your life. But talk about your wife and kids.
Scott
How did their lives look different after
Kara Swisher
a year of AI and what experience tell you about the challenges in that regard? Are they thrilled you're done?
Joanna Stern
My wife is sitting there, so I think she's thrilled we're done. Mostly done with this book, the kids part. Like I said, I did not know that this experiment was going to involve them so much. When I was pitching the book, I did not have them as central characters. But then I brought all of this home and it was very clear to me that this is much more of a story about the next generation because of. Of the technologies affecting the next generation. We've seen that through both of our careers. And so I think they were affected positively though now on Sunday nights when we have dinner, they both act like robots and they say we are cleaning robots. And they initialize cleaning robot mode.
Scott
Yeah, that's an old trick.
Joanna Stern
I appreciate it. And so if my kids think that they need to be robots to clean the house, I'm fine with that.
Kara Swisher
If you.
Joanna Stern
If it's caused them lasting damage, then fine. Yeah, yeah. But to the point of, I think they question AI now more. I mean, I have a four year old who really is talking about AI. He's constantly saying, mom, are you going to work at AI today? And wow. I know.
Scott
See, my four year old talks about his butt.
Joanna Stern
That's really mine too. They can get together, but it's his AI butt. It's nicely generated, but it certainly affected them, I think, in a positive way. But also they were exposed to a few technologies that I think are not right now ready in their lifetime, but will absolutely be ready in their lifetime.
Scott
Right.
Kara Swisher
So my very last question is from the audience here.
Scott
What's the one thing we should know about AI? Well, it's an excellent question, audience member. Go ahead.
Joanna Stern
It makes mistakes. AI makes mistakes. And we are going to let AI into more parts of our life and we must be willing to ask and question the results.
Kara Swisher
That's a really good one.
Scott
Mine would be AI wishes it was as smart and interesting as humans.
Joanna Stern
You think it wishes? You think it has feelings to wish that?
Scott
I think it never will be.
Kara Swisher
I think tech people, they always put
Scott
the human brain as a computer. A computer wishes it was as smart and amazing as the human brain. Amazing. And I think we need to not let that get lost in them telling us how easy life is going to be. It'll be easy for them because they have money and that's always been the same and so use it when it's useful. Otherwise I think we should rely a lot more on humanity than anything else. And I'm not doing that as a Luddite. Just better, better answers in the end anyway.
Joanna Stern
Okay.
Kara Swisher
This is a great book.
Scott
She did a great job.
Kara Swisher
Thank you so much.
Joanna Stern
She did a great job with this interview, even though I'll pick a different moderator next time.
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Episode: Joanna Stern Turned Her Life Over to AI For A Year — Here’s What She Learned
Date: May 18, 2026
Host: Kara Swisher (with Scott Galloway and guest Joanna Stern)
In this engaging and candid episode, Kara Swisher interviews tech journalist Joanna Stern about her new book, "I Am Not a Robot: My Year Using AI to Do Almost Everything." The discussion delves into Stern’s deep-dive experiment of integrating AI into all aspects of her life—work, home, relationships, and even health—for a full year. Together with co-host Scott Galloway, they dissect the real-world utility, limitations, risks, and emotional impact of daily AI usage, with candid reflections on workplace productivity, creativity, child rearing, and the allure—plus danger—of AI companionship. The episode blends humor, skepticism, and insight, bringing to life both the hype and the reality of our AI-driven times.
[04:28–06:00]
Notable Quote:
"There's a big gap between how tech executives see life and how normal people live life."
— Joanna Stern [05:05]
[07:39–09:37]
Notable Quote:
“I think we are at the first generation of the iPhone in terms of AI advancement.”
— Joanna Stern [08:08]
[10:12–13:41]
Notable Quotes:
"I would say [we're] at least 40% more efficient… things that I would need to hire multiple other people to do."
— Joanna Stern [11:46]“I don’t trust it with my budget, I don’t trust it with money.”
— Joanna Stern [13:39]
[15:12–16:14]; [19:18–20:24]
Notable Quotes:
“There are as many, many times where AI is not right.”
— Joanna Stern [16:14]“It was very good at getting basic information… but the follow up wasn’t even based on what was actually said."
— Joanna Stern [17:50]
[28:23–32:49]
Notable Quotes:
"Everything is so supportive. It mirrors it back to you. And I start to really see the huge fear in this."
— Joanna Stern [30:04]“It’s amazing [but] even for people that seem well adjusted, you can get so, so sucked into it.”
— Joanna Stern [30:24]
[45:34–49:06]; [50:29–51:26]
Notable Quotes:
"Do not buy your kids an AI toy… They’ll talk to your kids for hours and Lord knows where the conversation will go."
— Joanna Stern [46:09]“She says very clearly, ‘I now feel my brain dulling. And I don't like that.’”
— Joanna Stern [51:01]
[35:32–38:59]
Notable Quote:
“I do not think the majority… will have humanoid robots anywhere near their homes [in five years].”
— Joanna Stern [37:32]
[39:17–43:46]
Notable Quotes:
“One of the things where AI does struggle a lot is in the smart home. And the smart home has just been quite a disaster of standards and platforms.”
— Joanna Stern [41:43]"Bluetooth is pretty bad."
— Joanna Stern [43:57]
[52:23–55:15]
Notable Quote:
“I thought the biggest difference… after writing the book was going to be that the tech had gotten better, but it's actually that people hate the tech.”
— Joanna Stern [53:31]
[61:02–67:17]
Notable Quotes:
“The line in my life where I don’t use AI? Writing is a big one. I used AI to make this book, but not write this book.”
— Joanna Stern [65:04]"If the struggle for me is around doing administrative work… I'm okay with having AI do that."
— Joanna Stern [66:55]
[69:07–70:03]
Notable Quotes:
"AI makes mistakes. And we are going to let AI into more parts of our life and we must be willing to ask and question the results."
— Joanna Stern [69:07]"AI wishes it was as smart and interesting as humans."
— Scott Galloway [69:21]
Stern’s year with AI exposes both the dazzling promises and the sobering realities of living with artificial intelligence today. While AI shines in making rote tasks efficient and shows promise in fields like healthcare and design, it falters in creativity, reliability, emotional depth, and safety—especially for children and the vulnerable. The episode urges listeners to embrace AI’s practical benefits, stay vigilant to its flaws, and preserve the value of genuine, messy, and creative human life.