Podcast
The Parenting Standard
Hosted by Priya Narthakii and Harry Goldberg · EN
This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.
Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.
Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.
You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path yet.
Zero scripting.
Zero planning.
Decades of Parenting experience.
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#109 If You Want Your Child to Handle “Big Feelings”
1w ago00:25:01Tap to summarizePicture this: Your child is about to step onstage, hand pressed against their stomach. “I have butterflies. I don’t want to go.”You rush to reassure them: “Don’t be nervous. You’ll be fine.” But beneath those comforting words, your child may be learning to ignore the very signals that could help them understand themselves.In this episode, we explore what happens before a feeling gets called anxiety, fear, or frustration. We connect stage fright, Minecraft, chores, and screen time to one powerful question: What experience is your child’s body asking for?Because when children can recognize and shift what is happening inside them, they no longer need us to tell them how they feel.They can learn to find their own way back to calm, confidence, and capability.Hit play now.
Transcribe →# 108: If you want a child who thinks for themselves, then...
2w ago00:28:14Tap to summarizeImagine your child coming to you not because they have to, but because they know your advice actually works. They’ve bypassed the "best friend" AI and sought your counsel because you’ve built a bridge of mentorship, not just a safety net of love. In this episode, we explore the playground encounter that changed how we view a child’s "meaning-making" process. We’re breaking down how to stop the "Interruption Epidemic" and give your children the space to find their voice. It’s about humility, curiosity, and the realization that your child is a different person than they were yesterday. Join us as we unlock the secrets to building a relationship where your child feels safe enough to be honest and skilled enough to be independent.----------------------------Ready to turn this perspective into a skill? Learn with Priya: https://www.successstacker.com ----------------------------Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications! ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form
Transcribe →# 107: What is your "Primary Question"?
3w ago00:26:32Tap to summarizePicture this: You wake up, and instead of the crushing weight of a thousand "to-dos," you feel like the architect of an adventure. You look at the sink, the mail, and the kids' chaotic rooms not as a manager facing a crisis, but as an "Experience Creator" beginning a masterpiece. We as parents have spent years trapped in the "What do I have to do?" loop, but in this episode, we’re breaking the cycle. We’re showing you how to flip the script using the "Primary Question" method. It’s the difference between being a "human doing" and a "human being." Learn how a simple shift in your internal dialogue can transform a chore into a "mental puzzle" that fuels your day rather than draining it.----------------------------Ready to turn this perspective into a skill? Learn with Priya: https://www.successstacker.com ----------------------------Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications! ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form
Transcribe →# 106: If You Find Parenting Overwhelming, then...
4w ago00:29:13Tap to summarizeImagine this: Your child comes home, and instead of the standard “fine" and a grunt, they actually start a conversation. They are taking ownership of their homework and their schedule, not because they’re afraid of a lecture, but because they’ve found a "why" that matters to them. We’ve spent sixteen years coaching parents to realize that 99.9% of their struggles come from solving the wrong problems. In this episode, we break down how to stop the “maid" routine and start using the DOT process to unlock your child’s intrinsic motivation.It’s time to trade the 9 PM homework wars for a home that actually feels like a sanctuary.----------------------------Ready to turn this perspective into a skill? Learn with Priya: https://www.successstacker.com ----------------------------Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications! ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form
Transcribe →# 105: If kids keep their secrets from you, then...
Jul 900:25:01Tap to summarizeImagine this: Your teenager walks through the front door, drops their bag, and instead of the usual "fine" or "whatever," they look at you and say, "I’ve been thinking about something, and I need to know what you think." You aren't the warden; you are the trusted advisor. In this episode, we break down the invisible wall between you and your child. We explore the "Sacred Space" of their world and show you how to stop being the "Event Planner" they ignore and start being the mentor they crave. Learn why privacy is actually a sign of a healthy mind, and how to ensure you are the first person they call when life gets complicated.----------------------------Ready to turn this perspective into a skill? Learn with Priya: https://www.successstacker.com ----------------------------Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications! ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form
Transcribe →# 104: If you follow Dr Becky, then...
