In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Mistress Natalie delve into the complexities of power dynamics within BDSM relationships. They explore the balance between ego and submission and the human needs that underpin power exchanges. The discussion also highlights generational shifts in attitudes towards power and intimacy, advocating for a more holistic approach to self-care and emotional well-being in the context of BDSM. In this engaging conversation, Mistress Natalie and Audry Lu Black explore various aspects of BDSM, including role-switching, favorite toys, the importance of communication, and the definitions of dominance and submission. They emphasize the significance of negotiation and the ongoing nature of power exchange dynamics, highlighting the need for safety and mutual understanding in relationships.

Today’s resources include:

Square Peg Toys silicone bvtt plugs

Rattan switch

https://amzn.to/3M1anEH

Ilan Lev method – gentle, hands-on bodywork and movement practice

https://ilanlev.org/en/

MITPISA is a form developed to make any kind of scene negotiation easier and ensure that safety issues are addressed. We recommend using this form when negotiating pick up play, or before the execution of any scene, even one that was more thoroughly negotiated at some time earlier than the actual play date. https://kinkcollective.net/

Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger