You think sin begins when you speak.

The Fathers say it begins when you listen.

The serpent did not force Eve. He spoke.

She inclined her ear.

And through that small opening, death entered the world.

You fear great sins because they are visible.

But calumny is quiet.

It asks only for your attention.

A word is offered.

You do not resist.

You do not rebuke.

You do not turn away.

You listen.

And in listening, you receive.

The Fathers do not soften this.

They do not call it weakness.

They call it destruction.

The one who speaks slander kills with his mouth.

But the one who listens becomes his accomplice.

The poison does not remain in the speaker. It passes into you.

You carry it. You knead it into your heart.

Soon you will speak it.

And then you will call it discernment.

You say, “But it is true.”

The Fathers answer: truth on the tongue of a demon is still poison.

The devil does not always lie.

He mixes truth with venom.

He sweetens the word so that you will swallow it.

And once it is within you, it becomes bitterness.

This is why Christ refused even the true words of demons.

This is why the Apostles closed their ears.

Not because they feared lies.

But because they knew how truth can be weaponized.

You do not understand the violence of this sin.

You think it is speech.

The Fathers say it is murder.

“Better to eat meat and drink wine than to eat the flesh of your brother.”

When you listen to calumny, you consume him.

You strip him of dignity in your heart.

You become incapable of seeing him as God sees him.

And at that moment, you have already judged and condemned him.

Do not deceive yourself.

Silence is not innocence if your ears are open.

A soldier may be covered in armor.

But a single opening is enough for death.

Your ear is that opening.

You guard your body from impurity.

You guard your tongue when it suits you.

But your ears remain unguarded, curious, receptive.

You sit near the accuser.

You nod.

You take it in.

And you call this harmless.

The Fathers call it the fall of Adam repeated.

Close the door.

Do not negotiate.

Do not linger.

Do not taste the sweetness of another’s shame.

Flee the word before it enters.

Cut it off before it forms within you.

Refuse even the appearance of listening.

Better to be thought rude than to be found complicit in death.

Because once the word enters,

it does not leave easily.

And if you allow it to remain,

you will become what you have received.

The serpent no longer needs to speak.

You will speak for him.

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00:21:24 Lee Graham: Please give me the name of Themes in Psychology

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Themes in Orthodox Patristic Psychology: Humility, Obedience, Repentence, and Love

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00:34:06 Bob Čihák, AZ: P 368, H

00:55:21 Jason Fischer: When you speak of silence, would that include meditation

00:56:49 Joan Chakonas: Even dark truth expressed in calumny is better left to God to handle. Nothing good comes from evil spoken or in fact.

01:01:10 Jonathan Grobler: We're do we draw the line between calumny, and informing the church of someone's grave sin.

Paul told us to not to talk about people's venial sins, but if we see someone committing sin that leads to death, to first talk to them in private, and if they do not wish to listen, to then escalate it to the church.

01:18:35 Maureen Cunningham: Thank You always a blessing. The Blog was wonderful. Blessing

01:18:55 Lee Graham: Thank you since I missed last week

01:19:05 ROBERT IAROPOLI: Thank you, Father. Have a good night.

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