Jul 200:23:13Tap to summarizePicture this: You’re sitting on the floor, your toddler is screaming, and you’re reciting the "empathy scripts" you learned online. You feel like a "good parent," but something feels... hollow. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on why the world’s most popular parenting advice might actually be holding your family back. We explore the liberating truth that your children don’t need you to be their emotional narrator; they need you to be their guide. We’re moving past the rigid "boundaries" that alienate grandmothers and create entitled kids. Instead, we’re showing you how to foster genuine connection and resilience by treating your children as the brilliant, expanding humans they truly are. It’s time to stop managing your kids like AI models and start raising them with the soul and grit they need to thrive.----------------------------Ready to turn this perspective into a skill? Learn with Priya: https://www.successstacker.com ----------------------------Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications! ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form
Transcribe →# 103: If you want your kids to have better habits, then...
Jun 2500:24:27Tap to summarizeThere you are, staring at the ceiling at 5:30 AM, exhausted, miserable, and wondering why you can’t just be "disciplined" like everyone else. You’ve read the books, you’ve set the trackers, and yet, you keep failing. This failure isn't just a missed workout; it’s becoming your identity. You’re starting to believe the lie that you are "lazy." But what if the problem isn’t your (or your kids') willpower, but the way you’ve been taught to build your life? We’re exposing the fatal flaw in popular habit-building advice that’s keeping you stuck in a cycle of shame and exhaustion. If you don't change how you view accountability, you're destined to keep failing at things that don't even matter to you and, even worse, keeping your kids stuck there too.----------------------------Ready to turn this perspective into a skill? Save your seat in Priya's FREE Stop the Distractions Masterclass and learn how to become skilled with the RADaR and DOT frameworks in your home: https://www.successstacker.com ----------------------------Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications! ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form
Transcribe →# 102: If you want to build the skill of parenting, then...
Jun 1800:25:07Tap to summarizeThere you are, pinned to the mat. Your child is screaming, your blood pressure is peaking, and you realize you have absolutely no moves left. You are a "white belt" in a world that doesn't go easy on beginners. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------This is the "obliteration" we talk about—the catastrophic result of being an unskilled parent in a high-stakes world. If you don't choose your skills now, you’re just a "Parent Manager" waiting for the next disaster to strike. We explore the high cost of remaining unskilled and why "trying harder" is a failing strategy compared to "learning better."Want to create your future where you aren’t a "manager" trying to put out fires? But, rather, where you’re a leader who knows exactly which lever to pull? We dive into how you can stop "winging it" and start mastering the specific skills that turn parenting from a struggle into a craft.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 101: If you want beautiful relationships FOR your kids, then...
Jun 1100:26:07Tap to summarizeImagine this: Your child is thirty years old, sitting across from the love of their life. They aren’t arguing about the dishes; they are thriving in the "immersion" of marriage because they learned the art of collaborative responsibility in your living room. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------We’re moving past the "Management Project" of parenting. We’re diving into the "Bouncy Frog" method of responsibility—helping your children choose meanings that energise them, so they never have to look to the world for validation. It’s about building a home where "belonging" is an internal state, not a performance metric.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 100: What is the Parenting Standard?
Jun 400:23:46Tap to summarizeThere you are, standing on the horizon of your child’s future, and for the first time, the heavy burden of "engineering" their success has vanished. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------You realise you don't have to force them to be happy or wealthy; you just have to help them become the kind of person who chooses those things for themselves.We call this "Extreme Responsibility." It’s the shift from the survival mode of swaddles and feedings to the visionary mode of character and identity. We’ve found that when you stop being a manager and start being a role model of internal growth, your child doesn't just meet your expectations—they exceed them. Join us as we explore how to build a family culture where success isn't something you chase, but something that becomes inevitable.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
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