My Lil Valentine

Summary

Pour Minds Podcast — "My Lil Valentine" (Feb 13, 2026)

Hosts: Lex P & Drea Nicole

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Episode Overview

This episode is a Valentine’s Day-themed conversation between co-hosts Lex P and Drea Nicole, two single Houstonians living in Atlanta. They blend comedic storytelling and candid opinions about love, dating, self-care, and friendship—all with their signature wine-infused, unfiltered energy. The discussion covers Valentine’s Day dos and don’ts, thoughtful gifting, social etiquette with kids, wild skin care trends (semen facials, anyone?), and more, concluding with listener advice and their playful musical sign-off.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Solo Episode Vibes and Audience Requests

• The hosts embrace their solo-episode format, joking about past guests and the potential for a fan-featured episode—but worry about fans getting too nervous in front of the camera.
  • “We ain't got no guests today.” (03:39, Lex P)

2. Fashion Talk: Burgundy, Neutrals, and Timeless Pieces

• Drea and Lex discuss their love of burgundy in fashion, despite TikTok saying the color is “tired.”
• They reminisce about American Apparel’s quality ("I've had these pants for 10 years!” – 09:11, Drea Nicole) and diss fast fashion (like Fashion Nova) for its lack of durability.

3. Valentine’s Day Traditions, Etiquette, and Relationship Boundaries

A. Child-Focused Etiquette in Public

• They react to a viral TikTok where a mom is angry someone didn’t wave back at her child.
  • Lex: “Not everybody likes kids. If I don't wanna wave at your baby, I'm not gonna wave at your baby.” (12:16)
  • Drea adds it's not that deep—babies forget and don’t care; it's mostly about the parent's hurt feelings.

B. Valentine’s Day 'No-Nos' — Things You Should NOT Do

• The hosts discuss relationship deal-breakers and cringe-worthy Valentine’s Day moves:
  1. Oversized Stuffed Animals: Cute when younger but now just in the way. (19:05)
     • “I don't want no big ass bear. That's the same size as my n***.”* (19:05, Drea)
  2. Holiday Proposals: Don’t propose on V-Day, birthday, or other holidays—it’s predictable and not truly personal.
     • “I want it to be my day. A special day that's about me, not about nothing else.” (26:58, Drea)
  3. Forgetting Valentine's Day: Unforgivable—even a small gesture matters.
     • “If you don't do nothing for Valentine's Day, that's grounds for a breakup.” (35:11, Lex)
  4. Group V-Day Dates: Fun idea for established couples—not a yearly thing, but nice for variety. (29:27)

C. Thoughtfulness Over Expense

• Meaningful gestures (like a handwritten letter) always trump flashy gifts.
  • “Being thoughtful on Valentine's Day can honestly be cheap as hell.” (35:11, Lex)

4. Game Segment: "He Could Fold Me Up?"

The hosts joke about different archetypal men and whether they’d let them "fold them up" (i.e., date/hook up).

A. The 'Doesn’t Celebrate Holidays' Guy

• Both agree: Absolutely not.
  • “People who try to be too woke about holidays? You're just being lazy.” (38:34, Lex)

B. The “Pop-Up on Valentine’s” Guy

• Scenario: A guy you haven’t spoken to suddenly resurfaces for a V-Day hookup.
  • Lex is open if she’s single: “If somebody hit me up from the past and we can have a little rendezvous, that’s fine.” (43:41)
  • Drea: Only if you can keep him from getting clingy. (44:12)

C. The 'Hood Romantic'

• Buys you flowers from the guy on the corner, calls you “My lil valentine.”
  • Lex isn’t into “hood guys.” Drea admits she used to like them—“A reformed one!” (51:15)

D. The 'Thoughtful Gift Giver'

• Thoughtful, remembers tiny details, plans ahead: both enthusiastic YES.
  • “Fold me up. Being thoughtful will get you so far.” (54:20, Lex)

5. Valentine’s Day Cocktails

• Drea shares her "Sweetest Sin" cocktail recipe: Crown Royal, Campari, pineapple/lime juice, pineberry syrup, with hibiscus and rose petals. (36:40)

6. Wild Self-Care: Semen Facials & Vabbing

• The hosts respond to a viral "My Strange Addiction" clip of a woman using her husband's sperm as daily skincare.
  • Both are disgusted— and note the woman's skin wasn’t even clear.
    • “You rubbing battery acid on your face.” (59:28, Lex)
  • Discusses "vabbing": using vaginal fluids as perfume—again, they're grossed out.
    • “Just get you some La Vie Est Belle and call it a day.” (61:32, Lex)

7. Listener Advice: 'Pour Your Heart Out'

• Listener feels uncertain if she should address her undefined situationship before Valentine’s Day.

  • Lex: Let the day pass, observe his actions for clarity.
    • “What he does on Valentine’s Day is gonna give you the clarity that you need.” (77:48)
  • Drea: Maybe mention your availability, see if he makes plans, and always have a backup. (78:43)

• Voicemail: A woman asks for advice after a man wants a threesome with her friend, then asks how the friend would feel about “fucking with him.”

  • Lex: “Cut him off. When he met the friend, he only included you to be nice—he wanted her.” (80:28)
  • Drea: “That's wild. Let that go.” (81:21)

8. Bop of the Week: Music Recs

• Lex: “Choosing Texas” by Ella Langley
• Drea: “Rain Dance” by Dave & Tems
• Both discuss recent faves and gym music.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Oversized Valentine Bears:

  • “I don't want no big ass bear that’s the same size as my n***. Where the n**** gonna be at?”* — Drea Nicole (19:05)

• On Thoughtful Gift-Giving:

  • “Being thoughtful on Valentine's Day can honestly be cheap as hell.” — Lex P (35:11)
  • “I need the romance. I need all the things.” — Drea Nicole (55:42)

• On Social Media Critics:

  • “It always be the people with the most opinions, and then you look at their page, and you be like, oh, okay.” — Drea Nicole (07:19)

• On Self-Care Trends:

  • “She got the wrong n***. She rubbing battery acid on her face.”* — Lex P (59:28)
  • “Why are you using nut for your skin?” — Drea Nicole (62:40)

• On Men Who Don’t Celebrate Holidays:

  • “Ask him if he celebrates his birthday, and more than likely, a man will be like, ‘I don’t really care about my birthday.’ He don’t care about nothing.” — Lex P (39:51)

• On Relationship Clarity:

  • “What he does on Valentine’s Day is gonna give you the clarity that you need.” — Lex P (77:48)
  • “Ain’t nothing wrong with knowing a little early and cutting your losses early.” — Drea Nicole (79:21)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• Solo Episode Opener – 03:29
• Burgundy Fashion Discussion – 06:48
• American Apparel Nostalgia – 09:20
• Valentine’s Day Plans – 11:08
• Social Etiquette with Kids – 12:15
• V-Day No-Nos/Breakup-worthy Moves – 18:16
• Oversized Bears Debate – 19:00
• Proposals Debate – 26:29
• Thoughtful Gifting Talk – 54:10
• Valentine’s Day Cocktails Segment – 36:40
• Wild Skincare Trends (Semen Facials/Vabbing) – 58:29
• Listener Advice: Undefined Relationship Before V-Day – 76:37
• Voice Mail: Threesome with Friend – 80:00
• Music Bops of the Week – 66:08

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Tone & Style

• Lighthearted, candid, and irreverent
• Mix of humor, real talk, and storytelling
• Southern/African-American vernacular and slang
• Comfortably switches between jokes and solid relationship advice

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Summary for Non-Listeners

This Pour Minds episode is the epitome of witty, unfiltered “drunk therapy.” Drea and Lex break down Valentine’s Day pitfalls from oversized teddy bears to awkward “pop-up” hookups, share genuine insights about thoughtful partnership, and roast questionable wellness trends—all with plenty of laughs. They highlight what's truly important in relationships (thoughtfulness, consistency, communication), and their advice, while fun and playful, is surprisingly wise. From fashion and dating to wild viral trends, the conversation stays entertaining and relatable throughout.

Whether you’re single, boo’d up, or somewhere in between, this is a hilarious and surprisingly heartfelt guide to surviving Valentine’s Day, embracing self-love, and keeping your standards high.

Transcript

[Drea Nicole]

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[Lex P]

My little Valentine.

[Drea Nicole]

Your little nothing. But, you know, I don't like when people be saying. I like when people be like, my little sheet. What is my little sheet?

[Sponsor Voice]

Fine.

[Lex P]

Little fine shit or whatever be saying.

[Drea Nicole]

My little.

[Lex P]

My little. Sounds kind of gross.

[Drea Nicole]

I do got a little.

[Lex P]

I be having a little. But that's not what I was.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, like, nothing about that is cute. Imagine somebody has your name like that in their phone and they had, like.

[Lex P]

The little poop emoji.

[Drea Nicole]

My little sheep.

[Lex P]

What's up, y'?

[Sponsor Voice]

All?

[Lex P]

It's your girl, Lex P. And it's.

[Drea Nicole]

Your girl Drea Nicole.

[Lex P]

And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds, where a drunk.

[Drea Nicole]

Mind speaks sober thought.

[Lex P]

We ain't got no guests today.

[Drea Nicole]

We ain't got no guests today.

[Lex P]

I know they be happy when we feed the streets.

[Drea Nicole]

I know we've been doing good solo episodes.

[Lex P]

Yes, we have. Because I feel like we went on a run where we had, like, a lot of guests. So I feel like we owe that to them to give them, you know, a run of a lot of solos. We gotta mix it up.

[Drea Nicole]

We do. We do. And I hope they enjoying it, because it won't last long.

[Lex P]

Yep. Another one is finna come. We finna have a lot of guests, but it's gonna be guests that y' all enjoy. We've heard y'. All. We don't want to get ate up.

[Drea Nicole]

They said that. You always saying it, and it's not what they be.

[Lex P]

They don't be asking it do, though. I'm tell.

[Drea Nicole]

I be seeing the comments.

[Lex P]

I know, I know. They be like, lex, nobody asked for them. I'm like, bro, y' all be in my DMs. Y' all be in the comments. They do be.

[Drea Nicole]

But tell the truth, though. Do you say that sometimes just to make them feel good? Just to make the guests feel good.

[Lex P]

We have not had one guest on the show where everybody was like, nobody asked for these. I'm telling you. I know it at least will be like one or two people at least.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, one or two.

[Lex P]

One or two out of hundreds of thousands. That's enough for me. That's a request. That's still a request. And I must meet all of my people's needs. I want everybody to feel loved and.

[Drea Nicole]

Paid attention to we should do a poll on Instagram.

[Lex P]

No, we should not.

[Drea Nicole]

We should. And I feel like we should do a poll. And like. Well, I guess we kind of did do that.

[Lex P]

What?

[Drea Nicole]

We made a post and we asked them who would they like to see.

