Let's talk about doggy style.

It's one of the most popular positions out there. It can feel intense, wild, and incredibly hot.

But it also comes with a lot of questions. Is it supposed to slip out that much? Why does it feel too deep? What if you queef? What about the… view?

Yeah. We're going there.

In this episode, we're covering everything you need to know about doggy style. How to get into position, how to move, how to adjust the angle for more pleasure (or less pain), and how to actually feel confident doing it.

Plus, we're answering your real questions from Instagram and sharing some of our favorite variations to try.

💛 In this episode, you'll hear:

Why doggy is one of the best positions for clitoral stimulation (and how to make the most of it)
Simple angle and arm adjustments that completely change how it feels
What to do when it feels too deep or uncomfortable
How to handle the queefing, the slipping out, and the self-consciousness
Why this position is actually great for feeling less shy about touching yourself
Variations like standing doggy, lying doggy, and cowboy doggy that keep things fresh
Answers to your most-asked (and most awkward) doggy style questions from Instagram

Whether doggy is your go-to or you've been avoiding it, this episode will help you feel way more confident the next time you try it.

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