Give Me A Sign

Summary

Pour Minds Podcast — "Give Me A Sign"

Hosts: Lex and Drea Nicole
Date: February 27, 2026
Network: The Black Effect Podcast Network & iHeartPodcasts

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Episode Overview

In this lively episode, Atlanta-based hosts (and single Houstonians) Lex and Drea Nicole sip Taylor Port wine and offer their signature blend of real talk, humor, and friendship therapy. They dive into astrology stereotypes, viral internet moments, friendship dynamics, pandemic-era scams, personal quirks, and the politics of dating aesthetics—all delivered in their candid, unfiltered style. Expect deep laughs, playful debates, and memorable hot takes on pop culture, relationships, and more.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Astrology & Social Media Stereotypes

(02:09 – 03:26 ; 37:18 – 41:14)

• Both hosts riff on how social media users try and often fail to “guess” their zodiac signs, poking fun at the way internet culture attributes every behavior or celebrity moment to astrology.
  • Lex: “I don't know. People are never really good at figuring out my sign, though. Whenever they try to guess, they're always wrong…” (02:09)
  • Drea Nicole: “That's why I be kind of like, if you went about this sign shit. Cause I feel like it's obvious what I am, but every time they be wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong.” (02:22)
  • Irritation with astrology comments: "Anytime something on social media happens with, like, a celebrity. This is so Libra coded, bitch." (02:42)
• Lex claims to be good at guessing strangers’ signs: “Another thing that I'm really good at, guessing people's zodiac signs. When I meet them, it's very easy.” (36:43)

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2. The Dr. Pepper Jingle Story & Internet Outrage

(03:56 – 07:22)

• Drea brings up the viral Dr. Pepper jingle by a TikTok creator, which sparked public demand for the brand to pay and feature her in a commercial.
  • Drea provides nuance, explaining corporate processes take time and internet outrage often doesn’t speed them up:
    • "Things like that take time." (04:54)
    • "Sometimes y' all gotta let things breathe and give it a little time..." (05:08)
  • She discusses the risk creators take:
    • "If it goes viral, they're not gonna pay you because it's already done the advertisement for them." (05:54)
• Lex and Drea cautiously celebrate Dr. Pepper for doing the right thing, but reemphasize not to expect “good faith” from corporations.
  • "But I think we have to stop expecting these major corporations to be a good person, be, you know, do the right thing. Because they're not." (06:28)

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3. Pandemic Nostalgia & Scam Culture

(10:08 – 18:01)

• Reflecting on how the pandemic encouraged creative boredom and entrepreneurial "hustle", often crossing into scams.
• They reminisce about viral social media trends, pandemic PPP loan fraud, and how authorities are still cracking down on such cases years later.
  • Drea: “A lot of people are thinking that whatever scams that you did during the pandemic… they coming for y', all though.” (11:23)
• Discuss the temptation and regret of not applying for PPP loans, and jokingly debate about what they’d have done with the money.
  • Drea: “Speak for yourself. I was gonna be locked up. It was gonna be Poor Minds featuring Dre and Nicole.” (13:26)
  • “It was a wild time. 2020 to 2022: Wild time. That's when … coming up with Sarah Queen … the restaurants was like, oh, we gonna put this on the menu.” (10:32)
• Lex: “Every time I see people doing things, I'm like, okay, congratulations, you got away with it. … but it's never been worth the risk for me.” (13:39)
• Real stories about friends caught in pandemic scams—a candid, “poor ass exclusive.”
  • Drea: “He about to go to jail. Oh, damn. … he used to be doing that. You got bank of America tap in, bitch. Ooh. People was tapping the fuck in.” (15:43)

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4. On Being Good at Useless Talents

(19:34 – 35:38)

• Drea and Lex each share their odd “useless” talents that aren’t resume-worthy, from parallel parking in tight spaces (Lex) to predicting movie plot twists (Drea).
• Drea’s hidden talent: “I am pretty good at predicting the plot twist in movies. … Like in his and hers. I knew it wasn't gonna be his or hers, obviously.” (30:42)
• Lex describes being a car enthusiast, loving big trucks, and wanting to “overindulge when they can afford it.”
• Both joke about their band geek roots: possible tap dancing/saxophone and flute performances for the podcast’s talent show.

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5. Dating & The Aesthetic of a Partner

(45:00 – 56:10)

• Topic: "Are you okay if your man doesn't match your aesthetic?"
• Both agree inner confidence and “fine to you” matters, but Lex strongly prefers to date men who are “cute to me and to others.”
  • Lex: “I be liking to be with somebody where when people see us, they be like, oh, y' all cute.” (50:48)
• Drea loves the “baddie with the nerd” dynamic: “I love the dynamic of, like, extremely baddies being with, like, a guy that people would consider, like, a square. … That’s the perfect couple.” (50:55)
• They draw the line at “extreme makeovers”—not buying teeth or fixing hairlines for their partners, referencing the “Build-a-Bear” phenomenon and “Black Girlfriend Effect.”
  • “I'm not buying you no veneers. Why you ain't come veneer ready?” (53:24)
  • “This is not Extreme Makeover, honey.” (53:41)
• Light commentary on body types, gym culture, and the dating market’s double standards.

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6. Fan Fiction, Friendship Boundaries & Public Fantasy

(62:15 – 68:41)

• Drea discovers and reads the summary of a risqué queer fan fiction about her and Lex, sparking a conversation about boundaries and how audiences sexualize close women friendships.
  • Drea: “I can't believe people look at us that way.” (65:16)
  • Both express discomfort at sexualized assumptions: “At this point … when y' all say things like that, it's a little bit incestual.” (66:28)
• They discuss oversharing online, the difference between real friendship intimacy and romantic intentions, and why some boundaries matter.

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7. Kissing & Intimacy in Modern Dating

(77:46 – 88:02)

• Topic: “Bringing back kissing."
• Both value kissing as an act of intimacy, passion, and body-to-body romance—especially as a prelude to sex, not just an action for fun.
  • Drea: “I think kissing before sex and, you know, the sex is on the way is the most passionate, sexiest thing ever.” (83:36)
  • Lex: “It's passionate. … It’s body to body. And breath, most importantly, breath to breath.” (84:36)
• Drea cautions: “If we're not about to get intimate, I don't care to be making out. … I'm not making out unless we finna get to it.” (86:07)
• Both find indiscriminate PDA or club make-outs “a bit much,” and highlight the importance of hygiene and compatibility in kissing stories.

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8. Music Picks: The "Bop" Segment

(88:44 – 92:15)

• Drea throws it back to Rihanna’s "Sell Me Candy" and the “Good Girl Gone Bad” era, reminding everyone of pop history.
• Lex shouts out Gunna’s new remix with Chris Brown, discussing generational differences in “vulgar” lyrics and the necessity of knowing music history.
  • “Y' all need to go listen to Nasty Girl by Vanity 6. Get some history.” (92:12)

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9. Pour Your Heart Out (Listener Advice)

(93:00 – 99:15)

• Letter: Listener struggling with an Aquarius boyfriend who suddenly turns off his location and grows distant.
  • Drea: “That's the biggest. That he's probably found somebody else…When a man turns off his location, it's because he's somewhere he's not supposed to be.” (93:14)
  • Both advise breaking things off and prioritizing self-worth: “The pain of staying is way worse than the pain than leaving.” (94:03–94:32)
  • Lex: “I can't think of what my man would be able to say to me … that I would actually believe … and want to stay in the relationship.” (98:56)

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10. Shot Line & Relationship Realness

(99:15 – 102:50)

• Listener voicemail discusses men wanting “to have their cake and eat it too.”
• Drea: “I think too n are not as player as they think they are … they know that they gonna lose every time. So it's very, very rare you'll come across a man that just keep it so real with you...” (100:41)
• Lex: “Men just be wanting to be able to with whoever they want and then you just be loyal to them … they don’t like that.” (101:39)
• Commentary on polyamory, double standards, and men’s emotional vulnerability.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On brands and viral moments:
  • "But I think we have to stop expecting these major corporations to be a good person … because they're not." – Drea Nicole (06:28)
• On PPP loans and scams:
  • “That's how I feel about them PPP loans. Niggas think they safe. Y' all ain't safe yet.” – Lex (11:32)
• On “useless” talents:
  • “I do believe that I'm pretty good at parallel parking.” – Lex (20:09)
  • “I'm pretty good at predicting the plot twist in movies.” – Drea Nicole (30:42)
• On relationship upgrades:
  • “I'm not buying you no veneers. Why you ain't come veneer ready?” – Lex (53:24)
  • “This is not Extreme Makeover, honey.” – Drea Nicole (53:41)
• On kissing:
  • “I think kissing before sex and, you know, the sex is on the way is the most passionate, sexiest thing ever.” – Drea Nicole (83:36)
  • “It's more intimate. Like we f to stare each other down and you f to tell me how much you love me.” – Drea Nicole (85:00)
• On friendship boundaries and public fantasy:
  • “At this point … when y' all say things like that, it's a little bit incestual. This is my sister. This is my family.” – Drea Nicole (66:28)
  • “They always be trying to say … licks. I mean, Draya won’t lick so bad. No, I don’t.” – Lex (66:00)

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• Astrology & Social Media: 02:09 – 03:26, 37:18 – 41:14
• Dr. Pepper Jingle Discussion: 03:56 – 07:22
• Pandemic Scams & PPP Loans: 10:08 – 18:01
• Useless Talents & Hobbies: 19:34 – 35:38
• Dating Aesthetics & “Build a Bear” Partners: 45:00 – 56:10
• Friendship Boundaries / Fanfic: 62:15 – 68:41
• Kissing & Intimacy in Dating: 77:46 – 88:02
• Bop Segment (Music Picks): 88:44 – 92:15
• Listener Advice: "Pour Your Heart Out": 93:00 – 99:15
• Shot Line & Real Talk on Men & Double Standards: 99:15 – 102:50

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Engaging Takeaways

• Astrology only goes so far: Both Drea and Lex push back against astrology-based assumptions and encourage individuality over meme-driven stereotyping.
• Viral moments need patience: Internet outrage for justice isn't always necessary—sometimes corporate processes just take time.
• Friendship is not always sexual: They highlight the importance of clear friendship boundaries and discomfort with being fetishized or assumed “more than friends” because of public closeness.
• Everyone has quirky, “useless” talents: Celebrating what makes us unique—even if it’s not impressive on paper—is a theme throughout.
• Know your boundaries in love and self-worth: Both hosts deeply encourage listeners to honor themselves, cut off relationships that don’t serve them, and not lose sense of self for love.
• Kissing is intimate, not casual: For this duo, kissing is a passionate, important part of sexual connection—never just for fun.
• Having a “type” in dating is about preference — not disrespect: They challenge the idea that stating a dating preference is inherently mean, emphasizing personal choice and honesty.

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If you want laughs, honest therapy, a little mess, and a lot of heart, this Pour Minds episode delivers classic Lex and Drea, balancing authenticity with entertainment.

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For full context, listen from:

• [03:26] (main show content starts)
• [45:00+] (dating/aesthetics conversations)
• [93:00+] (listener advice)
• [99:15+] (shot line & relationship talk)

Transcript

[Lex]

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[Terry Dubrow]

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[Lex]

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[Lex]

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[Heather Dubrow]

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[Lex]

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[Drea Nicole]

Welcome to the boys and girls podcast.

[Lex]

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[Drea Nicole]

and you're auditioning for your soulmate.

[Lex]

And who's judging?

[Drea Nicole]

Only your entire family. I sacrificed myself to this ancient tradition hoping to find love the right way, and instead I found chaos, comedy, and

[Lex]

a lot of cringe.

[Drea Nicole]

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[Lex]

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[Ana Navarro]

Each week we're bringing you true crime

[Drea Nicole]

through a legal lens.

[Lex]

Whether you want all the facts on the disappearance of Nancy Guthrie or you still need to wrap your head around the Diddy verdict, we we're breaking it all down step by step.

[Ana Navarro]

And we're not just lawyers.

[Drea Nicole]

We're also husband and wife.

[Ana Navarro]

It makes for some pretty entertaining episodes.

[Lex]

Listen to Legally brunette on the iHeartRadio

[Drea Nicole]

app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Lex]

I don't know. People are never really good at figuring out my sign, though. Yeah, whenever they try to guess, they're always wrong majority of the time.

[Drea Nicole]

But you know what's crazy? Every time people try to Guess my sign in the comments, they always be wrong.

[Lex]

They be wrong in the comments about me, too.

[Drea Nicole]

That's why I be like. That's why I be kind of like, if you went about this sign shit. Cause I'm like. I feel like it's obvious what I am, but every time they be wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong.

[Lex]

Mm.

[Drea Nicole]

Shit stinks.

[Lex]

I just think when you're a cool girl, they wanna claim you as one of their own.

[Drea Nicole]

Exactly.

[Lex]

It's like, no, bitch.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my gosh. Anytime. I will say that gets on my nerves. Anytime something on social media happens with, like, a celebrity. This is so Libra coded, bitch.

[Ana Navarro]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my God, bitch, you are such a Libra.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Sagittarius tings. Yeah, babe, please, please.

[Lex]

Every time some cool happen, they be like, period. Because you know, she is Sagittarius.

[Drea Nicole]

What's up, y'?

[Ana Navarro]

All?

[Lex]

It's your girl Lex, and it's your girl Drea Nicole.

[Drea Nicole]

And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind, where a drunk

[Lex]

mind speaks sober thought.

[Drea Nicole]

We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no guests today. And y' all know, per usual, this episode is sponsored by our family at Taylor Port, period.

[Lex]

Y' all know every single week what's in our cup. Taylor Port make you teleport all the time.

[Drea Nicole]

Let me drink.

[Lex]

Go ahead and drink a little bit.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. How it tastes, girl. Yeah. You know what? Just like, I remember, I'm weak. Speaking of drinks, I wanted to talk about a little bit. Did y' all see the girl that made the Dr. Pepper jingle? They actually ended up using her jingle on the commercial for the, like, the football thing. So I wanted to talk about this because I think a lot of times again, I know I'll be talking about it again a lot because I kind of see it with both ways, right? So when she originally made the jingle, Everybody was like, Dr. Pepper, you have to use this. You better use it. You better use it. And then it was like they kind of went silent for a little bit, right? And everybody was up in arms and they were flooding Dr. Pepper's comments. Y' all are stupid. Y' all fumbled. Y' all dropped a bag. Y' all are so dumb.

[Lex]

Just pay her.

[Drea Nicole]

I mean, people are making long dissertations about it, and it's like, okay. A few weeks went by and they made the commercial. Like, things like that take time.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

But also on the other end of it. And y' all know I'm never for these major corporations. I'm not taking up for them at all. But I can see it from a business perspective because every time somebody does something online and it goes viral, it's like you can't do that for everybody because then you're gonna have 10 million people making jingles or 10 million people trying to, you know, do the same thing and thinking, you know what I mean? So it's like you have to do it strategically and very, very smart. I think Dr. Pepper did it the right way. Like I said, I'm never taking up from major corporations, but I'm like, sometimes y' all gotta let things breathe and give it a little time because baby, they had their pitchforks out and they was rioting whole time. The girl probably knew, they probably had contacted her like, hey, we're gonna make it a big reveal during the championship game, the college football stuff, sportskee ball, whatever they was doing. And it was an amazing commercial. They used her real voice. I'm pretty sure she got a pretty penny and things like that. So I was like, I was happy for her. But it's crazy because I feel like a lot of times every time people think like they go viral and they're using a product and stuff, the thing about that is you are taking a risk. If it goes viral, they're not gonna pay you because it's already done the advertisement for them. You see what I'm saying now it is the viral.

[Lex]

I mean they don't have to, it's not a contract. It's not like you were under a contract with them and then they ended up making a whole bunch of owe you a percentage. I think it would be nice for them to pay people, but at the end of the day they don't, they don't have to. And that's just the reality of it. And just because y' all be rioting online, it don't mean that it's going to happen.

[Drea Nicole]

They was rioting, it was actually just a good jingle and, and it was a good jingle, like I said, out of good faith. Cuz I don't have faith in none of these major corporations and I'm not taking up for them. But I think we have to stop expecting these major corporations to be a good person, be, you know, do the right thing. Because they're not. And I understand, we're like, okay, we can boycott and you can do that, you have the right to do that. But I'm glad that they did the right thing. But I think sometimes you do have to let stuff breathe because honestly that makes companies not want to do that. The more Y' all make big deals out of it and be like, oh, we're canceling them. I mean, it had barely been a month. It wasn't even a month. It wasn't even a month.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm like, give them some time. I'm pretty sure there's paperwork, lawyers, everything. They had to agree on the amount she was probably gonna be paid. A lot goes into that. I'm like, y' all ain't even giving no time. But shout out to Romeo. I was happy for her.

[Lex]

Yeah, that's good. Shout out to Dr. Pepper.

[Drea Nicole]

I haven't had Dr. Pepper in years. You know, that's Carlos.

[Lex]

It is my mama love. I've said this before on the show, so my mama loved Dr. Pepper. It tastes like barbecue to me.

[Drea Nicole]

It's very. It's a very acquired taste.

[Lex]

It does. It does. You know, it has. Is it 32 flavors, these bootylicious bubbles. But it is supposed to. I think it's supposed to have, like, 32 flavors. Maybe not 32. Let me look it up. But it's supposed to have, like, a lot of different flavors in it. That's why. Taste like that. Like, it's. It's not something that you can, like, pinpoint and be like. It tastes like. It's like Dr. Pepper has a very unique flavor. And then, you know, Pepsi got they version. Mr. P. Oh, yeah, they do have

[Drea Nicole]

Mr. P. You know, they got Dr. Pepper baked beans, 23 flavors.

[Lex]

So. Okay, reverse 23.

[Drea Nicole]

You were close.

[Lex]

Yeah, I wasn't.

[Drea Nicole]

That wasn't. I'm saying all you had. If you. All you had to do was go like this. You got the numbers just jumped up. A little dyslexic.

[Lex]

Rewind it.

[Drea Nicole]

But, you know, they have Dr. Pepper baked beans.

[Lex]

I have seen it. And that makes sense because Dr. Pepper tastes like barbecue. You tasted the beans? No, I said that probably would be fire. Oh, I thought you said they was fire. I'm about to say, Tom.

[Drea Nicole]

I was about to say. That's my girl.

[Lex]

You a little risk taker, ain't you? Cause I don't know if I seen some Dr. Pepper baked beans. If I would try them, I would. You would.

[Drea Nicole]

I would. You would. Just to see what they talking about. I don't think it would be bad because Dr. Pepper is so sweet. I think it's more strange to drink Dr. Pepper than put it on beans. It's so goddamn sweet.

[Lex]

Yeah. I mean, they be having, like. I feel like I've seen somebody make, like, Dr. Pepper barbecue ribs. Yeah. Seriously, like, with the Dr. Pepper. And they made the sauce. I'm telling you, one thing about niggas.

[Drea Nicole]

We gonna put a drink and some sauce.

[Lex]

Oh, we gonna have Hennessy lamb chops.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, they love that Hennessy. Hennessy glaze. Took the streets by storm.

[Lex]

I just. I feel like it's a bit much, though. Yeah, it's a bit much. Like, it gets to a point, we don't need Hennessy, Glen liquor in everything. Especially if you going out to eat, you already gonna drink. Yeah, I don't need, you know, Don Julio, 1942, in my grid.

[Drea Nicole]

And it's like you cooking out the alcohol anyway. So what flavor is it giving? Yeah. You know what I'm saying?

[Lex]

I've been seeing, like, tequila and pasta sauces.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Where's the wine? Like, what's going on? Like, let's just relax. I'm not kidding. I mean, they got to the point to where they had, like, Ciroc and stuff.

[Lex]

Vodka, like, and I don't like that. I need my drinks where I can feel it right up in my shot glass.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what I'm saying? Like, why? Like, you know, they have the Italian, like, the vodka pasta, and they put it and they cook it off like.

[Lex]

Yeah, that's a little different.

[Drea Nicole]

But, like, y' all putting, like, Ciroc wing sauce for what? Like pineapple. Ciroc wings.

[Lex]

Just use pineapple.

[Drea Nicole]

Just use pineapple juice. Like, you'll be okay. Yeah.

[Lex]

I don't know why places do that, but, I mean, for a good many. And I feel like that got popular during the pandemic. The pandemic was just a wild time. Can y' all believe that was six years ago at this point? Insane. It was six years ago. But N was wild, and we was coming up with all type of shit. Cause we was bored. Like, those first two years. I feel like 2023 is when shit kind of started going a little bit back to normal.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

But 2020 to 2022, wild time. That's when I feel like was coming up with the Sarah Queen and do you know, bored at home coming up with concoctions. The restaurants was like, oh, we gonna put this on the menu.

[Drea Nicole]

And then you know what's happening now. Do you remember them P that used to do them board games? Like, you put in $20 and they say, like, pick one person and they win the money.

[Lex]

Mm, mm, mm.

[Drea Nicole]

That was, like, big. During the pandemic, like, people started playing, like, these board games. I don't know exactly what they were called. Su. So basically, you, like, give like $30, $40. A bunch of people put money in a pot and they're supposed to pick a winner. And then one person wins all of that money or something. And come to find out, obviously it was a scam. Cause people were keeping the money. It was this one couple. They scammed people for millions of dollars and they're like going to jail now.

[Lex]

They are.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes.

[Lex]

That's good. Where they belong.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. A lot of people are thinking that whatever scams that you did during the pandemic, you're thinking, oh, it's been six years. It's a long time ago, baby. They coming for y', all, though.

[Lex]

That's how I feel about them PPP loans. Niggas think they safe. Yeah, niggas think they safe. Y' all ain't safe yet.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my God.

[Lex]

Cause what's the statute of limitations on there? We probably. They can make one. Cause we ain't never had before.

[Drea Nicole]

We. Yeah, that's crazy.

[Lex]

Y' all need to be careful out here.

[Drea Nicole]

If people have an LLC talking about they got 10 employees big, or maybe

[Lex]

me and you just saucy. Cause we ain't getting no ppp.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what, though?

[Lex]

I was like, damn, that was the one thing. I was like, fuck, we should have did that shit.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause we had a business. Yeah, but we didn't have employees. We did. We had like three at that time. No, we did not. Yes, we did.

[Lex]

Who during the pandemic. 2020.

[Drea Nicole]

Hmm.

[Lex]

Oh, we did.

[Terry Dubrow]

We had.

[Drea Nicole]

We had a little. My little staff

[Lex]

girl that we could have wrote on.

[Drea Nicole]

They would have said, girl. Hell no.

[Lex]

I just think, though, cuz we wasn't still editing. We weren't just still editing our own videos. By 2020, we were like. I think it was like Tahir. Yeah, exactly.

[Drea Nicole]

Poor Ty.

[Lex]

Here we had Ty here we had.

[Drea Nicole]

We have no money.

[Lex]

We had like two or three people that we could have put on there.

[Drea Nicole]

Shout out to Tyre, man.

[Lex]

Shout out to Tyr.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. But yeah, I feel like with the PPP stuff, I never felt bad for not doing it because I'm not a criminal. Every time I see people doing things, I'm like, okay, congratulations, you got away with it. Good for you. But when I see people going to jail, it's just. It's never been worth the risk for me. Never. Cause I haven't seen one person that got a PPP loan and they still up right now because they were smart with that money.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, I had one. Okay, well, you had. It wasn't that much though. Right. But you did smart. And you did right by your money. But I'm sure like you. Cause you had.

[Lex]

I had a property management company at that time.

[Drea Nicole]

See, so you ain't gonna get in trouble. Cause some people. I pay it back too. Exactly. And some people were really using that PPP loan correctly and doing the right way.

[Lex]

Oh, yeah, we was gonna use it correctly, of course.

[Drea Nicole]

Speak for yourself. I was gonna be locked up. It was gonna be Poor Minds featuring Dre and Nicole.

[Terry Dubrow]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

No, it would've been you and Tahir, bitch.

[Lex]

No, it wouldn't have. No, I feel like we would have used it for the right thing. You know what I mean? But I just. I do feel like we probably should have applied.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause we probably would have got it. I mean, we definitely would have got it. Getting less. Yes, but I mean, it was people

[Lex]

who had less going on who was actually getting approval.

[Drea Nicole]

Right, I know, but what I'm saying is, at that time, my mind frame, I was not finna do that money.

[Lex]

Right, so you was gonna be a criminal.

[Drea Nicole]

Fuck yes. I feel like I've just.

[Lex]

That's why you stay away from illegal. Cause you know you gonna take it to the moon.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm gonna take it to the moon every time.

[Lex]

That's very honest of you, though.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. I feel like I've just now started to become financially literate, so. But back then, bitch, I would have been in saloon no shade. But that's what I did with my unemployment. Then wait, went to Tulum was a saloon. I was having a ball too. I said, ooh, every. And then they was paying that shit every week. Oh, I was having the time, baby. And then at the time.

[Lex]

But that's not wrong, though. I feel like once they give you money, it's yours to do whatever you want.

[Drea Nicole]

But then at the time, like, the guy I was dating, I told him like, my unemployment had got denied, so I was getting money from him and my other boo. I was running them licks. I was having a good time during pandemic. I mean, not that it was a good time.

[Lex]

No, it wasn't a good time. People were dying. People are dying, Kim.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Literally. Seriously. So it was a week. I know, it's so crazy, but it wasn't a good time. I'm just saying, like, who was hitting leaks?

[Lex]

I mean, they were. I feel like that's when n was like having money. Like, the money was plentiful, bounciful.

[Drea Nicole]

Tom's was. Tom was good.

[Lex]

20, 23, man. N ain't have it no more.

[Drea Nicole]

It's crazy. Cause like, I have a friend that's. You know him, he's about to go to jail.

[Lex]

Another one of your friends.

[Drea Nicole]

You know him as your friend too. Just. Is he mine?

[Lex]

How is he my friend?

[Drea Nicole]

Who. He about to go to jail. Oh, damn.

[Lex]

I didn't know that. This is a poor ass exclusive.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes, yes. Girl, he is going to jail, bitch. Why?

[Lex]

Cause he was scamming during the. During the pandemic. Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

And a little bit caught up to him. You know he used to be doing that. You got bank of America tap in, bitch. Ooh. People was tapping the fuck in. How long he got? Girl, they getting. I don't think he hasn't got sentenced yet. So his sentencing is coming up.

[Lex]

That's my.

[Drea Nicole]

That was.

[Lex]

That is our friend. That really is our friend. I thought you was going to say somebody that I was going to be like, that ain't my friend. No.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, that's our dog. So really, honestly, prayers up to him. And I will say too, I remember he was like, hey, man, I got a sweet at the Rockets game. I said, damn, I wish I was in Houston. Like he was.

[Lex]

I remember. Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

He was having a ball.

[Lex]

And remember he used to be coming out here. Remember I had went out with him a few times and he was buying the bottles and stuff.

[Drea Nicole]

It was lit. I know.

[Lex]

Until it was.

[Drea Nicole]

Until it fucking wasn't.

[Lex]

But he might end up getting like, out. Getting out early. Like our other two friends, we know too many scammy. We got too many scammy niggas. And we used to be having a time all day down back in the day.

[Drea Nicole]

But the one, the first one that went to jail, remember when we went and did our birthday and stuff together? He was supposed to get a long time. He was.

[Lex]

And he got out.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, early.

[Lex]

Like, really early.

[Drea Nicole]

Really.

[Lex]

That's why I said, I mean, he might end up getting a break. Not you think he told me. But no, for real. That is fucked up. But I'm telling you, and it's not the end of it. It's a lot of people who gonna be getting caught up in like the next few years from like pandemic scams. Cause I mean, it haven't been long enough for people to think that they've gotten away out the way.

[Drea Nicole]

And I will say this, though, the reason I feel like it's unfortunate stuff, because honestly, now people who scam and steal from like, old people and steal from people's actual bank accounts, I don't feel sorry for them. Your ass need to go to jail. But like when you stealing from the government, our corrupt ass girl, I don't really be feeling like I don't feel no way about that now. I'm not saying that it's right. I just don't feel no way about it. You know what I mean?

[Lex]

Yeah, me either. I don't feel no way about it either because they already been crippling us for centuries. Well, maybe not centuries.

[Drea Nicole]

No, it's not.

[Lex]

But hundreds of years.

[Drea Nicole]

Hundreds and hundreds of years. Yeah.

[Lex]

For hundreds of years they already been crippling us. So I definitely. Especially when it's our people doing it, I don't necessarily be seeing anything wrong with it either. But unfortunately we live in a mix and we where we don't run shit.

[Drea Nicole]

I know.

[Lex]

So we definitely going to jail if we do some wrong shit.

[Drea Nicole]

But I mean, y' all should know what Martha Stewart stealing from the government,

[Lex]

what they be giving you hard times, especially as a black person.

[Drea Nicole]

That's what I'm saying. Once Martha Stewart, they send her ass for insider trading. Nobody fucking say, yeah. How the fuck you send Martha Stewart to jail, bitch? Easily. All she do is bake pies.

[Lex]

That ain't all she do. That ain't all she was doing. She was whipping at work. She was doing the life. But I love Martha Stewart. I love her personality, bro. When I love her, she just has such a. I don't give a fuck. Ass personality.

[Drea Nicole]

That documentary I was gonna say, did you watch?

[Lex]

Yeah, I watched her documentary too.

[Drea Nicole]

It changed the way I look at her. Like the way she just. Even how she handled the situation with her husband, it was just like that girl. Yeah, she been that girl for a long time. The original influencer she have.