[Lex P]

And everybody said themselves.

[Drea Nicole]

A lot of people was tagging themselves.

[Lex P]

They was like, let me on the couch. And you know what's funny? I actually wouldn't mind doing, like, a fan episode. Like one, like, doing some kind of contest and doing it, like, maybe once a year or something.

[Drea Nicole]

That would be fun.

[Lex P]

It would be fun. But the thing that scares me about that is I feel like if we pick somebody to do it, I don't want them to come. And they think it's, like, it's not what they think it is. And they get on the couch and they just get nervous and they don't show up. You know what I'm saying? Like, you have to really. You gotta give it your all. Like, you gotta do it.

[Sponsor Voice]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

But I think I don't feel like they should be nervous, though. Cause, you know, it's not that many people in here. Now. If we did it in front of a live audience, that would be the.

[Lex P]

I don't even think it's about the people.

[Drea Nicole]

I think it's about the cameras.

[Lex P]

It's the setup, it's the lighting. It's the. I mean, then sitting here with us, a lot of people probably maybe get nervous in front of us. I don't know. But I would like to do it. I just hope that, like, if we ever do it, like, we picked, like, the right person who's gonna come on here, join in on the conversation, mesh with us. Well, like, I actually think that we should do that.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, we should maybe try to, like. Maybe they have to do, like, Poor minds trivia.

[Lex P]

I think that's easy. We gotta do something like. Something like what? What you think? Survivor type shit. Hunger Games?

[Drea Nicole]

Uh, that's too much.

[Lex P]

I'm just kidding. We gonna end up getting sued. No, but. I don't know. But we'll think of something that's, like, very. I don't know. I don't know. We have to think of something.

[Drea Nicole]

It needs to be something hard.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Just so, like, it'll really, you know, weed it out and see who's really, like, can mesh in with this. I don't know.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, in other news, we are coordinating.

[Lex P]

You look very nice. Yes, thank you. I got this from Baby Boo.

[Drea Nicole]

That's cute. I like that. It's a cute, like, little date night dress.

[Lex P]

Now, you know, they told us that the girls have to retire this burgundy color. They said it is tired. They tired of seeing us in our burgundy, and we need to let it go.

[Drea Nicole]

Who said that?

[Lex P]

Everybody on Tik Tok.

[Drea Nicole]

Probably somebody that can't dress.

[Lex P]

Well, that's me. I can't dress. But I like the burgundy. I like.

[Drea Nicole]

I feel like people who be saying that type of stuff, it always. You look at they page, and it always be them.

[Lex P]

You know, they always be the ones.

[Drea Nicole]

It always be the people with the most opinions. And then you look at their page, and you be like, oh, okay.

[Lex P]

I'm not gonna lie. I feel like every time it's somebody in the comments, be like, ooh, Lex, what you got on? Lex, you look tacky or something. Every time I go look at that page, I'm like, bitch, we dress the same ho. I'm already. What about twin now?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, that's what I'm saying. I mean, what. I don't feel like y' all be dressed the same, but I'm sure they be looking the mess.

[Lex P]

Ye.

[Drea Nicole]

Because it's usually like that. I mean, I don't know. I like the burgundy color. I definitely think, you know, at one point, people was overkilling it. But as long as the outfit is cute, I don't really care.

[Lex P]

Yeah. I like a little girl.

[Drea Nicole]

I feel like as long as the outfit itself is cute, who cares? It's like. And burgundy been around forever and ever. That's, like, literally one of my mama favorite colors.

[Lex P]

Really?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. She always wore burgundy when I was growing up. Y' all new to these. Y' all ain't true to it.

[Lex P]

So, you know, burgundy is a good home interior color now in 2020, that's like the trending color for 2026 is burgundy.

[Drea Nicole]

Right? So who we gonna listen to them on TikTok or the Interior designers? Me.

[Lex P]

I'm the interior designer. You should listen to me. But I will say I am trying to incorporate colors this year a lot more. Cause I'm always a black and brown girly.

[Drea Nicole]

You a neutral girl?

[Lex P]

Yes, Neutrals.

[Drea Nicole]

That's it.

[Lex P]

So I am trying to, like, add more colors, and I feel like burgundy is, like, it's a baby step. Cause it's still like a.

[Drea Nicole]

It's a muted color.

[Lex P]

Muted color. Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. But, I mean, I don't know. Cause the fashionistas are saying that you're supposed to get all of your good pieces in neutral colors because you could wear them more.

[Lex P]

That's what I'm saying.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, it's A staple.

[Lex P]

I did a little shopping the other day. What's that designer name? It starts with the M. Man of Manvaire something.

[Drea Nicole]

Minier. Mini me. I know who you talking about. I got a few jackets from them.

[Lex P]

Yes, baby, I ordered some jackets and they are so tea. But they were all like black and brown. I said I tried baby steps.

[Drea Nicole]

Baby steps. Yeah, yeah. You gotta, you gotta start stopping. I don't know this fun fact. These pants, I have had them for 10 years.

[Lex P]

Ooh.

[Drea Nicole]

And that's on staying skinny.

[Lex P]

That's what I was about to say.

[Drea Nicole]

You can still fit them and I can still fit them. That's amazing. Shout out to American Apparel.

[Lex P]

Ooh. That used to be before because American.

[Drea Nicole]

Apparel used to be having all of the clothes, all of the gyms and I used to stay up and American Apparel hated to see me come in.

[Lex P]

Them high waisted shorts that were kind of shiny with the thigh high socks we used to wear. That's how you, that was your bartending outfit was if you was a prime time bartender, you had on them thigh high socks, the high waisted shorts and a crop top.

[Drea Nicole]

Everything was high waisted.

[Lex P]

And the chunks. And you had to have the chunks.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. And then it was just really good material. Like the dresses and stuff were all spandex but it was like body hugging, body contouring. It was just really good quality stuff. And clearly because like I said, I've been having these pants for like 10 plus years. I forgot I had them in my closet. I was like they'll match perfect for my little jacket.

[Lex P]

And that's what I'm saying, that's quality pieces. Because I'm telling you I done went through about 16 pairs of fashion overs in 10 years.

[Drea Nicole]

I already know them fashion over jeans be getting holes in the midst of too quickly and then when you wash them, the hems be coming out, everything.

[Lex P]

Baby, you open the washer, it's just a bunch of thread in there. That's it. Now I will say pretty little things. Quality. I like their quality. Like I'll buy their sweatsuits. Like the sweatpants and the tops. That's good quality.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I will order some pretty little thing. I love it. And they make the tops. Cause you know, I'm a little taller.

[Drea Nicole]

I love pretty little things.

[Lex P]

Yeah, they be having some, you know, little one twos. Anyways, it's Valentine's Day. It is. And you know we want to spread a lot of love and that's what we're doing. Well first off, do you have any Valentine's day plans?

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know yet.

[Lex P]

You don't know yet? That's good. That's a good sign.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know yet.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying?

[Drea Nicole]

I hope. I'm surprised. We'll see. My boyfriend booked a cabin for the weekend. Ooh, that's.

[Lex P]

Y' all finna get freaky.

[Drea Nicole]

Y' all are about to get freaky.

[Lex P]

I know. That's right.

[Drea Nicole]

He's been listening. He's doing good. He in therapy now.

[Lex P]

Love that.

[Drea Nicole]

I love that.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

We love a man at least in. What you doing?

[Lex P]

I'm going out of town. You know, a little one, two. Something light. Just a little quick weekend trip. Little New York. I love a little quick New York trip. So, yeah, we're gonna do a little one, two, get it in, and head on back. But I wanted to talk about love and spreading love. Right?

[Drea Nicole]

Mm.

[Lex P]

Um, do you feel. I just. I saw a TikTok the other day. This lady made a video and she was saying her and her child were walking through the airport and her baby was like waving at people. Cause she's like, my baby's just really, really friendly. And she got mad because this lady didn't wave back at her baby. And she was just like, that's rude as fuck. This is a child that's showing cheer and love to everyone. How dare you not wave back at my child? Like, she didn't do nothing to you. And I was like, not everybody likes kids.

[Drea Nicole]

That's number one.

[Lex P]

If I don't wanna wave at your baby, I'm not gonna wave at your baby.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I agree. I mean, and I just feel like too, what if she didn't see them?

[Lex P]

I mean, maybe she did, but especially if they got that dried ass Cheetos on their mouth and they hands wet. I hate a wet baby hand.

[Sponsor Voice]

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[Lex P]

Oh, I hate a wet baby hand. Me too.

[Drea Nicole]

And they be putting they food in everything and then they be trying to give you some. No.

[Lex P]

Oh, I almost said the B word.

[Drea Nicole]

No.

[Lex P]

No, bitch. I don't want your crusty soggy cheetos.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh my God. I had seen this meme. Well, it wasn't a meme. It was like a little video on Instagram the other day and this lady had called her friend and she was like, hey, bitch, what's up? And the lady was like, girl, my kid sitting right here. And she was like, oh, hey, little bitches.

[Lex P]

That's me. That is me. Cause get out the room then I'm trying to call.

[Drea Nicole]

That was funny. I was Like, I mean. Yes.

[Lex P]

And don't get me wrong, I always wave at children, but I feel like. I don't know. I think people are just. I do think it's very easy to be kind now. I think it's very easy to be.

[Drea Nicole]

Nice, and I think we should.

[Lex P]

This world could use a lot more people being kind, for sure. But at the same time, you can't. You're not entitled to somebody else's kindness at the same time, too, you know? And I think that's a good lesson for some children, too. Not everybody. This world ain't nice. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? Sometimes you're gonna wave at a. And they not gonna wave back.

[Drea Nicole]

I mean, and it's a child, like, depending on how young they are, they're not even gonna remember this.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't really feel like babies be caring about that type of stuff. Like, you as the mom. I don't feel like when you were two, you can't remember. If you care.

[Lex P]

I do.

[Drea Nicole]

No, you can't.

[Lex P]

I remember. But I was a teeny, teeny, tiny tot.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, okay. So what's something you remember?

[Lex P]

I remember one day I was in Kroger, and I was just walking up and down the aisles. I was looking for some eggs. Mm. And I remember I asked the lady, I said, help, help. Mm. And she looked at me, she said, little bitch. And she walked off, and it stuck with me forever.

[Drea Nicole]

That never fucking happened. And I said, that shit never fucking.

[Lex P]

Happened that day in my diaper. I looked up at her and I.

[Drea Nicole]

Said, cause where was your parents? Why are you looking for eggs?

[Lex P]

Cause I was trying to help my mom. Grocery shop. And I looked up at her and I.

[Drea Nicole]

But where was she?

[Lex P]

In the other aisles.

[Drea Nicole]

And you had on a dia.

[Lex P]

Diaper.

[Drea Nicole]

And she left you by yourself.

