On the episode this week: Aaron hosts solo and speaks of the tongue with his tongue. Aaron also updates on Nates wife’s cancer.

Nate and Aaron talk to Sheila Ray Gregoire. Sheila is a therapist, podcaster, author, researcher, and more. This week we discuss orgasms in church, sex drives, gender roles, and even spicier topics. Sheila also talks about faulty sex teaching in the church. We compare noticing, attraction, and lusting. And this controversial topic: who leads in marriage, and why? And finally, this bomb: sex is not connection! All this and way more.

Links:

Bare Marriage Podcast Spotify

Bare Marriage Podcast Apple

Books:

The Marriage You Want

The Great Sex Rescue

The Good Guys Guide to Great Sex

The Good Girls Guide To Great Sex

NEW Samson Community App (Apple store)

NEW Samson Community App (Google Store)

June 5-7, 2026 Italian/International Samson Retreat

Oct 23-25, 2026 U.S. Samson Summit

Send mail to:

Pirate Monk Podcast/Samson House

PO BOX 1656

Columbia, TN 38402

If you have thoughts or questions and you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.

The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.

For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.

The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House.

503 | Gender Roles and Loving Your Neighbor | Sheila Gregoire