Period Pooh Ft. YFN Lucci

Summary

Poor Minds Podcast: "Period Pooh" Ft. YFN Lucci

Host: The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts
Episode Date: November 21, 2025

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Episode Overview

In this lively and unfiltered episode of Poor Minds, hosts Lex P and Drea are joined by Atlanta rap legend YFN Lucci for a conversation that’s equal parts wild, insightful, and hilarious. Together, they discuss Lucci’s return to music and Atlanta after his time incarcerated, double standards in relationships, navigating fame, dating fans, sex, and how social media has changed over the years—all with their signature blend of honesty and humor. The trio also takes on listener questions, offering raw, real advice on life, love, and everything in between.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Welcoming YFN Lucci & Atlanta vs. Houston Culture

• Lex P and Drea introduce YFN Lucci, acknowledging his massive influence on Atlanta’s sound and sharing their Texas roots before moving to the ATL.
• Discussion about similarities and differences between Houston and Atlanta, especially regarding nightlife, opportunities in entertainment, and getting money.
  • “Houston is eating down nightlife. Atlanta not fucking with you.” — Drea (07:53)
  • “Anything, like, media? I just feel like anything outside of... Atlanta. Got Houston by a mile.” — Drea (08:05)
• YFN Lucci acknowledges loving Houston but emphasizes Atlanta’s opportunities in entertainment.

2. YFN Lucci’s Return & Growth

• Coming Home: Lucci shares how good it feels to be welcomed back and finally receive his flowers.
  • “That shit feel good. You know, people finally getting me, giving me my flowers, showing me the love I deserve.” — YFN Lucci (09:46)
• Concert Moment: Unexpected sellout of his return concert, fans rapping 25 songs word for word. Big moment of validation.
• Musical Growth & Authenticity:
  • Lucci’s new album, “Already Legend,” stays true to his sound but reflects growth from fatherhood and life experiences, including time in jail and near-death moments.
    • “It’s me, my music, you know, my lane. I stay in my lane. What I do. ... But the shit I talk about gonna be different. Cause I’m growing, I’m getting older… I done went to jail, came home, almost lost my life. A lot of shit different.” — YFN Lucci (11:17)

3. Love, Loyalty, and Double Standards

• On Love & Marriage:
  • Lucci admits being in love and open to marriage.
  • “When I was in jail… That’s when I knew.” — YFN Lucci (11:55)
  • Drea challenges him on “jail talk” versus real intentions.
• Double Standards in Relationships:
  • The group discusses cheating, loyalty, “outside babies,” and the differences in how men and women react (and are judged) for infidelity.
  • Lucci is candid about his own past and expectations:
    • “I’m just different. You can’t do what I do.” (39:35)
    • “Women can handle certain shit. Me, I can’t handle that shit.” (39:40)
  • Discussion acknowledges double standards:
    • “I do believe in double, double standards when it comes to certain things. I really do. I feel like sometimes women cannot move the same way that men move.” — Lex P (40:17)

4. Social Media, Fame & Relationships

• The Changing Tide of Social Media:
  • Social media’s shift from curated, aesthetic-driven posts to authenticity.
  • “Now, I feel like they really don’t care. Not like, they don’t care to be on social. They don’t care about being themselves on [there].” — YFN Lucci (29:13)
• Social Media Temptations:
  • Liking pics, DMs, and online infidelity—Lucci keeps his digital loyalty tight because he’s in a relationship.
  • “I know I ain’t liking nobody pictures.” — YFN Lucci (30:32)
  • Drea & Lex P highlight the importance of clarity in relationships.

5. Dating Fans, Celebrity Encounters & “Being Delusional”

• Would Lucci Date a Fan?
  • “I wouldn’t date... I can't say that. Yeah, I would date them, if we can vibe and I fuck with you. Yeah, I date you if you ain't weird.” — YFN Lucci (34:30)
  • Lex & Drea discuss how some fans (“delusional” ones) mistake proximity for a relationship.
• Women vs. Men Fans:
  • The trio agree that women fans are less “crazy” than men fans.
• Honesty in Relationships:
  • Lex: “I like a man that say he in a relationship and he stand on it.” (31:24)

6. Sex, Desire, and Boundaries

• Disparities in Sex Drive:
  • “You gotta wanna have sex when I wanna have sex.” — YFN Lucci (67:50)
  • If his advances are turned down, Lucci jokes about jacking off nearby to entice his partner (71:10).
• Sex on Periods & Taboos:
  • They debate period sex:
    • “I’m a vampire. I ain’t gonna lie to you.” — YFN Lucci (72:05)
    • Lex and Drea: generally not fans, joke about voodoo and old wives’ tales.
  • Discussion of butt sex during periods—even more taboo!
• Scheduled Sex or Spontaneity?:
  • Scheduling can make anticipation sexy sometimes:
    • “I might get your juice…You be late for everything else. I’m finna try to be on time for this shit.” — YFN Lucci (79:31)
  • But group prefers the spontaneity or integrating it with date night.

7. Listener Letters: Advice Segment

1. No Sex for 6 Months in Relationship:
   • “Hey, my man, she getting that smack. ... Ain’t no girl staying with no man with good dick and not fucking for six months.” — YFN Lucci (88:49)
   • Hosts agree—something’s up, and the man should probably leave rather than cheat.
2. Life After Infertility & Not Meeting Milestones:
   • Drea and Lex encourage keeping faith in bigger purpose, remind that life is long, and alternative paths like adoption or surrogacy exist.
   • “Sometimes you just gotta keep going and see what’s on the other side. Like God trying to show you something.” — Dre (92:01)
   • “Maybe that’s just not the route that you’re supposed to have kids. ... It might be a bigger calling.” — Lex P (93:10)

8. Notable Miscellaneous Moments

• Mocktail of the Week:
  • The “Already Legend” mocktail, inspired by Lucci’s album, with apple cider, pomegranate, honey mango syrup, ginger beer, and cinnamon (46:14).
• Jail Stories & Music:
  • Lucci recalls working out, rapping in jail, and listening to talented inmates (47:20).
  • “Some young niggas hard.” — YFN Lucci (48:31)
• Manhood, Fashion, & Preferences:
  • Playful debates on “jorts,” “hoochie daddy shorts,” and how men should dress for their shape (62:16).
• Product Feature:
  • Shout out to SaltXO feminine wash—segment is both playful and explicit (65:41).

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Notable Quotes & Moments (with Timestamps)

• On Double Standards in Cheating:
  • “You can't do what I do.” — YFN Lucci (39:35)
  • “I might cry.” — YFN Lucci on getting cheated on (40:10)
• On Social Media:
  • “They were trying to impress folks. Yeah, but being yourself impresses more.” (29:36)
• On Period Sex:
  • “I’m a vampire. I ain’t gonna lie to you.” — YFN Lucci (72:05)
  • “If you love them, this our copper. We done found some copper. We going sell that.” — YFN Lucci (72:16)
• On Dating Fans:
  • “If we can vibe and I fuck with you...if you ain't weird…” — YFN Lucci (34:30)
• On Life Not Going as Planned:
  • “What you think you want for yourself. My mom used to always tell me that, you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans.” — Dre (92:34)
• On Being in Love:
  • “I’m already...gonna put my kids up on game, you feel me? But long as they feel like they man love them, it gonna be bumps and bruises...but that’s life.” — YFN Lucci (60:29)

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Key Segment Timestamps

• YFN Lucci on Cheating, Outside Babies, & Double Standards: 03:44, 38:22, 39:35, 40:10
• Navigating Atlanta vs. Houston for Careers: 06:43, 08:05
• Lucci’s Return & New Album: 09:46, 11:03, 13:36
• Social Media Changes, Relationship Boundaries: 29:13, 30:32, 31:24
• Dating & Fan Interactions: 34:30, 35:33, 37:14
• Jail Stories, Working Out: 47:20–48:31
• Sex, Period Sex, Drive Disparities: 67:50–73:13
• Listener Letters & Advice: 87:53–94:44

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Flow & Takeaways

This episode is rich with the honest, sometimes messy, always relatable discussions Poor Minds fans love. YFN Lucci brings an extra layer of street wisdom and personal growth, reflecting openly on relationships, fame, and his time away. Topics flow seamlessly from music and Atlanta culture into relationships, sexual mores, and life advice, blending humor and realness throughout. Listeners get not just laughs and wild stories—but also genuine insight into growth, love, and keeping it all the way real, "period".

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For Listeners Who Missed It

This episode offers:

• Candid talk on double standards in relationships and loyalty
• Insights into the evolving ATL and Houston scenes
• Hilarious sex and dating anecdotes
• Advice on navigating life setbacks and relationship ruts
• Intimate, funny, and unfiltered moments between artists and hosts
• A new mocktail recipe, music recs, and wellness product shoutouts
• Real advice, delivered Poor Minds style

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Episode Standout

Most Memorable Quote:
“Ain’t no girl staying with no man with good dick and not fucking for six months.”
— YFN Lucci (88:49)

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Follow the hosts (@poorminds), YFN Lucci, and check out “Already Legend” on all platforms!

Next episode: Tune in for more laughs, raw convos, and guest appearances.

Transcript

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[Dre]

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[Dre]

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[YFN Lucci]

I want to play like that in.

[Lex P]

A relationship with a girl, and you get somebody else pregnant while you in.

[YFN Lucci]

The relationship and have the baby. Yeah, I ain't doing that. Like, I probably done got somebody pregnant before while I was in a relationship.

[Lex P]

But they ain't heavy.

[YFN Lucci]

Hell no.

[Lex P]

Not that baby in the upper room.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't know where the baby at.

[Dre]

Baby, they up there with mine. Amen. That's right. Having a party. Uh huh. Uh huh. But let me ask you this, though. Okay? So if, like you said, you've probably been in a relationship and you got somebody pregnant on the asset, what if the shoe was on the other foot? Like, if you were with a girl and she got pregnant, would you stay with her? She was like, no, I'm gonna abort you.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, no, I won't stay.

[Dre]

Why not?

[YFN Lucci]

I'm just different. You can't do what I do.

[Lex P]

But you know what? Let's speak.

[YFN Lucci]

No, I'm saying I can't take that. You might could take more. Like you can handle. Women can handle certain shit. Me, I can't handle that shit. You can't cheat on me. You can't have no baby on me. Well, I ain't gonna lie. One girl cheated on me, and I still fud her with her, but I ain't really. I probably ain't love her the same.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

You know what I'm saying? The feelings went down.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

But I still, like, now I love you, but they ain't like, I love you like this now. I love you like this.

[Lex P]

Right, Right.

[YFN Lucci]

You feel me?

[Dre]

I don't know.

[YFN Lucci]

I can't handle that shit. You can't cheat on me. I might cry.

[Dre]

What's up, y'? All?

[Lex P]

It's your girl Lex P. And it's your girl Dre.

[Dre]

And Nicole, you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds.

[Lex P]

And we got a guest today.

[Dre]

Oh, we got a guest today. Hey, period.

[Lex P]

So we have a video very special guest in the building. Y' all have been asking in the comments, and this is a Atlanta legend, period. You have shaped a whole Sound. A whole era in the city, and we got wife and Luchi in the building today.

[Dre]

Y. Can I tell you, you know how the. The kids, like, they be saying, like, they stem a sound, they be stemming.

[Lex P]

I run around house.

[Dre]

All day long.

[Lex P]

No, but for real, you know, it takes time. Texas girls, like, we both from Texas. I'm from. I'm from Houston, and she's from Orange, Texas.

[Dre]

You know where I at?

[Lex P]

It's like two hours away from Houston. Hell, yeah, I'm country, but we both from Texas. I moved here in 2016, and, like, when I moved here, your music. You was one of the first Atlanta rappers that I just heard on the radio all the time when I moved here. Keys of the Streets was going crazy in 2016. When I moved to Atlanta around that time, it was.

[Ad Read Voice 1]

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[Lex P]

So. Yeah. I've been listening to you for a minute, man.

[Dre]

Thank you. Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

I still don't like it.

[Lex P]

I like it. But what I will say is being that, like I just said, I moved here in 2016. Now it's 2020. What, 2025. It's been almost 10 years. It's a lot different than it was back then. I feel like back then, it was a lot more like carefree, fun.

[YFN Lucci]

But you was probably younger.

[Dre]

I was.

[Lex P]

I was way younger.

[YFN Lucci]

That's why that probably why.

[Dre]

Have you been to Houston? Like, turned up?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, I love Houston.

[Dre]

Exactly. Houston, my second home, I'm telling you.

[Lex P]

Oh, you like Houston?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, Yeah, I love Houston.

[Dre]

Yeah, we always have a good time. So that's why I say, like, I do love Atlanta. Don't get it, too. Atlanta changed my life. But I.

[YFN Lucci]

They kind of the same.

[Lex P]

That's what I was gonna ask you. Do you see the similarities? Cause a lot of people been saying it lately with, like, Houston has grown a lot. It's coming up a lot. And a lot of people been comparing it to Atlanta. Do you see it?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, I think they. Yeah, they kind of the same.

[Lex P]

What you think?

[YFN Lucci]

Leaks, different styles, but kind of the.

[Dre]

Same, like, because there's things that are great about it.

[YFN Lucci]

Talking about, like, nightlife, like, the people, the city.

[Dre]

Nightlife.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Houston is eating down nightlife. Yeah.

[Lex P]

Atlanta not fucking with you. I'm sorry, hold on.

[YFN Lucci]

We ain't gonna do that now. Probably now. Probably right now.

[Dre]

Yeah, we talking about now.

[Lex P]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

No, so we ain't gonna do that.

[Dre]

But I will say, like. But getting money, like, and getting to whatever it is that you do, though. Doctor, lawyer, music, media, you in Atlanta. You got Atlanta. Got Houston by A mile. Anything, like, media? Anything, though. I just feel like anything outside of.

[YFN Lucci]

Like, you say it hard to get money in Houston.

[Dre]

Huh?

[YFN Lucci]

You saying it hard to get money in Houston.

[Lex P]

To me, it's not. I think it's harder to make it in this lane in Houston. Like, if you trying to do, like, the entertainment industry, if you're trying to be a rapper, you're trying to be in media, you trying to have a podcast, Are you trying to be on the radio? Like, I think it's harder to make it. Even acting and stuff. It's harder to make it in those fields out in Houston because it's just not as much opportunity.

[Dre]

I get it.

[YFN Lucci]

I get it.

[Dre]

What rappers you like from Houston?

[YFN Lucci]

Rappers. Sauce.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah. Hey, I'm too legit to quit it.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Okay. Yeah, you got in your bag with that one. We love. Shout out to Sauce Walker.

[Lex P]

Yeah, baby.

[Dre]

So how does it feel? Like, you know, being home now and like, you have been everywhere. Because a lot of times, like, when people get out, it's like people ain't fucking with them, and it's like they come home and it's just dead because that time has passed. But it's like people have been anticipating this and waiting, and you've been getting so much love. I'm not gonna lie, Auntie, don't be tuned into what's really going on.

[YFN Lucci]

Why not?

[Dre]

But I'm just, you know, I'm more of a RB girly. I like to be at home.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm a R and B mute.

[Dre]

Sing something.

[YFN Lucci]

There you go.

[Lex P]

That's very melodic.

[YFN Lucci]

There you go.

[Dre]

But no, but, like, how does it feel to come home? And, like, literally every time I feel like I get on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook.

[Lex P]

Like, you are everywhere.

[Dre]

So how does that feel to come home?

[YFN Lucci]

And I gonna lie? That shit amazing. That shit feel good. You know, people finally getting me, giving me my flowers, showing me the love I deserve.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

And I don't know, it's. It's just hard. It's lit.

[Lex P]

But even with your concert that you just had, like, were you expecting it to sell out the way that it did and pack out the arena? Like, that ain't going to lie.

[YFN Lucci]

I was expecting it to sell out, but the way we sold out without announcing no other artist, it was just me. I ain't expect that.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

And then, like, I think I did, like, probably, like, 23 songs, 25 songs. They were word for word, every song. And I feel like I just needed that. That was like, a statement to show people, like, you know, people fuck with my shit.

[Dre]

Yeah. How long was the concert?

[YFN Lucci]

I don't know. When it was like an hour, two hours.

[Dre]

That's a long time to be on stage. That's it.

[Lex P]

You did 25 songs in an hour and a half? Over two hours.

[Dre]

It had to have been over two hours.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I'm like, for sure.

[Dre]

So talk about where you are at now musically. Because, you know, a lot of times people go and they just. They have a growth moment. Are we. Should we still be expecting the same sound? Like, what's. What can we expect?

[YFN Lucci]

Well, I just dropped the album. It called already Legend. It's me, my music, you know, my lane. I stay in my lane. What I do. You feel me? I don't try to do what everybody else do.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

And it's gonna always be that same sound. But the shit I talk about gonna be different. Cause I'm growing, I'm getting older. You feel me? I got my kids growing up. Shit, I done went to jail, came home, almost lost my life. A lot of shit different.

[Dre]

Yeah. Are you in love?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah. Hell, yeah.

[Dre]

I know that's right. Are you gonna get married?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Dre]

I love. I see all them to you.

[Lex P]

All 92 of them hear black men say that. So, like, what was the pivotal moment where you knew, okay, like, this is the woman that I love. And I can see myself marrying her.

[YFN Lucci]

When I was in jail. Okay, I was in jail. Well, that's something.

[Dre]

But I don't know the difference between jail talk and real talk. Cause he out now.

[YFN Lucci]

Well, no, I knew I was coming home, so I ain't got a jail talk.

[Dre]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

I ain't got to sit here and lie to you. See, I was.

[Dre]

Well, I watched that show, what's it called, Love After Lockup. And they be in there saying, like, some. I'll be like, oh, my God, he's so sweet. And then they get out.

[YFN Lucci]

But I'm a sweet person anyway.

[Lex P]

What's your sign?

[YFN Lucci]

I'm Aquarius.

[Dre]

Oh, sweet. They are.

[Lex P]

Aquariuses are so sweet.

[YFN Lucci]

They are Aquarius sweet. We might be a little.

[Dre]

You know, first they sour, y'. All. Yeah. Yeah.

[Lex P]

It's like sour patch. Yep. Sour, then sweet.

[YFN Lucci]

It ain't that we sweet. We just. We have our moments.

[Lex P]

I feel like y' all are very specific with what y' all like.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, that's how you're supposed to be.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Yeah. Y' all very specific.

[Dre]

So when are you popping the question?

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, yeah, I don't know. I ain't gonna lie.

[Dre]

Well, I'll sing At the wedding.

[YFN Lucci]

You know what I'm saying?

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Sing Happily Ever after.

[Dre]

My man. Will we booming for you.

[Lex P]

That's a proposal song.

[Dre]

Yes, it is.

[Lex P]

Happily ever after.

[Dre]

Bottom while you ride.

[YFN Lucci]

I like that song.

[Dre]

See, that's what we need at the reception. We trying to have fun, girl.

[YFN Lucci]

No, for sure.

[Lex P]

The reception you talking let you sing at the proposal. Okay, so getting back into talking a little bit about your album, could you tell us about some of the features that you're going to have on the album? Because we know you going to have 21, Savage and Young Thug. So could you tell us how that came about?

[YFN Lucci]

How that came about? When I was locked up, Savvy reached out to me about getting on the phone with her, and I was like, I ain't tripping.

[Dre]

There was I like that?

[YFN Lucci]

I was like, I ain't tripping. We can, you know, when I get out, if it makes sense.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

You know, when I got out, we, you know, we. We figured it out.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

How to make it work. Work. And then towards the end of the, like a week or two before we were finna drop the album, I just sent Savage that song. He got on it. That was my two feats.

[Dre]

I say this. Cause like, I'm a music fan. Like, I'm a fan of all music. And I always have loved, like, how Atlanta artists support each other. Like, the love that I see Atlanta artists have for each other, like, you really didn't see that in Houston, if I'm being honest, until, like, now. I'll say it's more so now. But how do you feel about, like, how you went in and then when you came out, like the state of Atlanta music and how it's a lot of craziness that's going on. Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

Right now.

[Dre]

I mean. I mean, for the past, like, two, three years, I mean, we've seen so much happen, like, with the Migos and, you know, everything that we see with Thug and, like, how you spread my.

[YFN Lucci]

Memory, you know, I was a lot.

[Dre]

Well, you know, I'm messy. I'll get into it now.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Refresh me. I mean, you know. You know what happened with the Migos?

[YFN Lucci]

What happened with the Migos?

[Lex P]

Well, you know, they had got into it. They broke up.

[Dre]

You know they broke up. You know, they're not.

[YFN Lucci]

I thought. No, I don't know.

[Dre]

Well, what I'm saying, like, they broke up. You know, things happen. You know, rest in peace. Tayo, he passed away and then, you know, they had their. You know, then gunna and Thug and just. It Kind of. I feel like divided Atlanta, for real, because it used to be like everybody was just like, atlanta has this sound. Everybody supports everybody. Nobody had to choose.

[YFN Lucci]

It gonna get back to that.

[Dre]

You think so?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Luchi for president. You here to save him, huh?

[YFN Lucci]

It gonna get back.

[Lex P]

We voting.

[Dre]

But go ahead. Go ahead.

[Lex P]

No, I was just gonna ask. So would you have any, like, breakout singles before you went in? Like, every day we lit in all of these songs that you had. Do you ever feel the pressure now that you're out to, like, live up to the expectations? Are you just like, I'm doing my.

[YFN Lucci]

Thing and whatever happens, it never with no pressure. Like, I make music. That what I do. Feel me? Like, God gave me the gift. So I feel like anytime I go in the booth, God going to make sure I say the right.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

You feel me? If I made every day we lit, I made Wet, I made Keita discreet. I made all that heartless. Yeah, I can make it again, period.

[Lex P]

I love this.

[Dre]

Do you like being online? Because I know sometimes, like doing interviews, like doing TikToks and doing the streaming, like, y' all have to do this because it's part of the job, but I know it's kind of like sometimes you just want to make music, but the music is different.

[YFN Lucci]

It's smooth.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't be tripping.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't like doing them early interviews, though. I ain't gonna lie.

[Dre]

Early. Well, we know.

[YFN Lucci]

Nah, see, they went early. See, I had. I just came back from Miami, you know, I just took my first vacation.

[Dre]

Oh.

[YFN Lucci]

When we landed, we landed at like, what time we landed? Like 3:43 50.

[Dre]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

And we had to wait on the bags. My cousin come to almost like 5:30.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

I had to drive all the way home.

[Dre]

Oh, damn.

[YFN Lucci]

That was an hour to get to my house, and I had to drive an hour back here.

[Dre]

What did you do in Miami?

[YFN Lucci]

I told my kids and my girl.

[Dre]

My family, like, you a good man. I know that. I thought I was gonna catch you.

[YFN Lucci]

No, you can't catch me.

[Dre]

But I always say that, like, people always think Miami is like, only to turn up. I always say, like, Miami low key. Like, you can go there on some chill and have a good time.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah. I told my kid, my girl, we got on the yacht, we flew private, we were lit.

[Lex P]

And it's a lot of good restaurants in Miami.

[Dre]

I feel like it's a lot of.

[Lex P]

Stuff for kids do out there too.

[Dre]

He said I to go to private. You slid that in there?

[YFN Lucci]

I said, I'm just saying, you know.

[Dre]

How long have y' all been together?

[YFN Lucci]

Probably like four years we've been knowing each other.

[Dre]

Held it down.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Dre]

That's a good woman.

[YFN Lucci]

You want to heal it down?

[Dre]

Hell no.

[YFN Lucci]

Why not?

[Dre]

I can't do it.

[YFN Lucci]

So look, say you. You hold it down and you come home and you live happily ever after.

[Lex P]

Well, what if he don't come home now you came home.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, but since you gotta have faith.

[Dre]

You can't just say that.

[Lex P]

I don't know you right. I don't be having.

[YFN Lucci]

Until it happened. Then when it happened and you know, like, Dan, you come home, the man should be like, you know, like, you ain't gotta.

[Lex P]

I'm gonna be in my bed crying.

[Dre]

Like I should have held on. I'll be in bed crying.

[YFN Lucci]

You out of there.

[Lex P]

I'm outside.

[Dre]

I' ma pretend when you get. When you call me, I'm gonna answer that.

[YFN Lucci]

Hello.

[Dre]

You got a. I do, but he ain't in jail.

[Lex P]

But what if he went?

[YFN Lucci]

Would you leave him? Yeah, but this is. All right. You watching this?

[Dre]

No.

[YFN Lucci]

Look at it now. It's a sign. This is a sign. Would you leave him?

[Dre]

I don't have to worry about that.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm just asking one question.

[Dre]

I have never.

[Lex P]

I don't. It depend on the crime.

[Dre]

One, it depends on the crime. But two, no shade to nobody or anything. I've never dated like a hood street nigga ever in my life.

[YFN Lucci]

Never ain't got to be hood to go to jail.

[Lex P]

I mean, but cuz be committing white collar crimes, they knew.

[Dre]

But what I'm saying is I've never dealt. I. I deal with people that are.

[YFN Lucci]

Just people be falsely accused. All type of happens.

[Dre]

I mean, I get.

[YFN Lucci]

So what if he had one of the moments where some happened, he just got.

[Dre]

That means you're doing something wrong then.

[YFN Lucci]

No, it don't. I promise you.

[Dre]

I have never been falsely.

[YFN Lucci]

You can't think like that. Women can't think like that. Everybody who go to jail is not doing nothing wrong.

[Lex P]

People go to jail for not paying exacts taxes. Sometimes they think they accounted paying their taxes. They find out they not. I mean, it happens.

[Dre]

People, she gonna leave you and that's a fact. Tell them, tell them again.

[YFN Lucci]

She gonna leave you and let them know. You better be on your best behavior.

[Dre]

On your best behavior. I have never had a fear in my heart that like, oh my gosh, I might go to jail.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Because I live. No, no, no, Shade.

[YFN Lucci]

I love you.

[Lex P]

Drink in America we live in now.

[YFN Lucci]

So once you're on the way home and you drunk and then you go to jail.

[Dre]

Oh, I don't drink and drop drive now. I don't play that.

[YFN Lucci]

But if you ain't got no choice.

[Dre]

I do have a choice. I park that my car, raggedy anyway.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay.

[Dre]

I parked that anyway. I that in the dick right now. That I don't give a damn.

[Lex P]

She really do. She will just leave her car. She don't be giving it.

[Dre]

I don't. So I. I don't play with that. I just don't. I don't play with the law.

[YFN Lucci]

That makes sense.

[Dre]

You know what I'm saying?

[Lex P]

She's never been to jail, by the way, too.

[Dre]

Never. Never.

[Lex P]

Me, on the other hand, you went to jail a few times.

[YFN Lucci]

A few.

[Lex P]

Holding cell, though, like, I never actually make it up. No, I got bailed out.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

You were gone after like a day.

[YFN Lucci]

And you was in the holding cell for two days.

[Lex P]

I was in the holding cell one time for two days, and I was so stressed. I was calling my nigga, crying, see.

[YFN Lucci]

Who you were calling.

[Dre]

I was calling my man.

[YFN Lucci]

See what I'm saying?

[Dre]

Did he leave you and he called Lex.

[YFN Lucci]

Did he leave you in them two days?

[Lex P]

Oh, of course not. He was ready to get me out.

[Dre]

But he was mad. He said, let's tell her she need to deal with this bullshit. I'm not trying to get yelled at, so I stay out of jail.

[Lex P]

It wasn't my fault. And all the times I didn't do nothing serious. It was just like, little stuff.

[YFN Lucci]

Would you be fighting?

[Ed Helms / Kal Penn]

No.

[Lex P]

I look like I fight to you? I can't fight.

[YFN Lucci]

You don't know how to fight.

[Lex P]

I will if I need to, but I don't consider myself a fighter. Like, okay, so the first time I went to jail, I was like, 18. It was for, like, public indecency.

[YFN Lucci]

You were naked.

[Dre]

It was me and my uncle.

[YFN Lucci]

I got caught in the car.

[Lex P]

It was me. Yeah, it was me and my. Me and my boyfriend in the car. Yes.

[YFN Lucci]

So they locked both of y' all up.

[Dre]

So she needed to go to jail. She didn't get your naked ass and go home.

[Lex P]

Then the second, he wasn't looking at.

[YFN Lucci]

While he was hitting that shit. No, I would have been like, we good.

[Dre]

He was focused on that.

[Lex P]

No, I don't know. But, like, somehow the security guard from the apartment complex, the security guard hated.

[YFN Lucci]

Cause he wanted something.

[Lex P]

The police on this. So that's what happened the first time. Then the second time, I was, like, working at this club. I was like, that's the same boyfriend, huh?

[YFN Lucci]

This your same boyfriend?

[Lex P]

No, no, this was back when I still lived in Houston. So then the second time it was when I lived in Houston still too. I was working at this club. And you know, a lot of the clubs in Houston are like byob. So I didn't know that. Bring your own bottle. Like they don't be having liquor lights.

[YFN Lucci]

My bad.

[Lex P]

So I didn't know that the club didn't have a liquor license. And I was like a waitress selling liquor. So they raided the club one night.

[YFN Lucci]

They locked you up for that?

[Lex P]

And I got arrested for that too.

[YFN Lucci]

I would have been so mad.

[Lex P]

I was. I was mad as. Then the third time, it was out here in Atlanta.

[Dre]

Third time a jail bird.

[YFN Lucci]

You got a lot more time than me.

[Dre]

It was out here in Atlanta.

[Lex P]

Cause I was like leaving work and I got pulled over cause I was speeding and they tried to get me a dui.

[Dre]

Oh.

[YFN Lucci]

See what I'm saying?

[Lex P]

But I didn't get one though.

[Dre]

See, I was guess. And guess where I was at. At home trying to come get her. I'm at home. I don't play that.

[Lex P]

I have been wrongfully accused a few times.

[Dre]

Not. You got locked up. They won't let you out.

[Lex P]

So I do want to ask you though. So like, how has it been now being on social media? Cuz I feel like social media was probably so different before you went in jail. Being out now, like everybody is just on there all the time. Like with. Cause TikTok wasn't a thing before you went in.

[YFN Lucci]

Right, But I don't really be on TikTok.

[Dre]

You don't?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, I don't know how to.

[Dre]

Well, you all over TikTok.

[Lex P]

Your songs be going viral.

[Dre]

Yeah. Songs, your clips, everything. It wasn't when you was told and you told that girl to get her titties done.

[YFN Lucci]

I told her that.

[Dre]

Yeah. That's all right.

[YFN Lucci]

We was just talking, having fun.

[Dre]

I know you like fake titties.

[YFN Lucci]

I like real titties. I like real and fake. T. I like whatever.

[Dre]

You don't discriminate.

[YFN Lucci]

He just like, you beautiful. I love you.

[Dre]

Okay, that's fair. I had to make sure because the people was mad. Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

But everybody, you know, now they go.

[Dre]

You know, I feel you though. But yeah, you be. You do be all over tick tock. It just be like because you've been doing a lot of interviews lately. So what people will do, they'll clip it and certain stuff will go viral.

[Big Loon]

What's up, y'?

[YFN Lucci]

All?

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[YFN Lucci]

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[Dre]

You know what I'm saying?

[YFN Lucci]

That makes sense.

[Dre]

But. But that's what I was saying in the point that made.

[YFN Lucci]

I still feel like it's kind of the same.

[Lex P]

You think so? I feel like people didn't care as much about social media. Like, but pre pandemic, like pre 2020.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay, look, I feel like they did care as much, but now I feel like they really don't care. Not like they don't care to be on social. They don't care about being them themselves on.

[Dre]

Agreed.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Okay. Like, before then it was like you. You showing your money that lit you posting a picture. Like, posting a picture was a big deal. Now we just be posting pictures.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, they were trying to impress folks. Yeah, but being yourself impresses more.

[Dre]

It really does.

[Lex P]

Like, but y' all don't feel like back in the day, we just didn't give a damn. Like, do y' all remember when Instagram. Instagram first came out? Like, we used to be posting food pictures with the sepia filter. Like, we didn't used to be. Used to be giving a damn. It used to be the most random stuff on our feed and it was just us being outside, us with our friends. It wasn't a perfect aesthetic. Like, I feel like now people just care more about the aesthetic and what they page look like and all of this stuff.

[YFN Lucci]

You right about that. I don't really care about that.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Dre]

Has social media, like, ever got you in trouble? Like, since you've been out?

[YFN Lucci]

No. And like, yeah. Got me in trouble. How?

[Lex P]

You know, just in general.

[Dre]

If I see my in some likes her booty too big. We gotta have a conversation.

[YFN Lucci]

I know I ain't liking nobody pictures.

[Dre]

And be under there with a hard eye, a little heart.

[YFN Lucci]

I ain't doing that. That's crazy.

[Dre]

All right, now that's crazy. I'm. I'mma look out for you.

[YFN Lucci]

You ain't gonna never see my name on nobody picture.

[Lex P]

Now why you don't be liking pictures?

[YFN Lucci]

Cuz I got a girl.

[Dre]

But.

[Lex P]

Okay, when you didn't have a girl, did you used to be liking pictures?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Lex P]

Did you have girls who thought that you was their.

[YFN Lucci]

How can you think I'm a.

[Lex P]

Cause you know, you be spending time with a girl, then she might just feel like, okay, this my man. Like, he's spending time with me, he's spending money.

[YFN Lucci]

But I always had together.

[Lex P]

Oh, you always had a girl.

[Dre]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

I had a girl before that girl, a girl before that girl, and a girl before that girl. So you was still so can't nobody else feel like I'm. They. I'm already too.

[Dre]

I know that's right.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm put up.

[Lex P]

I like that, though. I like a man that's safe. He in a relationship and he stand on it.

[Dre]

Yeah. You know how embarrassing that is to, like, imagine you watching a podcast or you watching an interview and he like, I mean, I'm chilling. You like, you just took me on.

[Lex P]

The pj looking at your promise ring.

[YFN Lucci]

Not a promise, but they probably don't go together.

[Dre]

Y' all be going with women.

[YFN Lucci]

Not all the time. Some women be, you know, delusional.

[Dre]

I will say that. But a lot of times it'll be like a situation where, like, this is why I always say, unless a man says, you're my girlfriend and we've had a conversation.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, it gotta be a conversation. That's how mine. That's how all mine happen.

[Dre]

You say, whatever.

[YFN Lucci]

What we doing? You. You my man. I be like, I'm your it. You got me?

[Dre]

But what if you don't want to be what you say, man?

[YFN Lucci]

I'd be like, man, you want to be my girl?

[Dre]

See, you making it clear.

[YFN Lucci]

But that's making it clear because I didn't answer you. I didn't. I'm like, damn, you really. You want to be my girl? Yeah, like, damn. And she said, yeah. I'll be like, that's crazy. You don't want me to be your name. We're gonna keep going back and forth until you get the picture.

[Dre]

Oh, see, I. I do feel like.

[Lex P]

That'S a clear indication, though, sometimes as a woman, I. You have to be able to read between the lines, because a man will tell you that he not ready for a relationship without actually.

[YFN Lucci]

And then they'll try to force you. And then once they force you and you get the. The fucking up, you like, man, I already told you, I wasn't even ready for this shit.

[Dre]

Yeah, you been through this. I've been through a lot of this. I mean. Cause I feel like just say no, but you want to keep on.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm Aquarius. It's kind of hard to say no.

[Dre]

Yeah, you a lover boy at heart. For real. Like, my nephew is an Aquarius, and.

[YFN Lucci]

He be like, she don't believe that. Look at her.

[Dre]

Aquarius, they like, they have this outer shell. But, like, deep down, like, me and my nephew, like, we be going back and forth, but he is so obsessed with we, like, he love me down. That's how Aquariuses are. They have this shell. But when they really love you, they are really lovers. I believe you down. They really are. You know what I was about to say? Uhhuh. I be saying it all.

[Lex P]

Go ahead and get this to topic number one.