[Lex P]

And I looked up at that lady, I said, you're going to regret this. I'm going to be a podcaster one day, girl, if you're going to eat your words. And lo and behold, I knew you.

[Drea Nicole]

Was about to lie. I could see it in your eyes. I'm just saying I do it.

[Lex P]

She regretted it.

[Drea Nicole]

But no, I mean, I definitely do think it's rude a little bit when people don't speak to kids if they, like, wave at them or speak to them. But I don't know, maybe because we don't have kids yet. But even once I do have a kid, I don't see myself just getting that upset that somebody getting waved back at my baby. Oh, well, bitch, fuck you. And I'm gonna keep moving. Who cares if I. Nothing to be upset about.

[Lex P]

Yeah. And I think too, some children are a lot more talkative.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Like, I don't. Neither one of my nephews are friendly like that. So I've never had to deal with that, like, being out in public with them, like, hi. But some kids are like that. And I feel like if you do have a friendly kid, I think that's a conversation that you can have. Like, you know, baby, not everybody's gonna talk to you. And that's okay. You know, you still be yourself and you don't change that. But I think getting upset at people for not waving at your baby is a little weird. I'm not gonna lie. It is. She was going off, she was hot, honey. She was the mad.

[Drea Nicole]

But you know, people be like that about they kids. And I mean, I guess I get it to a certain extent. Like, you know, you gonna be overprotective of your child. But yeah, if they didn't do any, like, it's. To me, it's different. If they did something to be rude to the baby.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Versus just not saying things back. Like, if my baby waved at you and he was like, fuck you, then I'mma go off on your ass. Then I might end up in Fulton County.

[Lex P]

So why you didn't feel sorry for me? That lady called me a little bit.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause that shit ain't happening. That shit ain't happening.

[Lex P]

Okay? And I agree with that. Like I said, I just think, like, people aren't entitled to care as long as they're not rude. Like that. But also, like, this is why I really don't like talking to strangers in the airport and having small talk either. Because once you start, oh, this is my youngest.

[Drea Nicole]

People be doing that to you.

[Lex P]

Yes. Like, if you're, like, at a random bar, you're, like, sitting next to somebody and they want to talk, that's fine. But hi. And by once you start pulling up pictures of your kids. I'm sorry, I do not want to see pictures of little Frederick. I really don't give a damn.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm like that with my co workers.

[Lex P]

Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

Give a damn. This new baby you got, dog.

[Lex P]

Unless it's somebody, like, in my circle or, like, like, if any of y' all had a child, of course I want to see pictures. But like, if it's somebody I'm not, I really don't care to see pictures. Usually your kids. Yeah, I'm sorry.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, me either.

[Lex P]

At a bar, though, people don't do.

[Drea Nicole]

That at no bar.

[Lex P]

Yeah, Like I'm here to get leaked. Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

Not trying to be looking at killing the ball. You and your baby. You and your baby on Santa.

[Lex P]

Love, bro. Kid. I tell y', all, pictures of kids and pictures of people's pets kill the vibe every time. I don't wanna see none of that shit.

[Drea Nicole]

It do. Yeah. People need to learn how to read the room. Cause like I said, like, if you showing me pictures of your kids and you at the bar, you don't have nothing strong enough in your kids.

[Lex P]

You are not a good dresser.

[Drea Nicole]

Shouldn't even be thinking about them kids right now.

[Lex P]

I'm telling you.

[Drea Nicole]

Especially not your pig.

[Lex P]

Man, the club is full of ballers and they pockets full grown. What is you doing?

[Drea Nicole]

Yep.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying?

[Drea Nicole]

But that's funny.

[Lex P]

Okay, so let's get into the first topic. What we talking about today? Ch.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, so for the first topic today, we're going to be talking about Valentine's Day. No, no. We always talk about what we want our partner to do on Valentine's Day. So I feel like for this first topic, we can talk about the things that we absolutely don't want our partner to do Valentine's, like, no, no, don't do that. Cause we might break up on Valentine's Day. If you do it.

[Lex P]

Would you break up with somebody on Valentine's Day?

[Drea Nicole]

I would break up with a. On his birthday.

[Lex P]

Oh, I've done that before.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't give a damn.

[Lex P]

I love it.

[Drea Nicole]

If you gotta go, you got to go.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I definitely did that before. Yeah. And I'll do it again.

[Drea Nicole]

I would do that again, too.

[Lex P]

Like, if you make me mad enough. Nothing makes me happier than ruining your birthday.

[Drea Nicole]

No, see, I wouldn't necessarily want to ruin your birthday, but if it just so happened that it was your birthday. Oh, well, I'm not waiting till the next day.

[Lex P]

I can't. I gotta. But that's me. Anyway, it don't matter what day it is. Like, if I have to get something off my chest, I gotta get off my chest.

[Drea Nicole]

That's me, too.

[Lex P]

Okay, so Valentine's Day. No, no. Let me ask y' all this. How do y' all feel about enormous stuffed animals, like the big old oversized bear? Big old oversized dolphin?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Do they do dolphins?

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know. Maybe. That's cool.

[Lex P]

Bear.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't want no big ass bear that's the same size as my nigga. Where the nigga in the D. Oh, oh, oh, Lamar.

[Lex P]

I had to clutch my.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm just Saying I want this big ass V girl.

[Lex P]

Oh my God.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm just saying. I'm just keeping it real, cuz. That's what you was thinking.

[Lex P]

Jesus, why the I want that shit.

[Drea Nicole]

Taking up space in my house? Like, I think it was cute when we were younger.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, cuz I actually had a boyfriend give me like a huge oversized beer for Valentine's day went past. No, not him, he's still alive. Okay, this one's a little high, but yes. He had actually got me like a oversized bear for Valentine's day one year. And it was like really cute. He had got me a whole bunch of balloons, the bear, some candy. He had took me out to dinner. It was like really, really nice. He got me some juicy couture stuff. Juicy couture.

[Lex P]

Couture.

[Drea Nicole]

Back in the day, you was that girl.

[Lex P]

How old were you when he did all this?

[Drea Nicole]

I was like 16 or.

[Lex P]

Oh, so you was putting that coochie on by then?

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, yeah, yeah. I mean, cuz, I don't recall like a boy giving me gifts in elementary school. Like it was just the generic, you know, your mama would go and get the candy and the cars for the whole and everybody would give it to you. I never had a boy do nothing like super special for me when I was in elementary or middle school.

[Lex P]

I remember being in elementary school and you know, you would get the cars and the candy for everybody in your class.

[Drea Nicole]

Right.

[Lex P]

I remember a boy from another class walked in the classroom. Like the teacher walked him in there and he came in there and brought me a card and candy. And he only gave it to me cause he was so cute. But again, I was so embarrassed. I was like, oh, whatever. I like, literally I was like. You was like, what? I like, I looked at it, I was like, oh my God, gross. The n. A got cuties. I was like. And I remember. And I was just like, as an adult, when I think about it, I'm like, that was so mean.

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[Drea Nicole]

And you never said nothing to him again?

[Lex P]

I mean, I did. Cause he lived in my neighborhood. Oh, okay. You know what I'm saying? I know. Like we used to kind of, you know, we used to flirt, but we supposed to keep that shit in the neighborhood. Ho ass nigga. Oh, I got other niggas in the room, you know what I'm saying? I just borrowed your Jason's crayons, you know what I'm saying? Watch out, my boy.

[Drea Nicole]

Jason's crayons.

[Lex P]

Yeah. So I just remember as an adult, I'm like, Man, that was so mean. And I remember my teacher was like. She, like, pulled me and was like, that was not nice. Like, you don't do that to people. And I was just like, you're a hater. Mind your business.

[Drea Nicole]

I think, yes. That was probably so embarrassing for him.

[Lex P]

I mean, it was probably embarrassing that he had to walk over there by himself. Anyway, so the teacher, like, walked him over there, and he just, like, walked in and set it on my desk, and he left. And I was like, nigga, think I give a fuck. Ho ass, nigga.

[Drea Nicole]

That is crazy. Legs. How did y' all ever, like, when y' all had another conversation after that, how did it start? Cause if I was him, I wouldn't have been fucking with you.

[Lex P]

No, I wouldn't even talk. Honestly. It was just kind of like. I don't know. We never really talked about it. From what I remember. I mean, I was literally in first grade, first or second grade.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, bitch, why you embarrass me like that? In front of the class?

[Lex P]

We was holding hands and, like, nothing ever happened. That was my boo. He was my side piece.

[Drea Nicole]

No, he needed my. You treated him like one in front of everybody. They probably still hurt him to this day. They be probably asking him, what's your villain origin story? When you know what's crazy?

[Lex P]

I think I'm not being funny, y'. All. I swear to God, I think he's gay now.

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[Lex P]

That's probably why I think he's gay now. I really said fuck these bitches. Okay. But anyway, so how do you feel about overstuffed animal stuff?

[Drea Nicole]

What do you do with it after the day? Like I feel like it just that's a nice thought. But like I think that's more like a younger Agreed.

[Lex P]

Because I feel like I remember when I worked at my job this lady had brought me and my co worker Shami. She had brought us these big like oversized bears and I had it for a very Long time. But I was like, this doesn't go with anything in my house. Like, you can't even set it on the bed. And it looked cute. It was just kind of in the way for the longest time. Yeah. So that's definitely a no.

[Drea Nicole]

No, it's taking up space.

[Lex P]

So. Yeah. Let us know how y' all feel about oversized, you know, stuffed animal.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, let's see. Would you want your partner to propose on the day? No, no, no. For me. No. Like, I really want to be surprised when I get proposed.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

So I don't want it on no holiday. Don't propose to me on Christmas. Don't propose to me on Valentine's Day. Don't propose to me on my birthday, because I don't want to be anticipating it. And I feel like when people do that type of stuff on, though, like, you kind of know.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that is possible.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, oh, it's my birthday. He might propose to me on my birthday. Or he might propose to me on the Valentine's Day. No, I just really want to be surprised. So. No, I want it to be my day. A special day that's about me, not about nothing else.

[Lex P]

The reason I feel like that is because I think the proposal on Valentine's Day is just kind of, like, corny to me, because now you're going to celebrate your engagement on Valentine's Day. And I think when people get married on Valentine's Day, it's just kind of corny and cliche for me. I feel like it's just predictable, and I feel like everybody kind of does it. How do you feel, Ty?

[Drea Nicole]

I agree for the most part, but the relationship I'm in now, our first date was on Valentine's Day, so I feel like that would be, like.

[Lex P]

It would be different.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, that's, you know, like, it would just be, like, a full circle. But I agree. Other than that, if it was anybody else. No. Yeah.

[Lex P]

But I feel like that date has significance for y'.

[Drea Nicole]

All.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? Already? Already. Like, if it doesn't have any significance outside of it being Valentine's Day, like, no, I would rather you propose on the day we had our first date.