[Lex]

And she's aging well as well in

[Drea Nicole]

her money and her funds. That's a forever household name, bitch.

[Lex]

Martha Stewart, yes. She still have her line of stuff in like home goods and everywhere. Shout out to Big Marth.

[Drea Nicole]

Big Marth. Big balls. That thing.

[Lex]

That's like a cute nickname.

[Drea Nicole]

It is Big Martha. People need to put some respect on her name. For real. She did a whole.

[Lex]

But that also kind of sound like something you would nickname your pussy.

[Drea Nicole]

I was just about to say that. That you know, I got Big G,

[Lex]

what we used to call my coochie.

[Drea Nicole]

I can't remember.

[Lex]

Beef Cliff,

[Drea Nicole]

Big. He and Big and Big Mark and Big Marth. I with Martha Stewart, though, shout out to her.

[Lex]

Me too.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, so let's get into the first topic, child. We want to talk about something really random today. Things that you're weird. Weirdly Good at that. Aren't real. Everybody has that one skill that they're proud of, but it's not going on a resume. Like it can't get you nowhere. You can't do nothing with it. It's just, you just have this talent and it's just a talent. Let's talk about talents that don't pay the bills but still deserve, you know, a little recognition. You know what I'm saying?

[Ana Navarro]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

What is your talent that you have? I have a few.

[Lex]

I have a few.

[Drea Nicole]

Where do I start?

[Lex]

So I do believe that I'm pretty good at parallel parking.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex]

I've been doing it for a really long time. Shout out to me. I've been doing. I've been parallel parking since I was like in high school. Because when I used to park I did out. Wait, no. I got my car in the middle of the school year so I couldn't get a parking pass for the student parking lot. So I had to park on like the street in front of the school. So I had to learn how to parallel park. So I've been weeping it for a long time. And I can get in tight places.

[Drea Nicole]

That's ok.

[Lex]

But seriously though, like I'm really, really good at parallel parking and backing in.

[Drea Nicole]

Do you used to like pull up with your music?

[Lex]

Absolutely. Like I was so obnoxious.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh my God.

[Lex]

Because I also had like a Bose system in my car. When I got it. My parents got me like the ultimate package in my Ultima. They didn't play no game so like my speakers went so loud.

[Drea Nicole]

You got 6:12.

[Lex]

I definitely used to be pulling up with the music blasting and I had a sunroof. I had that open.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes.

[Lex]

You couldn't tell me nothing. And then you know how you put your hand right here and then you be looking back. That's how you know. You serious?

[Drea Nicole]

I'm a wheel.

[Lex]

You gotta put that elbow on the console like this. Yeah, yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

And then you so little.

[Lex]

So I know I was this close to the wheel. I'm still super close to the wheel. And the crazy thing is now like as I get older, I really love big ass cars. Like I don't like having a little car. Like I love. I love being a little woman that hops out of a big ass car. I don't think I'll ever. Maybe one day I'll get like a little cute like Porsche convertible or something.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

But I don't really see myself having a sedan again.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Or like a low to the ground car.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. I'm not gonna lie. Once I get rid of my hooptie, I'm gonna get something big.

[Lex]

You gonna get something big.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, I told you, whenever I'm, like, rich, rich, and I have, like, a bunch of cars, I'm definitely. I want, like, a big muscle truck.

[Lex]

I do. I've always wanted, like, a F150.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. Like, maybe like a F250. Like something a little bigger than the F150.

[Lex]

They got 250s.

[Drea Nicole]

They got three, four. They do.

[Lex]

What's the difference?

[Drea Nicole]

They're bigger. Segregation in the day, integration at night.

[Narrator]

When segregation was the law, one mysterious black club owner had his own rules.

[Lex]

We didn't worry about what went on outside. It was like stepping in another world.

[Narrator]

Inside Charlie's Place, black and white people danced together. But not everyone was happy about it.

[Lex]

You saw the kkk.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. They were dressed up in their uniform.

[Lex]

The KKK set out to raid Charlie, take him away from here.

[Drea Nicole]

Charlie was an example of power. They had to crush him.

[Narrator]

From Atlas Obscura, Rococo Punch, and visit Myrtle beach comes Charlie's Place, a story that was nearly lost to time. Until now. Listen to Charlie's place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Ana Navarro]

You know Roald Dahl, the writer who thought up Willy Wonka, Matilda, and the bfg. But did you know he was also a spy?

[Lex]

Was this before he wrote his stories? It must have been.

[Ana Navarro]

Our new podcast series, The Secret World of Roald Dahl is a wild journey through the hidden chapters of his extraordinary, controversial life. His job was literally to seduce the wives of powerful Americans.

[Drea Nicole]

What?

[Ana Navarro]

And he was really good at it. You probably won't believe it either.

[Lex]

Okay, I don't think that's true.

[Ana Navarro]

I'm telling you, the guy was a spy. Did you know Dahl got cozy with the Roosevelts, played poker with Harry Truman, and had a long affair with a congresswoman? And then he took his talents to Hollywood, where he worked alongside Walt Disney and Alfred Hitchcock before writing a hit James Bond film. How did this secret agent wind up as the most successful children's author ever? And what darkness from his covert past seeped into the stories we read as kids? The true story is stranger than anything he ever wrote. Listen to the Secret World of Roald Dahl on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

I'm Ana Navarro, and on my new podcast, Bleep with Ana Navarro, I'm talking to the people closest to the biggest issues happening in your community and around the world. Because I know deep down inside, right now we are all cursing and asking what the bleep is going on. I'm talking to people like Julie K. Brown, who broke the explosive story on Jeffrey Epstein in 2018. These victims have been let down time and time again for decades and decades and decades by local law enforcement, by federal law enforcement, by administration after administration.

[Lex]

The Justice Department through I think we counted four presidential administrations failed these victims.

[Ana Navarro]

Listen to BLEEP with Ana Navarro as part of the My Cultura Podcast network, available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast.

[Drea Nicole]

Podcasts.

[Heather Dubrow]

Almost 30 years together, four kids, and some of reality TV's most unforgettable moments. We know a thing or two about living life out loud. We're taking you behind the scenes in our new podcast, Between Us with me,

[Terry Dubrow]

Heather Dubrow, and me, Terry debrow. Between Us isn't about perfect lighting or curated Instagram grids.

[Heather Dubrow]

It's the unfiltered behind closed doors conversations you wish you could eavesdrop on. Equal parts smart, funny, and a little bit scandalous.

[Terry Dubrow]

Every week, Heather will bring you an unapologetic take on the headlines, the trends, and the cultural moments everyone's texting about.

[Heather Dubrow]

And Terri will deliver insider beauty, health and wellness insights you won't find on TikTok.

[Terry Dubrow]

Together, we'll tell the stories, spill the secrets, and share the hacks that keep life, marriage, and everything in between feeling fresh and fun.

[Heather Dubrow]

We may live in a gated community, but the there's zero gatekeeping here and

[Terry Dubrow]

plenty of did they just say that? Moments.

[Heather Dubrow]

Listen to between us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Drea Nicole]

They're like heavy duty. Okay. I think they go up. I think they go up to 450.

[Lex]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm not sure, okay, what they go up to, but I know they have a F150, F250, and F350.

[Lex]

That and they just get bigger and

[Drea Nicole]

they, like, get bigger. And I think, like, with the F450, that's when they have, like the two. They got two back wheels. You know, they got four wheels in the back and, like two in the front. That's when you get real big. I think they call it like a dually truck.

[Lex]

A dually. I have heard of a dually truck.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, yeah, them big ones. But I definitely.

[Lex]

I could see you having a dually truck.

[Drea Nicole]

I want, like, a big ass. I do want, like, a big ass truck. I'm gonna, of course, have my Next purchase. When I decide to buy a car, I'm gonna have, like a nice little suv.

[Lex]

Yeah, SUV is gonna be cute for you.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. But I also. I still. I'm gonna want something like my hooptie. Just an upgraded version. Like, I'll do. Yeah, I still.

[Lex]

Would you get a Hellcat?

[Drea Nicole]

I would. Hellcat. S. I t. I would. I would like a little. I'm not gonna lie. I feel like when I'm in my old age, I really kind of wanna, like, get into cars as, like an extra hobby. Not like Carlos cars. Cause he has a lot of knowledge.

[Lex]

He has, like, old school. He has old schools in it. Old school kickers deep.

[Drea Nicole]

But I just want, like a lot of, like, nice cars. Maybe I'll get an old school.

[Lex]

I mean, you know, with being a car connoisseur, it's just so expensive. Especially when you get into those older cars. You know, just the maintenance and, like, making it work like it's still brand new. You be having to get a new engine. It's just always something that I've noticed, like guys who be having the older cars, they be having to do too.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Because. Yeah. Cause what I'm just gonna say I've dated a few guys who be having.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, but also you have to find, like, a garage. Like, a lot of these people have, like, big garages on their property. Have you ever seen Jerry Seinfeld's garage? No. It's literally like the size of a mansion. The garage itself. Himself, with just his cars. And I think it's only Porsches. Right. I think his collection. Very crazy. I don't think I'm gonna get to that level, but I do feel like I'm probably gonna have, like, maybe like 10 cars.

[Lex]

I be saying the same thing. I want a car. I want, like two for every day.

[Drea Nicole]

Two.

[Lex]

I also want a plane, though. So don't ask me things.

[Drea Nicole]

I want you ruining the ozone layer.

[Lex]

Oh, well, are you gonna be on it or not?

[Drea Nicole]

Now, you know I'm gonna be in that motherfucker. You know, I'm finna be in that motherfucker.

[Lex]

But no, seriously, I don't know. I definitely wanna have, like. I don't feel like you can have too many cars.

[Drea Nicole]

I think you definitely can have too many cars where it starts to get, like, a little, like, over consumption. But, you know, I think everybody has their hobbies. Yeah.

[Lex]

I mean, I feel like everybody has their things that they're into. And I'm one of those people. I believe in overindulging. Like, once I can afford everything I want. I'm going to buy myself everything that I've ever wanted. So if it's a car that I wanted when I was like 12 years

[Drea Nicole]

old, I'm gonna buy.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

I think that you should always satisfy your inner child with gifts to yourself like that, like things you always wanted. I'm not gonna lie to you. I know y' all be like, okay, Lex, we get it. I never. Knock on wood. I never thought I was gonna be a homeowner. I just could not see that for myself. Just because I felt like it was so far away.

[Lex]

Like, bitch, I could barely eat.

[Drea Nicole]

I was like, noodles are gas. What you eating today? You know what I'm saying? So it just seemed like so far. So it's just like as I attain these things, I'm like, okay, it's not too far fetched as I thought.

[Lex]

You can have everything that you want in this life. I just think you need to be optimistic and you need to be a go getter. Like of course you have to go after the things that you want. But I also think having a positive mindset is what's gonna always open the door. You can't get the that you want if you're not thinking positively and you're not speaking it and manifesting it into your life.

[Drea Nicole]

But I also think people need to realize too, you can manifest all you want, you can pray all you want, but it requires action as well.

[Lex]

But that's why I said like, I feel like you definitely need to be a go getter and yeah, work and go after the things that you want. But I really truly believe being positive and having a positive mindset is the gateway.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Because if you a person who you always thinking negative and you don't think you can attain certain things, you're not going to attain them because you're not even going to try or you're not even going to work hard because you've already put in your mind, I can't do this. There's no way I can make it happen. I be thinking I could do every goddamn thing. Yeah, you ain't that I believe I can't do.

[Drea Nicole]

Cuz there's stuff that like I said that we're doing now. I'm like, wow, okay. Anything is possible. Okay. Yes. Back to my talent. One thing about me, I'm really good at this. Honestly, my friend Belyn is even better than me. But I'm pretty good at, I am pretty good at predicting the plot twist in movies. Okay.

[Lex]

Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

Like when I now I Will say now, bitch. His and hers was not expecting that ending. That fucking threw me for a loop. I was like, what the fuck? It was giving a little Tyler Perry ish at the end with the ending. It was such a big twist. But I like Tyler Perry, so I wasn't mad at it, you know, But I always feel like I figure movies out very quickly, at least within like the first 30 minutes. Because obviously it's always easy to eliminate the obvious choices. Right? Like in his and hers. I knew it wasn't gonna be his or hers, obviously. You know what I'm saying? The rip that just came out on Netflix, I figured that out really quickly. Yeah, I love to watch like, who done it stuff, but, you know, I'm a true crime girly. And I just. I feel like if I really just like decided to quit the podcast, I could become a detective. I figure out everything. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? I'm that friend. Lex, where my man at? Oh, I'm going know where he at. Give me 30 minutes and a password. I'm hacking it.

[Lex]

No, Yeah, I mean, my mom is really good at that too. Like, she's really good at predicting what's going to happen in a movie before the end of the movie. So. Yeah, I don't know. I'm not really that good at that. But it's cause my attention span, I don't even be paying attention for real.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what's crazy? They said that now. Matt Damon said this in her interview. He said that now that they're making movies. Because I noticed this in the rip. They kept repeating the same things over and over again. They kept repeating the plot of the movie. And I don't know what podcast it was. I saw them point this out and they kept saying, oh, you're gonna steal the rip. You came here to rob it. You came here. You're gonna steal the rip. They said that like 30 times in the movie. But Matt Damon said, like, they're writing scripts like that now because people are on their phones while they're watching it. So if you're watching in the background, you still kind of know what's going on. Cause they're repeating what's happening. Oh, so you're just gonna pop up like this so you can steal the rip. It was like the script is very kind of hard to follow along because there's no depth to it. Because they're literally making scripts and movies now because people still scroll so much.

[Lex]

Yeah, you don't want to. It's not for me. It's not even that I be ending up scrolling. I just. I don't know, I be in La La land. I'll just drift off and be daydreaming and stuff. And then I be like, oh, let me finish watching this. And I be having to rewind movies like so many times. You would hate to watch it with me, baby.

[Drea Nicole]

You can't watch me and be. Phone's off. We on the couch. I mean, people be blowing us up. We be like, oh, I even realize we be in it.

[Lex]

And I falls asleep. That's the thing about it. I gonna fall asleep every time I'm that friend.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, if you're not watching the movie, I get so. Oh, I know.

[Lex]

Cause we used to watch TV together and you used to always get mad. Cause I would always fall asleep.

[Drea Nicole]

Remember how excited I was? It's like, we're going to Wakanda.

[Lex]

Oh yeah. When we went to go see Black Panther, I was like, we're going to Wakanda. But I didn't fall asleep watching Black Panther. Cause it was really good. It was juicy. It was like this. And you had gave me a whole crash course.

[Drea Nicole]

I did a real quick rundown so you can know what was going. Yeah.

[Lex]

Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm a movie buff, so. Yeah, I feel like that's a good talent that I have now. One talent that I do have that I feel like could make me money. And it could, like, if I really was like focused on it and I got somebody to help me, I could really become a tap dancer. I'm not kidding. My skills are there. But practice. No, you gotta hear me out. If I practice.