[Dre]

L. Yes. Okay, I want to talk about this because I have a lot of friends in the industry, in the podcasting industry and the music industry, and I've just always thought this was very interesting. And we're going to speak as if, you know, you were single. We know you're in a relationship, so we're going to think of it in.

[YFN Lucci]

The mind as if you heard that we thinking that I'm single.

[Dre]

We're having this conversation. Yes. I'm protecting you now, acting like I'm single. Would you ever date a fan? And let me say, I had a situation where I went to a show of one of my close friends. Friends and I was shook cuz the way they was like, it was literally a fan from the audience and they was just like pulled a random from the crowd. I was like, oh my God, how you know that they're not going to take pictures and post you and do all extra see?

[YFN Lucci]

It got to be a certain type of fan. I ain't going to lie.

[Dre]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

I wouldn't date. I don't know. I can't say that. Yeah, I would date them.

[Dre]

You would date them if, if they.

[YFN Lucci]

If we, if we can vibe and I, I with you. Yeah, I date you if you ain't weird. All fans don't just be, you know, fanned out. They like, yeah, I love you. I fuck with you, but I know how to be calm.

[Lex P]

What if she was holding up a sign that said, I got the key to the street?

[YFN Lucci]

I'm looking at her, I'mma see does she really got the key to the street?

[Lex P]

She front row, she ready.

[YFN Lucci]

Hey, I be on stage ready?

[Dre]

So what would a fan have to do to like, you know. And like I said, we're speaking hypothetically.

[YFN Lucci]

You just gotta be pretty and in the crowd pretty. Cause I look at everybody in the crowd. Okay, if you like just sitting there and you just beautiful. I'm gonna be like eight pound her right there.

[Dre]

See, that's why I go, I need to start going to concerts and being like this in the crowd.

[YFN Lucci]

Why you on high?

[Lex P]

That's looking shy. That's what I was about to say.

[YFN Lucci]

Don't nobody want no shy girl. Oh, okay.

[Dre]

You know what I'm saying?

[YFN Lucci]

I'm giving you the eye like this and the tongue.

[Dre]

You see me, you see me. Okay, so now we know they getting people attention. You know what's crazy? I've seen like a few stories of people that have done that. And it's worked. Be in the crowd and just like get. Staring them down. Yeah, staring them down.

[Lex P]

And it's worked.

[Dre]

And it's worked.

[YFN Lucci]

It's something about the eyes looking at somebody.

[Dre]

Yeah, I got a lazy eye, especially when I drank, so it probably not gonna work.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, you don't need to do that.

[Dre]

I don't know if I'm looking at you or the background singer.

[YFN Lucci]

Don't stand down. You got shade, though. You put on the Chanels or something.

[Lex P]

But then you really ain't gonna know that she.

[YFN Lucci]

Look, you just gotta act like you just. You can't move your head.

[Dre]

He said, chanel's Amazon, baby.

[YFN Lucci]

Those two, whatever kind of dog shade.

[Dre]

All right.

[YFN Lucci]

Eye to eye.

[Dre]

Draya Would you date a fan? What is you snickering at? I'm just laughing. Cause you stupid as fucking. Why you talking about who got Chanels? I don't do that, Lucha.

[YFN Lucci]

Now y' all wanna date no fan.

[Dre]

Hell, but you don't never know who.

[YFN Lucci]

A fan you might meet. Look, I might meet a girl at a restaurant and then we get the vibing and the whole time she a fan. She just ain't gonna. She ain't sad or she went, I ain't meet at the show, everybody. You don't know who gonna be a fan.

[Lex P]

But is this a misconception? Because I don't know, maybe this is just me being a little biased because I'm a woman. But I feel like women fans don't be as crazy as male fans.

[YFN Lucci]

Male fan be tripping.

[Lex P]

I feel like if a man is a fan of you and you start dating him, he's probably gonna be like a serial killer.

[YFN Lucci]

Hell no. I wouldn't be there. I wouldn't be on that. Cuz I'm a fan. I used to be a fan of certain singers for.

[Lex P]

But you was already still popping yourself.

[YFN Lucci]

So it's. I want to. I want to did nothing crazy though. I would have loved on them.

[Lex P]

You being a qu.

[Dre]

I would have love, love on.

[YFN Lucci]

I would.

[Lex P]

I believe that, Luchi. I.

[YFN Lucci]

You can ask anybody I ever talk to. I'll be loving on them.

[Dre]

I believe you.

[Lex P]

I believe you.

[YFN Lucci]

But I up. But I be loving on them.

[Lex P]

But okay, so elaborate. You up?

[YFN Lucci]

I be up. I used to up cheating sometimes. Yeah.

[Lex P]

Cause I feel like that's always with me and me when they be saying, I be up.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, yeah, I be up. But I got better.

[Dre]

That's good though.

[Lex P]

Like, I'm glad that you've seen the growth and you've realized like the importance of locking in with a good woman and.

[Dre]

How many kids you got?

[YFN Lucci]

Four.

[Dre]

Four. Okay. Have you ever had like an outside baby?

[YFN Lucci]

What you mean?

[Dre]

Like, you know how, like you be dating somebody, then somebody else get pregnant.

[Lex P]

And then you get back with the other.

[Dre]

You mean dating like you was dating? You were in a relationship. Somebody, you got somebody else.

[YFN Lucci]

I had two of my kids at the same time.

[Dre]

So you had like ghetto twins, but.

[Lex P]

You were you in a late relationship?

[YFN Lucci]

We didn't go together. Nah, we didn't. I ain't go with now one day.

[Dre]

What? What? It's ghetto twins. That's what we call them. It is.

[Lex P]

It is what we call.

[Dre]

But you wasn't in a relationship with.

[YFN Lucci]

Either one of the women no, no.

[Dre]

No, that don't count.

[YFN Lucci]

Well, yeah, I ain't never had no, I wouldn't do no like that.

[Lex P]

Yeah, outside babies.

[YFN Lucci]

I want to play like that.

[Lex P]

In a relationship with a girl. And then you get somebody else pregnant while you in the relationship and have the baby. Yeah, yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

I ain't doing nothing like that. I probably got somebody pregnant before while.

[Lex P]

I was in a relationship, but they ain't heavy.

[YFN Lucci]

Hel.

[Lex P]

Not that baby in the upper room.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't know where the baby at, Baby.

[Dre]

Hey, they up there with mine. Amen. That's right. Having a party, huh? But let me ask you this, though, okay? So if, like you said, you've probably been in a relationship and you got somebody pregnant on the outside, what if the shoe was on the other foot? Like, if you were with a girl and she got pregnant, would you stay with her? She was like, no, I'm gonna abort you.

[YFN Lucci]

Hell, no, I won't stay.

[Dre]

Why not?

[YFN Lucci]

I'm just different. You can't do what I do.

[Lex P]

But you know what? Let's speak.

[YFN Lucci]

No, I'm saying I can't take that. You might can take one more. Like you can handle. Women can handle certain shit. Me, I can't handle that shit. You can't cheat on me. You can't have no baby on me. Well, I ain't gonna lie. One girl cheated on me and I still fuck with her, but I ain't really. I probably ain't love her the same. You know what I'm saying? The feelings went down, but I still like, nah, I love you, but dang, like, I love you like this now. I love you like this.

[Lex P]

Right, Right.

[YFN Lucci]

You feel me?

[Dre]

I don't know.

[YFN Lucci]

I can't handle that. You can't cheat on me. I might cry.

[Lex P]

It's like the girls. Sometimes I feel like the girls be about to eat us up when we say certain stuff just because we women. But like, I do believe in double, double standards when it comes to certain things. I really do. I feel like sometimes women cannot move the same way that men move. I just.

[YFN Lucci]

They don't supposed to.

[Lex P]

We not built the same in the. Like, the same rules and standards just don't apply.

[Dre]

I agree with that.

[Lex P]

You do.

[Dre]

But you cheat on me, nigga, it's up and it's stuck.

[YFN Lucci]

You gonna cheat back?

[Dre]

We outside, you also get back. No, but.

[YFN Lucci]

No, no, I said you also get back to it.

[Dre]

Okay, so I'll say this. If I'm.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't like a get back girl.

[Dre]

It's not a Get back, though. But, like, if you've been doing me wrong and, like, we break up, girl, I'm gonna go explore. Cause you did. Even if we're trying to figure, oh.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, if y' all break up, that's cool. You gonna do it.

[Lex P]

If you break up, that's different. But I mean, like, if it's. When you said it's up and it's stuck, I'm thinking you meaning, like, oh, if you do this, I'm gonna do this bad.

[YFN Lucci]

Look, and one of my relationships, I grew up, like, I knew. Like, damn, I up. I used to cheat too much. So when she cheated, that's the only reason I stayed with that, like. Cause damn, I did. I. I made you like this.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

You know, but if I cheat one time and then you go cheat on me, I bet you been ready to go cheat. You just waiting on me to fuck up.

[Dre]

It's not like, necessarily on some dumb shit, but I feel like if you stay with somebody who is constantly cheating on you. Now, I'm not gonna lie. Like, I'm not in the stage of, like, get back. Like, I was being funny. But, like, if you are constantly cheating on somebody, it's just like, I need to leave and go be with somebody who's gonna respect me, right?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, but will they, huh?

[Dre]

If they constantly are cheating on me?

[YFN Lucci]

I'm talking about the next person you say you need to leave and go be with somebody who gonna.

[Dre]

Now, one thing about me, I'm gonna dust myself, try again.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm saying y' all got. Yeah, I think y' all ever cheated.

[Lex P]

I don't put nothing past nobody. Respectfully. Like, I just don't. I never think that. I. I think when I was younger, I used to think that. But now that I'm older and I'm more mature and I've been through more, I don't think I'm so above a cheating on me, no matter how good of a woman I am to him. Because I've realized, like, it's not about who I am to him. It's more about him why he cheated on me.

[YFN Lucci]

Men just have desires.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's more about you. You cheated because it's some shit they got to do with you, not me being less than a woman.

[YFN Lucci]

It'll be that. It don't be that. Don't be that. Would it be Lucha, Imagine my see something one day and be like, dang, I want to explore that.

[Lex P]

So y' all should be horny.

[YFN Lucci]

Yes, yes.

[Dre]

That's so. Did you say that's it. But I truly think like a man who.

[Lex P]

But women be horny, but we don't act on it. And that's what makes us as they do.

[YFN Lucci]

That's how we catch them.

[Lex P]

No, and if we did.

[YFN Lucci]

Going back to what I said, like, I can. If I can, I can. It's like, how can I do this? It's like a heat seeker. You know how you see the red? Like when you got them glass and you can see the red. You can see when a girl is horny and ready for you. Like, I know you ready for me.

[Lex P]

But going back to what I was saying about the double standard sheet. So a man. If you in a relationship and you cheat on your girl or just say, even if you're not in a relationship and you out here just with a whole bunch of women, nobody is gonna necessarily look at you as a whole. And even if women do look at you that way, it's still a whole line of women that's still gonna deal with you women. If.

[Ad Read Voice 1]

If.

[Lex P]

Even if you are horny, you can't act on. You can't go out here and be 5, 10 gonna be like, oh, you ran through.

[YFN Lucci]

Yes.

[Dre]

And then if.

[Lex P]

Exactly. So you're not gonna be looked at the same because you could be ran through and somebody's still gonna marry you.

[YFN Lucci]

Look, this is the difference in being ran through. A woman came as a man. If you ran. My bad. If you're a man, like you gotta. You said we got this, right? All right. A woman, she got a hole. She got this. Why this? Why did though after a minute, you know, you might have this hole, then you might have this hole, then you might have this. You don't want that. You got this hole. Don't nobody wants you.

[Dre]

It don't work like that. I disagree because I always believe that.

[Lex P]

Because women have children and then they coochie snap back. So I definitely don't believe this.

[YFN Lucci]

That's a baby coming out once. That's a baby coming out one. And they gonna. You feel me?

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

But if you just taking all the.

[Lex P]

I should be this.

[Dre]

That's.

[Lex P]

That's hereditary. Your granny had loose coochie. Your great grandma. It's like it was passed down from generation.

[Dre]

Yes.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, that might make sense.

[Lex P]

I know it was passed.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't think so. Hell no.