[Drea Nicole]

Or something like that.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? Or, like.

[Drea Nicole]

Or another monumental or, like, important date that happened in our relationship.

[Lex P]

Like, can you imagine? Your boyfriend takes you to the first restaurant y' all went to on yalls first date on the same day and propose it to you? Like, that's a lot more thoughtful and sweet. See, this is why I could have Been a nigger, I would have all the bitches.

[Drea Nicole]

I be saying that, too. Cause I would have been intrigued, man. What?

[Lex P]

I would have. Y' all think Lil baby crazy, huh?

[Drea Nicole]

What I'm saying. All I'm saying is I was like, that's random.

[Lex P]

I'm just saying, I be on the T pages too much, bitch. You do.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause I was confused. I was like, huh, what?

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[Lex P]

I'm saying I would, like. I would be like. Like in my younger days, I would probably have, like, a whole bunch of women. But, like, I would be, like, such a romantic and good partner. Cause it's just so easy, I guess. Cause I'm a woman, I would just. You know, it's so easy to make a woman happy. You know, we're very simple when it comes down to it. Women just love romance. That's all you really gotta do. Don't lie and be romantic. And pay a little bill here and there. Yeah, I agree.

[Drea Nicole]

But I don't know why men just don't get it. Maybe it's not as simple as we think it is. Cause I feel like if it was that simple, it wouldn't be more of them that don't get it than ones that do.

[Lex P]

I know. Damn. That's all right. Okay, let's see. Would you be into a group Valentine's Day date with other couples?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I think that would be cute.

[Lex P]

Yeah. I'm not mad at that.

[Drea Nicole]

Not every year. No. Like that. But, like, every once in a while. Yeah. Like, I wanna. When I get my house, I wanna. And when I get married and stuff, I want to have the house where we, like, do Valentine's Day and, like, Galentine's. And everybody bring their man.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Kind of like Galentine's, but, you know, we couple.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

And then, like, Christmas and Thanksgiving and just all of the things at my house, I really wanna have, like, the hosting house. So I don't see anything wrong with that.

[Lex P]

I agree.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause we going home after we know.

[Lex P]

That you want the big dick. We know, sister. We know y' all going home. But I agree. I think Valentine's Day couples dates. I think that would be a fun idea. I've always wanted to do, like, I've never. I don't think I've ever been on a double date, though.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, I have.

[Lex P]

Like, I don't think I have. Because usually, like, the guys I date, it's like, I don't know. Not that I don't want to bring them around. It's just kind of like I be like, Mm, I don't know. Cause men vibe different than women do. You know what I'm saying? Like, I've been on a double date with, like, my guy and, like, his homeboy and, like, his girlfriend, but I've never been like, okay, me and Draya, we finna invite our boyfriends or something like that. I don't know why. It just never, like, came up or the opportunity, but I don't know. I would like to have, like. I think it would be fun to have, like, a couple that you, like, travel with and y' all do stuff together all the time. Like, I think that would be fun. So I'm not opposed to it. Do you have a couple that y' all hang out with?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, my friend, they live in D.C. she's a mom. So, like, when we get away, we going international. We did it last year, went to Mexico, and we had a blast. Yeah, I love that. Like, the hosting. I'm with you.

[Lex P]

Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

I love that. Like, I definitely can't wait to be in that era of my life where, like, me and all my friends married and we be going on couples trips and stuff. Yeah, it seemed like such a good time.

[Lex P]

I'm not gonna lie. Like, hosting friendsgiving, I was like, I like this. Like, and then, like, when everybody was eating, you know, I was in the corner, like, just over. Yeah, Everybody was cozied up on me, feeling like grandma. Cause I have the coziest house ever. I love, like, when people walk into my house, like, we just got our grills made from essence. Shout out to Essential Grills. Y' all make sure y' all get y' all grills done by my girl. But she over, and the first thing, she was like, oh, my God, it smells so good in here. She's like, it's so cozy. Like, I just love seeing people's, like, reaction to my home. So I'm like, you know what? Once I'm finished, like, really, really decorating, I'm definitely going to be entering my hosting hosting, Cuz it's fun.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, it's a lot of fun. It be the cleanup. That be the problem.

[Lex P]

But honestly, y' all weren't that messy.

[Drea Nicole]

No, we weren't. We weren't. But I don't know, I just. I'm glad that I'm also in the era of housekeepers. Yes. Yes, cuz, go ahead. Come on over the next day, the.

[Lex P]

Hardest part about the night was just, like, packing up that food and, like, putting the food up and stuff.

[Drea Nicole]

So much food left over.

[Lex P]

It was so much food Left over. It was a lot of food left over. But other than that it was.

[Drea Nicole]

But how many people. Cuz like would you get do more than 10?

[Lex P]

A little more. No, 10 is a M. It's probably. How many people was at my house?

[Drea Nicole]

It was like seven.

[Lex P]

Yeah, okay. Yeah, yeah. That was a good look. Seven to ten. I'm fine. Like house party type shit. Absolutely not. That's when shit gets to breaking floors get to getting dirty. Like I always wear slippers in my house. But the times I have walked on my floors. Cause you gotta do that check. I like to lift up my feet and see clean feet. I don't like Kroger feet now. So. Yeah. Yeah. Seven to ten is always good. Once you get above that, people start stealing your soap in the bathroom. Missing towels just gone. Batteries, missing candles.

[Sponsor Voice]

Mm.

[Drea Nicole]

Mm. Yeah. I don't ever want it to be too many people in my house to where I can't keep an eye.

[Sponsor Voice]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Out on what's going on.

[Lex P]

And I, you know, I buy a lot of toilet paper at one time and people don't be having home essentials. They gonna stuff that bag up.

[Drea Nicole]

People do take toilet paper. Cause I used to do that.

[Lex P]

All right.

[Drea Nicole]

Not at people's house. When I was at work and stuff. Like when I used to have a day job and it was sometimes where like I would need toilet paper and I'd be like, dang, I forgot to get toilet paper. I was just.

[Lex P]

What if they had like the big industrial roll? They did. You would take those big and put.

[Drea Nicole]

It in my neverfull show did Jarrea. I mean it would be like ran.

[Lex P]

Through a little bit.

[Drea Nicole]

Like it wouldn't be like a new roll.

[Lex P]

How did you get it out the bathroom?

[Sponsor Voice]

You just.

[Lex P]

Am I ever full? I'm always full. Okay. The fuck.

[Drea Nicole]

That's why it's called that. It fit everything. Whatever you needed.

[Lex P]

Oh my God. Okay. You are crazy.

[Drea Nicole]

So you're right. People will steal your toilet paper. I know. Okay. What if he totally forgot about the day altogether?

[Lex P]

I think that's grounds for a breakup. Absolutely. I think Valentine's Day, you know, it doesn't even have to be expensive. I feel like a lot of times, you know, we're gonna be realistic, you know, the average person. I mean, it's hard right now. I saw a statistic today that said the average age of a new hire at jobs is 42 years old. That's insane, right? That is so. I think even for Valentine's Day, you can go to Trader Joe's and get some $10 flowers. Hey, you know what? Work kind of stiff right now. I'm not getting a lot of hours. But I just want you to know that I thought of you. I think the sweetest thing I've ever had somebody do is like get me a card. And they just wrote a love letter on there. And it was just the sweetest thing. And I was like, oh my God. Like it was just so thoughtful. So I think being thoughtful on Valentine's day can honestly be cheap as hell. So if you don't do nothing for Valentine's day, that's grounds for a breakup. Honestly.

[Drea Nicole]

I mean. And I just truly believe you ain't forget Valentine's day. You can't the same day every year since you were born. How did you forget that? Yeah, he just don't fool with you like that. Like, I truly believe if people don't do stuff for you on important days that are important to you, they don't fool with you like that. And you going to find out sooner or later. So you better take heed to the first few signs because if you end up deciding to like stay with this person and marry them, that's what's going to happen for the rest of your life. It's going to always be something, always an excuse. Cuz he just don't really fool with you like that. Cuz like you said, it doesn't take much to be thoughtful. Even if money is not plentiful and overflowing at the time, you could be thoughtful.

[Lex P]

Exactly.

[Drea Nicole]

And you can get on. Now we got Google chat GPT. Even if you not naturally a romantic person and you can't come up with the ideas on your own, it's no excuse. Get on the Internet, look some up.

[Lex P]

Chat GPT going to get you some money within y.

[Drea Nicole]

You can even type in your budget. What can I do for $50?

[Lex P]

What can I do for 3?

[Drea Nicole]

What can I do for 3, they.

[Lex P]

Going to hook you up.

[Drea Nicole]

You need something for every budget.

[Lex P]

Every single budget. So yeah, I think that's grounds for a breakup. So let us know some of y' all's Valentine's Day. No nos. All right, Ty, it is Valentine's day. The girlies is trying to get lit and drunk with they booze. So what are we drinking today?

[Drea Nicole]

All right, so this one is going to be called the sweetest sin. All right? Cause I know y' all gonna be sinful Valentine's Day. I know I will. So the girls have some cute like heart shaped cups. The top is off of this one just So I can kind of show the garnishes. But in this one, we use some Crown Royal marquee, which has been finished in Caribbean rum cast. So it is a whiskey based cocktail. We have some Campari, some pineapple juice, some lime juice, and then we have some pineberry simple syrup in there. So that's giving it a little bit of that sweetness. And then because we are in Valentine's mode, some flowers. We have a. A hibiscus flower with some dehydrated roses kind of floating around inside.

[Lex P]

That's romantic, airy, right?

[Drea Nicole]

That does sound right. Some rose petals all around the bed. So this is the sweetest scent.

[Lex P]

And what is Campari again?

[Drea Nicole]

It's like an aperitif.

[Lex P]

Yes. Okay.

[Drea Nicole]

Bitter. It's red in color. So when you make the drink, you are gonna get some of that redness out to show.

[Lex P]

Okay. And just a little tip for y', all, if y' all are doing the rose petals around the house and on the bed, please use plastic. Plastic and fake rose petals. Because if you use real ones, they're gonna stain everything.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, yeah, that's the fact. It will stain your shit.

[Lex P]

It will stain everything. Literally. Do not use real rose petals ever. Okay, all right, all right.

[Drea Nicole]

So now it's time to get into topic number two.

[Lex P]

All right, all right.

[Drea Nicole]

So we're gonna play a game called foldy.

[Lex P]

Okay?

[Drea Nicole]

He could fold me up. Read the attributes of each man in person and say whether they could fold you up.

[Lex P]

Up.

[Drea Nicole]

O. Okay, so the. I don't celebrate holidays, men. He swears Valentine's Day is a scam. Still gets visibly bothered if you make other plans, randomly text. So what you doing tomorrow at 8:47pm on the 13th?

