Pour Minds Podcast – "Certified Yappers"

Date: August 22, 2025
Hosts: Lex P & Drea Nicole
Guests: Jameela & Mecca (Unhinged & Immoral Podcast)

Episode Overview

This lively, laughter-filled episode of Pour Minds brings together hosts Lex P and Drea Nicole with TikTok’s "certified yappers" Jameela and Mecca of the Unhinged & Immoral podcast. Across wine pours and witty banter, the four discuss their parallel journeys as Black women podcasters, navigating viral fame, friendships, online hate, creative ambitions, and the nuances of being authentically unfiltered in today’s digital age. They share the realities of friendship breakups, reflect on sex and internet culture, and laugh over nostalgic moments from their youth—making this episode a true blend of real talk and fun.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Origins & Evolution in Podcasting

(05:12–13:57)

• Meeting & Friendship:
  • Jameela & Mecca met as college roommates at Hampton University in 2014, bonding over holidays and shared experiences as out-of-towners.
• Starting Unhinged & Immoral:
  • Their podcast arose after numerous TikTok Lives revealed their natural chemistry and unique perspectives (notably after a viral Shannon Sharpe discussion).
  • The name "Unhinged & Immoral" stems from their bold personalities and PR/journalism backgrounds, where "sometimes it gets a little unethical in our space" (06:35 — Jameela).
• Recognition & Representation:
  • Lex and Drea offer flowers for breaking out as women in a male-dominated medium:

    "It's hard to go from just being on social media and then doing stuff in real life. People are interesting on the internet, but they not interesting in real life." (04:39 — Lex P)

2. Navigating Social Media: Trolls, Cancel Culture & Authenticity

(06:45–15:51, 36:31–46:21)

• Dealing with Online Hate:
  • Jameela reflects on her urge to defend herself:

    "I just felt like, oh my gosh, I'm being so misunderstood. The life of a Gemini." (07:49 — Jameela)

  • Both learned responding sometimes feeds more negativity, and now mostly ignore or joke about it.
• Internet Personas vs. Real Life:
  • Lex: "It's weird when you meet people in person and they're nothing like their online persona." (43:45)
  • The group discusses the importance of maintaining personality authenticity across platforms.
• Cancel Culture & Going Mainstream:
  • The higher your profile, the more you're scrutinized ("It's gonna get worse the more mainstream y'all get." 11:48 — Lex).

3. Individual Dreams & Side Hustles

(14:34–17:01)

• Jameela: Film, production (Ring a Bell Productions), music management.
• Mecca: Media personality, acting (especially on Tubi!), and talk show ambitions.
  • "I want to be like a Tubi celebrity." (16:16 — Mecca)
  • Both highlight getting real opportunities from connections like KevOnStage.

4. Favorite Segment: Poor Decisions

(18:16–27:49)

• Lex: Attempting to assemble furniture alone—“Just pay the $70 for assembly.” (19:14)
• Mecca: Her dog’s flea outbreak and a failed home grooming session—“My baby looks a mess.” (20:26)
• Jameela: Oversharing is her Achilles heel; reflects on accidentally spilling people’s business.
  • “You ever spill somebody's business and you didn't mean to?” (25:18 — Jameela)
• Night Out Tales:
  • Hitting Magic City with Ken the Man, suffering through hungover work calls, and indulging in strip club food.

5. Stripping, Attire, and In-the-Club Food

(28:21–32:14)

• The hosts and guests compare Atlanta and Houston strip clubs—debating acrobatics, food, and the power of a good burger.
• Nostalgia over legendary club dancers and viral moments (e.g., Tip Drill, BET Uncut).

6. Honesty vs. Meanness Online

(35:31–39:50)

• Where’s the Line?

  • Intent matters—“You can be honest without being an asshole… what’s the purpose of you saying this anyway?” (35:31 — Lex)
  • "There's a difference between mean aunties and nasty aunties." (36:28 — Mecca)

• On Criticism:

  • The people giving online style advice usually "look a mess", as Mecca's brother says:

    “We've been telling this bitch she can't dress. I done went to y' all pages, and y' all look a goddamn mess.” (38:03 — Mecca)

7. Would You Rather: Creator Edition

(47:54–55:12)

• Viral for a hot take vs. a wardrobe malfunction? Hot take, hands down—malfunctions are “here and gone.”
• Accidentally post a thirst trap to close friends or family group chat? Close friends!
• Hilarious nude mishaps—iCloud leaks, siblings catching messages, and high school horniness nostalgia.