[Lex P]

That generational loose coochie, that's what I.

[YFN Lucci]

Hate to be in that generation.

[Lex P]

Me.

[YFN Lucci]

So I also feel the opposite because.

[Lex P]

The way women's bodies naturally snap back, I just don't believe. Oh, if you had sex with, like, even 50 men if that's what you doing. I don't think a man is gonna be able to tell by having sex with you.

[Dre]

He's not. But I also feel like what we were talking about. This is second episode, y' all talking about men being ran through. Yes. There are men that you be like, oh, he cool. But I know 50, 11 girls that done talk to him, and it's like, I get the ick. So I don't think that men can be ran through when they get away with it. I really don't. I think it's the same. It's been men that you'll see that you be like, okay, he cool.

[YFN Lucci]

It depends on how you ran through. If you ran through.

[Dre]

Men can be ran through.

[YFN Lucci]

And you got a nice, like, resume. No, they gonna want to be a part of the resume.

[Dre]

Losers will, unfortunately, you're not gonna get a quality woman. Men that are ran through, like, that is. I don't know. I just feel like quality women gonna get a better. Something better. Rather than a man who's been with everybody.

[YFN Lucci]

That makes sense.

[Lex P]

That do make sense. But I definitely think, too, when men. Men have more leverage, women be wanting to do.

[Dre]

Yeah. This is a mocktail.

[YFN Lucci]

Let me get some of this.

[Dre]

Yeah. Speaking of. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Lex P]

What we drinking today? Well, since we have our Atlanta legend, Mr. YFN Lucci, in the building, we are going to call this one the Already Legend. In honor of his album that just dropped. This is a mocktail. So he and I are sipping on our mocktails. This one has some apple cider, some pomegranate, some lemon juice, some honey mango syrup, some cinnamon, and then a little.

[YFN Lucci]

Bit ginger beer on top.

[Lex P]

And, yeah, I garnished it with a lemon wheel and a cinnamon stick. So cheers to you.

[YFN Lucci]

Appreciate it.

[Dre]

Cheers, Cheers. Cheers, y'. All. Very tasty.

[YFN Lucci]

The already legend drink.

[Dre]

I know. That's right.

[Lex P]

I love the name, too.

[Dre]

All right, we. Don't we.

[YFN Lucci]

What the hell y' all got?

[Lex P]

Well, I am drinking a little tequila with, I think, soda, because I'm trying to cut back on calories. I'm trying to lose a little weight.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay.

[Dre]

I just got a little vodka, a little something light. You know what I'm saying?

[YFN Lucci]

Are you trying to lose when you got soda in it?

[Lex P]

Oh, it's just like, you know, sparkling soda water.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay.

[Lex P]

It was, like, very low calorie, not flavored or anything.

[Dre]

Was you working out in jail? What kind of food y' all eating now? What y' all be eating?

[YFN Lucci]

You been Funny.

[Dre]

No, I'm. No, I'm serious.

[YFN Lucci]

You being funny.

[Dre]

No.

[Lex P]

She's so far removed from, like, asking.

[YFN Lucci]

Me was I working out in jail.

[Dre]

I don't know what y' all be doing in there.

[YFN Lucci]

It look like working out.

[Dre]

Yeah. I don't know what's under that jacket.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay. Yeah, you right. I got some muscles.

[Dre]

That's what I'm saying.

[Lex P]

It is a little puffy.

[Dre]

We can't say I was working out.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay, don't push ups. Sit up, sit up, push ups. I like that little burpees.

[Dre]

I. I hate burp.

[Lex P]

Oh, I hate burpees too.

[YFN Lucci]

Me too. But they all okay. After you get the hang of that, be straight.

[Dre]

Okay. And what kind of food.

[YFN Lucci]

But I was working out at the beginning. Then I saw.

[Dre]

How would you in there, if you don't mind me asking, down there, like.

[YFN Lucci]

Four and a half, four years. I don't know. I don't know.

[Dre]

You a real no limit soldier.

[YFN Lucci]

That's the.

[Dre]

No, that's right. I'm not going to lie to you. A weekend I' ma be screaming, take me to the.

[Lex P]

I ain't never even been in.

[Dre]

That's why I said, I can't do it. You real Was like people in there trying to rap to you and stuff.

[YFN Lucci]

We might be behind the door. They be like, hey, look, man, you wanna hear me rap? I listen, though. I listen. Some of that shit be hard. Hell, yeah. It's a lot of talent. Some y' all nigga hard.

[Dre]

She get wicked.

[YFN Lucci]

Now them yo niggas fight over. I ain't gonna lie. They be beating on their chest, rapping.

[Big Loon]

What's up, y'?

[YFN Lucci]

All?

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[Lex P]

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[YFN Lucci]

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[Lex P]

I can see you as Mr. Darcy.

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[YFN Lucci]

Oh, being on the door my better than me.

[Dre]

Do you miss?

[Lex P]

Did you lie and tell any of them? Like, yeah, I'll sign you when you get out?

[YFN Lucci]

No, no, I ain't though. I ain't going to get no false hope.

[Lex P]

Okay, that's good.

[YFN Lucci]

I was like, you know, if I run into y' all when I get out, I'mma remember you.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

Feel me Then, however it go, give.

[Lex P]

You a little feature.

[YFN Lucci]

No, I ain't say that. I like, you got to take this ser. Man, I ain't. You feel me?

[Dre]

Do you miss any of your friends in there?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah.

[Dre]

I don't imagine you spend that much time with people that you probably like. Damn.

[YFN Lucci]

I with them like that. Cool, man. Damn.

[Dre]

Yeah. I mean, y' all spent a lot. I mean, four. That's a long time.

[Lex P]

That is like four years.

[Dre]

I ain't even kept a that long.

[YFN Lucci]

Amen.

[Dre]

You just said you had a nigga. I do. I. We ain't been together for a year.

[Lex P]

I ain't been together.

[YFN Lucci]

How long y' all been together?

[Dre]

It's been like we've been. It's been on and off for two years.

[YFN Lucci]

She going to leave you.

[Dre]

Little one, two little something like this.

[Lex P]

Then she going to leave you.

[Dre]

I'm not going to leave this, man. You know what's crazy?

[Lex P]

I really be joking.

[Dre]

I'm actually a really great woman. He know I know he know. He everybody know.

[YFN Lucci]

He ain't going nowhere.

[Dre]

And I ain't either.

[YFN Lucci]

I like that.

[Dre]

How much a feature. How much a feature cost? Like, when somebody asks you get on the song how much it costs right now. Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't even like rapping with, so why not? I don't know. I'm just tired of that. I'm past that.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

A hana the most.

[Dre]

Oh, I need to start rapping, but.

[Lex P]

I feel like that ain't that Bad, though.

[Dre]

A hundred if you hungry.

[Lex P]

If you want this shit. I'm hungry.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah. I'm gonna give you one of the hardest verse, the hardest song.

[Dre]

No, that's right. That's a lot of money.

[Lex P]

That's how niggas be ending up in jail, though. They be trying to get that money for the feature.

[YFN Lucci]

Nah, nah, nah, nah. Don't do it like that. We ain't not to blame for you.

[Dre]

No, that is.

[Lex P]

Y' all is to blame.

[YFN Lucci]

No, we ain't.

[Lex P]

Yes, y' all is. They be trying to get out the machine.

[YFN Lucci]

Y' all the reason go to jail. Girls, women, Cuz. We be trying to do everything to impress y', all, and we got to deal with the. The.

[Lex P]

But let's talk about it, cuz these days be trying to impress, too.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, I don't know about that one. Yeah, I don't know about.

[Lex P]

They be trying to impress both of us.

[YFN Lucci]

Why they trying to impress, Cuz?

[Dre]

I just.

[Lex P]

You don't. That's what. Going back to what I was saying about, like, the social media, like, I just feel like it's different. Like. Like I was saying prior to you going to jail, I just think social media was, like, a different type of place. Now be wanting to be on social media. They want to post who they with. They want to show that they in the club with you. They want to be like, oh, yeah, this my partner. Wifey and Luchi, we go way back. He might have met you one time, like, five years ago, 10 years ago. This my partner. We go way back.

[Dre]

Me and bro working.

[Lex P]

Yeah, we got something coming soon.

[YFN Lucci]

They. They doing that to impress y'. All. They, like, they trying to show y', all, like, look, I'm right here with Luke. And then they gonna be like, oh, yeah, she seen me with Luke. She gonna be fucking with me now.

[Dre]

Oh, hell, no.

[Lex P]

You don't ever feel like men be wanting to look cool to other niggas, though, too?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, but I don't know.

[Dre]

Yeah, any woman that falls for a man, that just be like, oh, I'm with him. Cause you're dumb.

[Lex P]

Like.

[Dre]

Cause if a nigga is like, with him, I'm like, I don't want you. I don't want the nigga you with. Cause this nigga ain't got his camera out talking about he with you. I'm going for the main meal. I don't want the mashed potatoes. I want the turkey.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay.

[Dre]

You feel what I'm saying now?

[Lex P]

We don't want Poochie. We want Luchi.

[Dre]

Come on now, we gonna be preaching these motherfuckers let them know we don't do no side dishes.

[YFN Lucci]

So we do not want Poochie. We won't lose.

[Dre]

Hey, all you doing is putting me on, nigga.

[YFN Lucci]

Damn.

[Dre]

You know what I'm saying? That's how we get out. Okay, so. But earlier, we did talk about, like, you know, holding somebody down while they in jail. But, like, I love to ask if it was on the other foot, if your girl went to jail right now for four years.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm gonna be down. Yeah. Yeah, I'll be down. I'mma be fucking this shit, though. I'm gonna tell her you don't know, but I'm gonna be there.

[Dre]

Phone.

[YFN Lucci]

We could talk on the phone. All night, all day. I'm gonna be blowing your books up. I'mma come visit you. I'm. I'mma be there. But you. Yeah, I ain't going to lie. I'm a damn like that. She know that.

[Dre]

Was she allowed to get her rocks off?

[YFN Lucci]

I tried to tell her she could, but she said she didn't want to.

[Dre]

Oh, she was here getting them rocks off.

[Lex P]

She get her coochie ate in jail by another girl.

[YFN Lucci]

That's cool.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Lex P]

What you say?

[YFN Lucci]

You need to save a number. Yeah, we gonna. We both gonna get some head when she. When both of y' all get out.

[Dre]

I didn't sign up for this.

[YFN Lucci]

Get out. Know what her head like, baby, that shit hands you.

[Dre]

You lowkey kind of toxic, though.

[Lex P]

Cause he's an Aquarius.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, my God. Back to the Aquarius.

[Dre]

Let me take a sip of that mock that juice.

[Lex P]

That mocktail.

[YFN Lucci]

Aquarius toxic.

[Lex P]

Yes, y' all are. Cause I just feel like Aquarius men are just so essential. Number one, y' all are just an eccentric sign in general. I feel like it's the men and the women. Y' all are like some of the, like, most unique people that I've ever met. See, not in a good way sometimes, but then sometimes not. Because I feel like y' all just be wanting things to go y' all way. But then y' all are also fixed signs, too. Like, I'm a little into Australia.

[YFN Lucci]

I ain't gonna lie. I be. Want everything to go my way.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

And I get mad at him. It don't.

[Dre]

I can already tell.

[YFN Lucci]

But I'm a good.

[Lex P]

I don't doubt that.

[YFN Lucci]

That's all that matter. So if. Cause look. No, no, no, real, though. I want everything to go my way because. Because I always say. Yeah. And I always, like, if somebody wants Something me, I'm gonna do it for them, okay? So when it's time for me to ask of me, you can't tell me no. How the hell you gonna tell me no? And I ain't never told you no. That crazy, that.

[Dre]

But that's a little toxic though.

[YFN Lucci]

But I ain't never told nobody no.

[Dre]

But that's because you chose those boundaries. So you can't expect other people that.

[YFN Lucci]

I said I had to learn, that I had to learn.

[Dre]

But that.

[YFN Lucci]

That makes. I ain't gonna just say. I be wanting to say no. Cause I ain't like that. I be knowing folk be needing a nigga, so that's fair. Yeah, I'm help you. Sometimes I'd be like, damn, all right. Like, damn. Well, like, you know, you gotta. You can't. You can't figure it out yourself, but some people can't. And then I. I' ma still look out, you feel me?

