Podcast
The Parenting Standard
Hosted by Priya Narthakii and Harry Goldberg · EN
This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter.
Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind.
Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids.
You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path yet.
Zero scripting.
Zero planning.
Decades of Parenting experience.
36episodes
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# 103: If you want your kids to have better habits, then...
1w ago00:24:27Tap to summarizeThere you are, staring at the ceiling at 5:30 AM, exhausted, miserable, and wondering why you can’t just be "disciplined" like everyone else. You’ve read the books, you’ve set the trackers, and yet, you keep failing. This failure isn't just a missed workout; it’s becoming your identity. You’re starting to believe the lie that you are "lazy." But what if the problem isn’t your (or your kids') willpower, but the way you’ve been taught to build your life? We’re exposing the fatal flaw in popular habit-building advice that’s keeping you stuck in a cycle of shame and exhaustion. If you don't change how you view accountability, you're destined to keep failing at things that don't even matter to you and, even worse, keeping your kids stuck there too.----------------------------Ready to turn this perspective into a skill? Save your seat in Priya's FREE Stop the Distractions Masterclass and learn how to become skilled with the RADaR and DOT frameworks in your home: https://www.successstacker.com ----------------------------Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications! ---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form
Transcribe →# 102: If you want to build the skill of parenting, then...
2w ago00:25:07Tap to summarizeThere you are, pinned to the mat. Your child is screaming, your blood pressure is peaking, and you realize you have absolutely no moves left. You are a "white belt" in a world that doesn't go easy on beginners. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------This is the "obliteration" we talk about—the catastrophic result of being an unskilled parent in a high-stakes world. If you don't choose your skills now, you’re just a "Parent Manager" waiting for the next disaster to strike. We explore the high cost of remaining unskilled and why "trying harder" is a failing strategy compared to "learning better."Want to create your future where you aren’t a "manager" trying to put out fires? But, rather, where you’re a leader who knows exactly which lever to pull? We dive into how you can stop "winging it" and start mastering the specific skills that turn parenting from a struggle into a craft.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 101: If you want beautiful relationships FOR your kids, then...
3w ago00:26:07Tap to summarizeImagine this: Your child is thirty years old, sitting across from the love of their life. They aren’t arguing about the dishes; they are thriving in the "immersion" of marriage because they learned the art of collaborative responsibility in your living room. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------We’re moving past the "Management Project" of parenting. We’re diving into the "Bouncy Frog" method of responsibility—helping your children choose meanings that energise them, so they never have to look to the world for validation. It’s about building a home where "belonging" is an internal state, not a performance metric.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 100: What is the Parenting Standard?
Jun 400:23:46Tap to summarizeThere you are, standing on the horizon of your child’s future, and for the first time, the heavy burden of "engineering" their success has vanished. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------You realise you don't have to force them to be happy or wealthy; you just have to help them become the kind of person who chooses those things for themselves.We call this "Extreme Responsibility." It’s the shift from the survival mode of swaddles and feedings to the visionary mode of character and identity. We’ve found that when you stop being a manager and start being a role model of internal growth, your child doesn't just meet your expectations—they exceed them. Join us as we explore how to build a family culture where success isn't something you chase, but something that becomes inevitable.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 99: If you fear your child is selfish, then...
May 2800:26:10Tap to summarizeThere you are at the dinner table. There’s one slice of pizza left. In the past, it was a land grab—a race to the crust. But today, your teenager pauses. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------They don't just take it; they ask a question. They’ve developed the "willingness to notice" the hunger of others. This isn't a miracle; it's the result of shifting from "outside-in" management to "inside-out" growth. We explore the developmental secrets of the 6, 10, and 14-year-old brain. From the "Human Safari" at the grocery store to the radical redefinition of consideration, we share how to plant the value seeds that turn "selfish" impulses into servant leadership. Discover how to stop being a behaviour cop and start being an inspiring guide who builds children with a natural instinct for the hearts of others.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 98: If you want your kids to take more ownership, then...
May 2100:17:36Tap to summarizePicture this: You’re sitting in your favorite armchair, reading a book, while your child works through a curriculum they designed themselves. They aren't doing it because you threatened them with a "speeding ticket"; they’re doing it because they’ve discovered their own internal engine.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------We’ve found the secret to transferring the cognitive load from your shoulders to theirs. In this episode, we break down the transition from the manual "screwdriver" parenting of rewards and punishments to the high-efficiency "power drill" of intrinsic motivation.We’ll show you why your child’s independence isn't a sign of you being "unemployed," but a badge of high honors. Let’s redefine what "good parenting" actually feels like.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 97: If you want chores to get done without the "thank you" trap, then...