8. Nostalgia, Black Culture, and Growing Up

(55:27–65:20)

• Laugh-out-loud reminiscing about horny teen years, imaginary crush scenarios, and classic Black sitcoms.
• The years of Black Planet, aim, BBM, and Sidekicks—the digital evolution of their generation.

9. Are We Really That Freaky or Is It Just the Internet?

(73:28–82:12)

• Performative sexual openness online vs. real intimacy.
• Sometimes people oversell their freakiness for attention—“It’s like a competition… Throat Goat, Shea, we all got a coochie, baby!” (81:56 — Jameela)
• Internet desensitization: Twitter’s role as "a porn site," how it affects expectations, and the comedy of following sex workers who are actually hilarious.

10. Advice Segment – Pour Your Heart Out

(97:11–102:55)

• A listener asks if she should rekindle a friendship after her best friend slept with her ex.
• All agree: mourn the loss, but don’t go back.

  “Some people you just gotta let go. If A is weird, A is weird.” (100:29 — Jameela)

  • Lex P: “Your turn is on the way. If you see a man dogging other women out, your turn is on the way.” (99:52)

11. Bottled Up – Voicemail Rant

(103:29–110:21)

• Hilarious story about a student being scammed by a roommate and almost evicted.
• Real talk on rental deposits and dealing with shady apartments: "I have never got my deposit back." (106:05 — Jameela)
• Tips on documenting apartment conditions and advice for fighting unfair charges.

12. Music – Bop of the Week

(83:01–96:39)

• Metro Boomin’s new album ("Futuristic Summer") is the top pick (“If you was on YouTube learning every dance…” 83:30 — Mecca).
• K1, Kehlani, Sweetie, and Jessie Murphy’s "Blue Strips" (country song that samples Gucci Mane’s "Lemonade") all get shout-outs.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “I’m not a serious person. I don’t ever want you to do that. I need to double down and explain where I’m coming from — that won’t happen again. Right? So now I just shut the hell up.”
  — Jameela about online controversy (08:26)

• “Some people use being real as an excuse to be mean. I don’t believe you, you a liar.”
  — Jameela (37:31)

• “If you wanna risk your life for the money, risk your life. You already butt off naked — I wanna see something.”
  — Lex P, on strip club acrobatics (31:32)

• “If you can’t name 10 things you love but 10 things you hate, you need to do some reevaluation.”
  — Lex P, on internet negativity (42:08)

• “We all got a coochie. We all got it on the student. What you want me to do to disprove you? Put mine on the internet?”
  — Jameela (81:53)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• Podcast Origins & Friendship: 05:12–13:57
• Cancel Culture, Backlash & Social Media: 06:45–15:51, 36:31–46:21
• Poor Decisions: 18:16–27:49
• Strip Club Culture: 28:21–32:14
• Honesty vs. Meanness Online: 35:31–39:50
• Creator ‘Would You Rather’ Game: 47:54–55:12
• Early 2000s & Teen Nostalgia: 55:27–65:20
• Are We Really Freaky or Just Online?: 73:28–82:12
• Pour Your Heart Out (Advice): 97:11–102:55
• Bottled Up (Voicemail Rant): 103:29–110:21
• Bop of the Week: 83:01–96:39

Tone & Vibe

The episode is high-energy, irreverently funny, and deeply relatable, blending confessions, Black cultural humor, and candid advice. The conversation is raw, supportive, and unafraid to be vulnerable, with all four women keeping it light, unfiltered, and authentically themselves—making listeners feel like they’re sipping wine at the table, too.

Where to Find More

• Unhinged & Immoral Podcast: @UnhingedImmoral | @mechavelly | @_IAmJameela
• Pour Minds: @PourMinds | @lex_p_ | @drea_andnicole

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