[Lex]

I've seen you tap dance.

[Drea Nicole]

I know, and I'm good.

[Lex]

Well, not really. Cause you didn't have tap shoes.

[Drea Nicole]

But I was doing a damn good job. You was barefoot and you could still hear the precision.

[Lex]

No, in order for me to think you was a good tap dancer, I need to see it with the tap shoes on so we can hear the beat.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay. You know what I keep saying?

[Lex]

Cause that's a talent for real.

[Ana Navarro]

I know.

[Drea Nicole]

And I can really tap dance. I swear to you. I'm ordering some tap shoes today.

[Lex]

Where you gonna do it at? On Poor Mom.

[Drea Nicole]

Right there. Right there.

[Lex]

Can we record it and insert it in the video?

[Drea Nicole]

Absolutely. If they get. They'll definitely get here by next week.

[Lex]

You gonna order em today?

[Drea Nicole]

I'm so serious.

[Lex]

What song you gonna do?

[Drea Nicole]

You.

[Lex]

Not that Backstreet song. Backstreet's back.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, that's my specialty.

[Lex]

Okay. I'm here for It. We've been saying for years that we were gonna have a Poor Minds talent show, and we've never done.

[Drea Nicole]

I got it.

[Lex]

We were supposed to.

[Drea Nicole]

Remember?

[Lex]

You was supposed to get the clarinet.

[Drea Nicole]

No, I was gonna get the saxophone.

[Lex]

The trumpet.

[Drea Nicole]

Saxophone.

[Lex]

My bad. I knew it was one of them instruments that you used to play. It was the saxophone.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Okay, so you was gonna get your saxophone, and I was gonna get my flute, and we were supposed to have a battle of the. And we never did it. Never did it.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause saxophones are expensive, bitch.

[Lex]

But we're supposed to rent them.

[Drea Nicole]

I ain't.

[Lex]

I mean, we weren't gonna buy em. I don't need no flute at my house.

[Drea Nicole]

But I will say I can tap dance. Like, if I got somebody who could really, like, do private lessons, and you gave me, like, three to six months.

[Lex]

You will figure it out.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm on y' all ass.

[Lex]

I believe you.

[Drea Nicole]

Literally. You know, when I was little, what was that? You focus.

[Lex]

You could do anything.

[Drea Nicole]

But I'm telling you, I was that kid. You remember how, like, commercials would come up and it would be like, your mom could order you something, A cassette tape or whatever. I had Riverdance. Remember the Riverdance? I used to kick they feet up. I used to love me a river dance tape, baby.

[Lex]

I was thinking about the Beyonce song.

[Drea Nicole]

No, not that one. The original River Dance. They had that man, he had this long blonde hair, baby. He used to kick them legs up sky high. I used to love a river dance, bitch.

[Lex]

That's a talent, too.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. I was a great tap dancer when I was younger.

[Ana Navarro]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

Really good.

[Lex]

Well, we can't wait. Do your rendition. Enough Is Enough of Back Streets Back. It's coming back here on Poor Miles. I'm about to say live. It ain't gonna be live.

[Drea Nicole]

It's not gonna be live. But. But I'm gonna get them ankles ready, too. Yeah, you're gonna have to stretch them. I am.

[Lex]

Do the little rotation, I'm telling you. Okay, so another thing that I'm really good at, guessing people's zodiac signs. When I meet them, it's very easy. I always know that's something I could probably do for money if I wasn't doing poor minds scam people.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Ooh. Like a Ms. Clean type shit.

[Lex]

Yes. Because. Because I. It's easy for me to pick up on people's zodiacs, but I'm not gonna lie. As soon as I meet them, I

[Drea Nicole]

love seeing videos when people be like, oh, somebody be like, what's your sign? They be like, Guess. And they be like a Scorpio.

[Lex]

And they be wrong.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, it's a Scorpio. And they be like, for real? They'd be like, no, it's not.

[Lex]

Yeah, they be wrong. I be always right. For the most part. When I get people signed, it's easy to pick up on it. I mean, I do think it's true what people say. I don't think everybody who have the same sign act alike, but they all definitely have similarities that jump out. Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. You know what's crazy, though? Like, sometimes, like I said, I don't get into all the signs, but I feel like I know a lot about Capricorns, as I dated one for so long. But I'm not gonna lie. Every time I see somebody with such a rambunctious and outgoing personality and they say they're a Capricorn, I'm always shocked. Like, Frankie, being a Capricorn blows my mind. Blows my mind. Yeah.

[Lex]

I mean, it is shocking sometimes. But then I guess because over the years, I've dug a little deeper into your zodiac and stuff. Your big three matters.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Like, you could be. He could be a Capricorn, son. But he might be. I mean, I don't know what his other two with his moon and his rising is, but he might be like, a Sagittarius moon. Yeah. Aries rising. And so it's like, that trump him being a Capricorn, if that makes sense. But. Yeah. I don't know. People are never really good at figuring out my sign, though.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Whenever they try to guess, they're always wrong majority of the time.

[Drea Nicole]

But you know what's crazy? Every time people try to guess my sign in the comments, they always be wrong.

[Lex]

They be wrong in the comments about me, too.

[Drea Nicole]

That's why I be like. That's why I be kind of like, if you went about this sign shit. Cause I'm like, I feel like it's obvious what I am, but every time they be wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong.

[Lex]

I just think when you're a cool girl, they want to claim you as one of their own.

[Drea Nicole]

Exactly.

[Lex]

Like, no.

[Drea Nicole]

Bitch. Oh, my gosh. Anytime. I will say that gets on my nerves. Anytime something on social media happens with, like, a celebrity. This is so Libra coded, bitch.

[Ana Navarro]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my God, bitch.

[Lex]

You are such a Libra. Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Sagittarius tings. Yeah, babe, please, please.

[Lex]

Every time some cool shit happen, they be like, pierce, because you know she is Sagittarius. Because, you know Sagittarius don't play that. Cause you know, she a Pisces.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh.

[Lex]

And I be like that gives me

[Drea Nicole]

the ick a little bit. I'm not gonna lie. That gives me the ick a little

[Lex]

bit Again though, I do think that people have.

[Drea Nicole]

They do similarity. But you know what's crazy? Like me and my friend, My best friend Killa is a Leo. We actually use that to shade each other.

[Lex]

What do you mean?

[Drea Nicole]

Like when she does something, like when we do something to each other that's kind of like attention. Like we want attention from the other person or we're being dramatic. We be like okay, Leo, Leo, please. Okay. Like we do that to be like shady towards each other. Cause it's funny.

[Lex]

But see to me. And that's even with that. Like to me you act like a Leo. She don't like. I don't think Killa act like a

[Drea Nicole]

Leo, I think when you're round. But like you haven't been around Killa in like a setting of like us like at a kickback or some shit. Because you know what? People always think that about her. I have, I feel like I've been

[Lex]

around her in multiple settings.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, I mean like more like we be outside and it most likely every time she's around and you're there there it'd be like something for poor mine.

[Lex]

I've been at your house.

[Drea Nicole]

What?

[Lex]

That's a personal setting. I feel like we done been to lounges, we done been out of town together, we done been to restaurants. Where else can we go? Where the hell else can we go?

[Drea Nicole]

But I feel like every time we do, I don't know, she's kind of like. It depends who she's around too. Cuz a lot of times she's like around other people and stuff. She's kind of like more reserved but. Or just like quiet. Doesn't really say much. But like when we be at the house, like when me, her and B. Lynn were at my house, it was like she's just. She baby, the girl can talk now.

[Lex]

Yeah. I just be feeling like Killa is very calm, reserved.

[Drea Nicole]

And that's so crazy cause she seemed

[Lex]

that way on high maintenance too though.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, but I think it was more.

[Lex]

That's in the mind.

[Drea Nicole]

That's key for another day. But I will say let me stop being messy about that girl business. I think I. Lip gloss. Calm and reserved is something I wouldn't use to describe her. But I mean I get how you would think that though at the same time.

[Lex]

Yeah, I mean, yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

But yeah, I just feel like I don't know. Cause a lot of times, again with the sign shit, I be like, it gives me the ick a little bit. A little tiny bit. Especially. I don't know if niggas be into signs. You really not my type.

[Lex]

Yeah. I've never dated nobody who was really into signs.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I don't like that.

[Lex]

Like, I'm more the one that be like, oh, yeah, I mess with y' all signs for girls. Yeah. Not that's for girls. This for girls.

[Drea Nicole]

You have a secret talent.

[Lex]

I'm really good at planning.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex]

Like, trips anywhere. Like, getting an itinerary. Just kind of, like, putting the pieces to the puzzle together on things. I'm, like, really good at that. My friends want me to do it all the time. That's good. I wish I was good at that.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm good at that, too. I'm not going to lie.

[Lex]

I suck at planning stuff. Like, as far as, like, planning an itinerary for a trip, I just want somebody else to do it. Find somebody else to do it.

[Drea Nicole]

I did our itinerary in Turkish works. I did my itinerary for Miami. I'm really good at doing itineraries. I just. I don't like to, but I will because I'm good at it.

[Lex]

But, like, every so often.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes.

[Lex]

I really enjoy the part of, like, researching the restaurant.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Like, the reviews. Like, I trust my judgment on stuff. Or other people over other people. That makes sense. Okay. All right, let's see. Also, I do remember a lot of random, useless facts. Like, I'm full of fun facts.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, give us one.

[Lex]

I don't know what to say right now.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay. That was my bad. That was my bad. Yeah.

[Lex]

It's kind of like when you.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, it's kind of like when

[Lex]

somebody puts you on the spot, you be like, okay. But I am really good at random facts because I'm always saying some. And people be like, really?

[Drea Nicole]

I didn't know that.

[Lex]

Oh, that's interesting. You know, and it's stuff that, like, most people would. But it's good.

[Drea Nicole]

I think that's a good conversation starter.

[Lex]

Yeah, it is.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, hey, did you know that for every four acorns, there's one squirrel?

[Lex]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

That would've been a good fact, though, you know?

[Lex]

But you know what's interesting? I'm not really the type of person to just walk up to somebody and, like, spark up a conversation either. Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

But I'm saying, like, if somebody walks up to you and y' all are having small talk, you'll.

[Lex]

Why would they walk up to me.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause you fine. They wanna taste that Heathcliff.

[Lex]

I'm gonna be like, excuse me, do you need help?

[Drea Nicole]

But I will say too one random thing that I'm good at. And B. Lynn thinks it's so funny. When I'm watching a movie, I can randomly name actors and actresses. Like I know actors now.

[Lex]

Yeah, you do do that.

[Drea Nicole]

I be knowing they names down, bitch. And I can name at least. At least two or three movies they done been in. I be knowing the names, the Hollywood names.

[Lex]

That makes sense.

[Drea Nicole]

And that's just useless information that I have. All right, moving on. Let us know yalls random talents and things like that. Okay, topic too. Well, actually first, before we get into the topic, it's Taylor Port day.

[Lex]

It is Taylor Port.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what I'm saying?

[Lex]

Shout out to Taylor Port.

[Drea Nicole]

All right, y', all, this one's called still sipping on Taylor. It's smooth, easy, and y' all know me, it's doing exactly what it's supposed to do.

[Lex]

Exactly. It's simple, but it still makes a statement.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, we start with Taylor port. Rich, smooth, and it's very approachable.

[Lex]

Yes. I love that. She consistent and we love consistency.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. And then we going to add a little peach snobs for the softness. Pineapple juice, it's going to brighten it up. And a little fresh lime because that's, you know, going to put the balance

[Lex]

in there because balance always matters.

[Drea Nicole]

And then of course, you know, you're going to shake it up, strain it

[Lex]

over some ice and keep it clean.

[Drea Nicole]

Finish with a pineapple red. You know, you can get a little fancy and add a cherry too.

[Lex]

Not nothing too extra, but just be intention.

[Drea Nicole]

This is one of those drinks you make when you want something like really relaxed, but it's done, right?

[Lex]

Still sipping on Taylor. Cheers.

[Drea Nicole]

Topic two. All right, let's see what we getting into. Okay. Are you okay if your man doesn't match your aesthetic? Okay, do y' all remember when Vivica gave Bobby Brown a whole makeup?

[Lex]

Wait, from the movies? Who could play their game? Yeah. Oh, she didn't give him a makeover. It was Wendy Raquel character that gave Bobby Brown a makeover in the movie cuz she was dating him. But yes, I definitely remember that. Cuz when she was with him, at first I was like, oh, he busty. And then he. Cuz he was. He was busted. His teeth was messed up. Like he was just a hot ass mess all around. And I was like, what did she see in him? And then she polished him up and he was looking like something. I was like, I know that's right, Bobby. I mean, I forgot his name in the movie, but, yeah, that's why I

[Drea Nicole]

was, like, confused when I was reading it, but yes. Do you think it's okay if your man doesn't match your aesthetic?

[Lex]

Not like that. Not that, no. Because not for me personally. Like, and when I think of, like, your man, I matching your aesthetic, sometimes I think more of, like, he's a chill type of person. Like, he dressed really chill and you glam. Kind of like how Beyonce and Jay zb. Like, Beyonce will pull up with all Valentino down. Yeah, it's like. Like a whole fit, a whole costume on, and Jay Z just going to be chill. He be having his tims on with his jeans, a nice little bomber jacket, and he still be looking nice. But his style is just very reserved now. When they go to, like, red carpet

[Drea Nicole]

events, he puts that on. Yes, yes.

[Lex]

He going to put on a suit and like that. But, like, on a regular, daily basis, I feel like he dressed very chill.

[Drea Nicole]

Segregation in the day, integration at night.

[Narrator]

When segregation was the law, one mysterious black club owner had his own rules.

[Lex]

We didn't worry about what went on outside. It was like stepping in another world.

[Narrator]

Inside Charlie's Place, black and white people danced together. But not everyone was happy about it.

[Lex]

You saw the kkk.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. They was dressed up in their uniform.

[Lex]

The KKK set out to raid Charlie, take him away from here.

[Drea Nicole]

Charlie was an example of power. They had to crush him.

[Narrator]

From Atlas Obscura, Rococo Punch and visit Myrtle beach comes Charlie's Place, a story that was nearly lost to time until now. Listen to Charlie's place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

[Ana Navarro]

You know Roald Dahl, the writer who thought up Willy Wonka, Matilda, and the bfg. But did you know he was also a spy?

[Lex]

Was this before he wrote his stories? It must have been.

[Ana Navarro]

Our new podcast series, the Secret World of Roald Dahl is a wild journey through the hidden chapters of his extraordinary, controversial life. His job was literally to seduce the wives of powerful Americans.

[Drea Nicole]

What?

[Ana Navarro]

And he was really good at it. You probably won't believe it either.

