One of our favorite series is back.

You sent us your wildest, messiest, most "wait… am I the problem here?" relationship stories. And we have opinions.

We're talking about a wife who's been sharing intimate details about her husband with her entire family for years (but only good things, so it's fine… right?). A partner who was a little too honest about his wife's body (brutal). Neighbors banging on the ceiling mid-sex. And a whole lot more.

Some of these had us genuinely torn. Others? Not so much.

💛 In this episode, you'll hear:

Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends and family… even if your partner doesn't know?
When "just being honest" about attraction crosses a line
The initiation that was so bad it killed the mood instantly
What happens when your neighbor tries to police your sex life
Our honest takes on every single one (and we don't always agree)

Whether you're here to feel validated, get a reality check, or just enjoy some relationship drama that isn't yours… this one's a fun ride.

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E257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body Shaming