[Lex P]

Yuck.

[Drea Nicole]

Boo.

[Lex P]

Tomato, tomato, tomato.

[Drea Nicole]

He can't fold.

[Lex P]

No, he can't fold. And I also feel like people who try to be too woke and get into that whole spill of holidays are about capitalism and shit and X, Y, Z. Look, it's already enough bullshit going on in the world. We know what type of world we're living in. Especially as Americans, if we can find a joy in a day to just show love and show gratefulness, it don't have to be about capitalism. If you just do something thoughtful, like we said earlier, you're just being lazy. I just think it's an excuse.

[Drea Nicole]

I just think that's what people who don't be having our money be seen.

[Lex P]

Uh. Oh, no, I'm with you. What you write. Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause what you mean it's a scam? Even if it is my thing? My thing when it comes to relationships and partnerships is, like, be with somebody who aligns with you, and y' all are like minded, and y' all like celebrating the same things. Because if you be with somebody who is okay with not celebrating Valentine's Day too, you don't have to try to convince her that it's about promoting capitalism. I just don't like that. I don't like that. Don't try to convince me that some that's important to me ain't important. It ain't important to you. So go find somebody else who. Who don't care either. Cause it is women out there that don't care.

[Lex P]

Right? 100%.

[Drea Nicole]

But again, like I always say, I think people are always trying to date people that are not compatible with them.

[Lex P]

Mm. A big red flag. This is what y' all need to do on the first date. Ask him if he celebrates his birthday. And more than likely, a man will be like, oh, I don't really care about my birthday. He don't care about nothing. Yeah, you don't care about you turning. And I'm not saying they gotta go all out and go to Greece and do all that, but anybody that doesn't at least celebrate their birthday a little bit, that's a red flag. I guarantee you, if you meet a man or a woman that don't celebrate their birthday, they gonna feel the same way about all holidays and everything else.

[Drea Nicole]

No. Yeah. Facts. Cause what you mean you should celebrate yourself. I hate that I only get one day.

[Lex P]

Oh, we know it.

[Drea Nicole]

That sucks. I be like, bro, every year. Matter of fact, we gonna celebrate the whole month.

[Lex P]

Every year when April comes along, I be like, oh, God, please.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm glad that you know what time it is, though, bro.

[Lex P]

I'm sorry. But, like, Turk, still, to this day was, like, the craziest trip of my life. Why? Cause we just.

[Drea Nicole]

We had fun.

[Lex P]

We had a ball. It was a ball. But every morning we woke up, it's like, here we go again. Barely sober from the night before, where we're literally waking up, eating eggs and taking shots.

[Drea Nicole]

But I will say, I have never in my life. Like, that was a crazy trip for me. I have never in my life gotten that drunk.

[Lex P]

Yeah. On a trip.

[Drea Nicole]

Ever. Or just in general. I don't think I've ever been that drunk that many consecutive days. Like, we were. I think people really don't understand. We were so drunk, we had bought bottles in the airport. All of us.

[Lex P]

Everybody.

[Drea Nicole]

Everybody bought, like, two bottles.

[Lex P]

Two bottles? Yep.

[Drea Nicole]

In the airport. And then when we got to Turks. I think we was just drinking at the house. Then we was going to the places that we was at and drinking there. Then we ended up running out of liquor. Mind y', all, it was like, seven people. So we had, like, 14 bottles.

[Sponsor Voice]

14? Damn.

[Lex P]

Yes. So that means each person pretty much finished two bottles.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. And we were there for, like, five days, I think. And then, like I said, we were drinking at the restaurants, drinking at the clubs. We was getting bottles at the clubs. Then we ended up running out of liquor at the house.

[Lex P]

Ended up.

[Drea Nicole]

We were so damn thirsty. Some liquor. While we got our driver to go to a club and get us another bottle. And because he got it from the club, they charged us, like, $400 for a bottle.

[Lex P]

Bust it down. We got it.

[Drea Nicole]

We got it.

[Lex P]

Bust it down.

[Drea Nicole]

So all together at the end of the. At the end of the trip, no lie, we probably went through, like, 16 bottles.

[Lex P]

We went through a lot of bottles. We were drinking.

[Drea Nicole]

We were drinking. When I got back, I was dehydrated. I had to go get a iv, Bro.

[Lex P]

I feel like my eyes were crossed.

[Drea Nicole]

Me, too. Yeah, it was bad. I would never in my life drink that much again. But we had a. We had a ball, though.

[Lex P]

Yeah, we did have a good time. I feel like.

[Drea Nicole]

Was that you that fell off the. That wasn't you? Who was that that fell off?

[Lex P]

That fell off of Jessie? That was Tiffany. Tiffany and who. I don't know who was on there with her, but I was like, are y' all crazy? Cause they was just doing too much. And I left. I ain't stayed out here. These shark infested while the girl. Bitch, you on your own. I don't fuck around with them jet skis.

[Drea Nicole]

But the thing was, the funny part about it to me was it wasn't shark infested because the water was only like 2ft deep. It was only like 2 or 3ft.

[Lex P]

I don't know why they did that. I can't remember who she was. Yeah, we had a.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, but yes.

[Lex P]

No, he cannot fold me. I don't celebrate holidays as men. Stay away from me. Yes, The Valentine's Day pop up. Man. This is when y' all haven't spoken in months. He Suddenly resurfaces on February 12th. Hit you with the. I was just thinking about you for real.

[Drea Nicole]

Um, I can't foul shit neither.

[Lex P]

I'm not gonna lie.

[Drea Nicole]

He could take me on a date on Valentine's Day.

[Lex P]

You know what? This is how I feel. This is somebody I fucked with in the past. If I'm single and I just wanna have a little fun Valentine's Day day. Yeah, you can fold me up a little bit. You hit before we can rekindle things. One thing about me when I'm single and I'm just, like, on my. Oh, I'm focused and this and that. If somebody hit me up from the past and we can have a little rendezvous for a couple of days and then we leave and never speak to each other again, I'm okay with that. So, yeah, if it's a Valentine's Day fold up.

[Drea Nicole]

But the problem with that for me is they don't be trying to leave.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah. Now you gotta keep clear.

[Drea Nicole]

That's the problem. Like, yes. If you give him some on Valentine's Day, he gonna be trying to stick around again.

[Lex P]

Yeah, you gotta.

[Drea Nicole]

I truly do feel that way.

[Lex P]

Yeah, they definitely do. But I think this is what kind of what I do. Like, after they leave, they be like. They'll hit me and they'll be like, oh, you good? I'm straight.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Keep it real short. Hey, brother, don't.

[Drea Nicole]

We ain't gonna do all this. I was just beating it up.

[Lex P]

Last week. It was, now, I'm going back home to my man. We got back together now. Back. But no, I. I think I'm okay with that. I'm okay with a little let's do something on Valentine's Day. You not dating nobody. I'm not dating nobody. I'm okay with that. Only somebody from my past.

[Drea Nicole]

I agree with Lex.

[Lex P]

Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. If you're single, get a little quick sneak de. Yeah, it ain't sneak, Deek. And I ain't got to sneak.

[Drea Nicole]

It is sneaking.

[Lex P]

Why?

[Drea Nicole]

Because you say you gonna go back to your makeup.

[Lex P]

Well, I was kidding. I was kidding. I don't do that.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, see, I was in agreement with that part. You are a changed woman.

[Lex P]

I am a changed woman. I really am. I hope y' all know that I posted to my close friends. You saw it, Ty, you see that? Yeah, that thing was. I had posted this video. Matter of fact, we was in Miami for Draya's birthday, wilding again.

[Drea Nicole]

We gonna wild out for my birthday. Oh, I can't wait till this.

[Lex P]

Oh, my God, y'. All. I had posted this video. I was in this, like, thong bikini, and I'm just, like, brushing my hair, looking at the camera. Asshole in the camera. I said, oh, my God, I have to archive this. I'm a lady now.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I was shocked. She was the lady then, too.

[Lex P]

It was giving like only fans content low key.

[Drea Nicole]

Not really.

[Lex P]

Yes, it was like if you're a.

[Drea Nicole]

Person, it was that bad. Now if you would have made it.

[Lex P]

Bounce like you know how they bunch their hair. If you would have made it cloud volume. Oh my God.

[Drea Nicole]

That would have gave only I was.

[Lex P]

Horrified cause somebody had scrolled it and they liked it and I was like who is that? Who is this? And I said that's me. I had to archive it.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh my God. You know what? I was looking for a picture. I can't remember what. Oh cuz you know like everybody been posting like they 2016.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

So I was looking for like a picture from 2016 and I passed up those photos of me and you on my balcony that we put on them T shirts when you had on that yellow swimsuit and I had on that blue swimsuit and I was like, yeah.

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[Drea Nicole]

We was wilding. We were, we were.

[Lex P]

What were we doing?

[Drea Nicole]

Oh no. But them, them T shirts sold out.

[Lex P]

I might have to do it again. Rent, new rent do one time, you know, bring it back.

[Sponsor Voice]

Oh my gosh.

[Lex P]

And you know, I didn't post any pictures from 2016, but I really should because that was the year I got my bbl.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, bitches was outside. Yeah, I was like, I'mma post my little, little 2016 pictures because you know, yeah, been fine.

[Lex P]

That was a year.

[Drea Nicole]

It was a great time. Okay, so let's see the hood romantic. He buys flowers from the man on the corner. Calls you my little valentine. Walks on the street, walks on way Walks on the street side of the sidewalk without thinking. Don't call me your little nothing big valentine.

[Lex P]

My little valentine, your little n. But.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, I don't like when people be saying my last. Like when people be like my little sheet. What is my little sheet?

[Lex P]

The fine little fine or whatever they be saying.

[Drea Nicole]

My little sheet.

[Lex P]

My little. Sounds kind of gross.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause I do got a little.

[Lex P]

I be having a little. But that's not what I want.

[Sponsor Voice]

Oh.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, nothing about that is cute. Imagine somebody had your name like that in their phone, and they had, like.

[Lex P]

The little poop emoji.

[Drea Nicole]

My little sheet.

[Lex P]

You know, I only say no because I have never been. No offense to anyone. I've never been really attracted to hood guys, the Winans and things.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, why did you say no offense? Because I'm sitting here.

[Lex P]

No, not to you. To the Y ends and the hood that's watching.

[Drea Nicole]

Cause I used to love me a hood back in my.

[Sponsor Voice]

You did?

[Drea Nicole]

A reformed one.

[Lex P]

But, yeah, that's not really my. My style. So I think it's not even about what they do, because I think if you're attracted to that, that's who they are. And you obviously like them for who they are. I've dated, like, one hood in my life, and it was traumatizing.

[Drea Nicole]

But to be fair, like, this is just a little ghetto, though.

[Lex P]

These.