[Lex]

Okay, I don't think that's true.

[Ana Navarro]

I'm telling you, the guy was a spy. Did you know Dahl got cozy with the Roosevelts, played poker with Harry Truman, and had a long affair with a congresswoman. And then he took his talents to Hollywood, where he worked alongside Walt Disney and Alfred Hitchcock before writing a hit James Bond film. How did the Secret Agent wind up as the most successful children's author ever? And what darkness from his covert past seeped into the story stories we read as kids? The true story is stranger than anything he ever wrote. Listen to the Secret World of Roald Dahl on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Heather Dubrow]

Almost 30 years together, four kids, and some of reality TV's most unforgettable moments, we know a thing or two about living life out loud. We're taking you behind the scenes in our new podcast, Between Us with me,

[Terry Dubrow]

Heather Dubrow, and me, Terry debrow. Between Us Us isn't about perfect lighting or curated Instagram grids.

[Heather Dubrow]

It's the unfiltered behind closed doors conversations you wish you could eavesdrop on. Equal parts smart, funny, and a little bit scandalous.

[Terry Dubrow]

Every week, Heather will bring you an unapologetic take on the headlines, the trends, and the cultural moments everyone's texting about.

[Heather Dubrow]

And Terry will deliver insider beauty, health and wellness insights you won't find on TikTok.

[Terry Dubrow]

Together, we'll tell the stories, spill the secret secrets, and share the hacks that keep life, marriage, and everything in between feeling fresh and fun.

[Heather Dubrow]

We may live in a gated community, but there's zero gatekeeping here and plenty

[Terry Dubrow]

of did they just say that?

[Ana Navarro]

Moments.

[Heather Dubrow]

Listen to between us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Ana Navarro]

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[Lex]

the Justice Department through, I think we counted four presidential administrations failed these victims.

[Ana Navarro]

Listen to BLEEP with Ana Navarro as part of the My Cultura Podcast network, available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Lex]

In comparison to the way that she dreams.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, yeah.

[Lex]

So that's more so what I think of when I think it's cool for your man to kind of be a little more reserved and chilling and you more glam. Now when it come to looks. No, I want a cute.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, please. That makes sense.

[Lex]

Please. Like he needs to be fine, at least to. And I guess that's all that really matter as long as your man is fine to you, Right?

[Drea Nicole]

Exactly.

[Lex]

You know what I mean? But, like, nah, I be liking to be with somebody where when people see us, they be like, oh, y' all cute.

[Drea Nicole]

But you know what? I love the dynamic of, like, extremely baddies being with, like, a guy that people would consider, like, a square. Like, he's a handsome guy, but he's kind of a little nerd. A little bit. I think that's the perfect couple. Cause I feel like baddies, the type of men that baddies usually date, you know, they be like the athletes, the rappers or player type men. So when they finally come across, like, that good guy who's kind of a. You know, he might be a little square, and their aesthetics may not match. Like, he's an attractive guy, but you can tell he's kind of nerdy, you know, I think that aesthetic is so cute. I feel like everybody needs them a little square. Like I always said, if my situation doesn't work out, now y' all finna find me with a nerd. Yeah, I'm talking about. Loves anime tech. Done help develop ChatGPT.

[Lex]

Yeah, that's my.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm doing it. I'm doing. I'm going to the engineers, all that stuff. But for me, I don't necessarily think that a man that I'm dating needs to match my aesthetic, because I think I do, in my mind, have a type. But I never end up really dating my type. I think my exes are kind of all over the place. But I never look at a man and be like, oh, he doesn't match my aesthetic. So I'm not dating him. I like what I like. Now, I have dated a guy where it was kind of like, he dressed a little too. He didn't know how to clean it up. Like, when we would go out to restaurants, it was like, okay, you can't wear, like, you know, blue jeans everywhere.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

And so it was like I had to kind of show him how to dress when we went to, like, nicer restaurants and things like that. So I don't mind you know, upgrading a man, making him a little more swaggy and cute and things like that. But I don't also want a man that has too much work either.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, you feel like you gotta do a build a bear type of situation. I'm not gonna do all that. Especially when it comes to, like, dressing and things like that. Getting a haircut like that goes back into A conversation we had a long time ago. We were talking about the black girlfriend effect. And I get this white boy, and they go and get him a taper fade, put some tims on him. And I'm. I'm not doing all that.

[Lex]

I don't know.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, I agree.

[Lex]

Small things, like kind of upgrading your wardrobe or letting you know this shirt look better with these pants or even getting you some new shoes and stuff, like upgrading your little shoe collection. I'm cool with that. But I'm not buying you no veneers. Why you ain't come veneer ready? Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Now. That's too far. That's too far.

[Lex]

I'm not buying you no veneers. I'm not getting you braces.

[Drea Nicole]

No. Turkey hairline.

[Lex]

No. I'm not getting your club foot fixed.

[Drea Nicole]

Ooh, that bunion.

[Lex]

I'm not doing it.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I'm not doing all that now. Wrong.

[Lex]

Right idea, wrong bitch.

[Drea Nicole]

This is not Extreme Makeover, honey.

[Lex]

You ain't about to come over here, finesse me my coin?

[Drea Nicole]

No.

[Lex]

And then in that movie. Speaking of Tuca play that game.

[Drea Nicole]

He left her ass. He did.

[Lex]

After she upgraded.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, absolutely.

[Lex]

And you know how pissed I would be? I bought a nigga some new teeth, they said, took him to turkey, got his hairline fit.

[Drea Nicole]

And that hairline will change your whole

[Lex]

appearance, I'm telling you.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes.

[Lex]

And then that nigga leave me. Done got him in the gym. He done got all swollen fit now, child, please. And then he leave me. I be pissed.

[Drea Nicole]

Did y' all see Jimmy from Love is Blind? He got his hairline done. I mean, he looks completely different.

[Lex]

Mm.

[Drea Nicole]

He's attractive. Like, I never was. Like, oh, this is a cute guy. But, baby, he got that hairline pushed forward. Now, a hairline on a man will completely change the way he looks. Cause I can't stand a hat. Fish ass nigga.

[Lex]

I'm sorry.

[Drea Nicole]

I hate it. If you take that hat off, I'll literally. You remember when you screamed when that man took his hat?

[Lex]

And I'll do it again.

[Drea Nicole]

That clip goes viral.

[Lex]

And I could probably go viral again

[Drea Nicole]

because that shocked us. It was.

[Lex]

Cause you talking about me, bitch. You screamed, too.

[Drea Nicole]

The fuck

[Lex]

you screamed too.

[Drea Nicole]

It was a good time. Oh, but, yeah, I don't know. I just feel like I gotta see a man with his hat off. But I'm not fixing your hairline. I'm not fixing shit like that.

[Lex]

I'm not doing this shit because I'm gonna need a roi. I'm gonna need a return on my investment you know, they say when women start spending their own money, that's when we care about how much money we spend.

[Drea Nicole]

And that's facts.

[Lex]

Because you're gonna have to sign a death row contract if I buy you some teeth.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my gosh, I can't even think about doing that. You ain't going nowhere buying something like surgical to, like, upgrade how a man looks.

[Lex]

He gonna forever be mine.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what I'm saying?

[Lex]

Yeah, I'm not playing. I am not playing.

[Drea Nicole]

To me, that's the type of shit

[Lex]

where, like, if you my husband. But then if you my husband, why am I buying your teeth?

[Drea Nicole]

Cause they might not. You know, he might have straight teeth regularly, but he probably wants that veneer look. You see what I'm saying? And he might want it for, like a birthday gift.

[Lex]

Okay, look, a birthday gift. That's cool. Yeah, I would like for him to come. Veneer ready.

[Drea Nicole]

Veneer ready. Hmm. You know? Yeah, I would. You know, if it's not.

[Lex]

If you into that. Yeah, if you're into that. If you not, then cool.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, if we're married and all of a sudden he does want veneers, he's like, can you get this for a br. Birthday present? I would do that.

[Lex]

That would be cool for a little birthday present.

[Drea Nicole]

But you know what other aesthetic that is very common. The. The really swole, buff gym guys, they love big women. Really? Yes, yes, yes, yes. It's crazy because, like, I have a friend who's bigger. She was like, that's probably the most type of men that hit on me. Swole men, swole, like gym. I'm talking like juice head, gym boy. They love the bit. She's like, girl, they love me down. She was like, I don't know what about. I don't know what it is. She was like, that's what I. And I see that a lot, though. Like, there's this girl, I wish I could think of her, TikTok. Y' all know I talk about TikTok. That's all I be doing. I be trying to stay in the know. But there's this lady, she's gorgeous and she's a bigger girl. She's a plus size model and her husband is like a gym guy. Like, he's very, you know, in shape. And I just like. I like that aesthetic because again, I like it when shit throws people for a loop because it's like, yeah, y' all be thinking that you have to look a certain type of way to pull a certain type of person. And y' all need to shut the fuck up and let people do what they want to do. You know what I'm saying?

[Lex]

I agree. I mean, and I feel like it's somebody for everybody because I don't want no Johnny Bravo built ass.

[Drea Nicole]

Ooh, the beef necks.

[Lex]

I don't want that. That's not. That's not the aesthetic that I go for. Like, I do want somebody who's feet and in shape and who takes care of themselves, but I don't want no big beefy ass niggas.

[Drea Nicole]

You can be. Be too swole.

[Lex]

You could be too swole. Like, I don't know. I need something still a little soft to cuddle on.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't want nothing soft. I don't want nothing.

[Lex]

I don't mean soft, but I don't. But I don't want your chest to be hard as a rock.

[Drea Nicole]

See, I don't. Now, I do think you can be too swole. But I do like, I like. I like that. I like that muscle. I do.

[Lex]

I do like a little muscle. Like, don't get me wrong, muscle is cool. But then I feel like it's a line, though, between having a little muscle and being, you know.

[Drea Nicole]

And then they look like barely lift their arms. Yes.

[Lex]

And being like big and swole. Like, I don't like you too damn big.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't like. And then them boys that be on steroids, they be mean. They be saying they penis small. Oh, that's what I was literally about to say.

[Lex]

So does it shrink it? Or is it just because I feel like it's probably always small and then that just.

[Drea Nicole]

But I think it. It does something to your blood flow or something.

[Lex]

Cause can your penis shrink?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, you can mess up your blood flow to it or something, but I'm

[Lex]

saying it'll get smaller. How does that happen?

[Drea Nicole]

Well, maybe when it gets hard, like, you know, like if your blood flow isn't flowing right because of the steroids you're taking, that means you're not gonna get it up all the way. And it seems a little smaller. Cause you know, when that thing be on rock.

[Lex]

But I was. Facts. I have a couple facts.

[Drea Nicole]

But what does it say?

[Lex]

It anabolic. Is that what it is? Anabolic? Steroid abuse significantly impacts male sexual health, often causing erectile dysfunction, decreased libido, and testicular atrophy, which is shrinkage.

[Drea Nicole]

Ooh.

[Lex]

So it can get smaller, it says, because they disrupt natural hormone production, leading to reduced testosterone and sperm count, and can even cause painful, prolonged erections, priapism, and permanent damage with Issues often persisting after steroid cessation.

[Drea Nicole]

All that. Cause you want abs. Get the fuck out of here. Big swole ass nigga.

[Lex]

I don't. Yeah, yeah, I don't like that. I don't know. I think everything needs to come in moderation.

[Drea Nicole]

Agreed.

[Lex]

In moderation. If you're doing like a bodybuilding competition, I understand it. But year round, your ass just want to be beefed up. I don't like that.

[Drea Nicole]

What's that, man? That be dancing and eating the food. Oh, I don't like. Oh, I don't like it.

[Lex]

Oh, he dances either.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh my God.

[Lex]

But some women really love that.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, they do.

[Lex]

They love lovey we. I think I'm thinking of somebody right now.

[Drea Nicole]

Who that love him?

[Lex]

No, that love a big beefy N,

[Drea Nicole]

Baby. She swear. Girl, we not even.

[Lex]

My man, my man, my man, baby.

[Drea Nicole]

Nobody want that big beefy head ass nigga. That nigga head. It's so small. It could be. And it's like his head is a block.

[Lex]

Blockhead ass.

[Drea Nicole]

Blockhead ass. Man, that.

[Lex]

Do you think that is anything wrong with, you know, caring about aesthetics or is it just like. That's just my preference. I'm being honest because, you know, whenever we have these kind of topics on the show, I do think for the most part people laugh and they know that we playing for the most part in this light hearted banter. But some people really do get offended. Like maybe that's rude that y' all talking down on these people and that y' all saying this and this and that. But how am I wrong for having a preference? Like if I don't like something, I don't like it. I'm not wrong for saying I don't like it. It might offend people who fit the criteria. Right. But I'm not wrong for saying I don't like something. It's a preference.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, I don't think people can tell the difference between somebody not liking something and you saying something is ugly. Just because I don't like it doesn't

[Lex]

mean that it's ugly or it's beneath me or it's trash.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm just saying that is not what I prefer to eat. It's. I don't prefer to eat coochie, but I think women are beautiful.

[Lex]

But you think coochie is beautiful.

[Drea Nicole]

I mean women. I think women are beautiful.

[Lex]

Speaking of, you don't think coochie is beautiful? I do. I feel like it's.

[Drea Nicole]

You be.

[Lex]

It's bad.

[Drea Nicole]

I said badging.

[Lex]

No, bitch. I would never. That's disgusting. But I think that just has more so to do with me as a person and like cleanly needed. I would never put my coochie juice on myself.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, I'm dating this. I think like I said, you cannot be attracted to something, but it still be. You know, there's so many men that I think are gorgeous men, but I would never date them because they're not my preference or my sight. Speaking of, do you know somebody wrote a fan fiction of us? Us? Yes.

[Lex]

You and I?

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. I'm gonna read y'. All. It's on wattpad. Somebody just sent it to me and everybody is laughing at us. Draya.

[Lex]

Why is he freaky?

[Drea Nicole]

Yes, I'm gonna read. We was doing it. I don't know. I haven't obviously read the damn book. But I'm gonna read the summary of it. Let me pull it up real quick. That's crazy. It is insane.

[Lex]

By the way, some of our listeners be getting out of hand too. Cause somebody, you know, I had posted some pictures, some throwback pictures of me the other week and somebody left a comment and said, oh yeah, you was fine as back then I could see why was spending all that money behind the bar. And I could absolutely see you eating somebody coochie next to Li in the bed. I said, you got the story wrong. I didn't. Nobody coochie coochie got eight though.

[Drea Nicole]

See, that's that. That you do. That's why they be doing these goddamn stories.

[Lex]

Somebody got mad too when we talked about that story. Did you see that people were mad in the comments. They said, drea, that's really up. That's up that you would do that to Lex and put her in that predicament. Cuz somebody, Somebody cut a clip. You know how they be making all these clips on Tik Tok cuz somebody had cut a clip. They found it from the old episode where we was talking about that situation happening and it was so many people in the comments mad at me.