May 1400:18:53Tap to summarizeImagine this: You’ve just showered your child with praise for cleaning their room, but the next day, it’s a disaster again. You realize with a sinking feeling that you’ve become a full-time manager, trapped in a cycle where your child only moves if you provide the "fuel" of a "thank you." Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------Even worse? Your teenager sees right through it. They aren't learning responsibility; they’re learning how to be manipulated. If you don't break the behaviorist loop now, you’re looking at a future of power struggles and apathy. We’re diving into why your "gentle" praise is actually driving a wedge between you and your child, and how to stop the rot before the "eye-rolls" become a permanent lifestyle.Stop managing from the outside in and start growing your child from the inside out.It's time to move past the eye-rolls and foster a home where contribution comes from the heart, not the hope of a reward.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 96: If you want a child who leads themselves, then...
May 700:18:23Tap to summarizeImagine this: Your child is "perfectly" compliant. They make their bed, they get the grades, and they follow every rule. Then, they leave home—and they completely fall apart. Without your constant "management" and biased questioning, they have no internal compass. Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | ----------------------------They aren't responsible; they’re just well-trained. We discuss the terrifying reality of "projected emotions" and how parents unknowingly rob their children of their own identities. If you keep naming their frustrations and setting their metrics, you are ensuring they will be forever dependent—or worse, that they will eventually cut you out entirely just to breathe. Discover how to ask the "unbiased questions" that foster true responsibility and build an adult who leads themselves, even when you aren't in the room.---------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 95: If you treat parenting like a career instead of a chore, then...
Apr 3000:29:01Tap to summarizePicture this: Your thirteen-year-old walks into the room. Instead of the usual eye-roll or the retreat into a smartphone, they sit down and ask, "I’m struggling with a choice—what do you think?" In this moment, you realize the transition is complete. You aren't the manager barking orders anymore; you are the trusted consultant. We explore how to trade the exhausting role of the family "nagger" for the prestigious role of the "advisor." By treating parenting as a high-level career rather than a series of chores, we show you how to build a relationship based on influence rather than control. It’s about making yourself replaceable in the small things so you become indispensable in the big ones.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | -------------------------------------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
Transcribe →# 94: If you're concerned about your kids weaknesses, then...
Apr 2300:26:03Tap to summarizeImagine this: It’s five years from now. Your child has spent a decade "fixing" their weaknesses. They are well-rounded, proficient, and utterly miserable. They’ve mastered skills they hate to please a version of you that doesn't exist. By forcing the "one-year commitment" on a child who lacks the "value radar" to understand why, you aren't building character—you're building a habit of resentment. We’re diving into why the traditional parenting advice on "strengths" is failing our kids and how you can stop the cycle before the light in their eyes goes out for good.Ask Harry & Priya a question: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form | Level Up Your Parenting: https://www.successstacker.com | Stay in the Know: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagW1J7nJ0j8FAmpP/form | -------------------------------------------------------- Do you have some questions, stories or experiences you hope could be featured on the podcast? We could create an ENTIRE EPISODE about YOUR submission! Just use this link to submit: https://airtable.com/appuZrvCvTjxoMHNa/pagG0SbG2nSlWJay3/form ---------------------------- This parenting podcast is not your typical parenting banter. Priya Narthakii (Values Mindset & Peak Parenting Coach & Mother of 2) & Harry Goldberg (Mindset & Performance Coach & Father of 2) provide you with fresh perspectives on how to raise kids who are self-driven, self-motivated, growth-minded and kind. Most importantly, this podcast is for parents who want to have a beautiful relationship with their kids. You don’t need anything new to achieve this. Perhaps, all you need is a new perspective which hasn’t come across your growth path... ...yet. These episodes are:- Short- Too the point- Engaging- Weekly And they have:- Zero scripting.- Zero planning.- Deep insights.- Inspiring stories.- Decades of Parenting experience. ---------------------------- Want to keep receiving unique, helpful & valuable parenting insights? Three simple steps: 1. Subscribe.2. Follow.3. Turn On Notifications!
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