Podcast
Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami
Hosted by Kim Anami · EN
Where the sexual and spiritual come together. Sex and relationship coach and vaginal weight lifter Kim Anami gives you the sex education and orgasms you never had. www.kimanami.com
20episodes
Episodes
Newest firstAll episodes
Why Modern Dating Is Broken
2w ago00:28:15Tap to summarizeDating humans is so passé. Date gods instead.If you want an Anami-style injection into your love—and especially dating life—this episode is for you:10 rules for dating Anami-style to become a dating god.Stake your claim. Choose. Plant that flag. The best pickup line I’ve ever heard Filler and fluffer dating vs. finding “the one” When to text, call or get on a plane Meeting people in the wildHow much to talk about your exes during dating. Or ever. Shoot your motherfucking shot Finding gods in Anami LandWant to meet superhumans? Come to the Anami Superpower Couple Training Academy in Anami Land. Because mortals and plebes are so out of style. Give me gods or give me death. Anami Land is our exclusive, private community for elevation in all things. Especially your bed and love life. kimanami.com/anamiland
Transcribe →Love Bomb Me
4w ago00:15:05Tap to summarizeApparently, there’s a new term for “not giving a shit” as a seduction strategy: Being “nonchalant.”“I don’t care if you like me. Maybe I like you, maybe I don’t. I’m here. Sorta. But…I could be anywhere else, with anyone else, doing anything else.”Wow. What a turn on. Be still, my beating heart.*Woman faints from all the emotions this stirs in her*In this episode:Normalize love bombingThe Neil Strauss and Dan Bilzerian “school of dating” for cowards and retardsIndifference as a seduction strategyIs it possible to give “the ick” to someone by showing them too much love?Chintzy vs. generous fuckersA woman’s egg choose the sperm it wants—out of millions of options. IT KNOWS.COME TO ANAMI LAND!We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the coming weeks. Meet high-level, Anami-esque friends and lovers. Looking for more outrageous, wild and brave humans? Find them in Anami Land.Go to kimanami.com/anamiland to signup on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors.
Transcribe →Narcissists: Everyone's Love to Hate
Apr 3000:18:17Tap to summarizeIt's always their fault. Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST! Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it. But what if this isn’t about how evil and awful the narcissist is? What if it’s about you and the 8000 red flags and signs you ignored, telling you this wasn’t right? In fact, that’s the only thing it’s about: How you chose wrong and how blaming someone else is keeping you stuck in a cycle of victimhood and re-traumatization. In this episode: The price for being a victim and not taking radical self-responsibility Scorpions gonna sting. Narcs gonna narc. Do you play with them anyway? Why is there “chemistry” with a narcissist or someone who may not be good for you? Does that mean that all “chemistry” now can’t be trusted? 99.9% of relationships have this flaw The most important juncture in any relationship The reasons why people stay where they know it’s not good for them How to break free and choose better: and choose YOU. COME TO ANAMI LAND! We’ll be opening our private, exclusive Anami Land membership community in the coming weeks. This will be a place for people who’ve taken our salons to keep going in there work. And for those of you who’ve been hovering on the outskirts of Anami Land, it’s open to you too. People have been asking—begging—us to create a dating site for ages. This will function as that, a community for like-minded Anami enthusiasts—singles, couples, men and women—everyone looking to take their lives, growth and relationships to the next level. Go to kimanami.com/anamiland to signup on the waitlist and be notified of when we open the doors.
Transcribe →F*ck Yes or F*ck Off!
