Podcast
The Parenting Standard
Hosted by Priya Narthakii and Harry Goldberg · EN
This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.
Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.
Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.
You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path yet.
Zero scripting.
Zero planning.
Decades of Parenting experience.
33episodes
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# 100: What is the Parenting Standard?
6d ago00:23:46Tap to summarizeThere you are, standing on the horizon of your child’s future, and for the first time, the heavy burden of "engineering" their success has vanished. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------You realise you don't have to force them to be happy or wealthy; you just have to help them become the kind of person who chooses those things for themselves.We call this "Extreme Responsibility." It’s the shift from the survival mode of swaddles and feedings to the visionary mode of character and identity. We’ve found that when you stop being a manager and start being a role model of internal growth, your child doesn't just meet your expectations—they exceed them. Join us as we explore how to build a family culture where success isn't something you chase, but something that becomes inevitable.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 99: If you fear your child is selfish, then...
2w ago00:26:10Tap to summarizeThere you are at the dinner table. There’s one slice of pizza left. In the past, it was a land grab—a race to the crust. But today, your teenager pauses. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------They don't just take it; they ask a question. They’ve developed the "willingness to notice" the hunger of others. This isn't a miracle; it's the result of shifting from "outside-in" management to "inside-out" growth. We explore the developmental secrets of the 6, 10, and 14-year-old brain. From the "Human Safari" at the grocery store to the radical redefinition of consideration, we share how to plant the value seeds that turn "selfish" impulses into servant leadership. Discover how to stop being a behaviour cop and start being an inspiring guide who builds children with a natural instinct for the hearts of others.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 98: If you want your kids to take more ownership, then...
3w ago00:17:36Tap to summarizePicture this: You’re sitting in your favorite armchair, reading a book, while your child works through a curriculum they designed themselves. They aren't doing it because you threatened them with a "speeding ticket"; they’re doing it because they’ve discovered their own internal engine.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------We’ve found the secret to transferring the cognitive load from your shoulders to theirs. In this episode, we break down the transition from the manual "screwdriver" parenting of rewards and punishments to the high-efficiency "power drill" of intrinsic motivation.We’ll show you why your child’s independence isn't a sign of you being "unemployed," but a badge of high honors. Let’s redefine what "good parenting" actually feels like.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 97: If you want chores to get done without the "thank you" trap, then...
4w ago00:18:53Tap to summarizeImagine this: You’ve just showered your child with praise for cleaning their room, but the next day, it’s a disaster again. You realize with a sinking feeling that you’ve become a full-time manager, trapped in a cycle where your child only moves if you provide the "fuel" of a "thank you." Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------Even worse? Your teenager sees right through it. They aren't learning responsibility; they’re learning how to be manipulated. If you don't break the behaviorist loop now, you’re looking at a future of power struggles and apathy. We’re diving into why your "gentle" praise is actually driving a wedge between you and your child, and how to stop the rot before the "eye-rolls" become a permanent lifestyle.Stop managing from the outside in and start growing your child from the inside out.It's time to move past the eye-rolls and foster a home where contribution comes from the heart, not the hope of a reward.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 96: If you want a child who leads themselves, then...
May 700:18:23Tap to summarizeImagine this: Your child is "perfectly" compliant. They make their bed, they get the grades, and they follow every rule. Then, they leave home—and they completely fall apart. Without your constant "management" and biased questioning, they have no internal compass. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------They aren't responsible; they’re just well-trained. We discuss the terrifying reality of "projected emotions" and how parents unknowingly rob their children of their own identities. If you keep naming their frustrations and setting their metrics, you are ensuring they will be forever dependent—or worse, that they will eventually cut you out entirely just to breathe. Discover how to ask the "unbiased questions" that foster true responsibility and build an adult who leads themselves, even when you aren't in the room.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 95: If you treat parenting like a career instead of a chore, then...
Apr 3000:29:01Tap to summarizePicture this: Your thirteen-year-old walks into the room. Instead of the usual eye-roll or the retreat into a smartphone, they sit down and ask, "I’m struggling with a choice—what do you think?" In this moment, you realize the transition is complete. You aren't the manager barking orders anymore; you are the trusted consultant. We explore how to trade the exhausting role of the family "nagger" for the prestigious role of the "advisor." By treating parenting as a high-level career rather than a series of chores, we show you how to build a relationship based on influence rather than control. It’s about making yourself replaceable in the small things so you become indispensable in the big ones.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | -------------------------------------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 94: If you're concerned about your kids weaknesses, then...
Apr 2300:26:03Tap to summarizeImagine this: It’s five years from now. Your child has spent a decade "fixing" their weaknesses. They are well-rounded, proficient, and utterly miserable. They’ve mastered skills they hate to please a version of you that doesn't exist. By forcing the "one-year commitment" on a child who lacks the "value radar" to understand why, you aren't building character—you're building a habit of resentment. We’re diving into why the traditional parenting advice on "strengths" is failing our kids and how you can stop the cycle before the light in their eyes goes out for good.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | -------------------------------------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 93: If your child identifies as dysregulated, then...
Apr 1600:21:32Tap to summarizeImagine this: You’re standing in the middle of a chaotic storm—deadlines are looming, the kids are screaming, and your heart is hammering against your ribs. But instead of drowning, you feel a surge of electricity. You realize that your racing heart isn’t "anxiety"—it’s fuel. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------We dive into the "Responsibility Muscle," a simple psychological shift that transforms every stressful sensation into raw, usable energy. We’re moving past the labels that keep you (and your kids) small and handing you the blueprint to design your (and your kids') own emotional experience. Learn the three questions that turn "I can't" into "I choose." It’s time to stop regulating your system and start leading your life.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 92: If you fear AI is destroying your kid's ability to think for themselves, then...
Apr 900:23:11Tap to summarizeThere you are, watching your child graduate into a world where their entry-level skills were automated three years ago. While we argue over whether they should use AI for their homework, countries on the other side of the globe are integrating "thinking models" into the core of their survival. The walls we are building in our schools are actually cages. If your child doesn’t have a strong internal compass, AI won't just help them; it will lead them like a sheep toward a destination they didn't choose. We’re stripping away the hype to reveal the cold truth: if you don’t teach your kids to lead the machine, the machine will inevitably lead them.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------We’re moving past the "Google Search" era and into an age where character is the only currency that matters. Join us as we reframe the future from a place of anxiety to one of absolute excitement.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 91: If your boundaries keep getting violated, then...
Apr 200:20:52Tap to summarizeImagine this: your front door swings open, and instead of the usual dread at the sight of bags strewn across the hallway, there is a sense of flow. You don’t need to bark orders or point to a list of rules on the fridge. Your eldest naturally places their bag in their basket, and your youngest hangs theirs on a hook we installed together. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------There’s no "us versus them," no "I’m the boss and you’re the worker." Instead, we’ve replaced the complex tax code of household "Don’ts" with a simple, shared "We." We’ve stopped being border guards and started being a team. In this episode, we explore how moving from rigid boundaries to radical cooperation transforms your home from a battlefield into a sanctuary where everyone’s needs—even yours—actually get met.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
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