[Drea Nicole]

These bullet points. Like, when I was dating hood, they.

[Lex P]

Didn'T do like this because you had rich hood. There's a difference.

[Drea Nicole]

They wasn't. That's why I said reform. They wasn't hood no more.

[Lex P]

Oh, my God. When I think about the me and the hood you dated, it'd be like, what, you too?

[Drea Nicole]

Having fun? Having a ball.

[Lex P]

But I always think about Shaq.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, see? And he was so fun. He was such a good time. We used to be in the club getting lit. He used to be turning up. He used to be sending me things.

[Lex P]

What's his name was a Y N, too. Ooh, the guy you were dating when we first moved here.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, yes, he was. But he was thoughtful, and he used.

[Lex P]

To buy me cats and stuff.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, nice skin.

[Lex P]

He was cool. He was cool.

[Drea Nicole]

He used to be buying me little Gucci stuff and stuff. So. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like, I never dated the type of hood dude that would stop and get me flowers hours from, like, off the side of the road or walked on the street side of the sidewalk. I'm used to dealing with the type of dudes who, because they hood, they head be on a swivel. Like, they be trying to protect you.

[Lex P]

They're not gonna let you walk a man on the corner.

[Drea Nicole]

No, just in general.

[Lex P]

Oh, okay.

[Drea Nicole]

Because it says walks on the street side of the sidewalk without thinking. Because, you know, a man is supposed to have you walk on the inside, and he Walk on the outside, but my dad taught me that. So I'm used to dealing with dudes who naturally just do that. And they gonna just make. They're not gonna have you walking behind them and them walking in front of you. Like, I don't know. I'm not used to this.

[Lex P]

I think that's one of the rudest things. When I see, like, a couple or people walking and he's walking ahead and she's behind them. I think that is the strangest shit ever. And that's what be happening when, like, a nigga come up, try to holler at your girl and things like that happen. Cause he don't even know that she's with you because you walking 10ft ahead.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't be thinking it's strange. I just feel like that's another instance of the signs being there that that nigga don't fuck with you like that. He don't. I don't like you run if y'.

[Lex P]

All. That's how you should test your man. Get out the car and, like, kind of walk a little slow pace and see if he, you know, stands by you.

[Drea Nicole]

If he just walk ahead, run from that nigga. Cause if he let you walk behind, he don't give a fuck what happened to you.

[Lex P]

And then it's like, honestly, like, you know me, I be wearing, like, tall heels. So a lot of times, I do be walking slow. And depending where we walking, big mama be needing help. So it's like, yeah, he'll grab my arm and help big mom. You know, I got a bag. So I be walking real slow, child. Oh, yeah. So we. We gonna say no.

[Drea Nicole]

We gonna say no to the hood romantic.

[Lex P]

Okay, and the last one, the thoughtful gift giver gives you something small but insanely personal. Remember stuff you said months ago? Already had reservations made by January 20th?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I'm getting.

[Lex P]

I'm getting folded like Kehlani, bitch.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, like a lawn chair, girl.

[Lex P]

Fold me up. I hate the thought of Valentine's Day coming up and you don't have reservations and everything planned out already. Bare minimum, I'm telling y', all, make yalls reservations ahead of time. Ahead of time. And like I said, being thoughtful to me as a woman who has received a lot of gifts in my day and age of dating. Now when I think about my favorite gifts, I'll start on my Chanel. When I think about my favorite gifts, I think about the sentimental ones, the sweet ones. Like things that people have done for me when I was feeling down or feeling sad. Notes that have been written for me. One thing I do is every time I get flowers, I always keep the card and the messages and I can just look back on it and I just think I is just the sweetest thing ever. I love stuff like that. So absolutely. I think being thoughtful will get you so far. Like, I love that even with my friends, I love, you know, doing thoughtful things or when my friends do thoughtful things and we like, you really love me. You know what I'm saying? Cuz it's easy just to go zel somebody or go buy some shoes or stuff like that is just like, easy to me. And it's not impressive. But yeah, being thoughtful. 10 out of 10.

[Drea Nicole]

I agree. I feel like I would never want to be me married to somebody that's not thoughtful.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Or romantic. I need the romance.

[Lex P]

I need all the romance.

[Drea Nicole]

All the things.

[Lex P]

All the things.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, so now it's time to get into the bed.

[Lex P]

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[Drea Nicole]

Yes. So the sweet release, y'. All, this product is so good. Now I have been taking Slippery Elm for a while now. It's really good for your lady part.

[Lex P]

They make that m real slippery.

[Drea Nicole]

Real slippery. Yeah. It do what it's supposed to do. So I really, really love this product. And like all of Salt xo products, y' all know they're all natural. They have really good ingredients in them. And y' all know this is my fave. Yeah, I love the coochie wife.

[Lex P]

Yes, yes.

[Drea Nicole]

It feel like your coochie just ate a peppermint. And it have you smelling so fresh and so clean. And they also have them in travel sizes. So I bring mine to go no matter where I go, in my little bag on the go when I'm going to see my men.

[Lex P]

Yep, yep, yep. And let me just add about this Slippery Elm. So I add it to my, like, daily supplements or whatever. And like, you know, I take my vitamin D, my chlorophyll pills, my Omega 3s and all that. And I add, I'm telling y', all, I'm not kidding, but it also has, you know, it coats like your stomach.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. It's good for your digestive system.

[Lex P]

It is. It really is. But that's not what I'm taking it for when I tell y' all it works. And I'm not even kidding. Like I said, I've been taking Slippery Elm. But I'm so happy that they came out with it. Because now I'm obviously taking the Salt XO Slippery Elm and the results. And then I do 10 out of 10. 10 out of 10. And y' all know I talk about this rejuvenating oil so much. Now, this is for ingrown hairs, you know, dark spots. But what I do, y' all know I'm in my era of, like, no makeup, light makeup. So obviously, I don't have makeup on today. I just have lashes and lip gloss on Muse beauty. And I like to dab a little bit of this on my face. It's something about when I see a girl and she's glowing and, like, her skin is clear and it has that, like, moisturized look. I'm just like, she is a girl who cares about her skin well put together, and I know she smells good. When I tell y', all, a little bit of this on your skin and you ready to go, and it just looks salty, and it makes your skin, like, bouncy and refresh. I love this. This is my stuff right here. Thank you, Jaleesa. I needed it. I needed it.

[Drea Nicole]

Shout out to Saltxo.

[Lex P]

Love it.

[Drea Nicole]

So now it's time to get into the bed bow. The bed bow.

[Lex P]

The bed bow, bow, bow, bow, bow, bow. She said it's so nice. I had to do it twice.

[Drea Nicole]

I thought that's.

[Lex P]

That's right. Mm. So today we are gonna talk about semen facials. There was a recent episode on My Strange Addiction where a woman used her husband's sperm twice a day as a facial. She gets a fresh batch every morning and stores the rest for another facial at night. She claims that makes her skin clear and it gives it a plumpness. Okay. And mind you, this is not anything new. This is not anything new. This is something that I've heard about, like, long time ago. Never tried it myself, personally. Now, you remember that song Ooh, nah, nah. He said, and why your face is so clean? Just tell them. Ola Volay.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I remember it.

[Lex P]

But anyways, so, yeah, I've actually heard of semen facials before, but the thing that made me curious specifically in this clip was her skin wasn't clear.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I actually saw it after you mentioned it it a couple weeks ago. Yeah, I actually saw it on my algorithm right after that, and I went straight to the comments.

[Lex P]

Skin was up. You rubbing battery acid on your face.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, she got the wrong n. She.

[Lex P]

Got the that eating Mac and cheese. Green ham hocks. You don't rub no ham hawk sperm on your face.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I don't like that. I don't know. And my thing with that is like you putting it on your face and you just letting it dry on there. So then now it's like sticky. It's probably a little crusty, cuz you know, you know when they. Well, I mean, I know how it.

[Lex P]

Look when it dry up.

[Drea Nicole]

When it dry up. So it's like it's all crusty. And then I'm just like, this is why I gotta stop hugging people. This. I already don't hug people like that. But that's why I don't want to be hugging. No, that got nut on her face.

[Lex P]

Dried up and wait, like now you got ham hwk juice on your lip.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I don't like that. Cuz it was another video that I had seen. Scene where this lady. It's called vabbing.

[Lex P]

Yes.

[Drea Nicole]

Like when you take your. When you take your vaginal fluid and you put it like on your body so that people can smell your natural pheromones. She'll be like in the middle of a restaurant. Yeah, she'll be in the middle of a restaurant and like put it on her neck and stuff so people could.

[Lex P]

Like, I know somebody like y' all got like when y' all started selling.

[Drea Nicole]

What'S the catch of the day? But the funny thing is in the video, her neck was like glowing. So. So people in the comments was like, I mean, I ain't going to lie. No, they thought it was they coochie Jew.

[Lex P]

That is disgusting.

[Drea Nicole]

But yeah, like, I just feel like.

[Lex P]

First of all, I don't know cuz obviously I don't care what nobody says. I know the girls like to have the pussy Olympics and be like, it smell like water down there. I. I don't. Vagina does have. It has a scent to it. And I'm not saying that it stinks, but it does have a scent to it. But that's not a scent. I think that people would like wanna go around and smell. It doesn't stink, it just. It smells like vagina.

[Drea Nicole]

It smell like coochie.

[Lex P]

It smells like coochie. And it's not like a smell that I just wanna be going around smelling like. I think y' all are doing too much, babe.

[Sponsor Voice]

Mm.

[Lex P]

If you, you know, just go get you a little lavias belle bitch and call it a day.

[Drea Nicole]

It's just making and me cringe because I guess I'm just thinking about like interacting with people who actually do that. And like you hug your homegirl and you like, girl, what you got on today? Coochie lie.

[Lex P]

Because you know what I think about? I think about, like, times that I've gotten, like. And of course, things that you've gotten done. Like, somebody gotta put their hands by your face. Have you ever smelled a little coochie on somebody hands and you were getting a service done?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, that's happened to me before. I have.

[Lex P]

I was just like, is this la coochie? Yes. She.

[Drea Nicole]

Maybe it was her hand or maybe it was her coochie.

[Lex P]

It was probably a little mixture of both.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? And I just. I don't like that smell. I think it's very strange. It's somebody right now getting their lashes done. It's like. I know what you mean. They watching this episode. You lash texts is looking right now. Yeah. Smell them fingers back.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. I don't know.

[Lex P]

They've been dabbing.

[Drea Nicole]

They. That's just.

[Lex P]

They've been babbing. They've been babbing.

[Drea Nicole]

I don't like it. That's just crazy to me. I feel like it's so many products that you could use on your skin. Why are you using nut for your skin? And I just feel like it's. I don't know. Like, I know that they say it's really good for your skin, but where's the proof?