[Lex P]

But then it's like low key, an invisible contract. Okay, I didn't say no. So now you can't.

[Dre]

It ain't even that.

[YFN Lucci]

It ain't even that. It like. Cause I ain't. I might not need you the same way you need me. And my need be small. So that why I be mad at hell. Like, damn, you can't help me with this little shit. And I just did this big shit for you.

[Lex P]

People do be selfish, though.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, man, I don't like no selfish person.

[Lex P]

Me either.

[YFN Lucci]

I hate herself like that either.

[Dre]

Would you want your daughter to date a guy like you?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, hell yeah, for sure. I hope they get one like me.

[Dre]

No, that's right. That's. That's honest though, cuz some people be like, man, absolutely not. But for you to say that you wouldn't mind your daughter dating a man.

[YFN Lucci]

Cause I'm already, you know, I'm a top. I'm. I'm. Put my kids up on game, you feel me? But long as they feel like they man love them, it gonna be bumps and bruises and, you know, in the road, up the road, however you say it, but at life. But if y' all can make it work, make it work. If you like them, if you love them, shit, be with em. Want no cornball.

[Dre]

I can't do the corn balls, I'm telling you. But sometimes you can live a good life with a cornball.

[Lex P]

Can you?

[YFN Lucci]

You can. But then you be like, damn, you a real corn ball. I can't even fucking kick it with you. You like, yeah, you doing this. You. But I just might wear his pants. The wrong way. Shoot. Fish your hat, fool.

[Lex P]

I agree. I feel like.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, they don't even want to take you nowhere.

[Lex P]

Yeah, you. Not you. It's no way you could really be in love with a that you lowkey think is corny. Like in the back of your mind, if you like this corny, you don't really love him.

[YFN Lucci]

You dealing with him.

[Dre]

You dealing with him.

[Lex P]

Cuz it's probably convenient. It's something that's going on that you like.

[Dre]

Okay?

[Lex P]

Like this is beneficial to me in some type of way, so I'mma deal with it. But if you, if any part of you, even a small portion, think that this man is corny, you don't really love him.

[Dre]

For real, if I always say this, if this relationship don't work out, I'm going to get me a Braxton P. Hartner.

[YFN Lucci]

Brig, you'll never get him.

[Dre]

I want to. You don't think so?

[YFN Lucci]

I know you won't date him.

[Dre]

Yes, I would.

[YFN Lucci]

You would. I'm gonna bring him on the next show. I'm gonna find you guys. We gonna find.

[Dre]

Not the real one in real life though.

[Lex P]

Lex on her own. Cause I'm not dating no that wear jorts.

[Dre]

Jean shorts.

[Lex P]

The jean shorts, the long ones that be going down here downstairs.

[YFN Lucci]

You call them jorts.

[Dre]

Jorts. See, everybody said, huh? I know about a little jort.

[Lex P]

Now nigga that's wearing jorts, I ain't.

[YFN Lucci]

Never seen no pant like that.

[Lex P]

You too.

[Dre]

It's pretty bad. I ain't going to lie. I. But I might end up with a that wear jors. He got on some jor. Who got on jord?

[YFN Lucci]

Who got on jor? Bo, I know you ain't got no jorts on.

[Dre]

Now.

[YFN Lucci]

Don't what them short come to Bo.

[Lex P]

N He stop above the knees. Okay, they stopped.

[YFN Lucci]

Nah, we ain't going jorts.

[Lex P]

Jorts is when you damn near can't tell if they supposed to be pants or shorts.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay, okay, okay, okay.

[Dre]

Yeah. So now it's time.

[YFN Lucci]

Hold on. Wait, wait, wait. One more question. What about the hoochie daddy shorts?

[Lex P]

You think I want to deal with a nigga that's wearing some short shorts?

[YFN Lucci]

How they come out?

[Lex P]

You think I want to deal with a nigga that's wearing daisy Dudes I don't like.

[Dre]

Okay? I like when men get their clothes tailored. Like I like a nice fit. Like, I don't want them to be. No, but I don't want them to be like, you know, I want them to be like that. That's Not. Okay.

[Lex P]

That's a nice friend.

[Dre]

That's real not.

[Lex P]

Yeah, that's a real not.

[Dre]

You know what I'm saying? I like tailored. I like when I can tell a man, like, took his time with his outfit. It fits him nicely. It compliments his shape. Because a lot we like to talk about. Now let's talk about it. Men have shapes, too.

[YFN Lucci]

Don't talk about the shapes.

[Lex P]

Me having hoops.

[YFN Lucci]

Don't talk about the shapes.

[Dre]

They be having hoops. Why you keep rubbing your belly like that?

[YFN Lucci]

Cause I don't think I got some of my shape.

[Dre]

We ain't said nothing about your shape. You got a nice little build.

[Lex P]

And even if you don't, you got it camouflaged. We can't tell.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, yeah, I know how to hide this stuff. Yeah. I ain't gonna be like everybody else but you.

[Dre]

Whatever it is, you dress for your body type.

[YFN Lucci]

You do.

[Dre]

Like, I don't know what you look like, Nicki, but if you was bad built under there, I can't tell. I was like, smiling like that.

[YFN Lucci]

I look like that.

[Dre]

Whatever it is.

[YFN Lucci]

I might got a little belly now.

[Dre]

But I can't tell. Like, you look like. That's why I said, when you was in jail, did you work out?

[YFN Lucci]

No, no, no, no.

[Dre]

Because it's giving swole.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, for sure. Okay, y', all, she funny.

[Dre]

She's nuts.

[Lex P]

Like, she's crazy.

[Dre]

So now it's time to get into.

[Lex P]

But no, you didn't answer the question.

[Dre]

What was the question?

[Lex P]

He asked you. Would you date a man that wear daisy dudes?

[YFN Lucci]

Now she answered you. Oh, no.

[Dre]

I said no. I said, I like a man who wears tailored clothes, so they can't be.

[YFN Lucci]

But what if he think they tailored and they just.

[Dre]

Well, I think I like shorts that are like a little above the knee, but, like, right at that quad muscle right there. I don't like the them short, but I don't like them like, too long either. I like them when they like right there. You see that little muscle? You know what I'm saying?

[YFN Lucci]

Everybody ain't got that muscle.

[Dre]

I like me a buff.

[Lex P]

They got to get in the gym.

[Dre]

Yeah, I like them. I need a. That's going to pick big mama up.

[YFN Lucci]

No, they say about them big.

[Dre]

What? What they saying?

[YFN Lucci]

I don't know. All right, look, go on to the next all they pick you up. You know what?

[Lex P]

So now it's time to get into the bed. Bow the be a bow a bow, bow, bow, bow, bow, bow.

[Dre]

So y' all know the bed topic this week? Is brought to you by SaltXO. This is a super good brand. Y' all know I like to get in the shower and use this, y'.

[YFN Lucci]

All.

[Dre]

It keeps the coochie smelling real, real good. This is is the sess Yanni gel.

[YFN Lucci]

My partner up, man.

[Dre]

What the salt ain't salt.

[YFN Lucci]

That. That make that smell like watermelon.

[Dre]

Yeah, he said, I like. I know about that. I know about blue.

[Lex P]

That mean it's good for the coochie.

[YFN Lucci]

You definitely getting eight, man. What? No, I don't know about that. My partner, okay, yeah, my boy, he said, you come around, they start smelling like watermelon to he going to eat it.

[Lex P]

I'm telling you, this going to have you smelling minty fresh. Like, it literally is going to feel like your coochie just ate a peppermint. I love.

[Dre]

It does.

[Lex P]

I swear to God. It really does. And this one is really good. This is actually my favorite. This one has the seeds in it, but they also have the seedless one. And then they have ones for sensitive vaginas as well. And then she also just came out with some travel sizes, which I really love because you can take it on the go. Yeah, smell it too. It smells pretty.

[Dre]

Tell your boo that we gave her poor mine's package.

[Lex P]

It smell real minty, right?

[Dre]

He liked that. He said, I like that we gonna.

[Lex P]

Send you a package home. So. Yeah, you funny.

[Dre]

Okay.

[Lex P]

Part of the cool. The cool.

[Dre]

The cool cool Coochie. Clean coochie club. The clean coochie club. Shout out to Salt XO we gonna send and you gotta give us a review on it.

[YFN Lucci]

I can't.

[Dre]

She gonna get a review. I mean, that's what I'm saying. You gotta give us a review of how she felt about it. Does she like being on social media?

[YFN Lucci]

She probably would.

[Lex P]

I don't know.

[YFN Lucci]

I know that, right?

[Dre]

You better represent for your queen.

[Lex P]

She can do a review then. You could just be in the back.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, she could do a review.

[Dre]

Yeah, I got you. Okay, for the bad topic today, we're gonna talk about when do you feel like you and your partner don't have the same sex drive? Like, is that an issue? Is that something that you can wait out? Or is it just like a deal breaker, like them not wanting to have sex? Cause it could be a lot of different reasons.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, you gotta wanna have sex when I wanna have sex.

[Dre]

But what if she's not in the mood? Are you gonna be understanding?

[YFN Lucci]

I'm gonna get in the mood the hell.

[Dre]

But what if it's like I know how to get em in the mood every time.

[YFN Lucci]

Every time. What you be doing every time? I ain't got him in the mood.

[Dre]

What you be doing?

[YFN Lucci]

What you mean?

[Dre]

Like, is there something specific? You sing a song, cook dinner.

[YFN Lucci]

I kiss, I eat. Oh, I suck titty.

[Dre]

I know that's right. With the grill in. Because, you know it's icy, so it makes the nipple hard.

[YFN Lucci]

Cause it's cold. Yeah, all them. I like that.

[Dre]

It get ghetto around here. You gotta suck it with the grill in.

[YFN Lucci]

With the who? Oh, with the.

[Lex P]

With the grill.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, these don't come out.

[Dre]

I know this expensive head.

[YFN Lucci]

That's why I said expensive head Every time I see for sure.

[Dre]

I know that's right. So you never going to take your teeth out?

[YFN Lucci]

Probably when I get a little older.

[Dre]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

Like five more years.

[Dre]

Yeah. How much you pay for your teeth?

[YFN Lucci]

A lot.

[Dre]

I know. I mean, I didn't want. I like to get in people business a lot. Every time somebody sit on the couch, I be like, damn. That's.

[Lex P]

We do. We love to ask, how much you pay for them?

[Dre]

Cuz y' all teeth be nice.

[Lex P]

Nice.

[Dre]

You got all of them all the way to the back.

[YFN Lucci]

Not all the way almost, but like.

[Dre]

Almost. I mean, I ain't seen. I ain't seen. It's like, last two.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, the last two.

[Dre]

I mean. Cause we can't see that anyway unless you go, aha. That's the only time I'll see you.

[Lex P]

I feel like your girl the only one. They see that.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

Why would she see that?

[Lex P]

You know why?

[YFN Lucci]

Why? When you eat it.

[Dre]

I'm sorry.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, when they on top.

[Dre]

I don't know. I'm trying to figure it out.

[YFN Lucci]

Lost me.

[Dre]

When you lean your heads in the.

[Lex P]

Back, she on top. She the only one that can see that. Can't nobody else see.

[Dre]

Do you like when girls have girls?

[YFN Lucci]

I ain't never had no girl. No girl. But they be cute. Yeah.

[Dre]

Be a little one, too.

[YFN Lucci]

Not like the full one. Like, you know how they might have the little. Like the little bottom two over here at the bottom of the little line. The little new they got.

[Dre]

Yeah, like the little open fade.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, like that.

[Dre]

See, we putting the ladies on game. We trying to teach them how to attract a loot. Get you a little grill, you know what I'm saying? Get you a little grill. Smiling the crowd.

[Lex P]

So I do have a question. So if. Yo, if your girl turn you down, would you take it personally? Like, if she just like, you know what? Like, I've had a really really long day. I'm not.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay, y' all won.

[Lex P]

So you will understand.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, I will understand. Sometimes I might be petty. I might jack off while she write up. Okay, you don't want to give me the off in the neck.

