There are sins that shock us.

And there are sins we commit while feeling righteous.

The Fathers place condemnation among the most dangerous of all, because it disguises itself as discernment, zeal, clarity, moral seriousness, concern for truth, or defense of virtue. It allows the soul to remain dark while imagining itself full of light.

The monk in Tyre publicly takes the prostitute Porphyria by the hand to save her soul. He does not protect his image. He does not manage appearances. He does not consult public opinion. He risks slander to rescue a human being. The city immediately does what cities always do. It interprets evil. It invents details. It delights in scandal. It spreads rumor as if rumor were truth.

This is the ancient world. It is also the modern one.

People love condemnation because it relieves them of repentance. If another is filthy, then I feel cleaner. If another is hypocritical, then I need not examine my own hypocrisy. If another has fallen, then I may remain standing in my own imagination.

The Evergetinos says something brutal and true: corrupt people readily believe corrupt things because they assume others are like themselves. The suspicious man is often revealing himself more than exposing anyone else.

The monk bears this slander silently. He saves the woman, has her tonsured as a nun, entrusts her to the monastic life, and accepts years of false judgment. Only at death does God vindicate him through the miracle of the burning coals. Why then? Because God often waits until the end to expose the blindness of men.

How many people have we judged who were secretly dear to God?
How many motives have we misread?
How many stories have we narrated from fragments and vanity?

Abba Isaiah brings the matter into ordinary life. You need something from your brother. Instead of asking simply, you brood. You resent that he did not anticipate your need. You accuse him silently. The Elder says plainly: you are the one at fault.

This is devastating because so much of our inner life is built on unspoken expectations. We punish others for failing standards we never voiced. Then we call ourselves wounded.

St. Maximos the Confessor goes deeper still. Whoever busies himself with the sins of others has not yet begun repentance. Not advanced repentance. Not deep repentance. Begun.

This means many religious people who speak constantly of the failures of the Church, society, clergy, family, culture, and enemies may not yet have entered the first room of spiritual life.

They know outrage.
They know commentary.
They know denunciation.

But they do not know repentance.

The Gerontikon exposes another horror. A brother obsessed with impurity suspects two monks of sin. The Elder says the passion is in him. This is ascetic psychology of the highest order. What we compulsively detect in others often reveals what is active in ourselves.

The lustful see lust everywhere.
The proud detect pride everywhere.
The deceitful suspect hidden motives everywhere.
The bitter interpret everything through offense.

They are reading their own soul onto the world.

Abba Poimen adds one of the fiercest counsels in the tradition. Even if you think you touched the evidence with your own hands, do not be quick to condemn. The brother who thought he discovered fornication found only two bundles of wheat.

This is not comic relief. It is revelation.

You do not see clearly.
You think you do.
That is the danger.

The section on St. John the Merciful reveals another blindness. We know the public sin. We do not know the secret repentance. The one we condemn today may already be weeping before God tonight. The one whose fall we discuss may already be rising while we remain unchanged.

And here is the sharpest word of all from Abba John the Short: there is no greater virtue than not disparaging others.

Why would he say this?

Because the man who stops condemning is finally free to begin working on himself.

The modern world feeds on accusation. Social media monetizes it. News cycles depend on it. Religious factions organize around it. Whole identities are formed through shared contempt.

The Fathers would call this mass demonic pedagogy.

You become what you repeatedly contemplate. If you feed daily on the faults of others, you slowly become a soul incapable of compunction.

So what is the path?

Speak less.
Assume less.
Ask plainly.
Interpret slowly.
Pray for the one you are tempted to judge.
Return attention to your own sins.
Let hidden things remain hidden unless duty truly requires action.

And if genuine wrongdoing must be addressed, do so with sobriety, evidence, tears, and fear for your own soul.

Here is the fierce conclusion:

The soul that needs others to be guilty in order to feel innocent has not yet met God.

Because the one who has stood honestly before God loses appetite for condemnation. He has too much to repent of.

The Fathers do not ask you to become naive.

They ask you to become clean.

And cleanliness begins when you stop making a home for suspicion.

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Text of chat during the group:

00:02:57 Fr. Charbel Abernethy: Page 5 Volume III - section 3

00:22:10 vanessa s (vanessa s): My daughter was supposed to go to Israel this summer but Air Canada cancelled all flights due to security issues.

00:22:20 vanessa s (vanessa s): :(

00:27:45 Fr. Charbel Abernethy: Page 5 Volume III - section 3

00:35:22 Julie: Our Imagination can trick us when we start judging …our senses can be hijacked by our Assumptions

00:35:38 Nypaver Clan: Reacted to "Our Imagination can ..." with 👍

00:43:19 Forrest: This is such a common temptation in marriages, even good healthy marriages!

00:54:33 Julie: Someone might look sinful to hide their virtue from the world and to test whether others have love or judgment in their hearts.♥️

00:57:52 Lee Graham: We believe what we want to believe

01:11:27 Julie: We might be condemning someone who has already been forgiven by God

01:19:30 Forrest: "Of whom I am the first"

01:20:33 Danny Moulton: Jesus also said. “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.“ (John 7:24). Is it possible that the Desert Fathers' teaching of complete avoidance of judging others is overshooting the balanced teachings of Christ?

01:22:51 Julie: We have to be careful…
When someone believes themselves to be good they begin to see their brother as “evil”

01:23:01 Nypaver Clan: SAMUEL 16:7

01:36:22 Andrew Adams: Thanks be to God! Thank you Father!

01:36:22 Rebecca Thérèse: Thank you☺️

01:36:24 Bob Čihák, AZ: Thank you, bless you & Love you, Father.

01:36:33 Jessica McHale: Many prayers!

01:36:35 Danny Moulton: THank you!