[Drea Nicole]

Are you serious?

[Lex]

I swear to God, I'm gonna have to go find it. They was like, that's up. And I wouldn't be friends with Drea no more because that's up. You couldn't have went and did that on the couch? No, I couldn't have.

[Drea Nicole]

I was there too. That was my bad part.

[Lex]

But it just be funny to me how mad people be getting over things that like don't matter.

[Drea Nicole]

Like we were young doing stupid shit

[Lex]

and it's me and you, it's not them. And they friend like, why are you so upset? You was mad.

[Drea Nicole]

Let me read this. Okay. Lex P. Andre, Nicole have always blurred the lines on the mic, on camera, and in the way only best friends who know each other's bodies without touching ever do. Draya has carried quiet feelings for Lex for years, never daring to name them, never wanting to risk the one relationship that has always felt safe. Lex has never questioned her sexuality until a brutal breakup leaves her emotionally undone and leaning on the one person who never asks for more than she's willing to give. As comfort turns into intimacy and boundaries begin to shift, both women are forced to confront the possibility of that what they've always called friendship may be something far more dangerous and far more real. In a world where everything about them is public, the most terrifying things becomes the feelings that they can't control and the truth they're afraid to say out loud.

[Lex]

I swear, be so motherfucking for real.

[Drea Nicole]

What? It's 26 parts.

[Lex]

I mean, that sounds juicy, though.

[Drea Nicole]

It do sound juicy. I. I will read it.

[Lex]

D over there something. I will read it.

[Drea Nicole]

The only reason is just like, because I can't.

[Lex]

That's crazy.

[Drea Nicole]

I can't believe people look at us that way.

[Lex]

Like, they always say that in the comments. So they be like, I know y' all bumped coochies that somebody said, but we really had. And I would tell y', all, and

[Drea Nicole]

somebody was in the comment, they said something. They said, I know Lex be tearing that up. I was like, me? He said that about me? Oh, that's why I'm saying you did. I was like, that is so offensive. That is so now that pissed me off. Now you done pissed me off.

[Lex]

It be pissing me off too, though. It really do. So they just be taking it too far sometimes. Like, it always be comments. Well, it used to be people would be like, licks. I mean, Draya won't lick so bad.

[Drea Nicole]

No, I don't.

[Lex]

That is my friend.

[Drea Nicole]

And I think to me, at the beautiful girl. But, like, people just.

[Lex]

No, because seriously, though, I think people just be having these fantasies in their head and they want to believe that it be more going on or has ever been than it is actually going on between us. And I'm like, no, nothing has really never happened between me and you besides that one time we kissed.

[Drea Nicole]

But honestly, I feel at this point. Because that was when we first started hanging out, too.

[Lex]

It was when we first started hanging out.

[Drea Nicole]

At this point, I feel like when y' all say things like that, it's a little bit incestual.

[Lex]

It Is.

[Drea Nicole]

And that's how it makes me feel, honestly.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

This is my sister. This is my family. And y' all keep being weird about it.

[Lex]

Kissing cousins.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, what are we talking about here? That's why I think it grosses me out so much. Obviously. Like I said, Draya's beautiful, but it's like, this is my sister. Why are y' all saying this about somebody who I look at like family? And I think that's why I get so. Like, this is so vulgar. Why are y' all saying this?

[Lex]

But you know what? You do have to deep dive into some of the things that we used to talk about and style. Cause like, you've said you've seen my booty hole and you have.

[Drea Nicole]

I've seen yours too. That's what I'm saying.

[Lex]

But to people, that's.

[Drea Nicole]

That don't mean I want to eat it.

[Lex]

But that to people, that's not normal, though. Cause some people just don't even be getting naked and stuff behind around their friends. Me and you, we've seen everything on each other bodies.

[Drea Nicole]

But I think, like, stuff. Like, I can count a time. Like, one time you had this bodysuit on and you couldn't snap it, so I had to go down there and snap it. But I feel like that's normal. Things that. Like sisters or like. Like, if you need help with something like that. It's been plenty of times, you know, my sister had to help me get dressed or something. You gotta bend over, snap something, do something.

[Narrator]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, it's not like she wasn't

[Lex]

like, ooh, girl, let me snap your.

[Drea Nicole]

Girl, Let me. Let me bab ya real quick. Like, what. What kind of friends do y' all have? She go down there to snatch your

[Lex]

bodysuit and slip a finger in there.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know what kind of friendship y' all have, but that is not going on.

[Lex]

That's crazy.

[Drea Nicole]

It's true. I think that's what be going on over there.

[Lex]

I think so, too. I think so.

[Drea Nicole]

Let me be honest. Killa sends me tweets like this a lot. We think it's so weird when friends will be like, oh, y' all be playing. When y' all be talking about fucking y' all friends. I don't. And I'm like, that's weird. Yeah. Like, they'd be like, oh, y' all be playing. Like when y' all be joking around about eating each other coochie because I wasn't playing. Yeah, that's weird.

[Lex]

I think it gets to a point. I think when you get to a certain age, like. I just think a lot of things are cringy, though, when you get to a certain age when people be online talking about it, like.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Even if that is what you and your friend be doing on, like, a drunk night. Why are you on Twitter letting the world. Cause I will say, when I was in my twenties, I. With a few of my friends, right. I ain't friends with them no more, but. But, like, I definitely fucked with, like, a few girls that I was friends with when I was, like, in my early 20s and stuff. But I think, like, when it be women who be our age, they still be online saying that type of stuff. You're weird.

[Drea Nicole]

And I'm not gonna lie to you. To be honest. I think a lot of times women get away with being creepier a little more than men. Yeah.

[Lex]

And I also just think, too, it's okay to me if something like that just happens on a whim, you know, like, you and your friend end up having a drunk night or whatever, and y' all end up playing with each other, coochie, whatever. But if you plotting.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause I feel like some people be,

[Lex]

like, plotting on shit like that, and that's what makes it weird.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, yeah, for sure. Now, I'm not gonna lie. Me personally, I've never had a drunken night.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Where I ended up vabbing my. I bet a friend of mine.

[Lex]

Why do you keep saying vabbing? Vabbing is when you put the coochie juice on yourself. I know.

[Drea Nicole]

So you putting it on yourself. You all down there. You all up here, girl. Shut up. But I will say again, I think a lot of times, like you said, sometimes women do be plotting on their homegirls and things like that. And that is weird. And that is weird. Cause that's just as bad as a man doing it to his homegirl.

[Lex]

So that's why I don't like when people be saying. Saying that stuff, though, about us in the comments. Yeah, it's a little weird because it's like, y' all really think that I would be plotting on Lex or less? And if I was, it's been 10 years, I would have got it by now.

[Drea Nicole]

Segregation in the day, integration at night.

[Narrator]

When segregation was the law, one mysterious black club owner had his own rules.

[Lex]

We didn't worry about what was going on outside. It was like stepping in another world.

[Narrator]

Inside Charlie's place, black and white people danced together. But not everyone was happy about it.

[Lex]

You saw the kkk.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. They were dressed up in their uniform.

[Lex]

The KKK set Out to raid Charlie, take him away from here.

[Drea Nicole]

Charlie was an example of power. They had to crush him.

[Narrator]

From Atlas Obscura, Rococo Punch and visit Myrtle beach comes Charlie's Place, a story that was nearly lost to time. Until now. Listen to Charlie's place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Ana Navarro]

You know Roald Dahl, the writer who thought up Willy Wonka, Matilda, and the bfg. But did you know he was also a spy?

[Lex]

Was this before he wrote his stories? It must have been.

[Ana Navarro]

Our new podcast series, the Secret World of Roald Dahl is a wild journey through the hidden chapters of his extraordinary, controversial life. His job was literally to seduce the wives of powerful Americans.

[Drea Nicole]

What?

[Ana Navarro]

And he was really good at it. You probably won't believe it either.

[Lex]

Okay, I don't think that's true.

[Ana Navarro]

I'm telling you, the guy was a spy. Did you know Dahl got cozy with the Roosevelts, played poker with Harry Truman women, and had a long affair with a congresswoman. And then he took his talents to Hollywood, where he worked alongside Walt Disney and Alfred Hitchcock before writing a hit James Bond film. How did this secret agent wind up as the most successful children's author ever? And what darkness from his covert past seeped into the stories we read as kids? The true story is stranger than anything he ever wrote. Listen to the Secret World of Roald Dahl on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts Forever. You get your podcasts.

I'm Anna Navaro, and on my new podcast, Bleep with Anna Navaro, I'm talking to the people closest to the biggest issues happening in your community and around the world, because I know deep down inside right now, we are all cursing and asking what the BLEEP is going on. I'm talking to people like Julie K. Brown, who broke the explosive story on Jeffrey Epstein in 2018. These victims have been let down down time and time again for decades and decades and decades by local law enforcement, by federal law enforcement, by administration after

[Lex]

administration, the Justice Department through, I think we counted four presidential administrations failed these victims.

[Ana Navarro]

Listen to BLEEP with Ana Navarro as part of the My Cultura Podcast network, available on the iHeartrade radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Heather Dubrow]

Almost 30 years together, four kids, and some of reality TV's most unforgettable moments. We know a thing or two about living life out loud. We're taking you behind the scenes in our new podcast between us, with me,

[Terry Dubrow]

Heather debrow, and me, Terry Debrow Between Us isn't about perfect lighting or cur curated Instagram grids.

[Heather Dubrow]

It's the unfiltered behind closed doors conversations you wish you could eavesdrop on. Equal parts smart, funny, and a little bit scandalous.

[Terry Dubrow]

Every week, Heather will bring you an unapologetic take on the headlines, the trends, and the cultural moments everyone's texting about.

[Heather Dubrow]

And Terry will deliver insider beauty, health, and wellness insights you won't find on TikTok.

[Terry Dubrow]

Together, we'll tell the stories, spill the secrets, and share the hacks that keep life, life, marriage, and everything in between feeling fresh and fun.

[Heather Dubrow]

We may live in a gated community, but there's zero gatekeeping here and plenty

[Terry Dubrow]

of did they just say that?

[Ana Navarro]

Moments.

[Heather Dubrow]

Listen to between us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm a lady.

[Lex]

Cause I'm not that patient.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm a lady.

[Lex]

That's right.

[Drea Nicole]

What are we doing? Like what I think it come from? Cause we used to. I used to be like, ooh, Draya, you want me like, joking around? But again, I get a joke. But sometimes y' all be taking shit way too far. And like I said, a lot of it be from like the men. Because y' all be having like this fantasy and it's just like, it gets to a point, like. Cause some of the comments I see do be funny. Yeah. And they be joking around. But I'm talking about the people who be like, dead ass serious. Like, I know they used to like, please relax, you horny ass bitch.

[Lex]

They probably be like, I know they.

[Drea Nicole]

I know.

[Lex]

And be up.

[Drea Nicole]

They're too horny. Grabbing that. Oh my God.

[Lex]

Do you ever think about that? Like, do you what if people. It's probably somebody out there who be like, jacking off to watch it. Poor mine.

[Drea Nicole]

I know that. Do you know I went to that old episode of you spanking me and it had 200,000 views and people in the comments are like, it's at 30 minutes and 3 seconds. I know why you're here.

[Lex]

People be too horny.

[Drea Nicole]

It's a old.

[Lex]

The horn is taking over.

[Drea Nicole]

The horn has taken over. Because that's a meme now. It is like, that is.

[Lex]

Cuz they like that face you was making.

[Drea Nicole]

Like y' all are so. I definitely know people probably look at that picture. Look at that. And definitely be. Cuz it doesn't take a lot to get some people off.

[Lex]

No, it doesn't. That's why I said they probably be watching the show.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, that's horrible.

[Lex]

But hey, people be into it I guess.

[Drea Nicole]

Let's move on.

[Lex]

So now it's time to get into the bit about. The bit about the bow.

[Drea Nicole]

Bow, bow, bow, bow.

[Lex]

Now per usual, y' all know the bed is sponsored by Salt xo. Y' all know Lex and I love Salt XO products. But let's talk about this rejuve oil.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes.

[Lex]

Because we was just talking about if you are gonna fap and watch poor minds get you some rejuven.

[Ana Navarro]

What?

[Drea Nicole]

Please don't snap. It's multi purpose. Please do not fat. Please do not fat with this oil.

[Lex]

Me can you. But men can use it too. So I mean instead of you dry handing it or using some lotion, they have all kinds of like, what is it called? Dimethicone and all of that stuff in it. Get you some rejuve oil. Make it natural.

[Drea Nicole]

Make it natural. But I will say for men that get like ingrowns and stuff you can use, this is good for ingrowns. So you can put it down there. Put it on that little crunch bar you got underneath there. It'll help with that crunch bar all up under here. Rub it on there. Just dab a little bit bit and rub it in. It'll help with that.

[Lex]

And it smells amazing.

[Drea Nicole]

It smells.

[Lex]

It smells so good.

[Drea Nicole]

Like I said, I like to put a little drop on my face and just grease me up a little bit. It's a little light sheen on it.

[Ana Navarro]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

And also the slippery elm pills.

[Lex]

10 out of 10, we going to keep telling y' all about them slippery elm pills. If you have not tried them, get you some. And per usual, y' all know this is one of my ultimate faves. I love the coochie wash. Get you some Soxo coochie wash. It's going to make your coochie feel tingly and clean and I don't know you're gonna be ready to be. You know, I was about to say something real nasty.

[Drea Nicole]

You need to go write a walk page. Oh my God.

[Lex]

26 parts. Make sure y' all add salt in there.

[Drea Nicole]

Please do not finish that weekend I said. Who. Who wrote this? He'll be hearing from my lawyer.

[Lex]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

All right, for the bad topic today, we're gonna talk about bringing back kissing. Okay? There are people out there who genuinely hate kissing. Maybe they aren't good at it. Maybe they hate the idea of tongues or spit. Or maybe it's just too intimate for them. So how do you, how do y' all feel about kissing?

[Lex]

I like kissing.

[Drea Nicole]

Slob on my Nose.

[Lex]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

I was just about to say Clinton. I said, what is Clinton? The kids have made up something new.

[Lex]

I was trying to say kissing. I like a little slob.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. I'm not going to lie. I like it.

[Lex]

I think that people that don't like. Well, at least in my experience, having conversations with some of my friends and, like, people that I've come by in passing. Some people don't like kissing because I feel like they were dealing with people that weren't really, like, hygienic. They didn't have, like, good dental hygiene, and they've had bad experiences.

[Drea Nicole]

That's crazy.

[Lex]

I had a home girl back in college. She was dating this dude, and they had went on a date, and he was, like, so fine, too. He was like. He was an alpha. He was, like one of the finest dudes at the school. And they went on a date and he kissed her. And she said that it was lingering on her lip.

[Drea Nicole]

Wow.