[Dre]

That is so petty.

[Lex P]

I feel like that's. I don't feel like that's petty.

[YFN Lucci]

You doing that.

[Dre]

I' ma roll over.

[YFN Lucci]

Why you doing it?

[Lex P]

Don't.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm saying, why you. No, no, I ain't gonna do that. I'm like. They be like, why you doing that? And I'm right here. Then they get ready. Now you ready?

[Lex P]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Dre]

Ego thing.

[Lex P]

That is fair.

[Dre]

You are.

[Lex P]

But I don't feel like it's petty. Cause I feel like at the end of the day, if I tell you no, you still got needs that need to be met.

[YFN Lucci]

But I just do it on some fun shit. I don't jack off. I ain't trying to nap. I'm just doing it to fuck with her. Okay, so make her turn around and sit on it.

[Lex P]

Are you like, he's still trying to get your way?

[YFN Lucci]

Yes, yes.

[Dre]

You know he trying to get his way. So, like, she said, like, if you're not in the mood, what can she do to get you in the mood?

[YFN Lucci]

I don't know. Cause I be real, like, stiff sometime and nonchalant. So if I'm real mad, you can't do nothing.

[Dre]

Nothing?

[YFN Lucci]

Nothing. I'mma turn over and ball up so you can't even touch me. I might tuck that motherfucker.

[Lex P]

Tuck. It is crazy.

[YFN Lucci]

Leave me alone.

[Dre]

Don't rub me, Dre. What can a man do to get you in the mood if you're not in the mood? I don't know.

[Lex P]

I be always in the mood.

[YFN Lucci]

See? Ready.

[Lex P]

I feel like I'm rare that I'm not. The only time that I'm really not is when it's like that time of the month.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

Y' all don't have sex on the pit. Y' all don't like vampires.

[Lex P]

This is not Twilight.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm a vampire. I ain't gonna lie to you.

[Lex P]

Yeah, be funny. But you don't feel like it. Be smelling like pennies.

[YFN Lucci]

Not all the time.

[Dre]

It is vood a little.

[YFN Lucci]

It do smell like copper, though.

[Lex P]

It do.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

But if you. Hey, if you love them, this our copper. We done found some copper. We going sell that.

[Dre]

You know, that's voodoo, though. It is.

[Lex P]

That's what they say. Voodoo.

[YFN Lucci]

Yes, it is.

[Lex P]

Like, you can never leave a girl alone once you have period sex with Her. That's what they say.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't believe that.

[Lex P]

You don't?

[Dre]

Cause it's probably gonna.

[Lex P]

Cause he in his head. Like, I done left Smiles alone.

[YFN Lucci]

So y' all ain't never had period since I have.

[Lex P]

But that's why I know I don't like it. Like, it's not really my thing.

[YFN Lucci]

You don't like it either?

[Dre]

I don't. My stomach be hurting, especially them first few days.

[YFN Lucci]

But it's like, still like, okay. You know, your man, he wanna fuck. So it's like, nah, I'm just gonna do this one time for him.

[Dre]

Mm.

[YFN Lucci]

Mm. They might be real horny.

[Dre]

If you can't wait like, two, three days. How much do you really love me? Especially Cause, like, I can wait.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm just saying, what if you don't even want to wait? What if we like, damn, let's do it. We both like, Come on.

[Dre]

Would you accept some head, though? Like what?

[YFN Lucci]

She's like, I can't nut out here.

[Dre]

You can't? It's gonna be girls in the comments. Like, let me show you, Lucy. I tell you I can do it.

[YFN Lucci]

I did it like one time. Cause a girl was just like that.

[Dre]

I ain't proving shit. You tell me you can't nut off her head. I believe it.

[YFN Lucci]

That job's on me.

[Dre]

I'm done.

[YFN Lucci]

That shit on me broke.

[Dre]

Or.

[Lex P]

Some girls will say. Some girls will say that they will have butt sex on their period.

[Dre]

Some girls, they do what girl?

[Lex P]

Some of them.

[YFN Lucci]

Who is the song?

[Dre]

I don't know.

[YFN Lucci]

Duria.

[Lex P]

That's what I heard.

[Dre]

Okay, that's fair.

[YFN Lucci]

Who told you that?

[Lex P]

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[Lex P]

All?

[Big Loon]

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[YFN Lucci]

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[Ed Helms / Kal Penn]

Hey everyone, Ed Helms here and hi, I'm Kal Penn and we're the hosts of Earsay, the Audible and iHeart Audiobook Club. This week on the podcast, I am sitting down with Jenny Garth, host of the iHeart podcast. I choose me to discuss the new audible adaptation of the timeless Jane Austen classic Pride and Prejudice. This is not a trick question. There's no wrong answer. What role would I play?

[Ad Read Voice 1]

You know what?

[Lex P]

I can see you as Mr. Darcy.

[Ad Read Voice 1]

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[Ed Helms / Kal Penn]

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[Lex P]

I have. I have a few acquaintances that have told me that.

[Dre]

I must drop my.

[Lex P]

Drink, but that's what I've heard.

[YFN Lucci]

I ain't gonna lie. I'm about. I wanna. I'm finna. Yeah, regardless.

[Lex P]

You just gonna put the towel down?

[YFN Lucci]

Yep. How you know? She knows. See, she knows something.

[Dre]

She know.

[YFN Lucci]

Look, put that towel right there.

[Lex P]

Okay, so.

[YFN Lucci]

Or get in the shower.

[Dre]

Okay, okay. I'm not mad at that.

[Lex P]

I'm not mad at this.

[YFN Lucci]

See, there you go. There you go. Coming out. There you go.

[Dre]

I'm a lady.

[Lex P]

So how do y' all feel about scheduling sex? Do you feel like it's a turn off or do you feel like it's a solution to a problem? Like if we can't never figure out a time that's right for both of us, is it a good solution or is it like, okay, we doing too much?

[YFN Lucci]

If y' all stay in the same house. If y' all don't stay together.

[Lex P]

I guess either way, the same house, y'.

[YFN Lucci]

All, you gotta schedule it.

[Dre]

Schedule is crazy.

[Lex P]

But I feel like y' all still might both have busy schedules. Like, I'm sure you have a busy.

[YFN Lucci]

Like, okay, baby, we're gonna later on at 6 o'. Clock.

[Lex P]

Meet me at tonight at 7pm that.

[YFN Lucci]

Might be a little interesting.

[Lex P]

It was a might get your juicy. It might motivate you for the whole day because you like, you know, you gotta go home and get it popping.

[YFN Lucci]

It might be like real spirit. Spontaneous.

[Dre]

Spontaneous. When you don't know what's coming.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, but you don't do that often. So when you finna do it like, damn, we just scheduled the fuck at this time.

[Dre]

Well, I think.

[YFN Lucci]

And you know, you be late for everything else. Yeah, I'm finna try to be on time for this shit.

[Dre]

I guess I feel like to me scheduling sex is more of like date night. Like if we going on a date, we fucking. That's our schedule. Like we not going out and saying like a whole. You know, after we go eat, we're gonna have sex. Me and my. If we go out to eat, you know, you getting some pussy.

[YFN Lucci]

I ain't gonna lie though. I don't always have sex on date night.

[Dre]

I do.

[YFN Lucci]

Cause it be like date night. I'm finna take you out. But I be so big after date night now I gotta go do this. So I'm gonna. When we do this, I gotta leave, but I'm gonna come back.

[Dre]

You gotta leave and go where?

[YFN Lucci]

I be having a studio session. Get in with their person features. They might not over here. They want to pay me to pull up and do that 100k.

[Dre]

You gonna have that pussy waiting on you when you get home.

[YFN Lucci]

That's what I'm saying. I know that right.

[Dre]

I know that, right. I ain't mad. He got shit to do. I'm not mad at that. But I think a date night is uninterrupted too. Like if we going out to eat.

[YFN Lucci]

It supposed to be the whole day.

[Dre]

It's supposed to be the. Well, not the whole day, whole night. The whole night. Or even if it is a day date, like you need to dedicate this time to me and then you go off. Or if it's at nighttime, the whole night needs to be dedicated to me.

[YFN Lucci]

That makes sense.

[Dre]

You know what I'm saying? I think being a busy part. Cause I'm busy and you know, dating somebody who's busy. I think it's very important to take out time for your partner. Like you have to now.

[YFN Lucci]

You're right.

[Dre]

You know what I'm saying? So I don't necessarily say we don't schedule sex, but when you schedule time together, sex coming with it, you know, Schedule sex.

[Lex P]

No, I just like when it happens spontaneously. But I understood what you were saying. Cuz I was more so thinking like sometimes when you go on a date night, you be having an itis afterwards. Like y' all might have ate too much. Now I'm sleepy. Yeah, now I want to go to bed. You might have to do it tomorrow.

[YFN Lucci]

Just take a little nap and wake.

[Lex P]

Up in the morning.

[Dre]

Yeah, or sometimes you might get. Get it in before you go too. Yeah, that too.

[YFN Lucci]

But sometimes happen after you getting dressed and you looking like that. Fine. Come on. Been over.

[Dre]

You have a flashback. He was so. That is. Hey, you cutting up. Lucy been cutting off.

[Lex P]

She be like, why my makeup?

[YFN Lucci]

Yep. Look how she know all you got to tell them to bend over. You can't the makeup up when you bent over.

[Lex P]

That's the solution.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm already knowing.

[Dre]

You need to write a book.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm working on that.

[Dre]

You should.

[YFN Lucci]

What kind of book though? You want me to write the other book.

[Dre]

What kind of book?

[YFN Lucci]

What we talking about? Yeah, you want a sex book?

[Dre]

Yes, because they don't. I Think men need to talk about.

[YFN Lucci]

That because my sex book would be fine.

[Dre]

But that's what I'm saying. I think it would be interesting.

[Lex P]

He, like, you done gave me a new idea.

[Dre]

I think it would be interesting, though, because I think. I think, like. Cause you seem like a sexually in tune person. And I will honestly say a lot of men are just not good at sex. And they're also not in tune with their partner's body and things that they want. And the way you talking, it seems like you care about your partner and if she's satisfied, just from the conversation that we've had, that would actually be an interesting point of view.

[Lex P]

Cause I hate when people be like.

[Dre]

Oh, my God, it's so vulgar. We are all, everybody is having sex. It's normal. We're adults. Why does it have to be, like, so taboo to talk about it like it's normal? So I think that would be an interesting point of view to talk about it from a rapper's point of view.

[Lex P]

A little table book.

[Dre]

A little table book. And you want a front like this. I'mma read that, motherfucker. I'mma read it. All right, what's the item of the week? Draya.

[Lex P]

So our item of the week is muse beautycollection.com. make sure you get your lip glosses, lip liners, matte liquid lipsticks. I have all of the things on the website. And then of course, also Salt XO again, y' all know we love Salt xl. We use all of the washes. They also have a lot of other feminine wellness products that you can access on the website. Salxo.com code Poor mind, period.

[Dre]

And now it's time to get into the bop.

[Lex P]

Hey, bop bow. The bop.

[Dre]

Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow, bow. He's talking about the bop. It's the song. The bop of the week.

[YFN Lucci]

The bop of the week.

[Dre]

So whatever music, I mean, you could put your own as a bop of the week, but we just talk about the music that we been jamming this week. My bop of the Week is like an old school song today. Like, I was just telling Dre I was listening to this song this morning. I was like, wow, this song was amazing. You know, growing up in Orange, Texas, we either were listening to Louisiana music or we was, like, listening to Houston music. And I was listening to Power up this Morning by Wreck Shop Family. And I was like, that's a deep Houston cut. It was. You know what I'm saying? And it was such a good song. Honestly, when we do our Houston show, we need to get one of them to come out to perform it.

[Lex P]

We do.

[Dre]

We got to get them. That's a Houston classic, so. Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

What's the name of it again?

[Dre]

Rex Shot Family Power Up. Come on, baby, power up with me. I just popped me a ecstasy.

[YFN Lucci]

Okay.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

He said.

[Dre]

All right, now you ready.

[Lex P]

It's a good song. We're gonna have to send it to.