[Lex P]

That's what I'm saying, though. Where's the proof? There must be something that's in semen where people thought, like, not saying that it's collagen in there, but there's something in semen where people like, oh, if this is in.

[Drea Nicole]

Because.

[Lex P]

Because, you know, people use the pdrn, the salmon sperm.

[Drea Nicole]

Cool.

[Lex P]

But salmon, they just eating algae and shit of the sea.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Not this. I don't want human sperm.

[Drea Nicole]

They ain't eating pork rinds.

[Lex P]

Yeah, they eating pork rinds. And, you know, I've said this before as a swallower myself. You can taste that difference in that nut.

[Drea Nicole]

You can.

[Lex P]

If it don't taste good, why would I want it on my face?

[Drea Nicole]

Well, I feel like if it don't taste good, why is you with that nigga?

[Lex P]

I mean, sometimes you don't. Until y' all get.

[Drea Nicole]

You don't know.

[Lex P]

I'm saying, like, you could be dating a guy for like, two months, and then y' all finally get to it, and then you taste it and you're like, oh, my God.

[Drea Nicole]

But I'm saying afterwards, you would still date him or.

[Lex P]

No, no, definitely not. But I'm saying, sometimes, you know, you just surprised battery acid. You know, you just never Know, start coughing. Yeah. So I am not for the semen facials. I'm not for vabbing. I think it's disgusting. I. I think there's too many skincare products that are actually good for your skin. And they do make vegan options, if that's what you care about. You want something natural. It's a lot of vegan, plant based type products that you can use.

[Drea Nicole]

I think stuff like that, though, is more of a fetish type thing.

[Lex P]

It has to be.

[Drea Nicole]

It has to be. Cause there's no way that you really believe it's good for your skin. And your skin was walk like that.

[Lex P]

I mean, she looked like a 16 year old that just hit puberty. God damn it.

[Drea Nicole]

Maybe. And that might be what's triggering it. Something that might be what's triggering the breakup. It has to be Draya.

[Lex P]

That bitch had to. Not only did she have bitch, it was like cystic acne.

[Sponsor Voice]

I know.

[Lex P]

It was deep in them motherfucking pores. Bitch. Her husband probably just.

[Drea Nicole]

And then it's like, how do you. So I guess, like, would your man put it in a bowl and then put it in the freezer?

[Lex P]

You know what?

[Drea Nicole]

Now if I went in a fucking freezer and that shit was right next to my motherfucking.

[Lex P]

I saw this.

[Drea Nicole]

Damn it. Or my crab cakes.

[Lex P]

Oh, my gosh. And then, you know, I saw this a long time ago, like I said. But I have seen women actually freeze sperm. And they'll rub it on their face. They'll rub it on their face with an ice cube. It's just never given that.

[Drea Nicole]

Serious.

[Lex P]

I think I have a very good skincare routine. I'll stick to my chemical and things like that. Cause y' all doing too much. But honestly, we're in a day and age where people like attention. So I'm like, are y' all doing this for real or is it for. Cause it's just getting too much for your girl. That is not a Valentine's Day facial that I want.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I just wouldn't want that on Valentine's Day.

[Sponsor Voice]

On no day.

[Lex P]

On no day. Send me to the none of the 365 regular spa, please. Okay, Let us know. And I would. Honestly, I'm gonna read the comments on this episode. Cause have any of y' all ever tried a semen facial? I know somebody out there was like, ooh, let me try it. The girls love a DIY bit.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm not letting that dry on my face. Yeah.

[Lex P]

Cuz it gets.

[Drea Nicole]

It gets sticky. Oh.

[Lex P]

All right, Dre, what we Got next.

[Drea Nicole]

Child it's time to get into the bow. The bow, bow, the bow, bow, bow.

[Lex P]

Bow, bow, bow, bow. Hold on.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, sis, what you been listening to?

[Lex P]

Okay, so y' all my bop of the week. Y' all know I always got something different. And the other week, I think. I don't know if I made this my bop of the week, but I said, big guess. The plug has a song with this lady named Ella Langley. And it's a fire song. I think he sounds so good on country records. But I went down a little rabbit hole with this lady. Her name is Ella Langley, and she has some bops. She's like. I love when a country music artist, like, the music is very country, but they kind of got not soul to their voice, but they got a little, you know, a little something. Something in there. Like, you can tell, like way, way, way down in the line. Somebody had a little flavor in there.

[Drea Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? So she has this song called Choosing Texas.

[Drea Nicole]

And it's just a bop, like Choosing Texas.

[Lex P]

Choosing Texas. Yes. And I just. I love, you know, that orange Texas in me pops out sometimes. That country music gets to me. But you gotta be careful with the country music you listen to. Cause a lot of the motherfuckers nab like Carrie Underwood. The road that she has gone down has shocked me. You know what I'm saying? Called my name until his leather seats. This is what you decide to do to us. That's one of my favorite karaoke songs.

[Drea Nicole]

You know, I be wanting to be shocked, but I don't be shocked by nothing they do.

[Lex P]

Yeah, you right. You said it right there. We can't be shocked by that.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, we can't. We can't be shocked by that.

[Lex P]

Yeah, but Ella Langley, Choosing Texas. That's my bop of the week. Shout out to you, girl. What you got this week, Drea?

[Drea Nicole]

Okay, so I like this song. I've been kind of like, in my Afro Beats bag, so. I really like this song. Rain Dance by Dave and Tim.

[Lex P]

Yes. That is such a good song. It is.

[Drea Nicole]

It's such a good song. I love it. I can't wait to go on vacation. I feel like it's giving vacay vibes, but I just really also just love Tim's voice. Like, her voice is so good and.

[Lex P]

She is so beautiful. She is that body is T face card witness wicked voice move.

[Drea Nicole]

Not wicked.

[Lex P]

Wicked. Wicked, isn't it? Isn't that where David's from, London? Wicked.

[Drea Nicole]

Wicked.

[Lex P]

It's wicked, bitch. I'm gonna Add that to my vocab.

[Drea Nicole]

I think that's a good word to add.

[Lex P]

Y' all really says we're make fetch happen.

[Drea Nicole]

Nobody really says that.

[Sponsor Voice]

I know.

[Lex P]

Look at that.

[Drea Nicole]

Future made that one song and then he never said it again. Future.

[Lex P]

Oh, wiggy, wiggy, wiggy. That was a mood. Damn. Future. Where Future at?

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know, but he need to drop something.

[Lex P]

He need to drop something for the streets.

[Drea Nicole]

He do.

[Lex P]

At least for the again. The girls have been killing it.

[Drea Nicole]

They been feeding us.

[Lex P]

They been feeding us. The boys are kind of lacking right now. I've been saying that for a long time.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, 21 Savage came out with a new album.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it wasn't bad.

[Drea Nicole]

I like it.

[Lex P]

I was jamming it, but I'm not gonna lie to you, I'm still jamming. Am I the drama?

[Drea Nicole]

I do like?

[Lex P]

Am I the drama After a few listens you like. Hey, this is a fire.

[Drea Nicole]

It is.

[Lex P]

It has the rep. It has replay value.

[Drea Nicole]

And they was trying to play I grew up.

[Lex P]

They was.

[Drea Nicole]

I'm sorry, but am I the drama?

[Lex P]

Is that magnet? When I be working out like a magnet, baby.

[Sponsor Voice]

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[Lex P]

Cuz I'm wretched baby I said come on that's what.

[Drea Nicole]

You be doing in the gym.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

I love the whole album. I like Better than you. That's my song. Better than you Because I will say being a person who now goes to the gym at 7am you I do. I definitely be thinking I'm better than you are. I be like you peasants are still in the bed yeah anybody at 6am if you wake up Kendra said conditioning.

[Lex P]

My wing I deserve it all.

[Drea Nicole]

That used to be our fucking song.

[Lex P]

Shout out to Kendrick.

[Drea Nicole]

That was a good album.

[Lex P]

You got to let shit ride and really do.

[Drea Nicole]

Cedric ate with that album on start.

[Lex P]

He did.

[Drea Nicole]

That was such A good song. Man in the garden I used to be outside.

[Lex P]

Cause I know you so y'. All. Drea is so serious when she works out.

[Drea Nicole]

Very serious.

[Lex P]

Calm down.

[Drea Nicole]

Did try to come to play.

[Lex P]

Billy Blanks, please.

[Drea Nicole]

I did not come to play. It is time to get it in.

[Lex P]

And get these results. Girl, you are in 2026.

[Drea Nicole]

We are showing up for ourselves.

[Lex P]

I'm sorry. You will never catch me in the gym with Drea.

[Drea Nicole]

I'll be in the gym at 6. Well, I be. I be up at 6, but I be going to the gym at 7. And it does, you know, make me feel a little elitist, I must say.

[Lex P]

Anybody that wakes up in the morning, I'm not gonna lie. The five, six, seven, eight gym girlies, y' all are better than the. I'm not gonna lie.

[Drea Nicole]

We are. Thank you.

[Lex P]

People that. People that wake up early and just do anything. I feel like, because I'm not a morning person, I'm about to get up and grind team. No sleep, no I'm on my couch.

[Drea Nicole]

I actually, you know, I'm naturally like a. But I'm naturally a person who wakes up early. So I think that's why it's not as much of a struggle for me. Cuz I already be up early. I just used to be a person who would just chill in the bed for a few hours and then I would get my day started. Now I get up and I get the day started.

[Lex P]

Well, you know, now that I'm Chinese, I do get up and I put on my slippers and I make my warm. My warm water. So I do feel better than people because I got. I like to sit at my brand new dining table and I like to look at my beautiful view. And I'm drinking and I'm getting the exercise. I'm scrolling. Yeah, I'm scrolling. You know what I'm saying?

[Drea Nicole]

So you don't get arthritis.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I'm working them fingers, bitch. And I'll be scrolling. So that's my morning routine. I feel like anybody who has a morning routine. You doing a little something? Yeah, you are. Like I said, I'm taking baby steps. I am in the gym, I'm moving and I'm grooving, I'm grooving.

[Drea Nicole]

It's fading. I seen you the other day. I said so. That's right.

[Lex P]

It's so crazy because, you know, body is tea. But I know it's about to get even better. And I'm just trying to get ready for tour because my main thing is, honestly, it's really not for aesthetics for me, because I'm already fine. But I will say I don't wanna be on stage and be out of breath. Cause, baby, when we be on tour, we be working that stage. And I caught myself a lot of times being out of breath.

[Drea Nicole]

You know what? I've come to the conclusion. For me, it is about aesthetics. I'm very vain.

[Lex P]

Yeah. And that's okay.

[Drea Nicole]

He wanted to be fine. And I feel like even with my body now, I have no noticed such a difference in my. Like, I feel like I was fine before I started working out, but now I'm like, really fine. And it shows in my legs and stuff when I wear shorts. Like, I don't really have as much cellulite as I used to. My legs are, like, so much more toned. My back is more toned. My abs be popping out. Like, very much about aesthetics over here.