[Lex]

Until she got home and had to, like, scrub her lip to get it off because his breath was so stinky. Then I know somebody else who kissed somebody one time, and they said they was, like, tongue kissing and, like, a food particle transferred to their mode. So, like, I think that sometimes people have just had, like, bad experiences. Thankfully, I have not had anything like that happen to me.

[Drea Nicole]

I've had a bad kiss before.

[Lex]

Really?

[Drea Nicole]

I've never had, like, a kiss that was, like, funky.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my God.

[Lex]

A funky breath kiss.

[Drea Nicole]

Do you know how bad that means? Honestly, I feel like if he kissed her enough for it to linger on her skin like that. He didn't brush his teeth that day. That's like that morning breath. You know how, like, your spit kind of like, you know it'll taste bad. Especially after, like, a night of drinking or something. That man woke up and did not brush his teeth.

[Lex]

Morning breath goes away. He had halitosis.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, that's what I was about to say. Cause something was wrong. My morning breath. I mean, obviously morning breath don't smell good, but it's like, if you brush your teeth before you go to sleep and floss, when you wake up, it don't be that good. Don't be tart like that.

[Lex]

Right.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what I'm saying? So for. That is disgusting.

[Lex]

I'm telling you. Yes. She said she had to scrub it. She had to scrub it.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my God. I remember I was in seventh grade and I had kissed this boy at a party, and it was the worst kiss, Mind you, at that point, I probably only had to kiss, like, two Boys, I'm in seventh grade.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

And I remember it being the worst kiss I've ever had in my entire life.

[Lex]

To this day.

[Drea Nicole]

To this day, I can remember exactly how it felt because it was so bad.

[Lex]

What did he do?

[Drea Nicole]

He was like, going. I swear to God, I'm not making this up. He was going like this in my mind.

[Lex]

Oh, I've had that before.

[Drea Nicole]

I was like, oh, my God. And you know what? When I was thinking about telling this story today, I was like, I want to say his name, but I don't know if he's married now or something. But, I mean, it's a white. You know, I don't know where I am.

[Lex]

Just say his first name.

[Drea Nicole]

No, because I'm scared people going to send it to him and things like that.

[Lex]

Well, yeah, because you did go to school. You went. You from a smaller town.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Everybody knows everybody, so. And if I said his name, it was only one person in our grade with that name. So anyways, I remember, like, going to school, and then I told one of my good guy friends at the time. I was like, oh, my God, that kiss was so bad. Like, it was so bad. And I thought, of course he was gonna keep it between me and him, but obviously he didn't. And it got back to the guy, but only a few people knew at this point. So he started telling everybody I was the worst kisser ever. I know you. So he got his story before I did. And I was like, you, you white bastard. And that's the day I learned, don't fuck with no white man.

[Lex]

Yeah, that ain't when you learn you still dated some old.

[Drea Nicole]

Didn't learn my lesson, bitch. I almost.

[Lex]

But you should have learned then, almost

[Drea Nicole]

that, Ooh, that shit made me. I would never.

[Lex]

I would have been mad about that, too. Cause how dare you?

[Drea Nicole]

How dare you? Cause I remember right after I had talked to my friend Linda, she was like, oh, my God, I can't believe you kissed him. I was like, girl, you know, whatever. I was like, it was so bad. And we laughed at it for days and days, and we just laughed. And she was like, yeah, you know, he's saying that, like, you were a really bad kisser. She was like, but don't worry about it. He's such a loser. I was like, lindsay, I can't believe this. So embarrassing.

[Lex]

Jake had you fucked up.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what? His name wasn't Jake. I used to have a crush on a little boy named Jake.

[Lex]

I was just trying to think of,

[Drea Nicole]

like, you'll never Guess it.

[Lex]

But you'll never. I've never met a black man named Jake. That's why I was just like. I dated a Jake.

[Drea Nicole]

He was black. Mm.

[Lex]

Oh, Jacob. Yeah, but Jacob is.

[Drea Nicole]

Jacob is a black.

[Lex]

Yeah, but Jake just J a K E. Yeah, Jake.

[Drea Nicole]

I know a few Jake. Oh, my gosh. I have one of my closest friends. When I was like, little, little, his name was Jake. I know a lot of white Jakes.

[Lex]

It's a lot of them.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, they got titty Jakes. Okay. That's his last name.

[Lex]

We talk. We talk about first names. What do the T stand for, though?

[Drea Nicole]

What do the td?

[Lex]

That's probably bad that we don't know. What's the T and D?

[Drea Nicole]

Theodore.

[Lex]

Theodore.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Are you making that up?

[Drea Nicole]

Theo. Theo Dore.

[Lex]

You just T. Oh, I got Thomas Dexter at cd.

[Drea Nicole]

Dexter.

[Lex]

Thomas Dexter. I like Dexter.

[Drea Nicole]

I do like Dexter.

[Lex]

I knew a few Dexters growing up.

[Drea Nicole]

Really? That's not a common name.

[Lex]

It was common at the school I went to.

[Drea Nicole]

That sound. What kind of.

[Lex]

It was like four of them.

[Drea Nicole]

What was their ethnicity?

[Lex]

They were black.

[Drea Nicole]

They were black.

[Lex]

Black Dexters.

[Drea Nicole]

I know a black Dexter too. I've never met a black Dexter.

[Lex]

Yeah, that's a while. I see a few Dexters.

[Drea Nicole]

Interesting.

[Lex]

But do you consider yourself to be a good kisser?

[Drea Nicole]

I really do. I'm a very passionate kisser. Like, I'm a slow kisser. Like, I think kissing before sex and, you know, the sex is on the way is the most passionate, sexiest thing ever. That's why. Why you smiling like that? Them butter rolls is bacon after you fucking, Dad, I love a good.

[Lex]

I love a good kiss. A good fucker.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. That's what I'm saying.

[Lex]

I love it.

[Drea Nicole]

It's so romantic and sexy, and I just feel like it gets the vibe going. And I know this may be. Tim, I. Don't you care if, like, when a man goes down on you and then he come back and kiss you in the mouth? 10 out of 10, highly recommended. So I think that people who don't like kissing, it either comes with. You're either not a good kisser or you really just don't like the intimacy of sex and you're just fucking to fuck. Like, there's no intimacy there. Because honestly, kissing is extremely intimate.

[Lex]

It's passionate.

[Drea Nicole]

It's body to body.

[Lex]

It is. It's body to body. And breath, most importantly, breath. Breath to breath.

[Drea Nicole]

Breath to breath. But, like, if you're just having sex and you hitting a girl from the back, that's It. That's why, honestly, the older I get, like it. It feels good. But I really don't care for like doggy style like I used to.

[Lex]

Yeah, me either. I was literally just telling somebody that the other day. I don't really like it. I like to be face to face.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. Yes.

[Lex]

It's more intimate.

[Drea Nicole]

It's so intimate. Like we f to stare each other down and you f to tell me how much you love me.

[Ana Navarro]

Yeah.

[Lex]

I mean, from the back is cool if it's a finisher.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. If it's.

[Lex]

Let's wrap y'. All.

[Drea Nicole]

Time to wrap that up. He off that hen dog. That's time to throw that.

[Lex]

I hope he not off the hen dog.

[Drea Nicole]

I gotta. I'm on that slippery elm. You ain't lasting long.

[Lex]

You ain't lasting with that slippery elm, bro.

[Drea Nicole]

What?

[Lex]

It's a slippery bro.

[Drea Nicole]

When I'm on that slippery elm. Good talk. Hold on, man. What?

[Lex]

Good luck. Look, Chuck. No, seriously though. I'm telling you. Yeah, that's the combo. That slippery Elmer in the back. Back shot, you're done. It's over cooked.

[Drea Nicole]

Love it. But yeah. I love kissing. Are you a kisser, Ty?

[Lex]

I used to be. I think what I've learned is I'm a little more impatient. So I think now I just be wanting. I'm like you. I want that dick.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Yeah. Come on, let's go. She ready for unbuttoning pants?

[Lex]

Like I have to be in the mood for it to go longer. Like. Cause y' all are talking about, like passion building up. Yeah, I can do that. But after a while it's like.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, but I will say this. If we're not about to get intimate, I don't care to be making out. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, okay. Like to just make out.

[Lex]

Just to make out for fun.

[Drea Nicole]

No.

[Lex]

Cause then you start getting wet.

[Drea Nicole]

Who got time for that? Who's doing that? Who doing that? I'm not. If I'm making out with a man, we're definitely about to have sex. Okay. No.

[Lex]

I'm even at the restaurant with a wet spot.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Don't nobody have time.

[Drea Nicole]

Slippery. I'm all on them people, all on them sheets, seats. That's what I'm saying. Like now if it's just high by, I'mma give you a peck.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, a little 1, 2. But I'm not making out unless we finna get to it.

[Lex]

Yeah, I agree. I'm not really like a make out just to make out person. We about to do something.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

Business about to get handled.

[Drea Nicole]

Are you, like, make out in the club type?

[Lex]

No, like, you mean with my man? Yeah, with, like, a random person. Some people do that. They meet random people.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh.

[Lex]

I'm not just making out.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna put my friend on blast, but she loved to tongue a down.

[Lex]

But that's what I'm.

[Drea Nicole]

I know.

[Lex]

That's what I'm saying. It's people out there who really enjoy meeting strangers and just, like, making out. I've never been that type. No, not really, though, because I'm not with your man. I'm not a big, like, PDA make out in public person, and I like being affectionate in public. You know, you can touch my thigh, we can hold hands, we can hug, you can rub on me all that stuff. But, like, why are we making out?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

In the club?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Cause me and my man, all we do is be having dance offs. Y'. All.

[Lex]

Do y' all be doing the Snake? The Snake?

[Drea Nicole]

It don't get.

[Ana Navarro]

They do.

[Drea Nicole]

It don't get sexual in the club with us.

[Lex]

It don't get sexual in the. The club with me, either. Like, I don't like that. I just feel like it's time and place. I mean, I was going to lie and say it ain't nothing wrong with it.

[Drea Nicole]

It is.

[Lex]

Why are you making out in the club? Go away till you get home.

[Drea Nicole]

It's a little much. I'm not going to lie.

[Lex]

Yeah, a little much.

[Drea Nicole]

Now. I like in the Uber, though. Yeah, it's private. Yeah, we can get a little frisky in the Uber.

[Lex]

Roll up the partition. Yeah, not in the Uber.

[Drea Nicole]

But don't bab in the. In the Uber, either. Okay.

[Lex]

I used to be babbing in the movie.

[Drea Nicole]

He's not me babbing.

[Lex]

Somebody would be babbing me. But, you know, that was back in the day.

[Drea Nicole]

You are not a good person, Dre.

[Lex]

That's great.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, my Lord, have mercy. But, yes. So let us know. Are you a kisser? Are you not? You know, what's tea? How do you feel about all that good stuff?

[Lex]

Yes. So now it's time to get into the bop. Dang. The bop. Oh, the bop.

[Drea Nicole]

Bop, Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow. Okay, My bop of the week. I decided to do a throwback this week because I think the kids need to be put on a little history. Right? So y' all know this year officially makes 10 years since Rihanna has gave us an album.

[Lex]

It has.

[Drea Nicole]

It's been 10 years since anti dropped, and what I've realized Is like a lot of her old songs have been going viral. And it's crazy because I remember listening to this album the whole way from Orange to Houston. Whenever I was doing something I can't remember, I was like moving the rest of my stuff or something like that. I can't remember. But her Good Girl Gone Bad album. And I think there's a lot of bops on there that the kids don't know about. And I feel like one of my favorite songs, it was produced by Timbaland. Cause y' all know Timbaland used to be that Nick. You know, you can say what y' all want about him now because, you know, people have been in an uproar about him using AI and things like that, so. But let me tell you, Prime Timbaland could not be fucked with. Okay, so there was a song, Sell Me Candy by Rihanna History, folks, y' all gotta know this was the pop princess. Cause around this time she was getting out of that really Caribbean music. And she started doing the more pop wave stuff. So Sell Me Candy, she had a song called say It, Let Me Get. That was a bop. Cause she was kinda rapping on. So I think the girls, y' all need to go back and get into Rihanna's early tunes and bops and really get into that early Rihanna bag in her pop wave. Because it was a time. So shout out to Rihanna. We need another album. And we miss you, sister.

[Lex]

We do sees she needs to go on another tour. That's why we need an album.

[Drea Nicole]

I know my sister, she said she. Why she pop out with another one.

[Lex]

Well, I guess I'll do my original bop. Cuz at first. Cuz then you had me like, well, maybe I should do a throwback. Cuz it's 2016. I mean, it's 2020. And a lot of good albums came out 10 years ago.

[Drea Nicole]

A lot of good ones.

[Lex]

But I'll save that for another day. Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex]

So my pop is. Do you like the new Gunna remix with Chris Brown?

[Drea Nicole]

I haven't heard yet. We getting tonight.

[Lex]

I like it, but I also. I'm also a little partial. I be. You know, I feel like Chris Brown be making songs a little better.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, so you think it's better?

[Lex]

I like it.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, you know, people have in an uproar about the song. Cause they said we getting fucked tonight is too vulgar.

[Lex]

But that's not actually what he's saying.

[Drea Nicole]

What is he saying?

[Lex]

That's what they said. See, you asked me about. I'm serious.

[Drea Nicole]

But he did say that they said that?

[Lex]

That's not what he was saying. I'm about to Google it.

[Drea Nicole]

I mean, you can hear what they. Well, on the clean version, he said, we going up tonight. We going up tonight. We going. No, bitch, I'm getting fucked tonight. Fuck. What y' all talking about? People like it's. And you meant that? Yeah, we getting fucked tonight. What's wrong with y'?

[Lex]

All? Everybody, bro.

[Drea Nicole]

What's wrong with y'?

[Lex]

All?

[Drea Nicole]

It's time to get freaky, you know what I'm saying?

[Lex]

I remember I seen something and I don't know if it's true or not. So I'm trying to look it up. But I'm telling you, they was saying that that's not what he was actually saying.

[Drea Nicole]

He's definitely saying, we get.

[Lex]

We getting fucked tonight.

[Drea Nicole]

I feel like, why are y'. All. I don't know. This is why. We need to do our history. And y' all gotta listen to old songs. And how they used to get down n been nasty. She's mighty mighty Just letting it all hang out. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? We've been talking about vulgar shit. Y' all need to go listen to Nasty girl by vanity 6. Get some history.

[Lex]

That is a very nasty song.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what I'm saying?

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

If you ain't scared, whip it out. That's what niggas be scared.

[Lex]

Then.

[Drea Nicole]

Whip it out. I'm looking for a fantasy own little Nasty Girl.

[Lex]

Okay, Lee.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay. Sorry. I gotta give the kids history now, huh? We got to educate them.

[Lex]

You was getting a little excited.

[Drea Nicole]

I was.

[Lex]

Time to wrap this up.

