🏒 What if chasing the “best” team is actually holding your player back?

This week on Our Kids Play Hockey, we sit down with former NHL forward and Stanley Cup champion Ryan Carter to unpack the truth about youth hockey development — and why the “slow cooker” might beat the “instant pot” every time.

From growing up in White Bear Lake, Minnesota to carving out a 10-year NHL career (after going undrafted), Ryan shares the mindset shifts, parenting lessons, and culture-building philosophies that shaped his journey — and how he’s now passing them on through broadcasting and ETS Performance.

This is an episode every hockey parent and player needs to hear.

🔥 Inside This Episode:

🥣 Why development should be a crock pot, not an instant pot
🏒 The real difference between good players and NHL players
💡 Why “Plan B” might secretly sabotage “Plan A”
💪 The power of environment in player development
🚗 What parents should (and shouldn’t) say in the car after games
🎯 Why belief sets your ceiling — and how to raise it
👥 The importance of team-first thinking (high tide raises all ships)

Ryan also opens up about:

Playing alongside legends like Teemu Selänne
His first NHL game nerves in the Western Conference Finals
The surprising role of luck and stick-to-itiveness in making the NHL
Why confidence and belonging are everything at the highest level

This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply encouraging. Whether your player is on the A team, B team, or just starting out — this episode will reframe how you think about development.

📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: Slow Cooker Development: What Ryan Carter’s NHL Journey Teaches Hockey Families

📩 Got questions? Email us at team@ourkidsplayhockey.com

📚 Check out our children’s book When Hockey Stops at WhenHockeyStops.com

Enjoy your hockey. Enjoy your day. And remember — development is a marathon, not a sprint.

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