[Lex P]

But what was we talking about?

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know.

[Lex P]

Breath.

[Drea Nicole]

We was talking about Better than you, the song by Cardi B. And I was saying, like, I'm not gonna lie. I love that song just because it gives that.

[Lex P]

But, yeah. After further review, I am the drama. It's a hit.

[Drea Nicole]

Sorry.

[Lex P]

I know time has passed. You gotta let stuff ride and marinate. Airtime. I actually like the remix with Latto. I do. The remix is fire.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, she just got some hits on there.

[Lex P]

I like the song with Lizzo, too.

[Drea Nicole]

It's just like.

[Lex P]

It's got a lot of bangers on there. I'm not gonna lie. So, you know, shout out to Cardi B. I'm with it. All right.

[Drea Nicole]

So now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the show, which is pour your heart out. You know, if you have any questions, send them to ask Poor minds gmail dot com. That's a S K P O U R M I n d s gmail.com, period.

[Lex P]

You want to go?

[Drea Nicole]

I'll go. Hey, Dre and Lex, I need advice. I'm 28 years old, and Valentine's Day is coming up, and I'm realizing I don't actually know where I stand with the person I'm dating. We spend a lot of time together, we act like a couple, but there's been no real conversation about labels or expectations. Part of me feels silly bringing it up just because it's Valentine's Day. But another part of me feels like holidays make the truth unavoidable. Am I wrong for wanting clarity before Valentine's Day, or should I just let the day pass and see what happens?

[Lex P]

I think Like, I think you should let the day pass and see what happens, and that'll give you the answer that you need. I don't think, like, asking somebody. Cause obviously, if you're asking, that puts kind of, like, pressure on him. And I wanna see how you move, and I wanna see what you decide to do, and that'll give you all the answers that you need. So I think that if you want the clarity, what he does on Valentine's Day is gonna give you the clarity that you need. Cause I don't care. I feel like even if you just fucking on somebody and y' all aren't in a committed relationship, it's nothing to send somebody some flowers. I don't care. You can doordash flowers, literally. So I feel like even if you're just casually having sex with somebody, it's nice just to treat people like a human.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I'm not saying that we're together or nothing, but it's just. It's free to be nice, so. Well, not free, but you know what I'm saying. Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, I feel you.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I think that. And then it's like, y' all are 28. I'm sure he's either the same age or around your age range. Like, people know what they be doing. People definitely know what they be doing.

[Drea Nicole]

So you feel like she should wait until the day. Don't say nothing.

[Lex P]

I don't think she needs to say nothing at all. I'm very much like. I'm not a hint dropped. Like, I want to see what you do and how you move. And I'm not. I'm not dropping no hints. But you better. You better know how to show up for me, especially on Valentine's Day, my birthday. Like. Well, I'll say this on my birthday and, like, Christmas, I always ask for what I want because, I don't know. I'm just in the era of give me exactly what I want if you're going to get me a gift.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

But Valentine's Day, I feel like, give them free range to do what they want and, yeah, do your thing. So if you don't do nothing, you know, where you going?

[Drea Nicole]

I don't know. I would probably say something just so I can make sure I don't need.

[Lex P]

To plan another date back up.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Like, I would just say something, especially if you don't know if y' all are that serious or anything. I would just be like, you know, Valentine's Day is coming up. Should I block my schedule off?

[Lex P]

Because. But I also feel like if he wants you to. He should say something, right?

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. But maybe he's not. But then also, too. Some people are last minute, but maybe that'll put a little fire up under him, too, to, like, make it happen. Make some shake right now.

[Lex P]

Yeah, maybe.

[Drea Nicole]

Or I'm going on another day.

[Sponsor Voice]

Yeah.

[Drea Nicole]

With somebody.

[Lex P]

I agree. I feel like.

[Drea Nicole]

Like, you could say something. I wouldn't be pushy about it, but maybe just mention it to see if he. If his mind is even there. Because then, too, I also feel like that'll let you know. Ain't nothing wrong with knowing a little early and cutting your losses early.

[Lex P]

Exactly. I 100% agree. But I like the idea of having a backup. Chad.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah. Have a little backup plan. Let me get one of these cupcakes.

[Lex P]

Oh, we not done yet.

[Drea Nicole]

That's all right.

[Lex P]

What is that? That's all right. And y' all know we have the shot line if y' all need to get something off your chest, you know, just want to holla at us about something real quick. Send us a quick voicemail, and we probably gonna play it on the show. Play that for me, Morgan.

[Drea Nicole]

Thoughts and opinions. Thoughts and opinions on you messing with the man. The man meets your friend. He then later down the road asks you for a threesome with the friend that he met through you.

[Lex P]

You let him know, hey, I'm not.

[Drea Nicole]

Having a threesome with her, but if you want to explore that personally, go ahead. He then follows up and asks you how the friend would feel about fucking with him.

[Lex P]

Cut him. What would you do? Cut him off. When he met the friend, he only included you to be nice, bitch. He wanted to fuck that hoe without you being there. He was just trying to extend the invitation.

[Drea Nicole]

That was one of them situations where he was like, damn, I met the wrong friend.

[Lex P]

Yeah. And there's no shade to you.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, there's not no shade.

[Lex P]

There's not no shade to you. But sometimes. And people are just more attracted to something else. But I would definitely cut. I have never, like, met a man and introduced him to my friends. He was like, oh, I want her. And then he start. I've never had a man ask me for a threesome with my friends. I think that's just. That's disrespectful as hell. Like, I don't know. You definitely need to cut him off. He's attracted to the friend because for you to say you're uncomfortable with it and him to be like, okay, well, can I fuck her?

[Drea Nicole]

That's wild. Crazy. This today just been the Theme of these niggas not giving a fuck. I'm telling you, I don't know what's going on.

[Lex P]

I can't appreciate his honesty, you know what I'm saying? But. But you don't need to talk to him no more.

[Drea Nicole]

I agree, girl, let that go.

[Lex P]

And hopefully you have a good enough friend that you can trust her. Cuz a lot of times the girls be.

[Drea Nicole]

She'll go, that nigga.

[Lex P]

Yeah. The girls be wiling. I told y', all, I be on these T pages. It be going down, girl. The girls be getting it. It's for sure. I'm so nervous.

[Drea Nicole]

The nosiest person I know, she is so nosy.

[Lex P]

I just feel like my life, thank God, has no drama, so I gots to get in other people's tea. You know what I'm saying?

[Drea Nicole]

Him.

[Lex P]

So, yeah, cut them off, cut your ties. Let's move on.

[Sponsor Voice]

Period.

[Lex P]

All right, girl.

[Drea Nicole]

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[Lex P]

That's all right.

[Drea Nicole]

But I have the best mascara out y'.

[Lex P]

All.

[Drea Nicole]

See my lashes? These are my real ashes, too. And I ain't using no growth serum or nothing. This is just. Just muse beauty mascara.

[Lex P]

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[Drea Nicole]

I wish I had a whistle.

[Lex P]

Yes, y'.

[Drea Nicole]

All.

[Lex P]

And like I said, you know, we hit the year mark. It has been a year of fun and laugh. So if y' all are not subscribed to, like, Love Lex P, y' all are missing out on the party. It be so much fun. New episodes every Monday, 10am Y' all make sure y' all go follow me on Facebook. Lex P. I'm on Snapchat as well. Lex P.05. I do all my daily, like, house updates on my Snapchat, so make sure y' all follow me on there. And yeah, you know what I'm saying? And the poor M girlies, you know, we got special things coming for y', all, per usual, as always. And y' all know we got that merch coming for that ass and y' all going to love it. It's so cute.

[Drea Nicole]

Yeah, we got some fire stuff coming out especially for the tour. We probably going to be doing, like, a little discount or something. For the girls. If you get your merch before the tour.

[Lex P]

Yeah. At least we definitely going to do something special for the Patreon. Like y' all first access all that good stuff.

[Drea Nicole]

And shout out to that cupcake.

[Lex P]

It's good.

[Drea Nicole]

It was. It was real good. And I ain't had sweets in a long.

[Lex P]

And it tastes so good when you ain't had it for a while.

[Drea Nicole]

Yes. I haven't had sweets in a really, really long time. I. I can't do nothing. I feel like my life is so boring right now. It's okay. I'm not eating.

[Sponsor Voice]

No.

[Drea Nicole]

Well, I don't know. They probably did have a little dairy in it.

[Lex P]

It's all right.

[Drea Nicole]

They probably had butter.

[Lex P]

That's all right.

[Drea Nicole]

It's all right, though.

[Lex P]

It's in moderation. Well, thank y' all so much for tuning in. I hope y' all have a wonderful Valentine's Day weekend and wrap it up. We'll see y' all next week.

[Drea Nicole]

Bye, y'. All. Cuz we don't need no more Scorpios. I'm playing. I love Scorpios.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Happy Valentine's Day, baby. It's for you and only you.

[Drea Nicole]

Oh, yeah.

[Lex P]

Bright lights, fancy restaurants Everything in this world that a maker want I got a bank account bigger than a law.

[Drea Nicole]

Should have been Still I'm lonely now.

[Lex P]

Pretty faces in the COVID of the magazine from their covers to my covers wanna lay with me Fame and fortune.

[Drea Nicole]

Still can't find Just a grown man.

[Lex P]

Running out of time Even though it seems I heard of everything I don't wanna be a lone left fool all of the women all the expensive cars all of the money don't amount to you so I can make believe I have everything But I can't pretend that I don't see that without you, girl my life is incomplete without you, girl My life.

[Drea Nicole]

Listen. Sexually Lingerie girl I remember just like.

[Lex P]

It was on yesterday a Thursday you told me you had fallen in love.

[Drea Nicole]

I wasn't sure that I was it's.

[Lex P]

Been a year with the summer, spring.

[Drea Nicole]

And fall but being without you just ain't living ain't living at all if I could travel back in time I relive the days you were mine Even.

[Lex P]

Though it seems I have everything I don't wanna be alone let through all of the women all of the fancy cars all of the money don't amount to you and I can make believe I have every I won't see that I won't see Sing Andrea. That without you, girl my life is incomplete.

[Drea Nicole]

That without you girl, my life is incomplete.

[Lex P]

Happy valentine's day. H.

[Drea Nicole]

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[Lex P]

Yes, it's me again.

[Drea Nicole]

We prepped.

[Sponsor Voice]

Why?

[Drea Nicole]

Oh.

[Lex P]

It'S the time for empowerment and.

[Drea Nicole]

I've got a message for you. You got to think about sexual health no matter what, where, when or with who. Yeah, yeah. Pray to all you lovers out there.

[Lex P]

There ain't no judgment.

[Drea Nicole]

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