🔥 What if the most important thing in youth hockey isn’t winning… but noticing when someone isn’t okay?

In this powerful and deeply moving episode, we sit down with Rob Thorsen, founder of the Shoulder Check Foundation and HT40 Foundation, to talk about how one simple idea — checking in on each other — can change lives.

After the heartbreaking loss of his son Hayden, Rob turned pain into purpose, creating a movement that’s transforming locker rooms, teams, and communities across hockey and beyond. From youth teams to NHL players, the message is spreading: you are not alone — because I’m right here beside you.

This conversation goes far beyond hockey. It’s about parenting, coaching, mental health, team culture, and the small actions that make a massive difference.

💡 In This Episode, We Cover:

The story behind the Shoulder Check movement ❤️
Why peer-to-peer support is the most powerful tool we have
How youth sports culture impacts mental health
What parents should (and shouldn’t) say after games 🚗
Simple ways coaches can build empathy into team culture
Why “checking in” can literally save lives
How teams across the country are bringing this to life

🧠 Key Takeaway:

You don’t need to be an expert to make a difference.

You just need to show up, ask, and care.

🏒 Resources & How to Get Involved:

Visit: shouldercheck.org
Bring the program to your team, school, or community
Start with one simple action: reach out, check in, make contact

💬 If this episode resonated with you, share it with a coach, parent, or teammate. These conversations matter.

📖 Want a written version you can reference anytime? Check out our companion blog: How the Shoulder Check Movement Is Changing Youth Hockey Culture

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