[Dre]

You soon, so you gotta listen to it. Cause you gonna like it. This is such a good. It's like a H town song. So shout out to Rakeshaw Family Power Up. That's my old school bop of the week, Dre, what you been listening to?

[Lex P]

Mine is actually a old school bop of the week too, cuz I feel like we've been talking about this song all day. Bedroom Boom by the Yang SW Let.

[Dre]

Me get on bottom while you ride.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, y know them song.

[Lex P]

You don't With a bedroom twins in a.

[YFN Lucci]

Don't know it.

[Dre]

My bed will be booming.

[Lex P]

You never heard less crazy.

[Dre]

Yes.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, I had.

[Lex P]

Was a hit back in the day. Used to be on all the little mixtapes. Like, I wanted it. Atlanta did y' all have like a little mixtape era where it would be like all the freaky songs on like mixtapes and it would be like a series.

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, you know, we had keep. No, no, I'm tripping. Damn. What my name is. I'm gonna come back to it. I don't want to say the wrong name.

[Dre]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

What my boy name, man? Little freaking ill man. Kilo. Kilo.

[Lex P]

Kilo. He was like. He used to make mixtape.

[YFN Lucci]

No, he used to rap, but he had a freaking song.

[Dre]

Oh, okay.

[YFN Lucci]

But they did have the mixtape. I know what you're saying. But yeah, his songs was on there.

[Lex P]

For sure. Was on there.

[Dre]

That's like how Pretty Willie was. You remember Pretty Willy?

[YFN Lucci]

I met this girl from Atlanta. Let me play it in a mizzo. She sucked. That did so good. She double go sizzle.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah. Okay.

[Dre]

Kilo.

[Lex P]

It's the way everybody chimed in that.

[YFN Lucci]

My old school.

[Dre]

I like that. Let me write. I need to listen to that.

[Lex P]

In Houston, he had this mixtape series. It was called Action. And then on Sundays on The radio on 979, the box, they would have like chopped and screws. What was it called? Chopped up. Never slopped up.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

And they would play all of the mixtape freaky ass songs from like 10pm to like 2 in the morning.

[Dre]

It was a time.

[Lex P]

It was. It was a time.

[Dre]

What you been jamming? What you been jamming?

[YFN Lucci]

Say it again.

[Lex P]

What you been what you been listening to my bop.

[Dre]

Yeah. What's your bop of the week?

[YFN Lucci]

I just gave y mine. I ain't been listening Kilo, but I'mma go that way.

[Dre]

Okay, okay. I'mma listen to Kilo, shout out to.

[YFN Lucci]

Kilo and one off my album.

[Dre]

What?

[YFN Lucci]

Pieces on my neck and Savage.

[Dre]

Okay, I'mma listen to it now, but.

[YFN Lucci]

You got to go listen to that one.

[Dre]

Okay.

[YFN Lucci]

Pieces on my neck and love in your mouth.

[Lex P]

Love in your mouth. We about to go listen to love in your mouth.

[YFN Lucci]

Y' all might want to go home with your nigga and play that. He gonna be like, damn, baby, you feeling like this?

[Dre]

Mm, I don't know. He done unlocked the key to the street.

[YFN Lucci]

Love in your mouth. The one for sure.

[Dre]

Oh, my goodness. Okay, okay, okay. What we got next, Draya? Oh, our favorite segment, the pour your heart out segment. Do you give good advice?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Dre]

Okay. So the pour your heart out segment is when we give advice to our listeners. If you want your question answered on the show, make sure you email us at askpoorminds gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member, make sure you just put that in the headline. You get to skip the line, period. Dre, you want to go ahead? Sure. Okay.

[Lex P]

Hey, ladies. Me and my girl been together almost four years, but it's been bad for the last six months. No sex at all. She says she's not there mentally, but every time I bring it up, I'm the problem. Part of me thinks she's lying. Part of me feels like she's really struggling. But six months with no sex is wild. I'm loyal.

[YFN Lucci]

That's somebody.

[Dre]

Somebody. Somebody wrote us these, and I want.

[YFN Lucci]

Me to get advice. Yeah, all right.

[Lex P]

I'm loyal. Women throw themselves at me, but I don't cheat. Am I wrong for thinking something's up, or should I just let her work through whatever this is?

[YFN Lucci]

What her name?

[Dre]

Hustle.

[YFN Lucci]

Say your name.

[Lex P]

No, he didn't say his name.

[YFN Lucci]

Hey, my man, she getting that smack. I'm just putting you down. She ain't with you like that no more. You ain't hitting it right or something. Sit much, and she don't want to. You might well let that go. Come on. You might well go cheat. Che. Che. He said he feel like cheating in the. Is he wrong for feeling like that?

[Dre]

So I'm like, he ain't wrong for feeling like that.

[YFN Lucci]

I'm saying you might as well, because your partner is cheating. Ain't no girl stand with no man with good dick and not fucking for six months.

[Dre]

That's true. Right now that. Stop talking about that's true. You not wrong. But I think instead of cheating, he just needs to leave and it's okay.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, you right. My bad. Don't cheat. Just get up out of there. The situation over with. My bad. I'm tripping. It's over with. Leave the house. Well, put her out the house. Hopefully it's yours.

[Lex P]

No, six months is a long time. Like, I absolutely don't believe that. She just don't want no dick. Like, this is not in a situation where you're actively dating somebody. It's different. If you and a person are not in a relationship and you just single, then, yeah, I could believe a woman isn't having sex for six months. But, like, if you in a relationship and you laying up with this for six months, I think you. You doing something. I'm not saying you even another, but you might be getting some coochie or some head from somebody else.

[YFN Lucci]

For real, though, six months? Come on.

[Dre]

That's a long time.

[Lex P]

That's a long time. Whatever it is, she ain't feeling you.

[YFN Lucci]

That what I said.

[Dre]

Damn. I'm sorry, man.

[Lex P]

Yeah, me too.

[Dre]

All right. Good morning, Dre and Lex P. Well, it's night time over here. I love y' all in the show so much. I'm 33, no kids. Not because I don't want them, but because I can't have them. Lately, that's been really hard to accept. The past few years have felt like everything I planned for my life just really fell apart or changed. At this age. I thought I'd have it all figured out, but I don't. I feel stuck questioning everything about my purpose and what's next. How did y' all figure out what you wanted and stayed motivated when life wasn't going as planned? Love y' all and wish you nothing but continued success.

[YFN Lucci]

I don't know. It's sad.

[Dre]

What are you sad? But you know what? It's really not sad.

[YFN Lucci]

It is. Cause people be wanting kids.

[Lex P]

It's sad. If you want to do something that you can't do it. That is sad.

[Dre]

It is. But the reason I say, because I hate the way, like, it's different for men, right? All I had a conversation with my friend. Like, I hate when women hit their 30s and they feel like I've not reached my goals. It's almost over for me. Do y' all know, like, we supposed to live till we're, like, 80 and we're 90. Like life ain't really even started yet. You have not even lived half of your life yet. So I think there's. But I hear what you're saying, but obviously God didn't put that in the cards for her. So there's something else bigger that's going to bring her more satisfaction than being a mother. Now it is unfortunate. I'm not saying that it doesn't suck, but there's something that you haven't tapped into yet. Like God not done with you yet. That's all I'm saying.

[YFN Lucci]

Right.

[Dre]

Because sometimes you be thinking like oh my gosh, this didn't happen for me because I can think about so many things that I didn't get or I didn't achieve or I didn't. And then I look at my life now, I'm like oh my gosh, what if that would have happened?

[YFN Lucci]

How? Well, when I went to jail I'm like damn, why the fuck I gotta.

[Dre]

Go through this shit? Yeah. And I come home and look, you lit like you having a ball. Like you are blessed, you are loved in a beautiful relationship, your kids are healthy. Like sometimes you just gotta keep going and see what's on the other side. Like God trying to show you something. You're right, you know what I'm saying? So I think it's like yes, I. It's unfortunate but what you think you want for yourself. My mom used to always tell me that you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans. Cuz he like this is not what your purpose is and what you're supposed to be doing. You know what I'm saying?

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Dre]

So you just got to have your faith. Has to be stronger than your doubt, you know?

[Lex P]

I agree. I really think that's good advice. Cuz I just feel like a lot of people, we get wrapped up in what we want and then we are not really thinking about what the bigger goal is, is or what the bigger plan is. And like we all want that instant gratification. Like we want things when we want it, but that might not be when it's supposed to happen. And then even with her, that's a very unfortunate thing. I'm sorry that that happened to her. But like maybe that's just not the route that you're supposed to have kids. It's not to say that you can't still have them, you know what I mean? Maybe you might be able to go to surrogate route, maybe you may be able to adopt, maybe you may be able to do something else. Be a foster Parent. It's still options available for you. It's just not going to look the way that you wanted it to look. And then it might be a bigger calling. Is the reason why God had it happen that way because he might want you to be a vessel to show other people or teach other people something like. I don't know. You got to look at stuff that way sometimes, too.

[Dre]

I know that's right. Did you have fun today with us?

[YFN Lucci]

Yeah, I did.

[Lex P]

You had a good song?

[YFN Lucci]

Yep.

[Dre]

We be cutting up.

[YFN Lucci]

Y' all have fun with me?

[Dre]

We did. Like, honestly, next time we have a show, you gotta pull up on us, all right? Because, you know, we gonna go on tour soon and stuff, so you gotta, you know, come turn up with us.

[YFN Lucci]

Why y' all gonna go?

[Dre]

You know, we're gonna be everywhere.

[Lex P]

A lot of places. Yeah, we're gonna go to Detroit, Detroit, Atlanta, Chicago.

[YFN Lucci]

So look, what? Y' all want me to pull up in another city in my.

[Dre]

Where? Wherever. You want to pull up wherever. And then anytime you want to pull. And then when you out of show, if I be like, hey, bro, I'm outside. Come get me.

[YFN Lucci]

Oh, yeah, we coming to get you.

[Dre]

You better come get me. You better come get me now. I'm telling you. Well, thank you so much for coming.

[Lex P]

I can't wait to be like, we with Luchi.

[Dre]

Yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

Cause then I'm. I'm asking you too.

[Dre]

Cause the kid gonna be like, oh, we don't know you. They know me. Big mama and a half. But honestly, all jokes aside, thank you so much for joining us. We are so proud of you, happy for you, excited to see this next chapter of your life. And we're so glad that everybody is giving your flowers. And I hope you had a good time today.

[YFN Lucci]

I did.

[Dre]

Y' all make sure y' all go. Follow my boy on all platforms. Go listen to that new album. Dre, you got anything to add?

[Lex P]

No. Just follow YFN Luchi on all platforms. Follow Lex P. Dre and Nicole. Poor minds. Muse, Beauty. See y' all next week.

[Dre]

Bye, y'. All. Bye, y'. All. Period. Luci and the Blue Cheese and the hoochie. Yeah, girl, if I told you I love you that doesn't mean that I don't care Come on. And when I tell you I need you you don't you think that I never be there oh, baby, I'm so tired of the way you turn my words into deceptions and lies say that don't misunderstand me when I try to speak my mind I'M only saying what's in my heart. Doesn't lie but you won't know unless.

[YFN Lucci]

You give it a true love won't.

[Dre]

Lie, won't know what Unless you give it a try Give it a try.

[YFN Lucci]

Try girl when I ask you to trust me that doesn't mean that I.

[Dre]

Cheat on you okay, what else?

[Lex P]

Cuz I'm going to never do anything.

[Dre]

To hurt you or mistle I love you baby I'm so tired of the way you search Turn my words into discussions and lies don't misunderstand me when I try to speak my mind.

[YFN Lucci]

But you won't know it if you don't give it a try True love.

[Dre]

True love won't lie but you won't know if you can give it a try no doubt about it oh no I really mean it yeah Never die before I before I lie to you Never wanna live no life without you Never wanna go, never wanna go see no. No, no no no yeah.

[YFN Lucci]

Shout out.

[Dre]

To Luchi and the Hoochies. Oh. Oh, that's my hey.

[YFN Lucci]

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[YFN Lucci]

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[Dre]

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[YFN Lucci]

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[Lex P]

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[Lex P]

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[Lex P]

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