[Drea Nicole]

Don't you believe in mystery don't want, ain't my game I'm looking for a man to love me okay, I saw it.

[Lex]

Now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the show, which is pour your heart out. If you have any questions, send them to ask Poor Minds Gmail dot com. That's a S K P O U R N M I N D S. Mail dot com.

[Drea Nicole]

All right.

[Lex]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

You want me to. I'll read this. You can go. Okay. Hi, Drea and Lex. I need some advice. I'm dealing with an Aquarius man. We've been together for almost four years. I gave him king treatment, clean, cooked, stayed loyal. I was the my man. My man type. And I have my own business. I'm in school. As well as has been going wait. As well. Everything has been going fine. And then one day, this man tells me he doesn't feel the same anymore. Starts pushing me Away turns off his location while we still living together. My friends keep telling me to do me, but it's so hard because I love that n and will literally do anything for him. How do you heal now? I get it. It's hard. But you have to realize this is the biggest. That he's probably found somebody else. I think one thing about it. I always know when a man switches up his routine, he turns off that location. That's because he's somewhere where he's not supposed to be. Yeah. Why else would he. Now I get it. Sometimes things change in relationships, and maybe he wants a little space, but that doesn't require you to turn off your location if your location has been on the whole time. When a man turns off his location, it's because he's somewhere he's not supposed to be. I think the thing. How do you hear? You realize what you deserve and you realize your worth. Because I feel like the pain of staying is way worse than the pain than leaving. Cause that pain when you leave will be temporary. But if you stay and you marry this person or have a baby and you gotta deal with this person, that's even worse.

[Lex]

Mm.

[Drea Nicole]

Temporary pain all day. Just leave. So you gotta rip that band aid off, bitch. Rip it off. Off.

[Lex]

Yeah, I agree, cuz. Why the hell you turning your location off?

[Drea Nicole]

Cuz he getting tonight.

[Lex]

Somebody getting sister.

[Drea Nicole]

And it ain't you.

[Lex]

You ain't you. I agree with everything that le said. Yeah, it's. It's time to wrap it up, cuz.

[Drea Nicole]

Like segregation in the day, integration at night.

[Narrator]

When segregation was the law, one mysterious black club owner had his own rules.

[Lex]

We didn't worry about what went on outside. It was like stepping in another world.

[Narrator]

Inside Charlie's Place, black and white people danced together. But not everyone was happy about it.

[Lex]

You saw the kkk.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. They was dressed up in their uniform.

[Lex]

The KKK set out to raid Charlie, take him away from here.

[Drea Nicole]

Charlie was an example of power they had to crush him.

[Narrator]

From Atlas Obscura, Rococo Punch and visit Myrtle beach comes Charlie's Place, a story that was nearly lost to time. Until now. Listen to Charlie's place on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.

[Ana Navarro]

You know Roald Dahl, the writer who thought up Willy Wonka, Matilda and the bfg. But did you know he was also a spy?

[Lex]

Was this before he wrote his stories? It must have been.

[Ana Navarro]

Our new podcast series, the Secret World of Roald Dahl is a wild journey through the hidden chapters of his extraordinary controversial life. His job was literally to seduce the wives of powerful Americans.

[Drea Nicole]

What?

[Ana Navarro]

And he was really good at it. You probably won't believe it either.

[Lex]

Okay, I don't think that's true.

[Ana Navarro]

I'm telling you, the guy was a spy. Did you know Dahl got cozy with the Roosevelts, played poker with Harry Truman, and had a long affair with a congresswoman. And then he took his talents to Hollywood, where he worked alongside Walt Disney and Alfred Hitchcock before writing a hit James Bond film. How did this secret agent wind up as the most successful children's author ever? And what darkness from his covert past? See into the stories we read as kids. The true story is stranger than anything he ever wrote. Listen to the Secret World of Roald Dahl on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

I'm Anna Navarro, and on my new podcast, Bleep with Anna Navarro, I'm talking to the people closest to the biggest issues happening in your community and around the world. Because I know deep down inside right now we are all cursing and asking what the BLEEP is going on. I'm talking to people like Julie K. Brown, who broke the explosive story on Jeffrey Epstein in 2018. These victims have been let down time and time again for decades and decades and decades by local law enforcement, by federal law enforcement, by administration after administration.

[Lex]

The Justice Department through I think we counted four presidential administration failed these victims.

[Ana Navarro]

Listen to Bleep with Ana Navarro as part of the My Cultura Podcast network, available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Heather Dubrow]

Almost 30 years together, four kids, and some of reality TV's most unforgettable moments. We know a thing or two about living life out loud. We're taking you by behind the scenes in our new podcast, Between Us with

[Terry Dubrow]

me, Heather Debro, and me, Terry Debro. Between Us isn't about perfect lighting or curated Instagram grids.

[Heather Dubrow]

It's the unfiltered behind closed doors conversations you wish you could eavesdrop on. Equal parts smart, funny, and a little bit scandalous.

[Terry Dubrow]

Every week, Heather will bring you an unapologetic take on the headlines, the trends, and the cultural moments everyone's texting about.

[Heather Dubrow]

And Terry will deliver insider beauty, health and wellness insights you won't find on TikTok.

[Terry Dubrow]

Together, we'll tell the stories, spill the secrets, and share the hacks that keep life, marriage, and everything in between feeling fresh and fun.

[Heather Dubrow]

We may live in a gated community, but there's zero gatekeeping here and plenty

[Terry Dubrow]

of did they just say that?

[Ana Navarro]

Moments.

[Heather Dubrow]

Listen to between us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Lex]

What can somebody say? Like, I'm just trying to think of what my man would be able to say to me. That would be an answer that stuff Pisces for why you turned your location off and I would be okay with it and actually believe you and want to stay in the relationship. And I can't think of one. Cuz why the hell are you turning your location off all the time?

[Drea Nicole]

Agreed. It's just very.

[Lex]

It's weird. Yeah, it's weird. And whatever. When if you ask him about it, he's going to lie.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, 1,000%. So. So yeah, I think it's time I thinking better let it go. Looks like. Okay, my bad, my bad, my bad. All right, y'. All. Up next is the shot line. And you know, if y' all want to get something off your chest, just a little quick 30 seconds, you know, tell us something. Whatever you want. Send us a voicemail. We might play it on the show. Play that for Morgan. So y' all said send y' all the 60 second thing or last event. So tell me this. Why is it that these men want to have a cake and eat it too? And then when you find out they

[Lex]

eating their cake and you be like, I ain't with that.

[Drea Nicole]

They be making mad at you. Like you supposed to be happy about the. You said I got a choice. And if I made my choice, what you mad for? I thought everybody was keeping it pee. I should ask that. I'm just saying. And I just want to let y' all know I love y' all show. I love a girls, girls. I love y' all beautiful black ladies. Y' all doing y' all big one.

[Lex]

Thank you, queen. I don't know. I feel like. Because men really don't how to keep it pee for real. Especially once they feelings get involved.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

And they don't like when women play the same game that they be playing. I really think that that's all that that's about.

[Drea Nicole]

And I think too n are not as player as they think they are.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, I've come across very few men in my life that keep it all the way 100 with me. And I be like, you know what? I fuck with you that much in that vibe. We can still kick it and have a good time because let's just see where it goes and you can figure it out. And may the best coochie win. But most of you Niggas ain't got it like that. So when it presents themselves like you're presenting it like, hey, I'm fucking with you, but I'm also fucking with other women. Most women are gonna be like, you ain't worth the trouble.

[Lex]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

So you niggas really ain't pee like y' all think y' all are because you ain't got it like that. And that's the honest to God truth. That's why a lot of men don't keep it real. Because they know that they gonna lose every time. So it's very, very rare you'll with come up across a man that just keep it so real with you and he expose you to real. And now you hate lames. It's very rare.

[Lex]

Glicks, what the f.

[Drea Nicole]

My espresso. My espresso just kicked in.

[Lex]

Clearly.

[Drea Nicole]

I.

[Lex]

But no. Yeah. I just definitely feel like men be with the. Oh, we keeping it player. All of that shit until you be on the same type of time that they be on. I think men. Men just be wanting to be able to with whoever they want to with. And then you just be being loyal to them. Right on the same. They on. They don't like that. That's really what I think it sums up too.

[Drea Nicole]

Agreed. That's why you see a lot of like poly relationships. It's rarely with like a woman most of the time. I see it be like with men.

[Lex]

Yeah. I mean, I. I've seen a few though. It's like a woman with like multiple. I do see that men and multiple husbands. But it is more rare cuz men are very possessive.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. They be having like four or five girlfriends and they can't. The girls just gotta be with him and him only. Couldn't be me.

[Lex]

Couldn't be me either. Me and three.

[Drea Nicole]

Ew.

[Lex]

I just feel like it's too much juices moving around. What's all that moving back there? Like it's too much going on. You mean like you gonna put your dick in her, then you gonna put it in me, and then you gonna put it in somebody else.

[Drea Nicole]

And no salt.

[Lex]

And then we all gotta eat each other.

[Drea Nicole]

Cool. This is too much.

[Lex]

It's too much. I feel like that's the definition of to the room stain.

[Drea Nicole]

There's no way your psi.

[Lex]

Ain't no way the room don't stink. And it's four or five people in there.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex]

And you right. Ain't no salt XO in the meat.

[Drea Nicole]

Ain't no salt XO to be seen. So. Yeah, I think that's why men, you know, they feel some type of way when they think that they keeping it real. But then they feel some type of way when you cuz that's the risk of keeping it real with somebody. You're risking them being like, you know what? I'm not cool with this. And a real going to be like, you know what? I respect that. I told you the truth. I'm moving on. Most they don't. They don't. They not built like that are a lot more emotional than people like to give. They are.

[Lex]

They're very emotional.

[Drea Nicole]

All right, what else we got, girl?

[Lex]

Per usual, y' all know, go to www.muse beautycollection.com get your lipsticks, lip liners, lip glosses. I'm trying to think of everything.

[Drea Nicole]

I got mascara, eyeliner, the plumper blushes,

[Lex]

plump, all of the above. And then I also started a depop. So make sure y' all follow me on depop. I'm going to make sure I put the link in the description box and I'm selling a whole bunch of my old stuff. I'm getting rid of like a lot of stuff that's in my closet. Mostly like designer stuff cuz you know, I ain't giving that to the Goodwill but at super discounted prices. And everything is in really good condition. Only been worn like once or twice.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh yeah.

[Lex]

Follow my depot period.

[Drea Nicole]

And y' all know, per usual, make sure y' all subscribe to Love LEXP. New episodes every Monday at 10am The Love Birds are growing. Thank y' all so much for tuning into that Snapchat lexp05. I do my house updates daily on there. Right now I just got my closet done. I'm showing y' all the little decoration pieces I've been ordering. So y', all, if y' all want to keep up with all my my House Things, Lex P05 and I'm on Facebook at Lex P period.

[Ana Navarro]

Bye.

[Drea Nicole]

See y' all next week. Yeah, we f to set this up

[Lex]

exactly.

[Drea Nicole]

All you yeah, you want to talk,

[Lex]

you want to run your mouth? You want some gangsters for your house? We'll set this off set this off off we'll set this off set this off they call me badass and I'll punish you you ain't my equal win

[Drea Nicole]

people I ain't one of you since

[Lex]

98 I grabbed my plate up off that lunch table I told my mom thugging outside we don't need cable now I'm the nipple on the titty I'm the motorcycle hemi, I'm the B12 and 760 you we real with g clothes love to go and be small we the, we all got bread so when we fall we the crushes we the dodo in the duchess? I'm the photo in the camera I'm the pistol when they snap you I got the sickest beamer, I got the sickest magnum, I got the sickest charter, y' all 30 miles, 40.

[Drea Nicole]

I told you let me get me

[Lex]

for you get stressed in the streets this the day that you gonna be deceased for playing with a beast

[Drea Nicole]

you

[Lex]

ain't playing my projects Y' all play that entertainment that's my thug there it's love that D8 don't search my house cause ain't no drugs yet we smart with this we got it with this do do something. My shoe I said it off up in this set it off in this, set it off my click all dogs don't make a Set it off set it off in this set it off my click all dogs don't make a set it off, set it off in this set it off you jumping like a fraud we'll put you on that wall Set it off in this set it off my click all dogs don't make us set it off, set it off I be super clean.

[Drea Nicole]

Thank y'. All. You ain't never seen Set it off, set this off, set this up here. You throw that in your face.

[Ana Navarro]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

Sa. Foreign,

[Heather Dubrow]

I'm Heather Dubrow.

[Terry Dubrow]

And I'm Terry Dubrow.

[Heather Dubrow]

And we're going to keep this between us.

[Drea Nicole]

Not really.

[Terry Dubrow]

The TMZ guy walks up to me, goes, terry, what do you think about Bradley Cooper? They asked him and they said he's not had any plastic surgery. But I mean, what's the latest rumor? I'm gay, right?

[Drea Nicole]

Isn't that the latest rumor?

[Lex]

Yes.

[Terry Dubrow]

First of all, if I were gay, I would be gay.

[Heather Dubrow]

Listen to Between Us on America's number one podcast network, iHeart. Follow between us and start listening on the free iHeartradio app today. The human body is a beautiful machine and keeping it running means understanding how it actually works.

[Lex]

Which is why this podcast, Will Kill youl is doing a multi part series on sleep. What it's for, why our bodies don't follow neat rules and why modern life is not helping.

[Heather Dubrow]

When you consider what we know about sleep in humans, there's one rule that comes comes out. We are predictably unpredictable sleepers.

[Lex]

We'll continue exploring how the body works with a multi part series on digestive function.

[Heather Dubrow]

So Listen to our newest series, which runs January 20 through February 17 with

[Lex]

new episodes every Tuesday from the Exactly Right Network. Listen to this podcast will kill you on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Then she says, have you seen a photo of my son? And I'm like, who is this person?

[Drea Nicole]

Welcome to the Boys and Girls Podcast.

[Lex]

Arranged marriage is basically a reality show

[Drea Nicole]

and you're auditioning for your soulmate. And who's judging? Only your entire family. I sacrificed myself to this ancient tradition hoping to find love the right way, and instead I found chaos, comedy and

[Lex]

a lot of cringe.

[Drea Nicole]

Listen to boys and Girls on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is the biggest night in podcasting.

[Terry Dubrow]

The countdown is on to our 2026 iHeart Podcast Awards live from south by Southwest, March 16th. We'll honor the very best in podcasting from the past year and celebrate the

[Ana Navarro]

most innovative, talented creators in the industry.

[Terry Dubrow]

It's truly a who's who of the podcasting world. Creativity, knowledge and passion will all be on full display.

[Drea Nicole]

And the winner of the iheart podcast award is.

[Terry Dubrow]

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[Heather Dubrow]

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[Lex]

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[Drea Nicole]

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[Drea Nicole]

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[Lex]

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