🚗💭 Ever hear something from your parents right before a game… and it just doesn’t sit right?

On this episode of The Ride To The Rink, we’re diving into the messages players hear before they step out of the car—and how those words can impact confidence, nerves, and performance.

Here’s the truth: your parents care. A lot. ❤️
But sometimes, even well-meaning words can add pressure instead of helping you play your best.

So what can you do about it?

🎯 In this episode, we break down:

The 3 most common things parents say before games
Why phrases like “don’t mess up” or “you need to score” can backfire
How to reframe negative messaging into confidence
Simple ways to communicate with your parents about what actually helps
Why your goal should always be: “Did I do my best today?”

💡 Plus, we talk about:

Playing for the right reasons (not rewards)
Handling pressure during tryouts and big games
Why competition is a privilege—not something to fear

🏒 Whether you're 8 or 18, this episode will help you take control of your mindset before you even hit the locker room.

👉 And parents—this one’s for you too.

📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: What Parents Say Before a Game (And How Hockey Players Can Handle It)

🎧 Take this with you today:
You can’t always control what’s said to you… but you can control how you respond.

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