Apr 1700:27:26Tap to summarizeIn a conscious, Anami-style relationship, the only acceptable answer to any invitation from your partner is: F*CK YES!!!Would you like to learn how to have better sex? F*ck yes!Do you want life-changing G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms? F*ck yes!Would you like to be able to become a multi-orgasmic man, fuck for three hours straight and learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation? F*ck yes!Most relationships are held together by their collective—and TACIT—that is, unspoken—agreement to stagnate together.In Anami Land, we have a pact to GROW together. The kinds of things I talk about—what BECOMES the NORM around here—is the stuff of legends.Women having a hundred orgasms in a rowCouples having 72-hour sex datesMen being multi-orgasmic and able to orgasm without ejaculation Couples having sex from across the room and across the planet (my specialty, haha) These things ONLY happen when both people are ALL IN.It’s f*ck yes! or bust. In this episode:How to change a stagnant relationship from “maybe later” and “we’re too busy” to “fuck yes!” Starting a relationship with “fuck yes!” How I train myself for “fuck yes!” moments The day I caught 35 waves surfing Living in Anami Land means a perpetual “fuck yes!” “Bare minimums” in Anami Land: HINT: transcendental, multi-million-dollar-deal-generating blow jobs Coming Together: Registration closes tonight at midnight PST!My quintessential mind/body/spirit Tantric and creative genius spiritually orgasmic portal for couples to come together emotionally and sexually. You'll learn: How to create a conscious relationship that elevates you into the highest, most evolved versions of yourselves And generates the most quantum, life-changing orgasms: G-Spot, cervical, squirting for her and orgasms without ejaculation for men. And anal for both of you. Because don't you know? You can find God up your ass. Learn how to use your sexual energy to pro-creatively build your lives with Lifelong passionate intimacy becomes your daily reality: the stuff of Well-F**ked All Star legend My step-by-step techniques for cathartic and blissful yoni and lingam massagesHow to clear space, communicate openly and have the tough conversations in your relationship that remove blockages and clothing. Instantaneously. The ins-and-outs of sexual reflexology. The ultimate therapeutic healing every time you have sex and touch each other. How to use different sex acts to make more cash. Eh, not that way. But through activating your energy channels and learning how to shape matter, space and time. Yes, that's what we do here in Anami Land, mf. Why most women don’t achieve the "I saw God" vaginal orgasms and how they can. Super stamina techniques for men. And much more Fuck yes, we're in!https://kimanami.com/lovers
Transcribe →From Divorce Court to 4-Hour Sex Dates
Apr 1000:50:49Tap to summarizeIn today’s episode we interview a couple who have had the most dramatic—and fastest—turnaround I’ve ever seen. They were in a *beyond* sexless marriage. They were intimate 2 or 3 times—a year.In the span of a few hours they did a massive 180 and they’ve been full speed ahead ever since. It’s never too late. If it’s possible for them, it’s possible for you too.In this episode we’ll talk about the two most important things they did. Also: The power of “all in”Sex 2-3 times a year for over a decadeFrom divorce court to 4 hours of sex A life-changing Tantric retreatTossed the Viagra and CialisHealing each other through intercoursePast issues and resentments evaporating almost instantlyStaying together “for the children”? That person really needs a cock up their assSurrendering and vulnerability as a manAt age 64, the plan is to “fuck until the day I die” COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES is now open: 10 weeks to gourmet, life-changing sex!In my online signature program for creating conscious relationships and quantum sex, you’ll learn:Sexual reflexology of the yoni and lingamMy prescription guide for different sexual positions to heal various ailmentsTantric and Taoist techniques to harness your sexual energy and use it for healing, rejuvenation and creative geniusHow to have multiple, full-body and energy orgasmsSupercock stamina techniques for menAmplifying masculine and feminine polarity to increase your chemistry attraction: going from buddies to headboard slammersAnd all my secrets to coming togetherSignup now.
Transcribe →Talking Heads: When Genitals Speak, We Listen
Apr 301:08:53Tap to summarizeAs in, our genitals are oracles. When they speak, they reveal our innermost truths. We can have conversations with our own genitals. What’s even more fun, is having them with our partner’s genitals.In today’s episode I speak with Well-F**ked All Stars and Coming Together Alumni Carla and Pracarsh about their relationships with each other’s cock and pussy:How they grow and shift and change, depending on how much they open and how well they are loved. And when asked, what they have to say.In this episode: An Anami-inspired marriage Only dishonesty can break the relationshipOur genitals size and shape change as we release any stuck energy in themBlocks malform your body“His cock keeps growing bigger!”Conversations with cockGodly energy in our genitalsSentient breastsGenitals demand coherence and honesty. Otherwise they shut down.Yoni massage and jade egg to unwind a “hard” and closed vaginaGenital cursesAlchemizing past wounds together through sex“Vibrations of energy come from my yoni all the way up my body and I get transported into different dimensions.”Says Carla: “Being in a conscious monogamous relationship where the container is sealed between you, has seriously been one of the most healing and beautiful experiences of my life.”COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALONEVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. it's the Anami Guarantee. I walk you through how to get there, step-by-step, in the Coming Together for Couples Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability Guided lingam and yoni massage Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical Achieving superstar stamina in men and have full control over when you orgasm Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry
Transcribe →Squirting Saved Our Marriage
Mar 2700:41:06Tap to summarizeOne of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of: Fuck them until you change them. Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and the way you can tell whether you’re having Anami-style gourmet sex or plebeian junk-food sex, is: Does sex change your life? Do you feel energized, rejuvenated, euphoric, healed, transformed and like you’ve seen God? If not, you’re doing it wrong. Anything other than that isn’t hitting the mark. At least in Anami Land. In this episode we speak to Well-F**ked All Stars Jared and Vi:The emotional catharsis of squirtingHealing and alchemizing past trauma through sexMale G-Spot liberationOrgasm without ejaculation for him SHE LOVES HIS COCK. Can’t get enough of it.From religious suppression to: “if the entire bed isn’t unusable with wetness after we’re done, then it was a small session.”3-hour sex date impact lasts for a week COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALON EVERY couple can be having hours of sex, energy sex, multi-orgasmic sex, 20, 30, 40 orgasms in a session sex, and be turned on by each other for decades. it's the Anami Guarantee. I walk you through how to get there, step by step, in my Coming Together Salon. This is my 10-week online program for couples where you’ll learn everything from: How to have wild, 10-hours long Tantric sex How to communicate from the heart and genitals to achieve deep vulnerability Using your sexual energy to alchemise ALL of your relationship and personal issues Step by step guided lingam and yoni massage Techniques to achieve all the deeper orgasms in women: G-spot, squirting and cervical Achieving superstar stamina in men: being able to have full control over when you orgasm Or IF you do: I’ll also teach you how to orgasm without ejaculation Feminine and masculine polarity to amplify these energies in your life and bed, This is the secret to the hottest—and lifelong—sexual chemistry To signup, go to kimanami.com/lovers
Transcribe →Bring Back Manly Men
Mar 2000:23:49Tap to summarizeA few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1It went mega-viral. Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic. Juxtaposing these legendary men with imposing jawlines and ravishing bone structure with the mincing, fairy-like, pre-pubescent unf**kable boy-children. What happened? Where did all the testosterone go? In this episode: The old Rat Pack vs. the new Rat Faces Who would you rather: Henry Cavill or twink Timothee Chalamet? Is hormonal birth control destroying women’s ability to choose masculine men? The only “toxic” masculinity is the LACK of itCasting directors can’t even find masculine looking young actors anymore Are we all being gay-frog boiled? How to avoid xenoestrogensBuilding dopamine and testosterone naturally Coming out of anti-masculine programming and the resurgence of the manly man Using sexual energy to increase your masculine power COMING TOGETHER FOR COUPLES SALONFor more on how to build your masculine smolder—and for your woman to cultivate her feminine surrender—check out my Coming Together for Couples Salon which opens in early April. We deep dive into all things masculine and feminine energies to create the hottest sexual polarity and chemistry. In the meantime, you can signup for my free Coming Together 7-Day Sex Cleanse. Each day, you’ll receive an email with an assignments to deepen into each other, sexually and emotionally.Side effects of this Sex Cleanse may include: ~ Ejaculate-soaked bed sheets~ Broken bed frames~ Being fully energized by each other's life force energy~ Clearing of relationship blocks~ Stronger stamina~ Feelings of safety and security~ Sky-rocketing libidosSignup today. https://kimanami.com/lovers
Transcribe →Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men
Mar 1300:22:42Tap to summarizeHell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.”Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison d’être. So… how do you f**k her? Do her moods merit different techniques? Indeed they do. I’ve got you. In this episode: Signs your woman is underf**ked Which orifice and when? Sex is medicine. Oral is medicine. Anal is medicine. Throat-gasms for the win What to do when your woman nags and belittles you Ideal frequency of sex Ideal duration of sex What to f**k IN and what to f**k OUT of each otherJunk food vs. gourmet sex The Coming Together Salon for Couples is coming soon! In this 10-week online salon you’ll learn:How to harness the healing and creative power of your sexual energySexual reflexology maps of the genitalsMy sexual position prescription guideThe full orgasmapedia—all of the life-changing vaginal orgasms for womenSuperstar stamina techniques for men to last for hours and how to orgasm without ejaculation.The salon begins in April. In the meantime, signup for my FREE 7-Day Sex Cleanse and to be notified when the salon opens for registration.https://kimanami.com/lovers
Transcribe →5 Superpower Couple Problems Worth Having
Mar 600:15:04Tap to summarizeBeing a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them.In this episode: The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problemsNavigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter Which private island to have your sex weeks at What to do when people keep throwing cash at you Dumping your underf**ked friends: it’s okay. You’ll find new, well-f**ked ones in Anami Land Setting and keeping the bar high: your moral and ethical responsibility to guide the underf**ked out of their morass and stupor of underf**ked blindness and into the light We can get through this. Together. ***Signup for the free 7-Day Sex CleanseA weeklong sex date. Anami-Style. Each day, you'll receive homeplay to deepen into each other emotionally and sexually.Side effects of this 7-Day Sex Cleanse may include: Ejaculate-soaked bed sheetsBroken bed framesBeing fully energized by each other's life force energyClearing of relationship blocksStronger staminaIncreasing trust, intimacy and opennessSky-rocketing libidosSignup here.https://kimanami.com/lovers
Transcribe →