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Episode 3973:

Lori Deschene explores how the pressure to be “great” can lead to comparison, stress, and a constant need for validation, while shifting toward purpose allows for immediate meaning and fulfillment. She also highlights how letting go of self-focus, especially through truly listening to others, can deepen connection and bring a sense of calm presence.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/when-the-pursuit-of-greatness-does-more-harm-than-good/ & https://tinybuddha.com/blog/do-happy-forget-yourself/

Quotes to ponder:

"When we strive for greatness we feel a sense that we need to make a difference someday when we focus on purpose we feel a sense that we can make a difference right now"

"When we aim to be extraordinary we can get caught up competing and comparing as if what we're doing isn't good enough"

"When you focus your energy on planning what to say next you don't completely hear what someone's saying meaning you respond to them without digesting their words first"

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